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so I thought the last thing I would ever

so I thought the last thing I would ever see is the snowflakes falling on the

see is the snowflakes falling on the

see is the snowflakes falling on the torpedo that was going to sink my ship

torpedo that was going to sink my ship

torpedo that was going to sink my ship that’s a true story it’s kind of Bill

that’s a true story it’s kind of Bill

that’s a true story it’s kind of Bill Carter wrote that the line that I helped

Carter wrote that the line that I helped

Carter wrote that the line that I helped him write for his autobiography about

him write for his autobiography about

him write for his autobiography about World War two it’s this incredible story

World War two it’s this incredible story

World War two it’s this incredible story to make a great TED talk about drama and

to make a great TED talk about drama and

to make a great TED talk about drama and courage and survival and the heartbreak

courage and survival and the heartbreak

courage and survival and the heartbreak of losing your friends and about how

of losing your friends and about how

of losing your friends and about how much it takes to overcome Nazi Germany

much it takes to overcome Nazi Germany

much it takes to overcome Nazi Germany in the middle of the Arctic and it’s a

in the middle of the Arctic and it’s a

in the middle of the Arctic and it’s a story I could never possibly live up to

story I could never possibly live up to

story I could never possibly live up to so it’s not what I’m going to tell

so it’s not what I’m going to tell

so it’s not what I’m going to tell because you don’t want to start off with

because you don’t want to start off with

because you don’t want to start off with that level of expectations i’m going to

that level of expectations i’m going to

that level of expectations i’m going to start instead with a couple talks one

start instead with a couple talks one

start instead with a couple talks one hyperlocal i grew up in an incredible

hyperlocal i grew up in an incredible

hyperlocal i grew up in an incredible town there were 20 different languages

town there were 20 different languages

town there were 20 different languages spoken at home in my town my friend

spoken at home in my town my friend

spoken at home in my town my friend Kenny Armwood was convinced in this

Kenny Armwood was convinced in this

Kenny Armwood was convinced in this incredible town that we had a racist

incredible town that we had a racist

incredible town that we had a racist high school principal and Kenny would

high school principal and Kenny would

high school principal and Kenny would say oh my god Brian the principal was

say oh my god Brian the principal was

say oh my god Brian the principal was there as Jamal Harris got an award to be

there as Jamal Harris got an award to be

there as Jamal Harris got an award to be our next valedictorian and she said to

our next valedictorian and she said to

our next valedictorian and she said to him Wow with those SATs you’ll get into

him Wow with those SATs you’ll get into

him Wow with those SATs you’ll get into a great black college and Kenny SAT

a great black college and Kenny SAT

a great black college and Kenny SAT there as that principal made fun of the

there as that principal made fun of the

there as that principal made fun of the hard work of his own single mom and

hard work of his own single mom and

hard work of his own single mom and Kenny said Brian this is not right this

Kenny said Brian this is not right this

Kenny said Brian this is not right this is not right anywhere this is

is not right anywhere this is

is not right anywhere this is particularly terrible in our town but

particularly terrible in our town but

particularly terrible in our town but who’s going to listen to me I’m just a

who’s going to listen to me I’m just a

who’s going to listen to me I’m just a student and I said you know Kenny if you

student and I said you know Kenny if you

student and I said you know Kenny if you were on the school board everybody have

were on the school board everybody have

were on the school board everybody have to listen to you because you actually

to listen to you because you actually

to listen to you because you actually voted her contract and he said huh

voted her contract and he said huh

voted her contract and he said huh you’re right somebody’s got to run for

you’re right somebody’s got to run for

you’re right somebody’s got to run for school board why not me and within a few

school board why not me and within a few

school board why not me and within a few months of graduating Kenny Armwood was

months of graduating Kenny Armwood was

months of graduating Kenny Armwood was the youngest black elected official in

