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I learned to love stories from my

I learned to love stories from my grandmother and I didn’t just learn to

grandmother and I didn’t just learn to

grandmother and I didn’t just learn to love to listen to them I learned to love

love to listen to them I learned to love

love to listen to them I learned to love the way she cleared her throat like she

the way she cleared her throat like she

the way she cleared her throat like she was brushing the years old dust off the

was brushing the years old dust off the

was brushing the years old dust off the cover of a picture book the way her eyes

cover of a picture book the way her eyes

cover of a picture book the way her eyes sparkled when she knew the whole

sparkled when she knew the whole

sparkled when she knew the whole audience was wrapped up in every word

audience was wrapped up in every word

audience was wrapped up in every word the way a whole room went quiet when she

the way a whole room went quiet when she

the way a whole room went quiet when she spoke stringing words together until

spoke stringing words together until

spoke stringing words together until they’re less like words and more like

they’re less like words and more like

they’re less like words and more like poetry music art I learned to love

poetry music art I learned to love

poetry music art I learned to love stories from my grandmother she told

stories from my grandmother she told

stories from my grandmother she told stories of little boys and not so little

stories of little boys and not so little

stories of little boys and not so little girls of love and heartbreak of how much

girls of love and heartbreak of how much

girls of love and heartbreak of how much of how she worked every day to save

of how she worked every day to save

of how she worked every day to save lives but also how it feels from the

lives but also how it feels from the

lives but also how it feels from the lives around you end she told stories

lives around you end she told stories

lives around you end she told stories over cinnamon rolls and ginger creams

over cinnamon rolls and ginger creams

over cinnamon rolls and ginger creams never seeming to pause for air but

never seeming to pause for air but

never seeming to pause for air but sometimes stopping to dip one finger in

sometimes stopping to dip one finger in

sometimes stopping to dip one finger in the vanilla icing winking at me as if

the vanilla icing winking at me as if

the vanilla icing winking at me as if she were a little girl again I learned

she were a little girl again I learned

she were a little girl again I learned to love stories from my grandmother I

to love stories from my grandmother I

to love stories from my grandmother I learned to love stories because she

learned to love stories because she

learned to love stories because she filled my ears with words and eventually

filled my ears with words and eventually

filled my ears with words and eventually I learned to carefully place them into

I learned to carefully place them into

I learned to carefully place them into my heart she reminded me that without

my heart she reminded me that without

my heart she reminded me that without these words without these stories there

these words without these stories there

these words without these stories there is no music no paintings no poetry she

is no music no paintings no poetry she

is no music no paintings no poetry she reminded me that without these words we

reminded me that without these words we

reminded me that without these words we must not go on listen she told me listen

must not go on listen she told me listen

must not go on listen she told me listen to everything and now she would tell me

to everything and now she would tell me

to everything and now she would tell me stand up and speak anthropologists tell

stand up and speak anthropologists tell

stand up and speak anthropologists tell us that storytelling is fundamental to

us that storytelling is fundamental to

us that storytelling is fundamental to human existence a valuable form of human

human existence a valuable form of human

human existence a valuable form of human expression that gives us both that

expression that gives us both that

expression that gives us both that propels us gives us both useful and

propels us gives us both useful and

propels us gives us both useful and Meishan and emotional connections and

Meishan and emotional connections and

Meishan and emotional connections and propels us forward as a human race this

propels us forward as a human race this

propels us forward as a human race this is the Shaw baked Haven France it is

is the Shaw baked Haven France it is

is the Shaw baked Haven France it is filled with intricate drawings more than

filled with intricate drawings more than

filled with intricate drawings more than 30,000 years old that depict epic bison

30,000 years old that depict epic bison

30,000 years old that depict epic bison and deer hunts demonstrate how to skin

and deer hunts demonstrate how to skin

and deer hunts demonstrate how to skin an antelope show how to build a fire

an antelope show how to build a fire

an antelope show how to build a fire well marine scientists have still never

well marine scientists have still never

well marine scientists have still never seen a great white shark reproduce

seen a great white shark reproduce

