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Why We Should Stop Believing What Other People Tell us About Ourselves | Noor Hibbert | TEDxUWE


I’m gonna start by saying that I only

I’m gonna start by saying that I only found out I was doing this talk a few

found out I was doing this talk a few

found out I was doing this talk a few days ago so I started to think about

days ago so I started to think about

days ago so I started to think about what I was going to talk about so I

what I was going to talk about so I

what I was going to talk about so I started to make notes and then I tear it

started to make notes and then I tear it

started to make notes and then I tear it off and throw it away then I make some

off and throw it away then I make some

off and throw it away then I make some more no then I turn up and I throw it

more no then I turn up and I throw it

more no then I turn up and I throw it away then I type and press Delete and I

away then I type and press Delete and I

away then I type and press Delete and I was like I just wanted to give up and I

was like I just wanted to give up and I

was like I just wanted to give up and I was thinking oh my god I’m meant to be

was thinking oh my god I’m meant to be

was thinking oh my god I’m meant to be doing a talk on perseverance and Here I

doing a talk on perseverance and Here I

doing a talk on perseverance and Here I am wanting to give up and it got me to

am wanting to give up and it got me to

am wanting to give up and it got me to thinking what was going on I need to

thinking what was going on I need to

thinking what was going on I need to check in with myself what was making me

check in with myself what was making me

check in with myself what was making me feel like I wanted to give up and of

feel like I wanted to give up and of

feel like I wanted to give up and of course it’s our good friend fear fear of

course it’s our good friend fear fear of

course it’s our good friend fear fear of failure fear of standing up here and

failure fear of standing up here and

failure fear of standing up here and making idiot myself through I might

making idiot myself through I might

making idiot myself through I might blank fear I might swear and I got to

blank fear I might swear and I got to

blank fear I might swear and I got to thinking how many times in my life I let

thinking how many times in my life I let

thinking how many times in my life I let that fear stop me for going from my

that fear stop me for going from my

that fear stop me for going from my dreams stop me from showing up in the

dreams stop me from showing up in the

dreams stop me from showing up in the world like I really wanted to show up

world like I really wanted to show up

world like I really wanted to show up and I was meant to show up and probably

and I was meant to show up and probably

and I was meant to show up and probably stopped you guys from showing up in the

stopped you guys from showing up in the

stopped you guys from showing up in the world and I thought to think about when

world and I thought to think about when

world and I thought to think about when did this fear stop and I took myself

did this fear stop and I took myself

did this fear stop and I took myself back to when I was about 10 years old

back to when I was about 10 years old

back to when I was about 10 years old and I had moved from a state school to a

and I had moved from a state school to a

and I had moved from a state school to a private girls school which was very very

