good evening dear friends remember
please did you
someday
communicate with the hard or even deadly
sick children today I want you
tell
which I personally learned from this complex and
contradictory experience and I want to tell
that he did not change you
and that will allow you to change yourself and
thus changing the life around
when he started volunteering
was six years ago I was moving
I did not want to change the simple idea myself
wanted to help people wanted to change the world
around
I came volunteering for a simple reason
that I saw that on the one hand I can
or go to change the world in large there
go to the kenta authorities to promote
what are the strategic solutions to the question
who is dead to be honest
or I can create small ones
small cases that will be sent
to help close people I will somehow
a frog in a parable that fell into a krypton
with milk, to turn with paws
Sour cream from this lid get out and so I
6 years ago, I got into a volunteer
movement sent the sheep there I was working
For four years, these four years
I was the coordinator in
Hospital Neurosurgery named Burdenko in
children’s department in this department are
children i am with fairly heavy
diseases are tumors
benign malignant
the brain is cerebral
Paralysis is a stroke and can
to present a stroke at the age of six
child that this is such a child there are lying
and other very serious diseases and we
They came to them enough
with simple things they drew with them
they read books occupied with them and the general
brightened their stay in the hospital as
one of the oldest
volunteers of Danilov andrey cave on what
we filmed their lives with a pause because
the child who is in the hospital
yes there are parents nearby yes there is
method staff but it turns out to be real
at a pause like life as if
We stopped to help him anyway
to receive some kind of joy in getting
some positive move to
and while I was doing volunteering, I was
witness interesting enough stories
and very surprising and very
instructive here is the first story of which
I come to mind it is related to
boy potassium boy calliou it was
the most amazing character of the boy
was to stay at home and now he came to
hospital and began to behave with
volunteers in a very peculiar way
how he got used to his orphanage, that is, he
talked here and so about black
came to me must enter do it
soaked such jokes that just hair
he was standing on end with his head
vulgar stories in the presence of girls
volunteers, he behaved completely
obscene manner
and especially it hit hard on the head that
before us was a boy of 11 years can imagine
present the boy 11 years old when
so behaves and felt that all this
It is against us but that it can not be
such a small child is so
spoiled with was not very difficult to communicate
and when he had an operation
rehabilitated he went back we
sighed with great relief at
first because you wrote a child and
cure sent home all fine in
second is that we will not communicate with
these anchors finally sent stake
and six months pass
summer passes autumn falls snow
winter begins and now I come like that
selection and see the oil painting kola
He returned and Kolya also sees me and immediately
here it starts to play in it means
all in the old fashion I think again old
for another two weeks now already
thinking of somehow balancing like this
generally razrulivat with volunteers and
the interesting point then is yes
we sit down and start to sculpt something
and draw through the force like the one I ‘m trying to
be friendly and try to share with you
with him what heat and whether she is here
there is an adult who accompanies
and the boy Kolya transforms his
presence he moves his chair he he
seated before him
with great attention with great warmth he
begins to tell him how
cool now we are with the best here sat
sculpted this boy whose
remembered for such a story
further more than nine but it starts
ask an adult
tablet to show photos
invented now I will see the pictures there
Orphanage
I’ll see even the attendants are already surprised
that the accompanying with the tablet came
already somehow interesting but begins
show but see this is our house and
Here it is this hill which is not
built my dad but this is my sister
who is waiting for me there but I am a dog
I love her very much and here we are for the weekend
at last we will go very much
cool when I’m discharged and now I’ll be
I was built by my dad from this hill
and I’m sitting thinking Dad’s a hill like I see
photos with confirmation and
I look at the escort
it was quite an old man there
years for 50 very stately who
He looked with great love at the call and in
this moment dawned on me that they were pricking
have established and here for that half a year which
passed from the previous our communication
the field appeared by the Pope the necklace of a story
how cool is that in my childhood I
lost but recently I was found and here
again, my sister is here again, I have
Mom I have a dad who loves me
there is a slide
he listened and at that moment you understood
that here that’s where in the field is this
transformation it began and when we
Communicated as in the future, too, when
next to my father was instantly transformed
and it was felt that he was not trying
like everything so God forbid not
passed into the orphanage back and what in this
moment as you know here with the old
The coins are scraped off here this is darkened
metal layer and it begins to shine like
like I’ve just been minted from here
that’s exactly what looked like at that moment, and
The next two weeks went by simply
perfect condition
We talked with him perfectly sculptured
painted each other’s soul began
parted with great friends and
this transformation arose in him
solely because he stopped
I feel myself in this
children’s home for some function to pupils
he began to feel like a person
person your family have a dog
a hill in the end which you can
roll down and it’s Kolya transformed into
my eyes and it was amazing and
such amazing things in our
The hospital passed a lot here, for example
I also remember very well
Story related that 100 Gere
requires a small foreword
when I went first to the hospital
do not think that such a brave one
the hero went to volunteers as it’s cool I
afraid just awful
I imagined that now I would come
hospital edge hospital nursery
neurosurgery that there will be such a corridor
Endless blinking fluorescent lamps
and the priest is easier to link these here these
Here is a nasty sound of a child’s cry from
chambers of parents blackened by grief
faces a severe medical staff collected
because the war for life and here I am in this
it turns out I introduced myself to the good
I pass on r month then I will burn simply
in this hell it’s impossible and when I
came to the hospital was a simple
history
that the hospital is fun and happens
happy because the kids are still they
remain children here and now
badly yes there they may have some
problems but with you you begin here
communicate in a purely human way with an open
heart and not gratefully answer
how people start to communicate with you
very positively very joyful and that’s it.
