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Let People Love | Lexi Laufer | TEDxYouth@ParkCity


love it’s what makes the world go round

love it’s what makes the world go round every day

every day

every day men and women get married start families

men and women get married start families

men and women get married start families and show compassion for one another but

and show compassion for one another but

and show compassion for one another but what about those who love someone of the

what about those who love someone of the

what about those who love someone of the same gender the lgbtq+ community battles

same gender the lgbtq+ community battles

same gender the lgbtq+ community battles for the rights every single day in

for the rights every single day in

for the rights every single day in Congress courtrooms on the streets and

Congress courtrooms on the streets and

Congress courtrooms on the streets and in their own homes they fight to be able

in their own homes they fight to be able

in their own homes they fight to be able to walk down the street holding the hand

to walk down the street holding the hand

to walk down the street holding the hand of the person they love to be referred

of the person they love to be referred

of the person they love to be referred to with the proper pronouns and for

to with the proper pronouns and for

to with the proper pronouns and for their love to be recognized as real

their love to be recognized as real

their love to be recognized as real under the administration of our current

under the administration of our current

under the administration of our current president this community has been one of

president this community has been one of

president this community has been one of the minority groups to suffer greatly

the minority groups to suffer greatly

the minority groups to suffer greatly in January the president removed all

in January the president removed all

in January the president removed all content on LGBT civil rights from the

content on LGBT civil rights from the

content on LGBT civil rights from the White House website in February he

White House website in February he

White House website in February he revoked protections for transgender

revoked protections for transgender

revoked protections for transgender students on their use of Russians in

students on their use of Russians in

students on their use of Russians in public schools in March he rescinded

public schools in March he rescinded

public schools in March he rescinded protections for LGBT workers against

protections for LGBT workers against

protections for LGBT workers against discrimination in hiring and employment

discrimination in hiring and employment

discrimination in hiring and employment in April he finally showed some support

in April he finally showed some support

in April he finally showed some support and dropped a federal law over North

and dropped a federal law over North

and dropped a federal law over North Carolina’s statewide prohibition on LGBT

Carolina’s statewide prohibition on LGBT

Carolina’s statewide prohibition on LGBT equality however his support was

equality however his support was

equality however his support was short-lived and in July he signaled that

short-lived and in July he signaled that

short-lived and in July he signaled that the US military would not accept or

the US military would not accept or

the US military would not accept or allow transgender people to serve I’m

allow transgender people to serve I’m

allow transgender people to serve I’m now happy to say that that policy has

now happy to say that that policy has

now happy to say that that policy has been deemed unconstitutional and will no

been deemed unconstitutional and will no

been deemed unconstitutional and will no longer go into place in 2018 on October

longer go into place in 2018 on October

longer go into place in 2018 on October 11 2014 one of my closest friends came

11 2014 one of my closest friends came

11 2014 one of my closest friends came out to me as gay for her privacy I’ll

out to me as gay for her privacy I’ll

out to me as gay for her privacy I’ll refer to her as L always the first

refer to her as L always the first

refer to her as L always the first person L ever came out to and I will

person L ever came out to and I will

person L ever came out to and I will never forget the fear she had on her

never forget the fear she had on her

never forget the fear she had on her face because she didn’t know what my

face because she didn’t know what my

face because she didn’t know what my response would be whether I would accept

response would be whether I would accept

response would be whether I would accept her or push her out of my life

her or push her out of my life

her or push her out of my life I took her head with love and support

I took her head with love and support

I took her head with love and support and over the past three years I’ve been

and over the past three years I’ve been

and over the past three years I’ve been able to watch L grow more comfortable

able to watch L grow more comfortable

able to watch L grow more comfortable with herself she’s gone from hiding in

with herself she’s gone from hiding in

with herself she’s gone from hiding in the closet to talking to just her

the closet to talking to just her

the closet to talking to just her closest friends to now she expresses her

closest friends to now she expresses her

closest friends to now she expresses her pride to me every single day and tells

pride to me every single day and tells

pride to me every single day and tells me how she’s going to change the world

me how she’s going to change the world

me how she’s going to change the world for people like her however else closet

for people like her however else closet

for people like her however else closet has two doors one in which she opened to

has two doors one in which she opened to

has two doors one in which she opened to find accepting friendships and the other

