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how many people in this world are really

how many people in this world are really living their life streams and how many

living their life streams and how many

living their life streams and how many people in this world are not living

people in this world are not living

people in this world are not living their life streams how many people have

their life streams how many people have

their life streams how many people have succumbed to the pressures and the

succumbed to the pressures and the

succumbed to the pressures and the obstacles that this world and the people

obstacles that this world and the people

obstacles that this world and the people around us put in our way from achieving

around us put in our way from achieving

around us put in our way from achieving our goals and from achieving our dreams

our goals and from achieving our dreams

our goals and from achieving our dreams when I started coaching at Permian I was

when I started coaching at Permian I was

when I started coaching at Permian I was told that will be impossible for you to

told that will be impossible for you to

told that will be impossible for you to be successful there don’t you know that

be successful there don’t you know that

be successful there don’t you know that football runs through the very fabric of

football runs through the very fabric of

football runs through the very fabric of our community don’t you know that these

our community don’t you know that these

our community don’t you know that these huge community events the largest

huge community events the largest

huge community events the largest community events in that town are on

community events in that town are on

community events in that town are on Friday nights there is no way that boys

Friday nights there is no way that boys

Friday nights there is no way that boys gymnastics can be successful in Odessa

gymnastics can be successful in Odessa

gymnastics can be successful in Odessa Texas well five state championships

Texas well five state championships

Texas well five state championships later and we started to look for the

later and we started to look for the

later and we started to look for the next mountain to climb and that next

next mountain to climb and that next

next mountain to climb and that next mountain was in order to impact a much

mountain was in order to impact a much

mountain was in order to impact a much larger group in order to impact many

larger group in order to impact many

larger group in order to impact many many more young people we set our sights

many more young people we set our sights

many more young people we set our sights on becoming the athletic director and if

on becoming the athletic director and if

on becoming the athletic director and if you think they told me it was impossible

you think they told me it was impossible

you think they told me it was impossible to be a coach here and be successful

to be a coach here and be successful

to be a coach here and be successful here to be the athletic director here

here to be the athletic director here

here to be the athletic director here that was gonna be impossible you

that was gonna be impossible you

that was gonna be impossible you wouldn’t believe the things that I was

wouldn’t believe the things that I was

wouldn’t believe the things that I was told and the obstacles that were put in

told and the obstacles that were put in

told and the obstacles that were put in the way they said don’t you know that

the way they said don’t you know that

the way they said don’t you know that they have a Hollywood movie about

they have a Hollywood movie about

they have a Hollywood movie about football here don’t you know that they

football here don’t you know that they

football here don’t you know that they have a Pulitzer prize-winning book about

have a Pulitzer prize-winning book about

have a Pulitzer prize-winning book about football here and surely you’ve heard

football here and surely you’ve heard

football here and surely you’ve heard about Ratliff Stadium one of the top

about Ratliff Stadium one of the top

about Ratliff Stadium one of the top stadiums in the country for high school

stadiums in the country for high school

stadiums in the country for high school football and I’m gonna tell you there is

football and I’m gonna tell you there is

football and I’m gonna tell you there is no way they’re gonna hire a guy from New

