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Uncertainty is the only certainty | Mark Goh | TEDxYouth@Toronto


so who here has a career plan hands up

so who here has a career plan hands up master plan any sort of plan okay a lot

master plan any sort of plan okay a lot

master plan any sort of plan okay a lot of you that’s pretty good and now I’m

of you that’s pretty good and now I’m

of you that’s pretty good and now I’m gonna tell you why that probably won’t

gonna tell you why that probably won’t

gonna tell you why that probably won’t matter

matter

matter so today I’m talking about career path

so today I’m talking about career path

so today I’m talking about career path uncertainty how to deal with it and why

uncertainty how to deal with it and why

uncertainty how to deal with it and why it’s not necessarily a bad thing

it’s not necessarily a bad thing

it’s not necessarily a bad thing When I was your age and in high school I

When I was your age and in high school I

When I was your age and in high school I had the whole plan I knew every step I

had the whole plan I knew every step I

had the whole plan I knew every step I had actually written down my entire life

had actually written down my entire life

had actually written down my entire life story for ten years and this is what I

story for ten years and this is what I

story for ten years and this is what I thought it would look like I would

thought it would look like I would

thought it would look like I would graduate from school with a business

graduate from school with a business

graduate from school with a business degree get a job in finance and slowly

degree get a job in finance and slowly

degree get a job in finance and slowly work my way up until I was going to be

work my way up until I was going to be

work my way up until I was going to be the head of a large investment fund nice

the head of a large investment fund nice

the head of a large investment fund nice clean sequential steps the entire way

clean sequential steps the entire way

clean sequential steps the entire way but as you may have guessed from the

but as you may have guessed from the

but as you may have guessed from the title of my talk that’s not exactly how

title of my talk that’s not exactly how

title of my talk that’s not exactly how it turned out

it turned out

it turned out this is what my career path actually

this is what my career path actually

this is what my career path actually looked like I did graduate with a

looked like I did graduate with a

looked like I did graduate with a business degree I got an incredible job

business degree I got an incredible job

business degree I got an incredible job at a school but wasn’t quite enough so I

at a school but wasn’t quite enough so I

at a school but wasn’t quite enough so I moved to London helped my firm build an

moved to London helped my firm build an

moved to London helped my firm build an office there but then jump to an even

office there but then jump to an even

office there but then jump to an even more prestigious investment fund with

more prestigious investment fund with

more prestigious investment fund with even bigger ambitions and even with the

even bigger ambitions and even with the

even bigger ambitions and even with the dream job I had that wasn’t quite what I

dream job I had that wasn’t quite what I

dream job I had that wasn’t quite what I wanted so out of whim I quit my job I

wanted so out of whim I quit my job I

wanted so out of whim I quit my job I traveled the world and I came back to

traveled the world and I came back to

traveled the world and I came back to Toronto I started a company charge spot

Toronto I started a company charge spot

Toronto I started a company charge spot I was of starving entrepreneur living on

I was of starving entrepreneur living on

I was of starving entrepreneur living on ramen you guys will soon know the

ramen you guys will soon know the

ramen you guys will soon know the feeling

feeling

feeling we raise money we grew really fast

we raise money we grew really fast

we raise money we grew really fast we failed we struggled we recovered we

we failed we struggled we recovered we

we failed we struggled we recovered we grew again and Here I am standing right

grew again and Here I am standing right

grew again and Here I am standing right here in front of you guys today

here in front of you guys today

here in front of you guys today and you guys are all probably thinking

and you guys are all probably thinking

and you guys are all probably thinking man that’s really messed up it is a

man that’s really messed up it is a

man that’s really messed up it is a super disjointed career path but what I

super disjointed career path but what I

super disjointed career path but what I want to share with you is that it’s

want to share with you is that it’s

want to share with you is that it’s actually quite normal everybody has a

actually quite normal everybody has a

actually quite normal everybody has a plan every successful person has a

plan every successful person has a

plan every successful person has a vision of how things are supposed to

vision of how things are supposed to

vision of how things are supposed to turn out but they also face uncertainty

turn out but they also face uncertainty

turn out but they also face uncertainty missteps unexpected events the whole way

missteps unexpected events the whole way

missteps unexpected events the whole way in fact the only constant throughout any

