
I stabbed a guy yes I actually did stab a guy
ladies and gentlemen very good afternoon
ladies and gentlemen very good afternoon my name is Hassan él trabaja may be I
my name is Hassan él trabaja may be I
my name is Hassan él trabaja may be I would love to share my story with you
when I was a child I used to be a very
when I was a child I used to be a very troubled child loved to fight every day
troubled child loved to fight every day
troubled child loved to fight every day for reason or for not at all just for
for reason or for not at all just for
for reason or for not at all just for the sake of fighting because I used to
the sake of fighting because I used to
the sake of fighting because I used to believe every person as enemy to me
believe every person as enemy to me
believe every person as enemy to me except my family things have been
except my family things have been
except my family things have been evolved until I reach a stage I stabbed
evolved until I reach a stage I stabbed
evolved until I reach a stage I stabbed a guy which lead to massive bleeding
that type of incident should have
that type of incident should have changed my life for better or worse but
changed my life for better or worse but
changed my life for better or worse but that didn’t happen with me I became the
that didn’t happen with me I became the
that didn’t happen with me I became the same person fighting again and again
same person fighting again and again
same person fighting again and again after that incident like nothing
after that incident like nothing
after that incident like nothing happened things have been changed when
happened things have been changed when
happened things have been changed when the government decided to merge and
the government decided to merge and
the government decided to merge and autism schools with the tradition
autism schools with the tradition
autism schools with the tradition schools my teacher came to me and he
schools my teacher came to me and he
schools my teacher came to me and he asked could you please be a volunteer to
asked could you please be a volunteer to
asked could you please be a volunteer to be a guardian of one of these autistic
be a guardian of one of these autistic
be a guardian of one of these autistic kids during the break time and I said no
kids during the break time and I said no
kids during the break time and I said no because break time is for fun it’s not
because break time is for fun it’s not
because break time is for fun it’s not for taking more responsibilities
for taking more responsibilities
for taking more responsibilities I spend a month observing this
I spend a month observing this
I spend a month observing this experience in my school during the break
experience in my school during the break
experience in my school during the break the other schoolmate have volunteer –
the other schoolmate have volunteer –
the other schoolmate have volunteer – Guardian these kids during the break and
Guardian these kids during the break and
Guardian these kids during the break and the surprise was to me I can’t see there
the surprise was to me I can’t see there
the surprise was to me I can’t see there is other police in there before the
is other police in there before the
is other police in there before the break they are so thirsty for a fight
break they are so thirsty for a fight
break they are so thirsty for a fight just like me but during the break and
just like me but during the break and
just like me but during the break and after the break they change to a very
after the break they change to a very
after the break they change to a very nice humble and kind person that led me
nice humble and kind person that led me
nice humble and kind person that led me to a question if these beliefs can
to a question if these beliefs can
to a question if these beliefs can change why can’t I change on the other
change why can’t I change on the other
change why can’t I change on the other hand if you don’t know anything about
hand if you don’t know anything about
hand if you don’t know anything about autistic person personally the autism
autistic person personally the autism
autistic person personally the autism will have so difficulties to socialize
will have so difficulties to socialize
will have so difficulties to socialize with the people so fast it’s gonna take
with the people so fast it’s gonna take
with the people so fast it’s gonna take very long time and it is very hard for
very long time and it is very hard for
very long time and it is very hard for them but after a month those kids with
them but after a month those kids with
them but after a month those kids with special needs they are really in love
special needs they are really in love
special needs they are really in love with the new guardians they have even
with the new guardians they have even
with the new guardians they have even one of the kids will cry so bad if his
one of the kids will cry so bad if his
one of the kids will cry so bad if his guardian didn’t came that also led me to
guardian didn’t came that also led me to
guardian didn’t came that also led me to the question if these kids can change
the question if these kids can change
the question if these kids can change why can’t I change I started to rethink
why can’t I change I started to rethink
why can’t I change I started to rethink everything in my life
everything in my life
everything in my life because I decided to give a change a
because I decided to give a change a
because I decided to give a change a chance from that time I put myself in
chance from that time I put myself in
chance from that time I put myself in other people’s shoes just to think why
other people’s shoes just to think why
other people’s shoes just to think why that person said that mean war to me why
that person said that mean war to me why
that person said that mean war to me why this person did that bad things to me
this person did that bad things to me
this person did that bad things to me and I got a lot of possible answers
and I got a lot of possible answers
and I got a lot of possible answers there is an excuses for that behaviors
there is an excuses for that behaviors
there is an excuses for that behaviors but I need lected that I choose to be a
but I need lected that I choose to be a
but I need lected that I choose to be a bully I choose to be a person with a
bully I choose to be a person with a
bully I choose to be a person with a temper
from that time I decided no more