no way they’re gonna hire a guy from New

no way they’re gonna hire a guy from New York City to be the athletic director

York City to be the athletic director

York City to be the athletic director here there’s no way they’re gonna hire a

here there’s no way they’re gonna hire a

here there’s no way they’re gonna hire a guy that’s never coached football to be

guy that’s never coached football to be

guy that’s never coached football to be the athletic director here and it’s

the athletic director here and it’s

the athletic director here and it’s never happened before in the state of

never happened before in the state of

never happened before in the state of Texas there’s no way that they’re going

Texas there’s no way that they’re going

Texas there’s no way that they’re going to hire a gymnastics coach to be the

to hire a gymnastics coach to be the

to hire a gymnastics coach to be the athletic director in Odessa Texas but we

athletic director in Odessa Texas but we

athletic director in Odessa Texas but we set out to defy the odds we set out to

set out to defy the odds we set out to

set out to defy the odds we set out to overcome and now the conversations

overcome and now the conversations

overcome and now the conversations changed ooh wow can you believe this how

changed ooh wow can you believe this how

changed ooh wow can you believe this how did that take place well I’d like to

did that take place well I’d like to

did that take place well I’d like to share with

share with

share with you my ideas on how to defy the odds how

you my ideas on how to defy the odds how

you my ideas on how to defy the odds how to get from where we are to where we

to get from where we are to where we

to get from where we are to where we want to go if you look up leadership and

want to go if you look up leadership and

want to go if you look up leadership and you google it you’re gonna get over

you google it you’re gonna get over

you google it you’re gonna get over three million hits

three million hits

three million hits you can Google management you’ll get

you can Google management you’ll get

you can Google management you’ll get three million hits you could go to the

three million hits you could go to the

three million hits you could go to the book store or to the library and look up

book store or to the library and look up

book store or to the library and look up self-help information and there’s all

self-help information and there’s all

self-help information and there’s all kinds of information there’s an expert

kinds of information there’s an expert

kinds of information there’s an expert on everything but what I’d like to share

on everything but what I’d like to share

on everything but what I’d like to share with you are the eight things that we

with you are the eight things that we

with you are the eight things that we did to try to become successful to try

did to try to become successful to try

did to try to become successful to try to overcome and defy the odds and the

to overcome and defy the odds and the

to overcome and defy the odds and the obstacles that were in front of us it

obstacles that were in front of us it

obstacles that were in front of us it all starts with a vision a profound

all starts with a vision a profound

all starts with a vision a profound positive vision for the future is the

positive vision for the future is the

positive vision for the future is the first and most important ingredient for

first and most important ingredient for

first and most important ingredient for success that vision has to be so

success that vision has to be so

success that vision has to be so powerful that it drives everything you

powerful that it drives everything you

powerful that it drives everything you do vision when when Disney World was

do vision when when Disney World was

do vision when when Disney World was opened in Florida there’s a great story

opened in Florida there’s a great story

opened in Florida there’s a great story about the ribbon-cutting ceremony all

about the ribbon-cutting ceremony all

about the ribbon-cutting ceremony all the dignitaries are up on the platform

the dignitaries are up on the platform

the dignitaries are up on the platform and a dignitary steps up to the

and a dignitary steps up to the

and a dignitary steps up to the microphone and he begins to talk about

microphone and he begins to talk about

microphone and he begins to talk about how great the park is and all of that

how great the park is and all of that

how great the park is and all of that and at some point the story goes he

and at some point the story goes he

and at some point the story goes he leans over and he looks at mrs. Disney

leans over and he looks at mrs. Disney

leans over and he looks at mrs. Disney said oh I wish

said oh I wish

said oh I wish Walt were here to see it well

Walt were here to see it well

Walt were here to see it well presentation goes on and as the story

presentation goes on and as the story

presentation goes on and as the story goes when mrs. Disney came up to the

goes when mrs. Disney came up to the

goes when mrs. Disney came up to the microphone she said one thing one

microphone she said one thing one

microphone she said one thing one powerful thing she leaned over and

powerful thing she leaned over and

powerful thing she leaned over and looked at that dignitary and said Walt

looked at that dignitary and said Walt

looked at that dignitary and said Walt did see it Walt had that vision that

did see it Walt had that vision that