seen a great white shark reproduce historians know nearly every detail

historians know nearly every detail

historians know nearly every detail about ancient Mesoamerican societies

about ancient Mesoamerican societies

about ancient Mesoamerican societies solely from their Cody’s writing systems

solely from their Cody’s writing systems

solely from their Cody’s writing systems on another hand Native American history

on another hand Native American history

on another hand Native American history is nearly entirely learned and passed

is nearly entirely learned and passed

is nearly entirely learned and passed down through the oral tradition these

down through the oral tradition these

down through the oral tradition these examples seem contradictory drawings on

examples seem contradictory drawings on

examples seem contradictory drawings on a wall versus Scrolls of coded language

a wall versus Scrolls of coded language

a wall versus Scrolls of coded language versus a tale woven by an old Sioux

versus a tale woven by an old Sioux

versus a tale woven by an old Sioux grandmother in a rocking chair but at

grandmother in a rocking chair but at

grandmother in a rocking chair but at the core they’re all the same thing

the core they’re all the same thing

the core they’re all the same thing stories they reflect a universal

stories they reflect a universal

stories they reflect a universal language that all can understand and

language that all can understand and

language that all can understand and agree these stories mean as much to the

agree these stories mean as much to the

agree these stories mean as much to the people who created and shared them as

people who created and shared them as

people who created and shared them as they do to the scientists who uncover

they do to the scientists who uncover

they do to the scientists who uncover them today while humanity’s ancestors

them today while humanity’s ancestors

them today while humanity’s ancestors just wanted to tell a couple people

just wanted to tell a couple people

just wanted to tell a couple people about a hunt or a way of worship its

about a hunt or a way of worship its

about a hunt or a way of worship its historians find these same stories to be

historians find these same stories to be

historians find these same stories to be keys crucial to be unlocking the

keys crucial to be unlocking the

keys crucial to be unlocking the mysteries of who we are and where we

mysteries of who we are and where we

mysteries of who we are and where we came from these forms of communication

came from these forms of communication

came from these forms of communication have evolved to become something far

have evolved to become something far

have evolved to become something far greater than just a passing of patterns

greater than just a passing of patterns

greater than just a passing of patterns between a teller and a listener they

between a teller and a listener they

between a teller and a listener they have drawn lines that span the globe

have drawn lines that span the globe

have drawn lines that span the globe with no regard for the language barriers

with no regard for the language barriers

with no regard for the language barriers cultural differences or military borders

cultural differences or military borders

cultural differences or military borders as Frank rose stated in his book the art

as Frank rose stated in his book the art

as Frank rose stated in his book the art of immersion we tell stories to make

of immersion we tell stories to make

of immersion we tell stories to make sense of the world and to share that

sense of the world and to share that

sense of the world and to share that knowledge with others without

knowledge with others without

knowledge with others without storytelling we would never know what it

storytelling we would never know what it

storytelling we would never know what it is like to have anything but our own

is like to have anything but our own

is like to have anything but our own lives this thought has terrified me for

lives this thought has terrified me for

lives this thought has terrified me for as long as I can remember when I was

as long as I can remember when I was

as long as I can remember when I was little I would ask my cousins

little I would ask my cousins

little I would ask my cousins to describe their days to me this

to describe their days to me this

to describe their days to me this confused them they wanted to tell me

confused them they wanted to tell me

confused them they wanted to tell me about the exciting parts of their life

about the exciting parts of their life

about the exciting parts of their life when all I honestly wanted to know was

when all I honestly wanted to know was

when all I honestly wanted to know was whether or not the breakfast before

whether or not the breakfast before

whether or not the breakfast before getting just her after and who they sat

getting just her after and who they sat

getting just her after and who they sat with at lunch and whether they could see

with at lunch and whether they could see

with at lunch and whether they could see the stars at night when the Sun set I

the stars at night when the Sun set I

the stars at night when the Sun set I wanted to close my eyes and imagine what

wanted to close my eyes and imagine what

wanted to close my eyes and imagine what it was like to be an authors daughter in

