and relationships can be incredibly tough at times frustrating and even
tough at times frustrating and even
tough at times frustrating and even painful we can actually find the person
painful we can actually find the person
painful we can actually find the person that we’re most supposed to love the
that we’re most supposed to love the
that we’re most supposed to love the most annoying person incredibly
most annoying person incredibly
most annoying person incredibly frustrating and even at time you can’t
frustrating and even at time you can’t
frustrating and even at time you can’t stand to be in the same room as that
stand to be in the same room as that
stand to be in the same room as that other person but if we have a huge
other person but if we have a huge
other person but if we have a huge amount of joy fuckin pleasure a company
amount of joy fuckin pleasure a company
amount of joy fuckin pleasure a company relationship those connections these
relationship those connections these
relationship those connections these bridges that we build with other people
bridges that we build with other people
bridges that we build with other people whether that’s our partners our family
whether that’s our partners our family
whether that’s our partners our family our friends or even our work colleagues
our friends or even our work colleagues
our friends or even our work colleagues and they bring us comfort and support in
and they bring us comfort and support in
and they bring us comfort and support in good times and bad and when they were
good times and bad and when they were
good times and bad and when they were these bridges have been credibly
these bridges have been credibly
these bridges have been credibly important for us now pleased to say that
important for us now pleased to say that
important for us now pleased to say that the evidence base is overwhelming with
the evidence base is overwhelming with
the evidence base is overwhelming with good quality relationships of good for
good quality relationships of good for
good quality relationships of good for our health and our well-being one
our health and our well-being one
our health and our well-being one research founder and poor quality
research founder and poor quality
research founder and poor quality relationships with the equipment that’s
relationships with the equipment that’s
relationships with the equipment that’s making 15 cigarettes a day so when they
making 15 cigarettes a day so when they
making 15 cigarettes a day so when they do they’re really good for us but answer
do they’re really good for us but answer
do they’re really good for us but answer as a collective of people in the room
as a collective of people in the room
as a collective of people in the room today we actually lived through the
today we actually lived through the
today we actually lived through the greatest revolution in our relationship
greatest revolution in our relationship
greatest revolution in our relationship ever
ever
ever when we find organizing and our
when we find organizing and our
when we find organizing and our relationships have been for profound set
relationships have been for profound set
relationships have been for profound set of changes since the nineteen sixties
of changes since the nineteen sixties
of changes since the nineteen sixties and they strangers have been social
and they strangers have been social
and they strangers have been social political economic and technological and
political economic and technological and
political economic and technological and we’ve disrupted the way we find
we’ve disrupted the way we find
we’ve disrupted the way we find organizing and our relationships and
organizing and our relationships and
organizing and our relationships and today people are charting new courses
today people are charting new courses
today people are charting new courses for their relationships in our local
for their relationships in our local
for their relationships in our local society are often without a roadmap to
society are often without a roadmap to
society are often without a roadmap to guide them and how they build these
guide them and how they build these
guide them and how they build these bridges with other people now I’m the
bridges with other people now I’m the
bridges with other people now I’m the chief executive of relates and you might
chief executive of relates and you might
chief executive of relates and you might have some assumptions about my
have some assumptions about my
have some assumptions about my organization that we only work with
organization that we only work with
organization that we only work with married couples that we only work with
married couples that we only work with
married couples that we only work with heterosexual couples and the only work
heterosexual couples and the only work
heterosexual couples and the only work with couples for children but in fact
with couples for children but in fact
with couples for children but in fact we’ve actually been at the forefront of
we’ve actually been at the forefront of
we’ve actually been at the forefront of this relationship revolution we’ve seen
this relationship revolution we’ve seen
this relationship revolution we’ve seen firsthand in the cat’s in brief how
firsthand in the cat’s in brief how
firsthand in the cat’s in brief how these changes have impacted on
these changes have impacted on
these changes have impacted on individuals couples families know
individuals couples families know
individuals couples families know and our cat certain we have 1500 of them
and our cat certain we have 1500 of them
and our cat certain we have 1500 of them across the country have been very much
across the country have been very much
across the country have been very much the forefront of this revolution
the forefront of this revolution
the forefront of this revolution well that’s challenges that have always
well that’s challenges that have always
well that’s challenges that have always been there like money worries were
been there like money worries were
been there like money worries were having an affair
having an affair
having an affair through to new challenges that our
through to new challenges that our
through to new challenges that our founders have never expected to see such
founders have never expected to see such
founders have never expected to see such as addiction online extreme pornography
as addiction online extreme pornography
as addiction online extreme pornography or digital infidelity we have an affair
or digital infidelity we have an affair
or digital infidelity we have an affair to somebody you can actually be in the
to somebody you can actually be in the
to somebody you can actually be in the same rhythm and needs to place huge
