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Circle of Encouragement | Trish Harris | TEDxSandhillsCommunityCollege


good afternoon thank you

good afternoon thank you everyone needs a dream a vision

everyone needs a dream a vision

everyone needs a dream a vision I think our dreams should challenge us

I think our dreams should challenge us

I think our dreams should challenge us and maybe even make us afraid I hope to

and maybe even make us afraid I hope to

and maybe even make us afraid I hope to convince you to create your own

convince you to create your own

convince you to create your own adventure plan something that would

adventure plan something that would

adventure plan something that would shake you up

shake you up

shake you up I’ve been looking so pretty great

I’ve been looking so pretty great

I’ve been looking so pretty great adventure travel in the last ten years

adventure travel in the last ten years

adventure travel in the last ten years or so and it’s given me plenty to be

or so and it’s given me plenty to be

or so and it’s given me plenty to be afraid of recently I completed a for

afraid of recently I completed a for

afraid of recently I completed a for summer hike of the Appalachian Trail

summer hike of the Appalachian Trail

summer hike of the Appalachian Trail which amounts to about 500 miles a

which amounts to about 500 miles a

which amounts to about 500 miles a summer by the time we finish today we

summer by the time we finish today we

summer by the time we finish today we will have journeyed to both sides of

will have journeyed to both sides of

will have journeyed to both sides of this continent and to the top of one of

this continent and to the top of one of

this continent and to the top of one of the world’s highest summits now just

the world’s highest summits now just

the world’s highest summits now just saying aloud I’m going to hike the

saying aloud I’m going to hike the

saying aloud I’m going to hike the Appalachian Trail or any long trail is

Appalachian Trail or any long trail is

Appalachian Trail or any long trail is darned brazen it takes a lot of hutzpah

darned brazen it takes a lot of hutzpah

darned brazen it takes a lot of hutzpah for sure because what if you don’t

for sure because what if you don’t

for sure because what if you don’t finish

finish

finish I’ll go right ahead and answer the four

I’ll go right ahead and answer the four

I’ll go right ahead and answer the four most common questions that people ask

most common questions that people ask

most common questions that people ask long trail hikers no I didn’t carry a

long trail hikers no I didn’t carry a

long trail hikers no I didn’t carry a gun my husband would have liked me to

gun my husband would have liked me to

gun my husband would have liked me to carry a gun and my sons would have liked

carry a gun and my sons would have liked

carry a gun and my sons would have liked me to carry a gun but guns are heavy and

