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Psychological effects of entrepreneurship | Puseletso Modimogale | TEDxLytteltonWomen


good morning everyone my topic today is

good morning everyone my topic today is the psychological effect of

the psychological effect of

the psychological effect of entrepreneurship I just want to also

entrepreneurship I just want to also

entrepreneurship I just want to also test something to see if I’m speaking to

test something to see if I’m speaking to

test something to see if I’m speaking to the relevant people who will relate to

the relevant people who will relate to

the relevant people who will relate to my story how many of you are in business

okay and how many of you ask buyer

okay and how many of you ask buyer interview to become entrepreneurs and

interview to become entrepreneurs and

interview to become entrepreneurs and how many of you don’t even think about

how many of you don’t even think about

how many of you don’t even think about becoming an entrepreneur okay okay we

becoming an entrepreneur okay okay we

becoming an entrepreneur okay okay we are going in some way

are going in some way

are going in some way my story began in the age of 12 when I

my story began in the age of 12 when I

my story began in the age of 12 when I stayed with my grandmother you know

stayed with my grandmother you know

stayed with my grandmother you know being at home in the small village in

being at home in the small village in

being at home in the small village in this so true it was such a privilege to

this so true it was such a privilege to

this so true it was such a privilege to be in a farm girl I used to run after

be in a farm girl I used to run after

be in a farm girl I used to run after the chickens I used to ride on horses

the chickens I used to ride on horses

the chickens I used to ride on horses and I used to found the best thing I can

and I used to found the best thing I can

and I used to found the best thing I can tell you I know how to milk it how how

tell you I know how to milk it how how

tell you I know how to milk it how how to make gumbo gumbo tonight the moto

to make gumbo gumbo tonight the moto

to make gumbo gumbo tonight the moto hawk ice is so true but dry I guess I

hawk ice is so true but dry I guess I

hawk ice is so true but dry I guess I can do that I can even make a madhouse

can do that I can even make a madhouse

can do that I can even make a madhouse those are these precious things when we

those are these precious things when we

those are these precious things when we go when we’re at home we used to really

go when we’re at home we used to really

go when we’re at home we used to really find joy in doing such things and

find joy in doing such things and

find joy in doing such things and they’ve they bring some contentment

they’ve they bring some contentment

they’ve they bring some contentment within us and today I always say I want

within us and today I always say I want

within us and today I always say I want to go back to the time when everything

to go back to the time when everything

to go back to the time when everything was so cheap and we could have fought

was so cheap and we could have fought

was so cheap and we could have fought and still be as happy and for someone

and still be as happy and for someone

and still be as happy and for someone who’s looking at me riding a horse would

who’s looking at me riding a horse would

who’s looking at me riding a horse would think today I’m wealthy and I used to do

think today I’m wealthy and I used to do

think today I’m wealthy and I used to do it as I went a 10 to 12

it as I went a 10 to 12

it as I went a 10 to 12 my great grandmother got sick and she

my great grandmother got sick and she

my great grandmother got sick and she was hit by a stroke all of us had to

was hit by a stroke all of us had to

was hit by a stroke all of us had to look after her but everybody else had to

look after her but everybody else had to

look after her but everybody else had to be involved into the farm and had to go

be involved into the farm and had to go

be involved into the farm and had to go out to the field and I was the youngest

out to the field and I was the youngest

out to the field and I was the youngest to look after her most of the time she

to look after her most of the time she

to look after her most of the time she would ask me to feed her to bath her

would ask me to feed her to bath her

would ask me to feed her to bath her and sometimes it was hard when I had to

and sometimes it was hard when I had to

and sometimes it was hard when I had to change an AP at the age of 12 we can

change an AP at the age of 12 we can

change an AP at the age of 12 we can imagine it’s something that you wouldn’t

imagine it’s something that you wouldn’t

imagine it’s something that you wouldn’t think is possible for that dear child to

