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The struggle of adaptation | Maeve Cameron | TEDxYouth@AISGurgaon46


on the 14th March 2015 I see the S

on the 14th March 2015 I see the S abroad scholarship to become an exchange

abroad scholarship to become an exchange

abroad scholarship to become an exchange student in India my mind immediately

student in India my mind immediately

student in India my mind immediately went crazy thinking about all the new

went crazy thinking about all the new

went crazy thinking about all the new experiences I will need to adjust there

experiences I will need to adjust there

experiences I will need to adjust there was two things I knew for sure a india

was two things I knew for sure a india

was two things I knew for sure a india has a lot of people and india has a lot

has a lot of people and india has a lot

has a lot of people and india has a lot of different languages i started

of different languages i started

of different languages i started stressing about learning Hindi

stressing about learning Hindi

stressing about learning Hindi immediately I would hide a list of basic

immediately I would hide a list of basic

immediately I would hide a list of basic TV words in my desk and trying to read

TV words in my desk and trying to read

TV words in my desk and trying to read in my eyes while my history teacher when

in my eyes while my history teacher when

in my eyes while my history teacher when I’m long rant about political race

I’m long rant about political race

I’m long rant about political race taking place my student realized after

taking place my student realized after

taking place my student realized after coming to India that no matter where I

coming to India that no matter where I

coming to India that no matter where I go I most likely able to find someone

go I most likely able to find someone

go I most likely able to find someone whose output English to get me to order

whose output English to get me to order

whose output English to get me to order you to be but that doesn’t mean I don’t

you to be but that doesn’t mean I don’t

you to be but that doesn’t mean I don’t appreciate or understand the beauty and

appreciate or understand the beauty and

appreciate or understand the beauty and power behind language especially Hindi

power behind language especially Hindi

power behind language especially Hindi every plane which has a fascinating

every plane which has a fascinating

every plane which has a fascinating origin story and deserves respect so

origin story and deserves respect so

origin story and deserves respect so without further ado dumbest a min and

without further ado dumbest a min and

without further ado dumbest a min and i’ll make a min America say i equal pay

i’ll make a min America say i equal pay

i’ll make a min America say i equal pay amity international sector 46 go dong

amity international sector 46 go dong

amity international sector 46 go dong Mei yard Mick bark feet make dharti kuch

Mei yard Mick bark feet make dharti kuch

Mei yard Mick bark feet make dharti kuch chahiye chakram Luce understandable

chahiye chakram Luce understandable

chahiye chakram Luce understandable awesome kana me time I don’t know what

awesome kana me time I don’t know what

awesome kana me time I don’t know what the survey mucci can focus today which

the survey mucci can focus today which

the survey mucci can focus today which is made with some visa here popo or

is made with some visa here popo or

is made with some visa here popo or covered yet maybe make father made us

covered yet maybe make father made us

covered yet maybe make father made us many folk remedies the best part about

many folk remedies the best part about

many folk remedies the best part about language is that the rules are

language is that the rules are

language is that the rules are constantly changing without realizing it

constantly changing without realizing it

constantly changing without realizing it languages transform themselves to fit

languages transform themselves to fit

languages transform themselves to fit the generation market trends fats and

the generation market trends fats and

the generation market trends fats and hidden communities sling is it perfect

hidden communities sling is it perfect

hidden communities sling is it perfect example

example

example that words that were once simple and had

that words that were once simple and had

that words that were once simple and had one meaning have now been twisted and

one meaning have now been twisted and

one meaning have now been twisted and complicated to mean something completely

complicated to mean something completely

complicated to mean something completely different one specific trade I

different one specific trade I

different one specific trade I recognized especially in India with the

recognized especially in India with the

recognized especially in India with the wide pieces of abbreviation now i am no

wide pieces of abbreviation now i am no

wide pieces of abbreviation now i am no clue HEK RBI CP even work and I am

clue HEK RBI CP even work and I am

clue HEK RBI CP even work and I am definitely not to date with my

definitely not to date with my

definitely not to date with my generation when it comes to texting and

generation when it comes to texting and

generation when it comes to texting and you’re using above Jesus I mean what is

you’re using above Jesus I mean what is

you’re using above Jesus I mean what is Ilyas amor so I be player TTYL even me