in fact the only constant throughout any

in fact the only constant throughout any number of career paths will be you

number of career paths will be you

number of career paths will be you guessed it uncertainty and so when I

guessed it uncertainty and so when I

guessed it uncertainty and so when I graduated from university got my first

graduated from university got my first

graduated from university got my first job my peers would sit around the

job my peers would sit around the

job my peers would sit around the lunchroom table and we would all

lunchroom table and we would all

lunchroom table and we would all strategize on how we would achieve our

strategize on how we would achieve our

strategize on how we would achieve our goal of becoming a partner at a really

goal of becoming a partner at a really

goal of becoming a partner at a really large investment fund and do you know

large investment fund and do you know

large investment fund and do you know what they’re doing today the first one

what they’re doing today the first one

what they’re doing today the first one is a partner at a large investment fund

is a partner at a large investment fund

is a partner at a large investment fund he actually made it the next one is a

he actually made it the next one is a

he actually made it the next one is a CEO of a chicken transportation company

CEO of a chicken transportation company

CEO of a chicken transportation company the next one runs a Chocolate Factory in

the next one runs a Chocolate Factory in

the next one runs a Chocolate Factory in California and one buys and sells

California and one buys and sells

California and one buys and sells software companies out of Florida none

software companies out of Florida none

software companies out of Florida none of these none of my friends would have

of these none of my friends would have

of these none of my friends would have guessed that this is where they ended up

guessed that this is where they ended up

guessed that this is where they ended up but each one of them is really

but each one of them is really

but each one of them is really successful and very happy in their own

successful and very happy in their own

successful and very happy in their own right career path uncertainty permeates

right career path uncertainty permeates

right career path uncertainty permeates all sectors roles walks you cannot avoid

all sectors roles walks you cannot avoid

all sectors roles walks you cannot avoid it so if everybody faces it why am I

it so if everybody faces it why am I

it so if everybody faces it why am I here talking about it to you guys today

here talking about it to you guys today

here talking about it to you guys today well it’s because startups are a case

well it’s because startups are a case

well it’s because startups are a case study in uncertainty and let me

study in uncertainty and let me

study in uncertainty and let me illustrate this for you this graph shows

illustrate this for you this graph shows

illustrate this for you this graph shows that nearly 90% of 22,000 startups faced