think is possible for that dear child to

think is possible for that dear child to do it but somehow I fell in love with

do it but somehow I fell in love with

do it but somehow I fell in love with her I don’t know why but I really

her I don’t know why but I really

her I don’t know why but I really enjoyed spending time with her of course

enjoyed spending time with her of course

enjoyed spending time with her of course at that age I want to go out and play

at that age I want to go out and play

at that age I want to go out and play with other kids but I knew my

with other kids but I knew my

with other kids but I knew my responsibilities that I have to make

responsibilities that I have to make

responsibilities that I have to make sure she has water she have changed her

sure she has water she have changed her

sure she has water she have changed her nappy and I’ve actually put her

nappy and I’ve actually put her

nappy and I’ve actually put her comfortably on bet she would experience

comfortably on bet she would experience

comfortably on bet she would experience some pains now and then and she would

some pains now and then and she would

some pains now and then and she would ask me to massage her hand and she would

ask me to massage her hand and she would

ask me to massage her hand and she would give me a Vaseline to say just rub it my

give me a Vaseline to say just rub it my

give me a Vaseline to say just rub it my child it would be better and I would

child it would be better and I would

child it would be better and I would just do it for the sake of doing it

just do it for the sake of doing it

just do it for the sake of doing it because I didn’t even know what I was

because I didn’t even know what I was

because I didn’t even know what I was doing and she was there wow you’ve got

doing and she was there wow you’ve got

doing and she was there wow you’ve got therapeutic touch Oh

therapeutic touch Oh

therapeutic touch Oh at that time yes you know I would say I

at that time yes you know I would say I

at that time yes you know I would say I cleany wants more of this I really

cleany wants more of this I really

cleany wants more of this I really didn’t believe that she meant it up

didn’t believe that she meant it up

didn’t believe that she meant it up until one day when I came back from

until one day when I came back from

until one day when I came back from school I threw my back in the cupboard

school I threw my back in the cupboard

school I threw my back in the cupboard straight into her room I found her

straight into her room I found her

straight into her room I found her holding a glass of water with her right

holding a glass of water with her right

holding a glass of water with her right hand side and she said look you’ve

hand side and she said look you’ve

hand side and she said look you’ve healed me

healed me

healed me something inside me moved and I started

something inside me moved and I started

something inside me moved and I started believing that I’ve got something

believing that I’ve got something

believing that I’ve got something special and you can imagine when someone

special and you can imagine when someone

special and you can imagine when someone tells you that you’ve got therapeutic

tells you that you’ve got therapeutic

tells you that you’ve got therapeutic touch the next thing and the next

touch the next thing and the next

touch the next thing and the next mission for me was to see her walk out

mission for me was to see her walk out

mission for me was to see her walk out through that door to make sure that that

through that door to make sure that that

through that door to make sure that that foot of hers she can’t step on the floor