It is here that the tager begins and there was
the boy is just
heroically in the first he had a bunch
he sculpted the talents he drew he played on
the guitar
Well, not the selection of course, but at home
he loved mathematics
he went in for sports and played football
He programmed the fact that he was
just a match a bunch of talent he adored
tell stories
At the same time he told us so artistically that
he laughed he sang songs wall shook
really it was even said Tagir well
quietly he could not restrain himself
it was wildly happy it was
A constant source of positive and
of course for the time being as from
which passed before the operation we with him
very much friends and souls in a friend
friend did not want
here it is necessary to say what the cycle looked like
stay of children in the hospital 10 there
usually sent an approximate week
prepared before the operation was further carried out
operation after surgery week
rehabilitation was sent home
to be cured
and for the volunteer, but in fact for
parents for all the most difficult
the terrible moment was . operations then
that here you are communicating with the child and you are not
you know how he will return after the operation he
can return in serious condition he
can not return to the tank in general and you to
this as a volunteer must be ready
although of course here it is to prepare for this
it is impossible for this children to leave
and stagger there was such a story of his
We prepared for operation on going
operation and here we plan
visit the wound after surgery I come
mind here frequently germ fields Pimp draw with
I work it out I come to the heroes
No, and his mother comes and says
something gear in a very serious condition
are and very much asked me personally
go to his room with him
draw because he needs it then
that I wanted to see my friend newfound
next to me this moment I dialed
plasticine watercolor album iq below
some people think I’ll go to this hour
the boy will be laughing again
so go to his room and see him
the next picture of a healthy out of greetings
tiger and he does not even react to me
let it lie near the grid
a boy for 10 years then was lying
little boy at all he’s on me zero
reaction and I come in. I realized that I
There is no other way but to go to
the so-called radio mode in which
each in principle an experienced volunteer
or starts to come in when you’re just
begin with the child to communicate in spite of
to the fact that you do not have feedback that
he is silent that he is in himself so you try
at least somehow draw at least something
set up and I start to sit next to him
even an interesting thing happens I
I begin to sculpt what’s there and show
some old themes to touch and here
The dagger starts to react somehow
in the meantime, that is, not just being silent
already something to answer then Tagir
begins to smile a little then Tagir
start a little giggle some
moments that I was very cheered up and
then the tiger begins to try something already
tell then do not try
Tell then tells so that
do not shut it up then start laughing
who starts singing songs gets
jump up and say here and now show
you are told whether the stomach of a dropper here I
you can not get up this one right now it’s here
all this and this is only an hour of time
While we were sitting with him were engaged
and I’ve watched with my own eyes how
in this boy is seriously ill
boy is life in my eyes like
As if air is filled and when
from there came out with me saying goodbye
consciously very noisy
Tagir is the one who everyone knew and
loved and wanted to see it all and
even this is not the main thing when coming out of
wards
his mother did not see off with the square
eyes and she told me that before our
visit the same hand every half hour over
was pricked and very pain relievers
otherwise he shouted from the more he could not
just exist and while we are with him
these two gatherings were not
They demanded that I go out from there
I am feeling that now and saw this
magic as far as this is human
humane attitude towards its neighbor
how much it really saves
how much does it help children?
helps people and this is not a story about something
what do I see how miraculous
One touch healed a child
God forbid, I watched this
The volunteer group coordinator is very
many times can imagine
there is even only one to take the sheep
in volunteer movements a lot in Moscow
through one danilov a month passes
about 1200 children under 1200 children
Can you imagine what kind of flow it is?
life that passes through hospitals and
helps children stay afloat and
get out of this complex
heavy state in which they
come and this story is very strong
I was supported and gave me an answer to the
the question is why do you go there at least well
when they came to the picture, the child was painted
weighed down
as though to whom you help and here appeared
the answer is how we help and that’s what we are
give children
another interesting find was that here I am
now told me this was here
one-way process, and came to help the
gyaru but the most interesting is that this whole
history
she worked both in reverse and sometimes you
came to the children devastated tired and
I do not really know what you will do.