Ilyas amor so I be player TTYL even me

Ilyas amor so I be player TTYL even me and what someone says in a civil heart

and what someone says in a civil heart

and what someone says in a civil heart emojis I mean that could be interpreted

emojis I mean that could be interpreted

emojis I mean that could be interpreted in a hundred different ways but I don’t

in a hundred different ways but I don’t

in a hundred different ways but I don’t mind exchanges with communication in

mind exchanges with communication in

mind exchanges with communication in fact that’s what keeps me interested as

fact that’s what keeps me interested as

fact that’s what keeps me interested as long as you are trying to learn

long as you are trying to learn

long as you are trying to learn something new from someone else’s point

something new from someone else’s point

something new from someone else’s point of view you are growing through change

of view you are growing through change

of view you are growing through change even if that initial conversation does

even if that initial conversation does

even if that initial conversation does start with an h mu Alaskan emoji or

start with an h mu Alaskan emoji or

start with an h mu Alaskan emoji or sliding into someone’s dms at least you

sliding into someone’s dms at least you

sliding into someone’s dms at least you are making a connection at least you are

are making a connection at least you are

are making a connection at least you are reaching out and when it comes down to

reaching out and when it comes down to

reaching out and when it comes down to it that is the most basic and

it that is the most basic and

it that is the most basic and fundamental quantum behind the language

fundamental quantum behind the language

fundamental quantum behind the language so it is wrong polo majority in his how

so it is wrong polo majority in his how

so it is wrong polo majority in his how many you speak pure Hindi and unreacted

many you speak pure Hindi and unreacted

many you speak pure Hindi and unreacted alright so a couple now how many of you

alright so a couple now how many of you

alright so a couple now how many of you speak a mixture of languages or even two

speak a mixture of languages or even two

speak a mixture of languages or even two at the same time like English right so

at the same time like English right so

at the same time like English right so the language said everybody in this room

the language said everybody in this room

the language said everybody in this room is pointing what you can know it or not

is pointing what you can know it or not

is pointing what you can know it or not is body language how a person physically

is body language how a person physically

is body language how a person physically represents themselves can tell a lot

represents themselves can tell a lot

represents themselves can tell a lot about that individual without them

about that individual without them

about that individual without them having without a vote how you slip out

having without a vote how you slip out

having without a vote how you slip out of there now that doesn’t give you an

of there now that doesn’t give you an

of there now that doesn’t give you an excuse to judge a book by it’s cover but

excuse to judge a book by it’s cover but

excuse to judge a book by it’s cover but it does give good insight on the best

it does give good insight on the best

it does give good insight on the best ways initiating a conversation which I

ways initiating a conversation which I

ways initiating a conversation which I was pretty desperate to spark in order

was pretty desperate to spark in order

was pretty desperate to spark in order to start this cross learning

to start this cross learning

to start this cross learning cross-cultural learning experience not

cross-cultural learning experience not

cross-cultural learning experience not only did I stick out because of my plate

only did I stick out because of my plate

only did I stick out because of my plate white skin my blue eyes or my flurry red

white skin my blue eyes or my flurry red

white skin my blue eyes or my flurry red hair but also because of my mannerisms

hair but also because of my mannerisms

hair but also because of my mannerisms so I had to take a step back I had to

so I had to take a step back I had to

so I had to take a step back I had to observe the course the first thing I

observe the course the first thing I

observe the course the first thing I noticed was the notorious indian head

noticed was the notorious indian head

noticed was the notorious indian head nod i mean i had no clue if everybody

nod i mean i had no clue if everybody

nod i mean i had no clue if everybody was saying yes or or no or just had some

was saying yes or or no or just had some

was saying yes or or no or just had some strange pain today but before I even

strange pain today but before I even

strange pain today but before I even noticed my kind slowly started bobbing

noticed my kind slowly started bobbing

noticed my kind slowly started bobbing from side to side before I even knew it

from side to side before I even knew it

from side to side before I even knew it and just like a little kid when

and just like a little kid when

and just like a little kid when adjusting to a new culture gestures and

adjusting to a new culture gestures and

adjusting to a new culture gestures and mannerisms are mimicked and internalized

mannerisms are mimicked and internalized

mannerisms are mimicked and internalized without making a conscious effort next I