me to carry a gun but guns are heavy and

me to carry a gun but guns are heavy and we found that being on the trail is

we found that being on the trail is

we found that being on the trail is actually a lot safer than being in most

actually a lot safer than being in most

actually a lot safer than being in most towns yes there are bears usually when

towns yes there are bears usually when

towns yes there are bears usually when you see bears on the trail they want to

you see bears on the trail they want to

you see bears on the trail they want to go in the opposite direction of you but

go in the opposite direction of you but

go in the opposite direction of you but it’s a little unnerving at first and

it’s a little unnerving at first and

it’s a little unnerving at first and there are some other kind of scary

there are some other kind of scary

there are some other kind of scary little creatures on the trail who wants

little creatures on the trail who wants

little creatures on the trail who wants to wake up next to a porcupine or a

to wake up next to a porcupine or a

to wake up next to a porcupine or a skunk where do you sleep what we

skunk where do you sleep what we

skunk where do you sleep what we generally slept in our tents my hiking

generally slept in our tents my hiking

generally slept in our tents my hiking partner and I Sarah each had our own

partner and I Sarah each had our own

partner and I Sarah each had our own tent and we found getting into our own

tent and we found getting into our own

tent and we found getting into our own little tent every night was just a lot

little tent every night was just a lot

little tent every night was just a lot cleaner

cleaner

cleaner and smelled a lot better than being in a

and smelled a lot better than being in a

and smelled a lot better than being in a large shelter with 10 or 12 snoring and

large shelter with 10 or 12 snoring and

large shelter with 10 or 12 snoring and smelly men how do you carry all that

smelly men how do you carry all that

smelly men how do you carry all that food people ask you

food people ask you

food people ask you well you don’t what you do is you can do

well you don’t what you do is you can do

well you don’t what you do is you can do a couple of things but what we chose to

a couple of things but what we chose to

a couple of things but what we chose to do was to ship our food and boxes ahead

do was to ship our food and boxes ahead

do was to ship our food and boxes ahead of us on the trail and every three or

of us on the trail and every three or

of us on the trail and every three or four days we’d stop in a town and get

four days we’d stop in a town and get

four days we’d stop in a town and get our food box and this works great except

our food box and this works great except

our food box and this works great except when it doesn’t and so one year we came

when it doesn’t and so one year we came

when it doesn’t and so one year we came into a little tiny town called Parris

into a little tiny town called Parris

into a little tiny town called Parris burg Virginia to find our food box at a

burg Virginia to find our food box at a

burg Virginia to find our food box at a little motel that had burned down five

little motel that had burned down five

little motel that had burned down five months ago that was not in the manual

months ago that was not in the manual

months ago that was not in the manual and so what we had to do was go to a

and so what we had to do was go to a

and so what we had to do was go to a tiny little convenience store in a gas

tiny little convenience store in a gas

tiny little convenience store in a gas station and supply ourselves for four

station and supply ourselves for four

station and supply ourselves for four days and I would challenge you the next

days and I would challenge you the next

days and I would challenge you the next time you go through a tiny town just

time you go through a tiny town just

time you go through a tiny town just stop in one of those little convenience

stop in one of those little convenience

stop in one of those little convenience stores and think about buying food for

stores and think about buying food for

stores and think about buying food for four days that you would want to eat

four days that you would want to eat

four days that you would want to eat hikers burn between five and seven

hikers burn between five and seven

hikers burn between five and seven thousand calories a day so you really

thousand calories a day so you really

thousand calories a day so you really have to eat a lot of food and the

have to eat a lot of food and the

have to eat a lot of food and the carbohydrates and sugar from a

carbohydrates and sugar from a

carbohydrates and sugar from a convenience store are great but you

convenience store are great but you

convenience store are great but you won’t find protein that you need there

won’t find protein that you need there

won’t find protein that you need there years ago in sub-saharan Africa my 17

years ago in sub-saharan Africa my 17

years ago in sub-saharan Africa my 17 year old son and I will landed at

year old son and I will landed at

year old son and I will landed at Nairobi International Airport for our

Nairobi International Airport for our

Nairobi International Airport for our trek up Mount Kilimanjaro we were so

trek up Mount Kilimanjaro we were so

trek up Mount Kilimanjaro we were so excited

excited

excited finally we were in Africa and we landed

finally we were in Africa and we landed

finally we were in Africa and we landed and got our visas stamped and did you

and got our visas stamped and did you

and got our visas stamped and did you know that a lot of people in the world

know that a lot of people in the world

know that a lot of people in the world don’t line up they just make a wedge and

don’t line up they just make a wedge and

don’t line up they just make a wedge and push their way to the exit of a place so