same rhythm and needs to place huge
same rhythm and needs to place huge trades on these important bridges and
trades on these important bridges and
trades on these important bridges and it’s our cats as you’ve seen that
it’s our cats as you’ve seen that
it’s our cats as you’ve seen that firsthand now my talk today had been
firsthand now my talk today had been
firsthand now my talk today had been fooled by that experience over the past
fooled by that experience over the past
fooled by that experience over the past seventy nine years and we’d not be
seventy nine years and we’d not be
seventy nine years and we’d not be immune to those changes my organization
immune to those changes my organization
immune to those changes my organization set up in 1938 I think we could have
set up in 1938 I think we could have
set up in 1938 I think we could have imagined that the organization today
imagined that the organization today
imagined that the organization today will be led by an openly gay
will be led by an openly gay
will be led by an openly gay 30-something divorcee
30-something divorcee
30-something divorcee certainly not the National Merit
certainly not the National Merit
certainly not the National Merit guidance Council so we’re trying to
guidance Council so we’re trying to
guidance Council so we’re trying to think about how we as an organization
think about how we as an organization
think about how we as an organization respond in this new world what
respond in this new world what
respond in this new world what information support people might want to
information support people might want to
information support people might want to guide that as they build those bridges
guide that as they build those bridges
guide that as they build those bridges and today I’m going to talk about these
and today I’m going to talk about these
and today I’m going to talk about these preparing social economic political and
preparing social economic political and
preparing social economic political and technological changes how do you society
technological changes how do you society
technological changes how do you society respond to them and how his individuals
respond to them and how his individuals
respond to them and how his individuals families and a society can do more to
families and a society can do more to
families and a society can do more to nurture those important types of bridges
nurture those important types of bridges
nurture those important types of bridges that cs3 the bike course so what have we
that cs3 the bike course so what have we
that cs3 the bike course so what have we seen well let’s start off with social
seen well let’s start off with social
seen well let’s start off with social change we’ve seen a real shift since the
change we’ve seen a real shift since the
change we’ve seen a real shift since the 1950s most of us in the room today in
1950s most of us in the room today in
1950s most of us in the room today in the 1950s would have been married and we
the 1950s would have been married and we
the 1950s would have been married and we would be married at the average age of
would be married at the average age of
would be married at the average age of 21 to think about that for a second
21 to think about that for a second
21 to think about that for a second today marriage rates are declining
today marriage rates are declining
today marriage rates are declining significantly and the fastest rise in
significantly and the fastest rise in
significantly and the fastest rise in demography is cohabiting couples
demography is cohabiting couples
demography is cohabiting couples followed by lone parent households and
followed by lone parent households and
followed by lone parent households and today less than half of us are married
today less than half of us are married
today less than half of us are married whereas in the 1950s the vast majority
whereas in the 1950s the vast majority
whereas in the 1950s the vast majority us would have been married we’re having
us would have been married we’re having
us would have been married we’re having children married and buying houses much
children married and buying houses much
children married and buying houses much later than previous innovations the
later than previous innovations the
later than previous innovations the 1950s and also parenting differently
1950s and also parenting differently
1950s and also parenting differently half of children by the time they
half of children by the time they
half of children by the time they succeed will no longer live with both
succeed will no longer live with both
succeed will no longer live with both birth parents in the UK today that’s a
birth parents in the UK today that’s a
birth parents in the UK today that’s a little shit what would happen in the
little shit what would happen in the
little shit what would happen in the 1950s now I don’t think no judgment
1950s now I don’t think no judgment
1950s now I don’t think no judgment about these strangers that we’ve seen in
about these strangers that we’ve seen in
about these strangers that we’ve seen in our society and I think actually much to
our society and I think actually much to
our society and I think actually much to celebrate in a liberal society about how
celebrate in a liberal society about how
celebrate in a liberal society about how to organize upend our relationships but
to organize upend our relationships but
to organize upend our relationships but I don’t apply techniques you very
I don’t apply techniques you very
I don’t apply techniques you very wonderful book for the way never work
wonderful book for the way never work
wonderful book for the way never work which is American families and the
which is American families and the
which is American families and the nostalgia track she argues that today we
nostalgia track she argues that today we
nostalgia track she argues that today we can form into type of romanticizes in
can form into type of romanticizes in
can form into type of romanticizes in the palace and creates a false
the palace and creates a false
the palace and creates a false perception that somehow Hagi’s were
perception that somehow Hagi’s were
perception that somehow Hagi’s were perfect into the past until liberalism
perfect into the past until liberalism
perfect into the past until liberalism and individualism came along and changed
and individualism came along and changed
and individualism came along and changed and turned those wonderful families into
and turned those wonderful families into
and turned those wonderful families into dysfunctional families because of that
dysfunctional families because of that
dysfunctional families because of that rise in business but in that golden age