the youngest black elected official in

the youngest black elected official in the country and fulfilled every high

the country and fulfilled every high

the country and fulfilled every high school students dream of firing his high

school students dream of firing his high

school students dream of firing his high school principal and he said age is no

school principal and he said age is no

school principal and he said age is no obstacle it’s a social change that’d be

obstacle it’s a social change that’d be

obstacle it’s a social change that’d be good TED talk to you right but maybe

good TED talk to you right but maybe

good TED talk to you right but maybe you’re more global maybe you came to

you’re more global maybe you came to

you’re more global maybe you came to listen to a talk about how you could

listen to a talk about how you could

listen to a talk about how you could have a global impact maybe you’re like

have a global impact maybe you’re like

have a global impact maybe you’re like my friend Sydney Cayman when Sydney was

my friend Sydney Cayman when Sydney was

my friend Sydney Cayman when Sydney was 15 she got a grant who knows to get

15 she got a grant who knows to get

15 she got a grant who knows to get grants at 15 Sydney did she got a grant

grants at 15 Sydney did she got a grant

grants at 15 Sydney did she got a grant to go to Thailand

to go to Thailand

to go to Thailand which she learned first hand that over

which she learned first hand that over

which she learned first hand that over 2.5 million children a year die from

2.5 million children a year die from

2.5 million children a year die from diarrhea and respiratory ailments and

diarrhea and respiratory ailments and

diarrhea and respiratory ailments and she learned at 15 that if you have

she learned at 15 that if you have

she learned at 15 that if you have access to hygiene and greater

access to hygiene and greater

access to hygiene and greater cleanliness you can reduce that rate by

cleanliness you can reduce that rate by

cleanliness you can reduce that rate by up to fifty percent and instead of just

up to fifty percent and instead of just

up to fifty percent and instead of just being broken by those facts like I would

being broken by those facts like I would

being broken by those facts like I would have been at 15 Sydney thought what can

have been at 15 Sydney thought what can

have been at 15 Sydney thought what can I do so that others are protected so

I do so that others are protected so

I do so that others are protected so that others are protected so that’s a

that others are protected so that’s a

that others are protected so that’s a great acronym what if I city caiman

great acronym what if I city caiman

great acronym what if I city caiman could convince a bunch of luxury hotels

could convince a bunch of luxury hotels

could convince a bunch of luxury hotels and a lots of people with plenty to give

and a lots of people with plenty to give

and a lots of people with plenty to give those shards of soap and send them

those shards of soap and send them

those shards of soap and send them locally so that they could be turned

locally so that they could be turned

locally so that they could be turned into bars of soap so these kids could

into bars of soap so these kids could

into bars of soap so these kids could wash their hands and not lose their

wash their hands and not lose their

wash their hands and not lose their lives and at 16 city what’s Uganda at 17

lives and at 16 city what’s Uganda at 17

lives and at 16 city what’s Uganda at 17 she went to Haiti at at 18 she went to

she went to Haiti at at 18 she went to

she went to Haiti at at 18 she went to India and she’s now a student at

India and she’s now a student at

India and she’s now a student at Dartmouth and she delivers tens of

Dartmouth and she delivers tens of

Dartmouth and she delivers tens of thousands of bars of soap a year back to

thousands of bars of soap a year back to

thousands of bars of soap a year back to those communities because Sydney knew

those communities because Sydney knew

those communities because Sydney knew that age is not an obstacle to creating

that age is not an obstacle to creating

that age is not an obstacle to creating global change and she knew that somebody

global change and she knew that somebody

global change and she knew that somebody had to step up and help those kids why

had to step up and help those kids why

had to step up and help those kids why not her and so maybe that’s a TED talk

not her and so maybe that’s a TED talk

not her and so maybe that’s a TED talk we’d want to hear at length too or maybe

we’d want to hear at length too or maybe

we’d want to hear at length too or maybe you came because you need advice on your

