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Why Nothing Changes (Until It Does) | Jennifer Ouellette | TEDxCoconutGrove


thank you so much I’m excited and

thank you so much I’m excited and delighted to be here at Coconut Grove

delighted to be here at Coconut Grove

delighted to be here at Coconut Grove especially since the subject of this

especially since the subject of this

especially since the subject of this talk is Eureka and for me Eureka

talk is Eureka and for me Eureka

talk is Eureka and for me Eureka represents discovery and most

represents discovery and most

represents discovery and most importantly change and particularly of

importantly change and particularly of

importantly change and particularly of late I’ve been thinking a lot about how

late I’ve been thinking a lot about how

late I’ve been thinking a lot about how things change so you all know the story

things change so you all know the story

things change so you all know the story of Archimedes or at least most of you

of Archimedes or at least most of you

of Archimedes or at least most of you have this is the origin of the concept

have this is the origin of the concept

have this is the origin of the concept of Eureka our commedia same as’ ancient

of Eureka our commedia same as’ ancient

of Eureka our commedia same as’ ancient Greek inventor and he got stuck on this

Greek inventor and he got stuck on this

Greek inventor and he got stuck on this intractable problem and he couldn’t

intractable problem and he couldn’t

intractable problem and he couldn’t figure out the solution and he got

figure out the solution and he got

figure out the solution and he got frustrated but he was taking a bath

frustrated but he was taking a bath

frustrated but he was taking a bath probably to relieve all his frustrations

probably to relieve all his frustrations

probably to relieve all his frustrations and the solutions just suddenly

and the solutions just suddenly

and the solutions just suddenly presented it to him and he was so

presented it to him and he was so

presented it to him and he was so excited that he lept out of his bathtub

excited that he lept out of his bathtub

excited that he lept out of his bathtub and ran naked through the streets

and ran naked through the streets

and ran naked through the streets shouting Eureka I have found it and ever

shouting Eureka I have found it and ever

shouting Eureka I have found it and ever since we’ve actually associated this

since we’ve actually associated this

since we’ve actually associated this concept of Eureka that moment of

concept of Eureka that moment of

concept of Eureka that moment of transformation with change and to some

transformation with change and to some

transformation with change and to some extent that’s true but what I hope to

extent that’s true but what I hope to

extent that’s true but what I hope to convince you of in this talk is that

convince you of in this talk is that

convince you of in this talk is that that’s actually just the moment when we

that’s actually just the moment when we

that’s actually just the moment when we see the change but real change is

see the change but real change is

see the change but real change is actually a continuous process and in

actually a continuous process and in

actually a continuous process and in fact even though our committees was

fact even though our committees was

fact even though our committees was thought that he was like stuck and in a

thought that he was like stuck and in a

thought that he was like stuck and in a rut and not going anywhere

rut and not going anywhere

rut and not going anywhere change was actually happening bubbling

change was actually happening bubbling

change was actually happening bubbling below the surface all along I’m gonna

below the surface all along I’m gonna

below the surface all along I’m gonna give you an example of this that many of

give you an example of this that many of

give you an example of this that many of you may recognize anyone has ever had

you may recognize anyone has ever had

you may recognize anyone has ever had slow roasted pork but it’s succulent

slow roasted pork but it’s succulent

slow roasted pork but it’s succulent it’s delicious and last summer my

it’s delicious and last summer my

it’s delicious and last summer my husband decided that he wanted to try

husband decided that he wanted to try

husband decided that he wanted to try and make some it seems like a very very

and make some it seems like a very very

and make some it seems like a very very simple process

simple process

simple process you take a big hunk of pork shoulder and

you take a big hunk of pork shoulder and

you take a big hunk of pork shoulder and just stick it in your little egg you

just stick it in your little egg you

just stick it in your little egg you know for smoking and you just let it go

know for smoking and you just let it go

know for smoking and you just let it go at a low temperature for hours and hours

at a low temperature for hours and hours

at a low temperature for hours and hours until the internal meat temperature and

until the internal meat temperature and

until the internal meat temperature and your thermometer reaches a certain thing

your thermometer reaches a certain thing

your thermometer reaches a certain thing and then it’s done it shifts there’s a

and then it’s done it shifts there’s a

and then it’s done it shifts there’s a problem with this if you just sort of

problem with this if you just sort of

problem with this if you just sort of like leave it there after a couple of

like leave it there after a couple of

like leave it there after a couple of hours the temperature rises very nicely

