omitting the greatest failure in life it’s one of the hardest things to do and
it’s one of the hardest things to do and
it’s one of the hardest things to do and tonight I’m doing it you ready to listen
tonight I’m doing it you ready to listen
tonight I’m doing it you ready to listen to my story for many years in the past I
to my story for many years in the past I
to my story for many years in the past I have been socially excluded to a certain
have been socially excluded to a certain
have been socially excluded to a certain extent even my classmates with a
extent even my classmates with a
extent even my classmates with a recognized speech yes one of the many
recognized speech yes one of the many
recognized speech yes one of the many stories I still remember back in high
stories I still remember back in high
stories I still remember back in high schools I had this basketball game with
schools I had this basketball game with
schools I had this basketball game with my classmates
my classmates
my classmates we eventually won the game though
we eventually won the game though
we eventually won the game though I never received a pass I’m able to make
I never received a pass I’m able to make
I never received a pass I’m able to make a shot with the basketball on one hand I
a shot with the basketball on one hand I
a shot with the basketball on one hand I felt very happy because our team has won
felt very happy because our team has won
felt very happy because our team has won but on the other hand I feel a little
but on the other hand I feel a little
but on the other hand I feel a little bit sad because I never managed able to
bit sad because I never managed able to
bit sad because I never managed able to receive a ball from the other
receive a ball from the other
receive a ball from the other nevertheless I just told myself that
nevertheless I just told myself that
nevertheless I just told myself that I’ve done my job well I’ve contributed
I’ve done my job well I’ve contributed
I’ve done my job well I’ve contributed to the team by being physically present
to the team by being physically present
to the team by being physically present and distracting artists as a thinker
and distracting artists as a thinker
and distracting artists as a thinker life I have always been thinking how the
life I have always been thinking how the
life I have always been thinking how the past has shaped me into Who I am today
past has shaped me into Who I am today
past has shaped me into Who I am today thinking back I achieved quite a lot but
thinking back I achieved quite a lot but
thinking back I achieved quite a lot but I don’t really have that many
I don’t really have that many
I don’t really have that many counterparts so tonight I’ll be telling
counterparts so tonight I’ll be telling
counterparts so tonight I’ll be telling you why it’s so hard for the socially
you why it’s so hard for the socially
you why it’s so hard for the socially excluded people to recover and to tell
excluded people to recover and to tell
excluded people to recover and to tell you the message that you are the key
you the message that you are the key
you the message that you are the key persons to help us to get away from
persons to help us to get away from
persons to help us to get away from social exclusion before we start with
social exclusion before we start with
social exclusion before we start with talking about social exclusions we need
talking about social exclusions we need
talking about social exclusions we need to go through the definitions a little
to go through the definitions a little
to go through the definitions a little bit for sure we are experience social
bit for sure we are experience social
bit for sure we are experience social exclusions to a certain extent from
exclusions to a certain extent from
exclusions to a certain extent from perhaps not able to receive a particular
perhaps not able to receive a particular
perhaps not able to receive a particular light from a particular person on your
light from a particular person on your
light from a particular person on your Facebook Instagram post to perhaps not
Facebook Instagram post to perhaps not
Facebook Instagram post to perhaps not being chosen to be one of the
being chosen to be one of the
being chosen to be one of the representatives for being a school team
representatives for being a school team
representatives for being a school team player
player
player we all experience different levels of
we all experience different levels of
we all experience different levels of social exclusions in our lives and
social exclusions in our lives and
social exclusions in our lives and nevertheless the key here is the
nevertheless the key here is the
nevertheless the key here is the definition any activity of thoughts that
definition any activity of thoughts that
definition any activity of thoughts that induce loneliness that is social
induce loneliness that is social
induce loneliness that is social exclusion when I was in university
exclusion when I was in university
exclusion when I was in university studying psychology I was very fortunate
studying psychology I was very fortunate
studying psychology I was very fortunate to study about the topic of social
to study about the topic of social
to study about the topic of social exclusions Williams one of the
exclusions Williams one of the
exclusions Williams one of the well-known professors in this view
well-known professors in this view
well-known professors in this view mentioned social exclusion may need to
mentioned social exclusion may need to
mentioned social exclusion may need to free elements or three issues of an
free elements or three issues of an
free elements or three issues of an individual’s namely the loss of social
