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Try Other People’s Shoes | Hassaneltrabi Ahmaydy | TEDxUTM


I stabbed a guy yes I actually did stab

I stabbed a guy yes I actually did stab a guy

ladies and gentlemen very good afternoon

ladies and gentlemen very good afternoon my name is Hassan él trabaja may be I

my name is Hassan él trabaja may be I

my name is Hassan él trabaja may be I would love to share my story with you

when I was a child I used to be a very

when I was a child I used to be a very troubled child loved to fight every day

troubled child loved to fight every day

troubled child loved to fight every day for reason or for not at all just for

for reason or for not at all just for

for reason or for not at all just for the sake of fighting because I used to

the sake of fighting because I used to

the sake of fighting because I used to believe every person as enemy to me

believe every person as enemy to me

believe every person as enemy to me except my family things have been

except my family things have been

except my family things have been evolved until I reach a stage I stabbed

evolved until I reach a stage I stabbed

evolved until I reach a stage I stabbed a guy which lead to massive bleeding

that type of incident should have

that type of incident should have changed my life for better or worse but

changed my life for better or worse but

changed my life for better or worse but that didn’t happen with me I became the

that didn’t happen with me I became the

that didn’t happen with me I became the same person fighting again and again

same person fighting again and again

same person fighting again and again after that incident like nothing

after that incident like nothing

after that incident like nothing happened things have been changed when

happened things have been changed when

happened things have been changed when the government decided to merge and

the government decided to merge and

the government decided to merge and autism schools with the tradition

autism schools with the tradition

autism schools with the tradition schools my teacher came to me and he

schools my teacher came to me and he

schools my teacher came to me and he asked could you please be a volunteer to

asked could you please be a volunteer to

asked could you please be a volunteer to be a guardian of one of these autistic

be a guardian of one of these autistic

be a guardian of one of these autistic kids during the break time and I said no

kids during the break time and I said no

kids during the break time and I said no because break time is for fun it’s not

because break time is for fun it’s not

because break time is for fun it’s not for taking more responsibilities

for taking more responsibilities

for taking more responsibilities I spend a month observing this

I spend a month observing this

I spend a month observing this experience in my school during the break

experience in my school during the break

experience in my school during the break the other schoolmate have volunteer –

the other schoolmate have volunteer –

the other schoolmate have volunteer – Guardian these kids during the break and

Guardian these kids during the break and

Guardian these kids during the break and the surprise was to me I can’t see there

the surprise was to me I can’t see there

the surprise was to me I can’t see there is other police in there before the

is other police in there before the

is other police in there before the break they are so thirsty for a fight

break they are so thirsty for a fight

break they are so thirsty for a fight just like me but during the break and

just like me but during the break and

just like me but during the break and after the break they change to a very

after the break they change to a very

after the break they change to a very nice humble and kind person that led me

nice humble and kind person that led me

nice humble and kind person that led me to a question if these beliefs can

to a question if these beliefs can

to a question if these beliefs can change why can’t I change on the other

change why can’t I change on the other

change why can’t I change on the other hand if you don’t know anything about

hand if you don’t know anything about

hand if you don’t know anything about autistic person personally the autism

autistic person personally the autism

autistic person personally the autism will have so difficulties to socialize

will have so difficulties to socialize

will have so difficulties to socialize with the people so fast it’s gonna take

with the people so fast it’s gonna take

with the people so fast it’s gonna take very long time and it is very hard for

very long time and it is very hard for

very long time and it is very hard for them but after a month those kids with

them but after a month those kids with

them but after a month those kids with special needs they are really in love

special needs they are really in love

special needs they are really in love with the new guardians they have even

with the new guardians they have even

with the new guardians they have even one of the kids will cry so bad if his

one of the kids will cry so bad if his

one of the kids will cry so bad if his guardian didn’t came that also led me to

guardian didn’t came that also led me to

guardian didn’t came that also led me to the question if these kids can change

the question if these kids can change

the question if these kids can change why can’t I change I started to rethink

why can’t I change I started to rethink

why can’t I change I started to rethink everything in my life

everything in my life

everything in my life because I decided to give a change a

because I decided to give a change a

because I decided to give a change a chance from that time I put myself in

chance from that time I put myself in

chance from that time I put myself in other people’s shoes just to think why

other people’s shoes just to think why

other people’s shoes just to think why that person said that mean war to me why

that person said that mean war to me why

that person said that mean war to me why this person did that bad things to me

this person did that bad things to me

this person did that bad things to me and I got a lot of possible answers

and I got a lot of possible answers

and I got a lot of possible answers there is an excuses for that behaviors

there is an excuses for that behaviors

there is an excuses for that behaviors but I need lected that I choose to be a

but I need lected that I choose to be a

but I need lected that I choose to be a bully I choose to be a person with a

bully I choose to be a person with a

bully I choose to be a person with a temper

from that time I decided no more

from that time I decided no more so anything happened to me in my life I

so anything happened to me in my life I

so anything happened to me in my life I will question first why this happened

will question first why this happened

will question first why this happened before I do any action or say anything I

before I do any action or say anything I

before I do any action or say anything I would regret later this type of thinking

