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Becoming the best version of yourself | Gregory Williams, Ed.D. | TEDxOptimistPark


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[Applause] today I want to talk to you about

today I want to talk to you about

today I want to talk to you about becoming the best version of yourself

becoming the best version of yourself

becoming the best version of yourself becoming the best version of you

becoming the best version of you

becoming the best version of you maximizing who you are and your efforts

maximizing who you are and your efforts

maximizing who you are and your efforts and your potential impact now I’m a

and your potential impact now I’m a

and your potential impact now I’m a person who believes in maximization

person who believes in maximization

person who believes in maximization personally and I think for you this

personally and I think for you this

personally and I think for you this could mean a lot of really good things

could mean a lot of really good things

could mean a lot of really good things if you can continue to be the best you

if you can continue to be the best you

if you can continue to be the best you now you don’t have to compete with other

now you don’t have to compete with other

now you don’t have to compete with other folks I’m not telling you to be someone

folks I’m not telling you to be someone

folks I’m not telling you to be someone else or to become someone else because

else or to become someone else because

else or to become someone else because we know that’s impossible but it is very

we know that’s impossible but it is very

we know that’s impossible but it is very possible for you to be and to become the

possible for you to be and to become the

possible for you to be and to become the best version of you now again I said I

best version of you now again I said I

best version of you now again I said I believe in self maximization I think you

believe in self maximization I think you

believe in self maximization I think you should do everything that you can to be

should do everything that you can to be

should do everything that you can to be the best person that you can during your

the best person that you can during your

the best person that you can during your limited time on this earth because I

limited time on this earth because I

limited time on this earth because I promise you it is limited now some may

promise you it is limited now some may

promise you it is limited now some may not believe that but as they say keep on

not believe that but as they say keep on

not believe that but as they say keep on living for as long as you can but there

living for as long as you can but there

living for as long as you can but there is an exit plan whether you are

is an exit plan whether you are

is an exit plan whether you are supportive of that exit plan are not so

supportive of that exit plan are not so

supportive of that exit plan are not so self maximized every moment that you can

self maximized every moment that you can

self maximized every moment that you can while you’re here and I think that all

while you’re here and I think that all

while you’re here and I think that all starts with for me it starts with health

starts with for me it starts with health

starts with for me it starts with health because if you don’t have your health

because if you don’t have your health

because if you don’t have your health you’ve heard this before you don’t have

you’ve heard this before you don’t have

you’ve heard this before you don’t have anything if you don’t have your health

anything if you don’t have your health

anything if you don’t have your health you can’t be the person you need to be

you can’t be the person you need to be

you can’t be the person you need to be you can’t function properly you can’t

you can’t function properly you can’t

you can’t function properly you can’t move around in this world you can’t make

move around in this world you can’t make

move around in this world you can’t make the impact that you’d like to make her

the impact that you’d like to make her

the impact that you’d like to make her med words famous football coach once

med words famous football coach once

med words famous football coach once said that the most important ability is

said that the most important ability is

said that the most important ability is availability if you’re not available if

availability if you’re not available if

availability if you’re not available if you’re not here doesn’t matter how smart

you’re not here doesn’t matter how smart

you’re not here doesn’t matter how smart you are it doesn’t matter how talented

you are it doesn’t matter how talented

you are it doesn’t matter how talented how skilled or any of the rest you have

how skilled or any of the rest you have

how skilled or any of the rest you have to have that foundation the next one for

to have that foundation the next one for

to have that foundation the next one for me would be your education I think

me would be your education I think

me would be your education I think that’s very important because you have

that’s very important because you have

that’s very important because you have to know some things now that

to know some things now that

to know some things now that is going to be both formal and informal

is going to be both formal and informal

is going to be both formal and informal your education is critical because

your education is critical because

your education is critical because without knowledge you will fall for

without knowledge you will fall for

without knowledge you will fall for anything without knowledge you won’t be

anything without knowledge you won’t be

anything without knowledge you won’t be able to do much of anything without

able to do much of anything without

able to do much of anything without knowledge you lose some of your

knowledge you lose some of your

knowledge you lose some of your potential value after education I think

potential value after education I think

potential value after education I think it’s important to have your social or a

it’s important to have your social or a

it’s important to have your social or a social impact you have to work your help

social impact you have to work your help

social impact you have to work your help your society you have to help your

your society you have to help your

your society you have to help your community because if you don’t have a

community because if you don’t have a

community because if you don’t have a community around you that’s doing good

community around you that’s doing good

community around you that’s doing good things then it doesn’t matter how much

things then it doesn’t matter how much

things then it doesn’t matter how much money you might have how many things you

money you might have how many things you

money you might have how many things you might have how many cars you want to

might have how many cars you want to

might have how many cars you want to drive if you don’t have a functioning

drive if you don’t have a functioning

drive if you don’t have a functioning community you’ve seen some of the horror

community you’ve seen some of the horror

community you’ve seen some of the horror movies about the world coming to an end

movies about the world coming to an end

movies about the world coming to an end and these people you might have all

and these people you might have all

and these people you might have all kinds of cash and all kinds of other

kinds of cash and all kinds of other

kinds of cash and all kinds of other stuff but without your community around

stuff but without your community around

stuff but without your community around you again you have nothing and then

you again you have nothing and then

you again you have nothing and then thirdly in that group for me would be to

thirdly in that group for me would be to

thirdly in that group for me would be to make sure that you’re as good as you can

make sure that you’re as good as you can

make sure that you’re as good as you can be professionally every day in every way

