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I can not make that touch, not me.
I can not do it I can not
I can not do this touch
sorry folks i can not do
this touch
I can not do that touch, that’s it.
that my head is also saying
now right now and it’s me
saying this long before making the
subscription here at ted when my friend
teased me and told me why you eat
into account its history
Ted I said because I can not
make a splash in my head
She is my doubt she goes beyond
She says you ‘re going to go onstage on the
red carpet facing 100
people and I do not know how many more
watching and you’re going to say my name is
luiz and I have chronic depression in
in front of everybody
You’ll be able to say that, will you?
Can you tell your secret more
obscure and even tell you that
It will advance so many people today.
talking about depression because your
speech will help someone
What good is it for you to make this effort?
What good is it for you to go up there and say
that
This is my head talking to her.
saying I can not do this touch
and I do not know what’s going to happen I do not
know how many people I’ll impact I
I do not know how many people are
listening to their impact from my
words but I know that when I
Throughout my life I’ve learned that
my head used to lie and she
I usually say things that keep me from
see the world as it really is
it is like a veil a veil of
for those who do not know the
expression to see where this is something that
prevent you from seeing the
reality as it really is
I see the world through the veil of
depression
I see the world in another way
is not the real world like it really is
It is
It is the world through it and the same
The way I see the world through
I’m sure that the world
not really see me either he does not
saw me and whoever is behind the
veil and did not see my face he saw the veil
it is a veil of Isis and life over civil
she is very difficult is a life where the
sun illuminates the food you do not feel like
Do you have trouble sleeping?
insomnia for you have difficulty
to concentrate
you have difficulty memorizing the
touch you have difficulty getting out of the
bed
Do you have a hard time doing things?
simple, right?
no matter if you are reading a
book whether it ‘s good or bad and it does not give you
pleasure does not matter if you are
Alone or accompanied
You always feel the same way.
no matter if you can not see
the difference between what you really
and what is the head telling you what?
prevails over the veil is that you
always a monster
and then the worst of it all the worst symptom
of depressive disorder I would say that it is
a feeling of lack of feeling
You did not feel anything at all.
and when I say I do not feel
absolutely nothing is clear that i do not
I am referring to the fact that your
cut my arm now i will not
feel pain
if I fall from a building broke my leg
I will not feel pain or if I pass
five days on how I will not feel
hunger are not those feelings that I
I’m saying I’m referring to the fact that
that when I won an award in
university I felt different
when I got my first job
I felt different
when I graduated I felt different
When I made love to my girlfriend.
I have felt different when someone
my family died I felt
different when I tried to kill myself
I felt different
I did not feel anything and the worst of it
feeling of lack of feeling is that
it gives way to collapse
the moment of crisis
It all starts with a thought I do not
I can do this touch but he can go
beyond
Let’s take, for example, you will.
live 40 years like this without
feel nothing
you will want to live like the
rest of your life
and there it is a thought pulls the other that
pulling another pulling another linking
the engine and when you see
besides the sadness you are feeling
anger you are feeling this
way and anger it leads directly to
anxiety and anxiety she will come
Why do you want this to end?
it does not pass and anxiety increases
to the point that it takes you to panic
and panic then leads you to despair
This is the genealogy of death is the
genealogy of death
everything starts with a thought until
arrive in despair and when you are
in desperation you can not anymore
make rational calculation
is so stupid at the idea of killing himself
it’s not, yes, when we can
think straight
when we can be rational but
in a moment of despair you do not
Can you even think you ‘re
feeling your pain
Are you feeling your sadness?
anger society its panic its
desperation and you ‘re feeling a pain
physically as if someone took his or her
rib to get to the side to arrive
your lungs for the other to pick up your
heart and tighten to the point of
he almost exploded and the pain is so
but it is so much that sometimes you do not even
because to die you want the pain
stop and then you have no alternative
What I do for this pain is that I
I can do
then everything is born of a thought of
Doubt you’ll even want to live
over 40 years so they are 6 doubt it
plays there in the middle of his head a
Thought of that but there you are in that
process so desperate that you have
two options the first one to go to
April bathroom the mirror pick up a
packet of capsule and think so 67
must give or you will have the
Your closet catches the biggest I feel
you have the UN around his neck and
go to the shower your bathroom and
If you feel there, you’ll go to your
garage
closes the door and puts a towel on the
door
I turn on the car and sit behind the exhaust
or you enter the car opens the door
garage sai handle br br
goes to beautiful and begins to accelerate a
a little bit more a little bit more
This is the first option.
the second option and you raise the
hands to the sky and cries asking
do not have a second option is to
second national option same doubt
Only this time it’s you who plays.