rise in business but in that golden age
rise in business but in that golden age of marriage in the 1950s problems such
of marriage in the 1950s problems such
of marriage in the 1950s problems such as domestic abuse marital rape were
as domestic abuse marital rape were
as domestic abuse marital rape were never spoken about but we even created a
never spoken about but we even created a
never spoken about but we even created a nice little suburban erases well we gave
nice little suburban erases well we gave
nice little suburban erases well we gave medications women to keep them happy at
medications women to keep them happy at
medications women to keep them happy at home because as soon as we’re married or
home because as soon as we’re married or
home because as soon as we’re married or have children you’re expected to meet
have children you’re expected to meet
have children you’re expected to meet the workplace so much has changed from
the workplace so much has changed from
the workplace so much has changed from today we become and much more
today we become and much more
today we become and much more opportunities in our society about how
opportunities in our society about how
opportunities in our society about how we organize our relationships and what’s
we organize our relationships and what’s
we organize our relationships and what’s also shit dudes we have much great
also shit dudes we have much great
also shit dudes we have much great expectations of equality in each other
expectations of equality in each other
expectations of equality in each other in a relationship today and it’s also
in a relationship today and it’s also
in a relationship today and it’s also much greater diversity and acceptance of
much greater diversity and acceptance of
much greater diversity and acceptance of hanging organizer relationships whether
hanging organizer relationships whether
hanging organizer relationships whether that same-sex couples if they can get
that same-sex couples if they can get
that same-sex couples if they can get married which is wonderful whether you
married which is wonderful whether you
married which is wonderful whether you make a choice to live together apart
make a choice to live together apart
make a choice to live together apart couples who choose not to have children
couples who choose not to have children
couples who choose not to have children or people who make a conscious choice to
or people who make a conscious choice to
or people who make a conscious choice to be single so there’s more choice more
be single so there’s more choice more
be single so there’s more choice more options but not necessarily a road map
options but not necessarily a road map
options but not necessarily a road map to guide you on how you embark upon
to guide you on how you embark upon
to guide you on how you embark upon these creases in the bridges that you
these creases in the bridges that you
these creases in the bridges that you create so alongside that social takes
create so alongside that social takes
create so alongside that social takes we’ve seen the factory canonic change
we’ve seen the factory canonic change
we’ve seen the factory canonic change and the economy is that’s huge influence
and the economy is that’s huge influence
and the economy is that’s huge influence on our relationships we’ve just lived
on our relationships we’ve just lived
on our relationships we’ve just lived through the greatest recession since the
through the greatest recession since the
through the greatest recession since the Great Depression with the nineteen
Great Depression with the nineteen
Great Depression with the nineteen twenties and from our research we found
twenties and from our research we found
twenties and from our research we found that those who were hardest hit
that those who were hardest hit
that those who were hardest hit great reception what eight times more
great reception what eight times more
great reception what eight times more likely to see their couple relationships
likely to see their couple relationships
likely to see their couple relationships break up than they seem very well we
break up than they seem very well we
break up than they seem very well we know that intuitively when money’s tight
know that intuitively when money’s tight
know that intuitively when money’s tight it creates more arguments when you use
it creates more arguments when you use
it creates more arguments when you use with job based hopes extreme that
with job based hopes extreme that
with job based hopes extreme that quality those household renovations we
quality those household renovations we
quality those household renovations we were going to do don’t happen anymore
were going to do don’t happen anymore
were going to do don’t happen anymore but couples today are struggling to
but couples today are struggling to
but couples today are struggling to reconcile that decide an expectation of
reconcile that decide an expectation of
reconcile that decide an expectation of social equality with rising economic
social equality with rising economic
social equality with rising economic uncertainty and inequality and he works
uncertainty and inequality and he works
uncertainty and inequality and he works crazy to though that one in five couples
crazy to though that one in five couples
crazy to though that one in five couples and they relate can see me today
and they relate can see me today
and they relate can see me today hope backward if you would be brick six
hope backward if you would be brick six
hope backward if you would be brick six so we see that uncertainty in the
so we see that uncertainty in the
so we see that uncertainty in the council in the world but also in happy
council in the world but also in happy
council in the world but also in happy economic change let’s go back to the
economic change let’s go back to the
economic change let’s go back to the nineteen fifties you can support a house
nineteen fifties you can support a house
nineteen fifties you can support a house of the family with one with a cop’s job
of the family with one with a cop’s job
of the family with one with a cop’s job whether that was Public Administration
whether that was Public Administration
whether that was Public Administration on teaching today couple thicknesses so
on teaching today couple thicknesses so
on teaching today couple thicknesses so you have that choice anymore
you have that choice anymore
you have that choice anymore and they want that choice so we don’t we
and they want that choice so we don’t we
and they want that choice so we don’t we can’t support that household we just
can’t support that household we just
can’t support that household we just want income anymore and we see that
want income anymore and we see that