private girls school which was very very

private girls school which was very very different and I was that in this class

different and I was that in this class

different and I was that in this class and my teacher mrs. Drake furred she

and my teacher mrs. Drake furred she

and my teacher mrs. Drake furred she asked a question and I put my hand up

asked a question and I put my hand up

asked a question and I put my hand up and I current member exactly what

and I current member exactly what

and I current member exactly what happened

happened

happened but she made a comment around the fact

but she made a comment around the fact

but she made a comment around the fact that I wonder what kind of school you’ve

that I wonder what kind of school you’ve

that I wonder what kind of school you’ve come from the things are different here

come from the things are different here

come from the things are different here and then proceeded to call me a twit

and then proceeded to call me a twit

and then proceeded to call me a twit which is a pretty of begins thought for

which is a pretty of begins thought for

which is a pretty of begins thought for a ten-year-old and I remember at that

a ten-year-old and I remember at that

a ten-year-old and I remember at that point I just wanted the world to open

point I just wanted the world to open

point I just wanted the world to open and take me away and I felt shame and

and take me away and I felt shame and

and take me away and I felt shame and embarrassment and in that moment I felt

embarrassment and in that moment I felt

embarrassment and in that moment I felt like a failure and in that moment I

like a failure and in that moment I

like a failure and in that moment I created a belief system that I was never

created a belief system that I was never

created a belief system that I was never going to be good enough that I wasn’t

going to be good enough that I wasn’t

going to be good enough that I wasn’t good enough than all the girls in my

good enough than all the girls in my

good enough than all the girls in my class I never be clever enough

class I never be clever enough

class I never be clever enough I was different and that belief system

I was different and that belief system

I was different and that belief system made me really scared and set the tone

made me really scared and set the tone

made me really scared and set the tone for most of my teenage years and most of

for most of my teenage years and most of

for most of my teenage years and most of my 20s I would try to get on the sports

my 20s I would try to get on the sports

my 20s I would try to get on the sports teams and never got on and I would try

teams and never got on and I would try

teams and never got on and I would try to get the main part in the play and

to get the main part in the play and

to get the main part in the play and never get the part I would try to be

never get the part I would try to be

never get the part I would try to be part of the cool girls did it make that

part of the cool girls did it make that

part of the cool girls did it make that one either I tried to get the best

one either I tried to get the best

one either I tried to get the best grades in the class or get some sort of

grades in the class or get some sort of

grades in the class or get some sort of approval I mean I had to be good at

approval I mean I had to be good at

approval I mean I had to be good at something that will see something that I

something that will see something that I

something that will see something that I was really good at and I wasn’t so I

was really good at and I wasn’t so I

was really good at and I wasn’t so I became a chronic giver-upper I mean I

became a chronic giver-upper I mean I

became a chronic giver-upper I mean I didn’t want to feel that feeling of I

didn’t want to feel that feeling of I

didn’t want to feel that feeling of I failed again so why bother why try why

failed again so why bother why try why

failed again so why bother why try why bother

bother

bother it was better just to accept that I was

it was better just to accept that I was

it was better just to accept that I was going to have a mediocre life that was

going to have a mediocre life that was

going to have a mediocre life that was so much easier than keep on trying and

so much easier than keep on trying and

so much easier than keep on trying and just keep on failing and I used to think

just keep on failing and I used to think

just keep on failing and I used to think oh my god what am I going to do with my

oh my god what am I going to do with my

oh my god what am I going to do with my life like I’m not very good at anything

life like I’m not very good at anything

life like I’m not very good at anything and yet I’ve been told that to be a

and yet I’ve been told that to be a

and yet I’ve been told that to be a success I need to be something I need to

success I need to be something I need to

success I need to be something I need to be a doctor or a lawyer or dentists I

be a doctor or a lawyer or dentists I

be a doctor or a lawyer or dentists I mean every one of my classes going to

mean every one of my classes going to

mean every one of my classes going to Oxford and Cambridge and bloody hell

Oxford and Cambridge and bloody hell

Oxford and Cambridge and bloody hell like I wouldn’t get into any of those so

like I wouldn’t get into any of those so

like I wouldn’t get into any of those so what was I gonna do because I mean you

what was I gonna do because I mean you

what was I gonna do because I mean you know success is having a title it’s

know success is having a title it’s

know success is having a title it’s earning fifty thousand pounds a year and

earning fifty thousand pounds a year and

earning fifty thousand pounds a year and having a car and a house and probably

having a car and a house and probably

having a car and a house and probably all 40 anything else but as long as you

all 40 anything else but as long as you

all 40 anything else but as long as you look good that’s okay right and I still

look good that’s okay right and I still

look good that’s okay right and I still don’t know how I was gonna even make

don’t know how I was gonna even make

don’t know how I was gonna even make does that happen and that didn’t set a

does that happen and that didn’t set a

does that happen and that didn’t set a good tone for a girl going into her you

good tone for a girl going into her you

good tone for a girl going into her you know early 20s thinking I don’t know

know early 20s thinking I don’t know

know early 20s thinking I don’t know what I meant to do I don’t know what I’m

what I meant to do I don’t know what I’m

what I meant to do I don’t know what I’m really really good at I wasn’t born with

