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To Call a Stranger | Victoria Evdokimova | TEDxSPbU


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[Music] I’m here to tell you why it’s worth

I’m here to tell you why it’s worth

I’m here to tell you why it’s worth calling a stranger have you ever been in

calling a stranger have you ever been in

calling a stranger have you ever been in situation when you travel to a new city

situation when you travel to a new city

situation when you travel to a new city and you don’t know anyone there you

and you don’t know anyone there you

and you don’t know anyone there you don’t have friends or someone you can

don’t have friends or someone you can

don’t have friends or someone you can ask advice for so you walk around you if

ask advice for so you walk around you if

ask advice for so you walk around you if you are in Paris you visit Hoover the

you are in Paris you visit Hoover the

you are in Paris you visit Hoover the Eiffel Tower and another places of

Eiffel Tower and another places of

Eiffel Tower and another places of interests you look for to choose a

interests you look for to choose a

interests you look for to choose a restaurant you look for a trip advisor

restaurant you look for a trip advisor

restaurant you look for a trip advisor or Foursquare or somewhere else and you

or Foursquare or somewhere else and you

or Foursquare or somewhere else and you sit in the CAF we’re trying to you

sit in the CAF we’re trying to you

sit in the CAF we’re trying to you notice this small things that will show

notice this small things that will show

notice this small things that will show you what is local life is about and

you what is local life is about and

you what is local life is about and imagine that there is a phone number

imagine that there is a phone number

imagine that there is a phone number that you can call and be connected to a

that you can call and be connected to a

that you can call and be connected to a random local who is ready to give you

random local who is ready to give you

random local who is ready to give you personal recommendations advice and to

personal recommendations advice and to

personal recommendations advice and to introduce you to the city I am founder

introduce you to the city I am founder

introduce you to the city I am founder of communicational project a phone

of communicational project a phone

of communicational project a phone number of the whole city that anyone in

number of the whole city that anyone in

number of the whole city that anyone in the world can call and be connected to a

the world can call and be connected to a

the world can call and be connected to a random local to ask his questions about

random local to ask his questions about

random local to ask his questions about the city or just talk about anything I

the city or just talk about anything I

the city or just talk about anything I wish it was my brilliant idea but it

wish it was my brilliant idea but it

wish it was my brilliant idea but it wasn’t Sweden was the first country who

wasn’t Sweden was the first country who

wasn’t Sweden was the first country who made it happen they first had its phone

made it happen they first had its phone

made it happen they first had its phone and last year I just read about it in

and last year I just read about it in

and last year I just read about it in the news in my facebook and I thought

the news in my facebook and I thought

the news in my facebook and I thought that it’s just a wonderful idea that

that it’s just a wonderful idea that

that it’s just a wonderful idea that connects people from all over the world

connects people from all over the world

connects people from all over the world and it’s so cool to know that there is a

and it’s so cool to know that there is a

and it’s so cool to know that there is a phone number that you can call and you

phone number that you can call and you

phone number that you can call and you know that your call will be answered and

know that your call will be answered and

know that your call will be answered and besides that I decided that we need to

besides that I decided that we need to

besides that I decided that we need to make it here in Russia starting from a

make it here in Russia starting from a

make it here in Russia starting from a home terms in Petersburg so people from

home terms in Petersburg so people from

home terms in Petersburg so people from all over the world can know how friendly

all over the world can know how friendly

all over the world can know how friendly and open-minded we really are a phone

and open-minded we really are a phone

and open-minded we really are a phone calls I was always asked why phone call

calls I was always asked why phone call

calls I was always asked why phone call why not messenger

why not messenger

why not messenger it’s you know it’s a new era and I’m

it’s you know it’s a new era and I’m

it’s you know it’s a new era and I’m sure that if you most of you right now

sure that if you most of you right now

sure that if you most of you right now look on your smartphones already now

look on your smartphones already now

look on your smartphones already now during my speak you receive some of the

during my speak you receive some of the

during my speak you receive some of the messages from your friends recently I’ve

messages from your friends recently I’ve

messages from your friends recently I’ve read an article by Adrienne Jolie

read an article by Adrienne Jolie

read an article by Adrienne Jolie I think it’s American journalist and it

I think it’s American journalist and it

I think it’s American journalist and it was said it was the name of the name of

was said it was the name of the name of

was said it was the name of the name of the article was seven reasons why phone

the article was seven reasons why phone

the article was seven reasons why phone calls are about to be dead I was like

calls are about to be dead I was like

calls are about to be dead I was like what I think today I need some time to

what I think today I need some time to