foot of hers she can’t step on the floor

foot of hers she can’t step on the floor and walk both of us will be hopeful

and walk both of us will be hopeful

and walk both of us will be hopeful about it and it was one thing we were

about it and it was one thing we were

about it and it was one thing we were really working hard towards

really working hard towards

really working hard towards unfortunately I didn’t see her walk

unfortunately I didn’t see her walk

unfortunately I didn’t see her walk through working out through the door she

through working out through the door she

through working out through the door she was taken out through a casket she

was taken out through a casket she

was taken out through a casket she passed away a year later

I was touched life goes on I have to go

I was touched life goes on I have to go and I had to go into high school at a

and I had to go into high school at a

and I had to go into high school at a time my parents took me back because I

time my parents took me back because I

time my parents took me back because I was coming from trektop and my father

was coming from trektop and my father

was coming from trektop and my father was coming from the Soto so I stayed

was coming from the Soto so I stayed

was coming from the Soto so I stayed with his mom making Clegg’s dope my mom

with his mom making Clegg’s dope my mom

with his mom making Clegg’s dope my mom is a beauty queen she was beautifully

is a beauty queen she was beautifully

is a beauty queen she was beautifully she puts makeup she looks at me and say

she puts makeup she looks at me and say

she puts makeup she looks at me and say that’s not my daughter now she has to

that’s not my daughter now she has to

that’s not my daughter now she has to crew me to be like her and she would

crew me to be like her and she would

crew me to be like her and she would teach me how to sit how to walk and all

teach me how to sit how to walk and all

teach me how to sit how to walk and all the poses in the world I would just do

the poses in the world I would just do

the poses in the world I would just do know and I’m photogenic today now it

know and I’m photogenic today now it

know and I’m photogenic today now it makes sense

makes sense

makes sense I now realized that the choice of the

I now realized that the choice of the

I now realized that the choice of the career I made which when I went into

career I made which when I went into

career I made which when I went into tertiary is because of my mom I chose a

tertiary is because of my mom I chose a

tertiary is because of my mom I chose a course called so metrology which is the

course called so metrology which is the

course called so metrology which is the study of the skin and human body I then

study of the skin and human body I then

study of the skin and human body I then realized that the reason why I chose it

realized that the reason why I chose it

realized that the reason why I chose it was because of only four subject I mean

was because of only four subject I mean

was because of only four subject I mean there were a lot of subject but only for

there were a lot of subject but only for

there were a lot of subject but only for ways to appealing to me which was the

ways to appealing to me which was the

ways to appealing to me which was the makeup the facials many kills and

makeup the facials many kills and

makeup the facials many kills and pedicure anything Beauty because I knew

pedicure anything Beauty because I knew

pedicure anything Beauty because I knew how it makes me feel and loved being

how it makes me feel and loved being

how it makes me feel and loved being beautiful and loved looking after myself

beautiful and loved looking after myself

beautiful and loved looking after myself and I knew that doing that it will put a

and I knew that doing that it will put a

and I knew that doing that it will put a smile in to many women like yourself but

