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The Power of Silence | Neal Gittleman | TEDxDayton


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let me guess what you’re thinking oh he

let me guess what you’re thinking oh he is nervous he forgot what he’s gotta say

is nervous he forgot what he’s gotta say

is nervous he forgot what he’s gotta say TEDx Dayton’s first epic fail no no I

TEDx Dayton’s first epic fail no no I

TEDx Dayton’s first epic fail no no I sure hope not we just experienced the

sure hope not we just experienced the

sure hope not we just experienced the power of silence in this case the power

power of silence in this case the power

power of silence in this case the power of silence to make us uncomfortable

of silence to make us uncomfortable

of silence to make us uncomfortable we don’t really like silence that’s why

we don’t really like silence that’s why

we don’t really like silence that’s why we fill it with background music with

we fill it with background music with

we fill it with background music with talk radio with cat videos with podcasts

talk radio with cat videos with podcasts

talk radio with cat videos with podcasts and playlists but there isn’t enough

and playlists but there isn’t enough

and playlists but there isn’t enough silence in our lives our lives are too

silence in our lives our lives are too

silence in our lives our lives are too filled with noise too filled with

filled with noise too filled with

filled with noise too filled with distractions too filled with stuff

silence is nature’s beautiful antidote

silence is nature’s beautiful antidote to all that craziness I’m a conductor

to all that craziness I’m a conductor

to all that craziness I’m a conductor surrounded by music the opposite of

surrounded by music the opposite of

surrounded by music the opposite of silence but every piece of music I

silence but every piece of music I

silence but every piece of music I conduct begins from silence and ends

conduct begins from silence and ends

conduct begins from silence and ends into silence it’s crazy but I conducted

into silence it’s crazy but I conducted

into silence it’s crazy but I conducted orchestras for more than 30 years before

orchestras for more than 30 years before

orchestras for more than 30 years before I ever realized that and I never truly

I ever realized that and I never truly

I ever realized that and I never truly appreciated the real power of silence

appreciated the real power of silence

appreciated the real power of silence until three years ago when I went on a

until three years ago when I went on a

until three years ago when I went on a five-day retreat at the Abbey of Our

five-day retreat at the Abbey of Our

five-day retreat at the Abbey of Our Lady of Gethsemane near Bardstown

Lady of Gethsemane near Bardstown

Lady of Gethsemane near Bardstown Kentucky Gethsemane is a Cistercian

Kentucky Gethsemane is a Cistercian

Kentucky Gethsemane is a Cistercian monastery founded in 1848 it’s perhaps

monastery founded in 1848 it’s perhaps

monastery founded in 1848 it’s perhaps best known as the home of the great

best known as the home of the great

best known as the home of the great philosopher monk Thomas Merton silence

philosopher monk Thomas Merton silence

philosopher monk Thomas Merton silence is an integral part of a monk’s life at

is an integral part of a monk’s life at

is an integral part of a monk’s life at the Abbey

the Abbey

the Abbey the monks use silence as a tool to focus

the monks use silence as a tool to focus

the monks use silence as a tool to focus their attention inward to prayer and

their attention inward to prayer and

their attention inward to prayer and outward to work among other things they

outward to work among other things they

outward to work among other things they make killer fudge some batches even

make killer fudge some batches even

make killer fudge some batches even flavoured some batch is even flavored

flavoured some batch is even flavored

flavoured some batch is even flavored with good old

with good old

with good old Kentucky Bourbon but the monks aren’t

Kentucky Bourbon but the monks aren’t

Kentucky Bourbon but the monks aren’t completely silent seven times a day they

completely silent seven times a day they

completely silent seven times a day they come together in Gethsemane a church to

come together in Gethsemane a church to

come together in Gethsemane a church to sing songs

sing songs

sing songs [Music]

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every two weeks they sing their way

every two weeks they sing their way through all 150 Psalms and then they

through all 150 Psalms and then they

through all 150 Psalms and then they start all over again so how did an

start all over again so how did an

start all over again so how did an agnostic Jewish conductor find himself

agnostic Jewish conductor find himself

agnostic Jewish conductor find himself on a five-day retreat where he sang

on a five-day retreat where he sang

on a five-day retreat where he sang Psalms seven times a day with a bunch of

Psalms seven times a day with a bunch of

Psalms seven times a day with a bunch of otherwise silent Trappist monks first of