what I think today I need some time to make it you know worldwide

make it you know worldwide

make it you know worldwide wait for that and his main points were

wait for that and his main points were

wait for that and his main points were that when you call you have all your

that when you call you have all your

that when you call you have all your data on your phone like a schedule and

data on your phone like a schedule and

data on your phone like a schedule and etc so you can’t talk on the phone and

etc so you can’t talk on the phone and

etc so you can’t talk on the phone and follow your schedule at the same time

follow your schedule at the same time

follow your schedule at the same time another reason was that calls leave no

another reason was that calls leave no

another reason was that calls leave no trace and you have to memorize all the

trace and you have to memorize all the

trace and you have to memorize all the agreements and everything and the main

agreements and everything and the main

agreements and everything and the main reason the main point was then when you

reason the main point was then when you

reason the main point was then when you call when you receive a call

call when you receive a call

call when you receive a call you are always interrupted but it’s

you are always interrupted but it’s

you are always interrupted but it’s funny because actually when you receive

funny because actually when you receive

funny because actually when you receive a messages like 90% of them you read it

a messages like 90% of them you read it

a messages like 90% of them you read it within three minutes after is delivery

within three minutes after is delivery

within three minutes after is delivery so it means that you are interrupted

so it means that you are interrupted

so it means that you are interrupted either way right and the researcher says

either way right and the researcher says

either way right and the researcher says that if you ask millennial what option

that if you ask millennial what option

that if you ask millennial what option of the smartphone he would prefer calls

of the smartphone he would prefer calls

of the smartphone he would prefer calls versus messengers 75% would rather

versus messengers 75% would rather

versus messengers 75% would rather choose messages seventy-five and I’m

choose messages seventy-five and I’m

choose messages seventy-five and I’m just curious what about emotions what

just curious what about emotions what

just curious what about emotions what about feeling in this very moment

about feeling in this very moment

about feeling in this very moment what is that being connected because

what is that being connected because

what is that being connected because somehow you know do you know what is

somehow you know do you know what is

somehow you know do you know what is that try to guess was the average number

that try to guess was the average number

that try to guess was the average number of messages average we send each other

of messages average we send each other

of messages average we send each other daily it’s more than 120 yeah

daily it’s more than 120 yeah

daily it’s more than 120 yeah and just yesterday I heard mark

and just yesterday I heard mark

and just yesterday I heard mark supergirl cell scene and his conference

supergirl cell scene and his conference

supergirl cell scene and his conference that they are working on technology that

that they are working on technology that

that they are working on technology that will transfer the messages from your

will transfer the messages from your

will transfer the messages from your brain straight to the device wearable

brain straight to the device wearable

brain straight to the device wearable device so it will be five times faster

device so it will be five times faster

device so it will be five times faster and it will be easier it’s very good for

and it will be easier it’s very good for

and it will be easier it’s very good for business but for connection with your

business but for connection with your

business but for connection with your friends and families I know that you can

friends and families I know that you can

friends and families I know that you can easily make 1,000 messages a day you

easily make 1,000 messages a day you

easily make 1,000 messages a day you know why because at the moment you send

know why because at the moment you send

know why because at the moment you send this communication you hardly ever feel

this communication you hardly ever feel

this communication you hardly ever feel this emotions that you show it’s very

this emotions that you show it’s very

this emotions that you show it’s very light weighted you’re ok with you know

light weighted you’re ok with you know

light weighted you’re ok with you know talking about anything I’ll give you an

talking about anything I’ll give you an

talking about anything I’ll give you an example like winter morning you sit in

example like winter morning you sit in

example like winter morning you sit in the office and you scroll your Instagram

the office and you scroll your Instagram

the office and you scroll your Instagram and you see a friend of yours who is

and you see a friend of yours who is

and you see a friend of yours who is somewhere on I don’t know Bali so you

somewhere on I don’t know Bali so you

somewhere on I don’t know Bali so you see this fresh juice nice and sand and

see this fresh juice nice and sand and

see this fresh juice nice and sand and you know blue water and you’re just type

you know blue water and you’re just type

you know blue water and you’re just type in like this and you know paid your face

in like this and you know paid your face

in like this and you know paid your face it’s my lid and you know yeah good for

it’s my lid and you know yeah good for

it’s my lid and you know yeah good for you yeah and I think you hear you you

you yeah and I think you hear you you

you yeah and I think you hear you you maybe look like this at this very moment

maybe look like this at this very moment

maybe look like this at this very moment because it’s winter morning in st.