smile in to many women like yourself but

smile in to many women like yourself but on my third year I then had to do a

on my third year I then had to do a

on my third year I then had to do a subject called stress and relaxation

subject called stress and relaxation

subject called stress and relaxation therapy reflexology aromatherapy is all

therapy reflexology aromatherapy is all

therapy reflexology aromatherapy is all about massages it’s all about mindset

about massages it’s all about mindset

about massages it’s all about mindset it’s all about the ability to help one

it’s all about the ability to help one

it’s all about the ability to help one to change the way they think the way

to change the way they think the way

to change the way they think the way they feel and to become better and then

they feel and to become better and then

they feel and to become better and then I got to realize oh okay this is what my

I got to realize oh okay this is what my

I got to realize oh okay this is what my grandmother has been saying to me all

grandmother has been saying to me all

grandmother has been saying to me all the time especially when s that it

the time especially when s that it

the time especially when s that it seemed a lot of queue coming

seemed a lot of queue coming

seemed a lot of queue coming waiting for me to be massaging them I

waiting for me to be massaging them I

waiting for me to be massaging them I got to do experiential training in

got to do experiential training in

got to do experiential training in robots and there was a gentleman that I

robots and there was a gentleman that I

robots and there was a gentleman that I would

would

would never forget that I did reflexology on

never forget that I did reflexology on

never forget that I did reflexology on he was suffering from a thyroid he

he was suffering from a thyroid he

he was suffering from a thyroid he didn’t know it he’s been suffering for a

didn’t know it he’s been suffering for a

didn’t know it he’s been suffering for a very long time and the day when he came

very long time and the day when he came

very long time and the day when he came to message to him I think you need to

to message to him I think you need to

to message to him I think you need to check something

check something

check something I cannot diagnose you but I can

I cannot diagnose you but I can

I cannot diagnose you but I can recommend you see a doctor

recommend you see a doctor

recommend you see a doctor because I believe there’s something that

because I believe there’s something that

because I believe there’s something that you need to really look at he went to a

you need to really look at he went to a

you need to really look at he went to a doctor and indeed he had a thyroid

doctor and indeed he had a thyroid

doctor and indeed he had a thyroid problem and he was treated you could can

problem and he was treated you could can

problem and he was treated you could can imagine three weeks later he came back

imagine three weeks later he came back

imagine three weeks later he came back and he becomes a as for me specifically

and he becomes a as for me specifically

and he becomes a as for me specifically and when he came back I couldn’t

and when he came back I couldn’t

and when he came back I couldn’t recognize him he was a bit bigger and he

recognize him he was a bit bigger and he

recognize him he was a bit bigger and he looked different very skinny and I said

looked different very skinny and I said

looked different very skinny and I said oh okay but you look different he said

oh okay but you look different he said

oh okay but you look different he said yes because now they are treating my

yes because now they are treating my

yes because now they are treating my thyroid remember you picked it up and

thyroid remember you picked it up and

thyroid remember you picked it up and you can imagine now the determination of

you can imagine now the determination of

you can imagine now the determination of him wanting me to pick something else

unfortunately I could only pick up what

unfortunately I could only pick up what I can at a time when is there it’s

I can at a time when is there it’s

I can at a time when is there it’s represented but that for me it really

represented but that for me it really

represented but that for me it really confirmed the point that I’ve got

confirmed the point that I’ve got

confirmed the point that I’ve got therapeutic touch and as you know the

therapeutic touch and as you know the

therapeutic touch and as you know the more times you start seeing the more

more times you start seeing the more

more times you start seeing the more people started start demanding your

people started start demanding your

people started start demanding your attention the more you thinking now is

attention the more you thinking now is

attention the more you thinking now is the best time for me to start a business

the best time for me to start a business

the best time for me to start a business that’s basically how I started my

that’s basically how I started my

that’s basically how I started my business but I want to tell you when I

business but I want to tell you when I

business but I want to tell you when I started my business it was the right

started my business it was the right

started my business it was the right time

time

time when I met the most handsome men

when I met the most handsome men

when I met the most handsome men and when as I also felt pregnant and at

and when as I also felt pregnant and at

and when as I also felt pregnant and at a time did I tell you that I didn’t have

a time did I tell you that I didn’t have

a time did I tell you that I didn’t have medical aid did I tell you that I didn’t

medical aid did I tell you that I didn’t

medical aid did I tell you that I didn’t have a car and so many other things I

have a car and so many other things I

have a car and so many other things I had to make sure that I have support

had to make sure that I have support

had to make sure that I have support around me but it was hard juggling it

around me but it was hard juggling it

around me but it was hard juggling it was very hard at one point my daughter

was very hard at one point my daughter

was very hard at one point my daughter got sick I had to take it to a doctor I

got sick I had to take it to a doctor I

got sick I had to take it to a doctor I remember very well I took my helper with

remember very well I took my helper with

remember very well I took my helper with me Oh bless her soul because you’re that

