Well, I tell you that I have three children and
Capaci faith and good that my house today
with me accompanying me so for
I’m honored and I tell you how good
what brings me here is feve because fede
reality a very controlled pregnancy
dearly awaited for all of us
for the whole family for all the friends
but good
suddenly feve wanted to come to the world a
unexpectedly because suddenly of
contractions and you will say what
difference there are contractions but for
I was very different because you see today
is 13 years old but in the year 2004 that
they wanted to do in the month of December
I had to make the December video the
contractions were the month of
September
then it’s six times
pregnancies or contractions the beam
imagine today the gynecologist tells me
Mom, you have to take care of anything
they said can not be can not be that
would encompass river but if it becomes
in December
how are they going to close September then
it waits for its time we waited an hour
also husband and I told my wife
look what Fede are going to do today was going to be
dad because I being the contractions
more and more and more followed
then cash but the doctor
I did not find happy because it was
she was fitted down wanted
Come to the world, give way to an hour
between arriving at the sanatorium and
was born faith of whom the second many
uncertainties many fears schiffer the
beginning
survive to
nobody teaches you to be a dad and a
premature baby mom no books
for that they are always in
sanatoriums and hospitals is taught
everything I know what childbirth is but
nobody teach you your baby can be
before time you can can
survive or not a birth
premature and there we hold on to
we as parents
At that time, the doctor was told that
you will be able to see what will happen with
my son said he will survive is
formed has all the fear to blame
the uncertainty also the joy
because much expected federation is very
wanted and everything came together to a minute of
time between who was in the room
birth and fede with the strength that
characteristic to this day
was born by normal delivery and at that time
I want to show you that the head of
feve and the beautiful return of this farm
well and I could not believe it because
good at that time was this had the
strength to emit a saint a moan
and I will never forget the words of the
nurse who said he went further and
now yes strong because this one could
you will cry then simple be the
they will take you to the hall to the
room at that time I just wanted to see
so I got to I went to see him at
incubator was full of cables it
I was full of a lot of energy to live
of great strength and it was like the
Zapallito that you see here is
malito that is very small but that
It has all the strength and all the claw
to cling to life and in that
moment was twice and a little
incubator dodging everything it can
have a premature as well as feve
nations 27 weeks and 970 grams
imagine that almost like the
size of a hand
imagine a liter of milk
3 kilos of copper cable and the
feeling that we could not create it
draw all that is necessary to
his life until today and
reality what brings me here is that
when he spent the first year of life of
feve the first year of life of faith of cd
actually he could get around everything and I
I said good that happens here in Uruguay
I am the only premature mother and father
more than we are in the unit
neonatal
then I started pumping and I said no
here it can not be that Uruguay is going to
other premature parents who have passed
for the same reason that we passed because
it’s an unknown world I do not know if
it happens to you but for us and
then at that moment it is to speak and I said
good ruin of uruguay reign of
approaching there is nothing or going and with a
group of parents we decided to form the
Uruguayan association of parents with children
premature and in turn I started to see
some data that called me a lot the
attention that one in 10 babies
They are born before time worldwide
worldwide prematurity is the
first cause of child mortality
under one year and the second in
videos under five years in Uruguay
born 4,200 prematures a year
this means that he was a priest of
the 37 weeks because that’s your baby
premature a baby that is born before
time before 37 weeks of
pregnancy
then with these data plus the
history of faith and the history of these
Uruguayan families
we said good let’s form this
association that as a first objective
first that is a social wealth without
for profit and that aims to
fundamental the theme of highlighting and
accompany the parents at the time
of the birth of a baby
I want to show you the impact that
have for all
this is the size of Spain yes
who has a premature baby to 49 500
grams that was saved does not wait the the
dress of faith that only here with only
30 centimeters with only 30
centimeters and so many parents that in
that moment assured
he is watching them
It is very shocking to have a baby
premature so we believed the the
most important function of the
association is that is to contain the
parents because we believe that there is no better
word and a father for another to have
gone through that moment then we
We approach the sanatoriums we approach
to hospitals to speak for those
parents to tell us to support them
We are a group of parents who provided us
We are accompanying the same place to
different places of uruguay and reality
this is how rich it is because
through facebook
we are on our page for awards
we reach many many families of the
Uruguay are far from the boat bidea
then we have many cases the case of
of lorenzo the case of the catch the fray
bentos that we have a mom
I lived which her daughter was born with 800
grams and quérote did not know where
resort until he searched and another to
prizes and for her the most precious
because we have a virtual contact without
know and support us of what
You can get to do everything all your
transit through the hospital because nothing is
easy for a father or for