otherwise silent Trappist monks first of

otherwise silent Trappist monks first of all like many people I had read some

all like many people I had read some

all like many people I had read some Thomas Merton and I found his takes on

Thomas Merton and I found his takes on

Thomas Merton and I found his takes on life religion and humanity deeply

life religion and humanity deeply

life religion and humanity deeply fascinating second I fell in love with

fascinating second I fell in love with

fascinating second I fell in love with the chant liturgy when I was a freshman

the chant liturgy when I was a freshman

the chant liturgy when I was a freshman in college first semester music history

in college first semester music history

in college first semester music history is basically the story of music in the

is basically the story of music in the

is basically the story of music in the early Roman Catholic Church and one of

early Roman Catholic Church and one of

early Roman Catholic Church and one of the first things you learn about is the

the first things you learn about is the

the first things you learn about is the monastic life and the chants and songs

monastic life and the chants and songs

monastic life and the chants and songs that monks sing as part of their daily

that monks sing as part of their daily

that monks sing as part of their daily routine so three years ago when I was

routine so three years ago when I was

routine so three years ago when I was about to go into rehearsals for Dayton

about to go into rehearsals for Dayton

about to go into rehearsals for Dayton operas production of Aida I was looking

operas production of Aida I was looking

operas production of Aida I was looking for a place where I could get away for a

for a place where I could get away for a

for a place where I could get away for a few days clear my head and just study

few days clear my head and just study

few days clear my head and just study the Opera and I realized that the answer

the Opera and I realized that the answer

the Opera and I realized that the answer was three and a half hours south of

was three and a half hours south of

was three and a half hours south of Dayton at Gethsemane one of the most

Dayton at Gethsemane one of the most

Dayton at Gethsemane one of the most powerful experiences I had during that

powerful experiences I had during that

powerful experiences I had during that first retreat to the abbey was running

first retreat to the abbey was running

first retreat to the abbey was running into an old friend of mine

into an old friend of mine

into an old friend of mine Don Hawke retired first trombone of the

Don Hawke retired first trombone of the

Don Hawke retired first trombone of the Milwaukee Symphony Orchestra someone I

Milwaukee Symphony Orchestra someone I

Milwaukee Symphony Orchestra someone I hadn’t seen in more than 10 years Don

hadn’t seen in more than 10 years Don

hadn’t seen in more than 10 years Don and I found ourselves sitting next to

and I found ourselves sitting next to

and I found ourselves sitting next to each other at lunch one day eating in

each other at lunch one day eating in

each other at lunch one day eating in silence and gazing out at the

silence and gazing out at the

silence and gazing out at the incomparable beauty of late winter

incomparable beauty of late winter

incomparable beauty of late winter turning into early spring we didn’t say

turning into early spring we didn’t say

turning into early spring we didn’t say a word

a word

a word but the silence we shared was amazing

but the silence we shared was amazing

but the silence we shared was amazing you’d think after all those years we’d

you’d think after all those years we’d

you’d think after all those years we’d have lots to talk about and we did later

have lots to talk about and we did later

have lots to talk about and we did later on we got together on a bench outside

on we got together on a bench outside

on we got together on a bench outside the Abbey to catch up and reminisce but

the Abbey to catch up and reminisce but

the Abbey to catch up and reminisce but somehow

somehow

somehow I felt as if we said more to each other

I felt as if we said more to each other

I felt as if we said more to each other during that wordless lunch then when we

during that wordless lunch then when we

during that wordless lunch then when we actually spoke and that’s when I

actually spoke and that’s when I

actually spoke and that’s when I realized for the first time the true

realized for the first time the true

realized for the first time the true power of silence silence of course is an

power of silence silence of course is an

power of silence silence of course is an important element of music to music is

important element of music to music is

important element of music to music is made up of notes but when there aren’t

made up of notes but when there aren’t

made up of notes but when there aren’t notes there are rests and every rest is

notes there are rests and every rest is

notes there are rests and every rest is a silence musical silences can be quite

a silence musical silences can be quite

a silence musical silences can be quite short here’s the shortest one I know the

short here’s the shortest one I know the

short here’s the shortest one I know the silence that begins Beethoven’s fifth

silence that begins Beethoven’s fifth

silence that begins Beethoven’s fifth symphony fourteen one hundredths of a

symphony fourteen one hundredths of a

symphony fourteen one hundredths of a second

second

second it’s the tiny sliver of time between

it’s the tiny sliver of time between

it’s the tiny sliver of time between when you first see the next slide and

when you first see the next slide and

when you first see the next slide and when you first hear the music for me

when you first hear the music for me

when you first hear the music for me that itty-bitty little silence is like

that itty-bitty little silence is like

that itty-bitty little silence is like the instant of the Big Bang setting off

the instant of the Big Bang setting off

the instant of the Big Bang setting off an explosion that creates an entire

an explosion that creates an entire

an explosion that creates an entire musical universe now if that’s maybe the

musical universe now if that’s maybe the

musical universe now if that’s maybe the shortest silence in all of music this is

