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overcrowded boats Smuggler’s washed up

overcrowded boats Smuggler’s washed up lifejackets drownings huge metal fences

lifejackets drownings huge metal fences

lifejackets drownings huge metal fences borders a desperate search for safety I

borders a desperate search for safety I

borders a desperate search for safety I doubt there’s a single person in this

doubt there’s a single person in this

doubt there’s a single person in this room that doesn’t know what I’m talking

room that doesn’t know what I’m talking

room that doesn’t know what I’m talking about when I say these words with 65

about when I say these words with 65

about when I say these words with 65 million people displaced globally going

million people displaced globally going

million people displaced globally going to ever greater lengths to leave behind

to ever greater lengths to leave behind

to ever greater lengths to leave behind war and persecution in their home

war and persecution in their home

war and persecution in their home country

country

country it is impossible for any of us to ignore

it is impossible for any of us to ignore

it is impossible for any of us to ignore what is taking place news reports photos

what is taking place news reports photos

what is taking place news reports photos and stories reach us daily documenting

and stories reach us daily documenting

and stories reach us daily documenting the terrifying journeys that people are

the terrifying journeys that people are

the terrifying journeys that people are taking yet no matter how many times we

taking yet no matter how many times we

taking yet no matter how many times we see a photo of a body washed up on the

see a photo of a body washed up on the

see a photo of a body washed up on the shore or hear of a person dying as they

shore or hear of a person dying as they

shore or hear of a person dying as they fall from the underside of a lorry it is

fall from the underside of a lorry it is

fall from the underside of a lorry it is never enough to convey the sheer horror

never enough to convey the sheer horror

never enough to convey the sheer horror of what is taking place

of what is taking place

of what is taking place disbelieving authorities confusion

disbelieving authorities confusion

disbelieving authorities confusion indefinite detention isolation long-term

indefinite detention isolation long-term

indefinite detention isolation long-term unemployment destitution I wonder how

unemployment destitution I wonder how

unemployment destitution I wonder how many people in the room know what I’m

many people in the room know what I’m

many people in the room know what I’m talking about when I say these words

talking about when I say these words

talking about when I say these words however this is the part of the story

however this is the part of the story

however this is the part of the story that is told far less often the reality

that is told far less often the reality

that is told far less often the reality that people face when they arrived to

that people face when they arrived to

that people face when they arrived to the UK to seek asylum although many

the UK to seek asylum although many

the UK to seek asylum although many people do not know it refugees often

people do not know it refugees often

people do not know it refugees often face years more suffering at the hands

face years more suffering at the hands

face years more suffering at the hands of our own Asylum process their journey

of our own Asylum process their journey

of our own Asylum process their journey is not over just because their feet are

is not over just because their feet are

is not over just because their feet are finally on British soil

finally on British soil

finally on British soil Eve left Eritrea six years ago no longer

Eve left Eritrea six years ago no longer

Eve left Eritrea six years ago no longer able to cope with the physical and

able to cope with the physical and

able to cope with the physical and emotional abuse at the hands of her

emotional abuse at the hands of her

emotional abuse at the hands of her husband’s and other perpetrators in her

husband’s and other perpetrators in her

husband’s and other perpetrators in her country she decided to flee without

country she decided to flee without

country she decided to flee without getting access to her own identity

getting access to her own identity

getting access to her own identity papers because her husband had hidden

papers because her husband had hidden

papers because her husband had hidden them Eve had to leave with

them Eve had to leave with

them Eve had to leave with out then she got hold of any money that

out then she got hold of any money that

out then she got hold of any money that she could and contacted a smuggler to

she could and contacted a smuggler to

she could and contacted a smuggler to help her get out smugglers or agents as

help her get out smugglers or agents as

help her get out smugglers or agents as they are known often do not tell people

they are known often do not tell people

they are known often do not tell people that are fleeing their home country

that are fleeing their home country

that are fleeing their home country where they will end up in Eve’s case she

where they will end up in Eve’s case she

where they will end up in Eve’s case she only knew that she was coming to the UK

only knew that she was coming to the UK

only knew that she was coming to the UK when she came close to British shores

when she came close to British shores

when she came close to British shores when she arrived she went straight to

when she arrived she went straight to

when she arrived she went straight to the asylum screening unit in Croydon

the asylum screening unit in Croydon

the asylum screening unit in Croydon which is where the majority of asylum

which is where the majority of asylum

which is where the majority of asylum claims are processed in the UK she

claims are processed in the UK she

claims are processed in the UK she explained to the man behind the glass

explained to the man behind the glass

explained to the man behind the glass screen that she was fleeing Eritrea for

screen that she was fleeing Eritrea for

screen that she was fleeing Eritrea for fear of her life and for fear of her

fear of her life and for fear of her

fear of her life and for fear of her husband’s but she was told that he

husband’s but she was told that he

husband’s but she was told that he didn’t believe her and she was made to

didn’t believe her and she was made to

didn’t believe her and she was made to leave this was the first of many times

leave this was the first of many times

leave this was the first of many times that Eve was made to feel like she was

that Eve was made to feel like she was

that Eve was made to feel like she was lying with no money and no friends in

lying with no money and no friends in

lying with no money and no friends in London she was forced to walk the

London she was forced to walk the

London she was forced to walk the streets and shelter in bus stops all

streets and shelter in bus stops all

streets and shelter in bus stops all nights until she could return to the

nights until she could return to the

nights until she could return to the centre the next morning she was called

centre the next morning she was called

centre the next morning she was called and she was scared and she was confused

and she was scared and she was confused

and she was scared and she was confused the next morning a member of staff