because it’s winter morning in st.

because it’s winter morning in st. Petersburg another phone is seen that I

Petersburg another phone is seen that I

Petersburg another phone is seen that I was thinking about but is that right now

was thinking about but is that right now

was thinking about but is that right now we don’t actually need words to

we don’t actually need words to

we don’t actually need words to congratulate someone with his birthday

congratulate someone with his birthday

congratulate someone with his birthday it’s enough to send this emerges with

it’s enough to send this emerges with

it’s enough to send this emerges with the champagne and everything with a

the champagne and everything with a

the champagne and everything with a dancing lady or whatever and then you

dancing lady or whatever and then you

dancing lady or whatever and then you see that 20 people before you did the

see that 20 people before you did the

see that 20 people before you did the same thing so we are trying to save our

same thing so we are trying to save our

same thing so we are trying to save our energy not to share the emotions but the

energy not to share the emotions but the

energy not to share the emotions but the emotion is something that makes us feel

emotion is something that makes us feel

emotion is something that makes us feel alive I know it’s quite banal thing to

alive I know it’s quite banal thing to

alive I know it’s quite banal thing to say but it’s really true there was an

say but it’s really true there was an

say but it’s really true there was an experiment by Adrian Jolie no no no that

experiment by Adrian Jolie no no no that

experiment by Adrian Jolie no no no that is also sergey babkin it is was a Moscow

is also sergey babkin it is was a Moscow

is also sergey babkin it is was a Moscow best journalist for one week he called

best journalist for one week he called

best journalist for one week he called back any messages he received like

back any messages he received like

back any messages he received like literally when someone texted him or

literally when someone texted him or

literally when someone texted him or what zapped him have a good day you go

what zapped him have a good day you go

what zapped him have a good day you go back with oh you have a good day too

back with oh you have a good day too

back with oh you have a good day too and when someone sent him a smile he

and when someone sent him a smile he

and when someone sent him a smile he replied oh it’s very funny yeah and

replied oh it’s very funny yeah and

replied oh it’s very funny yeah and before the experiment he described

before the experiment he described

before the experiment he described himself being very introverted

himself being very introverted

himself being very introverted and as he said he thought that a phone

and as he said he thought that a phone

and as he said he thought that a phone call is a rude disturbance to your

call is a rude disturbance to your

call is a rude disturbance to your private life so

private life so

private life so the first days of this experiment it was

the first days of this experiment it was

the first days of this experiment it was a nightmare to him he got to go back to

a nightmare to him he got to go back to

a nightmare to him he got to go back to you a person from another country that

you a person from another country that

you a person from another country that he had never ever seen in her life

he had never ever seen in her life

he had never ever seen in her life and the person was so surprised like wow

and the person was so surprised like wow

and the person was so surprised like wow hi

hi

hi why then you got to go back five times a

why then you got to go back five times a

why then you got to go back five times a day to his colleagues and they even

day to his colleagues and they even

day to his colleagues and they even thought that there might be something

thought that there might be something

thought that there might be something wrong with his smartphone so that is why

wrong with his smartphone so that is why

wrong with his smartphone so that is why he can set and then he his friends

he can set and then he his friends

he can set and then he his friends guessed that at some point they stopped

guessed that at some point they stopped

guessed that at some point they stopped calling him destined him at all because

calling him destined him at all because

calling him destined him at all because they knew that he would call them back

nice good friends and his conclusions at

nice good friends and his conclusions at the end of experiment he understood that