that nearly 90% of 22,000 startups faced

that nearly 90% of 22,000 startups faced uncertainty hurdles and failures along

uncertainty hurdles and failures along

uncertainty hurdles and failures along the way 90%

the way 90%

the way 90% and remember behind each and every one

and remember behind each and every one

and remember behind each and every one of these statistics is a person not so

of these statistics is a person not so

of these statistics is a person not so indifferent for myself they’re smart

indifferent for myself they’re smart

indifferent for myself they’re smart ambitious and they had a plan a plan so

ambitious and they had a plan a plan so

ambitious and they had a plan a plan so compelling they were given millions of

compelling they were given millions of

compelling they were given millions of dollars to execute on it but yet 90% of

dollars to execute on it but yet 90% of

dollars to execute on it but yet 90% of them didn’t go to plan I was actually

them didn’t go to plan I was actually

them didn’t go to plan I was actually told by my CEO coach just about about a

told by my CEO coach just about about a

told by my CEO coach just about about a month ago dealing with uncertainty is my

month ago dealing with uncertainty is my

month ago dealing with uncertainty is my job as a start-up founder and so good

job as a start-up founder and so good

job as a start-up founder and so good thing uncertainty is a constant because

thing uncertainty is a constant because

thing uncertainty is a constant because now I will always have a job so let’s

now I will always have a job so let’s

now I will always have a job so let’s talk really quickly about some of the

talk really quickly about some of the

talk really quickly about some of the causes of this uncertainty the first one

causes of this uncertainty the first one

causes of this uncertainty the first one is external factors some of them could

is external factors some of them could

is external factors some of them could be as simple as one company buying

be as simple as one company buying

be as simple as one company buying another company your role being made

another company your role being made

another company your role being made redundant and all of a sudden you’re out

redundant and all of a sudden you’re out

redundant and all of a sudden you’re out of a job maybe it’s a new job maybe it’s

of a job maybe it’s a new job maybe it’s

of a job maybe it’s a new job maybe it’s a different career but you’re not on the

