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good

the other day I was in an elevator in the

microcentro going down full of people

unknown and a guy looks at me and tells me

hi register umbrellas it looks like it’s going to

take me I stayed like I do not know

I know then know

he was not really a stranger and he

is worrying about me what generated

was to change that moment in the elevator

that I did not give two pesos and turn it

in a cute moment he is worrying

for me it is making me like a mime

free

then he spent the day and from time to time

when I went back to the elevator and I felt

as pampered

I believe that expectations are part

of our ego are a pillar of our

ego are like a kind of breastplate

protective towards the unknown

they take care of us and leave us as in a

corralito of what we think we know of what

we do not know what we like but not

they are also like a mime to our ego

a kind of caress to see who does not

he likes to say I told you I knew and

I think those expectations have to be

knock down the at least I try

make from my place from a cocktail

trying to get into expectations

of the other and change that moment that

and turn it into a memorable moment

life is full of clear moments

good moments

you live in the present bad moments

that are transited as you can but

they all come back in the future every moment

it’s a life I’ve heard somewhere out there

and that was always giving me laps

head

I think trying to have a cocktail

changing that expectation is what I’m looking for

and try to generate that time be a

moment best a memorable moment to

It was me when I crossed

medium of chance with julio celso rey

one of our great bartenders

Argentines that he taught me

cocktails and he made me try my first

I literally swallow voley in time and the

space

thinking that he could not believe what

I was taking his the fallon

I shit my life as I say

once you try something good you can not

going back is irreversible

expectations are broken and change

get out of there and not clearly

I left the class of July celso king in

Search for sun fallon and fills me with

disappointments

there I understood that the mixology is

repetition is a trade and that

logically there is a thousand jobs to do

to use them as July celso well since

that place from that moment I understood that

both July sensor king and in some

lesser extent the lord of the elevator

They had broken my expectations

I knew that I wanted to work in the

Bar was determined and knew that no

had to do with having a monio

get a good shaker or a book

bartending but connect it

with knocking down the expectations of the other

with surprising what was not

surprising at that time was the

discrimination behind the bars

girls knew if working but it was

rather because they were nice or

because they were beautiful physically is the

place that the woman was given

behind the bar was not a place of

professional

there were no great bars

cocktails like there are now was not the

this time but the bars where

they did the jobs that I wanted

do was the five star bars

of hotels where the lords of sack

white with my time and monio this one was

behind the bar of course males

I was quite far from that we did not

I was not disappointed I was raised without

hairs on the tongue

I always wanted to put a lot of claw

I wanted and good to continue working medical

the gastronomy and wait that I see the

moment

I actually searched for it I looked for it

I looked for it I looked for it until it was given to me

I worked behind the bar and there I

I really realized that it was a place

with made by men

I have a lot of anecdotes and thousands

of stories that I can bring you now

like a pile like that too of t-shirts

that for years receiving those marks

who sponsor the bars

of course all of men do not chombas

shirts very recently they were given

account that women are better

Women’s clothing and part came better

but good brand so long as

they owed the same with a friend

besides a lot of things I gave myself

account that making room and finding

my place in the bar and feeling with

comfortable and confident of what was

doing

He had to take a step further

feel like ruling that is the place and

being hostess memes when explaining it

with an example the example of the party

you are invited to a party and not

ring the bell to receive a stranger

Swiss the party do not know where to leave the

portfolio does not know where the drinks are

and half that you do not know anyone you pass

bad is a mess the party you left

Now if you go to the party and receive you

who I invite you to do how you go

leave the portfolio and

in the kitchen test the drinks the beer

the opener and you know that I think in the

balcony this whore you relax and started

to enjoy and your good host

I realized that I had to feel

as well as a hostess of the bar and

when I felt like this I also gave myself

I realized that alone I could not that I could not

to welcome so many people who had to

look for a method and that method can

share it with others and put together

team and so try to generate that same

fascination that I have in looking for

moments of the other and fascinate the and the

see as a kind of team of

fascinated zombies from the cocktail bar that

They look for surprise if the surprise

know that generates generates energy is the

energy that we have to follow

surprising us

if you are not surprised you can not

surprise the other is like that and also not

I know how to say it but that shit on you

life has to give life to the other

it also sounds weird but it’s like that and what

cutest of all it’s actually

realize that surprise that moment

I was stealing from the lives of others is your

time to shine thanks

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me

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