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Navigating the Path of Life | Sondra Eoff | TEDxOptimistPark


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[Applause] navigating the path of life as you’re

navigating the path of life as you’re

navigating the path of life as you’re navigating the path of life are you on a

navigating the path of life are you on a

navigating the path of life are you on a large ship in rough waters or are you in

large ship in rough waters or are you in

large ship in rough waters or are you in a tugboat that’s just barely getting

a tugboat that’s just barely getting

a tugboat that’s just barely getting along just going over those short little

along just going over those short little

along just going over those short little bumps or did you flat fall off the boat

bumps or did you flat fall off the boat

bumps or did you flat fall off the boat I feel like my life was just a tugboat

I feel like my life was just a tugboat

I feel like my life was just a tugboat there may have been obstacles that other

there may have been obstacles that other

there may have been obstacles that other people would have seen his major

people would have seen his major

people would have seen his major obstacles but I felt like I was on a

obstacles but I felt like I was on a

obstacles but I felt like I was on a tugboat and I’ll tell you one particular

tugboat and I’ll tell you one particular

tugboat and I’ll tell you one particular thing that has helped me all my life is

thing that has helped me all my life is

thing that has helped me all my life is something that my dad told me at an

something that my dad told me at an

something that my dad told me at an early age I was raised in West Texas

early age I was raised in West Texas

early age I was raised in West Texas town of Odessa and a lower middle-income

town of Odessa and a lower middle-income

town of Odessa and a lower middle-income family had a younger brother and I say

family had a younger brother and I say

family had a younger brother and I say lower middle income because my dad

lower middle income because my dad

lower middle income because my dad worked three jobs and that raise raised

worked three jobs and that raise raised

worked three jobs and that raise raised us to lower middle income and my mom

us to lower middle income and my mom

us to lower middle income and my mom worked also but I feel like I had a

worked also but I feel like I had a

worked also but I feel like I had a pretty happy childhood I didn’t know we

pretty happy childhood I didn’t know we

pretty happy childhood I didn’t know we didn’t have a lot of money in just

didn’t have a lot of money in just

didn’t have a lot of money in just enjoyed life I’ve always been a happy

enjoyed life I’ve always been a happy

enjoyed life I’ve always been a happy child and happy adult but one day at

child and happy adult but one day at

child and happy adult but one day at school in elementary school I went to

school in elementary school I went to

school in elementary school I went to play with my friends as usual and it

play with my friends as usual and it

play with my friends as usual and it recess and one of my friends said I need

recess and one of my friends said I need

recess and one of my friends said I need to talk to you my parents said that I

to talk to you my parents said that I

to talk to you my parents said that I can’t be your friend anymore and I said

can’t be your friend anymore and I said

can’t be your friend anymore and I said why and she said well my parents found

why and she said well my parents found

why and she said well my parents found out that you’re Spanish and so I can’t

out that you’re Spanish and so I can’t

out that you’re Spanish and so I can’t play with you anymore and that was just

play with you anymore and that was just

play with you anymore and that was just a shocker to me because I didn’t realize

a shocker to me because I didn’t realize

a shocker to me because I didn’t realize I just thought we were all happy friends