you came because you need advice on your

you came because you need advice on your own career well Teddy Schleifer is from

own career well Teddy Schleifer is from

own career well Teddy Schleifer is from here in Delaware and when he was 16

here in Delaware and when he was 16

here in Delaware and when he was 16 years old he applied for a job in the

years old he applied for a job in the

years old he applied for a job in the governor’s office and Teddy said

governor’s office and Teddy said

governor’s office and Teddy said actually worked for me is it Brian I

actually worked for me is it Brian I

actually worked for me is it Brian I heard that when you were 16 you lied

heard that when you were 16 you lied

heard that when you were 16 you lied about your age to get a job as a

about your age to get a job as a

about your age to get a job as a reporter I got a chance to write for a

reporter I got a chance to write for a

reporter I got a chance to write for a newspaper because you thought hey I’m as

newspaper because you thought hey I’m as

newspaper because you thought hey I’m as good a writer at 16 as some of these 40

good a writer at 16 as some of these 40

good a writer at 16 as some of these 40 year olds well you know what Brian I

year olds well you know what Brian I

year olds well you know what Brian I think I’m probably as good as some of

think I’m probably as good as some of

think I’m probably as good as some of these 40 year olds instead of just doing

these 40 year olds instead of just doing

these 40 year olds instead of just doing normal intern duty could you give me a

normal intern duty could you give me a

normal intern duty could you give me a chance to write the first draft of a

chance to write the first draft of a

chance to write the first draft of a speech for the governor could you give

speech for the governor could you give

speech for the governor could you give you the chance to do the first draft of

you the chance to do the first draft of

you the chance to do the first draft of a press release and I said teddy hell

a press release and I said teddy hell

a press release and I said teddy hell yes and by the end of the summer teddy

yes and by the end of the summer teddy

yes and by the end of the summer teddy was my go-to person for first drafts on

was my go-to person for first drafts on

was my go-to person for first drafts on things that needed to sing on things

things that needed to sing on things

things that needed to sing on things that needed to have some inspiration

that needed to have some inspiration

that needed to have some inspiration behind them he was my absolute

behind them he was my absolute

behind them he was my absolute go to person because he thought at 16 to

go to person because he thought at 16 to

go to person because he thought at 16 to try and apply and by the time he was a

try and apply and by the time he was a

try and apply and by the time he was a freshman in college he spent his next

freshman in college he spent his next

freshman in college he spent his next summer writing for the Secretary of

summer writing for the Secretary of

summer writing for the Secretary of Education for the United States of

Education for the United States of

Education for the United States of America Arne Duncan and he went on to

America Arne Duncan and he went on to

America Arne Duncan and he went on to work hands-on in the middle of a

work hands-on in the middle of a

work hands-on in the middle of a presidential campaign in the year after

presidential campaign in the year after

presidential campaign in the year after that and become a reporter at the

that and become a reporter at the

that and become a reporter at the Philadelphia Inquirer and become a

Philadelphia Inquirer and become a

Philadelphia Inquirer and become a reporter for The New York Times and at

reporter for The New York Times and at

reporter for The New York Times and at 22 or 23 he moved to Texas to write for

22 or 23 he moved to Texas to write for

22 or 23 he moved to Texas to write for the Houston Chronicle we got to know

the Houston Chronicle we got to know

the Houston Chronicle we got to know this guy named Ted Cruz who was running

this guy named Ted Cruz who was running

this guy named Ted Cruz who was running for president and Ted Cruz started to

for president and Ted Cruz started to

for president and Ted Cruz started to take off and the guy that was the single

take off and the guy that was the single

take off and the guy that was the single best person regardless of his age at

best person regardless of his age at

best person regardless of his age at covering Ted Cruz was Teddy Schleifer

covering Ted Cruz was Teddy Schleifer

covering Ted Cruz was Teddy Schleifer now called Theodore correctly and CNN

now called Theodore correctly and CNN

now called Theodore correctly and CNN said we need somebody to cover Ted Cruz

said we need somebody to cover Ted Cruz

said we need somebody to cover Ted Cruz we’d always only 23 but if Teddy knows

we’d always only 23 but if Teddy knows

we’d always only 23 but if Teddy knows more than everybody else why don’t we

more than everybody else why don’t we

more than everybody else why don’t we make Teddy a producer for CNN and when

make Teddy a producer for CNN and when

make Teddy a producer for CNN and when you watch CNN now tomorrow night

you watch CNN now tomorrow night

you watch CNN now tomorrow night especially you’ll see 24 year old Teddy

especially you’ll see 24 year old Teddy

especially you’ll see 24 year old Teddy shleifer as their reporter for money and

shleifer as their reporter for money and

shleifer as their reporter for money and politics because Teddy knew that

politics because Teddy knew that

politics because Teddy knew that somebody was going to be in that spot

somebody was going to be in that spot

somebody was going to be in that spot somebody was going to file that report

somebody was going to file that report

somebody was going to file that report why not him that age is no obstacle to

why not him that age is no obstacle to

why not him that age is no obstacle to getting ahead and the only problem with

getting ahead and the only problem with

getting ahead and the only problem with that as a ted talk is that people are

that as a ted talk is that people are

that as a ted talk is that people are sick of politics so i want to talk about

sick of politics so i want to talk about

sick of politics so i want to talk about that let’s talk about sports people love