hours the temperature rises very nicely

hours the temperature rises very nicely for two maybe three hours but then it

for two maybe three hours but then it

for two maybe three hours but then it just stops it stalls out in fact they

just stops it stalls out in fact they

just stops it stalls out in fact they actually call this the plateau or the

actually call this the plateau or the

actually call this the plateau or the stall or the zone and it will stay there

stall or the zone and it will stay there

stall or the zone and it will stay there for hours and hours and hours and your

for hours and hours and hours and your

for hours and hours and hours and your guests are hungry and they’re waiting

guests are hungry and they’re waiting

guests are hungry and they’re waiting and they’re wondering you know why they

and they’re wondering you know why they

and they’re wondering you know why they ever came over here for pork but when

ever came over here for pork but when

ever came over here for pork but when they could just have had pizza at home

they could just have had pizza at home

they could just have had pizza at home and the reason this happens is because

and the reason this happens is because

and the reason this happens is because there’s evaporation going on all the

there’s evaporation going on all the

there’s evaporation going on all the moisture in the meat is evaporating as

moisture in the meat is evaporating as

moisture in the meat is evaporating as it heats up and that’s countering the

it heats up and that’s countering the

it heats up and that’s countering the heating up process it’s releasing heat

heating up process it’s releasing heat

heating up process it’s releasing heat even as it’s getting heat from the

even as it’s getting heat from the

even as it’s getting heat from the slow-roasting and eventually that the

slow-roasting and eventually that the

slow-roasting and eventually that the it’ll-it’ll it’ll be done eventually the

it’ll-it’ll it’ll be done eventually the

it’ll-it’ll it’ll be done eventually the temperature start to rise again by then

temperature start to rise again by then

temperature start to rise again by then your pork is kind of all dried up and

your pork is kind of all dried up and

your pork is kind of all dried up and icky so what an experienced pitmaster

icky so what an experienced pitmaster

icky so what an experienced pitmaster will do is wrap that in tin foil after

will do is wrap that in tin foil after

will do is wrap that in tin foil after the first two or three hours and it

the first two or three hours and it

the first two or three hours and it traps all that moisture in and I’m about

traps all that moisture in and I’m about

traps all that moisture in and I’m about six to eight hours you get that moist

six to eight hours you get that moist

six to eight hours you get that moist juicy succulent pork butt that we all

juicy succulent pork butt that we all

juicy succulent pork butt that we all know and love so to me this is a very

know and love so to me this is a very

know and love so to me this is a very very good metaphor for how change

very good metaphor for how change

very good metaphor for how change happens because even though it looks

happens because even though it looks

happens because even though it looks like nothing is happening when you look

like nothing is happening when you look

like nothing is happening when you look at what’s happening there’s quite a bit

at what’s happening there’s quite a bit

at what’s happening there’s quite a bit going on all that evaporation all those

going on all that evaporation all those

going on all that evaporation all those heat molecules coming all that heat

heat molecules coming all that heat

heat molecules coming all that heat coming in so the change has been

coming in so the change has been

coming in so the change has been happening all along you’re not actually

happening all along you’re not actually

happening all along you’re not actually in a plateau it’s just that you’re not

in a plateau it’s just that you’re not

in a plateau it’s just that you’re not seeing it reflected in the temperature

seeing it reflected in the temperature

seeing it reflected in the temperature you’re measuring for change but it’s the

you’re measuring for change but it’s the

you’re measuring for change but it’s the wrong kind of change the change is

wrong kind of change the change is

wrong kind of change the change is happening all along

happening all along

happening all along what happens in the pork butt is exactly

what happens in the pork butt is exactly

what happens in the pork butt is exactly is basically an example of a phase

is basically an example of a phase

is basically an example of a phase transition and all meaningful change is

transition and all meaningful change is

transition and all meaningful change is a phase transition and note that I said

a phase transition and note that I said

a phase transition and note that I said meaningful change because things are

meaningful change because things are

meaningful change because things are actually changing around us all the time

actually changing around us all the time

actually changing around us all the time right

right

right just the planets moving around the Sun

just the planets moving around the Sun

just the planets moving around the Sun or changing position constantly when I

or changing position constantly when I

or changing position constantly when I talk about meaningful change I’m talking

talk about meaningful change I’m talking

talk about meaningful change I’m talking about what happens when a system changes