would regret later this type of thinking

would regret later this type of thinking I inherited from my dad but

I inherited from my dad but

I inherited from my dad but unfortunately I didn’t apply it in my

unfortunately I didn’t apply it in my

unfortunately I didn’t apply it in my real life until I decided to change my

real life until I decided to change my

real life until I decided to change my dad is a great person

dad is a great person

dad is a great person could you imagine a father talking to

could you imagine a father talking to

could you imagine a father talking to his son with a 7 years old about

his son with a 7 years old about

his son with a 7 years old about politics economy literature about sports

politics economy literature about sports

politics economy literature about sports just like adult he is dealing with me

just like adult he is dealing with me

just like adult he is dealing with me just like adult at 8 years old when I

just like adult at 8 years old when I

just like adult at 8 years old when I reach my tenth grade he started to

reach my tenth grade he started to

reach my tenth grade he started to debate with me and this has given me a

debate with me and this has given me a

debate with me and this has given me a skill to put myself in other position

skill to put myself in other position

skill to put myself in other position which is totally contrary for what I

which is totally contrary for what I

which is totally contrary for what I believed using this skill and obliged

believed using this skill and obliged

believed using this skill and obliged him alive before I do any stupid thing

him alive before I do any stupid thing

him alive before I do any stupid thing after that incident really change my

after that incident really change my

after that incident really change my life it helped me to came over my temper

life it helped me to came over my temper

life it helped me to came over my temper issues

issues

issues for eight years this way of thinking

for eight years this way of thinking

for eight years this way of thinking this very simple phrase put yourself in

this very simple phrase put yourself in

this very simple phrase put yourself in other people’s shoes before you judge

other people’s shoes before you judge

other people’s shoes before you judge them you must put it in front of your

them you must put it in front of your

them you must put it in front of your eyes all the time this type of thinking

eyes all the time this type of thinking

eyes all the time this type of thinking it helped me so it can help every person

it helped me so it can help every person

it helped me so it can help every person at any aspect politics religion sports

at any aspect politics religion sports

at any aspect politics religion sports whatever

whatever

whatever I really wish every person will do the

I really wish every person will do the

I really wish every person will do the same before he decided to do any action

same before he decided to do any action

same before he decided to do any action in his life so the question you must ask

in his life so the question you must ask

in his life so the question you must ask yourself which type of life would you

yourself which type of life would you

yourself which type of life would you like to be in would you like to have a

like to be in would you like to have a

like to be in would you like to have a happy calm and successful life or would

happy calm and successful life or would

happy calm and successful life or would you like to have a life full of fear

you like to have a life full of fear

you like to have a life full of fear fight temper problems when I came to

fight temper problems when I came to

fight temper problems when I came to Malaysia which is a new chapter in my

Malaysia which is a new chapter in my

Malaysia which is a new chapter in my life

life

life a lot of my near friends they came to me

a lot of my near friends they came to me

a lot of my near friends they came to me for advice about their personal lives

for advice about their personal lives

for advice about their personal lives because they know I can give them the

because they know I can give them the

because they know I can give them the angle they cannot see some of my friends

angle they cannot see some of my friends

angle they cannot see some of my friends have a problem with his girlfriend he

have a problem with his girlfriend he

have a problem with his girlfriend he came to me he said this is a situation I

came to me he said this is a situation I

came to me he said this is a situation I try to give him possible explanation

try to give him possible explanation

try to give him possible explanation unluckily that really helped my friend

unluckily that really helped my friend

unluckily that really helped my friend to came over his issues with his

to came over his issues with his

to came over his issues with his girlfriend another friend of mine have a

girlfriend another friend of mine have a

girlfriend another friend of mine have a major fight with his dad I did the same

major fight with his dad I did the same

major fight with his dad I did the same by using this technique of just try to

by using this technique of just try to

by using this technique of just try to think what other people thinking what

think what other people thinking what

think what other people thinking what other people situations when they did

other people situations when they did

other people situations when they did that this type of thinking I believe it

that this type of thinking I believe it

that this type of thinking I believe it is very helpful for any person

is very helpful for any person

is very helpful for any person you don’t need a degree to do that every

you don’t need a degree to do that every

you don’t need a degree to do that every one of you can do it easily

lastly change is a choice then a process

lastly change is a choice then a process which lead to happiness thank you that

which lead to happiness thank you that

which lead to happiness thank you that was my time

was my time

was my time [Applause]

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