push their way to the exit of a place so

push their way to the exit of a place so we joined that throng and went out to

we joined that throng and went out to

we joined that throng and went out to our sort of beat-up van to be

our sort of beat-up van to be

our sort of beat-up van to be transported to our hotel and we looked

transported to our hotel and we looked

transported to our hotel and we looked at each other and I was so excited and

at each other and I was so excited and

at each other and I was so excited and excited for to share this time with my

excited for to share this time with my

excited for to share this time with my son and a ways out of town it was very

son and a ways out of town it was very

son and a ways out of town it was very very dark and we were stopped our van

very dark and we were stopped our van

very dark and we were stopped our van was stopped by a man and a t-shirt and

was stopped by a man and a t-shirt and

was stopped by a man and a t-shirt and jeans and a submachine gun and I

jeans and a submachine gun and I

jeans and a submachine gun and I remember he shown his flashlight into my

remember he shown his flashlight into my

remember he shown his flashlight into my window and I

window and I

window and I guess maybe checking for safety and so

guess maybe checking for safety and so

guess maybe checking for safety and so we were allowed to proceed on to our

we were allowed to proceed on to our

we were allowed to proceed on to our hotel which also had a 9 foot metal wall

hotel which also had a 9 foot metal wall

hotel which also had a 9 foot metal wall around it and also guards with machine

around it and also guards with machine

around it and also guards with machine guns so this was something that wasn’t

guns so this was something that wasn’t

guns so this was something that wasn’t in the brochure but we were there so we

in the brochure but we were there so we

in the brochure but we were there so we were going to go many your many days

were going to go many your many days

were going to go many your many days later near the top of Mount Kilimanjaro

later near the top of Mount Kilimanjaro

later near the top of Mount Kilimanjaro our Sun will became really quite ill and

our Sun will became really quite ill and

our Sun will became really quite ill and couldn’t keep food down and I said you

couldn’t keep food down and I said you

couldn’t keep food down and I said you want to stop and he said no and so I

want to stop and he said no and so I

want to stop and he said no and so I watched my brave son trudge up the last

watched my brave son trudge up the last

watched my brave son trudge up the last 3,000 feet of that mountain and collapse

3,000 feet of that mountain and collapse

3,000 feet of that mountain and collapse at the end taking oxygen only at that

at the end taking oxygen only at that

at the end taking oxygen only at that point and I think that’s courageous the

point and I think that’s courageous the

point and I think that’s courageous the payoff for that trip to Africa was of

payoff for that trip to Africa was of

payoff for that trip to Africa was of course a wonderful memory with my son

course a wonderful memory with my son

course a wonderful memory with my son but also to see the snows of Kilimanjaro

but also to see the snows of Kilimanjaro

but also to see the snows of Kilimanjaro and this is a story that my son who is a

and this is a story that my son who is a

and this is a story that my son who is a Hemingway lover was excited to see every

Hemingway lover was excited to see every

Hemingway lover was excited to see every day safety is easily lost while out

day safety is easily lost while out

day safety is easily lost while out hiking the combination of cold rain and

hiking the combination of cold rain and

hiking the combination of cold rain and wind and sometimes sleet can create the

wind and sometimes sleet can create the

wind and sometimes sleet can create the perfect conditions for hypothermia and

perfect conditions for hypothermia and

perfect conditions for hypothermia and hypothermia is a very dangerous thing

hypothermia is a very dangerous thing

hypothermia is a very dangerous thing your body temperature if your core

your body temperature if your core

your body temperature if your core temperature drops about 6 degrees this

temperature drops about 6 degrees this

temperature drops about 6 degrees this slows your circulation and respiration

slows your circulation and respiration

slows your circulation and respiration and your brain loses its ability to

and your brain loses its ability to

and your brain loses its ability to function and you get what hikers call

function and you get what hikers call

function and you get what hikers call the umbels you stumble you mumble you

the umbels you stumble you mumble you

the umbels you stumble you mumble you fumble and suddenly setting up your tent

fumble and suddenly setting up your tent

fumble and suddenly setting up your tent becomes an impossible task and you

becomes an impossible task and you

becomes an impossible task and you really can’t even think of why you would

really can’t even think of why you would

really can’t even think of why you would want to do it danger outside is real and

want to do it danger outside is real and

want to do it danger outside is real and can be deadly

can be deadly

can be deadly last year in Maine they found the body

last year in Maine they found the body

last year in Maine they found the body of a woman just my age who had been

of a woman just my age who had been

of a woman just my age who had been missing for two years and she had

missing for two years and she had

missing for two years and she had wandered off the trail and no one really

wandered off the trail and no one really

wandered off the trail and no one really knows what happened to her but possibly

knows what happened to her but possibly

knows what happened to her but possibly she had developed hypothermia

many outdoor venturers though are

many outdoor venturers though are ordinary people and I think they just

ordinary people and I think they just

ordinary people and I think they just listen to their inner voice that says

listen to their inner voice that says

listen to their inner voice that says get out and I imagine that everyone

get out and I imagine that everyone

get out and I imagine that everyone feels a little bit of restlessness and

feels a little bit of restlessness and

feels a little bit of restlessness and I’m here to tell you that trekking and

I’m here to tell you that trekking and

I’m here to tell you that trekking and hiking or very accessible activities for

hiking or very accessible activities for

hiking or very accessible activities for most of us how do you get started well I