me Oh bless her soul because you’re that

me Oh bless her soul because you’re that woman I got there and the doctor is

woman I got there and the doctor is

woman I got there and the doctor is asking me when did she start getting

asking me when did she start getting

asking me when did she start getting sick then I looked at my help when did

sick then I looked at my help when did

sick then I looked at my help when did she start getting sick and then she

she start getting sick and then she

she start getting sick and then she tells me then I tell the doctor remember

tells me then I tell the doctor remember

tells me then I tell the doctor remember she can’t speak English right so now I

she can’t speak English right so now I

she can’t speak English right so now I have to translate and then what did you

have to translate and then what did you

have to translate and then what did you give her then ask what did you give her

give her then ask what did you give her

give her then ask what did you give her and then I look back the third time the

and then I look back the third time the

and then I look back the third time the doctor went when did she start kissing

who are certain Paris to go to that time

who are certain Paris to go to that time and ask and I realized I’ve actually

and ask and I realized I’ve actually

and ask and I realized I’ve actually been absent if I have about sourced my

been absent if I have about sourced my

been absent if I have about sourced my responsibility of being a mom literally

responsibility of being a mom literally

responsibility of being a mom literally I did and you know at one point when you

I did and you know at one point when you

I did and you know at one point when you start growing a business and things are

start growing a business and things are

start growing a business and things are starting to go well you even forget the

starting to go well you even forget the

starting to go well you even forget the responsibilities of even looking after

responsibilities of even looking after

responsibilities of even looking after your own health looking after your

your own health looking after your

your own health looking after your relationship with your partner of

relationship with your partner of

relationship with your partner of looking after or being a sister or a

looking after or being a sister or a

looking after or being a sister or a friend my friends wouldn’t invite me to

friend my friends wouldn’t invite me to

friend my friends wouldn’t invite me to their parties because I was too busy and

their parties because I was too busy and

their parties because I was too busy and I’ll be offended like hi i temped

I’ll be offended like hi i temped

I’ll be offended like hi i temped parties as well they like we didn’t

parties as well they like we didn’t

parties as well they like we didn’t invite you because we knew you were

invite you because we knew you were

invite you because we knew you were gonna tell us you were busy and indeed I

gonna tell us you were busy and indeed I

gonna tell us you were busy and indeed I was busy

was busy

was busy I was busy building a business I was

I was busy building a business I was

I was busy building a business I was built she trying to make ends meet I was

built she trying to make ends meet I was

built she trying to make ends meet I was juggling life and while I’m neglecting

juggling life and while I’m neglecting

juggling life and while I’m neglecting myself in the process can you relate

I started employing people now the

I started employing people now the business is growing I started winning

business is growing I started winning

business is growing I started winning competitions lot of competitions and

competitions lot of competitions and

competitions lot of competitions and recognitions Awards after a lot as a

recognitions Awards after a lot as a

recognitions Awards after a lot as a building a business and diversifying it

building a business and diversifying it

building a business and diversifying it into from just being a one-man show to a

into from just being a one-man show to a

into from just being a one-man show to a point of us going into corporate being

point of us going into corporate being

point of us going into corporate being the stress Buster’s therapeutically

the stress Buster’s therapeutically

the stress Buster’s therapeutically touching life I then that there was a

touching life I then that there was a

touching life I then that there was a death of an organization because at one

death of an organization because at one

death of an organization because at one thing my mother taught me well was it’s

thing my mother taught me well was it’s

thing my mother taught me well was it’s just that the business you need to start

just that the business you need to start

just that the business you need to start giving back you need to start making an

giving back you need to start making an

giving back you need to start making an impact in his to start making a

impact in his to start making a

impact in his to start making a difference little did I know that now I

difference little did I know that now I

difference little did I know that now I will move and move from being a

will move and move from being a

will move and move from being a businesswoman to a social entrepreneur

businesswoman to a social entrepreneur

businesswoman to a social entrepreneur to an NGO the man started depleting

to an NGO the man started depleting

to an NGO the man started depleting [Music]

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[Music] every money every cent that came through

every money every cent that came through

every money every cent that came through that business was going towards giving

that business was going towards giving

that business was going towards giving to others I would take from my children

to others I would take from my children

to others I would take from my children my husband’s credit card I will take

my husband’s credit card I will take

my husband’s credit card I will take everywhere just to make others happy and

everywhere just to make others happy and

everywhere just to make others happy and later it catches up with you you can’t

later it catches up with you you can’t

later it catches up with you you can’t give what you don’t have

give what you don’t have

give what you don’t have I started getting sick high blood

I started getting sick high blood

I started getting sick high blood I had three miscarriages it was tough

I had three miscarriages it was tough

I had three miscarriages it was tough up until a point I came back from

up until a point I came back from

up until a point I came back from hospital after evacuation I was lying

hospital after evacuation I was lying

hospital after evacuation I was lying there and I said something must change

there and I said something must change

there and I said something must change I was tired exhausted fatigued 15 years

I was tired exhausted fatigued 15 years

I was tired exhausted fatigued 15 years later I didn’t love being a therapist I

later I didn’t love being a therapist I

later I didn’t love being a therapist I didn’t believe I still have it in me to

didn’t believe I still have it in me to

didn’t believe I still have it in me to touch others because quite more because

touch others because quite more because

touch others because quite more because this is energy energy flow you exchange

this is energy energy flow you exchange

this is energy energy flow you exchange it if you are not well yourself in your

it if you are not well yourself in your

it if you are not well yourself in your soul what more do a my transferring to

soul what more do a my transferring to

soul what more do a my transferring to you you will receive what I give so in

you you will receive what I give so in

you you will receive what I give so in that way you end up living contracts are

that way you end up living contracts are

that way you end up living contracts are ending clients are leaving

ending clients are leaving

ending clients are leaving you are left with nothing that’s

you are left with nothing that’s

you are left with nothing that’s business psychologically it affects you

that moment then you start not even

that moment then you start not even having a 5 rent when you are in the mall

having a 5 rent when you are in the mall

having a 5 rent when you are in the mall to pay for a parking ticket that moment

to pay for a parking ticket that moment

to pay for a parking ticket that moment when a client says can we have a coffee

when a client says can we have a coffee

when a client says can we have a coffee let’s talk business you thinking oh my

let’s talk business you thinking oh my

let’s talk business you thinking oh my lord I hope he’s not going to ask me to

lord I hope he’s not going to ask me to

lord I hope he’s not going to ask me to pay for coffee is that negotiating with

pay for coffee is that negotiating with

pay for coffee is that negotiating with sensed one you take the routes where

sensed one you take the routes where

sensed one you take the routes where there’s not all gate so that you can you

there’s not all gate so that you can you

there’s not all gate so that you can you know these can move from a high point to

