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That Moment of Sonder | Eli Levine | TEDxYouth@ParkCity


have you ever been sitting in a coffee

have you ever been sitting in a coffee shop and you look around at all the

shop and you look around at all the

shop and you look around at all the hustle and bustle the people coming in

hustle and bustle the people coming in

hustle and bustle the people coming in or during their coffee drinking it and

or during their coffee drinking it and

or during their coffee drinking it and then leaving going on with their day

then leaving going on with their day

then leaving going on with their day what about driving on the freeway

what about driving on the freeway

what about driving on the freeway looking at all the cars buzzing past you

looking at all the cars buzzing past you

looking at all the cars buzzing past you at any given second each having

at any given second each having

at any given second each having somewhere to go something to do or how

somewhere to go something to do or how

somewhere to go something to do or how about looking out your window at night

about looking out your window at night

about looking out your window at night perhaps our houses some might have

perhaps our houses some might have

perhaps our houses some might have lights on some might not but inside

lights on some might not but inside

lights on some might not but inside those houses there are people I love

those houses there are people I love

those houses there are people I love thinking about this stuff it seems like

thinking about this stuff it seems like

thinking about this stuff it seems like I have this constant realization that

I have this constant realization that

I have this constant realization that each and every person’s life is just as

each and every person’s life is just as

each and every person’s life is just as complex as mine and this gets me

complex as mine and this gets me

complex as mine and this gets me thinking about our bodies as human

thinking about our bodies as human

thinking about our bodies as human beings we are incredibly intricate we

beings we are incredibly intricate we

beings we are incredibly intricate we have 30 trillion cells seamlessly

have 30 trillion cells seamlessly

have 30 trillion cells seamlessly interacting with each other at any given

interacting with each other at any given

interacting with each other at any given point in time that tell us what to think

point in time that tell us what to think

point in time that tell us what to think how to move and the reality in which we

how to move and the reality in which we

how to move and the reality in which we perceive this is incredibly small scale

perceive this is incredibly small scale

perceive this is incredibly small scale yet there are 7.5 billion of these

yet there are 7.5 billion of these

yet there are 7.5 billion of these bodies these human beings on the planet

bodies these human beings on the planet

bodies these human beings on the planet Earth today yet these are two things

Earth today yet these are two things

Earth today yet these are two things that we know we know that everybody has

that we know we know that everybody has

that we know we know that everybody has a very complex life and we know that

a very complex life and we know that

a very complex life and we know that everybody has a very intricate body this

everybody has a very intricate body this

everybody has a very intricate body this gets me thinking about things that we

gets me thinking about things that we

gets me thinking about things that we don’t know three particular things come

don’t know three particular things come

don’t know three particular things come to mind the universe future knowledge

to mind the universe future knowledge

to mind the universe future knowledge and lack of technology and or brain

and lack of technology and or brain

and lack of technology and or brain capacity in the grand scheme of things

capacity in the grand scheme of things

capacity in the grand scheme of things we are unfathomably small we live on a

we are unfathomably small we live on a

we are unfathomably small we live on a very small planet which makes up a very

very small planet which makes up a very

very small planet which makes up a very small solar system which with millions

small solar system which with millions

small solar system which with millions and millions of other solar systems

and millions of other solar systems

and millions of other solar systems makes up a galaxy and this galaxy with

makes up a galaxy and this galaxy with

makes up a galaxy and this galaxy with millions and millions of other galaxies

millions and millions of other galaxies

millions and millions of other galaxies makes up the universe but before the

makes up the universe but before the

makes up the universe but before the universe time space and matter didn’t

universe time space and matter didn’t

universe time space and matter didn’t exist so we literally came from nothing

exist so we literally came from nothing

exist so we literally came from nothing and now our universe is expanding in an

and now our universe is expanding in an

and now our universe is expanding in an ever ly increasing rate according to

ever ly increasing rate according to

ever ly increasing rate according to time dilation time passes at a different

time dilation time passes at a different

time dilation time passes at a different rate depending on your speed in your

rate depending on your speed in your

rate depending on your speed in your gravity we could be thousands and

gravity we could be thousands and

gravity we could be thousands and thousands of years ahead of the next

thousands of years ahead of the next

thousands of years ahead of the next civilization out there they could be

civilization out there they could be

civilization out there they could be cavemen at this point in time

cavemen at this point in time

cavemen at this point in time mitochondria in a prehistoric pond we

mitochondria in a prehistoric pond we

mitochondria in a prehistoric pond we could also be thousands and thousands

could also be thousands and thousands

could also be thousands and thousands years behind the next civilization

years behind the next civilization

years behind the next civilization out there they could be looking at us

out there they could be looking at us

out there they could be looking at us laughing at us as if we were the cavemen

laughing at us as if we were the cavemen

laughing at us as if we were the cavemen but what’s the difference between us and