from that time I decided no more so anything happened to me in my life I
so anything happened to me in my life I
so anything happened to me in my life I will question first why this happened
will question first why this happened
will question first why this happened before I do any action or say anything I
before I do any action or say anything I
before I do any action or say anything I would regret later this type of thinking
would regret later this type of thinking
would regret later this type of thinking I inherited from my dad but
I inherited from my dad but
I inherited from my dad but unfortunately I didn’t apply it in my
unfortunately I didn’t apply it in my
unfortunately I didn’t apply it in my real life until I decided to change my
real life until I decided to change my
real life until I decided to change my dad is a great person
dad is a great person
dad is a great person could you imagine a father talking to
could you imagine a father talking to
could you imagine a father talking to his son with a 7 years old about
his son with a 7 years old about
his son with a 7 years old about politics economy literature about sports
politics economy literature about sports
politics economy literature about sports just like adult he is dealing with me
just like adult he is dealing with me
just like adult he is dealing with me just like adult at 8 years old when I
just like adult at 8 years old when I
just like adult at 8 years old when I reach my tenth grade he started to
reach my tenth grade he started to
reach my tenth grade he started to debate with me and this has given me a
debate with me and this has given me a
debate with me and this has given me a skill to put myself in other position
skill to put myself in other position
skill to put myself in other position which is totally contrary for what I
which is totally contrary for what I
which is totally contrary for what I believed using this skill and obliged
believed using this skill and obliged
believed using this skill and obliged him alive before I do any stupid thing
him alive before I do any stupid thing
him alive before I do any stupid thing after that incident really change my
after that incident really change my
after that incident really change my life it helped me to came over my temper
life it helped me to came over my temper
life it helped me to came over my temper issues
issues
issues for eight years this way of thinking
for eight years this way of thinking
for eight years this way of thinking this very simple phrase put yourself in
this very simple phrase put yourself in
this very simple phrase put yourself in other people’s shoes before you judge
other people’s shoes before you judge
other people’s shoes before you judge them you must put it in front of your
them you must put it in front of your
them you must put it in front of your eyes all the time this type of thinking
eyes all the time this type of thinking
eyes all the time this type of thinking it helped me so it can help every person
it helped me so it can help every person
it helped me so it can help every person at any aspect politics religion sports
at any aspect politics religion sports
at any aspect politics religion sports whatever
whatever
whatever I really wish every person will do the
I really wish every person will do the
I really wish every person will do the same before he decided to do any action
same before he decided to do any action
same before he decided to do any action in his life so the question you must ask
in his life so the question you must ask
in his life so the question you must ask yourself which type of life would you
yourself which type of life would you
yourself which type of life would you like to be in would you like to have a
like to be in would you like to have a
like to be in would you like to have a happy calm and successful life or would
happy calm and successful life or would
happy calm and successful life or would you like to have a life full of fear
you like to have a life full of fear
you like to have a life full of fear fight temper problems when I came to
fight temper problems when I came to
fight temper problems when I came to Malaysia which is a new chapter in my
Malaysia which is a new chapter in my
Malaysia which is a new chapter in my life
life
life a lot of my near friends they came to me
a lot of my near friends they came to me
a lot of my near friends they came to me for advice about their personal lives
for advice about their personal lives
for advice about their personal lives because they know I can give them the
because they know I can give them the
because they know I can give them the angle they cannot see some of my friends
angle they cannot see some of my friends
angle they cannot see some of my friends have a problem with his girlfriend he
have a problem with his girlfriend he
have a problem with his girlfriend he came to me he said this is a situation I
came to me he said this is a situation I
came to me he said this is a situation I try to give him possible explanation
try to give him possible explanation
try to give him possible explanation unluckily that really helped my friend
unluckily that really helped my friend
unluckily that really helped my friend to came over his issues with his
to came over his issues with his
to came over his issues with his girlfriend another friend of mine have a
girlfriend another friend of mine have a
girlfriend another friend of mine have a major fight with his dad I did the same
major fight with his dad I did the same
major fight with his dad I did the same by using this technique of just try to
by using this technique of just try to
by using this technique of just try to think what other people thinking what
think what other people thinking what
think what other people thinking what other people situations when they did
other people situations when they did
other people situations when they did that this type of thinking I believe it
that this type of thinking I believe it
that this type of thinking I believe it is very helpful for any person
is very helpful for any person
is very helpful for any person you don’t need a degree to do that every
you don’t need a degree to do that every
you don’t need a degree to do that every one of you can do it easily
lastly change is a choice then a process
lastly change is a choice then a process which lead to happiness thank you that
which lead to happiness thank you that
which lead to happiness thank you that was my time
was my time
was my time [Applause]
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