the next morning a member of staff

the next morning a member of staff arrived to find her waiting outside at

arrived to find her waiting outside at

arrived to find her waiting outside at 5:00 a.m. and let her in this time

5:00 a.m. and let her in this time

5:00 a.m. and let her in this time allowing her to process her claim

allowing her to process her claim

allowing her to process her claim shortly after doing so Eve was told that

shortly after doing so Eve was told that

shortly after doing so Eve was told that she was going to be detained detention

she was going to be detained detention

she was going to be detained detention takes place when the UK Border Agency

takes place when the UK Border Agency

takes place when the UK Border Agency decide that there is a straightforward

decide that there is a straightforward

decide that there is a straightforward case for somebody to be refused asylum

case for somebody to be refused asylum

case for somebody to be refused asylum detention centres are like prisons

detention centres are like prisons

detention centres are like prisons without a release date and without a

without a release date and without a

without a release date and without a sentence many people like Eve whose only

sentence many people like Eve whose only

sentence many people like Eve whose only crime is to seek asylum can be detained

crime is to seek asylum can be detained

crime is to seek asylum can be detained indefinitely the UK is the only country

indefinitely the UK is the only country

indefinitely the UK is the only country in Europe that can detain asylum seekers

in Europe that can detain asylum seekers

in Europe that can detain asylum seekers for an indefinite period of time

for an indefinite period of time

for an indefinite period of time Eve was taken to y’alls woods where she

Eve was taken to y’alls woods where she

Eve was taken to y’alls woods where she was put in a cell with a woman and who

was put in a cell with a woman and who

was put in a cell with a woman and who didn’t share her language

didn’t share her language

didn’t share her language and she was told to wait she wasn’t told

and she was told to wait she wasn’t told

and she was told to wait she wasn’t told how long she’d be waiting for or what

how long she’d be waiting for or what

how long she’d be waiting for or what was going to happen to her next she was

was going to happen to her next she was

was going to happen to her next she was served food that wasn’t properly cooked

served food that wasn’t properly cooked

served food that wasn’t properly cooked so she became unwell and she didn’t feel

so she became unwell and she didn’t feel

so she became unwell and she didn’t feel comfortable asking the guards most of

comfortable asking the guards most of

comfortable asking the guards most of whom were male for sanitary ware so she

whom were male for sanitary ware so she

whom were male for sanitary ware so she went with

went with

went with out after a couple of weeks Eve was

out after a couple of weeks Eve was

out after a couple of weeks Eve was finally given her substantive interview

finally given her substantive interview

finally given her substantive interview for asylum her final chance to convince

for asylum her final chance to convince

for asylum her final chance to convince the Home Office that her life would be

the Home Office that her life would be

the Home Office that her life would be in danger if she returned to Eritrea a

in danger if she returned to Eritrea a

in danger if she returned to Eritrea a couple of days later she received her

couple of days later she received her

couple of days later she received her decision Eve like three-quarters of

decision Eve like three-quarters of

decision Eve like three-quarters of women who applied for asylum that year

women who applied for asylum that year

women who applied for asylum that year had been refused

had been refused

had been refused yet again her story had been discredited

yet again her story had been discredited

yet again her story had been discredited at this point many people who were

at this point many people who were

at this point many people who were refused to Salem I returned to their

refused to Salem I returned to their

refused to Salem I returned to their home country this would have been Eve’s

home country this would have been Eve’s

home country this would have been Eve’s fate too if she didn’t have the ability

fate too if she didn’t have the ability

fate too if she didn’t have the ability to use email and fax we’ll have a good

to use email and fax we’ll have a good

to use email and fax we’ll have a good level of English that many asylum

level of English that many asylum

level of English that many asylum seekers don’t have when they first

seekers don’t have when they first

seekers don’t have when they first arrived into the UK she managed to

arrived into the UK she managed to

arrived into the UK she managed to contact a lawyer and a friend in Eritrea

contact a lawyer and a friend in Eritrea

contact a lawyer and a friend in Eritrea who was able to get hold of some of her

who was able to get hold of some of her

who was able to get hold of some of her documents and send them to her and this

documents and send them to her and this

documents and send them to her and this helped her to prove the elements of her

helped her to prove the elements of her

helped her to prove the elements of her case were in fact true after months more

case were in fact true after months more

case were in fact true after months more turmoil fighting her claim from inside

turmoil fighting her claim from inside

turmoil fighting her claim from inside Yas word eve was finally granted refugee

Yas word eve was finally granted refugee

Yas word eve was finally granted refugee status and the Home Office retracted

status and the Home Office retracted

status and the Home Office retracted their original decision as horrendous as

their original decision as horrendous as

their original decision as horrendous as Eve story is Eve was in fact one of the

Eve story is Eve was in fact one of the

Eve story is Eve was in fact one of the lucky ones most people that are refused

lucky ones most people that are refused

lucky ones most people that are refused asylum are either deported straight away

asylum are either deported straight away

asylum are either deported straight away or spend years fighting with the courts

or spend years fighting with the courts

or spend years fighting with the courts to get their decision overturned this is

to get their decision overturned this is

to get their decision overturned this is the case for many of the women that

the case for many of the women that

the case for many of the women that Bread and Roses work with during this

Bread and Roses work with during this

Bread and Roses work with during this time that they are waiting for their

time that they are waiting for their

time that they are waiting for their refugee status they do not have the

refugee status they do not have the

refugee status they do not have the right to work and live off less than

right to work and live off less than

right to work and live off less than five pounds a day as a result of this

five pounds a day as a result of this

five pounds a day as a result of this many women and men are at risk of

many women and men are at risk of

many women and men are at risk of exploitation and destitution most of the

exploitation and destitution most of the

exploitation and destitution most of the women that we have met have been waiting