want income anymore and we see that that’s changing the bowls that parents
that’s changing the bowls that parents
that’s changing the bowls that parents play in couple relationships as well
play in couple relationships as well
play in couple relationships as well we’ve seen a massive rise in number of
we’ve seen a massive rise in number of
we’ve seen a massive rise in number of returned breadwinners one in three
returned breadwinners one in three
returned breadwinners one in three mothers today with children with an
mothers today with children with an
mothers today with children with an opposite sex Department of a main
opposite sex Department of a main
opposite sex Department of a main breadwinner in that household and that’s
breadwinner in that household and that’s
breadwinner in that household and that’s doubled over the past 20 years increase
doubled over the past 20 years increase
doubled over the past 20 years increase in every single social demographic in
in every single social demographic in
in every single social demographic in our society profound social technology
our society profound social technology
our society profound social technology well technology has completely change
well technology has completely change
well technology has completely change the way we find
the way we find
the way we find organize and relationships but you know
organize and relationships but you know
organize and relationships but you know we know today but actually one of the
we know today but actually one of the
we know today but actually one of the top three ways to meet something today
top three ways to meet something today
top three ways to meet something today is act like tinder right that rough or
is act like tinder right that rough or
is act like tinder right that rough or whatever the latest innovation on the
whatever the latest innovation on the
whatever the latest innovation on the market is we so many people through work
market is we so many people through work
market is we so many people through work connections and a three-ton some camps
connections and a three-ton some camps
connections and a three-ton some camps and friends that technology’s been an
and friends that technology’s been an
and friends that technology’s been an important part there but also this idea
important part there but also this idea
important part there but also this idea of privacy social media has come into
of privacy social media has come into
of privacy social media has come into our family lights in a way
our family lights in a way
our family lights in a way imagine you know you just need to look
imagine you know you just need to look
imagine you know you just need to look at Facebook from Kristin saying to see
at Facebook from Kristin saying to see
at Facebook from Kristin saying to see the pictures of all the bass huge piles
the pictures of all the bass huge piles
the pictures of all the bass huge piles of presents in the wonderful dinner but
of presents in the wonderful dinner but
of presents in the wonderful dinner but never the pictures of the argument
never the pictures of the argument
never the pictures of the argument because somebody didn’t get what they
because somebody didn’t get what they
because somebody didn’t get what they want
want
want or the fact that actually happened in on
or the fact that actually happened in on
or the fact that actually happened in on their own on Christmas Day so we’re not
their own on Christmas Day so we’re not
their own on Christmas Day so we’re not necessarily giving a sense of our real
necessarily giving a sense of our real
necessarily giving a sense of our real self through technology so I’m going to
self through technology so I’m going to
self through technology so I’m going to do now to talk about our politics
do now to talk about our politics
do now to talk about our politics because actually our politics hasn’t
because actually our politics hasn’t
because actually our politics hasn’t kept pace of these changes and have
kept pace of these changes and have
kept pace of these changes and have actually struggled to provide some of
actually struggled to provide some of
actually struggled to provide some of the offices and you can see that
the offices and you can see that
the offices and you can see that politics that we almost have a polarized
politics that we almost have a polarized
politics that we almost have a polarized debate about relationships and family
debate about relationships and family
debate about relationships and family like those important bridges eventually
like those important bridges eventually
like those important bridges eventually as well on the right we see that the
as well on the right we see that the
as well on the right we see that the ideas of traditional family values
ideas of traditional family values
ideas of traditional family values marriage being seen as a indicator of
marriage being seen as a indicator of
marriage being seen as a indicator of good quality relationship and a key
good quality relationship and a key
good quality relationship and a key component of the single and civilized
component of the single and civilized
component of the single and civilized society and on the right we still pick
society and on the right we still pick
society and on the right we still pick up that skepticism about cohabitation
up that skepticism about cohabitation
up that skepticism about cohabitation and sex outside marriage as somehow a
and sex outside marriage as somehow a
and sex outside marriage as somehow a threat to social stability and on the
threat to social stability and on the
threat to social stability and on the left that liberal do we pick up which is
left that liberal do we pick up which is
left that liberal do we pick up which is Family Values a liberal view of Family
Family Values a liberal view of Family
Family Values a liberal view of Family Values objecting marriage in marriage as
Values objecting marriage in marriage as
Values objecting marriage in marriage as a patriarchal backdated institution and
a patriarchal backdated institution and
a patriarchal backdated institution and a much stronger focus on equality of the
a much stronger focus on equality of the
a much stronger focus on equality of the sexes in diversity of relationship types
sexes in diversity of relationship types
sexes in diversity of relationship types and a much greater focus on the
and a much greater focus on the
and a much greater focus on the importance of the individual some of the
importance of the individual some of the
importance of the individual some of the nipple that even question whether couple
nipple that even question whether couple
nipple that even question whether couple relationships and survivors an