know these can move from a high point to

know these can move from a high point to a low point and sometimes it’s not

a low point and sometimes it’s not

a low point and sometimes it’s not because of you it’s because it’s meant

because of you it’s because it’s meant

because of you it’s because it’s meant to happen for a reason when I woke up

to happen for a reason when I woke up

to happen for a reason when I woke up from that bit I went straight to my

from that bit I went straight to my

from that bit I went straight to my husband and I said to him I’m tired I

husband and I said to him I’m tired I

husband and I said to him I’m tired I want to close this business and I want

want to close this business and I want

want to close this business and I want to go back to school and study MBA

to go back to school and study MBA

to go back to school and study MBA because I figured out that after MBA ops

because I figured out that after MBA ops

because I figured out that after MBA ops but something great I really was ready

but something great I really was ready

but something great I really was ready to exit imagine after 15 years letting

to exit imagine after 15 years letting

to exit imagine after 15 years letting it all go starting afresh in the unknown

it all go starting afresh in the unknown

it all go starting afresh in the unknown MBA was the answer for me and he said to

MBA was the answer for me and he said to

MBA was the answer for me and he said to me you don’t need that you have done MBA

me you don’t need that you have done MBA

me you don’t need that you have done MBA practically the only thing that you need

practically the only thing that you need

practically the only thing that you need is to fall back in love with the reason

is to fall back in love with the reason

is to fall back in love with the reason why you started this business what does

why you started this business what does

why you started this business what does it mean luck I’m ready to leave

it mean luck I’m ready to leave

it mean luck I’m ready to leave and my Steve is ready by the way I had

and my Steve is ready by the way I had

and my Steve is ready by the way I had to really go in to myself and

to really go in to myself and

to really go in to myself and understanding why did I start this

understanding why did I start this

understanding why did I start this business in the first place what was the

business in the first place what was the

business in the first place what was the reason for me to go into this business

reason for me to go into this business

reason for me to go into this business and you know what it came to me I

and you know what it came to me I

and you know what it came to me I realized that it’s

realized that it’s

realized that it’s about the number of massages that I’ve

about the number of massages that I’ve

about the number of massages that I’ve performed the number of clients that

performed the number of clients that

performed the number of clients that I’ve seen but it was the transformation

I’ve seen but it was the transformation

I’ve seen but it was the transformation and the impact that I made in their

and the impact that I made in their

and the impact that I made in their lives

lives

lives through my touch and I realized that if

through my touch and I realized that if

through my touch and I realized that if I can do it with my touch I can do it

I can do it with my touch I can do it

I can do it with my touch I can do it with my speech and I can do it with my

with my speech and I can do it with my

with my speech and I can do it with my presence

presence

presence I need to shine the light because I

I need to shine the light because I

I need to shine the light because I believe I’ve got it in me that is why

believe I’ve got it in me that is why

believe I’ve got it in me that is why today I proudly call myself the

today I proudly call myself the

today I proudly call myself the transformer in everything that I do I do

transformer in everything that I do I do

transformer in everything that I do I do it with a great understanding of why I

it with a great understanding of why I

it with a great understanding of why I do it I do it with a great understanding

do it I do it with a great understanding

do it I do it with a great understanding why is it important for me to speak life

why is it important for me to speak life

why is it important for me to speak life into situations that are dying why is it

into situations that are dying why is it

into situations that are dying why is it important to you as a business person to

