
sorry I just wanted to take a quick snapchat I just really want to remember
snapchat I just really want to remember
snapchat I just really want to remember this so let me start today with the
this so let me start today with the
this so let me start today with the story of how I got here because really
story of how I got here because really
story of how I got here because really just last year I was stranded in Italy
just last year I was stranded in Italy
just last year I was stranded in Italy and I thought I’d never set foot on this
and I thought I’d never set foot on this
and I thought I’d never set foot on this campus again here’s the picture from
campus again here’s the picture from
campus again here’s the picture from then this is me
then this is me
then this is me and my new friend Carly who would
and my new friend Carly who would
and my new friend Carly who would actually met about two weeks prior while
actually met about two weeks prior while
actually met about two weeks prior while I was in Paris and we kept running into
I was in Paris and we kept running into
I was in Paris and we kept running into each other so often that we decided to
each other so often that we decided to
each other so often that we decided to just start traveling together behind us
just start traveling together behind us
just start traveling together behind us is this beautiful Italian town known as
is this beautiful Italian town known as
is this beautiful Italian town known as Rio Maggio one of the five that make up
Rio Maggio one of the five that make up
Rio Maggio one of the five that make up st. tere Italy it’s home to about 1,000
st. tere Italy it’s home to about 1,000
st. tere Italy it’s home to about 1,000 residents and it’s only really
residents and it’s only really
residents and it’s only really accessible by train and just our look
accessible by train and just our look
accessible by train and just our look about five hours after this photo was
about five hours after this photo was
about five hours after this photo was taken
taken
taken Carly and I were waiting to leave the
Carly and I were waiting to leave the
Carly and I were waiting to leave the town just in time to see the train go
town just in time to see the train go
town just in time to see the train go flying by signaling the beginning of an
flying by signaling the beginning of an
flying by signaling the beginning of an Italian train strike so when I look at
Italian train strike so when I look at
Italian train strike so when I look at this photo I first remember all the good
this photo I first remember all the good
this photo I first remember all the good Italian food that I had and then I
Italian food that I had and then I
Italian food that I had and then I remember Carly he’s become one of my
remember Carly he’s become one of my
remember Carly he’s become one of my closest friends but ultimately I
closest friends but ultimately I
closest friends but ultimately I remember the feeling of having three
remember the feeling of having three
remember the feeling of having three days or the plans fall apart in a matter
days or the plans fall apart in a matter
days or the plans fall apart in a matter of seconds but when I think about it
of seconds but when I think about it
of seconds but when I think about it being stuck in Italy really isn’t the
being stuck in Italy really isn’t the
being stuck in Italy really isn’t the worst place I could be in fact two years
worst place I could be in fact two years
worst place I could be in fact two years ago before I decided the army wasn’t for
ago before I decided the army wasn’t for
ago before I decided the army wasn’t for me and transferred to Vanderbilt I was
me and transferred to Vanderbilt I was
me and transferred to Vanderbilt I was actually a cadet at West Point and when
actually a cadet at West Point and when
actually a cadet at West Point and when I think about bad situations I think
I think about bad situations I think
I think about bad situations I think about summer training here’s a picture
about summer training here’s a picture
about summer training here’s a picture from then
from ah this is me and my tuned person
from ah this is me and my tuned person squad the summer before I entered my
squad the summer before I entered my
squad the summer before I entered my sophomore year at the academy
sophomore year at the academy
sophomore year at the academy and from all the dirt and grime in the
and from all the dirt and grime in the
and from all the dirt and grime in the face I’m clearly making you can probably
face I’m clearly making you can probably
face I’m clearly making you can probably tell this was not one of my favorite
tell this was not one of my favorite
tell this was not one of my favorite summers in fact I’m actually concussed
summers in fact I’m actually concussed
summers in fact I’m actually concussed in this photo and this was one of the
in this photo and this was one of the
in this photo and this was one of the hardest summers of my life and when I