baby next to it and it filled you
emotions he filled you with strength and
in fact, it was already unclear who from whom
the volunteer is in this moment is
because in fact you have a child
helped with you shared what he saw
I wanted to help you with everything else and now I
tell a third story that for me
probably of all the listed above
personal most important thing about the girl
which I recall this story when
I feel bad when some
Problems arise at work that there
I underestimated his superiors the horror of a
where I’m going to work I need to change
probably something or not to change and when
know a moment when
we are trivial to do something
shop for bread turns you just
this is some kind of expedition all hands
I do not know what to do and
this moment and I remember the girl Olyu this
the lesson that did not fall to us
did I go to the hospital with
severe diagnosis
she had brain cancer and girls 0 on that
the moment was 9 years and
from them she spent 6 years in hospitals you
you can imagine a little girl from
Nine years old 6 years old in hospital large
part of life that is not in the yard is not
to run with other children do not throw
snowballs from the hospital ward
medical staff parents
but also a maximum that children from neighboring
departments although children with oncology are more likely to
all are still under special conditions
and we took off the redrawn girl was
Despite this isolated
the environment in which it is again very developed
she was very interested in many things
remarkably painted
wrote poetry in general, we communicated with her
very cool once we sat with her
and did not do anything just talk
you know such a resin current we had here
we just talked for life and I asked
question absolutely duty now
back number can admit this without
some kind of back thought about what you’re about
you dream and expected to hear in response that
thread or a childlike like I want a pony
or there I want a barbie or I want a little more or
to hear something global, he too
I want to become an actress and want to
I want to perform on the stage of a big theater
to be a singer and so on but Olga gave me
an answer which is still echoing in the walk
me in my head which is just that
supports me in those moments when I
I start to think that my problems are
really some global
grandiose problems with which
It’s impossible to fight, that’s why your hands go down
did the girl say very seriously
think about the moment she said you know
and now I dream to live to 10 years
Here’s a girl of 9 years old, this little one
had a dream to see what it’s like when you
ten years and how it once was
idly that it’s erased and here in this
I did not find anything
what will you answer here that answer and this one
the story with the aliana girl showed me
how much children
seriously ill
and the deadly patients are
on the edge of here that’s this
the brink of life and death as far as they
many can teach us
swarming like ants in an anthill
over some of its nothing really
we do not care too much as long as we are alive
we are able to do something on our own
business here that that today to you I tell
this is not a story specifically about
volunteering is not specifically about the fact that here
see what volunteers do on their own
case by example here is the volume that was given
I’m sick babies
I want to show you how much we
can do with the environment
peace communicating among themselves humanely
perceiving a number of people nearby is not how
object as a person who is
next to their own aspirations
with personal
characteristics with their qualities
if we communicate with nearby people
just as people are eager to share with
They are not only seeking
pull something out of them
of walking with them in a constant
interaction then this story it is on
In fact, what is interesting is it
the tendency to talk
places with a gir and this story with a taker
which affected me or the girl salt
I tell you and you will remember that
so it happens that there are such cases and
Tell someone else will tell
to other people and, in contrast to
abstract some kind of good deeds that
So I did and, well, well, I’m good at it.
the rest as you like it
spreads around
it is propagated by waves it
really in a good way infects
people and now after this volunteering
I can no longer treat the
people and see do not know in the ticket office and in the subway
just the function of issuing a ticket to me is not this
Not a function is a person with whom one should
to communicate humanely once again to him
smile and all I am and maybe this
a person in the morning I will do but with another
mood will work with other
From the building they will smile at other people
and now this smile has gone and can be done
very much you can go volunteer
it’s actually not difficult I myself
through it you went through quite simply
dial the phone which is on the sites
volunteer movements and all will help you
you will be prompted to go to Denmark, catchers go
give life and want to help children
help the elderly in the movement of old age in
the joy that make too
fantastic things together with the old people
and want to help them go feed.
homeless people also have such movements
which help the field wide do not want
do it, but at least
communicate with each other why years
humanly not see in another function
see a person share it warmly
share with him what you have and you
tell me here is the moment it’s okay
fine, I want to share warmly but like me
be if you do not then this is not for you
There is no heat as much as possible
you are not I will answer you with words
the Monk Ambrose of Optina
Qatar the next thing is that if you
you want to do good works but in you and
do love
But in you there is no this very love you
at least start to create these gave purely
mechanically purely just here in its
do not consciously invest
the body is warm and you will be surprised but in you
this love will come and it will be
look and just you will start to do something
and she will come to you and everything will be
grow and you are this love
you will feel and yes you are the beginning and not
you will see for yourself, but in fact it
there is in each of you because in each
man is love and you are this
you can grow yourself
and then you can change
the world around but in the first place
change yourself because this is where
more important and that’s it will allow
change the world globally
and final of the speech would like to call
You are not afraid to change the world around you.
I’m afraid to change myself and work on
this together because the world in my opinion
already waiting for our actions and all this
we can do only we
[applause]
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