I just thought we were all happy friends

I just thought we were all happy friends and there was I didn’t felt like there

and there was I didn’t felt like there

and there was I didn’t felt like there was a difference but I don’t remember

was a difference but I don’t remember

was a difference but I don’t remember there being that big of a difference so

there being that big of a difference so

there being that big of a difference so like normal families I went home that

like normal families I went home that

like normal families I went home that day and my parents said how did school

day and my parents said how did school

day and my parents said how did school go today and I said well let me tell you

go today and I said well let me tell you

go today and I said well let me tell you what happened and so my dad said no

what happened and so my dad said no

what happened and so my dad said no Sondra you’re no different than anyone

Sondra you’re no different than anyone

Sondra you’re no different than anyone else you know we are different but but

else you know we are different but but

else you know we are different but but you’re not need less than anyone else

you’re not need less than anyone else

you’re not need less than anyone else and I want you to think about this

and I want you to think about this

and I want you to think about this throughout your life what I’m about to

throughout your life what I’m about to

throughout your life what I’m about to tell you I want this to really resonate

tell you I want this to really resonate

tell you I want this to really resonate with you and he said

with you and he said

with you and he said her dad puts his pants on just like I do

her dad puts his pants on just like I do

her dad puts his pants on just like I do and I thought well that’s right I you

and I thought well that’s right I you

and I thought well that’s right I you know I didn’t think about that we aren’t

know I didn’t think about that we aren’t

know I didn’t think about that we aren’t different and so that was a real

different and so that was a real

different and so that was a real equalizer in my life I any situation

equalizer in my life I any situation

equalizer in my life I any situation that I was ever in and I felt inferior

that I was ever in and I felt inferior

that I was ever in and I felt inferior in any way or if as you know with gender

in any way or if as you know with gender

in any way or if as you know with gender as a female or as a minority it was a

as a female or as a minority it was a

as a female or as a minority it was a super equalizer for me I could just sit

super equalizer for me I could just sit

super equalizer for me I could just sit and think you know no I’m ready for this

and think you know no I’m ready for this

and think you know no I’m ready for this there’s an equal playing field I can do

there’s an equal playing field I can do

there’s an equal playing field I can do this so that resonated with me in race

this so that resonated with me in race

this so that resonated with me in race or genders never been an issue to me at

or genders never been an issue to me at

or genders never been an issue to me at all now I’m married to my high school

all now I’m married to my high school

all now I’m married to my high school sweetheart this year we’ll be married

sweetheart this year we’ll be married

sweetheart this year we’ll be married for 35 years and we both thank goodness

for 35 years and we both thank goodness

for 35 years and we both thank goodness share a love for reading and

share a love for reading and

share a love for reading and motivational speakers so throughout our

motivational speakers so throughout our

motivational speakers so throughout our lives we have listened to Tony Robbins

lives we have listened to Tony Robbins

lives we have listened to Tony Robbins I’m sure several of you have and way

I’m sure several of you have and way

I’m sure several of you have and way back when we had a cassette system a

back when we had a cassette system a

back when we had a cassette system a cassette program called personal power

cassette program called personal power

cassette program called personal power and with personal power Tony Robbins

and with personal power Tony Robbins

and with personal power Tony Robbins will encourage you to look at your goals

will encourage you to look at your goals

will encourage you to look at your goals for life and and he also had success

for life and and he also had success

for life and and he also had success conditioning and so we were wanting to

conditioning and so we were wanting to

conditioning and so we were wanting to be successful we decided that we would

be successful we decided that we would

be successful we decided that we would look at this program and do exactly what

look at this program and do exactly what

look at this program and do exactly what he said and one of the particular things

he said and one of the particular things

he said and one of the particular things that we would do is we would look at our