it was like to be an authors daughter in

it was like to be an authors daughter in Texas or part of a farm family in

Texas or part of a farm family in

Texas or part of a farm family in Wisconsin it to be a boy home schooled

Wisconsin it to be a boy home schooled

Wisconsin it to be a boy home schooled in the bush of Tanzania because all I

in the bush of Tanzania because all I

in the bush of Tanzania because all I knew was what it was like to be a little

knew was what it was like to be a little

knew was what it was like to be a little girl growing up at the base of the Rocky

girl growing up at the base of the Rocky

girl growing up at the base of the Rocky Mountains

Mountains

Mountains and I didn’t discredit this I made sure

and I didn’t discredit this I made sure

and I didn’t discredit this I made sure that after my cousin’s had told me about

that after my cousin’s had told me about

that after my cousin’s had told me about themselves I got to tell them about how

themselves I got to tell them about how

themselves I got to tell them about how blue the sky is here on a clear day the

blue the sky is here on a clear day the

blue the sky is here on a clear day the way that the morning fog sinks to the

way that the morning fog sinks to the

way that the morning fog sinks to the bottom of the valley and then uncloaked

bottom of the valley and then uncloaked

bottom of the valley and then uncloaked the mountains as the Sun rises how quiet

the mountains as the Sun rises how quiet

the mountains as the Sun rises how quiet it gets when it smells I wanted them to

it gets when it smells I wanted them to

it gets when it smells I wanted them to know these things I needed them to know

know these things I needed them to know

know these things I needed them to know these things because how could we all

these things because how could we all

these things because how could we all possibly be ok was living just one life

possibly be ok was living just one life

possibly be ok was living just one life as I got older I learned about how truly

as I got older I learned about how truly

as I got older I learned about how truly big and very different and this issue

big and very different and this issue

big and very different and this issue only intensified I would sit in airports

only intensified I would sit in airports

only intensified I would sit in airports for hours on end and imagine entire

for hours on end and imagine entire

for hours on end and imagine entire lives for the people who moved around me

lives for the people who moved around me

lives for the people who moved around me that tall girl over there drinking water

that tall girl over there drinking water

that tall girl over there drinking water she’s surely one from the trees but else

she’s surely one from the trees but else

she’s surely one from the trees but else for those long arms be used for besides

for those long arms be used for besides

for those long arms be used for besides swinging from branch to branch that man

swinging from branch to branch that man

swinging from branch to branch that man wearing hiking boots I’m sure he slept

wearing hiking boots I’m sure he slept

wearing hiking boots I’m sure he slept on every single one of the Seven Summits

on every single one of the Seven Summits

on every single one of the Seven Summits that mom balancing 7 Starbucks coffees I

that mom balancing 7 Starbucks coffees I

that mom balancing 7 Starbucks coffees I think she travels with the circus when

think she travels with the circus when

think she travels with the circus when she’s not busy carpooling her triplet

she’s not busy carpooling her triplet

she’s not busy carpooling her triplet daughters to and from soccer practice

daughters to and from soccer practice

daughters to and from soccer practice and the little girl holding up seashells

and the little girl holding up seashells

and the little girl holding up seashells to her ears she’s listening to the ocean

to her ears she’s listening to the ocean

to her ears she’s listening to the ocean because one day she’ll find it and never