individual’s namely the loss of social
individual’s namely the loss of social identity the last performance of
identity the last performance of
identity the last performance of pro-social behavior and a little bit of
pro-social behavior and a little bit of
pro-social behavior and a little bit of cognitive destructions it is true when I
cognitive destructions it is true when I
cognitive destructions it is true when I recall how my life was in the past I
recall how my life was in the past I
recall how my life was in the past I only had one of you two best friends
only had one of you two best friends
only had one of you two best friends actually two or three and tampering with
actually two or three and tampering with
actually two or three and tampering with me for most most of the years but for
me for most most of the years but for
me for most most of the years but for the rest of my classmates I didn’t
the rest of my classmates I didn’t
the rest of my classmates I didn’t really have good connections with that
really have good connections with that
really have good connections with that they have been thinking at me of me as
they have been thinking at me of me as
they have been thinking at me of me as someone who is nerdy this honest
someone who is nerdy this honest
someone who is nerdy this honest unorganized not loyal so having that
unorganized not loyal so having that
unorganized not loyal so having that many pressures peer pressures from all
many pressures peer pressures from all
many pressures peer pressures from all the way how did I choose to react to
the way how did I choose to react to
the way how did I choose to react to them or how did I choose to behave there
them or how did I choose to behave there
them or how did I choose to behave there are two ways that we can strength wing
are two ways that we can strength wing
are two ways that we can strength wing in between one is really being the
in between one is really being the
in between one is really being the various passive the silent mode one is
various passive the silent mode one is
various passive the silent mode one is being the very active resolving the
being the very active resolving the
being the very active resolving the Fowler’s when I was in my junior high
Fowler’s when I was in my junior high
Fowler’s when I was in my junior high school I tend to resort to a violence
school I tend to resort to a violence
school I tend to resort to a violence whenever there’s something rent crook or
whenever there’s something rent crook or
whenever there’s something rent crook or went a little bit wrong I resorted to
went a little bit wrong I resorted to
went a little bit wrong I resorted to physical violence bullying other
physical violence bullying other
physical violence bullying other classmates moving objects from one side
classmates moving objects from one side
classmates moving objects from one side to the other side
to the other side
to the other side eventually I receive a complaint a
eventually I receive a complaint a
eventually I receive a complaint a warning letter from the discipline
warning letter from the discipline
warning letter from the discipline committee warning me that if I repeat
committee warning me that if I repeat
committee warning me that if I repeat the behavior again I would be expelled I
the behavior again I would be expelled I
the behavior again I would be expelled I thank for that experience so I never
thank for that experience so I never
thank for that experience so I never resort to violence again as the year
resort to violence again as the year
resort to violence again as the year group I I understand study is becoming
group I I understand study is becoming
group I I understand study is becoming way more important because of the a
way more important because of the a
way more important because of the a levels and a levels determine my
levels and a levels determine my
levels and a levels determine my university life
university life
university life if I get any ticket there and as soon as
if I get any ticket there and as soon as
if I get any ticket there and as soon as I realized study is one way for me to
I realized study is one way for me to
I realized study is one way for me to prove myself prove my ability in front
prove myself prove my ability in front
prove myself prove my ability in front of the teachers I start to enjoy
of the teachers I start to enjoy
of the teachers I start to enjoy studying so at the senior high school
studying so at the senior high school
studying so at the senior high school period
period
period I chose study as a way to prove myself
I chose study as a way to prove myself
I chose study as a way to prove myself to tell others that I will be the one or
to tell others that I will be the one or
to tell others that I will be the one or I am the one who study well who gain the
I am the one who study well who gain the
I am the one who study well who gain the trust and have the ability so
trust and have the ability so
trust and have the ability so academically speaking I went almost from
academically speaking I went almost from
academically speaking I went almost from the bottom row student she’s one of the
the bottom row student she’s one of the
the bottom row student she’s one of the top students when I left the school
top students when I left the school
top students when I left the school sounds fascinating right but all the
sounds fascinating right but all the
sounds fascinating right but all the glorious achievements behind that I
glorious achievements behind that I
glorious achievements behind that I don’t really have that many supports not
don’t really have that many supports not
don’t really have that many supports not many people are really in favor or