shortest silence in all of music this is

shortest silence in all of music this is probably the longest four minutes and 33

probably the longest four minutes and 33

probably the longest four minutes and 33 seconds by the bad boy of classical

seconds by the bad boy of classical

seconds by the bad boy of classical music John Cage I think this is the most

music John Cage I think this is the most

music John Cage I think this is the most important piece of music of the 20th

important piece of music of the 20th

important piece of music of the 20th century and I know it’s the most

century and I know it’s the most

century and I know it’s the most misunderstood that’s because four

misunderstood that’s because four

misunderstood that’s because four minutes and 33 seconds is really four

minutes and 33 seconds is really four

minutes and 33 seconds is really four minutes and 33 seconds of silence but

minutes and 33 seconds of silence but

minutes and 33 seconds of silence but it’s no joke Cage was dead serious when

it’s no joke Cage was dead serious when

it’s no joke Cage was dead serious when he wrote it in 1952 for pianist David

he wrote it in 1952 for pianist David

he wrote it in 1952 for pianist David tutor who premiered it at the Maverick

tutor who premiered it at the Maverick

tutor who premiered it at the Maverick concert hall in Woodstock New York

concert hall in Woodstock New York

concert hall in Woodstock New York maverick is an amazing building with

maverick is an amazing building with

maverick is an amazing building with walls open to the outside so when David

walls open to the outside so when David

walls open to the outside so when David Tudor sat at the piano for 4 minutes and

Tudor sat at the piano for 4 minutes and

Tudor sat at the piano for 4 minutes and 33 seconds and never played a note there

33 seconds and never played a note there

33 seconds and never played a note there wasn’t silence the audience could hear

wasn’t silence the audience could hear

wasn’t silence the audience could hear the sounds of

the sounds of

the sounds of danger all around them and that’s what

danger all around them and that’s what

danger all around them and that’s what cage was after he wanted his audience to

cage was after he wanted his audience to

cage was after he wanted his audience to listen to four minutes and 33 seconds of

listen to four minutes and 33 seconds of

listen to four minutes and 33 seconds of the world with the same attention and

the world with the same attention and

the world with the same attention and the same concentration that they would

the same concentration that they would

the same concentration that they would normally devote to four and a half

normally devote to four and a half

normally devote to four and a half minutes of Mozart or Beethoven or Brahms

minutes of Mozart or Beethoven or Brahms

minutes of Mozart or Beethoven or Brahms when the piece is performed and it does

when the piece is performed and it does

when the piece is performed and it does get performed it’s usually done in three

get performed it’s usually done in three

get performed it’s usually done in three movements as David Tudor first played it