a different career but you’re not on the

a different career but you’re not on the same path it could be as severe as war

same path it could be as severe as war

same path it could be as severe as war war change is not just careers guys

war change is not just careers guys

war change is not just careers guys divorce changes lives people’s countries

divorce changes lives people’s countries

divorce changes lives people’s countries right completely out of your control

right completely out of your control

right completely out of your control so let’s illustrate this with the last

so let’s illustrate this with the last

so let’s illustrate this with the last one how many of you guys in the audience

one how many of you guys in the audience

one how many of you guys in the audience remember the recession of 2008 hands up

remember the recession of 2008 hands up

remember the recession of 2008 hands up Wow that was way more than I expected

Wow that was way more than I expected

Wow that was way more than I expected that was at the start of my career so I

that was at the start of my career so I

that was at the start of my career so I probably seem like a dinosaur to you

probably seem like a dinosaur to you

probably seem like a dinosaur to you guys but I saw my peers rising stars

guys but I saw my peers rising stars

guys but I saw my peers rising stars people with 4.0 GPA s the first picks

people with 4.0 GPA s the first picks

people with 4.0 GPA s the first picks when people were hiring lose their jobs

when people were hiring lose their jobs

when people were hiring lose their jobs overnight like this why because a few

overnight like this why because a few

overnight like this why because a few bankers were too reckless with their

bankers were too reckless with their

bankers were too reckless with their money at the time in fact during the

money at the time in fact during the

money at the time in fact during the recession nearly 1 in 8 people lost

recession nearly 1 in 8 people lost

recession nearly 1 in 8 people lost their jobs the average Joe had no role

their jobs the average Joe had no role

their jobs the average Joe had no role to play in this except getting screwed

to play in this except getting screwed

to play in this except getting screwed and it was completely out of their

and it was completely out of their

and it was completely out of their control so ok kind of dire but don’t

control so ok kind of dire but don’t

control so ok kind of dire but don’t worry you’ll get better

worry you’ll get better

worry you’ll get better next internal factors your values how

next internal factors your values how

next internal factors your values how you perceive the world will change over

you perceive the world will change over

you perceive the world will change over your life and that is going to redefine

your life and that is going to redefine

your life and that is going to redefine your definition of success and if you

your definition of success and if you

your definition of success and if you have a new goal a new definition of

have a new goal a new definition of

have a new goal a new definition of success your career path is going to

success your career path is going to

success your career path is going to change so you can achieve it it’s really

change so you can achieve it it’s really

change so you can achieve it it’s really simple and over the next four years as

simple and over the next four years as

simple and over the next four years as you guys go to university you will set

you guys go to university you will set

you guys go to university you will set out on a very different path than the

out on a very different path than the

out on a very different path than the one you’re thinking about today the

one you’re thinking about today the

one you’re thinking about today the interactions you have will alter how you

interactions you have will alter how you

interactions you have will alter how you see the world let’s take a very simple

see the world let’s take a very simple

see the world let’s take a very simple example if you are in a classroom that

example if you are in a classroom that

example if you are in a classroom that prioritizes openness acceptance of

prioritizes openness acceptance of

prioritizes openness acceptance of different opinions those values will

different opinions those values will

different opinions those values will form and you will carry those forward on

form and you will carry those forward on

form and you will carry those forward on the other hand if you are in a class

the other hand if you are in a class

the other hand if you are in a class where the prof prioritizes undemanding

where the prof prioritizes undemanding

where the prof prioritizes undemanding respect authority you’re going to

respect authority you’re going to

respect authority you’re going to develop values of conformity and you’ll

develop values of conformity and you’ll

develop values of conformity and you’ll take that onwards you can’t change that

take that onwards you can’t change that

take that onwards you can’t change that to further illustrate this guy’s who

to further illustrate this guy’s who

to further illustrate this guy’s who here has an idea of what they want to be

here has an idea of what they want to be

here has an idea of what they want to be right when they get out of university

right when they get out of university

right when they get out of university hands up okay

hands up okay

hands up okay quite a lot of you this is how many of

quite a lot of you this is how many of

quite a lot of you this is how many of you will want to change your career path

you will want to change your career path

you will want to change your career path in just the first years that you’re out

in just the first years that you’re out

in just the first years that you’re out let alone if that is the path that you

let alone if that is the path that you

let alone if that is the path that you stick to over the next four for me I had

stick to over the next four for me I had

stick to over the next four for me I had the job I had dreamed about when I came

the job I had dreamed about when I came

the job I had dreamed about when I came out of school but experiences

out of school but experiences

out of school but experiences volunteering in Kenya meeting to now

volunteering in Kenya meeting to now

volunteering in Kenya meeting to now love of my life my wife helped me

love of my life my wife helped me

love of my life my wife helped me prioritize relationships community

prioritize relationships community

prioritize relationships community spending time with people that mattered

spending time with people that mattered

spending time with people that mattered spending time with entrepreneurs made me

spending time with entrepreneurs made me

spending time with entrepreneurs made me want to build something make a

want to build something make a

want to build something make a difference and all of a sudden

difference and all of a sudden

difference and all of a sudden everything that I had strived for worked

everything that I had strived for worked

everything that I had strived for worked 90 hours a week for didn’t matter now I

90 hours a week for didn’t matter now I

90 hours a week for didn’t matter now I want to build something create something

want to build something create something

want to build something create something and help people build their own careers

and help people build their own careers

and help people build their own careers okay so I basically told you that you

okay so I basically told you that you

okay so I basically told you that you can’t control what’s gonna happen in the

can’t control what’s gonna happen in the

can’t control what’s gonna happen in the world and you can’t control what you’re

world and you can’t control what you’re

world and you can’t control what you’re gonna change in the world it’s not all

gonna change in the world it’s not all

gonna change in the world it’s not all dire

dire

dire so what do you do up to this point I

so what do you do up to this point I

so what do you do up to this point I told you that uncertainty is the only

told you that uncertainty is the only

told you that uncertainty is the only constant in your career path but now I’m

constant in your career path but now I’m

constant in your career path but now I’m gonna give you guys the power to add one

gonna give you guys the power to add one

gonna give you guys the power to add one more constant into that and that is

more constant into that and that is

more constant into that and that is learning and growth so each one of these

learning and growth so each one of these

learning and growth so each one of these unexpected events the twists the

unexpected events the twists the

unexpected events the twists the setbacks that you guys are going to

setbacks that you guys are going to

setbacks that you guys are going to encounter provide an amazing opportunity

encounter provide an amazing opportunity

encounter provide an amazing opportunity to learn so you don’t make the same

to learn so you don’t make the same

to learn so you don’t make the same mistake again and you come out a better

mistake again and you come out a better

mistake again and you come out a better person on the back of it this type of

person on the back of it this type of

person on the back of it this type of mindset is called the growth mindset and

mindset is called the growth mindset and

mindset is called the growth mindset and it was pioneered by Professor Carol

it was pioneered by Professor Carol

it was pioneered by Professor Carol Dweck a Stanford University psychologist

Dweck a Stanford University psychologist

Dweck a Stanford University psychologist professor Dweck doesn’t see the world in