that we would do is we would look at our

that we would do is we would look at our goals and say okay what’s our one month

goals and say okay what’s our one month

goals and say okay what’s our one month goal or six month goal or one year goal

goal or six month goal or one year goal

goal or six month goal or one year goal and our five year goal and two of the

and our five year goal and two of the

and our five year goal and two of the particular goals that we had was to own

particular goals that we had was to own

particular goals that we had was to own our own business and another one was

our own business and another one was

our own business and another one was that we would be financially successful

that we would be financially successful

that we would be financially successful enough to share with others Toby and I

enough to share with others Toby and I

enough to share with others Toby and I have a servant heart and want to serve

have a servant heart and want to serve

have a servant heart and want to serve people and when we didn’t have the money

people and when we didn’t have the money

people and when we didn’t have the money we served our with our time and talent

we served our with our time and talent

we served our with our time and talent but eventually we wanted to serve with

but eventually we wanted to serve with

but eventually we wanted to serve with our treasure also so we continued that

our treasure also so we continued that

our treasure also so we continued that goal searching and and did that once a

goal searching and and did that once a

goal searching and and did that once a month we would drive and or just spend

month we would drive and or just spend

month we would drive and or just spend some time at home and just look at those

some time at home and just look at those

some time at home and just look at those goals prior to getting married we both

goals prior to getting married we both

goals prior to getting married we both worked in the oil field and if you know

worked in the oil field and if you know

worked in the oil field and if you know anything about West Texas and Odessa you

anything about West Texas and Odessa you

anything about West Texas and Odessa you know that the oil field is up and down

know that the oil field is up and down

know that the oil field is up and down has boost but bust or boom and at the

has boost but bust or boom and at the

has boost but bust or boom and at the time that we were getting married there

time that we were getting married there

time that we were getting married there was a bust that was coming on and Toby

was a bust that was coming on and Toby

was a bust that was coming on and Toby worked for his family

worked for his family

worked for his family and lo and behold a week before we get

and lo and behold a week before we get

and lo and behold a week before we get married he gets laid off and I remember

married he gets laid off and I remember

married he gets laid off and I remember him going to his father and saying dad

him going to his father and saying dad

him going to his father and saying dad you know why are you laying me off well

you know why are you laying me off well

you know why are you laying me off well by me and he said my brother works here

by me and he said my brother works here

by me and he said my brother works here too what about him

too what about him

too what about him and his brothers said his dad said no

and his brothers said his dad said no

and his brothers said his dad said no you and Sondra are young you’re you’ll

you and Sondra are young you’re you’ll

you and Sondra are young you’re you’ll be able to land on your feet your

be able to land on your feet your

be able to land on your feet your brother has a wife and two young

brother has a wife and two young

brother has a wife and two young children you guys will be fine and

children you guys will be fine and

children you guys will be fine and another lesson that he taught us was in

another lesson that he taught us was in

another lesson that he taught us was in Toby as an owner I have other families

Toby as an owner I have other families

Toby as an owner I have other families that I’m having to really impact their

that I’m having to really impact their

that I’m having to really impact their lives in a negative way so how can I do

lives in a negative way so how can I do

lives in a negative way so how can I do that without impacting my own family and

that without impacting my own family and

that without impacting my own family and so that was a real lesson for us later

so that was a real lesson for us later

so that was a real lesson for us later on in life so anyway we go on our

on in life so anyway we go on our

on in life so anyway we go on our honeymoon jobless and playing while

honeymoon jobless and playing while

honeymoon jobless and playing while we’re on our honeymoon and decide okay

we’re on our honeymoon and decide okay

we’re on our honeymoon and decide okay when we get back we’re gonna find a job

when we get back we’re gonna find a job

when we get back we’re gonna find a job we came back both found a job right away

we came back both found a job right away

we came back both found a job right away and his dad was right we landed on her

and his dad was right we landed on her

and his dad was right we landed on her feet so we continued with each of those

feet so we continued with each of those

feet so we continued with each of those goals learning about each one of those

goals learning about each one of those

goals learning about each one of those and then one day we were driving and

and then one day we were driving and

and then one day we were driving and typically Toby loved to drive everywhere