important to you as a business person to

important to you as a business person to understand the reason why that brought

understand the reason why that brought

understand the reason why that brought you into that business because it’s not

you into that business because it’s not

you into that business because it’s not only about money but as the man is that

only about money but as the man is that

only about money but as the man is that coming in we shift and we get caught up

coming in we shift and we get caught up

coming in we shift and we get caught up into things that sometimes kill our

into things that sometimes kill our

into things that sometimes kill our patient and the reason why we started

patient and the reason why we started

patient and the reason why we started the business in the first place today I

the business in the first place today I

the business in the first place today I speak to magnitude of people I grew my

speak to magnitude of people I grew my

speak to magnitude of people I grew my own children whom I neglected today I

own children whom I neglected today I

own children whom I neglected today I take them into business because I

take them into business because I

take them into business because I sharpen the skills and the talents that

sharpen the skills and the talents that

sharpen the skills and the talents that I believe they have I have been awarded

I believe they have I have been awarded

I believe they have I have been awarded all my mentees because I work as a

all my mentees because I work as a

all my mentees because I work as a business mentor that life that I’ve

business mentor that life that I’ve

business mentor that life that I’ve transformed through the knowledge that

transformed through the knowledge that

transformed through the knowledge that I’ve gained the 15 years that have been

I’ve gained the 15 years that have been

I’ve gained the 15 years that have been in business it’s time that we start

in business it’s time that we start

in business it’s time that we start giving it out to others so that they can

giving it out to others so that they can

giving it out to others so that they can may do better than us

may do better than us

may do better than us I’m featured in I write articles about

I’m featured in I write articles about

I’m featured in I write articles about transforming lives and living in the

transforming lives and living in the

transforming lives and living in the purposeful moment I speak in different

purposeful moment I speak in different

purposeful moment I speak in different platform and I realized the power of

platform and I realized the power of

platform and I realized the power of tapping into other people’s knowledge

tapping into other people’s knowledge

tapping into other people’s knowledge because we don’t have it figured out or

because we don’t have it figured out or

because we don’t have it figured out or isn’t it now and then you need to know

isn’t it now and then you need to know

isn’t it now and then you need to know who to talk to you need to build

who to talk to you need to build

who to talk to you need to build networks and you need to leverage

networks and you need to leverage

networks and you need to leverage because white part me so exhausted so

because white part me so exhausted so

because white part me so exhausted so tired was because I was it all rested in

tired was because I was it all rested in

tired was because I was it all rested in me it was it well I had to account I too

me it was it well I had to account I too

me it was it well I had to account I too be the one to do it and if you are

be the one to do it and if you are

be the one to do it and if you are running a business where you can’t

running a business where you can’t

running a business where you can’t delegate and you can’t duplicate

delegate and you can’t duplicate

delegate and you can’t duplicate yourself you’re bound to burn out I’m

yourself you’re bound to burn out I’m

yourself you’re bound to burn out I’m about to write a book and the book it’s

about to write a book and the book it’s

about to write a book and the book it’s all about changing lives transforming

all about changing lives transforming

all about changing lives transforming lives of entrepreneurs specifically

lives of entrepreneurs specifically

lives of entrepreneurs specifically women entrepreneurs because we shy away

women entrepreneurs because we shy away

women entrepreneurs because we shy away from entering into the business world

from entering into the business world

from entering into the business world because we do not allow ourselves to

because we do not allow ourselves to

because we do not allow ourselves to know who we are we’ve got it within

know who we are we’ve got it within

know who we are we’ve got it within ourselves and I’ve got to understand

ourselves and I’ve got to understand

ourselves and I’ve got to understand something that entrepreneurship is a

something that entrepreneurship is a

something that entrepreneurship is a mindset that is shaped by many

mindset that is shaped by many

mindset that is shaped by many challenges and victories and often at

challenges and victories and often at

challenges and victories and often at the beginning it’s more challenges than

the beginning it’s more challenges than

the beginning it’s more challenges than victories and I got to realize that I

victories and I got to realize that I

victories and I got to realize that I have to build resilience and I’ve got to

have to build resilience and I’ve got to

have to build resilience and I’ve got to trust in God to keep me going

trust in God to keep me going

trust in God to keep me going the you know when you build resilience

the you know when you build resilience

the you know when you build resilience is that moment when you realize that out

is that moment when you realize that out

is that moment when you realize that out of adversity during those challenging

of adversity during those challenging

of adversity during those challenging time you are so strong and you are more

time you are so strong and you are more

time you are so strong and you are more courageous and sometimes you’re more

courageous and sometimes you’re more

courageous and sometimes you’re more stronger than you thought even more

stronger than you thought even more

stronger than you thought even more resourceful that is why I could turn my

resourceful that is why I could turn my

resourceful that is why I could turn my life around

life around

life around that is why I can become more stronger

that is why I can become more stronger

that is why I can become more stronger than when I started because at the time

than when I started because at the time

than when I started because at the time when you’re sitting at the bottom day

when you’re sitting at the bottom day

when you’re sitting at the bottom day you want to give up you want to dust off

you want to give up you want to dust off

you want to give up you want to dust off your CV you want to change your career

your CV you want to change your career

your CV you want to change your career you don’t know what to do you are stuck

you don’t know what to do you are stuck

you don’t know what to do you are stuck at the cul-de-sac and everything is just

at the cul-de-sac and everything is just

at the cul-de-sac and everything is just blind it’s just black many of us give in

