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YES I CAN | Lucy Wyndham-Read | TEDxSurreyUniversity


hmm right here and can I just say what

hmm right here and can I just say what an honor it is to be here today to do

an honor it is to be here today to do

an honor it is to be here today to do this talk okay so yes I can and this is

this talk okay so yes I can and this is

this talk okay so yes I can and this is my story about yes how I can get the

my story about yes how I can get the

my story about yes how I can get the world fit now through social media so

world fit now through social media so

world fit now through social media so let me start at the beginning where it

let me start at the beginning where it

let me start at the beginning where it all began and I’ll just say here so I’m

all began and I’ll just say here so I’m

all began and I’ll just say here so I’m no Einstein but I do have a platform and

no Einstein but I do have a platform and

no Einstein but I do have a platform and I have a passion and I have a mission so

I have a passion and I have a mission so

I have a passion and I have a mission so for me as a young child school was not

for me as a young child school was not

for me as a young child school was not particularly great time I was very

particularly great time I was very

particularly great time I was very bullied and I think a lot of people just

bullied and I think a lot of people just

bullied and I think a lot of people just assume because I do fitness I was a

assume because I do fitness I was a

assume because I do fitness I was a really sporty kid at school but far from

really sporty kid at school but far from

really sporty kid at school but far from it I was one that had every excuse to

it I was one that had every excuse to

it I was one that had every excuse to get out of games and I don’t know if any

get out of games and I don’t know if any

get out of games and I don’t know if any of you ever experienced this where in

of you ever experienced this where in

of you ever experienced this where in sports they used to do it where they

sports they used to do it where they

sports they used to do it where they used to pick a member for the team and I

used to pick a member for the team and I

used to pick a member for the team and I was always the last one to get picked

was always the last one to get picked

was always the last one to get picked and so when I left school I then decided

and so when I left school I then decided

and so when I left school I then decided I wanted to be this really strong

I wanted to be this really strong

I wanted to be this really strong confident woman and I decided the only

confident woman and I decided the only

confident woman and I decided the only way to do that was to really challenge

way to do that was to really challenge

way to do that was to really challenge myself and that was to go and join the

myself and that was to go and join the

myself and that was to go and join the army and I remember the day that I told

army and I remember the day that I told

army and I remember the day that I told my parents that I wanted to go and join

my parents that I wanted to go and join

my parents that I wanted to go and join the army and my dad is an incredible

the army and my dad is an incredible

the army and my dad is an incredible international folk singer my mom is the

international folk singer my mom is the

international folk singer my mom is the most talented artist so they’re not

most talented artist so they’re not

most talented artist so they’re not really typical army parents and they

really typical army parents and they

really typical army parents and they were very shocked but it was the most

were very shocked but it was the most

were very shocked but it was the most incredible experience for me because

incredible experience for me because

incredible experience for me because when I was in the army

when I was in the army

when I was in the army I then couldn’t have any excuses to get

I then couldn’t have any excuses to get

I then couldn’t have any excuses to get out of doing sports and so then I

out of doing sports and so then I

out of doing sports and so then I realized actually I could be fit I could

realized actually I could be fit I could

realized actually I could be fit I could be strong and it helped me get over

be strong and it helped me get over

be strong and it helped me get over confidence issues and in those five

confidence issues and in those five

confidence issues and in those five years I served in the Army I as a woman

years I served in the Army I as a woman

years I served in the Army I as a woman it was very tough because when I joined

it was very tough because when I joined

it was very tough because when I joined it was in 1990 yeah 1992 and there

it was in 1990 yeah 1992 and there

it was in 1990 yeah 1992 and there weren’t very many women in the army so I

weren’t very many women in the army so I

weren’t very many women in the army so I had to really work hard to prove myself

had to really work hard to prove myself

had to really work hard to prove myself and on one of the reasons as well this

and on one of the reasons as well this

and on one of the reasons as well this make you laugh one of the reasons why

make you laugh one of the reasons why

make you laugh one of the reasons why actually

actually

actually and joined the army was to travel the

and joined the army was to travel the

and joined the army was to travel the world so in those five years I went to

world so in those five years I went to

world so in those five years I went to order shot Guilford Redding and London I

order shot Guilford Redding and London I

order shot Guilford Redding and London I actually didn’t get out of South East

actually didn’t get out of South East

actually didn’t get out of South East England that is literally where I stayed

England that is literally where I stayed

England that is literally where I stayed any game that was due to the fact that

any game that was due to the fact that

any game that was due to the fact that there weren’t really many other women in

there weren’t really many other women in

there weren’t really many other women in the army and then this is my beautiful

the army and then this is my beautiful

the army and then this is my beautiful sweetheart fiance and very sadly on

sweetheart fiance and very sadly on

sweetheart fiance and very sadly on August 20th 1992 he got killed and I’m

August 20th 1992 he got killed and I’m

August 20th 1992 he got killed and I’m sorry so this was a big turning point

sorry so this was a big turning point

sorry so this was a big turning point for me and my whole world completely

for me and my whole world completely

for me and my whole world completely changed and I then decided I wanted to

changed and I then decided I wanted to

changed and I then decided I wanted to come out of the army and the two things

come out of the army and the two things

come out of the army and the two things that got me through that were my family

that got me through that were my family

that got me through that were my family and fitness so I then threw myself into

and fitness so I then threw myself into

and fitness so I then threw myself into fitness because it was a way to get over

fitness because it was a way to get over

fitness because it was a way to get over the pain of losing my fiance anyway and

the pain of losing my fiance anyway and

the pain of losing my fiance anyway and so I then qualified as a personal

so I then qualified as a personal

so I then qualified as a personal trainer and spent years doing a lot of

trainer and spent years doing a lot of

trainer and spent years doing a lot of different courses and I was so excited

different courses and I was so excited

different courses and I was so excited for my first job of becoming a personal

for my first job of becoming a personal

for my first job of becoming a personal trainer and on the first day in my gym

trainer and on the first day in my gym

trainer and on the first day in my gym the gym I was working in the big boss

the gym I was working in the big boss

the gym I was working in the big boss was showing me around and he said now so

was showing me around and he said now so

was showing me around and he said now so in the gym we have got 16 bits of

in the gym we have got 16 bits of

in the gym we have got 16 bits of cardiovascular equipment so I said to

cardiovascular equipment so I said to

cardiovascular equipment so I said to him about how many members do you have

him about how many members do you have

him about how many members do you have here in the gym and he said well we have

here in the gym and he said well we have

here in the gym and he said well we have 1800 and members so my answer was well

1800 and members so my answer was well

1800 and members so my answer was well if you have 1800 members and only 16

if you have 1800 members and only 16

if you have 1800 members and only 16 bits of cardiovascular equipment

bits of cardiovascular equipment

bits of cardiovascular equipment what happens if everyone all turns up at

what happens if everyone all turns up at

what happens if everyone all turns up at once and his answer was well they won’t

once and his answer was well they won’t

once and his answer was well they won’t only 10% will ever come here and use the

only 10% will ever come here and use the

only 10% will ever come here and use the gym and for me I found that really sad I

