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LA FÓRMULA PARA EL EQUILIBRIO | Lilian Simbaqueba | TEDxBogotaMujeres


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I have 22 years in the company and if

that really made me very happy but

when paula put me in the task of

I shared on a roof I said this is a

dream come true but I do not want

share about what I always do

because I do not think it’s

sufficiently deep

then between that methodology

find what it was that I could

share a question and that is what it is

what you feel really proud and

I answered without saying that I am

able to be a businesswoman

successful and yet never stop

side the focus on my family in my friends

in the spiritual

then it would be balanced to do many

things about that I have felt very proud

and they thought it was nice that soon

will share about that and then I wanted to

call this talk maybe for what I

spend a lot of mathematics the

mikel formula librio in life and not

it’s easy to talk about that

especially when I wanted to eat the world

and now it shows that I ate it then

talk about balance as Wednesday

even a schoolmate who

wrote sympathetic phrases in the

facebook wrote once I like your

emotional balance writings

pity that I knew you was not for me

but I was taking personal

my god even the daughter paula that

unworthy this is no longer the law

right now I’m going to say go then

can Danish has thought was and formulated

I’m going to do it with five variables

I also like to cook then my

recipe are going to be five ingredients

while here he is going to throw these

five ingredients with a lot of love and

I hope that you are your

own ingredients and this inspires us

because that’s how it inspired me in

this life and my first ingredient to

regret in Germany is counted

starting with port and is that the

fat this and it’s prioritize

if one has clear priorities in

your life then it will be easy to follow

the road was going to make decisions

easily discount

that I often did not have so clear

The priorities

for example I lasted 15 years to be able

have children and new bigger title

and more exciting than the first time

I could say it was mom and without

However, miss many presentations

of my son’s school and teachers

super important professionals

presidents of banks vice presidents and

great executives were not lacking

presentations of your children and then

from them I learned that you have to have

clear priorities and you can drop the

world there are things in which one has to

be has to attend for that too

I do not understand my employees always

today the possibility that he will go when

there are family things that can not be postponed and that

they are important

even the spirits in fence after

God will provide

but as well as respect for the spaces of

my family also respect the

spaces for my friends a coffee with

someone who needs in any

moment

there I am the Colombians we have a

have many friends but also to

about committing ourselves and then not

we fulfill and when one does not comply it breaks

with something very important and it is with the

trust then there will be many friends

but few where you can not count

I hope we are able to

be friends with whom others can

tell even I would like to illustrate

Is this point of prioritization?

with a story there was once a woman

very poor that he had his son in his arms and

it passed through the front of a cave and the

cave opened and many appeared

treasures and then entered excited and

he heard a voice said you can take what

what you want but do not forget what

main already left the baby aside and

began to take all the treasures

when he saw that the door was closing

he ran away

the door closed and he left his son

in and was unhappy for all his life

that teaching to me is very strong not

let’s forget the main thing the second

the second secret ingredient that I have

had and has found is to perceive

we must be more sensitive to how much we

surrounds

the environment a lot of talk tolerate

I do not like the word tolerance

because tolerance means guanta g

and suddenly if one is not enough

bust instead when one perceives 7

and it moves

then he is able to have compassion

on the other and act accordingly

I’ll give you an example many

years when my company was still

little

I dreamed one night that three of my

employees become pregnant and that

entails that was a lot of chaos in my

company

the next day I called them and I told them and

one lilian told me effectively I

I decided to be a single mother

I felt that I should support the

I invited to dinner the felicité was

complex knew that if it did not impact the

company because to me consultant

main but at that time she

I needed was love and support and what

He received

it’s more like me to complete that

gossip the other two also had

children said that I do not just do

predictions of days but also of

another implicit night a friend who

I really want that it also lasted a lot

to have children and we are almost from

our children are also almost from

his mom was very sick in another

city and he had to fly to go take care of her

and then I had neglected a little the

child and has promised to look at the day of

boy took flight to bogota and we are going to

celebrate but that day she got up

and a dead bird on the floor and she

he felt that that was a message

he called me and said lilian I’m not going to

fly but I promised the child that

I was going to celebrate what you celebrate with the

clear tour we had delicious all the

day and at the end of that day he died his

mom and she was there because she could

perceive and not only perceived but

He paid attention because how many times do we have

hunches and we are not able to

listen to them

for me there is an inner guide that

one always has and that inner help

it’s easier to connect with her

when one achieves prayer spaces

the terms of contemplation or of

inner silence and then you can have

more those perceptions that help you in

his life

the third ingredient that I want them

share called it integrate today

we have the cell phone that has the camera

has the video has the audio has the

possibility to be emails and to call and

do many things

the world has been integrating and

then it facilitates the life of it

way if we integrate

activities we can be much more

efficient

in my case I have to travel a lot

so I do something a fellow

of the company says that misleading

I go to work trips and what

we complement with the family in

vacation or my mom who is pensioned

and can accompany me accompanied a lot

of these trips then I’m

sharing with my mom

we are knowing we are working myself

can not be very creative in that way

to share as well as you can not

share at work experiences

Personal sometimes I take my son

agreement

my mom loved to take us to day

the teacher the classes and I was happy

we already knew that we had to stay

There Calladitas Perez said to be in

the work of my beautiful mom even

in the company I set up spaces so that

can bring their children

that’s beautiful but also the other way around

without a weekend

I have a space people benefit to

read fast itself is to dispatch some

tasks and then one let’s say you have a

little bit of mixture that makes it a lot

more efficient and achieve a lot with little

my fourth ingredient is to receive stop

we have to receive and in Colombia we

all there is that pity not afp na

ask and you will be given the discount here

a nice guy when he was studying in

Germany

some very important day for the

children that is the day nicolaus nikolaos

It’s like Santa Claus injures 5

December arrives and gifts to the

children who behave well and a little

I scold those who behaved badly and

has an assistant that is the item is the

sir they ran shelter where

I lived with as a student I had many

simple children to give them the gifts

and he told me look I would like to put a figure

of an angel and

you why then the king does not give to

children and the little angel the girls may

ready I dressed nice hill I could

when it came they call me nicolaus

you look so beautiful and I have no pity

which what a shame thank you it says that

knows how to receive a compliment

we are going to start receiving nothing

I invite you to receive your day all

the mornings with a thanks for this

new opportunity that I have my fifth

last but equal ingredient

powerful is to simplify you have to be

singles only achieved a lot because

I do not complicate that I’m going to dress

I’m going to eat but the simpler it is

better my husband taught me to be

minimalist

then the less you have in the house

– airs we fill with checks that

they just have no dust and and the truth is not

they are good for nothing

then the simpler we are

much better this morning casually

I read a message that half of per bach

pepe mujica that said if one is not

able to be happy with little can not be

neither happy with much the video 15

years in prison and that helped him

be simple to simplify and has been a

great great man

the president of uruguay for many

years then let’s go lighter

let’s be light in everything I even remembered

I a friend the German who said the

fastest prayer

The eye to the easy sky can not

so far simple because it is that it is

for that we make it difficult to prioritize

perceive integrate receive and simplify

these are the five elements that I have

in my formula

I invite you to look for your elements

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