the end of experiment he understood that

the end of experiment he understood that his concentration on calls raised up to

his concentration on calls raised up to

his concentration on calls raised up to 100%

100%

100% she could easily talk on the phone with

she could easily talk on the phone with

she could easily talk on the phone with anyone for twenty or thirty minutes it

anyone for twenty or thirty minutes it

anyone for twenty or thirty minutes it was okay to memorize anything and the

was okay to memorize anything and the

was okay to memorize anything and the most inspiring thing was that she felt

most inspiring thing was that she felt

most inspiring thing was that she felt this joy of being connected to the

this joy of being connected to the

this joy of being connected to the people with whom he was in touch with

people with whom he was in touch with

people with whom he was in touch with because sometimes we figure that we are

because sometimes we figure that we are

because sometimes we figure that we are connecting but this means of

connecting but this means of

connecting but this means of communication makes us disconnected from

communication makes us disconnected from

communication makes us disconnected from from the ones who are trying to be in

from the ones who are trying to be in

from the ones who are trying to be in touch since I start the project

touch since I start the project

touch since I start the project the British book number 50,000 people

the British book number 50,000 people

the British book number 50,000 people from 24 countries participated in it and

the most exciting thing about that

the most exciting thing about that you’re calling not your friend you’re

you’re calling not your friend you’re

you’re calling not your friend you’re calling a random local you don’t know

calling a random local you don’t know

calling a random local you don’t know who is on the other side and if you

who is on the other side and if you

who is on the other side and if you receive a call it’s also very strange

receive a call it’s also very strange

receive a call it’s also very strange because you don’t know with whom you are

because you don’t know with whom you are

because you don’t know with whom you are connected so a phone calls right now

connected so a phone calls right now

connected so a phone calls right now they have a effect of emotional warmth

they have a effect of emotional warmth

they have a effect of emotional warmth for both participants can you imagine

for both participants can you imagine

for both participants can you imagine how exciting it is when you don’t know

how exciting it is when you don’t know

how exciting it is when you don’t know what will happen when you pick up your

what will happen when you pick up your

what will happen when you pick up your call this whole communication is based

call this whole communication is based

call this whole communication is based on trust you chill trust between the

on trust you chill trust between the

on trust you chill trust between the participants and sometimes you know

participants and sometimes you know

participants and sometimes you know there are lots of stories in the project

there are lots of stories in the project

there are lots of stories in the project when people call they always ask about

when people call they always ask about

when people call they always ask about the weather like it’s always the first

the weather like it’s always the first

the weather like it’s always the first question the world

question the world

question the world worried how can believe without Sun and

worried how can believe without Sun and

worried how can believe without Sun and then people start talking about cultural

then people start talking about cultural

then people start talking about cultural demands city life and their personal

demands city life and their personal

demands city life and their personal lives – I remembered you were the

lives – I remembered you were the

lives – I remembered you were the project there was a story of a woman and

project there was a story of a woman and

project there was a story of a woman and the man they talked for more than one

the man they talked for more than one

the man they talked for more than one hour on the phone and then bond was the

hour on the phone and then bond was the

hour on the phone and then bond was the call was disconnected so they had no

call was disconnected so they had no

call was disconnected so they had no opportunity to exchange their real

opportunity to exchange their real

opportunity to exchange their real contact and she was looking for him

contact and she was looking for him

contact and she was looking for him everywhere she wrote in her Facebook

everywhere she wrote in her Facebook

everywhere she wrote in her Facebook page Nikki Twitter even some Samara

page Nikki Twitter even some Samara

page Nikki Twitter even some Samara covered that story unfortunately I

covered that story unfortunately I

covered that story unfortunately I couldn’t help her I wish I could but I

couldn’t help her I wish I could but I

couldn’t help her I wish I could but I couldn’t at the moment but right now I’m

couldn’t at the moment but right now I’m

couldn’t at the moment but right now I’m developing a tool that will help for

developing a tool that will help for

developing a tool that will help for people who talked and had a nice

people who talked and had a nice

people who talked and had a nice conversation to stay in touch to my

conversation to stay in touch to my

conversation to stay in touch to my colleague and actually boss called the

colleague and actually boss called the

colleague and actually boss called the man from Siberia and it was like 10

man from Siberia and it was like 10

man from Siberia and it was like 10 o’clock in the evening and he wanted to

o’clock in the evening and he wanted to

o’clock in the evening and he wanted to share his music he was singing his songs

share his music he was singing his songs

share his music he was singing his songs with the guitar to her ear and it was

with the guitar to her ear and it was

with the guitar to her ear and it was very nice and you know it reminded her

very nice and you know it reminded her

very nice and you know it reminded her this train conversation when you meet a

this train conversation when you meet a

this train conversation when you meet a person and you can share something very

person and you can share something very

person and you can share something very personal and sometimes you need to do

personal and sometimes you need to do

personal and sometimes you need to do that right to feel this emotions another

that right to feel this emotions another

that right to feel this emotions another another funny thing many people who call