blind it’s just black many of us give in

blind it’s just black many of us give in but it takes a resilient person to

but it takes a resilient person to

but it takes a resilient person to bounce back I’m asking you to be

bounce back I’m asking you to be

bounce back I’m asking you to be resilient

resilient

resilient am i skinnier to fight and it’s about

am i skinnier to fight and it’s about

am i skinnier to fight and it’s about time you fight with all you have to get

time you fight with all you have to get

time you fight with all you have to get what you deserve you believe in yourself

what you deserve you believe in yourself

what you deserve you believe in yourself you believe in the ability to be who you

you believe in the ability to be who you

you believe in the ability to be who you are meant to be the why every business

are meant to be the why every business

are meant to be the why every business should have and understand the why

should have and understand the why

should have and understand the why every employee in the business should

every employee in the business should

every employee in the business should understand the wife everybody walking

understand the wife everybody walking

understand the wife everybody walking through that door is your client they

through that door is your client they

through that door is your client they come to you because of the wife and if

come to you because of the wife and if

come to you because of the wife and if we know why you start a business if you

we know why you start a business if you

we know why you start a business if you know what’s your purpose if you know

know what’s your purpose if you know

know what’s your purpose if you know what we call the it it’s a Chinese word

what we call the it it’s a Chinese word

what we call the it it’s a Chinese word called a key guy when I land

called a key guy when I land

called a key guy when I land a key guy which is basically where my

a key guy which is basically where my

a key guy which is basically where my passion my mission my profession and my

passion my mission my profession and my

passion my mission my profession and my vocation meet I felt complete because if

vocation meet I felt complete because if

vocation meet I felt complete because if you just run with Persian you don’t

you just run with Persian you don’t

you just run with Persian you don’t understand your mission somehow does it

understand your mission somehow does it

understand your mission somehow does it disconnect and they even show here

disconnect and they even show here

disconnect and they even show here passion and mission when they meet

passion and mission when they meet

passion and mission when they meet that’s where love is where mission and

that’s where love is where mission and

that’s where love is where mission and vocation meet it’s what the world needs

vocation meet it’s what the world needs

vocation meet it’s what the world needs the profession and vocation where they

the profession and vocation where they

the profession and vocation where they meet it’s what you will be paid for and

meet it’s what you will be paid for and

meet it’s what you will be paid for and lastly the passion and profession where

lastly the passion and profession where

lastly the passion and profession where they meet it’s what you are good at so

they meet it’s what you are good at so

they meet it’s what you are good at so what are you good at what are your

what are you good at what are your

what are you good at what are your strengths what are your skills and

strengths what are your skills and

strengths what are your skills and talents that means to still be sharpened

talents that means to still be sharpened

talents that means to still be sharpened because if you use what you have you are

because if you use what you have you are

because if you use what you have you are bound to see greatness you are bound to

bound to see greatness you are bound to

bound to see greatness you are bound to defeat those ends that crop into your

defeat those ends that crop into your

defeat those ends that crop into your mind that tells you that you are not

mind that tells you that you are not

mind that tells you that you are not good enough we get to that moment even

good enough we get to that moment even

good enough we get to that moment even in business where we don’t think we can

in business where we don’t think we can

in business where we don’t think we can and we can afford it and I believe in

and we can afford it and I believe in

and we can afford it and I believe in planting seed in others I believe in

planting seed in others I believe in

planting seed in others I believe in helping others because I wouldn’t be

helping others because I wouldn’t be

helping others because I wouldn’t be where I am if it wasn’t through the help

where I am if it wasn’t through the help

where I am if it wasn’t through the help of people that went through the journey

of people that went through the journey

of people that went through the journey with me the people who believed in my

with me the people who believed in my

with me the people who believed in my why that is why you will then thrive and

why that is why you will then thrive and

why that is why you will then thrive and you will be at peace

you will be at peace

you will be at peace not in Tamworth with yourself

not in Tamworth with yourself

not in Tamworth with yourself it’s about time ladies and gentlemen

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