gym and for me I found that really sad I

gym and for me I found that really sad I could see they liked it because they

could see they liked it because they

could see they liked it because they could see they made money from it but

could see they made money from it but

could see they made money from it but for me being a trainer and experiencing

for me being a trainer and experiencing

for me being a trainer and experiencing the benefit of being healthy and fit I

the benefit of being healthy and fit I

the benefit of being healthy and fit I was like but I want to reach out to

was like but I want to reach out to

was like but I want to reach out to those other 90% of those people you know

those other 90% of those people you know

those other 90% of those people you know how can I do that and so then I decided

how can I do that and so then I decided

how can I do that and so then I decided or I had an idea of a way that I could

or I had an idea of a way that I could

or I had an idea of a way that I could connect with those people that didn’t

connect with those people that didn’t

connect with those people that didn’t want

want

want go to the gym so I decided even though

go to the gym so I decided even though

go to the gym so I decided even though I’m very dyslexic that I was going to

I’m very dyslexic that I was going to

I’m very dyslexic that I was going to write a book and this book was designed

write a book and this book was designed

write a book and this book was designed so it could teach people literally in

so it could teach people literally in

so it could teach people literally in their front room how they could get

their front room how they could get

their front room how they could get healthy and fit because the benefit of

healthy and fit because the benefit of

healthy and fit because the benefit of that it will also then help their

that it will also then help their

that it will also then help their confidence so I went to a publisher and

confidence so I went to a publisher and

confidence so I went to a publisher and I have my book signed up straight away

I have my book signed up straight away

I have my book signed up straight away and the book was a great success it was

and the book was a great success it was

and the book was a great success it was sold internationally it was translated

sold internationally it was translated

sold internationally it was translated into three different languages and then

into three different languages and then

into three different languages and then there were lots of new doors then that

there were lots of new doors then that

there were lots of new doors then that opened but I learnt the hard way and for

opened but I learnt the hard way and for

opened but I learnt the hard way and for years and years I got really ripped off

years and years I got really ripped off

years and years I got really ripped off by publishers I got taken for granted

by publishers I got taken for granted

by publishers I got taken for granted I spent fortunes on getting new websites

I spent fortunes on getting new websites

I spent fortunes on getting new websites done listening to kind of like empty

done listening to kind of like empty

done listening to kind of like empty promises but for me I was just

promises but for me I was just

promises but for me I was just passionate about making a difference so

passionate about making a difference so

passionate about making a difference so I sort of believed a lot of what they

I sort of believed a lot of what they

I sort of believed a lot of what they said and then an exciting thing happened

said and then an exciting thing happened

said and then an exciting thing happened for me and that was social media was

for me and that was social media was

for me and that was social media was born and I could then see this

born and I could then see this

born and I could then see this incredible opportunity and then platform

incredible opportunity and then platform

incredible opportunity and then platform for me to kind of give and share my

for me to kind of give and share my

for me to kind of give and share my knowledge what I’d learn and share with

knowledge what I’d learn and share with

knowledge what I’d learn and share with everyone else because now I knew that I

everyone else because now I knew that I

everyone else because now I knew that I didn’t need a publisher I didn’t need a

didn’t need a publisher I didn’t need a

didn’t need a publisher I didn’t need a TV company I’ve been told I couldn’t

TV company I’ve been told I couldn’t

TV company I’ve been told I couldn’t write books I was dyslexic I was told I

write books I was dyslexic I was told I

write books I was dyslexic I was told I didn’t have the face for TV and so then

didn’t have the face for TV and so then

didn’t have the face for TV and so then with social media everyone was out

with social media everyone was out

with social media everyone was out taking selfies okay I do take a few

taking selfies okay I do take a few

taking selfies okay I do take a few selfish but not as many as this person

selfish but not as many as this person

selfish but not as many as this person here and this is where then I just knew

here and this is where then I just knew

here and this is where then I just knew now I had this opportunity to help get

now I had this opportunity to help get

now I had this opportunity to help get people fit around the world and this was

people fit around the world and this was

people fit around the world and this was a great thing before being a trainer and