most of us how do you get started well I

most of us how do you get started well I think first you recognize the itch and

think first you recognize the itch and

think first you recognize the itch and don’t listen to people who can’t share

don’t listen to people who can’t share

don’t listen to people who can’t share in your excitement it is my experience

in your excitement it is my experience

in your excitement it is my experience that your family and friends kind of

that your family and friends kind of

that your family and friends kind of divide up into two groups one group is

divide up into two groups one group is

divide up into two groups one group is kind of scared for you and it’s hard for

kind of scared for you and it’s hard for

kind of scared for you and it’s hard for them to get excited but the other group

them to get excited but the other group

them to get excited but the other group encourages you and introduces you to

encourages you and introduces you to

encourages you and introduces you to people who have done your trip and they

people who have done your trip and they

people who have done your trip and they are happy for you to take on an

are happy for you to take on an

are happy for you to take on an adventure and those are the people that

adventure and those are the people that

adventure and those are the people that we really need to listen to so then your

we really need to listen to so then your

we really need to listen to so then your dream starts to take on aspects of

dream starts to take on aspects of

dream starts to take on aspects of reality you read about it you save money

reality you read about it you save money

reality you read about it you save money for it you save more money for it you

for it you save more money for it you

for it you save more money for it you buy gear and if you’re like me you buy

buy gear and if you’re like me you buy

buy gear and if you’re like me you buy more gear and finally you do the hardest

more gear and finally you do the hardest

more gear and finally you do the hardest task of all which is to strengthen your

task of all which is to strengthen your

task of all which is to strengthen your body because let’s face it adventure

body because let’s face it adventure

body because let’s face it adventure challenges our bodies I have Canadian

challenges our bodies I have Canadian

challenges our bodies I have Canadian cousins and one year my cousin Nancy was

cousins and one year my cousin Nancy was

cousins and one year my cousin Nancy was telling me about a beautiful trail in

telling me about a beautiful trail in

telling me about a beautiful trail in Vancouver called the west coast and I

Vancouver called the west coast and I

Vancouver called the west coast and I had never heard of it and she described

had never heard of it and she described

had never heard of it and she described to me how she and her daughter hike this

to me how she and her daughter hike this

to me how she and her daughter hike this trail together every year and at 74

trail together every year and at 74

trail together every year and at 74 kilometers along the coast of Vancouver

kilometers along the coast of Vancouver

kilometers along the coast of Vancouver Island beautiful Pacific coastline and

Island beautiful Pacific coastline and

Island beautiful Pacific coastline and she also told me that occasionally she

she also told me that occasionally she

she also told me that occasionally she and her daughter would stop and have a

and her daughter would stop and have a

and her daughter would stop and have a cup of tea in the afternoon and I’m here

cup of tea in the afternoon and I’m here

cup of tea in the afternoon and I’m here to tell you I have never hiked with a

to tell you I have never hiked with a

to tell you I have never hiked with a lot of people mostly men because I

lot of people mostly men because I

lot of people mostly men because I didn’t know women at the time to hike

didn’t know women at the time to hike

didn’t know women at the time to hike with and I never stopped for a cup of

with and I never stopped for a cup of

with and I never stopped for a cup of tea in the afternoon

so I really wanted to find some women to

so I really wanted to find some women to hike with now the West Coast Trail is

hike with now the West Coast Trail is

hike with now the West Coast Trail is achingly beautiful when the tides go out

achingly beautiful when the tides go out

achingly beautiful when the tides go out there is a rocky shelf that you can walk

there is a rocky shelf that you can walk

there is a rocky shelf that you can walk out on and it’s like I think a jewel box

out on and it’s like I think a jewel box

out on and it’s like I think a jewel box of sea urchins and starfish and an enemy

of sea urchins and starfish and an enemy

of sea urchins and starfish and an enemy and in the evening it gets really misty

and in the evening it gets really misty

and in the evening it gets really misty and beautiful and oh but there’s a

and beautiful and oh but there’s a

and beautiful and oh but there’s a challenge at the West Coast Trail and

challenge at the West Coast Trail and

challenge at the West Coast Trail and that is Cougars so the first time I

that is Cougars so the first time I

that is Cougars so the first time I knelt down to filter my water on the

knelt down to filter my water on the

knelt down to filter my water on the West Coast Trail I saw a triangular

West Coast Trail I saw a triangular

West Coast Trail I saw a triangular yellow sign that said beware don’t

yellow sign that said beware don’t

yellow sign that said beware don’t crouch down unless someone’s behind you

crouch down unless someone’s behind you

crouch down unless someone’s behind you so attacks of Cougars or by Cougars

so attacks of Cougars or by Cougars

so attacks of Cougars or by Cougars aren’t very common on the west coast

aren’t very common on the west coast

aren’t very common on the west coast trail but Cougars are common on the west

trail but Cougars are common on the west

trail but Cougars are common on the west coast trail

coast trail

coast trail speaking of a dream story a couple of

speaking of a dream story a couple of

speaking of a dream story a couple of summers ago my hiking partner and I met

summers ago my hiking partner and I met

summers ago my hiking partner and I met a guy named Steve from West Virginia and

a guy named Steve from West Virginia and

a guy named Steve from West Virginia and he had we chatted him up and he had been