women that we have met have been waiting

women that we have met have been waiting for over ten years before they get a

for over ten years before they get a

for over ten years before they get a final decision on their refugee status

final decision on their refugee status

final decision on their refugee status throughout this process they are

throughout this process they are

throughout this process they are subjected to much of the hostility the

subjected to much of the hostility the

subjected to much of the hostility the suspicion and the disbelief that Eve

suspicion and the disbelief that Eve

suspicion and the disbelief that Eve story gives just a glimpse of if you

story gives just a glimpse of if you

story gives just a glimpse of if you feel a bit overwhelmed listening to

feel a bit overwhelmed listening to

feel a bit overwhelmed listening to these stories then we know

these stories then we know

these stories then we know how you feel it’s sad and it’s

how you feel it’s sad and it’s

how you feel it’s sad and it’s frustrating and it’s hard to get your

frustrating and it’s hard to get your

frustrating and it’s hard to get your head around it so much of the shitty

head around it so much of the shitty

head around it so much of the shitty stuff that happens to these women when

stuff that happens to these women when

stuff that happens to these women when they come to the UK feels out of our

they come to the UK feels out of our

they come to the UK feels out of our control

control

control we’re not border agency staff or senior

we’re not border agency staff or senior

we’re not border agency staff or senior civil servants in the Home Office

civil servants in the Home Office

civil servants in the Home Office listening to Eve story makes us feel an

listening to Eve story makes us feel an

listening to Eve story makes us feel an exaggerated sense of what most of us

exaggerated sense of what most of us

exaggerated sense of what most of us already feel on a daily basis which is

already feel on a daily basis which is

already feel on a daily basis which is in the grand scheme of things we’re

in the grand scheme of things we’re

in the grand scheme of things we’re pretty powerless my feeling powerless

pretty powerless my feeling powerless

pretty powerless my feeling powerless doesn’t feel like a good enough excuse

doesn’t feel like a good enough excuse

doesn’t feel like a good enough excuse to not do anything we don’t know how to

to not do anything we don’t know how to

to not do anything we don’t know how to fix any of the big complex systemic

fix any of the big complex systemic

fix any of the big complex systemic stuff but we do know how these women’s

stuff but we do know how these women’s

stuff but we do know how these women’s experiences have made them feel the

experiences have made them feel the

experiences have made them feel the abuse that they have suffered at the

abuse that they have suffered at the

abuse that they have suffered at the hands of the perpetrators in their home

hands of the perpetrators in their home

hands of the perpetrators in their home country has made them feel illegitimate

country has made them feel illegitimate

country has made them feel illegitimate the treatment by the UK authorities when

the treatment by the UK authorities when

the treatment by the UK authorities when they come to our country has made them

they come to our country has made them

they come to our country has made them feel illegitimate and living in

feel illegitimate and living in

feel illegitimate and living in destitution without the power to change

destitution without the power to change

destitution without the power to change their fate has made them feel

their fate has made them feel

their fate has made them feel illegitimate whilst will never be able

illegitimate whilst will never be able

illegitimate whilst will never be able to understand the experiences that the

to understand the experiences that the

to understand the experiences that the use of women have been through I think

use of women have been through I think

use of women have been through I think to some extent we can identify with that

to some extent we can identify with that

to some extent we can identify with that feeling of a legitimacy to a much lesser