without making a conscious effort next I

without making a conscious effort next I observed hang and swine everywhere

observed hang and swine everywhere

observed hang and swine everywhere whether that was during moulton land

whether that was during moulton land

whether that was during moulton land music dancing or or whether that was my

music dancing or or whether that was my

music dancing or or whether that was my peers bending down to touch their elders

peers bending down to touch their elders

peers bending down to touch their elders feet or whether that was a regular

feet or whether that was a regular

feet or whether that was a regular conversation hands will be flying every

conversation hands will be flying every

conversation hands will be flying every which way drection is this would be

which way drection is this would be

which way drection is this would be turning 180 degrees so with little

turning 180 degrees so with little

turning 180 degrees so with little experience of the head not a very thick

experience of the head not a very thick

experience of the head not a very thick Minnesota accent and only time my hands

Minnesota accent and only time my hands

Minnesota accent and only time my hands would ever move from my nervous side was

would ever move from my nervous side was

would ever move from my nervous side was for an occasional high five I was faced

for an occasional high five I was faced

for an occasional high five I was faced with the daunting task making friends

with the daunting task making friends

with the daunting task making friends with the peers around me I was used to

with the peers around me I was used to

with the peers around me I was used to just

just

just sticking out my hand stating my name

sticking out my hand stating my name

sticking out my hand stating my name connected fairly quickly but that was

connected fairly quickly but that was

connected fairly quickly but that was very direct and quite frankly may have

very direct and quite frankly may have

very direct and quite frankly may have been awkward and uncomfortable for a

been awkward and uncomfortable for a

been awkward and uncomfortable for a more intimate setting so again take a

more intimate setting so again take a

more intimate setting so again take a couple steps back I had observe so I

couple steps back I had observe so I

couple steps back I had observe so I watched other students and how they

watched other students and how they

watched other students and how they approach their friends and I realized

approach their friends and I realized

approach their friends and I realized this connor armory this connor artery

this connor armory this connor artery

this connor armory this connor artery between teenagers and i thought at least

between teenagers and i thought at least

between teenagers and i thought at least I can connect on that and I shouldn’t

I can connect on that and I shouldn’t

I can connect on that and I shouldn’t even over think the situation because

even over think the situation because

even over think the situation because they may be just as excited and maybe

they may be just as excited and maybe

they may be just as excited and maybe even nervous to meet me in my state of

even nervous to meet me in my state of

even nervous to meet me in my state of the US there’s stereotype called

the US there’s stereotype called

the US there’s stereotype called Minnesota nice I definitely fit that

Minnesota nice I definitely fit that

Minnesota nice I definitely fit that stereotype by saying in the bottom its

stereotype by saying in the bottom its

stereotype by saying in the bottom its of oh I’m so sorry enough thank you very

of oh I’m so sorry enough thank you very

of oh I’m so sorry enough thank you very very much it please and thank yous

very much it please and thank yous

very much it please and thank yous always looking directly in the eyes

always looking directly in the eyes

always looking directly in the eyes speaking at a clarity involved best fit

speaking at a clarity involved best fit

speaking at a clarity involved best fit for the person i addressing basically

for the person i addressing basically

for the person i addressing basically just being a complete and utter a people

just being a complete and utter a people

just being a complete and utter a people pleaser and making sure not to offend

pleaser and making sure not to offend

pleaser and making sure not to offend edit and pushed it in the roof no one

edit and pushed it in the roof no one

edit and pushed it in the roof no one really hadn’t told you with both of us

really hadn’t told you with both of us

really hadn’t told you with both of us it occurs because in the u.s. didn’t

it occurs because in the u.s. didn’t

it occurs because in the u.s. didn’t abled me to connect to communicate their

abled me to connect to communicate their

abled me to connect to communicate their iniquity but when i came to india i felt

iniquity but when i came to india i felt

iniquity but when i came to india i felt like letting it I didn’t know what to do

like letting it I didn’t know what to do

like letting it I didn’t know what to do I was an outsider I couldn’t even do the