did see it Walt had that vision that drove everything he did and our plan is

drove everything he did and our plan is

drove everything he did and our plan is simply connecting those dots from our

simply connecting those dots from our

simply connecting those dots from our vision our profound powerful vision on

vision our profound powerful vision on

vision our profound powerful vision on what we want to do and what we want to

what we want to do and what we want to

what we want to do and what we want to be understanding where we are today and

be understanding where we are today and

be understanding where we are today and connecting those dots so the idea that I

connecting those dots so the idea that I

connecting those dots so the idea that I would like to share in this moonshot

would like to share in this moonshot

would like to share in this moonshot madness is those eight steps to define

madness is those eight steps to define

madness is those eight steps to define the odds and overcoming the first thing

the odds and overcoming the first thing

the odds and overcoming the first thing we have to have is a fuel a fire that

we have to have is a fuel a fire that

we have to have is a fuel a fire that burns so deeply and so brightly but it

burns so deeply and so brightly but it

burns so deeply and so brightly but it drives everything we do that it allows

drives everything we do that it allows

drives everything we do that it allows us to out study out work and out read

us to out study out work and out read

us to out study out work and out read everyone to help us

everyone to help us

everyone to help us come the odds that fuel has to help us

come the odds that fuel has to help us

come the odds that fuel has to help us to get up every single day it has to be

to get up every single day it has to be

to get up every single day it has to be a part of our mind a part of our heart

a part of our mind a part of our heart

a part of our mind a part of our heart it has to be a part of our soul a fuel

it has to be a part of our soul a fuel

it has to be a part of our soul a fuel to fire us no matter what the other

to fire us no matter what the other

to fire us no matter what the other green gradient we have to have is a

green gradient we have to have is a

green gradient we have to have is a belief we have to have a belief in what

belief we have to have a belief in what

belief we have to have a belief in what we’re going to do what we’re going to

we’re going to do what we’re going to

we’re going to do what we’re going to accomplish where we’re going to go

accomplish where we’re going to go

accomplish where we’re going to go belief is an incredibly powerful thing

belief is an incredibly powerful thing

belief is an incredibly powerful thing I’m not sure there’s a lot more powerful

I’m not sure there’s a lot more powerful

I’m not sure there’s a lot more powerful than our belief and our beliefs have to

than our belief and our beliefs have to

than our belief and our beliefs have to be so strong that they can overcome the

be so strong that they can overcome the

be so strong that they can overcome the disbeliefs of everyone around us when I

disbeliefs of everyone around us when I

disbeliefs of everyone around us when I first started coaching I had an

first started coaching I had an

first started coaching I had an appraiser an evaluator one of my leaders

appraiser an evaluator one of my leaders

appraiser an evaluator one of my leaders tell me coach you’re gonna have to tone

tell me coach you’re gonna have to tone

tell me coach you’re gonna have to tone it down just a little bit coach you’ve

it down just a little bit coach you’ve

it down just a little bit coach you’ve got to have a little bit more attainable

got to have a little bit more attainable

got to have a little bit more attainable goals for your young people are you

goals for your young people are you

goals for your young people are you kidding me no way this is all about

kidding me no way this is all about

kidding me no way this is all about shooting for the moon this is all about

shooting for the moon this is all about

shooting for the moon this is all about winning this is all about becoming

winning this is all about becoming

winning this is all about becoming champions and giving our best and doing

champions and giving our best and doing

champions and giving our best and doing our best a belief system must carry us

our best a belief system must carry us

our best a belief system must carry us in this journey from where we are to

in this journey from where we are to

in this journey from where we are to where we want to go it’s really

where we want to go it’s really

where we want to go it’s really important to have Mentors

important to have Mentors

important to have Mentors to have people that can show us the way

to have people that can show us the way

to have people that can show us the way people that can anchor us people that

people that can anchor us people that

people that can anchor us people that can help us but really the most

can help us but really the most

can help us but really the most important thing that mentors do mentors

important thing that mentors do mentors

important thing that mentors do mentors can show us and teach us how to do it

can show us and teach us how to do it

can show us and teach us how to do it right because there’s right and there’s

right because there’s right and there’s

right because there’s right and there’s everything else and mentors show us how

everything else and mentors show us how

everything else and mentors show us how to do it right so we have to have