but what’s the difference between us and

but what’s the difference between us and the cavemen it’s knowledge knowledge is

the cavemen it’s knowledge knowledge is

the cavemen it’s knowledge knowledge is constantly evolving and we know more

constantly evolving and we know more

constantly evolving and we know more today than we have ever known in past

today than we have ever known in past

today than we have ever known in past years even the knowledge we had 100

years even the knowledge we had 100

years even the knowledge we had 100 years ago is much different than the

years ago is much different than the

years ago is much different than the knowledge we have today looking back a

knowledge we have today looking back a

knowledge we have today looking back a hundred years they didn’t know who

hundred years they didn’t know who

hundred years they didn’t know who Justin Bieber was they didn’t know what

Justin Bieber was they didn’t know what

Justin Bieber was they didn’t know what Star Wars was or the Millennium Falcon

Star Wars was or the Millennium Falcon

Star Wars was or the Millennium Falcon and I’m quite sure that they couldn’t

and I’m quite sure that they couldn’t

and I’m quite sure that they couldn’t even begin to comprehend the

even begin to comprehend the

even begin to comprehend the capabilities of modern-day supercomputer

capabilities of modern-day supercomputer

capabilities of modern-day supercomputer many of us carry with us today this gets

many of us carry with us today this gets

many of us carry with us today this gets me thinking forward a hundred years

me thinking forward a hundred years

me thinking forward a hundred years who’s the next Justin Bieber what’s the

who’s the next Justin Bieber what’s the

who’s the next Justin Bieber what’s the next start worse is there another

next start worse is there another

next start worse is there another Millennium Falcon is there technology

Millennium Falcon is there technology

Millennium Falcon is there technology out there that we can’t even begin to

out there that we can’t even begin to

out there that we can’t even begin to imagine at this point in time think

imagine at this point in time think

imagine at this point in time think about how much of a paradigm shift the

about how much of a paradigm shift the

about how much of a paradigm shift the invention of the computer was this

invention of the computer was this

invention of the computer was this revolutionized our world and many people

revolutionized our world and many people

revolutionized our world and many people couldn’t even begin to comprehend it

couldn’t even begin to comprehend it

couldn’t even begin to comprehend it I believe that although as society we

I believe that although as society we

I believe that although as society we think we are very smart and very

think we are very smart and very

think we are very smart and very advanced that we actually know very

advanced that we actually know very

advanced that we actually know very little about our world our brains can’t

little about our world our brains can’t

little about our world our brains can’t think past that third dimension and I

think past that third dimension and I

think past that third dimension and I believe that we are just beginning to

believe that we are just beginning to

believe that we are just beginning to discover our technology I mean what if

discover our technology I mean what if

discover our technology I mean what if coincidences were actually tangible and

coincidences were actually tangible and

coincidences were actually tangible and quantifiable but we just left the brain

quantifiable but we just left the brain

quantifiable but we just left the brain capacity and/or technology to see them

capacity and/or technology to see them

capacity and/or technology to see them what if in the air all around us there’s

what if in the air all around us there’s

what if in the air all around us there’s an elaborate system of electronic pulses