he had we chatted him up and he had been

he had we chatted him up and he had been to a family gathering many years before

to a family gathering many years before

to a family gathering many years before and a bunch of people were sitting

and a bunch of people were sitting

and a bunch of people were sitting around talking about adventure trips

around talking about adventure trips

around talking about adventure trips they’ve taken and he thought to himself

they’ve taken and he thought to himself

they’ve taken and he thought to himself I haven’t done anything like that and he

I haven’t done anything like that and he

I haven’t done anything like that and he decided he didn’t want his life to go on

decided he didn’t want his life to go on

decided he didn’t want his life to go on that you know without adventure so when

that you know without adventure so when

that you know without adventure so when we met him he had started cycling and he

we met him he had started cycling and he

we met him he had started cycling and he had cycled across the state of West

had cycled across the state of West

had cycled across the state of West Virginia where he was from and then he

Virginia where he was from and then he

Virginia where he was from and then he decided to cycle from the top border of

decided to cycle from the top border of

decided to cycle from the top border of Florida down to mile marker zero at Key

Florida down to mile marker zero at Key

Florida down to mile marker zero at Key West and then he started running and

West and then he started running and

West and then he started running and then when of course when we met him he

then when of course when we met him he

then when of course when we met him he was 1,800 miles into his thru-hike of

was 1,800 miles into his thru-hike of

was 1,800 miles into his thru-hike of the Appalachian Trail I remember him

the Appalachian Trail I remember him

the Appalachian Trail I remember him well because he and my hiking partner

well because he and my hiking partner

well because he and my hiking partner Sarah had to climb a very slippery and

Sarah had to climb a very slippery and

Sarah had to climb a very slippery and high and dangerous mountain called Mount

high and dangerous mountain called Mount

high and dangerous mountain called Mount Musa locky in the cold rain so

Musa locky in the cold rain so

Musa locky in the cold rain so adventuring does this to you it tests

adventuring does this to you it tests

adventuring does this to you it tests your body in your strength and your

your body in your strength and your

your body in your strength and your focus it makes you braver not foolish

focus it makes you braver not foolish

focus it makes you braver not foolish but calculating another aspect of

but calculating another aspect of

but calculating another aspect of outdoor adventure is the undeniable

outdoor adventure is the undeniable

outdoor adventure is the undeniable emotional journey there

emotional journey there

emotional journey there definitely an element of personal growth

definitely an element of personal growth

definitely an element of personal growth that you experience when you’re out on

that you experience when you’re out on

that you experience when you’re out on long weeks hiking by yourself for most

long weeks hiking by yourself for most

long weeks hiking by yourself for most of the day we met several former service

of the day we met several former service

of the day we met several former service members male and female who were walking

members male and female who were walking

members male and female who were walking off the war we met

off the war we met

off the war we met of course people in transition from work

of course people in transition from work

of course people in transition from work to retirement and I remember

to retirement and I remember

to retirement and I remember particularly one big burly bearded young

particularly one big burly bearded young

particularly one big burly bearded young man who said the trail it just heals you