typically Toby loved to drive everywhere

typically Toby loved to drive everywhere and so I would have everything ready at

and so I would have everything ready at

and so I would have everything ready at all these books at my feet and we would

all these books at my feet and we would

all these books at my feet and we would look over all each of our goals so one

look over all each of our goals so one

look over all each of our goals so one day he said okay so what are we gonna do

day he said okay so what are we gonna do

day he said okay so what are we gonna do ticking off the goals and when it came

ticking off the goals and when it came

ticking off the goals and when it came to owning our own business he said well

to owning our own business he said well

to owning our own business he said well I’ve been thinking about something so

I’ve been thinking about something so

I’ve been thinking about something so let’s what do you think about this he

let’s what do you think about this he

let’s what do you think about this he said I want to buy and my family’s

said I want to buy and my family’s

said I want to buy and my family’s business and I said you’re kidding me I

business and I said you’re kidding me I

business and I said you’re kidding me I always thought that we would start with

always thought that we would start with

always thought that we would start with something small like a little

something small like a little

something small like a little mom-and-pop shop or a franchise I didn’t

mom-and-pop shop or a franchise I didn’t

mom-and-pop shop or a franchise I didn’t think that we’d buy your family’s

think that we’d buy your family’s

think that we’d buy your family’s business of about six or seven branches

business of about six or seven branches

business of about six or seven branches and other cities let’s start slow and he

and other cities let’s start slow and he

and other cities let’s start slow and he said no and his dad at the time it had

said no and his dad at the time it had

said no and his dad at the time it had cancer and an another lesson that we

cancer and an another lesson that we

cancer and an another lesson that we learned at that time also was you know

learned at that time also was you know

learned at that time also was you know we could have when we both got laid off

we could have when we both got laid off

we could have when we both got laid off and especially Toby we could have become

and especially Toby we could have become

and especially Toby we could have become estranged from the family or really

estranged from the family or really

estranged from the family or really gotten mad and become victims but we

gotten mad and become victims but we

gotten mad and become victims but we decided to keep those close family ties

decided to keep those close family ties

decided to keep those close family ties and just move on from there not not be

and just move on from there not not be

and just move on from there not not be victims and because of that his dad had

victims and because of that his dad had

victims and because of that his dad had eventually asked him to come back to

eventually asked him to come back to

eventually asked him to come back to work for adesso pumps and at that time

work for adesso pumps and at that time

work for adesso pumps and at that time when his dad had cancer he asked Toby to

when his dad had cancer he asked Toby to

when his dad had cancer he asked Toby to be the president of the

be the president of the

be the president of the the company and so at that time he had

the company and so at that time he had

the company and so at that time he had he had been the president for a while

he had been the president for a while

he had been the president for a while and he said I want to buy this business

and he said I want to buy this business

and he said I want to buy this business and they may not let us oh there were

and they may not let us oh there were

and they may not let us oh there were three families involved his family and

three families involved his family and

three families involved his family and another local family and then another

another local family and then another

another local family and then another family that had worked but within the

family that had worked but within the

family that had worked but within the business and he said the only way

business and he said the only way

business and he said the only way that’ll happen is if 100% of the

that’ll happen is if 100% of the

that’ll happen is if 100% of the shareholders agree to do that and I said

shareholders agree to do that and I said

shareholders agree to do that and I said okay and so being people of faith we

okay and so being people of faith we

okay and so being people of faith we prayed about it and said if it’s meant

prayed about it and said if it’s meant

prayed about it and said if it’s meant to be it will happen and he went out to

to be it will happen and he went out to

to be it will happen and he went out to meet with each one of their shareholders

meet with each one of their shareholders

meet with each one of their shareholders and came back and said Sondra we have

and came back and said Sondra we have

and came back and said Sondra we have 100% agreement and all the shareholders

100% agreement and all the shareholders

100% agreement and all the shareholders they want to sell so for about five

they want to sell so for about five

they want to sell so for about five minutes I was really excited and then I

minutes I was really excited and then I

minutes I was really excited and then I thought about oh my goodness we’ve got a

thought about oh my goodness we’ve got a

thought about oh my goodness we’ve got a lot of debt that we’re gonna have to pay