about what happens when a system changes

about what happens when a system changes its behavior the most common example of

its behavior the most common example of

its behavior the most common example of course that we can think of is water

course that we can think of is water

course that we can think of is water when water reaches a certain temperature

when water reaches a certain temperature

when water reaches a certain temperature and pressure it will either be so cold

and pressure it will either be so cold

and pressure it will either be so cold that it freezes into ice crystals or so

that it freezes into ice crystals or so

that it freezes into ice crystals or so hot that he evaporates into vapor and it

hot that he evaporates into vapor and it

hot that he evaporates into vapor and it changes into a gas phase and the moment

changes into a gas phase and the moment

changes into a gas phase and the moment when that happens is called the tipping

when that happens is called the tipping

when that happens is called the tipping point it’s That moment when it’s just

point it’s That moment when it’s just

point it’s That moment when it’s just about ready just perfectly poised right

about ready just perfectly poised right

about ready just perfectly poised right at the edge and ready to shift into a

at the edge and ready to shift into a

at the edge and ready to shift into a new phase and once again we focus a lot

new phase and once again we focus a lot

new phase and once again we focus a lot on the tipping point on that one moment

on the tipping point on that one moment

on the tipping point on that one moment of observable change but what actually

of observable change but what actually

of observable change but what actually it’s a slow continuous process the

it’s a slow continuous process the

it’s a slow continuous process the change has been occurring all along

change has been occurring all along

change has been occurring all along there’s been all these tiny interactions

there’s been all these tiny interactions

there’s been all these tiny interactions all these things going on at the surface

all these things going on at the surface

all these things going on at the surface and what happens is over time that

and what happens is over time that

and what happens is over time that reaches that l-let pressure builds and

reaches that l-let pressure builds and

reaches that l-let pressure builds and takes you to this critical point to the

takes you to this critical point to the

takes you to this critical point to the point where it’s ready finally to shift

point where it’s ready finally to shift

point where it’s ready finally to shift over into a phase nature love this phase

over into a phase nature love this phase

over into a phase nature love this phase transitions you

transitions you

transitions you them all around you one of my favorite

them all around you one of my favorite

them all around you one of my favorite examples is swarms and flocks bacteria

examples is swarms and flocks bacteria

examples is swarms and flocks bacteria for example can communicate but not when

for example can communicate but not when

for example can communicate but not when they’re too far apart if you’ve only got

they’re too far apart if you’ve only got

they’re too far apart if you’ve only got just a few bacteria in let you know on

just a few bacteria in let you know on

just a few bacteria in let you know on your little petri dish or whatever and

your little petri dish or whatever and

your little petri dish or whatever and you know they’re too far away they’re

you know they’re too far away they’re

you know they’re too far away they’re not thick enough they can’t really talk

not thick enough they can’t really talk

not thick enough they can’t really talk to each other but at some point if you

to each other but at some point if you

to each other but at some point if you keep piling them on there and you keep

keep piling them on there and you keep

keep piling them on there and you keep putting them closer and closer and

putting them closer and closer and

putting them closer and closer and closer together and you get up you reach

closer together and you get up you reach

closer together and you get up you reach a critical density a critical threshold

a critical density a critical threshold

a critical density a critical threshold a tipping point and at that point

a tipping point and at that point

a tipping point and at that point for example they start talking to each

for example they start talking to each

for example they start talking to each other and all of a sudden like as one

other and all of a sudden like as one

other and all of a sudden like as one they all start to fluoresce emit this

they all start to fluoresce emit this

they all start to fluoresce emit this like soft blue light because now they’ve

like soft blue light because now they’ve

like soft blue light because now they’ve become something different that become a

become something different that become a

become something different that become a collective organism and that

collective organism and that

collective organism and that fluorescence does not occur in the

fluorescence does not occur in the

fluorescence does not occur in the individual bacterium you see this an ant

individual bacterium you see this an ant

individual bacterium you see this an ant swarms with fire ants one little ant

swarms with fire ants one little ant

swarms with fire ants one little ant doesn’t really do much it does this

doesn’t really do much it does this

doesn’t really do much it does this little job you know it follows its rules

little job you know it follows its rules

little job you know it follows its rules it moves around along with the swarm but