really really good at I wasn’t born with

really really good at I wasn’t born with any particular amazing talent or ability

any particular amazing talent or ability

any particular amazing talent or ability or skill so I carried on with life and

or skill so I carried on with life and

or skill so I carried on with life and then something changed on September the

then something changed on September the

then something changed on September the 8th 2012 I became a mother and I gave

8th 2012 I became a mother and I gave

8th 2012 I became a mother and I gave birth to my eldest daughter who

birth to my eldest daughter who

birth to my eldest daughter who absolutely changed my life because when

absolutely changed my life because when

absolutely changed my life because when I gave birth that day I gave birth to

I gave birth that day I gave birth to

I gave birth that day I gave birth to something that Angela Duckworth the

something that Angela Duckworth the

something that Angela Duckworth the pioneering psychologist called great

pioneering psychologist called great

pioneering psychologist called great passion + perseverance for long-term

passion + perseverance for long-term

passion + perseverance for long-term goals I didn’t have that before that day

goals I didn’t have that before that day

goals I didn’t have that before that day and and that day something in me changed

and and that day something in me changed

and and that day something in me changed and I decided I wanted something big for

and I decided I wanted something big for

and I decided I wanted something big for my daughter I wanted to be something

my daughter I wanted to be something

my daughter I wanted to be something bigger for my daughter so when I was

bigger for my daughter so when I was

bigger for my daughter so when I was almost my maternity leave I was like I

almost my maternity leave I was like I

almost my maternity leave I was like I don’t want to go back to my job like I

don’t want to go back to my job like I

don’t want to go back to my job like I didn’t like it my manager was horrible

didn’t like it my manager was horrible

didn’t like it my manager was horrible so I was like okay I need to figure out

so I was like okay I need to figure out

so I was like okay I need to figure out a way to make some money so I’m googled

a way to make some money so I’m googled

a way to make some money so I’m googled like try and find jobs like make money

like try and find jobs like make money

like try and find jobs like make money online or you know work from home jobs

online or you know work from home jobs

online or you know work from home jobs and I plans a bit of Dell Boyles I tried

and I plans a bit of Dell Boyles I tried

and I plans a bit of Dell Boyles I tried this tried that tried this tried that

this tried that tried this tried that

this tried that tried this tried that didn’t quite did make anything happen

didn’t quite did make anything happen

didn’t quite did make anything happen because I still had that old belief

because I still had that old belief

because I still had that old belief system lurking underneath me that I’m a

system lurking underneath me that I’m a

system lurking underneath me that I’m a chronic giver-upper like why bother I’m

chronic giver-upper like why bother I’m

chronic giver-upper like why bother I’m not going to make it so why bother so

not going to make it so why bother so

not going to make it so why bother so when my dog was 14 months pregnant no

when my dog was 14 months pregnant no

when my dog was 14 months pregnant no she wasn’t pregnant that would be

she wasn’t pregnant that would be

she wasn’t pregnant that would be awkward she was 14 months old I had to

awkward she was 14 months old I had to

awkward she was 14 months old I had to take my sorry booty back to my job that

take my sorry booty back to my job that

take my sorry booty back to my job that I hated and I dropped her off at nursery

I hated and I dropped her off at nursery

I hated and I dropped her off at nursery she cried and I got in my car and I

she cried and I got in my car and I

she cried and I got in my car and I cried my eyes out and I remember sat

cried my eyes out and I remember sat

cried my eyes out and I remember sat there thinking there’s anybody out there

there thinking there’s anybody out there

there thinking there’s anybody out there please this isn’t what I wanted to do

please this isn’t what I wanted to do

please this isn’t what I wanted to do please give me something so I can be a

please give me something so I can be a

please give me something so I can be a mother so I can be with my daughter I

mother so I can be with my daughter I

mother so I can be with my daughter I wanted to be successful I just didn’t

wanted to be successful I just didn’t

wanted to be successful I just didn’t know how something happened that day the

know how something happened that day the

know how something happened that day the universe is aligned something happened

universe is aligned something happened

universe is aligned something happened two weeks later a book fell in my hands

two weeks later a book fell in my hands

two weeks later a book fell in my hands Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill and

Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill and

Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill and oh my god I was sat in cost of coffee

oh my god I was sat in cost of coffee

oh my god I was sat in cost of coffee like what my thoughts can make me rich

like what my thoughts can make me rich

like what my thoughts can make me rich like they didn’t teach me this in school

like they didn’t teach me this in school

like they didn’t teach me this in school so it’s like page to page like what my

so it’s like page to page like what my

so it’s like page to page like what my thoughts become things I can become

thoughts become things I can become

thoughts become things I can become wealthy if I’m happy and oh my god and

wealthy if I’m happy and oh my god and

wealthy if I’m happy and oh my god and anyway so this became like my obsession

anyway so this became like my obsession

anyway so this became like my obsession understanding the law of attraction and

understanding the law of attraction and

understanding the law of attraction and I thought I could manifest 100,000

I thought I could manifest 100,000

I thought I could manifest 100,000 pounds and a couple weeks didn’t happen

pounds and a couple weeks didn’t happen

pounds and a couple weeks didn’t happen by the way it just doesn’t what does not

by the way it just doesn’t what does not

by the way it just doesn’t what does not work like that anyway something was

work like that anyway something was

work like that anyway something was happening something was changing and a

happening something was changing and a

happening something was changing and a couple months later another book lands

couple months later another book lands

couple months later another book lands in my hands books are really good by the

in my hands books are really good by the

in my hands books are really good by the way people um and this book in it talked