to do it right so we have to have

to do it right so we have to have mentors to help us along the way and

mentors to help us along the way and

mentors to help us along the way and what binds everything together

what binds everything together

what binds everything together the most important thing is people it’s

the most important thing is people it’s

the most important thing is people it’s all about relationships it’s all about

all about relationships it’s all about

all about relationships it’s all about the people that we meet and the people

the people that we meet and the people

the people that we meet and the people that we interact with the people that we

that we interact with the people that we

that we interact with the people that we build relationships are the foundation

build relationships are the foundation

build relationships are the foundation of everything we do Henry Ford

of everything we do Henry Ford

of everything we do Henry Ford understood how important people were he

understood how important people were he

understood how important people were he said you can take my factories you can

said you can take my factories you can

said you can take my factories you can take all of my inventory but leave me my

take all of my inventory but leave me my

take all of my inventory but leave me my people and I’ll set up next week down

people and I’ll set up next week down

people and I’ll set up next week down the block and we’ll be successful again

the block and we’ll be successful again

the block and we’ll be successful again in our weight on our journey there

in our weight on our journey there

in our weight on our journey there should be a stream of people who are

should be a stream of people who are

should be a stream of people who are better off because they got to know you

better off because they got to know you

better off because they got to know you there should be better off because your

there should be better off because your

there should be better off because your paths crossed relationships are

paths crossed relationships are

paths crossed relationships are incredibly important how can we ever

incredibly important how can we ever

incredibly important how can we ever achieve anything without doing our best

achieve anything without doing our best

achieve anything without doing our best how many times have we heard oh it’s

how many times have we heard oh it’s

how many times have we heard oh it’s okay just do your best

okay just do your best

okay just do your best no there’s nothing harder than doing

no there’s nothing harder than doing

no there’s nothing harder than doing your best doing your best is almost

your best doing your best is almost

your best doing your best is almost impossible especially every single day

impossible especially every single day

impossible especially every single day doing your best is one of the hardest

doing your best is one of the hardest

doing your best is one of the hardest things you’ll ever do it’s almost

things you’ll ever do it’s almost

things you’ll ever do it’s almost impossible and doing your best is

impossible and doing your best is

impossible and doing your best is something that we have to do every day

something that we have to do every day

something that we have to do every day we do our best and we shove our best

we do our best and we shove our best

we do our best and we shove our best into the pipeline of life and we shove

into the pipeline of life and we shove

into the pipeline of life and we shove our best into that pipeline and we shove

our best into that pipeline and we shove

our best into that pipeline and we shove our best into that pipeline and

our best into that pipeline and

our best into that pipeline and eventually eventually at the other end

eventually eventually at the other end

eventually eventually at the other end of the pipe our vision will begin to

of the pipe our vision will begin to

of the pipe our vision will begin to take form but if at any time if at any

take form but if at any time if at any

take form but if at any time if at any time we give something less than our

time we give something less than our

time we give something less than our best it won’t be immediate but

best it won’t be immediate but

best it won’t be immediate but eventually what comes out of the other

eventually what comes out of the other

eventually what comes out of the other end of the pipeline won’t look like our

end of the pipeline won’t look like our

end of the pipeline won’t look like our vision doing our best incredibly

vision doing our best incredibly

vision doing our best incredibly difficult on this journey to where we

difficult on this journey to where we

difficult on this journey to where we want to go we have to be able to reflect

want to go we have to be able to reflect

want to go we have to be able to reflect we have to be able to readjust we have

we have to be able to readjust we have

we have to be able to readjust we have to be able to look at all of the things

to be able to look at all of the things

to be able to look at all of the things we’ve done all of the people we’ve

we’ve done all of the people we’ve

we’ve done all of the people we’ve affected and we have to be able to

affected and we have to be able to

affected and we have to be able to adjust so that we can stay on our path

adjust so that we can stay on our path

adjust so that we can stay on our path to where we want to go reflection is

to where we want to go reflection is