man who said the trail it just heals you

man who said the trail it just heals you and I think it improves you occasional

and I think it improves you occasional

and I think it improves you occasional you see children on the trail mostly Boy

you see children on the trail mostly Boy

you see children on the trail mostly Boy Scouts and Girl Scouts and I remember

Scouts and Girl Scouts and I remember

Scouts and Girl Scouts and I remember one particular occasion where we were on

one particular occasion where we were on

one particular occasion where we were on the high slope and they were coming up

the high slope and they were coming up

the high slope and they were coming up and of course they’re here carrying big

and of course they’re here carrying big

and of course they’re here carrying big packs of heavy sort of inexpensive gear

packs of heavy sort of inexpensive gear

packs of heavy sort of inexpensive gear and they’re miserable

and they’re miserable

and they’re miserable pretty much and so you look at them and

pretty much and so you look at them and

pretty much and so you look at them and you say things like you’re great keep

you say things like you’re great keep

you say things like you’re great keep going and try to encourage them I should

going and try to encourage them I should

going and try to encourage them I should say here that hiking can be pretty

say here that hiking can be pretty

say here that hiking can be pretty demanding it can be downright punishing

demanding it can be downright punishing

demanding it can be downright punishing actually until you get what we call

actually until you get what we call

actually until you get what we call trail hard and trail hard means that

trail hard and trail hard means that

trail hard and trail hard means that your heart and muscles and respiration

your heart and muscles and respiration

your heart and muscles and respiration have been taxed enough so that you have

have been taxed enough so that you have

have been taxed enough so that you have the fitness to pull yourself up a

the fitness to pull yourself up a

the fitness to pull yourself up a mountain with a backpack on but what do

mountain with a backpack on but what do

mountain with a backpack on but what do you do if you’re not trail hard well you

you do if you’re not trail hard well you

you do if you’re not trail hard well you just take your time you just slow down

just take your time you just slow down

just take your time you just slow down you hike your own hike that’s a great

you hike your own hike that’s a great

you hike your own hike that’s a great statement from the trail hike your own

statement from the trail hike your own

statement from the trail hike your own hike you can stop whenever you want and

hike you can stop whenever you want and

hike you can stop whenever you want and you can take off your shoes and just

you can take off your shoes and just

you can take off your shoes and just kind of hang out and start up when you

kind of hang out and start up when you

kind of hang out and start up when you want to and this is the magic of hiking

want to and this is the magic of hiking

want to and this is the magic of hiking anyone can really do it I think in the

anyone can really do it I think in the

anyone can really do it I think in the last 100 miles last summer of the

last 100 miles last summer of the

last 100 miles last summer of the Appalachian Trail I lost my excellent

Appalachian Trail I lost my excellent

Appalachian Trail I lost my excellent hiking partner Sierra after an 11 hour

hiking partner Sierra after an 11 hour

hiking partner Sierra after an 11 hour day she fell on a slippery rock at dusk

day she fell on a slippery rock at dusk

day she fell on a slippery rock at dusk and when you’re carrying a heavy

and when you’re carrying a heavy

and when you’re carrying a heavy backpack when you lose your balance it

backpack when you lose your balance it

backpack when you lose your balance it really slams you down and when Sara fell

really slams you down and when Sara fell

really slams you down and when Sara fell I was pretty sure she was hurt and sara

I was pretty sure she was hurt and sara

I was pretty sure she was hurt and sara is a really tough hiker

is a really tough hiker

is a really tough hiker but a broken arm will send you home and

but a broken arm will send you home and

but a broken arm will send you home and so the challenge for us then was to get

so the challenge for us then was to get

so the challenge for us then was to get Sarah off the trail but the dangerous

Sarah off the trail but the dangerous

Sarah off the trail but the dangerous thing and disappointing thing was that

thing and disappointing thing was that

thing and disappointing thing was that there was a big mountain that we had to

there was a big mountain that we had to

there was a big mountain that we had to go over before we could get to a road

go over before we could get to a road

go over before we could get to a road for someone to come and pick her up so

for someone to come and pick her up so

for someone to come and pick her up so we got her in her tent and she slept

we got her in her tent and she slept

we got her in her tent and she slept overnight and got her packed up in the

overnight and got her packed up in the

overnight and got her packed up in the morning and we set out to climb this big

morning and we set out to climb this big

morning and we set out to climb this big mountain there was no other way to do it