a great thing before being a trainer and

a great thing before being a trainer and working in a gym you’re just limited to

working in a gym you’re just limited to

working in a gym you’re just limited to your demographics but now with social

your demographics but now with social

your demographics but now with social media this platform then I could reach

media this platform then I could reach

media this platform then I could reach out to everyone all over the world so I

out to everyone all over the world so I

out to everyone all over the world so I was then for two years probably even a

was then for two years probably even a

was then for two years probably even a little bit longer

little bit longer

little bit longer I literally just self-taught myself I

I literally just self-taught myself I

I literally just self-taught myself I just decided to and I gave up everything

just decided to and I gave up everything

just decided to and I gave up everything I got rid of all materialistic things I

I got rid of all materialistic things I

I got rid of all materialistic things I literally spent two years in a room just

literally spent two years in a room just

literally spent two years in a room just learning and I learnt everything from

learning and I learnt everything from

learning and I learnt everything from how to build a website I then designed

how to build a website I then designed

how to build a website I then designed my own app I learned all about the

my own app I learned all about the

my own app I learned all about the coding I learned about video editing I

coding I learned about video editing I

coding I learned about video editing I learned about SEO just literally

learned about SEO just literally

learned about SEO just literally everything because I’ve been told so

everything because I’ve been told so

everything because I’ve been told so many times no you can’t do this I

many times no you can’t do this I

many times no you can’t do this I thought yes I can and no one’s going to

thought yes I can and no one’s going to

thought yes I can and no one’s going to stop me and I’m just going to learn and

stop me and I’m just going to learn and

stop me and I’m just going to learn and this is the great thing with technology

this is the great thing with technology

this is the great thing with technology one of the reasons we’re here talking

one of the reasons we’re here talking

one of the reasons we’re here talking about this today is that it gives you

about this today is that it gives you

about this today is that it gives you the ability to learn so I just and the

the ability to learn so I just and the

the ability to learn so I just and the more knowledge you have the more power

more knowledge you have the more power

more knowledge you have the more power you have and it was a very exciting

you have and it was a very exciting

you have and it was a very exciting thing just learning all these new skills

thing just learning all these new skills

thing just learning all these new skills and then I have my platform and my

and then I have my platform and my

and then I have my platform and my biggest platform has been at YouTube and

biggest platform has been at YouTube and

biggest platform has been at YouTube and YouTube for me is where I can offer

YouTube for me is where I can offer

YouTube for me is where I can offer people nutrition I do nutritional videos

people nutrition I do nutritional videos

people nutrition I do nutritional videos so I talked to them about nutrition I

so I talked to them about nutrition I

so I talked to them about nutrition I talk to them about motivation and I talk

talk to them about motivation and I talk

talk to them about motivation and I talk to them about fitness and the irony is

to them about fitness and the irony is

to them about fitness and the irony is through having my youtube channel I then

through having my youtube channel I then

through having my youtube channel I then got contacted by the top youtubers in

got contacted by the top youtubers in

got contacted by the top youtubers in the UK the secona Jolla’s and Anna came

the UK the secona Jolla’s and Anna came

the UK the secona Jolla’s and Anna came to me as she’d watched all my videos on

to me as she’d watched all my videos on

to me as she’d watched all my videos on fitness she came to me and so I started

fitness she came to me and so I started

fitness she came to me and so I started to train her and I’ve been training them

to train her and I’ve been training them

to train her and I’ve been training them for the last couple of years so the

for the last couple of years so the

for the last couple of years so the benefits of fitness as we all know and

benefits of fitness as we all know and

benefits of fitness as we all know and this is where every single one of you

this is where every single one of you

this is where every single one of you guys here in this room will all benefit

guys here in this room will all benefit

guys here in this room will all benefit from being healthy and fit because it

from being healthy and fit because it

from being healthy and fit because it reduces the risk of disease it reduces

reduces the risk of disease it reduces