be professionally every day in every way

be professionally every day in every way and on every play as grant Taos talked

and on every play as grant Taos talked

and on every play as grant Taos talked about you should give your very best

about you should give your very best

about you should give your very best professionally you should be the best

professionally you should be the best

professionally you should be the best that you can be you should not have down

that you can be you should not have down

that you can be you should not have down days when you’re being paid when you’re

days when you’re being paid when you’re

days when you’re being paid when you’re helping the people when you’re helping

helping the people when you’re helping

helping the people when you’re helping your customers you should not be down

your customers you should not be down

your customers you should not be down ever every day Michael Jordan talked

ever every day Michael Jordan talked

ever every day Michael Jordan talked about this he said there might be

about this he said there might be

about this he said there might be someone in this audience someone in this

someone in this audience someone in this

someone in this audience someone in this arena who does not know that I’m the

arena who does not know that I’m the

arena who does not know that I’m the best basketball player to ever live so I

best basketball player to ever live so I

best basketball player to ever live so I have to prove it each and every night

have to prove it each and every night

have to prove it each and every night self maximization now one of the ways to

self maximization now one of the ways to

self maximization now one of the ways to do that one of the ways to continue to

do that one of the ways to continue to

do that one of the ways to continue to get better is to role model find role

get better is to role model find role

get better is to role model find role models in your life this is something

models in your life this is something

models in your life this is something that doesn’t cost you a whole lot or it

that doesn’t cost you a whole lot or it

that doesn’t cost you a whole lot or it could cost you something if you’re

could cost you something if you’re

could cost you something if you’re willing to invest in it but it doesn’t

willing to invest in it but it doesn’t

willing to invest in it but it doesn’t have to cost you a lot but you should

have to cost you a lot but you should

have to cost you a lot but you should find into

find into

find into find people find companies find

find people find companies find

find people find companies find organizations find entities that are

organizations find entities that are

organizations find entities that are doing things that make you proud make

doing things that make you proud make

doing things that make you proud make you listen make you stand up make you

you listen make you stand up make you

you listen make you stand up make you say how do they do that find examples

say how do they do that find examples

say how do they do that find examples now when you’re building your pedestals

now when you’re building your pedestals

now when you’re building your pedestals for these companies or individuals I

for these companies or individuals I

for these companies or individuals I would say that you wouldn’t build them

would say that you wouldn’t build them

would say that you wouldn’t build them to don’t build them too high okay you

to don’t build them too high okay you

to don’t build them too high okay you might want to go for the medium size of

might want to go for the medium size of

might want to go for the medium size of the smallest size pedestals that you put

the smallest size pedestals that you put

the smallest size pedestals that you put them on because keep in mind they’re

them on because keep in mind they’re

them on because keep in mind they’re humans but that doesn’t mean that you

humans but that doesn’t mean that you

humans but that doesn’t mean that you can’t learn from them

can’t learn from them

can’t learn from them you can always learn and for this

you can always learn and for this

you can always learn and for this presentation I would like for you to

presentation I would like for you to

presentation I would like for you to think about Apple the company Apple as

think about Apple the company Apple as

think about Apple the company Apple as an example for all of us now Apple is a

an example for all of us now Apple is a

an example for all of us now Apple is a wonderful organization they’ve done a

wonderful organization they’ve done a

wonderful organization they’ve done a lot of good work many of you have their

lot of good work many of you have their

lot of good work many of you have their products on you around your wrist in

products on you around your wrist in

products on you around your wrist in your pocket etc but while we think about

your pocket etc but while we think about

your pocket etc but while we think about Apple keep in mind that you can use

Apple keep in mind that you can use