lot of debt that we’re gonna have to pay

lot of debt that we’re gonna have to pay so anyway a lot you know being raised

so anyway a lot you know being raised

so anyway a lot you know being raised with no money and then all of a sudden

with no money and then all of a sudden

with no money and then all of a sudden owning a business and having the

owning a business and having the

owning a business and having the pressures from that business I was very

pressures from that business I was very

pressures from that business I was very very afraid but we put the right team

very afraid but we put the right team

very afraid but we put the right team together we went and found people within

together we went and found people within

together we went and found people within the company that were the right team

the company that were the right team

the company that were the right team members and like-minded and wanted to

members and like-minded and wanted to

members and like-minded and wanted to have the best our dream was to have the

have the best our dream was to have the

have the best our dream was to have the best service company in the industry and

best service company in the industry and

best service company in the industry and and so we put the team together went out

and so we put the team together went out

and so we put the team together went out and found other people in the industry

and found other people in the industry

and found other people in the industry that that we’re willing to come on our

that that we’re willing to come on our

that that we’re willing to come on our team and just hit the ground running and

team and just hit the ground running and

team and just hit the ground running and one thing that we had asked the

one thing that we had asked the

one thing that we had asked the shareholders was can we pay you back in

shareholders was can we pay you back in

shareholders was can we pay you back in ten years because we really don’t have a

ten years because we really don’t have a

ten years because we really don’t have a lot of money and most of it’s going to

lot of money and most of it’s going to

lot of money and most of it’s going to be borrowed and if you would please

be borrowed and if you would please

be borrowed and if you would please allow us to pay you back in ten years

allow us to pay you back in ten years

allow us to pay you back in ten years and they said sure so everything was

and they said sure so everything was

and they said sure so everything was just unfolding the way we wanted it to

just unfolding the way we wanted it to

just unfolding the way we wanted it to well fast forward five years and we had

well fast forward five years and we had

well fast forward five years and we had made enough money with our team to pay

made enough money with our team to pay

made enough money with our team to pay them back in half the time it had been

them back in half the time it had been

them back in half the time it had been such a successful company and with that

such a successful company and with that

such a successful company and with that we started in in a bust it was not a

we started in in a bust it was not a

we started in in a bust it was not a time of flourishing we put our team

time of flourishing we put our team

time of flourishing we put our team together and that’s one thing that we

together and that’s one thing that we

together and that’s one thing that we always did is when there is a slump in

always did is when there is a slump in

always did is when there is a slump in the economy that’s when we worked on

the economy that’s when we worked on

the economy that’s when we worked on getting ready for the next rise but

getting ready for the next rise but

getting ready for the next rise but anyway that worked it’s not in five

anyway that worked it’s not in five

anyway that worked it’s not in five years we were able to pay them back

years we were able to pay them back

years we were able to pay them back because we felt so blessed by our team

because we felt so blessed by our team

because we felt so blessed by our team and and we’re happy with the team we had

and and we’re happy with the team we had

and and we’re happy with the team we had together

together

together we decided that we would let our team

we decided that we would let our team

we decided that we would let our team members invest in our business and the

members invest in our business and the

members invest in our business and the managers then invested in the business

managers then invested in the business

managers then invested in the business and then it was amazing what was

and then it was amazing what was

and then it was amazing what was happening in in the company it just kept

happening in in the company it just kept

happening in in the company it just kept growing and growing and by the time we

growing and growing and by the time we

growing and growing and by the time we we ended up selling the business later

we ended up selling the business later

we ended up selling the business later was we had grown into 15 different

was we had grown into 15 different

was we had grown into 15 different communities but as things were rocking

communities but as things were rocking

communities but as things were rocking along and life was good we decided to go

along and life was good we decided to go

along and life was good we decided to go on a trip to Costa Rica and I love

on a trip to Costa Rica and I love

on a trip to Costa Rica and I love fishing so of course the first thing

fishing so of course the first thing

fishing so of course the first thing I’ll plan is we’re going to go deep-sea

I’ll plan is we’re going to go deep-sea

I’ll plan is we’re going to go deep-sea fishing well that day I know it was a

fishing well that day I know it was a

fishing well that day I know it was a god thing because that day I didn’t go

god thing because that day I didn’t go

god thing because that day I didn’t go fishing and we there were several people

fishing and we there were several people

fishing and we there were several people on the boat our youngest son Reece was

on the boat our youngest son Reece was

on the boat our youngest son Reece was on it also in his college roommate in

on it also in his college roommate in

on it also in his college roommate in two other families and I get a call

two other families and I get a call

two other families and I get a call about half way about the time they were

about half way about the time they were

about half way about the time they were supposed to get home and our friend says

supposed to get home and our friend says

supposed to get home and our friend says saundra there’s been a terrible accident