movements as David Tudor first played it

movements as David Tudor first played it this is what the sheet music looks like

this is what the sheet music looks like

this is what the sheet music looks like the first movement is thirty seconds of

the first movement is thirty seconds of

the first movement is thirty seconds of silence tacit is music lingo for don’t

silence tacit is music lingo for don’t

silence tacit is music lingo for don’t play then comes two minutes and 23

play then comes two minutes and 23

play then comes two minutes and 23 seconds of silence and finally one

seconds of silence and finally one

seconds of silence and finally one minute and 40 seconds of silence with

minute and 40 seconds of silence with

minute and 40 seconds of silence with the beginning and end of each movement

the beginning and end of each movement

the beginning and end of each movement marked by the opening and closing of the

marked by the opening and closing of the

marked by the opening and closing of the piano lid now you know how they say

piano lid now you know how they say

piano lid now you know how they say there’s an app for that well there’s an

there’s an app for that well there’s an

there’s an app for that well there’s an app for that

app for that

app for that an app that lets you record and then

an app that lets you record and then

an app that lets you record and then upload your own performances so let’s

upload your own performances so let’s

upload your own performances so let’s make TEDx Dayton History and record one

make TEDx Dayton History and record one

make TEDx Dayton History and record one on my iPhone right now we’re not in the

on my iPhone right now we’re not in the

on my iPhone right now we’re not in the Maverick concert hall with walls open to

Maverick concert hall with walls open to

Maverick concert hall with walls open to nature but we can try to create our own

nature but we can try to create our own

nature but we can try to create our own urban equivalent right now TEDx

urban equivalent right now TEDx

urban equivalent right now TEDx volunteers are going to start opening

volunteers are going to start opening

volunteers are going to start opening the doors to the theater

the doors to the theater

the doors to the theater not just the doors to the auditorium but

not just the doors to the auditorium but

not just the doors to the auditorium but also the doors to the outside that’s so

also the doors to the outside that’s so

also the doors to the outside that’s so we can let the sounds of the world

we can let the sounds of the world

we can let the sounds of the world around us join with the silence to focus

around us join with the silence to focus

around us join with the silence to focus our attention and our listening for

our attention and our listening for

our attention and our listening for minutes and 33 seconds is about going

minutes and 33 seconds is about going

minutes and 33 seconds is about going inside yourself like the monks and

inside yourself like the monks and

inside yourself like the monks and opening yourself up to the music of the

opening yourself up to the music of the

opening yourself up to the music of the world around you even if it’s cars and

world around you even if it’s cars and

world around you even if it’s cars and buses in the streets of Dayton Ohio so

buses in the streets of Dayton Ohio so

buses in the streets of Dayton Ohio so let’s do it

so what are the lessons we can learn

so what are the lessons we can learn from four minutes and 33 seconds besides

from four minutes and 33 seconds besides

from four minutes and 33 seconds besides the fact they’re a whole bunch of people

the fact they’re a whole bunch of people

the fact they’re a whole bunch of people talking in the lobby who missed my talk

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it doesn’t have to be four and a half

it doesn’t have to be four and a half minutes it’s hard start with maybe start

minutes it’s hard start with maybe start

minutes it’s hard start with maybe start with four seconds then try 33 seconds

with four seconds then try 33 seconds

with four seconds then try 33 seconds work your way up even a few moments of

work your way up even a few moments of

work your way up even a few moments of silence can make a real difference in

silence can make a real difference in

silence can make a real difference in your life

your life

your life calming your soul and opening your

calming your soul and opening your

calming your soul and opening your perception when silence does find you

perception when silence does find you

perception when silence does find you try not to fill it as we continue our

try not to fill it as we continue our

try not to fill it as we continue our day of listening here at TEDx dating

day of listening here at TEDx dating

day of listening here at TEDx dating let’s try to have the experience of four

let’s try to have the experience of four

let’s try to have the experience of four minutes and 33 seconds in form the way

minutes and 33 seconds in form the way

minutes and 33 seconds in form the way we listen the rest of the day don’t sit

we listen the rest of the day don’t sit

we listen the rest of the day don’t sit back and relax sit up and listen like

back and relax sit up and listen like

back and relax sit up and listen like your life depends on it

your life depends on it

your life depends on it I’ll leave you with one final beautiful

I’ll leave you with one final beautiful

I’ll leave you with one final beautiful bit of serendipity three years ago when

bit of serendipity three years ago when

bit of serendipity three years ago when I went on that first retreat to

I went on that first retreat to

I went on that first retreat to Gethsemane Abbey my wife did me a favor

Gethsemane Abbey my wife did me a favor

Gethsemane Abbey my wife did me a favor and packed my suitcase for me I didn’t

and packed my suitcase for me I didn’t

and packed my suitcase for me I didn’t look at it till I got there and when I

look at it till I got there and when I

look at it till I got there and when I opened my suitcase I found this my four

opened my suitcase I found this my four

opened my suitcase I found this my four minutes and 33 seconds t-shirt Lisa had

minutes and 33 seconds t-shirt Lisa had

minutes and 33 seconds t-shirt Lisa had no idea what it was or how significant

no idea what it was or how significant

no idea what it was or how significant it was for her it was just a nice clean

it was for her it was just a nice clean

it was for her it was just a nice clean t-shirt somewhere near the top of the

t-shirt somewhere near the top of the

t-shirt somewhere near the top of the pile but before I left the Abbey to

pile but before I left the Abbey to

pile but before I left the Abbey to return to Dayton and Aida and the hubbub

return to Dayton and Aida and the hubbub

return to Dayton and Aida and the hubbub of everyday life

of everyday life

of everyday life I put on the shirt went outside the

I put on the shirt went outside the

I put on the shirt went outside the entrance to the retreat house and took

entrance to the retreat house and took

entrance to the retreat house and took my first-ever selfie

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