hardest summers of my life and when I
hardest summers of my life and when I think about it being concussed and
think about it being concussed and
think about it being concussed and sleeping in the woods wasn’t exactly
sleeping in the woods wasn’t exactly
sleeping in the woods wasn’t exactly where I saw myself spending my first
where I saw myself spending my first
where I saw myself spending my first college summer break in fact growing up
college summer break in fact growing up
college summer break in fact growing up I actually hated being outside and I
I actually hated being outside and I
I actually hated being outside and I never wanted to play toy soldier I
never wanted to play toy soldier I
never wanted to play toy soldier I actually preferred air conditioning and
actually preferred air conditioning and
actually preferred air conditioning and flower hairclips
flower hairclips
flower hairclips here’s the picture from then this is me
here’s the picture from then this is me
here’s the picture from then this is me at my third birthday party and what you
at my third birthday party and what you
at my third birthday party and what you don’t see happening behind the camera is
don’t see happening behind the camera is
don’t see happening behind the camera is my dad’s actually pulling out this
my dad’s actually pulling out this
my dad’s actually pulling out this larger than me we need the Pooh stuffed
larger than me we need the Pooh stuffed
larger than me we need the Pooh stuffed animal in this moment forever catalogs
animal in this moment forever catalogs
animal in this moment forever catalogs my reaction but in reality everything I
my reaction but in reality everything I
my reaction but in reality everything I just told you I don’t remember
just told you I don’t remember
just told you I don’t remember everything I just said
everything I just said
everything I just said was from my mom’s perspective she’s the
was from my mom’s perspective she’s the
was from my mom’s perspective she’s the one who took this photo and when she
one who took this photo and when she
one who took this photo and when she looks at it she couldn’t remember
looks at it she couldn’t remember
looks at it she couldn’t remember exactly who I was then even if I don’t
exactly who I was then even if I don’t
exactly who I was then even if I don’t this photo immortalizes my teeth before
this photo immortalizes my teeth before
this photo immortalizes my teeth before I got my braces that dress before I got
I got my braces that dress before I got
I got my braces that dress before I got it covered in cake minutes later and
it covered in cake minutes later and
it covered in cake minutes later and that hairstyle that I rock for the next
that hairstyle that I rock for the next
that hairstyle that I rock for the next few months but I’m sure you two all have
few months but I’m sure you two all have
few months but I’m sure you two all have photos of people of places and have
photos of people of places and have
photos of people of places and have experiences you don’t want to forget for
experiences you don’t want to forget for
experiences you don’t want to forget for instance if I lost this photo
instance if I lost this photo
instance if I lost this photo I’d lose all the key details that really
I’d lose all the key details that really
I’d lose all the key details that really bring my Italian adventures back to life
bring my Italian adventures back to life
bring my Italian adventures back to life I’d figure about the shoes that I’m
I’d figure about the shoes that I’m
I’d figure about the shoes that I’m wearing the same ones that I wore for my
wearing the same ones that I wore for my
wearing the same ones that I wore for my first day of high school and the same
first day of high school and the same
first day of high school and the same ones that I threw away two weeks later
ones that I threw away two weeks later
ones that I threw away two weeks later in Budapest I’d also forget about the
in Budapest I’d also forget about the
in Budapest I’d also forget about the boat the yellow one in the middle of the
boat the yellow one in the middle of the
boat the yellow one in the middle of the frame that Carly and I spent 30 minutes
frame that Carly and I spent 30 minutes
frame that Carly and I spent 30 minutes convincing the owners that we were
convincing the owners that we were
convincing the owners that we were completely qualified to operate
completely qualified to operate
completely qualified to operate we weren’t if I lost this photo I’d
we weren’t if I lost this photo I’d
we weren’t if I lost this photo I’d forget about all the important people
forget about all the important people
forget about all the important people that I shared this incredible experience
that I shared this incredible experience
that I shared this incredible experience with there’s care
with there’s care
with there’s care the only other female in my squad who
the only other female in my squad who
the only other female in my squad who like clockwork at 2:00 a.m. would wake