saundra there’s been a terrible accident

saundra there’s been a terrible accident and I said what’s wrong and they said

and I said what’s wrong and they said

and I said what’s wrong and they said well Toby was thrown off the boat and

well Toby was thrown off the boat and

well Toby was thrown off the boat and got caught in the motor and you need to

got caught in the motor and you need to

got caught in the motor and you need to meet us at the marina so I’ll just

meet us at the marina so I’ll just

meet us at the marina so I’ll just Drina land set in and I took off for the

Drina land set in and I took off for the

Drina land set in and I took off for the marina and when I got there I didn’t

marina and when I got there I didn’t

marina and when I got there I didn’t know what would happen when they said he

know what would happen when they said he

know what would happen when they said he was cut by the motor he’d fallen into

was cut by the motor he’d fallen into

was cut by the motor he’d fallen into the motor I didn’t know if he was

the motor I didn’t know if he was

the motor I didn’t know if he was amputated or or what had happened I

amputated or or what had happened I

amputated or or what had happened I didn’t know where how my world is going

didn’t know where how my world is going

didn’t know where how my world is going to change so I get there and once I made

to change so I get there and once I made

to change so I get there and once I made sure that all his limbs were intact then

sure that all his limbs were intact then

sure that all his limbs were intact then I noticed all the bandages and I asked

I noticed all the bandages and I asked

I noticed all the bandages and I asked what had happened and what had happened

what had happened and what had happened

what had happened and what had happened was the Sailfish were they caught to

was the Sailfish were they caught to

was the Sailfish were they caught to selfish at once and and often if you’ve

selfish at once and and often if you’ve

selfish at once and and often if you’ve ever gone deep-sea fishing that captain

ever gone deep-sea fishing that captain

ever gone deep-sea fishing that captain will try to help you by backing down the

will try to help you by backing down the

will try to help you by backing down the boat well when he was backing down the

boat well when he was backing down the

boat well when he was backing down the boat water was coming in and our

boat water was coming in and our

boat water was coming in and our youngest son started noticing came out

youngest son started noticing came out

youngest son started noticing came out for the commotion but he said he saw

for the commotion but he said he saw

for the commotion but he said he saw that water coming in and thought

that water coming in and thought

that water coming in and thought something bad is about to happen

something bad is about to happen

something bad is about to happen so he started scooting back and Toby was

so he started scooting back and Toby was

so he started scooting back and Toby was there one minute and he was gone so

there one minute and he was gone so

there one minute and he was gone so everyone goes to the back of the boat

everyone goes to the back of the boat

everyone goes to the back of the boat Toby be my husband goes to the back of

Toby be my husband goes to the back of

Toby be my husband goes to the back of the boat and they don’t seem they see

the boat and they don’t seem they see

the boat and they don’t seem they see his cap and no one can find him so there

his cap and no one can find him so there

his cap and no one can find him so there everyone’s in a panic and they wait for

everyone’s in a panic and they wait for

everyone’s in a panic and they wait for a while and they saw some blood and

a while and they saw some blood and

a while and they saw some blood and thought he

thought he

thought he not going to come back so our youngest

not going to come back so our youngest

not going to come back so our youngest son starts running around the boat in a

son starts running around the boat in a

son starts running around the boat in a panic and he said I just started running

panic and he said I just started running

panic and he said I just started running and running and running around and he

and running and running around and he

and running and running around and he went to the front of the boat where no

went to the front of the boat where no

went to the front of the boat where no one was looking and Toby said he

