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[Music] different odd weird these are the names

different odd weird these are the names

different odd weird these are the names we give people who are not like us these

we give people who are not like us these

we give people who are not like us these are the names we give people we don’t

are the names we give people we don’t

are the names we give people we don’t want to be associated with

want to be associated with

want to be associated with coincidentally these are the names I’ve

coincidentally these are the names I’ve

coincidentally these are the names I’ve been called all my life I’m different

been called all my life I’m different

been called all my life I’m different I’m not gonna wear a tag why is it that

I’m not gonna wear a tag why is it that

I’m not gonna wear a tag why is it that people like to be outstanding must get

people like to be outstanding must get

people like to be outstanding must get an A however they refuse to stand out

an A however they refuse to stand out

an A however they refuse to stand out think about it yes as mallanna said

think about it yes as mallanna said

think about it yes as mallanna said education puts us into a box you’re in

education puts us into a box you’re in

education puts us into a box you’re in that box and it’s so difficult that this

that box and it’s so difficult that this

that box and it’s so difficult that this particular box is so hot

particular box is so hot

particular box is so hot that we even have to have extra classes

that we even have to have extra classes

that we even have to have extra classes to learn how to think out of the box yep

to learn how to think out of the box yep

to learn how to think out of the box yep critical thinking I know

but as proof just shared with us

but as proof just shared with us education is empowering you yes it gives

education is empowering you yes it gives

education is empowering you yes it gives you a system but you see it is not

you a system but you see it is not

you a system but you see it is not education

education

education that puts you into a box it is the

that puts you into a box it is the

that puts you into a box it is the system that puts you into the box and

system that puts you into the box and

system that puts you into the box and unfortunately many people like to follow

unfortunately many people like to follow

unfortunately many people like to follow the system remember you can be

the system remember you can be

the system remember you can be rebellious so you can go against the

rebellious so you can go against the

rebellious so you can go against the system

system

system it sounds like Empire Strikes Back

however people are afraid to do that

however people are afraid to do that why because you’d be called different

why because you’d be called different

why because you’d be called different different some time can be positive the

different some time can be positive the

different some time can be positive the worst name would be weird

worst name would be weird

worst name would be weird oh why is she doing that she’s so weird

oh why is she doing that she’s so weird

oh why is she doing that she’s so weird what’s that guy so quiet he’s so weird

what’s that guy so quiet he’s so weird

what’s that guy so quiet he’s so weird and what happens this weird name becomes

and what happens this weird name becomes

and what happens this weird name becomes a very negative group of people and

a very negative group of people and

a very negative group of people and weird people are deemed not friendly

weird people are deemed not friendly

weird people are deemed not friendly where people are usually alone where

where people are usually alone where

where people are usually alone where people will do things differently so in

people will do things differently so in

people will do things differently so in our society in any society in the world

our society in any society in the world

our society in any society in the world there’s this whole group of people who

there’s this whole group of people who

there’s this whole group of people who are weird and what do we do to them we

are weird and what do we do to them we

are weird and what do we do to them we shun them we push them aside we ignore

shun them we push them aside we ignore

shun them we push them aside we ignore them well still think about your friends

them well still think about your friends

them well still think about your friends in class those of you who have finished

in class those of you who have finished

in class those of you who have finished studying think about that classmate who

studying think about that classmate who

studying think about that classmate who always said alone nobody want to talk to

always said alone nobody want to talk to

always said alone nobody want to talk to them if we came to doing assignment

them if we came to doing assignment

them if we came to doing assignment nobody would choose them why why do we

nobody would choose them why why do we

nobody would choose them why why do we do this

do this

do this to people who are weird my first

to people who are weird my first

to people who are weird my first teaching job was quite number of years

teaching job was quite number of years

teaching job was quite number of years ago and I met this girl the name was

ago and I met this girl the name was

ago and I met this girl the name was Shaka my name is sha Vika

Shaka my name is sha Vika

Shaka my name is sha Vika she must be a very big grown-up woman

she must be a very big grown-up woman

she must be a very big grown-up woman now but I still remember what happened

now but I still remember what happened

now but I still remember what happened between me and her she was that girl

between me and her she was that girl

between me and her she was that girl that nobody wanted to be friends with

that nobody wanted to be friends with

that nobody wanted to be friends with she was always alone in the class nobody

she was always alone in the class nobody

she was always alone in the class nobody sat beside her because she was naughty

sat beside her because she was naughty

sat beside her because she was naughty and so she had that one table right in

and so she had that one table right in

and so she had that one table right in front near the teachers table nice

front near the teachers table nice

front near the teachers table nice Africa needed extra help so what I did

Africa needed extra help so what I did

Africa needed extra help so what I did was I decided to use my break time to be

was I decided to use my break time to be

was I decided to use my break time to be the time I can give her some extra help

the time I can give her some extra help

the time I can give her some extra help although I was only her English teacher

although I was only her English teacher

although I was only her English teacher I decided to help her with mathematics

I decided to help her with mathematics

I decided to help her with mathematics and personal homework as well the first

and personal homework as well the first

and personal homework as well the first day that chef Rika was supposed to come

day that chef Rika was supposed to come

day that chef Rika was supposed to come to me for tuition so called tuition

to me for tuition so called tuition

to me for tuition so called tuition during the break time she came and she

during the break time she came and she

during the break time she came and she stood in front of me she had something

stood in front of me she had something

stood in front of me she had something behind her hand I couldn’t see that then

behind her hand I couldn’t see that then

behind her hand I couldn’t see that then I asked her what’s that in your hand

I asked her what’s that in your hand

I asked her what’s that in your hand shaaka and she put a back hitch in front

shaaka and she put a back hitch in front

shaaka and she put a back hitch in front of me it was a package of burger and she

of me it was a package of burger and she

of me it was a package of burger and she said teacher I know you didn’t eat lunch

said teacher I know you didn’t eat lunch

said teacher I know you didn’t eat lunch I bought this for you

I bought this for you

I bought this for you that girl that nobody wanted to be

that girl that nobody wanted to be

that girl that nobody wanted to be friends with

friends with

friends with she was sensitive enough to know that

she was sensitive enough to know that

she was sensitive enough to know that the teacher is not having a break let

the teacher is not having a break let

the teacher is not having a break let the teacher maybe because she’s fat

the teacher maybe because she’s fat

the teacher maybe because she’s fat wanted to be it and bother sound like a

wanted to be it and bother sound like a

wanted to be it and bother sound like a good idea

good idea

good idea mm-hmm so who is actually the weirdo who

mm-hmm so who is actually the weirdo who

mm-hmm so who is actually the weirdo who is the weirdo in this room other than me

is the weirdo in this room other than me

is the weirdo in this room other than me of course

of course

of course think carefully remember we talked about

think carefully remember we talked about

think carefully remember we talked about the system the weirdo is not someone you

the system the weirdo is not someone you

the system the weirdo is not someone you don’t know every one of us have got a

don’t know every one of us have got a

don’t know every one of us have got a widow in sight we all have one

widow in sight we all have one

widow in sight we all have one eccentricity that you would do something

eccentricity that you would do something

eccentricity that you would do something differently that no one else would do my

differently that no one else would do my

differently that no one else would do my mom she likes to count whatever she buys

mom she likes to count whatever she buys

mom she likes to count whatever she buys from the market so if she buys a kilo of