many people are really in favor or
many people are really in favor or cheering for me now here at this point
cheering for me now here at this point
cheering for me now here at this point you might argue or you might just
you might argue or you might just
you might argue or you might just question why don’t you just behave well
question why don’t you just behave well
question why don’t you just behave well is there any way for you try to behave
is there any way for you try to behave
is there any way for you try to behave normal just to copying others yes
normal just to copying others yes
normal just to copying others yes perhaps there is but the truth is given
perhaps there is but the truth is given
perhaps there is but the truth is given that when I was at that age or at that
that when I was at that age or at that
that when I was at that age or at that period I have no choice
period I have no choice
period I have no choice psychology has a concept called
psychology has a concept called
psychology has a concept called vicarious learning which is to say
vicarious learning which is to say
vicarious learning which is to say individuals learn things through hearing
individuals learn things through hearing
individuals learn things through hearing saying or any other senses from the
saying or any other senses from the
saying or any other senses from the others rather than direct or hands-on
others rather than direct or hands-on
others rather than direct or hands-on instruction from your peers or your
instruction from your peers or your
instruction from your peers or your teachers so seeing your parents arguing
teachers so seeing your parents arguing
teachers so seeing your parents arguing in front of you and seeing the dominant
in front of you and seeing the dominant
in front of you and seeing the dominant sigh one the argument may lead you to
sigh one the argument may lead you to
sigh one the argument may lead you to the thinking that by shouting out loud
the thinking that by shouting out loud
the thinking that by shouting out loud resolving to thousands throwing things
resolving to thousands throwing things
resolving to thousands throwing things around is one of the ways to won an
around is one of the ways to won an
around is one of the ways to won an argument it’s one of the ways to stop a
argument it’s one of the ways to stop a
argument it’s one of the ways to stop a conflict
conflict
conflict no one has the responsibility to tell
no one has the responsibility to tell
no one has the responsibility to tell you it is right or wrong but I just
you it is right or wrong but I just
you it is right or wrong but I just learned from this experience and I just
learned from this experience and I just
learned from this experience and I just replicate it on others eventually lead
replicate it on others eventually lead
replicate it on others eventually lead to any sense of discomfort from others
to any sense of discomfort from others
to any sense of discomfort from others but indeed they have some duty to tell
but indeed they have some duty to tell
but indeed they have some duty to tell me about the issue so the by teachers to
me about the issue so the by teachers to
me about the issue so the by teachers to any others seniors or adults in general
any others seniors or adults in general
any others seniors or adults in general intervene they did but it wouldn’t help
intervene they did but it wouldn’t help
intervene they did but it wouldn’t help much the key here is only if there is an
much the key here is only if there is an
much the key here is only if there is an supportive environment that enable me or
supportive environment that enable me or
supportive environment that enable me or anyone who’s socially excluded to
anyone who’s socially excluded to
anyone who’s socially excluded to practice the correct behavior trying to
practice the correct behavior trying to
practice the correct behavior trying to make mistakes and doing the right things
make mistakes and doing the right things
make mistakes and doing the right things again then you will be doing the right
again then you will be doing the right
again then you will be doing the right things and get included in the society
things and get included in the society
things and get included in the society we’re absent reprimanding a children
we’re absent reprimanding a children
we’re absent reprimanding a children within help because it would just turn
within help because it would just turn
within help because it would just turn out backfire telling them the reasons or
out backfire telling them the reasons or
out backfire telling them the reasons or the logics behind wouldn’t help that
the logics behind wouldn’t help that
the logics behind wouldn’t help that much also after all we are just at our
much also after all we are just at our
much also after all we are just at our mid tense at this age it’s still a
mid tense at this age it’s still a
mid tense at this age it’s still a little bit hard to make sense of what’s
little bit hard to make sense of what’s
little bit hard to make sense of what’s going on with the university academia so
going on with the university academia so
going on with the university academia so happy acknowledge that I’m socially
happy acknowledge that I’m socially
happy acknowledge that I’m socially excluded I always try to find ways just
excluded I always try to find ways just
excluded I always try to find ways just to help myself to improve a little bit
to help myself to improve a little bit
to help myself to improve a little bit so I went to a bookshelf my brother’s
so I went to a bookshelf my brother’s
so I went to a bookshelf my brother’s bookshelf my brother’s is few years
