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Lawyers as Peacemakers and Changemakers | J. Kim Wright | TEDxWashingtonSquare


hi everybody

hi everybody I’m an integrative lawyer now how many

I’m an integrative lawyer now how many

I’m an integrative lawyer now how many of you cringed when I said the word

of you cringed when I said the word

of you cringed when I said the word lawyer do did you think I was gonna come

lawyer do did you think I was gonna come

lawyer do did you think I was gonna come out here and tell you about somebody

out here and tell you about somebody

out here and tell you about somebody I’ve destroyed or dominated calling a

I’ve destroyed or dominated calling a

I’ve destroyed or dominated calling a lawyer is what you do in enlightenment

lawyer is what you do in enlightenment

lawyer is what you do in enlightenment fails right you want to beat somebody up

fails right you want to beat somebody up

fails right you want to beat somebody up well not exactly

well not exactly

well not exactly we’re gonna talk about that most of you

we’re gonna talk about that most of you

we’re gonna talk about that most of you are not lawyers and you’re wondering

are not lawyers and you’re wondering

are not lawyers and you’re wondering what does this got to do with me you

what does this got to do with me you

what does this got to do with me you know why is this lawyer talking to me

know why is this lawyer talking to me

know why is this lawyer talking to me but consider law is the DNA of society

but consider law is the DNA of society

but consider law is the DNA of society it’s the thread that runs through our

it’s the thread that runs through our

it’s the thread that runs through our lives and communities it’s how we have a

lives and communities it’s how we have a

lives and communities it’s how we have a structure for designing maintaining

structure for designing maintaining

structure for designing maintaining repairing and healing our relationships

repairing and healing our relationships

repairing and healing our relationships a lot of sets of rules for how we live

a lot of sets of rules for how we live

a lot of sets of rules for how we live together it tells you who you can marry

together it tells you who you can marry

together it tells you who you can marry when you’re not married anymore that

when you’re not married anymore that

when you’re not married anymore that that red light is a place to stop and

that red light is a place to stop and

that red light is a place to stop and that when you break an agreement

that when you break an agreement

that when you break an agreement sometimes it has consequences

sometimes it has consequences

sometimes it has consequences it reflects the values of society and

it reflects the values of society and

it reflects the values of society and defines our rights and responsibilities

defines our rights and responsibilities

defines our rights and responsibilities and if that doesn’t convince you that

and if that doesn’t convince you that

and if that doesn’t convince you that law matters more than half our

law matters more than half our

law matters more than half our politicians our lawyers so I’m a

politicians our lawyers so I’m a

politicians our lawyers so I’m a different kind of lawyer I will tell you

different kind of lawyer I will tell you

different kind of lawyer I will tell you about a movement in law there’s more

about a movement in law there’s more

about a movement in law there’s more conscious and compassionate but first

conscious and compassionate but first

conscious and compassionate but first you’re going to get a bit of my story I

you’re going to get a bit of my story I

you’re going to get a bit of my story I went to law school to be a change agent

went to law school to be a change agent

went to law school to be a change agent I was 29 years old I was raising a

I was 29 years old I was raising a

I was 29 years old I was raising a passel of children and a blended family

passel of children and a blended family

passel of children and a blended family was politically active and law school

was politically active and law school

was politically active and law school looked like a place where I could go to

looked like a place where I could go to

looked like a place where I could go to get the tools and the power to make a

get the tools and the power to make a

get the tools and the power to make a difference but then especially after law

difference but then especially after law

difference but then especially after law school I almost didn’t become a lawyer

school I almost didn’t become a lawyer

school I almost didn’t become a lawyer at all I had a lot of evidence that

at all I had a lot of evidence that

at all I had a lot of evidence that lawyers were jerks and if you’ve spent

lawyers were jerks and if you’ve spent

lawyers were jerks and if you’ve spent any time in the courthouse you’ll

any time in the courthouse you’ll

any time in the courthouse you’ll understand that I thought that lawyers

understand that I thought that lawyers

understand that I thought that lawyers were just unhappy and argumentative they

were just unhappy and argumentative they

were just unhappy and argumentative they spread misery and it’s true there are

spread misery and it’s true there are

spread misery and it’s true there are statistics that show that lawyers have

statistics that show that lawyers have

statistics that show that lawyers have very high rates of suicide

very high rates of suicide

very high rates of suicide stress and addiction and the typical

stress and addiction and the typical

stress and addiction and the typical lawyer lifestyle is not very sustainable

lawyer lifestyle is not very sustainable

lawyer lifestyle is not very sustainable so I went ahead and I graduated and just