mountain there was no other way to do it

mountain there was no other way to do it and of course it was a rainy cold and

and of course it was a rainy cold and

and of course it was a rainy cold and windy day and Sarah fell twice on that

windy day and Sarah fell twice on that

windy day and Sarah fell twice on that arm before we got down and I would say

arm before we got down and I would say

arm before we got down and I would say that that’s just another kind of crazy

that that’s just another kind of crazy

that that’s just another kind of crazy courage – Sarah was my saving grace she

courage – Sarah was my saving grace she

courage – Sarah was my saving grace she is a map reader and planner

is a map reader and planner

is a map reader and planner extraordinaire she pushed me I can be

extraordinaire she pushed me I can be

extraordinaire she pushed me I can be kind of a complainer and I we hiked many

kind of a complainer and I we hiked many

kind of a complainer and I we hiked many more miles a day than mostly I would

more miles a day than mostly I would

more miles a day than mostly I would want to do so and now I had to say

want to do so and now I had to say

want to do so and now I had to say goodbye to Sarah in their last 100 miles

goodbye to Sarah in their last 100 miles

goodbye to Sarah in their last 100 miles and that was a really hard thing to do

and that was a really hard thing to do

and that was a really hard thing to do but my patient husband had been home for

but my patient husband had been home for

but my patient husband had been home for four summers cooking meals and kind of

four summers cooking meals and kind of

four summers cooking meals and kind of hanging out without me for weeks on end

hanging out without me for weeks on end

hanging out without me for weeks on end and he was ready for my epilation trail

and he was ready for my epilation trail

and he was ready for my epilation trail adventure to end so I when we got to the

adventure to end so I when we got to the

adventure to end so I when we got to the next trail town we found medical care

next trail town we found medical care

next trail town we found medical care for Sarah and she got a flight home but

for Sarah and she got a flight home but

for Sarah and she got a flight home but now I needed to go through the last 100

now I needed to go through the last 100

now I needed to go through the last 100 miles of the trail the Appalachian Trail

miles of the trail the Appalachian Trail

miles of the trail the Appalachian Trail which is called the 100-mile wilderness

which is called the 100-mile wilderness

which is called the 100-mile wilderness and you are not it’s not wise to go

and you are not it’s not wise to go

and you are not it’s not wise to go through that place by yourself so I had

through that place by yourself so I had

through that place by yourself so I had to find other people to hike with so

to find other people to hike with so

to find other people to hike with so luckily I found this amazing little

luckily I found this amazing little

luckily I found this amazing little family who were out on the trail a

family who were out on the trail a

family who were out on the trail a French mother who was a trained lawyer

French mother who was a trained lawyer

French mother who was a trained lawyer from France her husband was at home and

from France her husband was at home and

from France her husband was at home and she had decided to take her three

she had decided to take her three

she had decided to take her three children on a summer trip that would

children on a summer trip that would

children on a summer trip that would challenge them and require them to

challenge them and require them to

challenge them and require them to cooperate and to do a really hard thing

cooperate and to do a really hard thing

cooperate and to do a really hard thing and so these little kids were hiking on

and so these little kids were hiking on

and so these little kids were hiking on the Appalachian Trail Vermont New

the Appalachian Trail Vermont New

the Appalachian Trail Vermont New Hampshire and Maine the very the three

Hampshire and Maine the very the three

Hampshire and Maine the very the three very hardest States so I’d like to tell

very hardest States so I’d like to tell

very hardest States so I’d like to tell you about them a little bit um there was

you about them a little bit um there was

you about them a little bit um there was a little boy named arpád and he was

a little boy named arpád and he was

a little boy named arpád and he was seven and he did not

seven and he did not

seven and he did not carry a pack but his twelve-year-old

carry a pack but his twelve-year-old

carry a pack but his twelve-year-old brother marcus aurelius carried him what

brother marcus aurelius carried him what

brother marcus aurelius carried him what a name right now that’s a name

a name right now that’s a name

a name right now that’s a name he carried a pack that would make me cry

he carried a pack that would make me cry

he carried a pack that would make me cry and the 15 year old former ballerina

and the 15 year old former ballerina

and the 15 year old former ballerina sister was carrying an equally heavy

sister was carrying an equally heavy

sister was carrying an equally heavy pack and the five foot tall mom was

pack and the five foot tall mom was

pack and the five foot tall mom was carrying a pack that was the heaviest of

carrying a pack that was the heaviest of

carrying a pack that was the heaviest of all and they were very inspiring and

all and they were very inspiring and

all and they were very inspiring and welcoming to me and just when I might

welcoming to me and just when I might

welcoming to me and just when I might feel a little puffed up for being 2,000

feel a little puffed up for being 2,000

feel a little puffed up for being 2,000 miles into my trip here was the

miles into my trip here was the

miles into my trip here was the seven-year-old skipping over the