bookshelf my brother’s is few years
bookshelf my brother’s is few years elder than you he’s a good he’s a good
elder than you he’s a good he’s a good
elder than you he’s a good he’s a good reader obviously and he loves to read
reader obviously and he loves to read
reader obviously and he loves to read books about self-help so from books like
books about self-help so from books like
books about self-help so from books like the Carnegie’s how to win friends and
the Carnegie’s how to win friends and
the Carnegie’s how to win friends and influence people to Steven Spencer’s who
influence people to Steven Spencer’s who
influence people to Steven Spencer’s who moved my cheese I read quite a lot of
moved my cheese I read quite a lot of
moved my cheese I read quite a lot of self-help books the tips were useful
self-help books the tips were useful
self-help books the tips were useful but there’s an issue I was having this
but there’s an issue I was having this
but there’s an issue I was having this trouble of practicing there deliberately
trouble of practicing there deliberately
trouble of practicing there deliberately you might just ask where’s the trouble I
you might just ask where’s the trouble I
you might just ask where’s the trouble I would say the same of act like until you
would say the same of act like until you
would say the same of act like until you can do it didn’t really apply to me from
can do it didn’t really apply to me from
can do it didn’t really apply to me from one of the most viewed Ted videos this
one of the most viewed Ted videos this
one of the most viewed Ted videos this quote the troupe here is so should
quote the troupe here is so should
quote the troupe here is so should exclude the people weren’t really given
exclude the people weren’t really given
exclude the people weren’t really given a chance because of peer pressure
a chance because of peer pressure
a chance because of peer pressure I still remember in high school when I
I still remember in high school when I
I still remember in high school when I was trying to having lunch with a with a
was trying to having lunch with a with a
was trying to having lunch with a with a new classmate
new classmate
new classmate so we went out lunch once but afterwards
so we went out lunch once but afterwards
so we went out lunch once but afterwards we just never go out lunch again I said
we just never go out lunch again I said
we just never go out lunch again I said something is weird so I walk it to him
something is weird so I walk it to him
something is weird so I walk it to him and ask hey why we didn’t lunch again
and ask hey why we didn’t lunch again
and ask hey why we didn’t lunch again guess what he replied he told me he told
guess what he replied he told me he told
guess what he replied he told me he told me that people have been commenting
me that people have been commenting
me that people have been commenting about me going out lunch with you that’s
about me going out lunch with you that’s
about me going out lunch with you that’s how I reacted and I never asked him
how I reacted and I never asked him
how I reacted and I never asked him lunch again but I learned from this
lunch again but I learned from this
lunch again but I learned from this story the threshold for someone to
story the threshold for someone to
story the threshold for someone to accept me someone who is socially
accept me someone who is socially
accept me someone who is socially excluded it’s displaying this honest
excluded it’s displaying this honest
excluded it’s displaying this honest sincerity in front of people trying to
sincerity in front of people trying to
sincerity in front of people trying to improve themselves the fact the fresh
improve themselves the fact the fresh
improve themselves the fact the fresh hope for them to accept this is very
hope for them to accept this is very
hope for them to accept this is very very high to overcome in the Chinese
very high to overcome in the Chinese
very high to overcome in the Chinese classic free character classic there is
classic free character classic there is
classic free character classic there is a saying of men are naturally good our
a saying of men are naturally good our
a saying of men are naturally good our habits were drastically different this
habits were drastically different this
habits were drastically different this truth we had our habits Ruta since our
truth we had our habits Ruta since our
truth we had our habits Ruta since our childhood or early ages and it’s not
childhood or early ages and it’s not
childhood or early ages and it’s not easy to take it out away but a lot of
easy to take it out away but a lot of
easy to take it out away but a lot of people are fear of commenting on it just
people are fear of commenting on it just
people are fear of commenting on it just like modern educators educators are fear
like modern educators educators are fear
like modern educators educators are fear of the statement
of the statement
of the statement I say sure they label on the particular
I say sure they label on the particular
I say sure they label on the particular students if they quote particular habits
students if they quote particular habits
students if they quote particular habits as an issue and there are some
as an issue and there are some
as an issue and there are some psychological bias that are just messing
psychological bias that are just messing
psychological bias that are just messing us around just imagine as we live with
us around just imagine as we live with
us around just imagine as we live with all the lies cheats or fake news that
all the lies cheats or fake news that
all the lies cheats or fake news that our lives have been surrounding us or