professor Dweck doesn’t see the world in

professor Dweck doesn’t see the world in terms of successes and failures she sees

terms of successes and failures she sees

terms of successes and failures she sees the world in terms of learners and non

the world in terms of learners and non

the world in terms of learners and non learners but it’s no coincidence that

learners but it’s no coincidence that

learners but it’s no coincidence that the learners are the successful ones in

the learners are the successful ones in

the learners are the successful ones in life and the fact that you guys are

life and the fact that you guys are

life and the fact that you guys are sitting right here today signals me that

sitting right here today signals me that

sitting right here today signals me that you’re probably learners and that is

you’re probably learners and that is

you’re probably learners and that is super important because if you got 1%

super important because if you got 1%

super important because if you got 1% better every day

better every day

better every day from now until the time you finished

from now until the time you finished

from now until the time you finished University in four years time you will

University in four years time you will

University in four years time you will literally be 2 million times better do

literally be 2 million times better do

literally be 2 million times better do the math it is not easy to learn develop

the math it is not easy to learn develop

the math it is not easy to learn develop and maintain this mindset I struggled

and maintain this mindset I struggled

and maintain this mindset I struggled for years doing it as you might have

for years doing it as you might have

for years doing it as you might have been remembered during my career slide

been remembered during my career slide

been remembered during my career slide the squiggly one I told you that we

the squiggly one I told you that we

the squiggly one I told you that we struggle that charge spot and we did if

struggle that charge spot and we did if

struggle that charge spot and we did if I had let those failures get me down

I had let those failures get me down

I had let those failures get me down slow me down and I didn’t adapt and

slow me down and I didn’t adapt and

slow me down and I didn’t adapt and learn we wouldn’t be here as a company

learn we wouldn’t be here as a company

learn we wouldn’t be here as a company day we wouldn’t employ the people that

day we wouldn’t employ the people that

day we wouldn’t employ the people that we do today I wouldn’t be standing on

we do today I wouldn’t be standing on

we do today I wouldn’t be standing on this stage that ability to learn adapt

this stage that ability to learn adapt

this stage that ability to learn adapt and grow is what’s going to keep you

and grow is what’s going to keep you

and grow is what’s going to keep you light years ahead of your peers

light years ahead of your peers

light years ahead of your peers ok guys so let’s wrap this up super

ok guys so let’s wrap this up super

ok guys so let’s wrap this up super quick takeaways one always have a plan

quick takeaways one always have a plan

quick takeaways one always have a plan the most successful people in the world

the most successful people in the world

the most successful people in the world have a plan but 2x

have a plan but 2x

have a plan but 2x fact that planned to change regardless

fact that planned to change regardless

fact that planned to change regardless of how good you think your plan is it

of how good you think your plan is it

of how good you think your plan is it will not survive first contact

will not survive first contact

will not survive first contact remember the 22,000 startups it didn’t

remember the 22,000 startups it didn’t

remember the 22,000 startups it didn’t survive first contact

survive first contact

survive first contact but finally learn adapt and grow as this

but finally learn adapt and grow as this

but finally learn adapt and grow as this plan changes that’s really important if

plan changes that’s really important if

plan changes that’s really important if you guys can learn to do that today

you guys can learn to do that today

you guys can learn to do that today you’ll be able to enjoy the journey and

you’ll be able to enjoy the journey and

you’ll be able to enjoy the journey and I’m sure that for each and every single

I’m sure that for each and every single

I’m sure that for each and every single one of you it will be a phenomenal

one of you it will be a phenomenal

one of you it will be a phenomenal journey so guys thanks a lot for taking

journey so guys thanks a lot for taking

journey so guys thanks a lot for taking our time I hope you have an amazing day

our time I hope you have an amazing day

our time I hope you have an amazing day congrats on being here

congrats on being here

congrats on being here [Applause]

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