relationships and survivors an
relationships and survivors an institution into the future and emotion
institution into the future and emotion
institution into the future and emotion this phase out in our politics today
this phase out in our politics today
this phase out in our politics today you can almost both rise and you hear a
you can almost both rise and you hear a
you can almost both rise and you hear a politician talking about family
politician talking about family
politician talking about family structures and personal responsibility
structures and personal responsibility
structures and personal responsibility they’re typically from the right and if
they’re typically from the right and if
they’re typically from the right and if you get someone talking about economic
you get someone talking about economic
you get someone talking about economic structures and impact on family life
structures and impact on family life
structures and impact on family life they’re typically from the left with the
they’re typically from the left with the
they’re typically from the left with the left being agnostic about family
left being agnostic about family
left being agnostic about family structures and focusing on base economic
structures and focusing on base economic
structures and focusing on base economic structures even more so at the current
structures even more so at the current
structures even more so at the current leadership now this debate about parts
leadership now this debate about parts
leadership now this debate about parts of agency and structure is at the heart
of agency and structure is at the heart
of agency and structure is at the heart of fiscal debate today about families
of fiscal debate today about families
of fiscal debate today about families and that’s important why it’s important
and that’s important why it’s important
and that’s important why it’s important is because our politics dictates who we
is because our politics dictates who we
is because our politics dictates who we marry
marry
marry Hannibal’s on the basis of the courses
Hannibal’s on the basis of the courses
Hannibal’s on the basis of the courses we still have a whole base of all system
we still have a whole base of all system
we still have a whole base of all system because politics does influence how we
because politics does influence how we
because politics does influence how we structure our relationships it also
structure our relationships it also
structure our relationships it also influences the kind of financial support
influences the kind of financial support
influences the kind of financial support that you might receive really welfare
that you might receive really welfare
that you might receive really welfare savings so we do need to move beyond
savings so we do need to move beyond
savings so we do need to move beyond this polarize debate because actually
this polarize debate because actually
this polarize debate because actually the left and the right is half right
the left and the right is half right
the left and the right is half right half wrong on the debate where the right
half wrong on the debate where the right
half wrong on the debate where the right is right is that all those changes I
is right is that all those changes I
is right is that all those changes I talked about how I can impact on family
talked about how I can impact on family
talked about how I can impact on family life today and it has greatest rings
life today and it has greatest rings
life today and it has greatest rings there which why relationships those
there which why relationships those
there which why relationships those important bridges families in a
important bridges families in a
important bridges families in a friendship should be a public policy
friendship should be a public policy
friendship should be a public policy priority it’s an issue that can’t be
priority it’s an issue that can’t be
priority it’s an issue that can’t be ignored because he sees from the impacts
ignored because he sees from the impacts
ignored because he sees from the impacts rate but equally on the Left we actually
rate but equally on the Left we actually
rate but equally on the Left we actually like to see the focus on choice and
like to see the focus on choice and
like to see the focus on choice and diversity rather than the state saying
diversity rather than the state saying
diversity rather than the state saying that’s a good way to organize a
that’s a good way to organize a
that’s a good way to organize a relationship that is it and recognizing
relationship that is it and recognizing
relationship that is it and recognizing what we have to loosen by versity about
what we have to loosen by versity about
what we have to loosen by versity about relationships
relationships
relationships some people may make the wrong choices
some people may make the wrong choices
some people may make the wrong choices now those changes are talked about in
now those changes are talked about in
now those changes are talked about in our economy in our society offset
our economy in our society offset
our economy in our society offset against much much higher expectations of
against much much higher expectations of
against much much higher expectations of our relationships today than we did in
our relationships today than we did in
our relationships today than we did in the nineteen fifties in our Mexican in
the nineteen fifties in our Mexican in
the nineteen fifties in our Mexican in the nineteen fifties we didn’t talk
the nineteen fifties we didn’t talk
the nineteen fifties we didn’t talk about working at our relationship we got
about working at our relationship we got
about working at our relationship we got married and you say marries it’s a much
married and you say marries it’s a much
married and you say marries it’s a much different conversation today and we
different conversation today and we
different conversation today and we expect so much more and some of that
expect so much more and some of that
expect so much more and some of that panics roots in the ideas of Romanticism
panics roots in the ideas of Romanticism
panics roots in the ideas of Romanticism we want the person that we love with to
we want the person that we love with to
we want the person that we love with to be the best loved to be the best parent
be the best loved to be the best parent
be the best loved to be the best parent to be great at housework and to make a
to be great at housework and to make a
to be great at housework and to make a really good meal and we expect so much
really good meal and we expect so much
really good meal and we expect so much more and there’s a question I’ll get
more and there’s a question I’ll get