that let’s talk about sports people love

that let’s talk about sports people love sports I helped build a sports network

sports I helped build a sports network

sports I helped build a sports network called with some sports we have 260

called with some sports we have 260

called with some sports we have 260 million fans and followers in the last

million fans and followers in the last

million fans and followers in the last two years and the first thing I do when

two years and the first thing I do when

two years and the first thing I do when I wake up is I check social media to see

I wake up is I check social media to see

I wake up is I check social media to see what some of our creators are doing and

what some of our creators are doing and

what some of our creators are doing and at 5am it is amazing none of our

at 5am it is amazing none of our

at 5am it is amazing none of our creators but it is amazing how many

creators but it is amazing how many

creators but it is amazing how many digital celebrities are just rolling

digital celebrities are just rolling

digital celebrities are just rolling into bed at 5am they have been living

into bed at 5am they have been living

into bed at 5am they have been living the life that so many people wish and so

the life that so many people wish and so

the life that so many people wish and so it’s like it’s 5am and I’m finally going

it’s like it’s 5am and I’m finally going

it’s like it’s 5am and I’m finally going to sleep yeah and that’s that’s not a

to sleep yeah and that’s that’s not a

to sleep yeah and that’s that’s not a whistle sports creator whistle sports

whistle sports creator whistle sports

whistle sports creator whistle sports creators like indie cowie like it’s 5am

creators like indie cowie like it’s 5am

creators like indie cowie like it’s 5am here’s my coffee here’s my sketchbook

here’s my coffee here’s my sketchbook

here’s my coffee here’s my sketchbook I’m about to go spend three hours in the

I’m about to go spend three hours in the

I’m about to go spend three hours in the gym see Indy dreamed of being a pro

gym see Indy dreamed of being a pro

gym see Indy dreamed of being a pro soccer player she want to play for the

soccer player she want to play for the

soccer player she want to play for the World Cup she want to play for the

World Cup she want to play for the

World Cup she want to play for the national team and she was focused

national team and she was focused

national team and she was focused entirely on that but when she was a

entirely on that but when she was a

entirely on that but when she was a teenager she also realized that when she

teenager she also realized that when she

teenager she also realized that when she wasn’t there playing with team games

wasn’t there playing with team games

wasn’t there playing with team games with just her ball and just her sneakers

with just her ball and just her sneakers

with just her ball and just her sneakers and just herself she could get really

and just herself she could get really

and just herself she could get really really good at juggling and really

really good at juggling and really

really good at juggling and really really good at what’s called freestyle

really good at what’s called freestyle

really good at what’s called freestyle and indy realized that just by spending

and indy realized that just by spending

and indy realized that just by spending hours a day with her shoes her ball and

hours a day with her shoes her ball and

hours a day with her shoes her ball and herself she could do incredible things

herself she could do incredible things

herself she could do incredible things by the time she was a teenager she was

by the time she was a teenager she was

by the time she was a teenager she was playing halftime shows in stadiums full

playing halftime shows in stadiums full

playing halftime shows in stadiums full of people and by the time then he got to

of people and by the time then he got to

of people and by the time then he got to college and that moment happens that

college and that moment happens that

college and that moment happens that terrifies every college athlete she had

terrifies every college athlete she had

terrifies every college athlete she had a career-ending injury that meant two

a career-ending injury that meant two

a career-ending injury that meant two men she’d never make the national team

men she’d never make the national team

men she’d never make the national team she realized that just gave her more

she realized that just gave her more

she realized that just gave her more time for her ball her shoes and herself

time for her ball her shoes and herself

time for her ball her shoes and herself and now even though she’s like 22 she’s

and now even though she’s like 22 she’s

and now even though she’s like 22 she’s millions of followers across social

millions of followers across social

millions of followers across social media when Nike gives out sponsorships

media when Nike gives out sponsorships

media when Nike gives out sponsorships to people like LeBron James and name are

to people like LeBron James and name are

to people like LeBron James and name are they also sponsor into cowie when Disney