from the market so if she buys a kilo of

from the market so if she buys a kilo of prawns and when I go back home and ask

prawns and when I go back home and ask

prawns and when I go back home and ask oh you bought how much did you buy and

oh you bought how much did you buy and

oh you bought how much did you buy and should say 49 because while cleaning up

should say 49 because while cleaning up

should say 49 because while cleaning up she counted them it’s not like my house

she counted them it’s not like my house

she counted them it’s not like my house we have got many people living it’s just

we have got many people living it’s just

we have got many people living it’s just me and her but she comes the prawns and

me and her but she comes the prawns and

me and her but she comes the prawns and the fish the tiny fish we all have

the fish the tiny fish we all have

the fish the tiny fish we all have eccentricities in us but we keep it

eccentricities in us but we keep it

eccentricities in us but we keep it inside we know why because the system

inside we know why because the system

inside we know why because the system say itself the system said if you are

say itself the system said if you are

say itself the system said if you are different you won’t have any friends

different you won’t have any friends

different you won’t have any friends system says that so what do we do we

system says that so what do we do we

system says that so what do we do we keep the weird one inside without

keep the weird one inside without

keep the weird one inside without wanting to shine it so this is what I

wanting to shine it so this is what I

wanting to shine it so this is what I want you to do let people know that you

want you to do let people know that you

want you to do let people know that you are different this other people who like

are different this other people who like

are different this other people who like to keep those weird people inside here

to keep those weird people inside here

to keep those weird people inside here your weirdness on the inside they call

your weirdness on the inside they call

your weirdness on the inside they call themself normal and they happen to have

themself normal and they happen to have

themself normal and they happen to have this thing caller weirdo meter

some of us our witness is overflowing

some of us our witness is overflowing you know right

you know right

you know right and from miles away you can recognize

and from miles away you can recognize

and from miles away you can recognize all flowing ones and these normal people

all flowing ones and these normal people

all flowing ones and these normal people they can know when you are weird

they can know when you are weird

they can know when you are weird so the weirdo meter will go to the left

so the weirdo meter will go to the left

so the weirdo meter will go to the left thing thing thing wait wait wait so they

thing thing thing wait wait wait so they

thing thing thing wait wait wait so they go okay I’m not gonna be friends with

go okay I’m not gonna be friends with

go okay I’m not gonna be friends with this one this one is weird and then the

this one this one is weird and then the

this one this one is weird and then the weird people also have the via Romita

weird people also have the via Romita

weird people also have the via Romita but just will go to the right when they

but just will go to the right when they

but just will go to the right when they see that we are gonna weird weird weird

see that we are gonna weird weird weird

see that we are gonna weird weird weird with ding-ding-ding I want to be friends

with ding-ding-ding I want to be friends

with ding-ding-ding I want to be friends with this one after the experience I had