more and there’s a question I’ll get second about our expectations too high
second about our expectations too high
second about our expectations too high my son’s too high and can you really
my son’s too high and can you really
my son’s too high and can you really tell with that through a team before a
tell with that through a team before a
tell with that through a team before a grinder spread birthday now we have the
grinder spread birthday now we have the
grinder spread birthday now we have the approach for relationships there are two
approach for relationships there are two
approach for relationships there are two schools of thoughts first of all is a
schools of thoughts first of all is a
schools of thoughts first of all is a fatalistic huge had its origins in Greek
fatalistic huge had its origins in Greek
fatalistic huge had its origins in Greek mythology
mythology
mythology Plato symposium Aristophanes where he
Plato symposium Aristophanes where he
Plato symposium Aristophanes where he talked about finding over Hull and
talked about finding over Hull and
talked about finding over Hull and finding that other half has its
finding that other half has its
finding that other half has its connotations in are apparent about
connotations in are apparent about
connotations in are apparent about you know the other half that completes
you know the other half that completes
you know the other half that completes us and even that view which is much more
us and even that view which is much more
us and even that view which is much more fatalistic it treats us as individuals
fatalistic it treats us as individuals
fatalistic it treats us as individuals of passive de News’s of our autonomy and
of passive de News’s of our autonomy and
of passive de News’s of our autonomy and subjects of surveys will some of the
subjects of surveys will some of the
subjects of surveys will some of the cosmic force in how successful our
cosmic force in how successful our
cosmic force in how successful our relationship is going to be if it’s
relationship is going to be if it’s
relationship is going to be if it’s right we’ll be right here’s the one and
right we’ll be right here’s the one and
right we’ll be right here’s the one and it will be fine
it will be fine
it will be fine it also accounts for the cult of Sigma
it also accounts for the cult of Sigma
it also accounts for the cult of Sigma around seeking help for relationships
around seeking help for relationships
around seeking help for relationships and they go off but there is another
and they go off but there is another
and they go off but there is another school of thought which is a much more
school of thought which is a much more
school of thought which is a much more developmental to do which is where we
developmental to do which is where we
developmental to do which is where we see that we can learn to grow by having
see that we can learn to grow by having
see that we can learn to grow by having relationships it’s the best way to learn
relationships it’s the best way to learn
relationships it’s the best way to learn how to have relationship is to have
how to have relationship is to have
how to have relationship is to have relationships to build those bridges
relationships to build those bridges
relationships to build those bridges with other people and they sleep quality
with other people and they sleep quality
with other people and they sleep quality relationships don’t just happen they
relationships don’t just happen they
relationships don’t just happen they require us co-creating them with another
require us co-creating them with another
require us co-creating them with another individual or with our families or with
individual or with our families or with
individual or with our families or with our friends and that that gate is much
our friends and that that gate is much
our friends and that that gate is much more active and it’s a belief that
more active and it’s a belief that
more active and it’s a belief that relationships can change and they can be
relationships can change and they can be
relationships can change and they can be better and he texted me people who
better and he texted me people who
better and he texted me people who operate developmental you find that many
operate developmental you find that many
operate developmental you find that many people can be the one and that they’re
people can be the one and that they’re
people can be the one and that they’re much more likely to seek help when
much more likely to seek help when
much more likely to seek help when things don’t go the way they can with
things don’t go the way they can with
things don’t go the way they can with the way they should do and it also seems
the way they should do and it also seems
the way they should do and it also seems that relationships is not something that
that relationships is not something that
that relationships is not something that we arrive on earth
we arrive on earth
we arrive on earth perfect informed to have but seems
perfect informed to have but seems
perfect informed to have but seems building and fostering and sustain those
building and fostering and sustain those
building and fostering and sustain those important bridges as a key life skill
important bridges as a key life skill
important bridges as a key life skill now I’m not making this up there was an
now I’m not making this up there was an
now I’m not making this up there was an interesting survey published by the Open
interesting survey published by the Open
interesting survey published by the Open University and yet I’ve seen people been
University and yet I’ve seen people been
University and yet I’ve seen people been doing love we looked at what makes a
doing love we looked at what makes a
doing love we looked at what makes a long-term relationship sustained and
long-term relationship sustained and
long-term relationship sustained and then they found that small acts of
then they found that small acts of
then they found that small acts of kindness with a thing that was most
kindness with a thing that was most
kindness with a thing that was most valued and sing about by participants
valued and sing about by participants
valued and sing about by participants and episode things like bringing your
and episode things like bringing your
and episode things like bringing your partner a cup of tea into the bedroom in
partner a cup of tea into the bedroom in
partner a cup of tea into the bedroom in the morning bussiness a much much more
the morning bussiness a much much more
the morning bussiness a much much more valuable thing the dramatic gesture of
valuable thing the dramatic gesture of
valuable thing the dramatic gesture of the Train rates of Harrison with a huge
the Train rates of Harrison with a huge