feeling of a legitimacy to a much lesser

feeling of a legitimacy to a much lesser degree when you receive a promotion at

degree when you receive a promotion at

degree when you receive a promotion at work or you start a new job or you’re

work or you start a new job or you’re

work or you start a new job or you’re asked to stand on stage and deliver a

asked to stand on stage and deliver a

asked to stand on stage and deliver a talk we’ve all at some point or another

talk we’ve all at some point or another

talk we’ve all at some point or another felt like we’re not good enough to be

felt like we’re not good enough to be

felt like we’re not good enough to be where we are and when we suffer these

where we are and when we suffer these

where we are and when we suffer these crises of confidence and our self-esteem

crises of confidence and our self-esteem

crises of confidence and our self-esteem is running really low the thing that

is running really low the thing that

is running really low the thing that often makes the difference is knowing

often makes the difference is knowing

often makes the difference is knowing that someone believes in us Bread and

that someone believes in us Bread and

that someone believes in us Bread and Roses were set up with this at the

Roses were set up with this at the

Roses were set up with this at the forefront of our mind knowing as we did

forefront of our mind knowing as we did

forefront of our mind knowing as we did the women have come to feel worthless we

the women have come to feel worthless we

the women have come to feel worthless we wanted to do something even if it was

wanted to do something even if it was

wanted to do something even if it was something small to try and restore that

something small to try and restore that

something small to try and restore that sense of self-worth

sense of self-worth

sense of self-worth we knew the phrase the worker must have

we knew the phrase the worker must have

we knew the phrase the worker must have bread but she must have roses too

bread but she must have roses too

bread but she must have roses too and this really resonated with us the

and this really resonated with us the

and this really resonated with us the idea that women with very little deserve

idea that women with very little deserve

idea that women with very little deserve not only the basics but also the

not only the basics but also the

not only the basics but also the opportunity to have bled pleasure and

opportunity to have bled pleasure and

opportunity to have bled pleasure and beauty felt very relevant to the women

beauty felt very relevant to the women

beauty felt very relevant to the women that we’ve met

that we’ve met

that we’ve met we’ve seen the basic services available

we’ve seen the basic services available

we’ve seen the basic services available they were functional but there was no

they were functional but there was no

they were functional but there was no beauty so we drew inspiration from our

beauty so we drew inspiration from our

beauty so we drew inspiration from our name and decided to invite some of these

name and decided to invite some of these

name and decided to invite some of these women to a floristry workshop when they

women to a floristry workshop when they

women to a floristry workshop when they arrived there was almost a sense of

arrived there was almost a sense of

arrived there was almost a sense of suspicion amongst some of the women It

suspicion amongst some of the women It

suspicion amongst some of the women It was as though they couldn’t believe that

was as though they couldn’t believe that

was as though they couldn’t believe that the reason the room was filled with

the reason the room was filled with

the reason the room was filled with beautiful flowers was simply for them as

beautiful flowers was simply for them as

beautiful flowers was simply for them as we started sniffing stems and chatting

we started sniffing stems and chatting

we started sniffing stems and chatting over cups of tea everyone started to

over cups of tea everyone started to

over cups of tea everyone started to relax and to enjoy what we were doing

relax and to enjoy what we were doing

relax and to enjoy what we were doing and since then we’ve run many many

and since then we’ve run many many

and since then we’ve run many many florists workshops with many women

florists workshops with many women

florists workshops with many women around London and what we’ve seen is

around London and what we’ve seen is

around London and what we’ve seen is this if you invite a woman into a group

this if you invite a woman into a group

this if you invite a woman into a group and give her the opportunity to create

and give her the opportunity to create

and give her the opportunity to create something of her own something beautiful

something of her own something beautiful

something of her own something beautiful then you can in some small way help her

then you can in some small way help her

then you can in some small way help her to start restoring a bit of that

to start restoring a bit of that

to start restoring a bit of that self-worth you could be forgiven for