I was an outsider I couldn’t even do the

I was an outsider I couldn’t even do the simplest of activities such as using the

simplest of activities such as using the

simplest of activities such as using the bathroom eating food also a Minnesotan

bathroom eating food also a Minnesotan

bathroom eating food also a Minnesotan next trade i had the same height anybody

next trade i had the same height anybody

next trade i had the same height anybody in the streets this was easy with my

in the streets this was easy with my

in the streets this was easy with my 100,000 population rochester minnesota

100,000 population rochester minnesota

100,000 population rochester minnesota home town but coming to the raw with a 1

home town but coming to the raw with a 1

home town but coming to the raw with a 1 plus million population you can imagine

plus million population you can imagine

plus million population you can imagine what obstacles would create so how did i

what obstacles would create so how did i

what obstacles would create so how did i go about addressing people the who did I

go about addressing people the who did I

go about addressing people the who did I called ed or higher on to your

called ed or higher on to your

called ed or higher on to your or the long chain of games allotted to

or the long chain of games allotted to

or the long chain of games allotted to relatives I can’t tell you how many

relatives I can’t tell you how many

relatives I can’t tell you how many times I called a young lady auntie too

times I called a young lady auntie too

times I called a young lady auntie too soon in their lifetime or how many times

soon in their lifetime or how many times

soon in their lifetime or how many times I addressed an adult by the first name

I addressed an adult by the first name

I addressed an adult by the first name because that’s how they introduced

because that’s how they introduced

because that’s how they introduced themselves I come to love and respect

themselves I come to love and respect

themselves I come to love and respect that is titled bit if they give respect

that is titled bit if they give respect

that is titled bit if they give respect in whether that’s a rickshaw payout or

in whether that’s a rickshaw payout or

in whether that’s a rickshaw payout or as he should call me babe I will never

as he should call me babe I will never

as he should call me babe I will never forget the time when I walked onto my

forget the time when I walked onto my

forget the time when I walked onto my school bus and little kids were pulling

school bus and little kids were pulling

school bus and little kids were pulling on I could buy my hands screaming DD at

on I could buy my hands screaming DD at

on I could buy my hands screaming DD at the top of their wounds or when I most

the top of their wounds or when I most

the top of their wounds or when I most blow during Diwali turned to me and

blow during Diwali turned to me and

blow during Diwali turned to me and called me Baba the fireworks bursting in

called me Baba the fireworks bursting in

called me Baba the fireworks bursting in the bathroom these titles give a lot of

the bathroom these titles give a lot of

the bathroom these titles give a lot of respect love and gratitude instead of

respect love and gratitude instead of

respect love and gratitude instead of just spinning up words thank you next

just spinning up words thank you next

just spinning up words thank you next how do I address aboard figures I was

how do I address aboard figures I was

how do I address aboard figures I was taught ever since I was going to

taught ever since I was going to

taught ever since I was going to question results because that’s showed

question results because that’s showed

question results because that’s showed that I was mature enough to carry an

that I was mature enough to carry an

that I was mature enough to carry an education but carry an educated

education but carry an educated

education but carry an educated conversation and or debate which would

conversation and or debate which would

conversation and or debate which would lead me to a better understanding again

lead me to a better understanding again

lead me to a better understanding again you can imagine how many respected

you can imagine how many respected

you can imagine how many respected people I deeply offended for doing what

people I deeply offended for doing what

people I deeply offended for doing what I thought was right and even what they

I thought was right and even what they

I thought was right and even what they wanted after offending what I felt like

wanted after offending what I felt like

wanted after offending what I felt like every single

every single

every single India I thought there was no way I’d

India I thought there was no way I’d

India I thought there was no way I’d ever need any neural connections these

ever need any neural connections these

ever need any neural connections these people around me from such a straight

people around me from such a straight

people around me from such a straight play but once my carers realize that I

play but once my carers realize that I

play but once my carers realize that I don’t mind and that in fact my vocals