doubt about depression and if you
have depression and if you do not
to get convinced that you do not have
output
And then you realize that she is now
in her position she is under doubt
and then you realize you through
of a stubborn process is
beginning to fight the disease of
stubbornness of insistence is born
confrontation when it is born
the challenge of confronting it and the challenge
going to be born is precisely the hope of
You can win and that ‘s the
genealogy of life
this is the genealogical tree of life and
everything starts with doubt as well
This time it’s you who’s putting
you who is speaking pro veil and
have a world after you and if I
to separate these two things and
You arrive at this moment of hope.
but you do not know what to do
there is no silver bullet
magic formula and no magic remedy
also did not exist
I know because I’ve tried everything and
You come in this moment and you talk.
so now what I’m going to do
Good, my understanding, this revolves around
a word called resistance you
that it is born of stubbornness and
you have music you will not die
Are you going to face this disease?
will face this doubt this
thinking and resist
depressed is a very difficult thing
but it is possible
Today I work in Brasilia I
managed 14 projects the public server
resist as possible do not resist
I’m a social entrepreneur who created
an NGO in Brazil that today
more than 100 thousand people and is
four capitals of the country
was it possible then resist
I have my family I have the
My likes and I have my home I
I’m alive
I can not resist it is possible then there is
moment is the theme of cyted moment
then it is that ability as John
explained of taking a body out of inertia
and inertia is the property that the body
one has to keep in constant that
maintained in the same state
depression is an inertia because
People are going to stay in the same state.
It’s very difficult for us to get out of this
inertia but just as physics teaches
which comes vector out and had pushes
and breaks this inertia in the same way is
with this disease and my vector
in the case of this force that broke my
inertia
at least until now it’s been you
yes you
and when I say it’s logical that
I’m referring to my friends and
my family there in Brazil that
were this force in my inertia
capable of pushing and changing the situation
but I’m referring to spiritists
who are here also who
pushed upon that stage when
My mind was telling me I did not
I can do this touch and you that
They are watching it here in requenta
live stream and everyone out there
also suffer from depression are you
the power
I understand it ‘s hard to talk about
depression because it’s a hurting theme
if you do not want to see the person you most
like person you love suffering in
your front then you say conversation
sweeps under the rug pretending that
there is no result, it’s okay, I
I understand it ‘s difficult because the people
I also do not understand much about
depression
we talk so ask a question
10 year old boy that he has to do
if he gets a cold and he’ll get you
talk I have to take a bowl of
chicken on tour and I’m going to get better
now asks for an adult of 30 and
a few years three times the age of
the face he does with the thought
obsessive with low and low rejection
self-esteem little self-confidence he
Will not know what to do then?
There is an informational difficulty is
difficult to talk but we can
relearning to speak because silence is
that is lethal
so I wanted to say today in this ted
that most of the people who have
someone with depression in the family are
sons of fathers mothers brothers and sisters to
person sitting on your side
You do not know how you use this mask.
and pretend that this does not happen and
goes under the rug and sometimes
even afraid society does not understand
then these people are not
impotent
you have the greatest power you
imagine if it were not this vector in
my inertia and this vector is you
the other the relationship understands that
live in the world is you relate to
the people you only understand the
your uniqueness when you are in
contrast to the plurality of the other which
you only feel complete when you
is faced with the incompleteness of the other
When you have a relationship, do you have a
a force that is not of this power.
and this power can save lives.
if it were not for that power it was not
speaking here for you today
and I’m not saying that I do not
I would have enrolled myself, I ‘m not saying that
I would not be here today.
today we are being called out of
inertia
we are being called to break
our own inertia and I’m going
besides inviting you to help the
another to break the inertia of the other
see the power you have
impact you have on the other’s life
because only then only if we act
together if we understand that everything
world is essential and that all
world needs everyone is that the
people can change things as they are and
how is things today is like
if the world to call if to run a
marathon 42 miles
This is difficult for people to know.
Do you have a functional problem?
family we have financial problems
it’s a marathon
but if you had to run this
marathon with the 42-pound backpack that
is the depression in the world today it goes
ignore this and it will probably
Say you can not get in
end when he should be saying
one more mile is missing
just a little bit longer and who’s going
saying these things are you to the
people on your side who can
have this problem
so I wanted to invite you to live
in a world where having a problem does not
problem
that we accept imperfections
of others and that we understand the
completeness that is to live in the
from the moment the other exists
so for me and the people who have
depression for my happy for my
My friend, Pedro, for my friend Victor
my cousin mauro who hanged himself in the
past and everyone I wanted here
invite you to survive and understand
That’s okay, problem. What do you have?
space in this world for each of us
with each singularity that we have
survive exist because it’s worth it
I can see beyond that veil and I
I’m here to prove that the
tenderness can guide us brigade
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