with this one after the experience I had

with this one after the experience I had in the school which Africa I realized

in the school which Africa I realized

in the school which Africa I realized that you know what it’s okay to be weird

that you know what it’s okay to be weird

that you know what it’s okay to be weird why am i why am i hiding the weirdness

why am i why am i hiding the weirdness

why am i why am i hiding the weirdness on the inside so I decided to overflow

on the inside so I decided to overflow

on the inside so I decided to overflow with weirdness when I went into a Satine

with weirdness when I went into a Satine

with weirdness when I went into a Satine yes

yes

yes it was again a system but nothing wrong

it was again a system but nothing wrong

it was again a system but nothing wrong in you standing out so it was not

in you standing out so it was not

in you standing out so it was not unfamiliar that most of my lecturers

unfamiliar that most of my lecturers

unfamiliar that most of my lecturers knew my name

knew my name

knew my name everybody knew oh yeah so is gonna be in

everybody knew oh yeah so is gonna be in

everybody knew oh yeah so is gonna be in the class she is going to say something

the class she is going to say something

the class she is going to say something she is going to talk she is going to

she is going to talk she is going to

she is going to talk she is going to think something else and say something

think something else and say something

think something else and say something weird in the class and that could be

weird in the class and that could be

weird in the class and that could be another question for discussion and I

another question for discussion and I

another question for discussion and I became known as that from the weird one

became known as that from the weird one

became known as that from the weird one I became known as the student that

I became known as the student that

I became known as the student that teaches lifts teachers wanted me in the

teaches lifts teachers wanted me in the

teaches lifts teachers wanted me in the class because our Malaysian students

class because our Malaysian students

class because our Malaysian students attitude that don’t they don’t say

attitude that don’t they don’t say

attitude that don’t they don’t say anything at all everyone is quiet and I

anything at all everyone is quiet and I

anything at all everyone is quiet and I was that Hermione Granger in class I’ve

was that Hermione Granger in class I’ve

was that Hermione Granger in class I’ve got answers you know oh I’ve got

got answers you know oh I’ve got

got answers you know oh I’ve got questions I want to ask when I became a

questions I want to ask when I became a

questions I want to ask when I became a teacher I decided that I didn’t want to

teacher I decided that I didn’t want to

teacher I decided that I didn’t want to make people feel that way so whenever I

make people feel that way so whenever I

make people feel that way so whenever I came I tell my students that it’s okay

came I tell my students that it’s okay

came I tell my students that it’s okay to be weird I had this one individual in

to be weird I had this one individual in

to be weird I had this one individual in my life who told me

my life who told me

my life who told me yeah so why are you so revolutionary why

yeah so why are you so revolutionary why

yeah so why are you so revolutionary why can’t you be like other people I was 19

can’t you be like other people I was 19

can’t you be like other people I was 19 I was a student and this was a teacher

I was a student and this was a teacher

I was a student and this was a teacher and I looked at her and I said teacher

and I looked at her and I said teacher

and I looked at her and I said teacher that’s a great compliment thank you so

that’s a great compliment thank you so

that’s a great compliment thank you so much and I thought wow I’m revolutionary

much and I thought wow I’m revolutionary

much and I thought wow I’m revolutionary so you see different odd weird

so you see different odd weird

so you see different odd weird revolutionary sounds very positive I

revolutionary sounds very positive I

revolutionary sounds very positive I like that

like that

like that why don’t I stick to that name so I tell

why don’t I stick to that name so I tell

why don’t I stick to that name so I tell my students that it’s okay if you’re

my students that it’s okay if you’re

my students that it’s okay if you’re weird so one girl couple of years back

weird so one girl couple of years back

weird so one girl couple of years back came into my class and she introduced

came into my class and she introduced

came into my class and she introduced herself as oh I am weird I don’t really

herself as oh I am weird I don’t really

herself as oh I am weird I don’t really have many friends so this is me and she

have many friends so this is me and she

have many friends so this is me and she said a few months later she wore this

said a few months later she wore this