don’t mind and that in fact my vocals

don’t mind and that in fact my vocals are not a disease they welcomed me with

are not a disease they welcomed me with

are not a disease they welcomed me with generous and caring arms think that

generous and caring arms think that

generous and caring arms think that information about my surrounding culture

information about my surrounding culture

information about my surrounding culture that notebook could have ever taught me

that notebook could have ever taught me

that notebook could have ever taught me so cheers to a communication adjustment

so cheers to a communication adjustment

so cheers to a communication adjustment to the kids that let me sit next to them

to the kids that let me sit next to them

to the kids that let me sit next to them at lunch so I didn’t look like a

at lunch so I didn’t look like a

at lunch so I didn’t look like a complete loner or to the students that

complete loner or to the students that

complete loner or to the students that got me involved in their activities

got me involved in their activities

got me involved in their activities already because the kids that just

already because the kids that just

already because the kids that just shouted across the hall just to say

shouted across the hall just to say

shouted across the hall just to say about them or hello let me say thick I

about them or hello let me say thick I

about them or hello let me say thick I know those magic words may seem empty

know those magic words may seem empty

know those magic words may seem empty and overused in any language but it is

and overused in any language but it is

and overused in any language but it is the only thing I can say to show my

the only thing I can say to show my

the only thing I can say to show my appreciation for making me feel at home

appreciation for making me feel at home

appreciation for making me feel at home the small decision you made to change

the small decision you made to change

the small decision you made to change your everyday cycle and in a foreigner

your everyday cycle and in a foreigner

your everyday cycle and in a foreigner has impacted your life and hopefully a

has impacted your life and hopefully a

has impacted your life and hopefully a positive way for me it was the only

positive way for me it was the only

positive way for me it was the only reason I needed to keep on learning and

reason I needed to keep on learning and

reason I needed to keep on learning and adjusting to a new culture now the real

adjusting to a new culture now the real

adjusting to a new culture now the real challenge actually comes with adaptive

challenge actually comes with adaptive

challenge actually comes with adaptive change is the outcome and the reward for

change is the outcome and the reward for

change is the outcome and the reward for the gruesome telogen adapting ever since

the gruesome telogen adapting ever since

the gruesome telogen adapting ever since the beginning of time we as humans have

the beginning of time we as humans have

the beginning of time we as humans have been adapting I mean it may seem

been adapting I mean it may seem

been adapting I mean it may seem difficult confusing overwhelming but

difficult confusing overwhelming but

difficult confusing overwhelming but adapting is a necklace as Charles Darwin

adapting is a necklace as Charles Darwin

adapting is a necklace as Charles Darwin once dated it is not the strongest of

once dated it is not the strongest of

once dated it is not the strongest of the species that survives nor the most

the species that survives nor the most

the species that survives nor the most intelligent it is the one most adaptable

intelligent it is the one most adaptable

intelligent it is the one most adaptable to change

to change

to change [Music]

[Music]

[Music] so now I know that adapting is so

so now I know that adapting is so

so now I know that adapting is so important we have to recognize the fact

important we have to recognize the fact

important we have to recognize the fact that napping is the only way for us and

that napping is the only way for us and

that napping is the only way for us and in forward in this world that is

in forward in this world that is

in forward in this world that is changing faster than ever with cultures

changing faster than ever with cultures

changing faster than ever with cultures molding together through peaceful

molding together through peaceful

molding together through peaceful programs such as student exchange

programs such as student exchange

programs such as student exchange decided to apply to this challenge

decided to apply to this challenge

decided to apply to this challenge believe you in four months with a new

believe you in four months with a new

believe you in four months with a new beautiful school a whopping host family

beautiful school a whopping host family

beautiful school a whopping host family friends and community that we love will

friends and community that we love will

friends and community that we love will support me no matter how many changes or

support me no matter how many changes or

support me no matter how many changes or adaptations I endure through this life

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