reduces the risk of disease it reduces anxiety and it’s just something that can

anxiety and it’s just something that can

anxiety and it’s just something that can actually be free and in this world today

actually be free and in this world today

actually be free and in this world today there are so many problems with obesity

there are so many problems with obesity

there are so many problems with obesity and this is where it’s so good to be

and this is where it’s so good to be

and this is where it’s so good to be able to just tell people you don’t have

able to just tell people you don’t have

able to just tell people you don’t have to join a gym that you’re not going to

to join a gym that you’re not going to

to join a gym that you’re not going to turn up to you can literally do so much

turn up to you can literally do so much

turn up to you can literally do so much at home and the list goes on I mean I

at home and the list goes on I mean I

at home and the list goes on I mean I could have just written so many there

could have just written so many there

could have just written so many there exercise and fitness is really what we

exercise and fitness is really what we

exercise and fitness is really what we should all be doing so really today this

should all be doing so really today this

should all be doing so really today this is where I wanted to say like yes I can

is where I wanted to say like yes I can

is where I wanted to say like yes I can so I’ve written now 21 books I was also

so I’ve written now 21 books I was also

so I’ve written now 21 books I was also told as said that I don’t have face for

told as said that I don’t have face for

told as said that I don’t have face for TV but you know

TV but you know

TV but you know that doesn’t matter who cares what our

that doesn’t matter who cares what our

that doesn’t matter who cares what our faces look like and I think that’s the

faces look like and I think that’s the

faces look like and I think that’s the other thing there’s so much about body

other thing there’s so much about body

other thing there’s so much about body image and about confidence and what I’ve

image and about confidence and what I’ve

image and about confidence and what I’ve been able to do with my youtube channel

been able to do with my youtube channel

been able to do with my youtube channel is create an online community which is

is create an online community which is

is create an online community which is called hash tag Lucy squad and what’s

called hash tag Lucy squad and what’s

called hash tag Lucy squad and what’s been incredible for me is now as a sort

been incredible for me is now as a sort

been incredible for me is now as a sort of older woman I can look back and when

of older woman I can look back and when

of older woman I can look back and when I was at school when I was brilliant

I was at school when I was brilliant

I was at school when I was brilliant have any confidence I feel I can reach

have any confidence I feel I can reach

have any confidence I feel I can reach out to now so many special young girls

out to now so many special young girls

out to now so many special young girls but also people of all ages and even

but also people of all ages and even

but also people of all ages and even young boys and teach them you know we

young boys and teach them you know we

young boys and teach them you know we live in a world where everyone is trying

live in a world where everyone is trying

live in a world where everyone is trying to be perfect and that she it’s just

to be perfect and that she it’s just

to be perfect and that she it’s just about being real so that’s where that’s

about being real so that’s where that’s

about being real so that’s where that’s been a really exciting thing and from I

been a really exciting thing and from I

been a really exciting thing and from I also have done some stuff on Sky News

also have done some stuff on Sky News

also have done some stuff on Sky News talking about how powerful it is to have

talking about how powerful it is to have

talking about how powerful it is to have women in the army so my the way I want

women in the army so my the way I want

women in the army so my the way I want to finish this is just say yes I can but

to finish this is just say yes I can but

to finish this is just say yes I can but most importantly to everyone here yes

most importantly to everyone here yes

most importantly to everyone here yes you can if you have a dream if you have

you can if you have a dream if you have

you can if you have a dream if you have a passion then you have to believe in

a passion then you have to believe in

a passion then you have to believe in yourself and you can do that and even

yourself and you can do that and even

yourself and you can do that and even though I’m Dyslexic

though I’m Dyslexic

though I’m Dyslexic this is deliberately spelt like this

this is deliberately spelt like this

this is deliberately spelt like this good health is real wealth so thank you

good health is real wealth so thank you

good health is real wealth so thank you very very much

very very much

very very much [Applause]

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