the Train rates of Harrison with a huge romantic dinner all the time to take
romantic dinner all the time to take
romantic dinner all the time to take flowers and in fact saying thank you to
flowers and in fact saying thank you to
flowers and in fact saying thank you to that other person of those thoughtful
that other person of those thoughtful
that other person of those thoughtful Dexter whether it be a little next to
Dexter whether it be a little next to
Dexter whether it be a little next to somebody with much more highly prized in
somebody with much more highly prized in
somebody with much more highly prized in those long-term relation
those long-term relation
those long-term relation and they speak from extra pressures so
and they speak from extra pressures so
and they speak from extra pressures so building bridges today is much more
building bridges today is much more
building bridges today is much more complex than it was for our previous
complex than it was for our previous
complex than it was for our previous generations but it’s also harder because
generations but it’s also harder because
generations but it’s also harder because of this huckleberry architecture about
of this huckleberry architecture about
of this huckleberry architecture about which prevents us from seeking help we
which prevents us from seeking help we
which prevents us from seeking help we have this sense in our society that
have this sense in our society that
have this sense in our society that relationships are a private space and
relationships are a private space and
relationships are a private space and this issue around shipment and shame
this issue around shipment and shame
this issue around shipment and shame about talking about things and they
about talking about things and they
about talking about things and they don’t go wrong prevents us from seeking
don’t go wrong prevents us from seeking
don’t go wrong prevents us from seeking support and there’s one serving in the
support and there’s one serving in the
support and there’s one serving in the United States and said people will live
United States and said people will live
United States and said people will live with the distressed relationship after
with the distressed relationship after
with the distressed relationship after six years before they don’t see a
six years before they don’t see a
six years before they don’t see a relationship counselor and the UK isn’t
relationship counselor and the UK isn’t
relationship counselor and the UK isn’t too dissimilar from that we know people
too dissimilar from that we know people
too dissimilar from that we know people will wait in our services three four
will wait in our services three four
will wait in our services three four five six seven years for pork LCpl and
five six seven years for pork LCpl and
five six seven years for pork LCpl and that’s in sunny because our research
that’s in sunny because our research
that’s in sunny because our research shows in the deepening today one in five
shows in the deepening today one in five
shows in the deepening today one in five of us 2.8 7 billion people is living in
of us 2.8 7 billion people is living in
of us 2.8 7 billion people is living in a distressed relationship so we need to
a distressed relationship so we need to
a distressed relationship so we need to change the conversation so we want to
change the conversation so we want to
change the conversation so we want to nap to those regions there’s things that
nap to those regions there’s things that
nap to those regions there’s things that we can do as individuals and things we
we can do as individuals and things we
we can do as individuals and things we can do as a society so what can we do
can do as a society so what can we do
can do as a society so what can we do individually first of all is working on
individually first of all is working on
individually first of all is working on communication service the public will
communication service the public will
communication service the public will tell us the biggest rally public
tell us the biggest rally public
tell us the biggest rally public relationships is money worries but our
relationships is money worries but our
relationships is money worries but our paths have had a very different view
paths have had a very different view
paths have had a very different view overwhelming consensus both 1500 passes
overwhelming consensus both 1500 passes
overwhelming consensus both 1500 passes is that poor communication and lack of
is that poor communication and lack of
is that poor communication and lack of empathy is the biggest strength on
empathy is the biggest strength on
empathy is the biggest strength on couple relationships today and on
couple relationships today and on
couple relationships today and on families so working on that
families so working on that
families so working on that communication that non-defensive
communication that non-defensive
communication that non-defensive positive communication the win-win
positive communication the win-win
positive communication the win-win solutions rather than women lose
solutions rather than women lose
solutions rather than women lose situations with another person and work
situations with another person and work
situations with another person and work on your listening skills communication
on your listening skills communication
on your listening skills communication isn’t just workers it’s diable the
isn’t just workers it’s diable the
isn’t just workers it’s diable the second thing is do things together that
second thing is do things together that
second thing is do things together that you love tinyface interests you can work
you love tinyface interests you can work
you love tinyface interests you can work with somebody else whether that’s
with somebody else whether that’s
with somebody else whether that’s getting yo the parts of the genome or
getting yo the parts of the genome or
getting yo the parts of the genome or cooking or into a film together buying
cooking or into a film together buying
cooking or into a film together buying this opportunity and meat in time for
this opportunity and meat in time for
this opportunity and meat in time for them we do see couples where they’ve
them we do see couples where they’ve
them we do see couples where they’ve both got the laptops on in the bedroom
both got the laptops on in the bedroom
both got the laptops on in the bedroom and maybe that would be White’s impacts
and maybe that would be White’s impacts
and maybe that would be White’s impacts on the sex workers but the laptops
on the sex workers but the laptops
on the sex workers but the laptops outside the bedroom well taken
outside the bedroom well taken