they also sponsor into cowie when Disney

they also sponsor into cowie when Disney decides that going to launch a movie

decides that going to launch a movie

decides that going to launch a movie they call Indy cowie and have her do

they call Indy cowie and have her do

they call Indy cowie and have her do videos and when we did an event with

videos and when we did an event with

videos and when we did an event with Michelle Obama and her F&V live campaign

Michelle Obama and her F&V live campaign

Michelle Obama and her F&V live campaign to try and inspire a couple thousand

to try and inspire a couple thousand

to try and inspire a couple thousand kids in Virginia Michelle Obama called

kids in Virginia Michelle Obama called

kids in Virginia Michelle Obama called Jessica Alba Gabrielle Union Jordin

Jessica Alba Gabrielle Union Jordin

Jessica Alba Gabrielle Union Jordin Sparks and indie and sky cowie to really

Sparks and indie and sky cowie to really

Sparks and indie and sky cowie to really motivate people because what indie

motivate people because what indie

motivate people because what indie proved as a teenager is it age is no

proved as a teenager is it age is no

proved as a teenager is it age is no obstacle to reaching millions maybe a

obstacle to reaching millions maybe a

obstacle to reaching millions maybe a good TED talk to if we’ve expanded a

good TED talk to if we’ve expanded a

good TED talk to if we’ve expanded a little bit the problem though is that

little bit the problem though is that

little bit the problem though is that TED talks are supposed to have some kind

TED talks are supposed to have some kind

TED talks are supposed to have some kind of connection to the person giving them

of connection to the person giving them

of connection to the person giving them so my own story a few months before

so my own story a few months before

so my own story a few months before Kenny got on the school board I was the

Kenny got on the school board I was the

Kenny got on the school board I was the student rep to that same school board

student rep to that same school board

student rep to that same school board and I was blessed as a child with

and I was blessed as a child with

and I was blessed as a child with neither athletic ability nor popularity

neither athletic ability nor popularity

neither athletic ability nor popularity which is a tremendous benefit because I

which is a tremendous benefit because I

which is a tremendous benefit because I had so much free time that others spent

had so much free time that others spent

had so much free time that others spent doing things like getting to go to

doing things like getting to go to

doing things like getting to go to parties or having soccer practice and so

parties or having soccer practice and so

parties or having soccer practice and so I would do things like before our school