it moves around along with the swarm but

it moves around along with the swarm but you get a whole swarm of ants together

you get a whole swarm of ants together

you get a whole swarm of ants together and they suddenly become this collective

and they suddenly become this collective

and they suddenly become this collective organism and they can do amazing things

organism and they can do amazing things

organism and they can do amazing things suddenly it’s not individual ants moving

suddenly it’s not individual ants moving

suddenly it’s not individual ants moving along randomly they’re coordinating it

along randomly they’re coordinating it

along randomly they’re coordinating it coordinating their efforts they are

coordinating their efforts they are

coordinating their efforts they are building towers and rafts and the great

building towers and rafts and the great

building towers and rafts and the great thing about it is you can take out a few

thing about it is you can take out a few

thing about it is you can take out a few of those ants and it won’t change

of those ants and it won’t change

of those ants and it won’t change anything the organism will still be

anything the organism will still be

anything the organism will still be robust and will still be able to do that

robust and will still be able to do that

robust and will still be able to do that swarms of Fox murmuration zuv starlings

swarms of Fox murmuration zuv starlings

swarms of Fox murmuration zuv starlings again you get enough of them in

again you get enough of them in

again you get enough of them in sufficient critical density it’s like

sufficient critical density it’s like

sufficient critical density it’s like the signal goes through and they

the signal goes through and they

the signal goes through and they suddenly begin to swarm and create these

suddenly begin to swarm and create these

suddenly begin to swarm and create these beautiful patterns in the air and again

beautiful patterns in the air and again

beautiful patterns in the air and again very robust few starlings fall out those

very robust few starlings fall out those

very robust few starlings fall out those patterns can still go on the reason that

patterns can still go on the reason that

patterns can still go on the reason that scientists like to study swarms one of

scientists like to study swarms one of

scientists like to study swarms one of them is that it might give us some ideas

them is that it might give us some ideas

them is that it might give us some ideas to how to make our own complex networks

to how to make our own complex networks

to how to make our own complex networks more robust because we have them we have

more robust because we have them we have

more robust because we have them we have power grids we have stock market we have

power grids we have stock market we have

power grids we have stock market we have the social media these all seem very

the social media these all seem very

the social media these all seem very very different on the surface but

very different on the surface but

very different on the surface but fundamentally what you have is billions

fundamentally what you have is billions

fundamentally what you have is billions of little individual units all talking

of little individual units all talking

of little individual units all talking to each other with a few long-range

to each other with a few long-range

to each other with a few long-range connections tying the whole thing

connections tying the whole thing

connections tying the whole thing together so that you get this very nice

together so that you get this very nice

together so that you get this very nice complex network and it’s fabulous but

complex network and it’s fabulous but

complex network and it’s fabulous but the problem is they’re a little bit more

the problem is they’re a little bit more

the problem is they’re a little bit more prone to failure a stock market collapse

prone to failure a stock market collapse

prone to failure a stock market collapse for example a power grid outage we all

for example a power grid outage we all

for example a power grid outage we all know what happens to the airline

know what happens to the airline

know what happens to the airline when Chicago shuts down because of a

when Chicago shuts down because of a

when Chicago shuts down because of a winter storm like it just chaos

winter storm like it just chaos

winter storm like it just chaos everywhere and it’s because the system

everywhere and it’s because the system

everywhere and it’s because the system is so delicate and so sensitive that a

is so delicate and so sensitive that a

is so delicate and so sensitive that a tiny little thing can affect it so why

tiny little thing can affect it so why

tiny little thing can affect it so why is that and the reason is it’s actually

is that and the reason is it’s actually

is that and the reason is it’s actually not in one phase or another it’s

not in one phase or another it’s

not in one phase or another it’s delicately poised at say at the tipping

delicately poised at say at the tipping

delicately poised at say at the tipping point or near the tipping point and that

point or near the tipping point and that

point or near the tipping point and that can be a remarkably stable and efficient