so I went ahead and I graduated and just

so I went ahead and I graduated and just to show that I could I passed two bar

to show that I could I passed two bar

to show that I could I passed two bar exams and then I put my law degree and

exams and then I put my law degree and

exams and then I put my law degree and my bar membership in a closet and I

my bar membership in a closet and I

my bar membership in a closet and I ignored them for a few years

ignored them for a few years

ignored them for a few years instead I worked for nonprofits I

instead I worked for nonprofits I

instead I worked for nonprofits I immersed myself in personal development

immersed myself in personal development

immersed myself in personal development work I was all about interconnectedness

work I was all about interconnectedness

work I was all about interconnectedness I was going to be Miss peace love and

I was going to be Miss peace love and

I was going to be Miss peace love and understanding trying to do some good in

understanding trying to do some good in

understanding trying to do some good in the world if anybody asked about my law

the world if anybody asked about my law

the world if anybody asked about my law degree I was really happy to tell him

degree I was really happy to tell him

degree I was really happy to tell him how horrible lawyers are were and how

how horrible lawyers are were and how

how horrible lawyers are were and how the legal system was broken I complained

the legal system was broken I complained

the legal system was broken I complained a lot and I figured that I couldn’t make

a lot and I figured that I couldn’t make

a lot and I figured that I couldn’t make a difference so I might as well go away

a difference so I might as well go away

a difference so I might as well go away and do something else but few years went

and do something else but few years went

and do something else but few years went by and I was in one of those personal

by and I was in one of those personal

by and I was in one of those personal development seminars and a man stood up

development seminars and a man stood up

development seminars and a man stood up and he said his name was Forrest Baird

and he said his name was Forrest Baird

and he said his name was Forrest Baird and Forrest said that he was a lawyer

and Forrest said that he was a lawyer

and Forrest said that he was a lawyer and he focused on granting dignity to

and he focused on granting dignity to

and he focused on granting dignity to everyone in the process and as a divorce

everyone in the process and as a divorce

everyone in the process and as a divorce lawyer it was his goal that at the end

lawyer it was his goal that at the end

lawyer it was his goal that at the end of every divorce his client and the acts

of every divorce his client and the acts

of every divorce his client and the acts were able to be friends and raised their

were able to be friends and raised their

were able to be friends and raised their children together he also talked about

children together he also talked about

children together he also talked about how his personal transformation was the

how his personal transformation was the

how his personal transformation was the foundation of his law practice well you

foundation of his law practice well you

foundation of his law practice well you know those movies where everything goes

know those movies where everything goes

know those movies where everything goes from black Hawaii to color and the birds

from black Hawaii to color and the birds

from black Hawaii to color and the birds fly and sing and the you know everything

fly and sing and the you know everything

fly and sing and the you know everything is a bright and beautiful place that was

