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Tearing Down Walls – Building Bridges | Cristina Cortez | TEDxEverett


well thank you for those words drawn

well thank you for those words drawn I feel really pleasured and pleased to

I feel really pleasured and pleased to

I feel really pleasured and pleased to be with you

be with you

be with you today all of you and thank you for being

today all of you and thank you for being

today all of you and thank you for being here thank you were sharing a time and

here thank you were sharing a time and

here thank you were sharing a time and thank you for allowing me to talk to you

thank you for allowing me to talk to you

thank you for allowing me to talk to you today I would like you all to take a

today I would like you all to take a

today I would like you all to take a moment to picture this a 27 week old

moment to picture this a 27 week old

moment to picture this a 27 week old baby girl has just been born

baby girl has just been born

baby girl has just been born she sure has she is shown to her father

she sure has she is shown to her father

she sure has she is shown to her father then to her mother and taken to the a

then to her mother and taken to the a

then to her mother and taken to the a nice and ICU because her lungs aren’t

nice and ICU because her lungs aren’t

nice and ICU because her lungs aren’t developed and she can’t breathe it’s

developed and she can’t breathe it’s

developed and she can’t breathe it’s uncertain whether she’ll survive the

uncertain whether she’ll survive the

uncertain whether she’ll survive the night it’s uncertain whether she’ll live

night it’s uncertain whether she’ll live

night it’s uncertain whether she’ll live at all but of course she does a year

at all but of course she does a year

at all but of course she does a year passes her parents notice she’s noticed

passes her parents notice she’s noticed

passes her parents notice she’s noticed she’s not developing as she should they

she’s not developing as she should they

she’s not developing as she should they put her into therapy like a year passes

put her into therapy like a year passes

put her into therapy like a year passes and no progress is made hardly any on

and no progress is made hardly any on

and no progress is made hardly any on their own they try to find they try to

their own they try to find they try to

their own they try to find they try to find out all they possibly can to figure

find out all they possibly can to figure

find out all they possibly can to figure out what’s going on with with their

out what’s going on with with their

out what’s going on with with their daughter this shouldn’t be happening and

daughter this shouldn’t be happening and

daughter this shouldn’t be happening and they

and they come to the realization that

and they come to the realization that come to the realization that she has

come to the realization that she has

come to the realization that she has cerebral palsy CP the diagnosis is

cerebral palsy CP the diagnosis is

cerebral palsy CP the diagnosis is serious it is real

serious it is real

serious it is real it’s quadriplegic she is they are told

it’s quadriplegic she is they are told

it’s quadriplegic she is they are told there are no expectations absolutely

there are no expectations absolutely

there are no expectations absolutely none but from the beginning neither the

none but from the beginning neither the

none but from the beginning neither the prognosis

prognosis

prognosis neither the diagnosis nor the prognosis

neither the diagnosis nor the prognosis

neither the diagnosis nor the prognosis stopped the parents from giving the

stopped the parents from giving the

stopped the parents from giving the daughter every thing everything that we

daughter every thing everything that we

daughter every thing everything that we that we deserve as human beings they

that we deserve as human beings they

that we deserve as human beings they gave everything to her that she could

gave everything to her that she could

gave everything to her that she could possibly need to live as a human being

possibly need to live as a human being

possibly need to live as a human being because they saw in her eyes and her

because they saw in her eyes and her

because they saw in her eyes and her smile the spark and life that we have

smile the spark and life that we have

smile the spark and life that we have when we are first born they saw that

when we are first born they saw that

when we are first born they saw that potential and they went with it what

potential and they went with it what

potential and they went with it what they saw was nothing more than what we

they saw was nothing more than what we

they saw was nothing more than what we all have pure potential they use the

all have pure potential they use the

all have pure potential they use the date untap they attacked it and they

date untap they attacked it and they

date untap they attacked it and they made a future where there would where

made a future where there would where

made a future where there would where there was none when there should have

there was none when there should have

there was none when there should have been none from the beginning there was

been none from the beginning there was

been none from the beginning there was no there was there was absolute belief

no there was there was absolute belief

no there was there was absolute belief that this child would turn out as they

that this child would turn out as they

that this child would turn out as they had hoped there was no doubt that this

had hoped there was no doubt that this

had hoped there was no doubt that this child would become the woman you see

child would become the woman you see

child would become the woman you see before you today

before you today

before you today the woman that they have that my parents

the woman that they have that my parents

the woman that they have that my parents have made me is all because of potential