can be a remarkably stable and efficient

can be a remarkably stable and efficient place to be for a network but it also

place to be for a network but it also

place to be for a network but it also makes it vulnerable so what you need is

makes it vulnerable so what you need is

makes it vulnerable so what you need is some kind of mechanism to release that

some kind of mechanism to release that

some kind of mechanism to release that pressure occasionally every now and then

pressure occasionally every now and then

pressure occasionally every now and then so that the system can kind of stay

so that the system can kind of stay

so that the system can kind of stay balanced and poised there in this

balanced and poised there in this

balanced and poised there in this precarious position and just do its job

precarious position and just do its job

precarious position and just do its job and it turns out that nature again may

and it turns out that nature again may

and it turns out that nature again may have given us a key to that the human

have given us a key to that the human

have given us a key to that the human brain is a marvel of evolutionary

brain is a marvel of evolutionary

brain is a marvel of evolutionary progress it’s again it’s a complex

progress it’s again it’s a complex

progress it’s again it’s a complex network you have billions of individual

network you have billions of individual

network you have billions of individual neurons and they’re all internet2

neurons and they’re all internet2

neurons and they’re all internet2 interconnected and talking to each other

interconnected and talking to each other

interconnected and talking to each other you’ve got some local clusters in each

you’ve got some local clusters in each

you’ve got some local clusters in each region of the brain and you’ve got these

region of the brain and you’ve got these

region of the brain and you’ve got these longer-range connections of white matter

longer-range connections of white matter

longer-range connections of white matter that are really key to type tying the

that are really key to type tying the

that are really key to type tying the whole brain together and the brain is

whole brain together and the brain is

whole brain together and the brain is remarkably robust and functional and

remarkably robust and functional and

remarkably robust and functional and there’s growing scientific evidence that

there’s growing scientific evidence that

there’s growing scientific evidence that in fact the reason this is so is because