is a bright and beautiful place that was

is a bright and beautiful place that was that moment for me I realized that I

that moment for me I realized that I

that moment for me I realized that I could be that kind of lawyer I could be

could be that kind of lawyer I could be

could be that kind of lawyer I could be a lawyer who was a peacemaker and a

a lawyer who was a peacemaker and a

a lawyer who was a peacemaker and a healer so I wanted to do that a few

healer so I wanted to do that a few

healer so I wanted to do that a few months later I opened my own law

months later I opened my own law

months later I opened my own law practice I was in a small town in North

practice I was in a small town in North

practice I was in a small town in North Carolina and I still didn’t quite know

Carolina and I still didn’t quite know

Carolina and I still didn’t quite know how to do it so I started doing what I

how to do it so I started doing what I

how to do it so I started doing what I thought lawyers do I started going to

thought lawyers do I started going to

thought lawyers do I started going to court I was immersed in trials and so I

court I was immersed in trials and so I

court I was immersed in trials and so I was trying to grant dignity and I was

was trying to grant dignity and I was

was trying to grant dignity and I was trying to help my clients to be friends

trying to help my clients to be friends

trying to help my clients to be friends with her excess I was kind of muddling

with her excess I was kind of muddling

with her excess I was kind of muddling through but

through but

through but wasn’t easy now I must say trial was

wasn’t easy now I must say trial was

wasn’t easy now I must say trial was kind of a fun game because I mostly won

kind of a fun game because I mostly won

kind of a fun game because I mostly won and I enjoyed matching wits and coming

and I enjoyed matching wits and coming

and I enjoyed matching wits and coming up with creative strategies but from the

up with creative strategies but from the

up with creative strategies but from the client perspective it wasn’t so fun it

client perspective it wasn’t so fun it

client perspective it wasn’t so fun it really hurt my clients it hurt their

really hurt my clients it hurt their

really hurt my clients it hurt their children it didn’t resolve anything in

children it didn’t resolve anything in

children it didn’t resolve anything in fact it usually made it worse I had

fact it usually made it worse I had

fact it usually made it worse I had repeat clients who kept coming back

repeat clients who kept coming back

repeat clients who kept coming back because it just kept escalating so even

because it just kept escalating so even

because it just kept escalating so even winning was an awful experience for my

winning was an awful experience for my

winning was an awful experience for my clients one day a client came to me and

clients one day a client came to me and

clients one day a client came to me and she said if I ever have to go back to

she said if I ever have to go back to

she said if I ever have to go back to court I’m going to give him my children

court I’m going to give him my children

court I’m going to give him my children and she meant it it was it was just

and she meant it it was it was just

and she meant it it was it was just awful even though she won so at that

awful even though she won so at that

awful even though she won so at that point I might have quit but I’d met for

point I might have quit but I’d met for

point I might have quit but I’d met for us so I knew there was something else

us so I knew there was something else

us so I knew there was something else possible I just had to find the way for

possible I just had to find the way for

possible I just had to find the way for me to do it so I called forest for help

me to do it so I called forest for help

me to do it so I called forest for help and I even went to Chicago to see him

and I even went to Chicago to see him

and I even went to Chicago to see him and he told me a lot of things he said

and he told me a lot of things he said

and he told me a lot of things he said it was the mid-1990s at that point and

it was the mid-1990s at that point and

it was the mid-1990s at that point and there were a lot of new ideas emerging I

there were a lot of new ideas emerging I

there were a lot of new ideas emerging I met a man called Stu Webb who was

met a man called Stu Webb who was

met a man called Stu Webb who was inventing something called collaborative

inventing something called collaborative

inventing something called collaborative law now in collaborative law the

law now in collaborative law the

law now in collaborative law the divorcing couple the husband and wife

divorcing couple the husband and wife

divorcing couple the husband and wife and their two lawyers actually sign an

and their two lawyers actually sign an

and their two lawyers actually sign an agreement saying they’re not going to

agreement saying they’re not going to

agreement saying they’re not going to court they’re going to resolve it as a

court they’re going to resolve it as a

court they’re going to resolve it as a family moving forward with two houses

family moving forward with two houses

family moving forward with two houses instead of one and so they take a

instead of one and so they take a

instead of one and so they take a problem-solving approach at that time

problem-solving approach at that time

problem-solving approach at that time there was this new thing out called

there was this new thing out called

there was this new thing out called mediation and I found out about that

mediation and I found out about that

mediation and I found out about that where that involves a neutral

where that involves a neutral

where that involves a neutral facilitator who sits with people listens

facilitator who sits with people listens

facilitator who sits with people listens helps them talk through and come up with