another funny thing many people who call

another funny thing many people who call Saint Petersburg were very surprised

Saint Petersburg were very surprised

Saint Petersburg were very surprised they were like wow are you a real life

they were like wow are you a real life

they were like wow are you a real life person from Saint Petersburg

person from Saint Petersburg

person from Saint Petersburg like in our era when we have so many

like in our era when we have so many

like in our era when we have so many automaticall services it’s hard to

automaticall services it’s hard to

automaticall services it’s hard to believe that this we are not a call

believe that this we are not a call

believe that this we are not a call center and for me personally it was the

center and for me personally it was the

center and for me personally it was the most exciting thing about the project

most exciting thing about the project

most exciting thing about the project was to understand that people love their

was to understand that people love their

was to understand that people love their cities and they they love to share this

cities and they they love to share this

cities and they they love to share this feelings with the others and I’m talking

feelings with the others and I’m talking

feelings with the others and I’m talking not only about st. Petersburg I received

not only about st. Petersburg I received

not only about st. Petersburg I received thousands of emails from all over Russia

thousands of emails from all over Russia

thousands of emails from all over Russia in June I will launch in Chicago from

in June I will launch in Chicago from

in June I will launch in Chicago from there too from people who are ready to

there too from people who are ready to

there too from people who are ready to be ambassadors for their cities – also

be ambassadors for their cities – also

be ambassadors for their cities – also the phone to give information to help

the phone to give information to help

the phone to give information to help people

people

people I have to mention this tragic and

I have to mention this tragic and

I have to mention this tragic and unfortunate event which unfolded in st.

unfortunate event which unfolded in st.

unfortunate event which unfolded in st. Petersburg this April there was such an

Petersburg this April there was such an

Petersburg this April there was such an increase of course when act terror

increase of course when act terror

increase of course when act terror happened the whole world the whole

happened the whole world the whole

happened the whole world the whole Russia calls in Petersburg to support

Russia calls in Petersburg to support

Russia calls in Petersburg to support its citizens and it was real the moment

its citizens and it was real the moment

its citizens and it was real the moment when messages were not not enough people

when messages were not not enough people

when messages were not not enough people wanted to express their support people

wanted to express their support people

wanted to express their support people wanted to feel United feel together at

wanted to feel United feel together at

wanted to feel United feel together at that moment in the face of the tragedy

that moment in the face of the tragedy

that moment in the face of the tragedy even phone network was broken down as

even phone network was broken down as

even phone network was broken down as people were calling and calling to hear

people were calling and calling to hear

people were calling and calling to hear I dream that we all live in a united

I dream that we all live in a united

I dream that we all live in a united world right now I have borders and

world right now I have borders and

world right now I have borders and governments but thank God calls don’t

governments but thank God calls don’t

governments but thank God calls don’t have borders and I dream that in every

have borders and I dream that in every

have borders and I dream that in every big city of the world there will be a

big city of the world there will be a

big city of the world there will be a thousands of people who are ready to

thousands of people who are ready to

thousands of people who are ready to pick up your call to help and share I do

pick up your call to help and share I do

pick up your call to help and share I do believe that the more automatical

believe that the more automatical

believe that the more automatical services we create the more boards which

services we create the more boards which

services we create the more boards which add with the more valuable simple

add with the more valuable simple

add with the more valuable simple sincere communication between two people

sincere communication between two people

sincere communication between two people becomes because sometimes it’s enough to

becomes because sometimes it’s enough to

becomes because sometimes it’s enough to hear the simple hi I’m so glad to hear

hear the simple hi I’m so glad to hear

hear the simple hi I’m so glad to hear your voice thank you

your voice thank you

your voice thank you [Applause]

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