because one day she’ll find it and never

because one day she’ll find it and never we’ve inside these are stories I

we’ve inside these are stories I

we’ve inside these are stories I invented for people through them I could

invented for people through them I could

invented for people through them I could in a way with other lives but it was

in a way with other lives but it was

in a way with other lives but it was still so safe and protected and it as I

still so safe and protected and it as I

still so safe and protected and it as I found out when it comes to real life and

found out when it comes to real life and

found out when it comes to real life and real stories they will always have they

real stories they will always have they

real stories they will always have they all they will always win when it comes

all they will always win when it comes

all they will always win when it comes to crazy this is a couple I met on a

to crazy this is a couple I met on a

to crazy this is a couple I met on a boat trip in the British Virgin Islands

boat trip in the British Virgin Islands

boat trip in the British Virgin Islands they had a boost at an oceanside flea

they had a boost at an oceanside flea

they had a boost at an oceanside flea market and they sold everyday items

market and they sold everyday items

market and they sold everyday items hats bags sunglasses cases all made out

hats bags sunglasses cases all made out

hats bags sunglasses cases all made out of different flags the day we went it

of different flags the day we went it

of different flags the day we went it was pouring rain the kind of rain you

was pouring rain the kind of rain you

was pouring rain the kind of rain you would never see here we took refuge

would never see here we took refuge

would never see here we took refuge under the couple’s tent and I asked them

under the couple’s tent and I asked them

under the couple’s tent and I asked them where they got all of their flags the

where they got all of their flags the

where they got all of their flags the man told me and heavily accented and

man told me and heavily accented and

man told me and heavily accented and broken English that they had sailed all

broken English that they had sailed all

broken English that they had sailed all around the Atlantic for seven years up

around the Atlantic for seven years up

around the Atlantic for seven years up and down the Caribbean all along the

and down the Caribbean all along the

and down the Caribbean all along the eastern coast of South America and they

eastern coast of South America and they

eastern coast of South America and they stopped at every boat they found that

stopped at every boat they found that

stopped at every boat they found that was flying a flag they would more close

was flying a flag they would more close

was flying a flag they would more close to the boat and then ask whoever was on

to the boat and then ask whoever was on

to the boat and then ask whoever was on board what their story was his wife told

board what their story was his wife told

board what their story was his wife told me that they gave no further promptings

me that they gave no further promptings

me that they gave no further promptings but the things they heard and learned

but the things they heard and learned

but the things they heard and learned from these people was more than they

from these people was more than they

from these people was more than they could have ever expected after talking

could have ever expected after talking

could have ever expected after talking for just a couple minutes or sometimes

for just a couple minutes or sometimes

for just a couple minutes or sometimes over hours and meals these two would

over hours and meals these two would

over hours and meals these two would leave with a whole other life they had

leave with a whole other life they had

leave with a whole other life they had learned about and they always asked

learned about and they always asked

learned about and they always asked their new friend for a piece of their

their new friend for a piece of their

their new friend for a piece of their flag I stood there with my mouth at gape

flag I stood there with my mouth at gape

flag I stood there with my mouth at gape these two had collected hundreds of flag