one was looking and Toby said he

one was looking and Toby said he remembers his legs were cut the length

remembers his legs were cut the length

remembers his legs were cut the length of his legs just filleted basically and

of his legs just filleted basically and

of his legs just filleted basically and then he had deep cuts in his hip and he

then he had deep cuts in his hip and he

then he had deep cuts in his hip and he couldn’t use his legs and when he hit

couldn’t use his legs and when he hit

couldn’t use his legs and when he hit the motor he said he remembers hitting

the motor he said he remembers hitting

the motor he said he remembers hitting the hitting it pushing you away and he’s

the hitting it pushing you away and he’s

the hitting it pushing you away and he’s a really strong person in a strong

a really strong person in a strong

a really strong person in a strong swimmer so he swam under the boat went

swimmer so he swam under the boat went

swimmer so he swam under the boat went to the front and so no one was looking

to the front and so no one was looking

to the front and so no one was looking there though that was the bad thing is

there though that was the bad thing is

there though that was the bad thing is that he didn’t stay where he had fallen

that he didn’t stay where he had fallen

that he didn’t stay where he had fallen but our son he said he remembers Holt

but our son he said he remembers Holt

but our son he said he remembers Holt trying to hold himself up and the waves

trying to hold himself up and the waves

trying to hold himself up and the waves would go up and he wouldn’t see the boat

would go up and he wouldn’t see the boat

would go up and he wouldn’t see the boat and it would come down but at one time

and it would come down but at one time

and it would come down but at one time when it came down and he was about to

when it came down and he was about to

when it came down and he was about to give up our youngest son saw him he said

give up our youngest son saw him he said

give up our youngest son saw him he said that was the best thing that he could

that was the best thing that he could

that was the best thing that he could ever say because by then he was praying

ever say because by then he was praying

ever say because by then he was praying was lord please don’t let me die in

was lord please don’t let me die in

was lord please don’t let me die in front of my son so he just threw all of

front of my son so he just threw all of

front of my son so he just threw all of that it was just a miracle that he saw

that it was just a miracle that he saw

that it was just a miracle that he saw him

him

him and so by then they brought the boat

and so by then they brought the boat

and so by then they brought the boat over and Toby remembered later what

over and Toby remembered later what

over and Toby remembered later what happened with all that was that he kept

happened with all that was that he kept

happened with all that was that he kept thinking why isn’t anyone jumping in to

thinking why isn’t anyone jumping in to

thinking why isn’t anyone jumping in to get me because they were saying swim

get me because they were saying swim

get me because they were saying swim over here swim over here and when he got

over here swim over here and when he got

over here swim over here and when he got in the boat he realized that there was

in the boat he realized that there was

in the boat he realized that there was blood all around him and you’re in the

blood all around him and you’re in the

blood all around him and you’re in the middle of the ocean there were sharks

middle of the ocean there were sharks

middle of the ocean there were sharks out there so they finally bring him in

out there so they finally bring him in

out there so they finally bring him in one of the deckhands jumps into the boat

one of the deckhands jumps into the boat

one of the deckhands jumps into the boat I mean jumps into the water brings him

I mean jumps into the water brings him

I mean jumps into the water brings him in and and they brought him in and long

in and and they brought him in and long

in and and they brought him in and long story short he spends four hours in

story short he spends four hours in

story short he spends four hours in surgery in Costa Rica and that was

surgery in Costa Rica and that was

surgery in Costa Rica and that was really difficult for me because I worked

really difficult for me because I worked

really difficult for me because I worked in a hospital for 15 years so I know how