our lives have been surrounding us or
our lives have been surrounding us or around we are reluctant to show love and
around we are reluctant to show love and
around we are reluctant to show love and cares to us others especially those
cares to us others especially those
cares to us others especially those others who we are not familiar with
others who we are not familiar with
others who we are not familiar with interpersonal leaf this is called
interpersonal leaf this is called
interpersonal leaf this is called in-group bias in psychology there’s also
in-group bias in psychology there’s also
in-group bias in psychology there’s also this bias called confirmation bias our
this bias called confirmation bias our
this bias called confirmation bias our brain is very good at tricking us after
brain is very good at tricking us after
brain is very good at tricking us after all the truth is we don’t know what we
all the truth is we don’t know what we
all the truth is we don’t know what we don’t know so we tend to make judgments
don’t know so we tend to make judgments
don’t know so we tend to make judgments and assumptions based on the knowledge
and assumptions based on the knowledge
and assumptions based on the knowledge that we have known we have a particular
that we have known we have a particular
that we have known we have a particular thinking about a socially excluded
thinking about a socially excluded
thinking about a socially excluded individual if I tell you somewhere
individual if I tell you somewhere
individual if I tell you somewhere socially excluded you might just be
socially excluded you might just be
socially excluded you might just be looking for behaviors or signs
looking for behaviors or signs
looking for behaviors or signs indicators that tells you he or she is
indicators that tells you he or she is
indicators that tells you he or she is socially excluded confirmation bias so
socially excluded confirmation bias so
socially excluded confirmation bias so after all ultimately who are the ones
after all ultimately who are the ones
after all ultimately who are the ones that are really helping the socially
that are really helping the socially
that are really helping the socially excluded people to recover from this
excluded people to recover from this
excluded people to recover from this state of social exclusion in one of the
state of social exclusion in one of the
state of social exclusion in one of the most beautiful videos
most beautiful videos
most beautiful videos Robert Weldon Joe one of the well-known
Robert Weldon Joe one of the well-known
Robert Weldon Joe one of the well-known professor studying happiness he mentions
professor studying happiness he mentions
professor studying happiness he mentions that good relationships keeps us
that good relationships keeps us
that good relationships keeps us healthier and stronger and test the
healthier and stronger and test the
healthier and stronger and test the formula of happiness is actually this
formula of happiness is actually this
formula of happiness is actually this state of community well-being if
state of community well-being if
state of community well-being if displaying a simple help helping
displaying a simple help helping
displaying a simple help helping behavior actually can make you happy why
behavior actually can make you happy why
behavior actually can make you happy why why we are not just not doing it at
why we are not just not doing it at
why we are not just not doing it at times we may feel socially excluded we
times we may feel socially excluded we
times we may feel socially excluded we feel lonely
feel lonely
feel lonely but what are the reasons that hinder us
but what are the reasons that hinder us
but what are the reasons that hinder us from not approaching people from all
from not approaching people from all
from not approaching people from all around
around
around hi officer three reasons in general the
hi officer three reasons in general the
hi officer three reasons in general the first reason is we don’t really think it
first reason is we don’t really think it
first reason is we don’t really think it is a problem
is a problem
is a problem I still remember back in high school I
I still remember back in high school I
I still remember back in high school I never see social exclusion as a problem
never see social exclusion as a problem
never see social exclusion as a problem around me I attribute to my independent
around me I attribute to my independent
around me I attribute to my independent personality to my merit relative
personality to my merit relative
personality to my merit relative maturity rather than my social awkward
maturity rather than my social awkward
maturity rather than my social awkward social behavioral pattern and as long as
social behavioral pattern and as long as
social behavioral pattern and as long as my entertainment device I mean my
my entertainment device I mean my
my entertainment device I mean my computer back then function well and I
computer back then function well and I
computer back then function well and I can play my computer games life seems to
can play my computer games life seems to
can play my computer games life seems to well go pretty normal
well go pretty normal
well go pretty normal the second reason or the second excuse
the second reason or the second excuse
the second reason or the second excuse that we give to our ourselves it’s
that we give to our ourselves it’s
that we give to our ourselves it’s really that people are entering
really that people are entering
really that people are entering different stages of life from studying
different stages of life from studying
different stages of life from studying hard for your DSD yo l opposed to