helps them talk through and come up with

helps them talk through and come up with an agreement now those were really

an agreement now those were really

an agreement now those were really interesting but law school it taught me

interesting but law school it taught me

interesting but law school it taught me how to fight then taught me how to make

how to fight then taught me how to make

how to fight then taught me how to make peace and my don’t like personal

peace and my don’t like personal

peace and my don’t like personal transformation work have been about

transformation work have been about

transformation work have been about looking inward so how could I be a

looking inward so how could I be a

looking inward so how could I be a peacemaker and still be a lawyer so I

peacemaker and still be a lawyer so I

peacemaker and still be a lawyer so I went through a lot of trial and error

went through a lot of trial and error

went through a lot of trial and error some of the things I tried worked some

some of the things I tried worked some

some of the things I tried worked some didn’t started calling myself

didn’t started calling myself

didn’t started calling myself lawyer peace maker and I reclaimed

lawyer peace maker and I reclaimed

lawyer peace maker and I reclaimed counselor at law as my title I hired a

counselor at law as my title I hired a

counselor at law as my title I hired a social worker and a counselor to come in

social worker and a counselor to come in

social worker and a counselor to come in and work with my clients on their

and work with my clients on their

and work with my clients on their emotional issues and I went to court

emotional issues and I went to court

emotional issues and I went to court less and less until I didn’t go to court

less and less until I didn’t go to court

less and less until I didn’t go to court at all

at all

at all I even function my office I was the

I even function my office I was the

I even function my office I was the weirdest lawyer in my town and probably

weirdest lawyer in my town and probably

weirdest lawyer in my town and probably a lot of other towns too one day I went

a lot of other towns too one day I went

a lot of other towns too one day I went to a Bar Association meeting it was one

to a Bar Association meeting it was one

to a Bar Association meeting it was one of those all-day meetings and we have

of those all-day meetings and we have

of those all-day meetings and we have sat in groups of eight at lunch and and

sat in groups of eight at lunch and and

sat in groups of eight at lunch and and we were told you know to introduce

we were told you know to introduce

we were told you know to introduce ourselves so I introduced myself as a

ourselves so I introduced myself as a

ourselves so I introduced myself as a lawyer who was working on peacemaking

lawyer who was working on peacemaking

lawyer who was working on peacemaking and healing seven people suddenly saw

and healing seven people suddenly saw

and healing seven people suddenly saw someone across the room and they left me

someone across the room and they left me

someone across the room and they left me sitting there by myself so I knew that I

sitting there by myself so I knew that I

sitting there by myself so I knew that I needed to find my tribe I needed to find

needed to find my tribe I needed to find

needed to find my tribe I needed to find some allies because this was not

some allies because this was not

some allies because this was not something I was going to be able to do a

something I was going to be able to do a

something I was going to be able to do a lot alone a colleague told me about an

lot alone a colleague told me about an

lot alone a colleague told me about an organization called the international

organization called the international

organization called the international alliance of holistic lawyers ie HDL for

alliance of holistic lawyers ie HDL for

alliance of holistic lawyers ie HDL for short and I decided to go to their next

short and I decided to go to their next

short and I decided to go to their next conference now you know I’d been doing a

conference now you know I’d been doing a

conference now you know I’d been doing a lot of cool stuff I thought it was

lot of cool stuff I thought it was

lot of cool stuff I thought it was really cutting edge and I was gonna go I

really cutting edge and I was gonna go I

really cutting edge and I was gonna go I was gonna show him how it was done at

was gonna show him how it was done at

was gonna show him how it was done at the IHL conference and I’d you know I’d

the IHL conference and I’d you know I’d

the IHL conference and I’d you know I’d be really impressive and what I really

be really impressive and what I really

be really impressive and what I really found out was how conventional I was

found out was how conventional I was

found out was how conventional I was they were a pretty diverse group of

they were a pretty diverse group of

they were a pretty diverse group of lawyers in that sense of they were law

lawyers in that sense of they were law

lawyers in that sense of they were law professors who were innovative

professors who were innovative

professors who were innovative there were collaborative lawyers there

there were collaborative lawyers there

there were collaborative lawyers there there were energy healers there was one

there were energy healers there was one

there were energy healers there was one lawyer who was using yoga to resolve

lawyer who was using yoga to resolve

lawyer who was using yoga to resolve conflict with his clients in his office

conflict with his clients in his office

conflict with his clients in his office they meditated together they sang and

they meditated together they sang and

they meditated together they sang and they held hands it was 1999 I was from a

they held hands it was 1999 I was from a

they held hands it was 1999 I was from a small town in North Carolina and at that