Apple keep in mind that you can use preachers or clergy in your area you

preachers or clergy in your area you

preachers or clergy in your area you could use for it for example as role

could use for it for example as role

could use for it for example as role models you can use coaches you can use

models you can use coaches you can use

models you can use coaches you can use players athletes performers you can eat

players athletes performers you can eat

players athletes performers you can eat there are all kinds of people who are

there are all kinds of people who are

there are all kinds of people who are around you doing good things as well so

around you doing good things as well so

around you doing good things as well so it doesn’t have to be this multi-level

it doesn’t have to be this multi-level

it doesn’t have to be this multi-level huge company but for this example let’s

huge company but for this example let’s

huge company but for this example let’s use Apple Apple started from humble

use Apple Apple started from humble

use Apple Apple started from humble beginnings Apple started in a garage a

beginnings Apple started in a garage a

beginnings Apple started in a garage a few guys with some ideas from those

few guys with some ideas from those

few guys with some ideas from those ideas they were able to become wonderful

ideas they were able to become wonderful

ideas they were able to become wonderful innovators they did great things they

innovators they did great things they

innovators they did great things they were they had some really good products

were they had some really good products

were they had some really good products and then they almost went bankrupt they

and then they almost went bankrupt they

and then they almost went bankrupt they fired Steve Jobs

but then they came back because of

but then they came back because of innovation because of leadership they

innovation because of leadership they

innovation because of leadership they brought Steve back and Steve insisted

brought Steve back and Steve insisted

brought Steve back and Steve insisted that each and everything that they did

that each and everything that they did

that each and everything that they did had to be the best had to be marvelous

had to be the best had to be marvelous

had to be the best had to be marvelous had to be something that would make you

had to be something that would make you

had to be something that would make you fall in love with the product Apple is

fall in love with the product Apple is

fall in love with the product Apple is now the largest company in the world

now the largest company in the world

now the largest company in the world over eight hundred billion dollars in

over eight hundred billion dollars in

over eight hundred billion dollars in value so what are some of the things

value so what are some of the things

value so what are some of the things that we can learn from Apple again back

that we can learn from Apple again back

that we can learn from Apple again back to health

to health

to health think about what Apple does in terms of

think about what Apple does in terms of

think about what Apple does in terms of Health one of the things they do is

Health one of the things they do is

Health one of the things they do is inspiration if it through the Apple

inspiration if it through the Apple

inspiration if it through the Apple watch they remind you to breathe right

watch they remind you to breathe right

watch they remind you to breathe right something I think most of you are doing

something I think most of you are doing

something I think most of you are doing on a regular basis but they’ll remind

on a regular basis but they’ll remind

on a regular basis but they’ll remind you to breathe they remind you to stand

you to breathe they remind you to stand

you to breathe they remind you to stand up every hour you need to stand up you

up every hour you need to stand up you

up every hour you need to stand up you need to move Apple will help you with

need to move Apple will help you with

need to move Apple will help you with that so what can you do for yourself in

that so what can you do for yourself in

that so what can you do for yourself in the area of help as you’re following

the area of help as you’re following

the area of help as you’re following this model one is to always seek balance

this model one is to always seek balance

this model one is to always seek balance in your life always think balance you

in your life always think balance you

in your life always think balance you need to move you need to exercise you

need to move you need to exercise you

need to move you need to exercise you need to eat right you need to do all

need to eat right you need to do all

need to eat right you need to do all those things if it’s good enough for

those things if it’s good enough for

those things if it’s good enough for Apple it should be good enough for us

Apple it should be good enough for us

Apple it should be good enough for us you need to greatly reduce your

you need to greatly reduce your

you need to greatly reduce your footprint in the area of health care and