have made me is all because of potential

have made me is all because of potential and the belief that potential is all we

and the belief that potential is all we

and the belief that potential is all we have to work with it’s not about

have to work with it’s not about

have to work with it’s not about limitation is not about disability it’s

limitation is not about disability it’s

limitation is not about disability it’s not about putting putting caps on

not about putting putting caps on

not about putting putting caps on yourself putting lids on potential it’s

yourself putting lids on potential it’s

yourself putting lids on potential it’s all about embracing

all about embracing

all about embracing change and embracing the change that we

change and embracing the change that we

change and embracing the change that we have to have our our lives be completely

have to have our our lives be completely

have to have our our lives be completely be completely different than what they

be completely different than what they

be completely different than what they could be or what they should have been

could be or what they should have been

could be or what they should have been in in my life I have learned a very

in in my life I have learned a very

in in my life I have learned a very simple but powerful truth life is

simple but powerful truth life is

simple but powerful truth life is difficult but when you don’t accept that

difficult but when you don’t accept that

difficult but when you don’t accept that life is difficult life becomes

life is difficult life becomes

life is difficult life becomes impossible that’s the first noble truth

impossible that’s the first noble truth

impossible that’s the first noble truth that the Buddha taught back in 600 BC

that the Buddha taught back in 600 BC

that the Buddha taught back in 600 BC and that truth has stuck with me from

and that truth has stuck with me from

and that truth has stuck with me from the beginning of my life to the be get

the beginning of my life to the be get

the beginning of my life to the be get into the to the current day to the

into the to the current day to the

into the to the current day to the current time that we have that we are

current time that we have that we are

current time that we have that we are sitting here today listening to this

sitting here today listening to this

sitting here today listening to this truth again and for me it’s all about

truth again and for me it’s all about

truth again and for me it’s all about community community is nothing more nor

community community is nothing more nor

community community is nothing more nor nothing less then all the people we

nothing less then all the people we

nothing less then all the people we connected to in our lives and are

connected to in our lives and are

connected to in our lives and are connected to community doesn’t stop

connected to community doesn’t stop

connected to community doesn’t stop within the neighborhood neighborhood it

within the neighborhood neighborhood it

within the neighborhood neighborhood it doesn’t stop with social media it goes

doesn’t stop with social media it goes

doesn’t stop with social media it goes on with with every person we touch and

on with with every person we touch and

on with with every person we touch and every person we touch is impacted by the

every person we touch is impacted by the

every person we touch is impacted by the voice we have by the way we treat them

voice we have by the way we treat them

voice we have by the way we treat them by the way we embrace life by the way

by the way we embrace life by the way

by the way we embrace life by the way that they embraced us and our community

that they embraced us and our community

that they embraced us and our community goes beyond goes beyond family it goes

goes beyond goes beyond family it goes

goes beyond goes beyond family it goes beyond friends it goes beyond every

beyond friends it goes beyond every

beyond friends it goes beyond every single every single boundary that we can

single every single boundary that we can

single every single boundary that we can possibly think of and for me what

possibly think of and for me what

possibly think of and for me what happens with that is absolutely

happens with that is absolutely

happens with that is absolutely absolutely magical when you do not

absolutely magical when you do not

absolutely magical when you do not embrace when you do not see boundaries

embrace when you do not see boundaries

embrace when you do not see boundaries there are none when you do not see

there are none when you do not see

there are none when you do not see boundaries you can make new

boundaries you can make new

boundaries you can make new possibilities and for me all that all

possibilities and for me all that all

possibilities and for me all that all the boundaries that exist in the world

the boundaries that exist in the world

the boundaries that exist in the world our just physical this chair is not even

our just physical this chair is not even

our just physical this chair is not even is real right

is real right

is real right but this chair is just only as real as

but this chair is just only as real as

but this chair is just only as real as you think of it as you think of it to be

you think of it as you think of it to be

you think of it as you think of it to be for me it’s not about being bound to a

for me it’s not about being bound to a

for me it’s not about being bound to a wilter it’s not about being restricted

wilter it’s not about being restricted

wilter it’s not about being restricted it’s about having a freedom that I

it’s about having a freedom that I

it’s about having a freedom that I otherwise would not have had I otherwise

otherwise would not have had I otherwise

otherwise would not have had I otherwise would not have had the freedom to move

would not have had the freedom to move

would not have had the freedom to move around nor the freedom to act it’s about

around nor the freedom to act it’s about

around nor the freedom to act it’s about freedom life is about freedom all life

freedom life is about freedom all life

freedom life is about freedom all life all community all connection is about

all community all connection is about

all community all connection is about taking that freedom and going forward

taking that freedom and going forward

taking that freedom and going forward with it if I could change if I could

with it if I could change if I could

with it if I could change if I could make a difference why can’t we all make

make a difference why can’t we all make

make a difference why can’t we all make a difference why can we all tear down

a difference why can we all tear down

a difference why can we all tear down bridges and tear down walls and build

bridges and tear down walls and build

bridges and tear down walls and build bridges instead why can’t we all make a

bridges instead why can’t we all make a

bridges instead why can’t we all make a change to change our lives to transform

change to change our lives to transform

change to change our lives to transform them that’s the message I want to leave

them that’s the message I want to leave

them that’s the message I want to leave you with and that’s the message you

you with and that’s the message you

you with and that’s the message you deserve to hear because you can make a

deserve to hear because you can make a

deserve to hear because you can make a mark on the world and live your life in

mark on the world and live your life in

mark on the world and live your life in the limits thank you

the limits thank you

the limits thank you [Applause]

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