like clockwork at 2:00 a.m. would wake
like clockwork at 2:00 a.m. would wake me up with Michaela I’m so sorry but I
me up with Michaela I’m so sorry but I
me up with Michaela I’m so sorry but I really have to go to the bathroom and
really have to go to the bathroom and
really have to go to the bathroom and I’d grudgingly get out of my warm
I’d grudgingly get out of my warm
I’d grudgingly get out of my warm sleeping bag and accompany her into the
sleeping bag and accompany her into the
sleeping bag and accompany her into the woods
woods
woods there’s also Nick who I had very very
there’s also Nick who I had very very
there’s also Nick who I had very very briefly met the summer before during
briefly met the summer before during
briefly met the summer before during basic training and we also shared a
basic training and we also shared a
basic training and we also shared a class together that freshman year our
class together that freshman year our
class together that freshman year our mutual friend had actually approached me
mutual friend had actually approached me
mutual friend had actually approached me and told me that Nick and I were in the
and told me that Nick and I were in the
and told me that Nick and I were in the same squad for this summer training and
same squad for this summer training and
same squad for this summer training and I had to embarrassingly reveal that I
I had to embarrassingly reveal that I
I had to embarrassingly reveal that I had no idea who unic was with Nick
had no idea who unic was with Nick
had no idea who unic was with Nick standing right beside me he still
standing right beside me he still
standing right beside me he still doesn’t let me live this down these
doesn’t let me live this down these
doesn’t let me live this down these small details matter they matter here
small details matter they matter here
small details matter they matter here where I’m sitting next to my babysitter
where I’m sitting next to my babysitter
where I’m sitting next to my babysitter Sarah and while I can tell you her name
Sarah and while I can tell you her name
Sarah and while I can tell you her name and the games we used to play in the
and the games we used to play in the
and the games we used to play in the afternoon I could never put a face to
afternoon I could never put a face to
afternoon I could never put a face to these memories but with this photo I’m
these memories but with this photo I’m
these memories but with this photo I’m allowed to have that one last tidbit of
allowed to have that one last tidbit of
allowed to have that one last tidbit of information this photo gives me one more
information this photo gives me one more
information this photo gives me one more full memory from my childhood and so
full memory from my childhood and so
full memory from my childhood and so today
today
today I bring up all these photos to emphasize
I bring up all these photos to emphasize
I bring up all these photos to emphasize the stories they preserve because each
the stories they preserve because each
the stories they preserve because each time I tell a memory my story may change
time I tell a memory my story may change
time I tell a memory my story may change but the details in these photos are
but the details in these photos are
but the details in these photos are permanent
permanent
permanent they immortalized who I was where I was
they immortalized who I was where I was
they immortalized who I was where I was and who I spent those moments with and
and who I spent those moments with and
and who I spent those moments with and they remind me of my childhood of a time
they remind me of my childhood of a time
they remind me of my childhood of a time where sharing photographs used to
where sharing photographs used to
where sharing photographs used to require your physical attendance
require your physical attendance
require your physical attendance remember when we only had 36 shots on a
remember when we only had 36 shots on a
remember when we only had 36 shots on a film roll and after you’re done shooting
film roll and after you’re done shooting
film roll and after you’re done shooting all 36 you would have to go drop it off
all 36 you would have to go drop it off
all 36 you would have to go drop it off and wait for it to be processed and it
and wait for it to be processed and it
and wait for it to be processed and it felt like Christmas time
felt like Christmas time
felt like Christmas time when my mom would come home with the
when my mom would come home with the
when my mom would come home with the photos from our last trip my entire
photos from our last trip my entire
photos from our last trip my entire family would run to the living room
family would run to the living room
family would run to the living room it would watch as someone flipped
it would watch as someone flipped
it would watch as someone flipped through all the photos and would pause
through all the photos and would pause
through all the photos and would pause and tell this story is behind each one