footprint in the area of health care and

footprint in the area of health care and you can do that by first being your own

you can do that by first being your own

you can do that by first being your own physician work on yourself education is

physician work on yourself education is

physician work on yourself education is next

next

next what is Apple doing in regards to

what is Apple doing in regards to

what is Apple doing in regards to education they do have a strong position

education they do have a strong position

education they do have a strong position there in their stores they have Apple

there in their stores they have Apple

there in their stores they have Apple today where you can go in and they will

today where you can go in and they will

today where you can go in and they will talk to you about what are you doing

talk to you about what are you doing

talk to you about what are you doing today at Apple what are we what can you

today at Apple what are we what can you

today at Apple what are we what can you learn what can we teach you you can go

learn what can we teach you you can go

learn what can we teach you you can go to any of the Apple stores and they’re

to any of the Apple stores and they’re

to any of the Apple stores and they’re always

always

always teaching always helping they have a

teaching always helping they have a

teaching always helping they have a program a program called connected where

program a program called connected where

program a program called connected where they reach out and work with schools

they reach out and work with schools

they reach out and work with schools trying to share and connecting

trying to share and connecting

trying to share and connecting technology with education because we

technology with education because we

technology with education because we know it’s critical now what can we do

know it’s critical now what can we do

know it’s critical now what can we do through education one simple thing one

through education one simple thing one

through education one simple thing one simple thing that we all can do every

simple thing that we all can do every

simple thing that we all can do every day

day

day learn something new every day learn

learn something new every day learn

learn something new every day learn something new for example did you know

something new for example did you know

something new for example did you know that George Washington was the first

that George Washington was the first

that George Washington was the first president of these United States you’re

president of these United States you’re

president of these United States you’re wrong he was actually the ninth now

wrong he was actually the ninth now

wrong he was actually the ninth now you’re gonna look that up weren’t you

you’re gonna look that up weren’t you

you’re gonna look that up weren’t you you’re gonna google that he was actually

you’re gonna google that he was actually

you’re gonna google that he was actually the ninth president of these United

the ninth president of these United

the ninth president of these United States every day learned something new

States every day learned something new

States every day learned something new social impact Apple what do they do in

social impact Apple what do they do in

social impact Apple what do they do in this category their philosophy is and I

this category their philosophy is and I

this category their philosophy is and I love this we’re all in this together

love this we’re all in this together

love this we’re all in this together we’re all in this together

we’re all in this together

we’re all in this together skin color nationality gender who you

skin color nationality gender who you

skin color nationality gender who you like and who you don’t like who you love

like and who you don’t like who you love

like and who you don’t like who you love who you don’t love we’re all in this

who you don’t love we’re all in this

who you don’t love we’re all in this together small planet let’s work

together small planet let’s work

together small planet let’s work together what’s another thing Apple does

together what’s another thing Apple does

together what’s another thing Apple does in this category they would tell you to

in this category they would tell you to

in this category they would tell you to leave the planet in a better condition

don’t make it worse return something to

don’t make it worse return something to the planet if you can don’t hurt the

the planet if you can don’t hurt the

the planet if you can don’t hurt the planet and you know as huge as they are

planet and you know as huge as they are

planet and you know as huge as they are that’s important and what can you do

that’s important and what can you do

that’s important and what can you do socially find a Cause find something

socially find a Cause find something

socially find a Cause find something that you can get behind find something

that you can get behind find something

that you can get behind find something that you care about and support it

that you care about and support it