I would do things like before our school

I would do things like before our school board meetings go through our schools

board meetings go through our schools

board meetings go through our schools affirmative action policy just like you

affirmative action policy just like you

affirmative action policy just like you could tell hiding go to many parties I

could tell hiding go to many parties I

could tell hiding go to many parties I own it and i’m looking through it and i

own it and i’m looking through it and i

own it and i’m looking through it and i noticed that the affirmative action

noticed that the affirmative action

noticed that the affirmative action policy in piscataway new jersey and I

policy in piscataway new jersey and I

policy in piscataway new jersey and I t 93-94 did not prevent the school from

t 93-94 did not prevent the school from

t 93-94 did not prevent the school from firing people for being gay and so I

firing people for being gay and so I

firing people for being gay and so I raised my hand in a meeting and I said

raised my hand in a meeting and I said

raised my hand in a meeting and I said you know I just noticed this policy it

you know I just noticed this policy it

you know I just noticed this policy it says that we could fire and I mentioned

says that we could fire and I mentioned

says that we could fire and I mentioned the name of one of our gay teachers and

the name of one of our gay teachers and

the name of one of our gay teachers and I’m sure it’s just an oversight so I’d

I’m sure it’s just an oversight so I’d

I’m sure it’s just an oversight so I’d like to motion to change the policy to

like to motion to change the policy to

like to motion to change the policy to outlaw discrimination based on sexual

outlaw discrimination based on sexual

outlaw discrimination based on sexual orientation easy enough no not easy

orientation easy enough no not easy

orientation easy enough no not easy enough oh my god literally I mean just

enough oh my god literally I mean just

enough oh my god literally I mean just you know that the amount of people that

you know that the amount of people that

you know that the amount of people that came out of the woodwork to say terrible

came out of the woodwork to say terrible

came out of the woodwork to say terrible things about me for wanting to do that

things about me for wanting to do that

things about me for wanting to do that they had turned the meeting in the next

they had turned the meeting in the next

they had turned the meeting in the next month they had this meeting and so

month they had this meeting and so

month they had this meeting and so getting comes and I’m sitting there up

getting comes and I’m sitting there up

getting comes and I’m sitting there up on stage at all of these folks were 40

on stage at all of these folks were 40

on stage at all of these folks were 40 like I am now and they’re having a

like I am now and they’re having a

like I am now and they’re having a debate and watching the crowd crowd full

debate and watching the crowd crowd full

debate and watching the crowd crowd full of supporters some people very mad at me

of supporters some people very mad at me

of supporters some people very mad at me in the back of the room was my Vietnam

in the back of the room was my Vietnam

in the back of the room was my Vietnam volunteering Republican voting Cub Scout

volunteering Republican voting Cub Scout

volunteering Republican voting Cub Scout leading motorcycle riding massive badass

leading motorcycle riding massive badass

leading motorcycle riding massive badass conservative father and I wondered what

conservative father and I wondered what

conservative father and I wondered what is dad thinking at this moment and what

is dad thinking at this moment and what

is dad thinking at this moment and what Dad was thinking was Brian doesn’t even

Dad was thinking was Brian doesn’t even

Dad was thinking was Brian doesn’t even know I’m gay and he’s willing to do this

know I’m gay and he’s willing to do this

know I’m gay and he’s willing to do this for me and maybe it’s okay to be more

for me and maybe it’s okay to be more

for me and maybe it’s okay to be more true to myself I didn’t know that I was

true to myself I didn’t know that I was

true to myself I didn’t know that I was standing up to help my father I just

standing up to help my father I just

standing up to help my father I just knew it 16 years old that somebody had

knew it 16 years old that somebody had

knew it 16 years old that somebody had to change this policy and so I asked why

to change this policy and so I asked why

to change this policy and so I asked why not me you go across all of these TED

not me you go across all of these TED

not me you go across all of these TED Talks that somebody will make it a great

Talks that somebody will make it a great

Talks that somebody will make it a great TED talks about how Kenny said somebody

TED talks about how Kenny said somebody

TED talks about how Kenny said somebody has to fire that principal why not me

has to fire that principal why not me

has to fire that principal why not me and Sydney said somebody has to save

and Sydney said somebody has to save

and Sydney said somebody has to save those lives why not me and Teddy said

those lives why not me and Teddy said

those lives why not me and Teddy said somebody’s going to write those speeches

somebody’s going to write those speeches

somebody’s going to write those speeches why not me and indie said somebody has

why not me and indie said somebody has

why not me and indie said somebody has to fill this massive gap in women’s

to fill this massive gap in women’s

to fill this massive gap in women’s freestyle why not me and you look at me

freestyle why not me and you look at me

freestyle why not me and you look at me and thought it’s just the right thing to

and thought it’s just the right thing to

and thought it’s just the right thing to do why doesn’t somebody do it and every

do why doesn’t somebody do it and every

do why doesn’t somebody do it and every one of those kids that every one of

one of those kids that every one of

one of those kids that every one of those stories was a teenager and they

those stories was a teenager and they

those stories was a teenager and they said age is not an obstacle to me doing

said age is not an obstacle to me doing

said age is not an obstacle to me doing it and so my question to you

it and so my question to you

it and so my question to you is why let age be an obstacle to any of

is why let age be an obstacle to any of

is why let age be an obstacle to any of you to do what’s really in your heart as

you to do what’s really in your heart as

you to do what’s really in your heart as well when you drive home today you click

well when you drive home today you click

well when you drive home today you click refresh you go into your next video

refresh you go into your next video

refresh you go into your next video wonder why not me why not me thank you

wonder why not me why not me thank you

wonder why not me why not me thank you [Applause]

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