self-worth you could be forgiven for

self-worth you could be forgiven for everything that we’ve said that the

everything that we’ve said that the

everything that we’ve said that the women we work with are defeated but that

women we work with are defeated but that

women we work with are defeated but that couldn’t be further from the truth

couldn’t be further from the truth

couldn’t be further from the truth despite being discredited and degraded

despite being discredited and degraded

despite being discredited and degraded for so long the women that we’ve come to

for so long the women that we’ve come to

for so long the women that we’ve come to know are strong and they’re resilient

know are strong and they’re resilient

know are strong and they’re resilient like Jane he’s been coming to our

like Jane he’s been coming to our

like Jane he’s been coming to our workshops for a number of weeks and is

workshops for a number of weeks and is

workshops for a number of weeks and is full of love and laughter and it’s easy

full of love and laughter and it’s easy

full of love and laughter and it’s easy to forget that she’s been waiting in the

to forget that she’s been waiting in the

to forget that she’s been waiting in the UK for eight years and still hasn’t got

UK for eight years and still hasn’t got

UK for eight years and still hasn’t got her refugee status when we first met her

her refugee status when we first met her

her refugee status when we first met her we didn’t realize that would appear to

we didn’t realize that would appear to

we didn’t realize that would appear to be an insatiable appetite for biscuits

be an insatiable appetite for biscuits

be an insatiable appetite for biscuits was in fact a result of being dependent

was in fact a result of being dependent

was in fact a result of being dependent on food banks the very act of carrying

on food banks the very act of carrying

on food banks the very act of carrying on when the system is so stacked against

on when the system is so stacked against

on when the system is so stacked against them is itself an act of defiance we now

them is itself an act of defiance we now

them is itself an act of defiance we now run programs in partnership with refugee

run programs in partnership with refugee

run programs in partnership with refugee organizations around London beyond the

organizations around London beyond the

organizations around London beyond the simple act of offering something

simple act of offering something

simple act of offering something beautiful

beautiful

beautiful our floristry workshops serve for women

our floristry workshops serve for women

our floristry workshops serve for women to build the foundations of self

to build the foundations of self

to build the foundations of self confidence and self-belief which are

confidence and self-belief which are

confidence and self-belief which are necessary if they’re to start thinking

necessary if they’re to start thinking

necessary if they’re to start thinking about integrating

about integrating

about integrating into their communities or applying for

into their communities or applying for

into their communities or applying for work for those women who do have the

work for those women who do have the

work for those women who do have the right to work we supplement our

right to work we supplement our

right to work we supplement our floristry workshops with an employee an

floristry workshops with an employee an

floristry workshops with an employee an employability program and we have been

employability program and we have been

employability program and we have been so inspired by the women who’ve passed

so inspired by the women who’ve passed

so inspired by the women who’ve passed through our program and are now in paid

through our program and are now in paid

through our program and are now in paid or voluntary employment what we do isn’t

or voluntary employment what we do isn’t

or voluntary employment what we do isn’t groundbreaking and it isn’t

groundbreaking and it isn’t

groundbreaking and it isn’t revolutionary but it has taught us that

revolutionary but it has taught us that

revolutionary but it has taught us that we don’t need to feel powerless in the

we don’t need to feel powerless in the

we don’t need to feel powerless in the face of systemic injustice challenging

face of systemic injustice challenging

face of systemic injustice challenging what we don’t believe in and standing up

what we don’t believe in and standing up

what we don’t believe in and standing up for what we do doesn’t need a

for what we do doesn’t need a

for what we do doesn’t need a fully-formed plan it can begin with

fully-formed plan it can begin with

fully-formed plan it can begin with simple gestures of humanity simple

simple gestures of humanity simple

simple gestures of humanity simple gestures of solidarity and that is

gestures of solidarity and that is

gestures of solidarity and that is something that we are all capable of

something that we are all capable of

something that we are all capable of thank you

thank you

thank you [Applause]

[Applause]

[Applause] you

you

you [Music]

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