small town in North Carolina and at that

small town in North Carolina and at that point my life was pretty narrow and they

point my life was pretty narrow and they

point my life was pretty narrow and they were pretty weird some about him they

were pretty weird some about him they

were pretty weird some about him they were so outside the box that they really

were so outside the box that they really

were so outside the box that they really entered a new paradigm they were happy

entered a new paradigm they were happy

entered a new paradigm they were happy and they were self expressed and full

and they were self expressed and full

and they were self expressed and full possibility I wanted what they had so I

possibility I wanted what they had so I

possibility I wanted what they had so I joined the organization beginning

joined the organization beginning

joined the organization beginning community gives us courage so after I

community gives us courage so after I

community gives us courage so after I met them I got really bolder I became a

met them I got really bolder I became a

met them I got really bolder I became a collaborative lawyer became a mediator

collaborative lawyer became a mediator

collaborative lawyer became a mediator my divorce clients did become friends I

my divorce clients did become friends I

my divorce clients did become friends I learned a lot about restorative justice

learned a lot about restorative justice

learned a lot about restorative justice and I was lucky enough to be able to

and I was lucky enough to be able to

and I was lucky enough to be able to work on some cases where I helped the

work on some cases where I helped the

work on some cases where I helped the families of murder victims prepare to

families of murder victims prepare to

families of murder victims prepare to meet the person who had killed their

meet the person who had killed their

meet the person who had killed their loved one and I worked with the one who

loved one and I worked with the one who

loved one and I worked with the one who had killed that loved one to help them

had killed that loved one to help them

had killed that loved one to help them learn how to communicate their remorse

learn how to communicate their remorse

learn how to communicate their remorse and apologize and to bring those people

and apologize and to bring those people

and apologize and to bring those people face to face

face to face

face to face I loved my law practice and my clients

I loved my law practice and my clients

I loved my law practice and my clients you know became the hugging lawyer it

you know became the hugging lawyer it

you know became the hugging lawyer it was a transformational healing work IFAs

was a transformational healing work IFAs

was a transformational healing work IFAs Illit ated some of life’s most intimate

Illit ated some of life’s most intimate

Illit ated some of life’s most intimate moments I created and dissolved or

moments I created and dissolved or

moments I created and dissolved or helped create and dissolve important

helped create and dissolve important

helped create and dissolve important relationships I held a lot of hands I

relationships I held a lot of hands I

relationships I held a lot of hands I listened to a lot of heartbreak I

listened to a lot of heartbreak I

listened to a lot of heartbreak I celebrated milestones the skills that I

celebrated milestones the skills that I

celebrated milestones the skills that I had learned in my personal

had learned in my personal

had learned in my personal transformation work were put to work in

transformation work were put to work in

transformation work were put to work in my law practice helping clients do their

my law practice helping clients do their

my law practice helping clients do their own transformational work so as I

own transformational work so as I

own transformational work so as I continue to stretch myself and I

continue to stretch myself and I

continue to stretch myself and I sometimes say that I haven’t seen my

sometimes say that I haven’t seen my

sometimes say that I haven’t seen my comfort zone in a long time I began to

comfort zone in a long time I began to

comfort zone in a long time I began to consider a bigger role for me could I go

consider a bigger role for me could I go

consider a bigger role for me could I go from small-town lawyer to a leader in

from small-town lawyer to a leader in

from small-town lawyer to a leader in the broader world so I thought about

the broader world so I thought about

the broader world so I thought about what Forest had done for me I thought

what Forest had done for me I thought

what Forest had done for me I thought about how I’d gain courage from knowing

about how I’d gain courage from knowing

about how I’d gain courage from knowing that I wasn’t alone anymore

that I wasn’t alone anymore

that I wasn’t alone anymore and I sensed there were a lot of others