in fact the reason this is so is because

in fact the reason this is so is because it’s perfectly poised near the critical

it’s perfectly poised near the critical

it’s perfectly poised near the critical point without ever going over unless of

point without ever going over unless of

point without ever going over unless of course you have an epileptic seizure for

course you have an epileptic seizure for

course you have an epileptic seizure for example and it makes sense because it’s

example and it makes sense because it’s

example and it makes sense because it’s a sweet spot right if your brain is too

a sweet spot right if your brain is too

a sweet spot right if your brain is too rigid then you’re it’s not going to be

rigid then you’re it’s not going to be

rigid then you’re it’s not going to be able to adapt changing conditions and if

able to adapt changing conditions and if

able to adapt changing conditions and if it’s too random and chaotic it’s – all

it’s too random and chaotic it’s – all

it’s too random and chaotic it’s – all the neurons are just going to fire

the neurons are just going to fire

the neurons are just going to fire randomly and you’re gonna have an

randomly and you’re gonna have an

randomly and you’re gonna have an epileptic seizure so a brain that is not

epileptic seizure so a brain that is not

epileptic seizure so a brain that is not critical in the words of the

critical in the words of the

critical in the words of the neuroscientist Dante salvo is that is

neuroscientist Dante salvo is that is

neuroscientist Dante salvo is that is the brain of an idiot so how does the

the brain of an idiot so how does the

the brain of an idiot so how does the brain do this and the secret is in tiny

brain do this and the secret is in tiny

brain do this and the secret is in tiny avalanches if you think of a sand pile

avalanches if you think of a sand pile

avalanches if you think of a sand pile and you think of what happens as all in

and you think of what happens as all in

and you think of what happens as all in an hourglass that the sand pours through

an hourglass that the sand pours through

an hourglass that the sand pours through it sort of builds up doesn’t it as each

it sort of builds up doesn’t it as each

it sort of builds up doesn’t it as each little grain falls down it builds up and

little grain falls down it builds up and

little grain falls down it builds up and up up and up and it gets narrower and

up up and up and it gets narrower and

up up and up and it gets narrower and narrower and after a certain point it’s

narrower and after a certain point it’s

narrower and after a certain point it’s so narrow at the top that it can’t

so narrow at the top that it can’t

so narrow at the top that it can’t support the weight of even one more

support the weight of even one more

support the weight of even one more grain of sand so the very next grain of

grain of sand so the very next grain of

grain of sand so the very next grain of sand that falls you see this massive

sand that falls you see this massive

sand that falls you see this massive avalanche and it collapses and the base

avalanche and it collapses and the base

avalanche and it collapses and the base expands and it starts that process all

expands and it starts that process all

expands and it starts that process all over again

over again

over again that’s a little bit similar to what’s

that’s a little bit similar to what’s

that’s a little bit similar to what’s going on in the brain except instead of

going on in the brain except instead of

going on in the brain except instead of massive catastrophic avalanches what’s

massive catastrophic avalanches what’s

massive catastrophic avalanches what’s happening scientists have found is that

happening scientists have found is that

happening scientists have found is that there’s some little electrical tiny

there’s some little electrical tiny

there’s some little electrical tiny little electrical Cascades tiny little

little electrical Cascades tiny little

little electrical Cascades tiny little avalanches that are kind of relieving

avalanches that are kind of relieving

avalanches that are kind of relieving the pressure so that the brain can build

the pressure so that the brain can build

the pressure so that the brain can build up again and then relieve the pressure

up again and then relieve the pressure

up again and then relieve the pressure and build up again and it’s just enough

and build up again and it’s just enough

and build up again and it’s just enough to keep it poised right there at the

to keep it poised right there at the

to keep it poised right there at the critical point so why am I telling all

critical point so why am I telling all

critical point so why am I telling all this that’s because this is not just

this that’s because this is not just

this that’s because this is not just really you know limited to physical

really you know limited to physical

really you know limited to physical symptoms Systems change actually the

symptoms Systems change actually the

symptoms Systems change actually the phase transition metaphor for change

phase transition metaphor for change

phase transition metaphor for change actually works for social systems for

actually works for social systems for

actually works for social systems for economic change if you think about

economic change if you think about

economic change if you think about changes in collective public opinion the

changes in collective public opinion the

changes in collective public opinion the civil rights movement for a long time I

civil rights movement for a long time I

civil rights movement for a long time I think during the civil rights movement

think during the civil rights movement

think during the civil rights movement people thought that nothing they did

people thought that nothing they did

people thought that nothing they did matter that the change would never come

matter that the change would never come

matter that the change would never come that no one was ever going to be able to

that no one was ever going to be able to

that no one was ever going to be able to make a big enough difference for to see

make a big enough difference for to see

make a big enough difference for to see a really sweeping transformative change

a really sweeping transformative change

a really sweeping transformative change in our society but it was still going on

in our society but it was still going on

in our society but it was still going on along the surface and while Rosa Parks

along the surface and while Rosa Parks

along the surface and while Rosa Parks may have become a symbol you know of

may have become a symbol you know of

may have become a symbol you know of with her with her bus sit-in of this

with her with her bus sit-in of this

with her with her bus sit-in of this transformative change she was just that

transformative change she was just that

transformative change she was just that final grain of sand right that brought

final grain of sand right that brought

final grain of sand right that brought about the transformative change and

about the transformative change and

about the transformative change and we’re still seeing that today we saw it

we’re still seeing that today we saw it

we’re still seeing that today we saw it recently in the last 10 years with

recently in the last 10 years with

recently in the last 10 years with attitudes in the public towards gay

attitudes in the public towards gay

attitudes in the public towards gay marriage people at you know people were

marriage people at you know people were

marriage people at you know people were kind of against it didn’t really like it

kind of against it didn’t really like it

kind of against it didn’t really like it hats didn’t have you know it had strong

hats didn’t have you know it had strong

hats didn’t have you know it had strong feelings about it and just nothing

feelings about it and just nothing

feelings about it and just nothing seemed to budge for years and years and

seemed to budge for years and years and

seemed to budge for years and years and years and years and all of a sudden last

years and years and all of a sudden last

years and years and all of a sudden last few years it’s just like something

few years it’s just like something

few years it’s just like something snapped and we saw suddenly people

snapped and we saw suddenly people

snapped and we saw suddenly people thought you know what this is fine this

thought you know what this is fine this

thought you know what this is fine this is OK and we’re seeing it even more more

is OK and we’re seeing it even more more

is OK and we’re seeing it even more more recently with the attitudes towards

recently with the attitudes towards

recently with the attitudes towards legalization of marijuana this is a

legalization of marijuana this is a

legalization of marijuana this is a collective shift in public opinion and

collective shift in public opinion and

collective shift in public opinion and it’s not down to any one individual it’s

it’s not down to any one individual it’s

it’s not down to any one individual it’s down to this process that’s happening

down to this process that’s happening

down to this process that’s happening because we’re all interconnected to each

because we’re all interconnected to each

because we’re all interconnected to each other and talking to each other and this