hard for your DSD yo l opposed to
hard for your DSD yo l opposed to studying for your university midterms
studying for your university midterms
studying for your university midterms having your career journey having your
having your career journey having your
having your career journey having your own family we feel like everyone is
own family we feel like everyone is
own family we feel like everyone is moving on so there’s no it’s not really
moving on so there’s no it’s not really
moving on so there’s no it’s not really a good time as soon as we know maybe our
a good time as soon as we know maybe our
a good time as soon as we know maybe our friends they get married and have a life
friends they get married and have a life
friends they get married and have a life that is centered to maybe their kids
that is centered to maybe their kids
that is centered to maybe their kids this sentence we know the regular happy
this sentence we know the regular happy
this sentence we know the regular happy hour week that happens in the weekends
hour week that happens in the weekends
hour week that happens in the weekends would very soon become history the third
would very soon become history the third
would very soon become history the third reason is probably the most intuitive
reason is probably the most intuitive
reason is probably the most intuitive and easiest reason to understand is that
and easiest reason to understand is that
and easiest reason to understand is that we just think people are like us we have
we just think people are like us we have
we just think people are like us we have a busy schedule to keep so finding
a busy schedule to keep so finding
a busy schedule to keep so finding someone may just cause a little bit of
someone may just cause a little bit of
someone may just cause a little bit of disturbance if I just bring a call the
disturbance if I just bring a call the
disturbance if I just bring a call the phone rings it may just cause a little
phone rings it may just cause a little
phone rings it may just cause a little bit disturbance to others and we just
bit disturbance to others and we just
bit disturbance to others and we just don’t know if you’re she is working but
don’t know if you’re she is working but
don’t know if you’re she is working but we think they are probably working
we think they are probably working
we think they are probably working so ladies and gentlemen we could have
so ladies and gentlemen we could have
so ladies and gentlemen we could have really just turned a blind eye walk away
really just turned a blind eye walk away
really just turned a blind eye walk away telling ourselves you don’t really need
telling ourselves you don’t really need
telling ourselves you don’t really need to have them need time or responsibility
to have them need time or responsibility
to have them need time or responsibility to really help the socially excluded
to really help the socially excluded
to really help the socially excluded people but I have the excuses other
people but I have the excuses other
people but I have the excuses other reasonings behind strong enough are you
reasonings behind strong enough are you
reasonings behind strong enough are you satisfied living in this world imagine
satisfied living in this world imagine
satisfied living in this world imagine you are the socially excluded people or
you are the socially excluded people or
you are the socially excluded people or maybe you’re not
maybe you’re not
maybe you’re not I believe this world just need a little
I believe this world just need a little
I believe this world just need a little bit more of supportive element here we
bit more of supportive element here we
bit more of supportive element here we need to build less war and more bridges
need to build less war and more bridges
need to build less war and more bridges when I was in university things go a
when I was in university things go a
when I was in university things go a little bit better because I technically
little bit better because I technically
little bit better because I technically have a new star new star in the sense of
have a new star new star in the sense of
have a new star new star in the sense of new cohorts new environment and I start
new cohorts new environment and I start
new cohorts new environment and I start to practice my behavior a little bit
to practice my behavior a little bit
to practice my behavior a little bit better and better and it goes
better and better and it goes
better and better and it goes it went handy having engaged in serious
it went handy having engaged in serious
it went handy having engaged in serious relationships better family bonding I
relationships better family bonding I
relationships better family bonding I came to realize this community
came to realize this community
came to realize this community well-being
well-being
well-being the strengthening of interpersonal
the strengthening of interpersonal
the strengthening of interpersonal relationships helps a lot from escaping
relationships helps a lot from escaping
relationships helps a lot from escaping social exclusions but I realized I’m
social exclusions but I realized I’m
social exclusions but I realized I’m just one of the few lucky ones a lot of
just one of the few lucky ones a lot of
just one of the few lucky ones a lot of others are still in this rim of this
others are still in this rim of this
others are still in this rim of this court waiting for us to summon them back
court waiting for us to summon them back
court waiting for us to summon them back from this chronic pain of loneliness so
from this chronic pain of loneliness so
from this chronic pain of loneliness so what can we do let’s just think one step
what can we do let’s just think one step