and I sensed there were a lot of others

and I sensed there were a lot of others out there I kept running into people and

out there I kept running into people and

out there I kept running into people and and hearing from people and I knew that

and hearing from people and I knew that

and hearing from people and I knew that there was a need for support and

there was a need for support and

there was a need for support and community so I decided that my mission

community so I decided that my mission

community so I decided that my mission was going to be to seek out those

was going to be to seek out those

was going to be to seek out those lawyers who were bringing peacemaking

lawyers who were bringing peacemaking

lawyers who were bringing peacemaking and healing to law and to support them

and healing to law and to support them

and healing to law and to support them and nurture the development of a new

and nurture the development of a new

and nurture the development of a new legal system in 2008 I gave up my house

legal system in 2008 I gave up my house

legal system in 2008 I gave up my house in my office and I became a nomad to

in my office and I became a nomad to

in my office and I became a nomad to travel the world in support of my

travel the world in support of my

travel the world in support of my mission

mission

mission I began by videotaping lawyers from my

I began by videotaping lawyers from my

I began by videotaping lawyers from my website cutting-edge law and after I had

website cutting-edge law and after I had

website cutting-edge law and after I had some videos up the ABA editor called me

some videos up the ABA editor called me

some videos up the ABA editor called me up and said wow we knew I was moving in

up and said wow we knew I was moving in

up and said wow we knew I was moving in this direction but we didn’t know there

this direction but we didn’t know there

this direction but we didn’t know there were this many people would you be

were this many people would you be

were this many people would you be willing to write a book well of course I

willing to write a book well of course I

willing to write a book well of course I said yes

said yes

said yes the ABA has about 400,000 lawyer members

the ABA has about 400,000 lawyer members

the ABA has about 400,000 lawyer members it’s one of if not the largest

it’s one of if not the largest

it’s one of if not the largest mainstream legal organization in the

mainstream legal organization in the

mainstream legal organization in the world so I wrote the book and it was

world so I wrote the book and it was

world so I wrote the book and it was called lawyers as peacemakers and it was

called lawyers as peacemakers and it was

called lawyers as peacemakers and it was an immediate bestseller so then I

an immediate bestseller so then I

an immediate bestseller so then I realized we aren’t weird lawyers we’re

realized we aren’t weird lawyers we’re

realized we aren’t weird lawyers we’re pioneers and the book opened a lot of

pioneers and the book opened a lot of

pioneers and the book opened a lot of doors for me I was able to speak to law

doors for me I was able to speak to law

doors for me I was able to speak to law schools and and lost societies and Bar

schools and and lost societies and Bar

schools and and lost societies and Bar Association’s around the world so these

Association’s around the world so these

Association’s around the world so these days I kind of style myself as a coach

days I kind of style myself as a coach

days I kind of style myself as a coach trainer and author but what I really am

trainer and author but what I really am

trainer and author but what I really am as a connector of lawyers I’ve been

as a connector of lawyers I’ve been

as a connector of lawyers I’ve been around the world several times usually I

around the world several times usually I

around the world several times usually I go twice a year all the way around and

go twice a year all the way around and

go twice a year all the way around and I’ve learned that evolution is happening

I’ve learned that evolution is happening

I’ve learned that evolution is happening everywhere I encounter a lot of lawyers

everywhere I encounter a lot of lawyers

everywhere I encounter a lot of lawyers every day a new email Skype you know

every day a new email Skype you know

every day a new email Skype you know several times a week synchronistically

several times a week synchronistically

several times a week synchronistically I’ll sit next to somebody on an airplane

I’ll sit next to somebody on an airplane

I’ll sit next to somebody on an airplane and it’ll be a lawyer and lawyers come

and it’ll be a lawyer and lawyers come

and it’ll be a lawyer and lawyers come up to me and they and they say thought I

up to me and they and they say thought I

up to me and they and they say thought I was alone and I bring them into the fold