that you care about and support it professional impact

Steve Jobs Apple I’m really excited

Steve Jobs Apple I’m really excited about this concept this was this is

about this concept this was this is

about this concept this was this is what’s cool Apple had this really really

what’s cool Apple had this really really

what’s cool Apple had this really really really good product and they and you

really good product and they and you

really good product and they and you could get music on this product and you

could get music on this product and you

could get music on this product and you could and people were wearing it on

could and people were wearing it on

could and people were wearing it on their bodies and it was the and it

their bodies and it was the and it

their bodies and it was the and it changed the music industry right you

changed the music industry right you

changed the music industry right you know what I’m talking about it changed

know what I’m talking about it changed

know what I’m talking about it changed the music industry and many of you had

the music industry and many of you had

the music industry and many of you had iPods right iPods were the thing they

iPods right iPods were the thing they

iPods right iPods were the thing they weren’t just an mp3 player they were our

weren’t just an mp3 player they were our

weren’t just an mp3 player they were our pods and then I mean it was the best

pods and then I mean it was the best

pods and then I mean it was the best change the music industry you can’t I

change the music industry you can’t I

change the music industry you can’t I don’t think you can

don’t think you can

don’t think you can I mean Masai said they’re gonna stop

I mean Masai said they’re gonna stop

I mean Masai said they’re gonna stop selling CDs because of that iPod and

selling CDs because of that iPod and

selling CDs because of that iPod and what they did with iTunes but guess what

what they did with iTunes but guess what

what they did with iTunes but guess what they replaced that product in effect

they replaced that product in effect

they replaced that product in effect with the iPhone they came out with

with the iPhone they came out with

with the iPhone they came out with another product so good that it’s

another product so good that it’s

another product so good that it’s stepped on one of the most amazing

stepped on one of the most amazing

stepped on one of the most amazing products in history now think about that

products in history now think about that

products in history now think about that for a second most of you don’t carry

for a second most of you don’t carry

for a second most of you don’t carry around in our pod and an iPhone do you

around in our pod and an iPhone do you

around in our pod and an iPhone do you the iPhone has one inside that’s how

the iPhone has one inside that’s how

the iPhone has one inside that’s how amazing Apple is they’re continuing to

amazing Apple is they’re continuing to

amazing Apple is they’re continuing to try to invent they’re coming up with

try to invent they’re coming up with

try to invent they’re coming up with that next big thing

that next big thing

that next big thing what are you doing your professional

what are you doing your professional

what are you doing your professional impact should be in my opinion to be

impact should be in my opinion to be

impact should be in my opinion to be indispensable to be irreplaceable

indispensable to be irreplaceable

indispensable to be irreplaceable to be so good that your company your

to be so good that your company your

to be so good that your company your business your school would hate to see

business your school would hate to see

business your school would hate to see you leave you would leave a void so wide

you leave you would leave a void so wide

you leave you would leave a void so wide that it would it would shake the

that it would it would shake the

that it would it would shake the foundation of where you are that’s the

foundation of where you are that’s the

foundation of where you are that’s the kind of employee you should be that’s

kind of employee you should be that’s

kind of employee you should be that’s the kind of business owner you should be

the kind of business owner you should be

the kind of business owner you should be you should be the kind of business owner

you should be the kind of business owner

you should be the kind of business owner where if your product we’re to go out of

where if your product we’re to go out of

where if your product we’re to go out of business

business

business the community would would would shake

the community would would would shake

the community would would would shake and would know that something is wrong

and would know that something is wrong

and would know that something is wrong how can we survive without them we need

how can we survive without them we need

how can we survive without them we need a replacement because they are that good

a replacement because they are that good

a replacement because they are that good that’s who you want to be for us and for