find accepting friendships and the other

find accepting friendships and the other in which she doesn’t dare to touch one

in which she doesn’t dare to touch one

in which she doesn’t dare to touch one that remains locked

that remains locked

that remains locked behind that locked door are the most

behind that locked door are the most

behind that locked door are the most important people in Elle’s life the

important people in Elle’s life the

important people in Elle’s life the people that gave her her life the lgbtq+

people that gave her her life the lgbtq+

people that gave her her life the lgbtq+ community has not talked about in a

community has not talked about in a

community has not talked about in a positive way in her house and therefore

positive way in her house and therefore

positive way in her house and therefore she’s forced to stay quiet and keep that

she’s forced to stay quiet and keep that

she’s forced to stay quiet and keep that door locked the hate she’s heard at home

door locked the hate she’s heard at home

door locked the hate she’s heard at home through the hallways at school and over

through the hallways at school and over

through the hallways at school and over social media has helped her fall into

social media has helped her fall into

social media has helped her fall into depression l frequently comes to me with

depression l frequently comes to me with

depression l frequently comes to me with tears rushing down her face telling me

tears rushing down her face telling me

tears rushing down her face telling me she will never be able to love who she

she will never be able to love who she

she will never be able to love who she wants saying she’s not worthy of love

wants saying she’s not worthy of love

wants saying she’s not worthy of love and saying that she’s a disgrace

and saying that she’s a disgrace

and saying that she’s a disgrace Ellis attempted to take her life several

Ellis attempted to take her life several

Ellis attempted to take her life several times and if you ask her why she’ll tell

times and if you ask her why she’ll tell

times and if you ask her why she’ll tell you because I live in a place where I am

you because I live in a place where I am

you because I live in a place where I am hated have few rights and cannot express

hated have few rights and cannot express

hated have few rights and cannot express myself so tell me why why should I stay

myself so tell me why why should I stay

myself so tell me why why should I stay here in a place where I am not loved for

here in a place where I am not loved for

here in a place where I am not loved for who my heart was born loving this is not

who my heart was born loving this is not

who my heart was born loving this is not the way people should go through life

the way people should go through life

the way people should go through life show them support show them someone

show them support show them someone

show them support show them someone cares show them they are valuable it is

cares show them they are valuable it is

cares show them they are valuable it is recognized pretty much everywhere that

recognized pretty much everywhere that

recognized pretty much everywhere that men and women can love one another that

men and women can love one another that

men and women can love one another that men and women can start families and get

men and women can start families and get

men and women can start families and get married however the idea of two men or

married however the idea of two men or

married however the idea of two men or two women doing the same exact thing

two women doing the same exact thing

two women doing the same exact thing still scares people

still scares people

still scares people but why what have these people ever done

but why what have these people ever done

but why what have these people ever done to you have they hated you for loving

to you have they hated you for loving

to you have they hated you for loving have they shamed you for expressing your

have they shamed you for expressing your

have they shamed you for expressing your gender have they tried to convert you no