was alone and I bring them into the fold

was alone and I bring them into the fold now there are thousands of us and we

now there are thousands of us and we

now there are thousands of us and we call ourselves integrative lawyers and I

call ourselves integrative lawyers and I

call ourselves integrative lawyers and I am one of the global leaders in this

am one of the global leaders in this

am one of the global leaders in this integrative law movement to transform

integrative law movement to transform

integrative law movement to transform law and the ABA asked me to write a

law and the ABA asked me to write a

law and the ABA asked me to write a second book which will be out any day

second book which will be out any day

second book which will be out any day now if you’re looking for an integrative

now if you’re looking for an integrative

now if you’re looking for an integrative lawyer you might have to ask around to

lawyer you might have to ask around to

lawyer you might have to ask around to find one because we’re not as visible as

find one because we’re not as visible as

find one because we’re not as visible as the lawyers you see in courtroom dramas

the lawyers you see in courtroom dramas

the lawyers you see in courtroom dramas there’s still a lot of lawyers who are

there’s still a lot of lawyers who are

there’s still a lot of lawyers who are in traditional practices thinking that

in traditional practices thinking that

in traditional practices thinking that being a jerk is the way to go and

being a jerk is the way to go and

being a jerk is the way to go and wanting more in their lives but change

wanting more in their lives but change

wanting more in their lives but change is happening there’s a new consciousness

is happening there’s a new consciousness

is happening there’s a new consciousness that’s emerging in the world and lawyers

that’s emerging in the world and lawyers

that’s emerging in the world and lawyers are part of it so for example

are part of it so for example

are part of it so for example there’s a lot of mindfulness training

there’s a lot of mindfulness training

there’s a lot of mindfulness training going on in law schools most law schools

going on in law schools most law schools

going on in law schools most law schools a lot of our associations have a

a lot of our associations have a

a lot of our associations have a mindfulness program now we say it’s for

mindfulness program now we say it’s for

mindfulness program now we say it’s for stress but you know it’s a start

stress but you know it’s a start

stress but you know it’s a start lawyers are learning neuroscience

lawyers are learning neuroscience

lawyers are learning neuroscience emotional intelligence compassion and

emotional intelligence compassion and

emotional intelligence compassion and empathy and we’re stepping out of the

empathy and we’re stepping out of the

empathy and we’re stepping out of the old paradigm collaborative law is now

old paradigm collaborative law is now

old paradigm collaborative law is now multidisciplinary it’s called

multidisciplinary it’s called

multidisciplinary it’s called collaborative practice you may know

collaborative practice you may know

collaborative practice you may know about mediation and restorative justice

about mediation and restorative justice

about mediation and restorative justice in your own community other models that

in your own community other models that

in your own community other models that you may not have heard of that are that

you may not have heard of that are that

you may not have heard of that are that are growing include conscious contracts

are growing include conscious contracts

are growing include conscious contracts for businesses earth jurisprudence that

for businesses earth jurisprudence that

for businesses earth jurisprudence that reflects that we are all interconnected

reflects that we are all interconnected

reflects that we are all interconnected with Mother Earth and Nature has rights

with Mother Earth and Nature has rights

with Mother Earth and Nature has rights there’s sharing law for the sharing

there’s sharing law for the sharing

there’s sharing law for the sharing economy drug treatment courts focus on

economy drug treatment courts focus on

economy drug treatment courts focus on helping people get off drugs rather than

helping people get off drugs rather than

helping people get off drugs rather than sending them to prison there’s a project

sending them to prison there’s a project

sending them to prison there’s a project for integrating spirituality law and

for integrating spirituality law and

for integrating spirituality law and politics

politics

politics we share values like compassion

we share values like compassion

we share values like compassion interconnectedness peace and love and

interconnectedness peace and love and

interconnectedness peace and love and yes sometimes we use the l word I travel

yes sometimes we use the l word I travel

yes sometimes we use the l word I travel around the world I tell the stories of

around the world I tell the stories of

around the world I tell the stories of lawyers who are transforming ourselves

lawyers who are transforming ourselves

lawyers who are transforming ourselves and incorporating our transformation in

and incorporating our transformation in

and incorporating our transformation in the legal profession we’re creating a

the legal profession we’re creating a

the legal profession we’re creating a new legal system for a new more

new legal system for a new more

new legal system for a new more integrative conscious society there are

integrative conscious society there are

integrative conscious society there are over a million lawyers in the u.s. twice

over a million lawyers in the u.s. twice

over a million lawyers in the u.s. twice that internationally what if all lawyers

that internationally what if all lawyers

that internationally what if all lawyers were peacemakers problem solvers and

were peacemakers problem solvers and

were peacemakers problem solvers and healers of conflicts what if we were all

healers of conflicts what if we were all

healers of conflicts what if we were all change makers thank you

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