way people um and this book in it talked

way people um and this book in it talked about coaching and I remember is sat by

about coaching and I remember is sat by

about coaching and I remember is sat by the pool in Bali at my honeymoon and I

the pool in Bali at my honeymoon and I

the pool in Bali at my honeymoon and I was reading this book about a coach and

was reading this book about a coach and

was reading this book about a coach and I was like my purse on my bone set on

I was like my purse on my bone set on

I was like my purse on my bone set on fire something in me my in as Gabby

fire something in me my in as Gabby

fire something in me my in as Gabby Bernstein likes to call it was shouting

Bernstein likes to call it was shouting

Bernstein likes to call it was shouting at me this is it this is the thing

at me this is it this is the thing

at me this is it this is the thing you’ve got to do nobody in England knew

you’ve got to do nobody in England knew

you’ve got to do nobody in England knew what coach was by the way at this point

what coach was by the way at this point

what coach was by the way at this point so I was wanting to just like I didn’t

so I was wanting to just like I didn’t

so I was wanting to just like I didn’t even know really existed or how to make

even know really existed or how to make

even know really existed or how to make a living out of but I had to follow this

a living out of but I had to follow this

a living out of but I had to follow this inner feeling so off I went to

inner feeling so off I went to

inner feeling so off I went to university to study to become a coach

university to study to become a coach

university to study to become a coach and the tutor said I wasn’t going to be

and the tutor said I wasn’t going to be

and the tutor said I wasn’t going to be very good at it because I couldn’t be me

very good at it because I couldn’t be me

very good at it because I couldn’t be me I wanted to be a big good coach and all

I wanted to be a big good coach and all

I wanted to be a big good coach and all these fears back from school where I

these fears back from school where I

these fears back from school where I wasn’t good enough was coming up again

wasn’t good enough was coming up again

wasn’t good enough was coming up again and I remember I got the worst on my

and I remember I got the worst on my

and I remember I got the worst on my dissertation I’m thinking oh my god nor

dissertation I’m thinking oh my god nor

dissertation I’m thinking oh my god nor come on like you were late here and

come on like you were late here and

come on like you were late here and they’re telling you that in order to be

they’re telling you that in order to be

they’re telling you that in order to be a good coach you can’t really be you I

a good coach you can’t really be you I

a good coach you can’t really be you I was like this is so frustrating I tried

was like this is so frustrating I tried

was like this is so frustrating I tried to be so many different people my whole

to be so many different people my whole

to be so many different people my whole life to fit in and what I wanted to be

life to fit in and what I wanted to be

life to fit in and what I wanted to be with me and I wanted to be this coach

with me and I wanted to be this coach

with me and I wanted to be this coach it’s obviously chronic give her off the

it’s obviously chronic give her off the

it’s obviously chronic give her off the started to kicking in and I thought oh

started to kicking in and I thought oh

started to kicking in and I thought oh I’m not going to qualify anyway for

I’m not going to qualify anyway for

I’m not going to qualify anyway for another year and I might as well do

another year and I might as well do

another year and I might as well do something else and by this point I was

something else and by this point I was

something else and by this point I was pregnant with my second daughter so I

pregnant with my second daughter so I

pregnant with my second daughter so I had maternity leave looming over me

had maternity leave looming over me

had maternity leave looming over me again I’m thinking oh my god I don’t we

again I’m thinking oh my god I don’t we

again I’m thinking oh my god I don’t we broke through another maternity leave so

broke through another maternity leave so

broke through another maternity leave so anyway this time the universe had my

anyway this time the universe had my

anyway this time the universe had my back and an opportunity came to me to

back and an opportunity came to me to

back and an opportunity came to me to start an online business so I decided to

start an online business so I decided to

start an online business so I decided to do this I start my PJs at home in my

do this I start my PJs at home in my

do this I start my PJs at home in my laptop pregnant like did littler

laptop pregnant like did littler

laptop pregnant like did littler I was working 40 hours a week and at 31

I was working 40 hours a week and at 31

I was working 40 hours a week and at 31 weeks pregnant ended up in hospital

weeks pregnant ended up in hospital

weeks pregnant ended up in hospital being told I was going into early labor

being told I was going into early labor

being told I was going into early labor there’s nothing scarier in the world

there’s nothing scarier in the world

there’s nothing scarier in the world than hearing baby an intensive care unit

than hearing baby an intensive care unit

than hearing baby an intensive care unit in one sentence okay and I lay in bed on

in one sentence okay and I lay in bed on

in one sentence okay and I lay in bed on that night in hospital and I just pray

that night in hospital and I just pray

that night in hospital and I just pray please if you keep this baby in me I

please if you keep this baby in me I

please if you keep this baby in me I will slow down I will I will do what it

will slow down I will I will do what it

will slow down I will I will do what it takes but I will slow down I’ll give up

takes but I will slow down I’ll give up

takes but I will slow down I’ll give up the job baby stayed in and I quit my job

the job baby stayed in and I quit my job

the job baby stayed in and I quit my job no plan B no maternity leave just a

no plan B no maternity leave just a

no plan B no maternity leave just a business model that I had to make work I

business model that I had to make work I

business model that I had to make work I mean so I worked my booty off and I

mean so I worked my booty off and I

mean so I worked my booty off and I created a six-figure business on my

created a six-figure business on my

created a six-figure business on my maternity leave Wow finally I created

maternity leave Wow finally I created

maternity leave Wow finally I created success and everything was amazing I was

success and everything was amazing I was

success and everything was amazing I was going to holiday and I’d a new car and

going to holiday and I’d a new car and

going to holiday and I’d a new car and yet there was a nickel in my head I had

yet there was a nickel in my head I had

yet there was a nickel in my head I had all the trappings but something in me my

all the trappings but something in me my

all the trappings but something in me my heart was saying no you’re meant for

heart was saying no you’re meant for

heart was saying no you’re meant for something bigger and at that point the

something bigger and at that point the

something bigger and at that point the universe gave me gifted me a spiritual

universe gave me gifted me a spiritual

universe gave me gifted me a spiritual mentor and by the way let clear two

mentor and by the way let clear two

mentor and by the way let clear two years ago if you said to me nor would

years ago if you said to me nor would

years ago if you said to me nor would you meditate I would have gone cringe

you meditate I would have gone cringe

you meditate I would have gone cringe thank you I was trying to be normal

thank you I was trying to be normal

thank you I was trying to be normal people you know I mean I couldn’t want

people you know I mean I couldn’t want

people you know I mean I couldn’t want to be like her so um anyway the

to be like her so um anyway the

to be like her so um anyway the spiritual mentor came in my life and

spiritual mentor came in my life and

spiritual mentor came in my life and absolutely rocked my world he started to

absolutely rocked my world he started to

absolutely rocked my world he started to tell me things I had never heard of that