other and talking to each other and this

other and talking to each other and this also works with an individual in my

also works with an individual in my

also works with an individual in my opinion there’s something in psychology

opinion there’s something in psychology

opinion there’s something in psychology called an effective tipping point and it

called an effective tipping point and it

called an effective tipping point and it describes that point in a person’s life

describes that point in a person’s life

describes that point in a person’s life where they are primed and ready for

where they are primed and ready for

where they are primed and ready for change and this is actually an unusual

change and this is actually an unusual

change and this is actually an unusual State for human beings to be in because

State for human beings to be in because

State for human beings to be in because let’s face it we all like to be in our

let’s face it we all like to be in our

let’s face it we all like to be in our nice cozy comfortable phase we actually

nice cozy comfortable phase we actually

nice cozy comfortable phase we actually resist change

resist change

resist change I’m sure many of you are aware of

I’m sure many of you are aware of

I’m sure many of you are aware of something called the backfire effect and

something called the backfire effect and

something called the backfire effect and this is when you have a core belief not

this is when you have a core belief not

this is when you have a core belief not just an opinion but something that is so

just an opinion but something that is so

just an opinion but something that is so core and essential to your identity that

core and essential to your identity that

core and essential to your identity that you can’t stand for it to be challenged

you can’t stand for it to be challenged

you can’t stand for it to be challenged and if someone hits you with an

and if someone hits you with an

and if someone hits you with an indisputable fact that challenges that

indisputable fact that challenges that

indisputable fact that challenges that core belief you’re probably not going to

core belief you’re probably not going to

core belief you’re probably not going to accept that fact you’re going to double

accept that fact you’re going to double

accept that fact you’re going to double and triple down and reject it and find

and triple down and reject it and find

and triple down and reject it and find some way why that can’t possibly be true

some way why that can’t possibly be true

some way why that can’t possibly be true and we see this over and over again and

and we see this over and over again and

and we see this over and over again and it is the bane of science communicators

it is the bane of science communicators

it is the bane of science communicators everywhere which I am one because how do

everywhere which I am one because how do

everywhere which I am one because how do you change an individual mind if they

you change an individual mind if they

you change an individual mind if they won’t even accept the facts and the

won’t even accept the facts and the

won’t even accept the facts and the truth is people do change their minds

truth is people do change their minds

truth is people do change their minds it’s just that it may not happen in that

it’s just that it may not happen in that

it’s just that it may not happen in that very moment it’s a process it’s not a

very moment it’s a process it’s not a

very moment it’s a process it’s not a moment a person is we are all of some of

moment a person is we are all of some of

moment a person is we are all of some of our experiences right our interactions

our experiences right our interactions

our experiences right our interactions our connections with each other we get

our connections with each other we get

our connections with each other we get all this information in from all over

all this information in from all over

all this information in from all over the books we read the people we interact

the books we read the people we interact

the books we read the people we interact with the facts that we get the news we

with the facts that we get the news we

with the facts that we get the news we watch all of these things feed into who

watch all of these things feed into who

watch all of these things feed into who we are our experiences the choices we

we are our experiences the choices we

we are our experiences the choices we make and over time occasionally we will

make and over time occasionally we will

make and over time occasionally we will get to this point where we are a little

get to this point where we are a little

get to this point where we are a little uncomfortable a little unsure of

uncomfortable a little unsure of

uncomfortable a little unsure of something that we might be previously

something that we might be previously

something that we might be previously held to be a core belief and that’s when

held to be a core belief and that’s when

held to be a core belief and that’s when we’re primed and we’re ready and the

we’re primed and we’re ready and the

we’re primed and we’re ready and the next person will be that that final

next person will be that that final

next person will be that that final grain of sand that will come in and show

grain of sand that will come in and show

grain of sand that will come in and show that same fact and maybe you’ve seen

that same fact and maybe you’ve seen

that same fact and maybe you’ve seen that fact a few other times before but

that fact a few other times before but

that fact a few other times before but this time you’re ready for it and you

this time you’re ready for it and you

this time you’re ready for it and you respond and to me that’s an interesting

respond and to me that’s an interesting

respond and to me that’s an interesting life lesson because of course our lives

