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The Root of Tomorrow | Adrian Caldarola | TEDxQueensU


before I start I’d like to invite

before I start I’d like to invite everyone to close their eyes and just

everyone to close their eyes and just

everyone to close their eyes and just listen humans are pretty jealous

listen humans are pretty jealous

listen humans are pretty jealous creatures naturally I suppose for every

creatures naturally I suppose for every

creatures naturally I suppose for every situation we find ourselves in we

situation we find ourselves in we

situation we find ourselves in we compare now why we compare I can’t

compare now why we compare I can’t

compare now why we compare I can’t explain but I have noticed a few things

explain but I have noticed a few things

explain but I have noticed a few things when our comparisons favour us that

when our comparisons favour us that

when our comparisons favour us that feeling of superiority is brief however

feeling of superiority is brief however

feeling of superiority is brief however when it’s reversed and we feel inferior

when it’s reversed and we feel inferior

when it’s reversed and we feel inferior that feeling of jealousy like your

that feeling of jealousy like your

that feeling of jealousy like your in-laws stays far too long because yeah

in-laws stays far too long because yeah

in-laws stays far too long because yeah you understand their significance but

you understand their significance but

you understand their significance but maybe it’s time they should leave I

maybe it’s time they should leave I

maybe it’s time they should leave I fallen victim to this to comparing

fallen victim to this to comparing

fallen victim to this to comparing myself to peers far more successful than

myself to peers far more successful than

myself to peers far more successful than I would have worked much harder we tend

I would have worked much harder we tend

I would have worked much harder we tend to place too much of an emphasis on end

to place too much of an emphasis on end

to place too much of an emphasis on end results rather than processes so when we

results rather than processes so when we

results rather than processes so when we see someone we’re jealous of we look for

see someone we’re jealous of we look for

see someone we’re jealous of we look for the quickest way to get there trying to

the quickest way to get there trying to

the quickest way to get there trying to take one big step to achieve what others

take one big step to achieve what others

take one big step to achieve what others did in 15 failing to realize those 15

did in 15 failing to realize those 15

did in 15 failing to realize those 15 steps molded them into who they are now

steps molded them into who they are now

steps molded them into who they are now maybe it’s a societal problem we look

maybe it’s a societal problem we look

maybe it’s a societal problem we look for quick fixes and shortcuts to success

for quick fixes and shortcuts to success

for quick fixes and shortcuts to success as if hard work and time are synonymous

as if hard work and time are synonymous

as if hard work and time are synonymous with failure turn on the news to hear

with failure turn on the news to hear

with failure turn on the news to hear about an overnight success forgetting to

about an overnight success forgetting to

about an overnight success forgetting to mention the thousands of hours and

mention the thousands of hours and

mention the thousands of hours and sacrifices they made to get to where

sacrifices they made to get to where

sacrifices they made to get to where they are now we’re a product of the

they are now we’re a product of the

they are now we’re a product of the environment a product of instant

environment a product of instant

environment a product of instant gratification filling the void of deep

gratification filling the void of deep

gratification filling the void of deep meaningful relationships subsequently

meaningful relationships subsequently

meaningful relationships subsequently rendering us incapable of forging the

rendering us incapable of forging the

rendering us incapable of forging the ladder a wise man once said success is

ladder a wise man once said success is

ladder a wise man once said success is like a mountain we become so focused on

like a mountain we become so focused on

like a mountain we become so focused on the peak we forget we actually have to

the peak we forget we actually have to

the peak we forget we actually have to climb it I know far too many peers who

climb it I know far too many peers who

climb it I know far too many peers who don’t find fulfilment in their careers

don’t find fulfilment in their careers

don’t find fulfilment in their careers due to the lack of impact they wish to

due to the lack of impact they wish to

due to the lack of impact they wish to bring in just a year we’ve become so

bring in just a year we’ve become so

bring in just a year we’ve become so hooked on this drug of instant

hooked on this drug of instant

hooked on this drug of instant gratification and social medias the

gratification and social medias the

gratification and social medias the dealer always looking for another hit we

dealer always looking for another hit we

dealer always looking for another hit we post and wait post and wait post and

post and wait post and wait post and

post and wait post and wait post and wait but do we care about what we’re

wait but do we care about what we’re

wait but do we care about what we’re posting or are we just seeking

posting or are we just seeking

posting or are we just seeking validation to fit in

validation to fit in

validation to fit in we look forward to the next high so much

we look forward to the next high so much

we look forward to the next high so much we’re slowly forgetting about today

we’re slowly forgetting about today

we’re slowly forgetting about today subconsciously telling our minds

subconsciously telling our minds

subconsciously telling our minds fulfillment is five seconds away which

fulfillment is five seconds away which

fulfillment is five seconds away which is much easier than earning trust and

is much easier than earning trust and

is much easier than earning trust and developing habitual processes through

developing habitual processes through

developing habitual processes through hard work and failure my mum would be

hard work and failure my mum would be

hard work and failure my mum would be disappointed if I didn’t put my

disappointed if I didn’t put my

disappointed if I didn’t put my economics degree to use so here it goes

economics degree to use so here it goes

economics degree to use so here it goes we’re using short-run variables for a

we’re using short-run variables for a

we’re using short-run variables for a long-run equation we want everything to

long-run equation we want everything to

long-run equation we want everything to happen now as a result of living in a

happen now as a result of living in a

happen now as a result of living in a world where fabricated feelings of joy

world where fabricated feelings of joy

world where fabricated feelings of joy and fulfillment are one click away being

and fulfillment are one click away being

and fulfillment are one click away being present is fundamental but so is living

present is fundamental but so is living

present is fundamental but so is living sustainably we focus so much on the end

sustainably we focus so much on the end

sustainably we focus so much on the end result we forget about the process

result we forget about the process

result we forget about the process entirely so the next time we feel

entirely so the next time we feel

entirely so the next time we feel inferior

inferior

inferior we shouldn’t wallow or look for quick

we shouldn’t wallow or look for quick

we shouldn’t wallow or look for quick fixes just take it back to square one

fixes just take it back to square one

fixes just take it back to square one and build thank you

and build thank you

and build thank you [Applause]

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