tell me things I had never heard of that

tell me things I had never heard of that I could manifest my dreams that I was

I could manifest my dreams that I was

I could manifest my dreams that I was extraordinary that I was born in this

extraordinary that I was born in this

extraordinary that I was born in this world with unique talents and gifts that

world with unique talents and gifts that

world with unique talents and gifts that the world needed me to deliver that in

the world needed me to deliver that in

the world needed me to deliver that in fact you know that feeling of failures I

fact you know that feeling of failures I

fact you know that feeling of failures I was so scared of my whole life

was so scared of my whole life

was so scared of my whole life I needed to get really good at feeling

I needed to get really good at feeling

I needed to get really good at feeling that because he told me I’m immensely

that because he told me I’m immensely

that because he told me I’m immensely effort every single day and get used to

effort every single day and get used to

effort every single day and get used to feeling that feeling that we all try to

feeling that feeling that we all try to

feeling that feeling that we all try to avoid we become bigger better stronger

avoid we become bigger better stronger

avoid we become bigger better stronger versions of ourselves and we could go

versions of ourselves and we could go

versions of ourselves and we could go for our dreams even bigger dreams better

for our dreams even bigger dreams better

for our dreams even bigger dreams better dreams because you won’t be so scared of

dreams because you won’t be so scared of

dreams because you won’t be so scared of falling on your face so I truly decided

falling on your face so I truly decided

falling on your face so I truly decided to make this my mission to focus on

to make this my mission to focus on

to make this my mission to focus on myself he taught me that success was

myself he taught me that success was

myself he taught me that success was inside me

inside me

inside me and if I wanted to be really successful

and if I wanted to be really successful

and if I wanted to be really successful in my life and wanted to manifest the

in my life and wanted to manifest the

in my life and wanted to manifest the money that I wanted and the business

money that I wanted and the business

money that I wanted and the business that I wanted and the health that I

that I wanted and the health that I

that I wanted and the health that I wanted I would need to go inward I would

wanted I would need to go inward I would

wanted I would need to go inward I would need to focus and make a commitment to

need to focus and make a commitment to

need to focus and make a commitment to my happiness because when I make a

my happiness because when I make a

my happiness because when I make a commitment to my happiness I will get

commitment to my happiness I will get

commitment to my happiness I will get everything I’ve ever dreamed of so I

everything I’ve ever dreamed of so I

everything I’ve ever dreamed of so I listened to that nickel I ignored all my

listened to that nickel I ignored all my

listened to that nickel I ignored all my fears I ignored the people telling me

fears I ignored the people telling me

fears I ignored the people telling me that you know just because I didn’t get

that you know just because I didn’t get

that you know just because I didn’t get a first or even a – one not two to

a first or even a – one not two to

a first or even a – one not two to remember my face right don’t think it

remember my face right don’t think it

remember my face right don’t think it was a two – it was like a mirror or

was a two – it was like a mirror or

was a two – it was like a mirror or whatever I was like I was like I know I

whatever I was like I was like I know I

whatever I was like I was like I know I can help people I know that this is what

can help people I know that this is what

can help people I know that this is what I was put on the planet to do so off I

I was put on the planet to do so off I

I was put on the planet to do so off I went I went to start my coaching

went I went to start my coaching

went I went to start my coaching business on a wing and a prayer and I

business on a wing and a prayer and I

business on a wing and a prayer and I put it out there and now I work with the

put it out there and now I work with the

put it out there and now I work with the most incredible women across the world

most incredible women across the world

most incredible women across the world mothers that have a dream of creating a

mothers that have a dream of creating a

mothers that have a dream of creating a business and being a mother who want

business and being a mother who want

business and being a mother who want their cake that want to eat it want to

their cake that want to eat it want to

their cake that want to eat it want to be successful and be your mother and won