outside the bedroom well taken but 13 it’s important in this that is to
but 13 it’s important in this that is to
but 13 it’s important in this that is to create space yourself how can you know
create space yourself how can you know
create space yourself how can you know what you want from another person if you
what you want from another person if you
what you want from another person if you don’t mingle self that well so finding
don’t mingle self that well so finding
don’t mingle self that well so finding opportunities need to reflect and think
opportunities need to reflect and think
opportunities need to reflect and think and that doesn’t mean tweeting that
and that doesn’t mean tweeting that
and that doesn’t mean tweeting that means actually having some space to
means actually having some space to
means actually having some space to think see well as a key skill and
think see well as a key skill and
think see well as a key skill and something to be nurtured relationships
something to be nurtured relationships
something to be nurtured relationships can be better if we work that fatalists
can be better if we work that fatalists
can be better if we work that fatalists in you as a different developmental we
in you as a different developmental we
in you as a different developmental we can learn we see it as a key skill and
can learn we see it as a key skill and
can learn we see it as a key skill and the final one for us individuals is to
the final one for us individuals is to
the final one for us individuals is to seek support early don’t wait for those
seek support early don’t wait for those
seek support early don’t wait for those small issues complete fractures in the
small issues complete fractures in the
small issues complete fractures in the relationship the seamy seek support the
relationship the seamy seek support the
relationship the seamy seek support the more those issues can be resolved but
more those issues can be resolved but
more those issues can be resolved but isn’t just about individuals in this
isn’t just about individuals in this
isn’t just about individuals in this debate it’s also have policymakers in
debate it’s also have policymakers in
debate it’s also have policymakers in our national conversations so you do
our national conversations so you do
our national conversations so you do need to think differently about how we
need to think differently about how we
need to think differently about how we nurture those important bridges they
nurture those important bridges they
nurture those important bridges they have vital connections with others and
have vital connections with others and
have vital connections with others and that starts the school now please we’ve
that starts the school now please we’ve
that starts the school now please we’ve finally got registered change that all
finally got registered change that all
finally got registered change that all young people have access to relationship
young people have access to relationship
young people have access to relationship education but we also need to debate
education but we also need to debate
education but we also need to debate those affect we also need to connect
those affect we also need to connect
those affect we also need to connect sorry those debates that technology the
sorry those debates that technology the
sorry those debates that technology the economy with what’s happening in our
economy with what’s happening in our
economy with what’s happening in our family lives they don’t operate in
family lives they don’t operate in
family lives they don’t operate in factories and actually our economy and
factories and actually our economy and
factories and actually our economy and that social thing does impact on all of
that social thing does impact on all of
that social thing does impact on all of these vital bridges this connections
these vital bridges this connections
these vital bridges this connections with others but equally our family life
with others but equally our family life
with others but equally our family life our relationships impacts on the economy
our relationships impacts on the economy
our relationships impacts on the economy then we came to spend more on white kids
then we came to spend more on white kids
then we came to spend more on white kids it would be the university there is an
it would be the university there is an
it would be the university there is an impact there is a basis to debates are
impact there is a basis to debates are
impact there is a basis to debates are actually intubated we need to think
actually intubated we need to think
actually intubated we need to think about that way so we need to see
about that way so we need to see
about that way so we need to see building those vital bridges as eat life
building those vital bridges as eat life
building those vital bridges as eat life still the company nurtures
still the company nurtures
still the company nurtures because we do want this connection
because we do want this connection
because we do want this connection that’s a overriding theme across 79
that’s a overriding theme across 79
that’s a overriding theme across 79 years and what my connection with
years and what my connection with
years and what my connection with somebody else what those connections to
somebody else what those connections to
somebody else what those connections to be better and they can be we net not
be better and they can be we net not
be better and they can be we net not check and invest in them and if we
check and invest in them and if we
check and invest in them and if we develop those skills if we nurture them
develop those skills if we nurture them
develop those skills if we nurture them and we’ll be better able to navigate all
and we’ll be better able to navigate all
and we’ll be better able to navigate all the changes that we’re going
the changes that we’re going
the changes that we’re going see and my two-year-old Nachman Theo’s
see and my two-year-old Nachman Theo’s
see and my two-year-old Nachman Theo’s gonna see when he’s my age and first
gonna see when he’s my age and first
gonna see when he’s my age and first fighting this time these are the best
fighting this time these are the best
fighting this time these are the best people to navigate those changes if we
people to navigate those changes if we
people to navigate those changes if we know so still and we relate we’ll
know so still and we relate we’ll
know so still and we relate we’ll continue to adapt and change so that we
continue to adapt and change so that we
continue to adapt and change so that we nurture information skills for the next
nurture information skills for the next
nurture information skills for the next seven to nine news
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