these two had collected hundreds of flag

these two had collected hundreds of flag pieces and stitch them together I

pieces and stitch them together I

pieces and stitch them together I couldn’t conceive how many people they

couldn’t conceive how many people they

couldn’t conceive how many people they had met how many stories they had been

had met how many stories they had been

had met how many stories they had been told I asked why they sold them this was

told I asked why they sold them this was

told I asked why they sold them this was an art form a lifetime of work put

an art form a lifetime of work put

an art form a lifetime of work put together way the man told me smiling the

together way the man told me smiling the

together way the man told me smiling the world is a puzzle now we put together

world is a puzzle now we put together

world is a puzzle now we put together these pieces of the puzzle but we know

these pieces of the puzzle but we know

these pieces of the puzzle but we know the picture already unless we share the

the picture already unless we share the

the picture already unless we share the pieces the world hides forever from this

pieces the world hides forever from this

pieces the world hides forever from this moment I I had always craved others

moment I I had always craved others

moment I I had always craved others words stories of our histories and our

words stories of our histories and our

words stories of our histories and our pasts in the past of every

pasts in the past of every

pasts in the past of every we have ever met this couple sought to

we have ever met this couple sought to

we have ever met this couple sought to collect pieces of the world and they

collect pieces of the world and they

collect pieces of the world and they found them in the form of stories in

found them in the form of stories in

found them in the form of stories in fact there are parts of myself I only

fact there are parts of myself I only

fact there are parts of myself I only recognize from stories I don’t actually

recognize from stories I don’t actually

recognize from stories I don’t actually remember my great-grandmother but I can

remember my great-grandmother but I can

remember my great-grandmother but I can hear her voice calling death decided to

hear her voice calling death decided to

hear her voice calling death decided to call us home for dinner I was too young

call us home for dinner I was too young

call us home for dinner I was too young to remember living in the shadow of a

to remember living in the shadow of a

to remember living in the shadow of a mountain but my parents have coached me

mountain but my parents have coached me

mountain but my parents have coached me to recall the warmth of the wood burning

to recall the warmth of the wood burning

to recall the warmth of the wood burning fire in the living room when we truly

fire in the living room when we truly

fire in the living room when we truly listen to stories we can learn about

listen to stories we can learn about

listen to stories we can learn about other cultures in a way that history

other cultures in a way that history

other cultures in a way that history books will never be able to replicate

books will never be able to replicate

books will never be able to replicate all of humanity deserves to understand

all of humanity deserves to understand

all of humanity deserves to understand the journey is the individuals and that

the journey is the individuals and that

the journey is the individuals and that have pushed individuals and the larger

have pushed individuals and the larger

have pushed individuals and the larger groups they belong to forward in this

groups they belong to forward in this

groups they belong to forward in this compassion will propel us for the fuller

compassion will propel us for the fuller

compassion will propel us for the fuller understanding of this diverse world just

understanding of this diverse world just

understanding of this diverse world just like the couple and their Flags that I

like the couple and their Flags that I

like the couple and their Flags that I found in the pouring rain

found in the pouring rain

found in the pouring rain we must it together our own stories to

we must it together our own stories to

we must it together our own stories to add to the puzzle that is the world

add to the puzzle that is the world

add to the puzzle that is the world every piece is different but without

every piece is different but without

every piece is different but without them as my grandmother would tell me

them as my grandmother would tell me

them as my grandmother would tell me there is no final picture stories

there is no final picture stories

there is no final picture stories transpose all barriers that

transpose all barriers that

transpose all barriers that misunderstanding has ever made and they

misunderstanding has ever made and they

misunderstanding has ever made and they build bridges to connect worlds that

build bridges to connect worlds that

build bridges to connect worlds that would otherwise never come together this

would otherwise never come together this

would otherwise never come together this is the impossible connection that we

is the impossible connection that we

is the impossible connection that we seek through stories one that allows us

seek through stories one that allows us

seek through stories one that allows us to live other lives

to live other lives

to live other lives this is a video from my longest freedive

this is a video from my longest freedive

this is a video from my longest freedive ever my personal record

ever my personal record

ever my personal record freediving is deep diving without the

freediving is deep diving without the

freediving is deep diving without the support of compressed air beneath the

support of compressed air beneath the

support of compressed air beneath the water more bridges are made diving deep

water more bridges are made diving deep

water more bridges are made diving deep on a single breath words become silenced

on a single breath words become silenced

on a single breath words become silenced during this dive as I neared the

during this dive as I neared the

during this dive as I neared the 3-minute mark my lungs began to burn my

3-minute mark my lungs began to burn my

3-minute mark my lungs began to burn my muscles twitched and every part of my

muscles twitched and every part of my

muscles twitched and every part of my body willed me to return to the surface

body willed me to return to the surface

body willed me to return to the surface but as I prepared to end my dive I

but as I prepared to end my dive I

but as I prepared to end my dive I looked into the eyes of the sea turtle I

looked into the eyes of the sea turtle I

looked into the eyes of the sea turtle I matched his gentle glide the calm way

matched his gentle glide the calm way

matched his gentle glide the calm way that he surveyed the beauty of the ocean

that he surveyed the beauty of the ocean

that he surveyed the beauty of the ocean floor before him I was able to slow down

floor before him I was able to slow down

floor before him I was able to slow down and see clearly I no longer felt the

and see clearly I no longer felt the

and see clearly I no longer felt the need to return to the comfort of air as

need to return to the comfort of air as

need to return to the comfort of air as we swam together and sink although no

we swam together and sink although no

we swam together and sink although no words or gestures were

words or gestures were

words or gestures were changed I understood his world and I

changed I understood his world and I

changed I understood his world and I heard his story the impossible

heard his story the impossible

heard his story the impossible connection is there it is moving living

connection is there it is moving living

connection is there it is moving living with every living thing waiting for us

with every living thing waiting for us

with every living thing waiting for us to find the pieces of the world to find

to find the pieces of the world to find

to find the pieces of the world to find the words and hold them close to our

the words and hold them close to our

the words and hold them close to our heart the pieces of the world are

heart the pieces of the world are

heart the pieces of the world are waiting we just have to listen

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