be successful and be your mother and won

be successful and be your mother and won it all and for the first time I am

it all and for the first time I am

it all and for the first time I am living my dream and I feel successful

living my dream and I feel successful

living my dream and I feel successful without all the traffic because I’m

without all the traffic because I’m

without all the traffic because I’m growing as a person I’m leading with

growing as a person I’m leading with

growing as a person I’m leading with love I’ve learnt not let my ego convince

love I’ve learnt not let my ego convince

love I’ve learnt not let my ego convince me that I can’t do things anymore

me that I can’t do things anymore

me that I can’t do things anymore because it is just ego so perseverance

because it is just ego so perseverance

because it is just ego so perseverance it’s not giving up when other people

it’s not giving up when other people

it’s not giving up when other people tell you that you can’t do things when

tell you that you can’t do things when

tell you that you can’t do things when people tell you that your dreams aren’t

people tell you that your dreams aren’t

people tell you that your dreams aren’t realistic which I’ve got told so many

realistic which I’ve got told so many

realistic which I’ve got told so many times by the way when people tell you

times by the way when people tell you

times by the way when people tell you that your dreams are too big and people

that your dreams are too big and people

that your dreams are too big and people tell you it’s not very stable or secure

tell you it’s not very stable or secure

tell you it’s not very stable or secure you know doing something no one knows

you know doing something no one knows

you know doing something no one knows what it is you know we were so behind in

what it is you know we were so behind in

what it is you know we were so behind in coaching in the UK I had no idea how I

coaching in the UK I had no idea how I

coaching in the UK I had no idea how I was going to make money from it like

was going to make money from it like

was going to make money from it like literally and in seven months I’ve

literally and in seven months I’ve

literally and in seven months I’ve almost created a second six-figure

almost created a second six-figure

almost created a second six-figure business with two little girls being

business with two little girls being

business with two little girls being able to be a full-time mum and believe

able to be a full-time mum and believe

able to be a full-time mum and believe you me people told me before them that

you me people told me before them that

you me people told me before them that was not possible so I implore you guys

was not possible so I implore you guys

was not possible so I implore you guys to know that all the beliefs that you

to know that all the beliefs that you

to know that all the beliefs that you have been conditioned to think about

have been conditioned to think about

have been conditioned to think about most of the things that you think and

most of the things that you think and

most of the things that you think and most of things that people have told you

most of things that people have told you

most of things that people have told you to think ever since you were this big

to think ever since you were this big

to think ever since you were this big I want you to go inwards and ask

I want you to go inwards and ask

I want you to go inwards and ask yourself what is I truly want to do if

yourself what is I truly want to do if

yourself what is I truly want to do if everyone else just stepped away what is

everyone else just stepped away what is

everyone else just stepped away what is it that I want to do how is it that I

it that I want to do how is it that I

it that I want to do how is it that I want to serve the world because when you

want to serve the world because when you

want to serve the world because when you serve you deserve and when you leave

serve you deserve and when you leave

serve you deserve and when you leave with love and you focus on here sorry

with love and you focus on here sorry

with love and you focus on here sorry Mike in here true success will come to

Mike in here true success will come to

Mike in here true success will come to you and I promise you that

you and I promise you that

you and I promise you that so thank you so much for listening to me

so thank you so much for listening to me

so thank you so much for listening to me and before I finish this one quote that

and before I finish this one quote that

and before I finish this one quote that I’ve got on my wall in my office

I’ve got on my wall in my office

I’ve got on my wall in my office be fearless in the pursuit of what sets

be fearless in the pursuit of what sets

be fearless in the pursuit of what sets your soul on fire

your soul on fire

your soul on fire Wow thank you

Wow thank you

Wow thank you [Applause]

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