families have a baby and is armed
was going to be these conditions that fight
every day between life and
death
look what Sougarret site is started and
cited efe
I could not believe also defender but
so so so so so firm and so strong to
the time and that ‘s the most important thing for
they
europe also what we do is
do your meetings we do talks with
all the professionals who come to
us the strength that this has
is the teaching of life you change the
parameters of your life forever
what you valued a way to
value otherwise the priorities
they are changing the struggles was changing and
bags of this one seemed like the most
important was your cessation leaving or something
Now the most important thing is that each
minute of your life because I fight
every minute of your life
then follow them you think
but this is a totally world
unknown here we have gerardo that
It is also part of the premium pa and in
where is that they see here is the method
for west wall where skin contact to
skin is the most important thing for
premature better players than the skin
of the father or the mother and that’s what
we are also seeing a pre
with the whole health system is the most
important to know that you press them
born and babies are the most
important to be together for the
skin to skin contact for growth
for its benefits there are not in all
families in uruguay this and that’s why
we are seeing that the
focused care on families more
important Europa Press
we are empowering those families and
because your son is the most important thing and
that all health personnel
understand also for the people of
interior is very difficult since there is no
Floral details throughout Uruguay and
on the other hand when he moved to
montevideo sometimes they do not have family and
they have it where to stay in some
places and the other club and very difficult
for transfers for the whole family
inland
when you have a premature baby and
he has children or more children in the
which has to clarify and on the other hand
it’s also important this is not that
when we have a hospitalized baby
parents need a place where
stay if sometimes late stairs to
sometimes they are with the bags thrown in
all sides and that’s a bit what
we must first change the Uruguay
give a lot of strength to newborns
and their families there are places to
all that is a drama also open
that parents can be there 24 hours
with your children not when the staff
want or when a nurse does not want
but there is a protocol between all
here we have for example when
we visited Fedra was baby and you
they see the gender size and the bne and the
baby was very tiny and everything had
that they were already holding them and and clothes and
that’s when we take them all or for
example now we have the in three crosses
in that union europe so now
are in crisis or your dad is just
in which the sounds are now
interned in the peace period he and
that we take everything and it is incredible
strength of parents
this what I want this to be them
wants to be clear today the strength of the
families the strength of the parents because
when one by europa press
we need this are we the
solidarity is impressive
it’s amazing how all the
uruguay then we invite you too
that you enter the page
facebook europa foresees that they join
our families join
us because we want to get there
to all the babies and in turn that is the
Tracking for us is very
important and also here is a father
see premature
the feeling this is to tell you that the
babies need a follow-up
Uruguay that there is not everywhere there
tracking equipment
then for us the most
important the attention acb but
also attention to the family and
tell why parents are
visits a total balance needed
that are heard and trained
if by the nursing staff for the
staff also the boss stories like
that there are big brothers that always
with wants to meet the baby that is
interned and according to the mama it gives me
able to spend five months taken and
the family does not know they know
the grandparents
they do not know her, the uncles do not know her
the armaditos then this can not be
you have to offer these locations
open where everyone can enter and
know your children and with this sea and
cough how see the size of this baby
premature who is fighting for his life
Today I want to tell you this poem
for this poem that a mom wrote
a reputation for premature also in the
which the other objectives very
identified very accompanied by this
poem
and that says well be mom or dad of a
premature baby is learning that the
children are when they want and not when the
plans to assemble the bag the bag has
practiced breathing for childbirth
it was not so important that motherhood
start with the most bitter tears and
you never imagined that you go to the rapper
that the first 24 hours of his life
spend the most important of your life
that the first time you saw your son
through a glass box instead
to use this conjuntito had bought
for the dress is full of cables
ways and other things that help her live
the joy of your day worth saying
saved some grams only to
incorporate words into your vocabulary
as a parenteral solution saturator
etcetera but being mom and dad of a
premature baby
It is also learning the squeeze of a
one centimeter expert has so much
strength doubtful that the forms
smaller ones to express love as a
caress a little arm in his chest to
reality are giants to value the
effort that means to me should
learn to eat alone and catch your
cry chest approach
is the most beautiful way to connect
skin to skin with your child and above all
learn is the true meaning of
love to life because it’s amazing the
strength with which these little ones
they cling to life and fight every day for
get ahead are small as you
hand but they fight like lions to get out
ahead
Dad or Mom to be premature baby is
learn to wait to enjoy what
better that he could give us his life for his son
thank you very much
[Applause]
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