life lesson because of course our lives

life lesson because of course our lives are essentially a series of phase

are essentially a series of phase

are essentially a series of phase transitions small and minor we go

transitions small and minor we go

transitions small and minor we go through life we form relationships we

through life we form relationships we

through life we form relationships we have all these experiences and every now

have all these experiences and every now

have all these experiences and every now and then we get to a point where

and then we get to a point where

and then we get to a point where something has to change and it may not

something has to change and it may not

something has to change and it may not be all that comfortable in fact usually

be all that comfortable in fact usually

be all that comfortable in fact usually when you’re at the critical point it’s a

when you’re at the critical point it’s a

when you’re at the critical point it’s a little uncomfortable because you’ve got

little uncomfortable because you’ve got

little uncomfortable because you’ve got one foot in either phase and you don’t

one foot in either phase and you don’t

one foot in either phase and you don’t you don’t want to change you resist it

you don’t want to change you resist it

you don’t want to change you resist it but those changes are going to happen

but those changes are going to happen

but those changes are going to happen and sometimes they’ll be this wonderful

and sometimes they’ll be this wonderful

and sometimes they’ll be this wonderful transformative Eureka moments sometimes

transformative Eureka moments sometimes

transformative Eureka moments sometimes they’ll be devastating catastrophic

they’ll be devastating catastrophic

they’ll be devastating catastrophic collapses sometimes they’ll be just a

collapses sometimes they’ll be just a

collapses sometimes they’ll be just a lot of little things in between but no

lot of little things in between but no

lot of little things in between but no matter what they are they represent a

matter what they are they represent a

matter what they are they represent a progress movement forward changing from

progress movement forward changing from

progress movement forward changing from one phase to another and in that sense

one phase to another and in that sense

one phase to another and in that sense they should be welcomed

they should be welcomed

they should be welcomed so that’s kind of the message that I

so that’s kind of the message that I

so that’s kind of the message that I want to leave you here with tonight is

want to leave you here with tonight is

want to leave you here with tonight is that learn to embrace the plateau don’t

that learn to embrace the plateau don’t

that learn to embrace the plateau don’t be afraid of it don’t get frustrated

be afraid of it don’t get frustrated

be afraid of it don’t get frustrated when nothing seems to be working and

when nothing seems to be working and

when nothing seems to be working and you’re frustrating you think this is

you’re frustrating you think this is

you’re frustrating you think this is useless I should just give up I should

useless I should just give up I should

useless I should just give up I should not do this remember that actually the

not do this remember that actually the

not do this remember that actually the change is happening just because you

change is happening just because you

change is happening just because you can’t see it doesn’t mean that the

can’t see it doesn’t mean that the

can’t see it doesn’t mean that the change isn’t happening this is all part

change isn’t happening this is all part

change isn’t happening this is all part of that slow continuous process and

of that slow continuous process and

of that slow continuous process and eventually you will get to that critical

eventually you will get to that critical

eventually you will get to that critical tipping point and the other thing I

tipping point and the other thing I

tipping point and the other thing I would leave you with is that it’s

would leave you with is that it’s

would leave you with is that it’s important to make yourself comfortable

important to make yourself comfortable

important to make yourself comfortable with the discomfort of being in this

with the discomfort of being in this

with the discomfort of being in this crate being near the critical point

crate being near the critical point

crate being near the critical point challenge yourselves don’t just keep

challenge yourselves don’t just keep

challenge yourselves don’t just keep your interactions local reach out to new

your interactions local reach out to new

your interactions local reach out to new ideas and new people and people who

ideas and new people and people who

ideas and new people and people who might not ever ever encounter normally

might not ever ever encounter normally

might not ever ever encounter normally because that is how you actually get to

because that is how you actually get to

because that is how you actually get to the critical point and that actually

the critical point and that actually

the critical point and that actually will bring you to the to the moment of

will bring you to the to the moment of

will bring you to the to the moment of change and take you to an exciting new

change and take you to an exciting new

change and take you to an exciting new phase and to me a critical life is one

phase and to me a critical life is one

phase and to me a critical life is one marked by these moments of profound

marked by these moments of profound

marked by these moments of profound progress and personal growth and that to

progress and personal growth and that to

progress and personal growth and that to me is a life worth living thank you

me is a life worth living thank you

me is a life worth living thank you [Applause]

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