said a few months later she wore this t-shirt this was that you should weird

t-shirt this was that you should weird

t-shirt this was that you should weird is cool and I made her stand there and I

is cool and I made her stand there and I

is cool and I made her stand there and I took a photo of it and I realized that

took a photo of it and I realized that

took a photo of it and I realized that because I encouraged I’m hoping it’s

because I encouraged I’m hoping it’s

because I encouraged I’m hoping it’s because of me because I encouraged and

because of me because I encouraged and

because of me because I encouraged and now because I keep telling them it’s

now because I keep telling them it’s

now because I keep telling them it’s okay if you’re weird it’s okay if you’re

okay if you’re weird it’s okay if you’re

okay if you’re weird it’s okay if you’re a nerd I like you you’re a nerd it’s

a nerd I like you you’re a nerd it’s

a nerd I like you you’re a nerd it’s okay it’s cool to be a nerd it’s okay to

okay it’s cool to be a nerd it’s okay to

okay it’s cool to be a nerd it’s okay to be a geek it’s fine and this girl who on

be a geek it’s fine and this girl who on

be a geek it’s fine and this girl who on the first day of school said I’m weird I

the first day of school said I’m weird I

the first day of school said I’m weird I don’t really have many friends by a few

don’t really have many friends by a few

don’t really have many friends by a few months she had a group of other weirdos

months she had a group of other weirdos

months she had a group of other weirdos joining her and she had a group of

joining her and she had a group of

joining her and she had a group of weirdos so ladies and gentlemen imagine

weirdos so ladies and gentlemen imagine

weirdos so ladies and gentlemen imagine the impact we can make you don’t have to

the impact we can make you don’t have to

the impact we can make you don’t have to be an educator to do this can be anybody

be an educator to do this can be anybody

be an educator to do this can be anybody if you see someone who’s different

if you see someone who’s different

if you see someone who’s different instead of pushing them away I’m not

instead of pushing them away I’m not

instead of pushing them away I’m not asking you to join them if you don’t

asking you to join them if you don’t

asking you to join them if you don’t want to but don’t let them feel left out

want to but don’t let them feel left out

want to but don’t let them feel left out my school recently had

Malaka affair where they encourage

Malaka affair where they encourage people for mental health and we were

people for mental health and we were

people for mental health and we were given a whiteboard and we were asked to

given a whiteboard and we were asked to

given a whiteboard and we were asked to write messages on it I passed by the bar

write messages on it I passed by the bar

write messages on it I passed by the bar in the morning and I decided to write

in the morning and I decided to write

in the morning and I decided to write this message it’s okay to be weird and

this message it’s okay to be weird and

this message it’s okay to be weird and around noon when I walked to pass the

around noon when I walked to pass the

around noon when I walked to pass the place I saw this message there again I

place I saw this message there again I

place I saw this message there again I took photo in an Institute of about

took photo in an Institute of about

took photo in an Institute of about 2,000 students one of them acknowledged

2,000 students one of them acknowledged

2,000 students one of them acknowledged it that is okay to be weird I encouraged

it that is okay to be weird I encouraged

it that is okay to be weird I encouraged one person imagine if we do it in a big

one person imagine if we do it in a big

one person imagine if we do it in a big scale imagine if it was viral that is

scale imagine if it was viral that is

scale imagine if it was viral that is okay to be weird you’re not shunned away

okay to be weird you’re not shunned away

okay to be weird you’re not shunned away you are embraced so maybe all these

you are embraced so maybe all these

you are embraced so maybe all these people who we normally think of as

people who we normally think of as

people who we normally think of as different or weird I’m not really that

different or weird I’m not really that

different or weird I’m not really that maybe they are special they’re

maybe they are special they’re

maybe they are special they’re extraordinary they’re limited edition if

extraordinary they’re limited edition if

extraordinary they’re limited edition if you ask me who is the hero of tomorrow

you ask me who is the hero of tomorrow

you ask me who is the hero of tomorrow it is you every one of you weirdos here

it is you every one of you weirdos here

it is you every one of you weirdos here you are the hero let your witness shine

you are the hero let your witness shine

you are the hero let your witness shine thank you

thank you

thank you [Applause]

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