that’s who you want to be for us and for

that’s who you want to be for us and for me here in Odessa Texas I came to work

me here in Odessa Texas I came to work

me here in Odessa Texas I came to work at Odessa college a little over eleven

at Odessa college a little over eleven

at Odessa college a little over eleven years ago and we were at Odessa college

years ago and we were at Odessa college

years ago and we were at Odessa college we were okay we were okay we were not

we were okay we were okay we were not

we were okay we were okay we were not the best and we were not the worst we

the best and we were not the worst we

the best and we were not the worst we were okay and then there was this little

were okay and then there was this little

were okay and then there was this little thing called a defunding scare that hit

thing called a defunding scare that hit

thing called a defunding scare that hit us a few years back where our existence

us a few years back where our existence

us a few years back where our existence was threatened and for me and our team

was threatened and for me and our team

was threatened and for me and our team we decided that it was no longer okay to

we decided that it was no longer okay to

we decided that it was no longer okay to be okay we decided that if we’re going

be okay we decided that if we’re going

be okay we decided that if we’re going to go away if someone’s going to take

to go away if someone’s going to take

to go away if someone’s going to take out Odessa college they’re going to take

out Odessa college they’re going to take

out Odessa college they’re going to take out the best Community College in the

out the best Community College in the

out the best Community College in the nation and shame on them if they do it

nation and shame on them if they do it

nation and shame on them if they do it since that point as many of you know we

since that point as many of you know we

since that point as many of you know we have won almost every major award in

have won almost every major award in

have won almost every major award in this country and in this state little

this country and in this state little

this country and in this state little ole Odessa college from the home of

ole Odessa college from the home of

ole Odessa college from the home of Friday Night Lights we have become the

Friday Night Lights we have become the

Friday Night Lights we have become the most decorated Community College in the

most decorated Community College in the

most decorated Community College in the United States because each and every day

United States because each and every day

United States because each and every day each department each person we are

each department each person we are

each department each person we are committed to being the best Community

committed to being the best Community

committed to being the best Community College in the nation why because we owe

College in the nation why because we owe

College in the nation why because we owe the people of this community that if you

the people of this community that if you

the people of this community that if you fund us if our community invests in us

fund us if our community invests in us

fund us if our community invests in us the way that they have then we should

the way that they have then we should

the way that they have then we should endeavor to give them the best product

endeavor to give them the best product

endeavor to give them the best product possible no question no excuses we’ve

possible no question no excuses we’ve

possible no question no excuses we’ve doubled our graduation rates we’ve we

doubled our graduation rates we’ve we

doubled our graduation rates we’ve we have we’ve increased our enrollment by

have we’ve increased our enrollment by

have we’ve increased our enrollment by over thirty five or forty percent so

over thirty five or forty percent so

over thirty five or forty percent so we’ll announce a plan where we will

we’ll announce a plan where we will

we’ll announce a plan where we will increase it another 40 or 50 percent yes

increase it another 40 or 50 percent yes

increase it another 40 or 50 percent yes the Lowell Odessa college because we

the Lowell Odessa college because we

the Lowell Odessa college because we want to be the best in the nation now

want to be the best in the nation now

want to be the best in the nation now for you personally wouldn’t it be a

for you personally wouldn’t it be a

for you personally wouldn’t it be a shame wouldn’t it be a shame to go

shame wouldn’t it be a shame to go

shame wouldn’t it be a shame to go through this life being okay when you

through this life being okay when you

through this life being okay when you have greatness inside of you don’t

have greatness inside of you don’t

have greatness inside of you don’t settle don’t give in

settle don’t give in

settle don’t give in don’t settle for being okay don’t relax

don’t settle for being okay don’t relax

don’t settle for being okay don’t relax once you’ve almost done it do everything

once you’ve almost done it do everything

once you’ve almost done it do everything that you can to be the very best that

that you can to be the very best that

that you can to be the very best that you can be the very best and great

you can be the very best and great

you can be the very best and great things will come your way thank you for

things will come your way thank you for

things will come your way thank you for being here today thanks for being a part

being here today thanks for being a part

being here today thanks for being a part of this event we appreciate you all so

of this event we appreciate you all so

of this event we appreciate you all so much have a great day

much have a great day

much have a great day [Applause]

[Applause]

[Applause] you

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