in a hospital for 15 years so I know how

in a hospital for 15 years so I know how hard it can be with people taking care

hard it can be with people taking care

hard it can be with people taking care of you and and I don’t know in a net

of you and and I don’t know in a net

of you and and I don’t know in a net foreign country what its going to be

foreign country what its going to be

foreign country what its going to be like but the doctor eventually talked me

like but the doctor eventually talked me

like but the doctor eventually talked me into taking care of Toby and I let him

into taking care of Toby and I let him

into taking care of Toby and I let him and he said he can’t he has to be taken

and he said he can’t he has to be taken

and he said he can’t he has to be taken care of you’ve got to let me take care

care of you’ve got to let me take care

care of you’ve got to let me take care of him so he’s fine today thank goodness

of him so he’s fine today thank goodness

of him so he’s fine today thank goodness he’s basically 100% cured from all his

he’s basically 100% cured from all his

he’s basically 100% cured from all his injuries but I tell you that long story

injuries but I tell you that long story

injuries but I tell you that long story to let you know that what community

to let you know that what community

to let you know that what community means to us that night when he had

means to us that night when he had

means to us that night when he had surgery when after his surgery we had

surgery when after his surgery we had

surgery when after his surgery we had calls from our community

calls from our community

calls from our community and Tech’s from our community that we

and Tech’s from our community that we

and Tech’s from our community that we had no we didn’t know half the people

had no we didn’t know half the people

had no we didn’t know half the people and we weren’t that well-known

and we weren’t that well-known

and we weren’t that well-known it’s just that word spread and the power

it’s just that word spread and the power

it’s just that word spread and the power of a community that she put around you s

of a community that she put around you s

of a community that she put around you s in our company and the place where we

in our company and the place where we

in our company and the place where we had lived grown up and been and our kids

had lived grown up and been and our kids

had lived grown up and been and our kids had grown up and we’d gone to church was

had grown up and we’d gone to church was

had grown up and we’d gone to church was overwhelming I can’t even tell you what

overwhelming I can’t even tell you what

overwhelming I can’t even tell you what it felt like that night and we’ve always

it felt like that night and we’ve always

it felt like that night and we’ve always felt a sense of giving back with that so

felt a sense of giving back with that so

felt a sense of giving back with that so in 2015 when we sold our company it was

in 2015 when we sold our company it was

in 2015 when we sold our company it was very important to us to give back to the

very important to us to give back to the

very important to us to give back to the community and that’s why as some of you

community and that’s why as some of you

community and that’s why as some of you that live in this community have heard

that live in this community have heard

that live in this community have heard that we finally realized our dream we

that we finally realized our dream we

that we finally realized our dream we have enough money money to give back to

have enough money money to give back to

have enough money money to give back to what’s been given to us we want to bless

what’s been given to us we want to bless

what’s been given to us we want to bless others as we’ve been blessed and so

others as we’ve been blessed and so

others as we’ve been blessed and so right now we’re in the middle of an

right now we’re in the middle of an

right now we’re in the middle of an opportunity to revitalize our downtown

opportunity to revitalize our downtown

opportunity to revitalize our downtown here in Odessa we’re working on that

here in Odessa we’re working on that

here in Odessa we’re working on that with the city and it’s one of the we

with the city and it’s one of the we

with the city and it’s one of the we will never even dreamed of doing that

will never even dreamed of doing that

will never even dreamed of doing that and we’re so excited to be in the middle

and we’re so excited to be in the middle

and we’re so excited to be in the middle of that but my story today I tell you

of that but my story today I tell you

of that but my story today I tell you that whether you are in a tug boat or

that whether you are in a tug boat or

that whether you are in a tug boat or whether you’re in a ship or wherever you

whether you’re in a ship or wherever you

whether you’re in a ship or wherever you are rough seas calm seas stay steady and

are rough seas calm seas stay steady and

are rough seas calm seas stay steady and strong and be secure and don’t fall off

strong and be secure and don’t fall off

strong and be secure and don’t fall off that boat thank you

that boat thank you

that boat thank you [Applause]

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