seven-year-old skipping over the

seven-year-old skipping over the mountains of Maine so a funny thing

mountains of Maine so a funny thing

mountains of Maine so a funny thing happens when you’re on long-distance

happens when you’re on long-distance

happens when you’re on long-distance hiking that is a predictable

hiking that is a predictable

hiking that is a predictable conversation that most hikers know about

conversation that most hikers know about

conversation that most hikers know about you start to talk about food and if

you start to talk about food and if

you start to talk about food and if you’ve been out for several days you

you’ve been out for several days you

you’ve been out for several days you start thinking about pie that you love

start thinking about pie that you love

start thinking about pie that you love and restaurants that you love and this

and restaurants that you love and this

and restaurants that you love and this little boy Arpad started talking about

little boy Arpad started talking about

little boy Arpad started talking about food and he described every meal at

food and he described every meal at

food and he described every meal at every restaurant that he loved every

every restaurant that he loved every

every restaurant that he loved every type of ice cream that he’d ever had the

type of ice cream that he’d ever had the

type of ice cream that he’d ever had the three best desserts that he was going to

three best desserts that he was going to

three best desserts that he was going to eat as soon as we got to a town and he

eat as soon as we got to a town and he

eat as soon as we got to a town and he did this for two days and his teenage

did this for two days and his teenage

did this for two days and his teenage siblings just took turns listening to

siblings just took turns listening to

siblings just took turns listening to him they just said things like yeah me

him they just said things like yeah me

him they just said things like yeah me too and oh I’m going to have chocolate

too and oh I’m going to have chocolate

too and oh I’m going to have chocolate now I don’t know about you but I don’t

now I don’t know about you but I don’t

now I don’t know about you but I don’t know very many teenagers like this I

know very many teenagers like this I

know very many teenagers like this I must say the best thing about all of my

must say the best thing about all of my

must say the best thing about all of my hiking adventures has been the

hiking adventures has been the

hiking adventures has been the camaraderie and finally my husband and I

camaraderie and finally my husband and I

camaraderie and finally my husband and I shared a trip a few years together a few

shared a trip a few years together a few

shared a trip a few years together a few years ago to England and hiked Hadrian’s

years ago to England and hiked Hadrian’s

years ago to England and hiked Hadrian’s Wall and we should have known that we

Wall and we should have known that we

Wall and we should have known that we were in trouble when we were the only

were in trouble when we were the only

were in trouble when we were the only people out there but I’m a professor and

people out there but I’m a professor and

people out there but I’m a professor and we went on my spring break so there was

we went on my spring break so there was

we went on my spring break so there was a lot of rain it was in March a lot of

a lot of rain it was in March a lot of

a lot of rain it was in March a lot of wind and 60 mile-per-hour gusts actually

wind and 60 mile-per-hour gusts actually

wind and 60 mile-per-hour gusts actually and so we were a little concerned about

and so we were a little concerned about

and so we were a little concerned about hypothermia again but this kind of

hypothermia again but this kind of

hypothermia again but this kind of travel brings of course some

travel brings of course some

travel brings of course some appreciation for each other

appreciation for each other

appreciation for each other and you have mutual respect for the

and you have mutual respect for the

and you have mutual respect for the effort that each person expands and I’m

effort that each person expands and I’m

effort that each person expands and I’m so glad that I had that chance to do

so glad that I had that chance to do

so glad that I had that chance to do that with my husband to see history and

that with my husband to see history and

that with my husband to see history and my love of nature at the same time so my

my love of nature at the same time so my

my love of nature at the same time so my adventures linger and their dreams

adventures linger and their dreams

adventures linger and their dreams fulfilled and fears faced and there will

fulfilled and fears faced and there will

fulfilled and fears faced and there will be more of them but no adventurer gets

be more of them but no adventurer gets

be more of them but no adventurer gets there without support people who see

there without support people who see

there without support people who see your dream and want to help you get

your dream and want to help you get

your dream and want to help you get there to achieve it and then you become

there to achieve it and then you become

there to achieve it and then you become the next mentor you educate and you

the next mentor you educate and you

the next mentor you educate and you encourage and you cheer on the next one

encourage and you cheer on the next one

encourage and you cheer on the next one and this is so satisfying and fun so I

and this is so satisfying and fun so I

and this is so satisfying and fun so I ask you to search yourself for an

ask you to search yourself for an

ask you to search yourself for an adventure dream that sounds well just a

adventure dream that sounds well just a

adventure dream that sounds well just a little bit scary thank you

[Applause]

[Applause] you

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