an elaborate system of electronic pulses

an elaborate system of electronic pulses that are locks and coincidences are the

that are locks and coincidences are the

that are locks and coincidences are the keys just a couple of weeks ago my mom

keys just a couple of weeks ago my mom

keys just a couple of weeks ago my mom siblings and I went to a sushi

siblings and I went to a sushi

siblings and I went to a sushi restaurant we haven’t been to this

restaurant we haven’t been to this

restaurant we haven’t been to this restaurant in years and our decision to

restaurant in years and our decision to

restaurant in years and our decision to go was mostly based on a two-for-one out

go was mostly based on a two-for-one out

go was mostly based on a two-for-one out in the paper my dad couldn’t make it

in the paper my dad couldn’t make it

in the paper my dad couldn’t make it with us because he was on a business

with us because he was on a business

with us because he was on a business trip in New York he hardly ever travels

trip in New York he hardly ever travels

trip in New York he hardly ever travels for business and he hasn’t been in New

for business and he hasn’t been in New

for business and he hasn’t been in New York in over a decade as we sit down at

York in over a decade as we sit down at

York in over a decade as we sit down at the restaurant we see my lacrosse coach

the restaurant we see my lacrosse coach

the restaurant we see my lacrosse coach and he comes over and says hello to us

and he comes over and says hello to us

and he comes over and says hello to us and then tells us how earlier that day

and then tells us how earlier that day

and then tells us how earlier that day he ran into my dad at the JFK Airport in

he ran into my dad at the JFK Airport in

he ran into my dad at the JFK Airport in New York what a coincidence we all said

New York what a coincidence we all said

New York what a coincidence we all said but what if this wasn’t a coincidence

but what if this wasn’t a coincidence

but what if this wasn’t a coincidence what if this wasn’t a random series of

what if this wasn’t a random series of

what if this wasn’t a random series of events why did this happen this gives me

events why did this happen this gives me

events why did this happen this gives me thinking about the impact that each and

thinking about the impact that each and

thinking about the impact that each and every one of us have on each other’s

every one of us have on each other’s

every one of us have on each other’s lives recently in my Spanish class we

lives recently in my Spanish class we

lives recently in my Spanish class we listen to a song called he Tana by

listen to a song called he Tana by

listen to a song called he Tana by Shakira in this song Shakira says my

Shakira in this song Shakira says my

Shakira in this song Shakira says my gypsy heart only beats Conner

gypsy heart only beats Conner

gypsy heart only beats Conner clockwise shortly after listening to the

clockwise shortly after listening to the

clockwise shortly after listening to the song we watched a video and it showed

song we watched a video and it showed

song we watched a video and it showed six or seven kids who are classified as

six or seven kids who are classified as

six or seven kids who are classified as gypsies and what they thought about

gypsies and what they thought about

gypsies and what they thought about being a gypsy at first they were very

being a gypsy at first they were very

being a gypsy at first they were very happy excited to be belonging to

happy excited to be belonging to

happy excited to be belonging to something and then they were handed the

something and then they were handed the

something and then they were handed the dictionary and told to look up what

dictionary and told to look up what

dictionary and told to look up what gypsy actually means when they saw that

gypsy actually means when they saw that

gypsy actually means when they saw that the Spanish dictionary defines gypsy as

the Spanish dictionary defines gypsy as

the Spanish dictionary defines gypsy as liar trickster and cheater all the

liar trickster and cheater all the

liar trickster and cheater all the sudden the kids didn’t want to be

sudden the kids didn’t want to be

sudden the kids didn’t want to be considered gypsies they felt dejected

considered gypsies they felt dejected

considered gypsies they felt dejected and hurt

and hurt

and hurt Shakira writes a song reaching out to

Shakira writes a song reaching out to

Shakira writes a song reaching out to these kids letting them know that they

these kids letting them know that they

these kids letting them know that they can be counterclockwise and go against

can be counterclockwise and go against

can be counterclockwise and go against the stigma that’s been created for

the stigma that’s been created for

the stigma that’s been created for gypsies she’s empathizing for them and

gypsies she’s empathizing for them and

gypsies she’s empathizing for them and reaching them through song without

reaching them through song without

reaching them through song without actually ever meeting them speaking of

actually ever meeting them speaking of

actually ever meeting them speaking of music just a couple weeks ago I went to

music just a couple weeks ago I went to

music just a couple weeks ago I went to a concert I had this concert there were

a concert I had this concert there were

a concert I had this concert there were 20,000 other people if you were to put

20,000 other people if you were to put

20,000 other people if you were to put this group of 20000 people out on the

this group of 20000 people out on the

this group of 20000 people out on the street there wouldn’t be one word that

street there wouldn’t be one word that

street there wouldn’t be one word that could describe us we came from every

could describe us we came from every

could describe us we came from every different demographic imaginable yet on

different demographic imaginable yet on

different demographic imaginable yet on one night at one time in one place we

one night at one time in one place we

one night at one time in one place we all came together to see one performer

all came together to see one performer

all came together to see one performer all of us left our routines our habits

all of us left our routines our habits

all of us left our routines our habits our friends and our inherent craziness

our friends and our inherent craziness

our friends and our inherent craziness to come together as a concert concludes

to come together as a concert concludes

to come together as a concert concludes and the crowd starts to disperse I think

and the crowd starts to disperse I think

and the crowd starts to disperse I think to myself wow I’m probably never gonna

to myself wow I’m probably never gonna

to myself wow I’m probably never gonna see any of these people ever again to me

see any of these people ever again to me

see any of these people ever again to me all they were were faces in the crowd

all they were were faces in the crowd

all they were were faces in the crowd voices singing along and energy filling

voices singing along and energy filling

voices singing along and energy filling the room and to them I was the same this

the room and to them I was the same this

the room and to them I was the same this overwhelming realization that each and

overwhelming realization that each and

overwhelming realization that each and every life is just as vivid and just as

every life is just as vivid and just as

every life is just as vivid and just as complex as your own the Germans they

complex as your own the Germans they

complex as your own the Germans they have a word for it it’s called sander &

have a word for it it’s called sander &

have a word for it it’s called sander & Saunders the moment when you realize

Saunders the moment when you realize

Saunders the moment when you realize that you could be that extra sipping

that you could be that extra sipping

that you could be that extra sipping coffee in the background you could be

coffee in the background you could be

coffee in the background you could be that blur of traffic on the highway and

that blur of traffic on the highway and

that blur of traffic on the highway and you could be that lighted window at dusk

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