what can we do let’s just think one step back do we have people with this life
back do we have people with this life
back do we have people with this life can you name one or two people around
can you name one or two people around
can you name one or two people around you that are socially excluded and you
you that are socially excluded and you
you that are socially excluded and you are aware of let’s just take one step
are aware of let’s just take one step
are aware of let’s just take one step back
back
back can we rather than focusing on social
can we rather than focusing on social
can we rather than focusing on social exclusions let’s just put this wherever
exclusions let’s just put this wherever
exclusions let’s just put this wherever can we just feel a supportive and
can we just feel a supportive and
can we just feel a supportive and prominent that is inclusive of everyone
prominent that is inclusive of everyone
prominent that is inclusive of everyone here my answer to this is yes we can
here my answer to this is yes we can
here my answer to this is yes we can it’s going to take some time of
it’s going to take some time of
it’s going to take some time of deliberate practice for every single
deliberate practice for every single
deliberate practice for every single individual but this is a good in
individual but this is a good in
individual but this is a good in investment Deir Ezzor – that is
investment Deir Ezzor – that is
investment Deir Ezzor – that is practicing empathy there are a lot of
practicing empathy there are a lot of
practicing empathy there are a lot of psychologists have been studying about
psychologists have been studying about
psychologists have been studying about empathy Roman cross naira is one of the
empathy Roman cross naira is one of the
empathy Roman cross naira is one of the most famous one and he mentions about
most famous one and he mentions about
most famous one and he mentions about empathy is the best way for us to
empathy is the best way for us to
empathy is the best way for us to understand each other and to build a
understand each other and to build a
understand each other and to build a strong community so to say we need to
strong community so to say we need to
strong community so to say we need to acknowledge that our brains are able to
acknowledge that our brains are able to
acknowledge that our brains are able to upset or have the ability to think from
upset or have the ability to think from
upset or have the ability to think from the others perspective having
the others perspective having
the others perspective having established this foundation mentally
established this foundation mentally
established this foundation mentally then you start to approach individuals
then you start to approach individuals
then you start to approach individuals or around and try to talk and understand
or around and try to talk and understand
or around and try to talk and understand from their perspective while also having
from their perspective while also having
from their perspective while also having your own thoughts it’s no easy as I
your own thoughts it’s no easy as I
your own thoughts it’s no easy as I mentioned but deliberate practice is
mentioned but deliberate practice is
mentioned but deliberate practice is going to help you in achieving that
it’s been a long long time that I’ve
it’s been a long long time that I’ve been socially excluded I sometimes
been socially excluded I sometimes
been socially excluded I sometimes wonder what made me to become like that
wonder what made me to become like that
wonder what made me to become like that it’s because of my family because of my
it’s because of my family because of my
it’s because of my family because of my friends because of an environment that
friends because of an environment that
friends because of an environment that or school that is not suitable for me no
or school that is not suitable for me no
or school that is not suitable for me no or maybe it is but the answer didn’t
or maybe it is but the answer didn’t
or maybe it is but the answer didn’t matter the matter is I thank for that
matter the matter is I thank for that
matter the matter is I thank for that experience without this experience it
experience without this experience it
experience without this experience it wouldn’t it wouldn’t happen for me to be
wouldn’t it wouldn’t happen for me to be
wouldn’t it wouldn’t happen for me to be standing here sharing this story it
standing here sharing this story it
standing here sharing this story it wouldn’t happen that I realized I figure
wouldn’t happen that I realized I figure
wouldn’t happen that I realized I figure out that I have this experience and I’m
out that I have this experience and I’m
out that I have this experience and I’m able to share with others the pain about
able to share with others the pain about
able to share with others the pain about social exclusions and how we can walk
social exclusions and how we can walk
social exclusions and how we can walk through that and most importantly you
through that and most importantly you
through that and most importantly you you are the key holder to making that
you are the key holder to making that
you are the key holder to making that change somehow at this stage now I think
change somehow at this stage now I think
change somehow at this stage now I think those who have been socially excluded me
those who have been socially excluded me
those who have been socially excluded me and I am constantly thinking where are
and I am constantly thinking where are
and I am constantly thinking where are they now
they now
they now thank you
thank you
thank you [Applause]
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