to where we want to go reflection is incredibly important somewhere in there

incredibly important somewhere in there

incredibly important somewhere in there when we’re down we have to reach in and

when we’re down we have to reach in and

when we’re down we have to reach in and find the up when we’re down because one

find the up when we’re down because one

find the up when we’re down because one thing for sure when there’s an up

thing for sure when there’s an up

thing for sure when there’s an up there’s gonna be a down but when there’s

there’s gonna be a down but when there’s

there’s gonna be a down but when there’s a down we have hope that there’s going

a down we have hope that there’s going

a down we have hope that there’s going to be enough because we’re on this

to be enough because we’re on this

to be enough because we’re on this incredible journey reflection dr. Carol

incredible journey reflection dr. Carol

incredible journey reflection dr. Carol Dweck wrote an entire book about mindset

Dweck wrote an entire book about mindset

Dweck wrote an entire book about mindset she spoke about growth mindset she spoke

she spoke about growth mindset she spoke

she spoke about growth mindset she spoke about fixed mindset and we have to

about fixed mindset and we have to

about fixed mindset and we have to intentionally work on our mindset a

intentionally work on our mindset a

intentionally work on our mindset a growth mindset a positive attitude a

growth mindset a positive attitude a

growth mindset a positive attitude a champion’s mindset every single day we

champion’s mindset every single day we

champion’s mindset every single day we cannot ever let our mindset slip away in

cannot ever let our mindset slip away in

cannot ever let our mindset slip away in any circumstance our mindset is

any circumstance our mindset is

any circumstance our mindset is incredibly

incredibly

incredibly for getting from here to where we want

for getting from here to where we want

for getting from here to where we want to go a mindset an important ingredient

to go a mindset an important ingredient

to go a mindset an important ingredient on this journey and maybe the most

on this journey and maybe the most

on this journey and maybe the most overlooked part of journeys to success

overlooked part of journeys to success

overlooked part of journeys to success is thankfulness and graciousness having

is thankfulness and graciousness having

is thankfulness and graciousness having a thankful heart being thankful for the

a thankful heart being thankful for the

a thankful heart being thankful for the things that you’ve been able to do when

things that you’ve been able to do when

things that you’ve been able to do when the people that have been able to help

the people that have been able to help

the people that have been able to help you a thankful heart incredibly

you a thankful heart incredibly

you a thankful heart incredibly important part of this journey so I ask

important part of this journey so I ask

important part of this journey so I ask you again how many people in this world

you again how many people in this world

you again how many people in this world are really living their life stream and

are really living their life stream and

are really living their life stream and how many people in this world aren’t

how many people in this world aren’t

how many people in this world aren’t that journey to our life stream takes

that journey to our life stream takes

that journey to our life stream takes place every single day it takes place

place every single day it takes place

place every single day it takes place one step at a day one step at a time it

one step at a day one step at a time it

one step at a day one step at a time it takes place one day at a time but that

takes place one day at a time but that

takes place one day at a time but that journey takes place every single day

journey takes place every single day

journey takes place every single day we start with a vision we connect the

we start with a vision we connect the

we start with a vision we connect the dots by using these eight things and we

dots by using these eight things and we

dots by using these eight things and we defy the odds my question for you is

defy the odds my question for you is

defy the odds my question for you is what odds do we have enough to defy what

what odds do we have enough to defy what

what odds do we have enough to defy what places do we have left to go what vision

places do we have left to go what vision

places do we have left to go what vision do we want to still fulfill but an even

do we want to still fulfill but an even

do we want to still fulfill but an even more important challenge for us today

more important challenge for us today

more important challenge for us today isn’t about our own journey it’s about

isn’t about our own journey it’s about

isn’t about our own journey it’s about the journey of the people that are next

the journey of the people that are next

the journey of the people that are next to us the journey of the people that are

to us the journey of the people that are

to us the journey of the people that are around us I challenge you to be that

around us I challenge you to be that

around us I challenge you to be that difference maker and help other people

difference maker and help other people

difference maker and help other people on their journey to define the odds

on their journey to define the odds

on their journey to define the odds thank you

thank you

thank you [Applause]

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