and tell this story is behind each one
and tell this story is behind each one and each time I could almost feel like I
and each time I could almost feel like I
and each time I could almost feel like I was in those exact moments even weeks or
was in those exact moments even weeks or
was in those exact moments even weeks or months later and my childhood has been
months later and my childhood has been
months later and my childhood has been immortalized in these chant shots these
immortalized in these chant shots these
immortalized in these chant shots these perfect mistakes where we really had to
perfect mistakes where we really had to
perfect mistakes where we really had to focus in on exactly what we wanted to
focus in on exactly what we wanted to
focus in on exactly what we wanted to remember well he had 36 shots sometimes
remember well he had 36 shots sometimes
remember well he had 36 shots sometimes even less how did we really want these
even less how did we really want these
even less how did we really want these moments to be preserved now in a
moments to be preserved now in a
moments to be preserved now in a generation with technology we can easily
generation with technology we can easily
generation with technology we can easily overlook these capabilities and the
overlook these capabilities and the
overlook these capabilities and the quality of storytelling taking a picture
quality of storytelling taking a picture
quality of storytelling taking a picture now requires minimal effort it’s as easy
now requires minimal effort it’s as easy
now requires minimal effort it’s as easy as clicking a button on a camera or on a
as clicking a button on a camera or on a
as clicking a button on a camera or on a smartphone but now with this ability to
smartphone but now with this ability to
smartphone but now with this ability to take hundreds of photos in a matter of
take hundreds of photos in a matter of
take hundreds of photos in a matter of minutes and see them instantly have we
minutes and see them instantly have we
minutes and see them instantly have we simply replaced quality
simply replaced quality
simply replaced quality with quantity the next time you’re at a
with quantity the next time you’re at a
with quantity the next time you’re at a football game or hiking or even at lunch
football game or hiking or even at lunch
football game or hiking or even at lunch I challenge you to put away your camera
I challenge you to put away your camera
I challenge you to put away your camera and to really live in the moment and I
and to really live in the moment and I
and to really live in the moment and I ask you to be slow and to be deliberate
ask you to be slow and to be deliberate
ask you to be slow and to be deliberate when the moments just right because we
when the moments just right because we
when the moments just right because we too often take pictures and forget and
too often take pictures and forget and
too often take pictures and forget and this time I want you to take pictures
this time I want you to take pictures
this time I want you to take pictures and remember I want to revisit that
and remember I want to revisit that
and remember I want to revisit that snapchat I took at the very beginning of
snapchat I took at the very beginning of
snapchat I took at the very beginning of this presentation remember how I said
this presentation remember how I said
this presentation remember how I said that I wanted to remember this moment
that I wanted to remember this moment
that I wanted to remember this moment well I have about 23 hours in 50 minutes
well I have about 23 hours in 50 minutes
well I have about 23 hours in 50 minutes to decide how I want to remember this
to decide how I want to remember this
to decide how I want to remember this without the picture the memories of
without the picture the memories of
without the picture the memories of today will soon disappear but with the
today will soon disappear but with the
today will soon disappear but with the picture I’ll remember exactly what dress
picture I’ll remember exactly what dress
picture I’ll remember exactly what dress I wore and how long it took for me to
I wore and how long it took for me to
I wore and how long it took for me to decide I’ll remember how many people
decide I’ll remember how many people
decide I’ll remember how many people came and heard me talk and all the faces
came and heard me talk and all the faces
came and heard me talk and all the faces of my friends and I’ll remember how soft
of my friends and I’ll remember how soft
of my friends and I’ll remember how soft and how bright this carpet actually was
and how bright this carpet actually was
and how bright this carpet actually was this one picture would allow me to
this one picture would allow me to
this one picture would allow me to relive this moment again and again thank
relive this moment again and again thank
relive this moment again and again thank you
you
you [Applause]
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