gender have they tried to convert you no

gender have they tried to convert you no they protest peacefully simply voicing

they protest peacefully simply voicing

they protest peacefully simply voicing their opinion and raising awareness for

their opinion and raising awareness for

their opinion and raising awareness for their basic human rights yet they get

their basic human rights yet they get

their basic human rights yet they get responses of hate speech threats loss of

responses of hate speech threats loss of

responses of hate speech threats loss of employment and in some cases they are

employment and in some cases they are

employment and in some cases they are killed for love killed for wanting the

killed for love killed for wanting the

killed for love killed for wanting the right to love this is 2017 and religion

right to love this is 2017 and religion

right to love this is 2017 and religion and homosexuality still conflict with

and homosexuality still conflict with

and homosexuality still conflict with one another yet people are born gay and

one another yet people are born gay and

one another yet people are born gay and we are taught religion nobody is born

we are taught religion nobody is born

we are taught religion nobody is born knowing what the Bible the Torah or any

knowing what the Bible the Torah or any

knowing what the Bible the Torah or any other holy book says so I encourage you

other holy book says so I encourage you

other holy book says so I encourage you to please do not use religion as an

to please do not use religion as an

to please do not use religion as an excuse to hate people for intend LGBT

excuse to hate people for intend LGBT

excuse to hate people for intend LGBT youth say they live in a place that is

youth say they live in a place that is

youth say they live in a place that is not accepting of them that’s 40% 92% of

not accepting of them that’s 40% 92% of

not accepting of them that’s 40% 92% of youth in this array say they hear

youth in this array say they hear

youth in this array say they hear negative messages about being LGBT

negative messages about being LGBT

negative messages about being LGBT mainly through school social media and

mainly through school social media and

mainly through school social media and even their peers while is not a definite

even their peers while is not a definite

even their peers while is not a definite statistic due to many people not being

statistic due to many people not being

statistic due to many people not being out roughly 10 percent of America’s

out roughly 10 percent of America’s

out roughly 10 percent of America’s population refers to themselves as a

population refers to themselves as a

population refers to themselves as a member of the lgbtq+ community that’s

member of the lgbtq+ community that’s

member of the lgbtq+ community that’s every 1 in 10 people these people are

every 1 in 10 people these people are

every 1 in 10 people these people are also more likely to attempt and/or

also more likely to attempt and/or

also more likely to attempt and/or commit suicide not only because of the

commit suicide not only because of the

commit suicide not only because of the hate they directly receive but also what

hate they directly receive but also what

hate they directly receive but also what they hear around them being different

they hear around them being different

they hear around them being different shouldn’t make people targets being

shouldn’t make people targets being

shouldn’t make people targets being different is what makes us all beautiful

different is what makes us all beautiful

different is what makes us all beautiful complex and individual whether someone

complex and individual whether someone

complex and individual whether someone is gay lesbian transgender bisexual

is gay lesbian transgender bisexual

is gay lesbian transgender bisexual pansexual asexual the list can go on

pansexual asexual the list can go on

pansexual asexual the list can go on nobody deserves to be bullied or hated

nobody deserves to be bullied or hated

nobody deserves to be bullied or hated for who they love or the gender they

for who they love or the gender they

for who they love or the gender they identify as so step up show support to

identify as so step up show support to

identify as so step up show support to your fellow humans educate yourself on

your fellow humans educate yourself on

your fellow humans educate yourself on the rights they do and do not have

the rights they do and do not have

the rights they do and do not have coming out can be hard so be an ally

coming out can be hard so be an ally

coming out can be hard so be an ally respect a person’s pronouns show them

respect a person’s pronouns show them

respect a person’s pronouns show them they are people to help them gain rights

they are people to help them gain rights

they are people to help them gain rights so they too can be with the ones that

so they too can be with the ones that

so they too can be with the ones that they love because in the end equal

they love because in the end equal

they love because in the end equal rights for others does not mean fewer

rights for others does not mean fewer

rights for others does not mean fewer rights for you this is a fight for basic

rights for you this is a fight for basic

rights for you this is a fight for basic human rights and LGBTQ plus members and

human rights and LGBTQ plus members and

human rights and LGBTQ plus members and allies will not surrender because love

allies will not surrender because love

allies will not surrender because love is love and not about gender this is

is love and not about gender this is

is love and not about gender this is love let people love

love let people love

love let people love [Applause]

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