Press "Enter" to skip to content

The New Way To Get Happy | Samantha Ettus | TEDxStLouisWomen


my path to understanding happiness began

my path to understanding happiness began when I arrived at Harvard Business

when I arrived at Harvard Business

when I arrived at Harvard Business School in 2000 we were asked to self

School in 2000 we were asked to self

School in 2000 we were asked to self divided into study groups that would

divided into study groups that would

divided into study groups that would meet each morning before school so I

meet each morning before school so I

meet each morning before school so I went up to the first group of students

went up to the first group of students

went up to the first group of students and asked if I could join them and they

and asked if I could join them and they

and asked if I could join them and they asked me about my accounting and Finance

asked me about my accounting and Finance

asked me about my accounting and Finance skills I had none I thought isn’t that

skills I had none I thought isn’t that

skills I had none I thought isn’t that what we’re here to learn then he went

what we’re here to learn then he went

what we’re here to learn then he went over to the next group and they let me

over to the next group and they let me

over to the next group and they let me in only the next day they kicked me out

in only the next day they kicked me out

in only the next day they kicked me out when they discovered they had too many

when they discovered they had too many

when they discovered they had too many people I soon realized that I was going

people I soon realized that I was going

people I soon realized that I was going to be the kid that got picked last in

to be the kid that got picked last in

to be the kid that got picked last in dodgeball every single time and that was

dodgeball every single time and that was

dodgeball every single time and that was my intro to business school and let me

my intro to business school and let me

my intro to business school and let me tell you getting picked last as an adult

tell you getting picked last as an adult

tell you getting picked last as an adult hurts just as much as it did in the

hurts just as much as it did in the

hurts just as much as it did in the fourth grade

fourth grade

fourth grade this continued for a while until I found

this continued for a while until I found

this continued for a while until I found three other students and our unlikely

three other students and our unlikely

three other students and our unlikely lot became a study group of misfits but

lot became a study group of misfits but

lot became a study group of misfits but there was something that I was really

there was something that I was really

there was something that I was really good at I could spot the CEOs who came

good at I could spot the CEOs who came

good at I could spot the CEOs who came through to speak to us I could spot the

through to speak to us I could spot the

through to speak to us I could spot the ones was a spark beyond their job title

ones was a spark beyond their job title

ones was a spark beyond their job title and with my peers there were so many of

and with my peers there were so many of

and with my peers there were so many of them that were passed over as uncool or

them that were passed over as uncool or

them that were passed over as uncool or unusual and I could spot the stars among

unusual and I could spot the stars among

unusual and I could spot the stars among us so upon graduating I will tell you

us so upon graduating I will tell you

us so upon graduating I will tell you that anytime to this day that someone

that anytime to this day that someone

that anytime to this day that someone mentions just kind of cash flow I get

mentions just kind of cash flow I get

mentions just kind of cash flow I get hives but if you mention if you mention

hives but if you mention if you mention

hives but if you mention if you mention leadership I get goosebumps I’m going to

leadership I get goosebumps I’m going to

leadership I get goosebumps I’m going to take a sip of water

much better thank you soap on graduation

much better thank you soap on graduation I started a firm to focus on those CEOs

I started a firm to focus on those CEOs

I started a firm to focus on those CEOs and executives who came through the ones

and executives who came through the ones

and executives who came through the ones with the spark and my timing couldn’t

with the spark and my timing couldn’t

with the spark and my timing couldn’t have been better I launched a branding

have been better I launched a branding

have been better I launched a branding firm where I help them with their

firm where I help them with their

firm where I help them with their speeches and their press and everything

speeches and their press and everything

speeches and their press and everything having to do with their personal brands

having to do with their personal brands

having to do with their personal brands and the best part was at the time it was

and the best part was at the time it was

and the best part was at the time it was the early 2000s and there was an

the early 2000s and there was an

the early 2000s and there was an explosion of media channels that all

explosion of media channels that all

explosion of media channels that all needed content for their cable news and

needed content for their cable news and

needed content for their cable news and the internet and so they needed these

the internet and so they needed these

the internet and so they needed these experts they needed the celebrity chef

experts they needed the celebrity chef

experts they needed the celebrity chef the celebrity CEO and that was who I’ve

the celebrity CEO and that was who I’ve

the celebrity CEO and that was who I’ve represented and this was the birth of

represented and this was the birth of

represented and this was the birth of personal branding pretty soon I became

personal branding pretty soon I became

personal branding pretty soon I became their chief confidants and that was my

their chief confidants and that was my

their chief confidants and that was my sweet spot The New Yorker and me didn’t

sweet spot The New Yorker and me didn’t

sweet spot The New Yorker and me didn’t just walk fast and talk fast I solved

just walk fast and talk fast I solved

just walk fast and talk fast I solved problems fast you know you standard

problems fast you know you standard

problems fast you know you standard hairstylist chair and you spill your

hairstylist chair and you spill your

hairstylist chair and you spill your dark deep secrets that was me it wasn’t

dark deep secrets that was me it wasn’t

dark deep secrets that was me it wasn’t just my job but it was my passion but

just my job but it was my passion but

just my job but it was my passion but after a while I noticed something no

after a while I noticed something no

after a while I noticed something no matter how hard these people worked

matter how hard these people worked

matter how hard these people worked there was something holding them back it

there was something holding them back it

there was something holding them back it was an invisible brick wall it wasn’t

was an invisible brick wall it wasn’t

was an invisible brick wall it wasn’t about more achievements or more press it

about more achievements or more press it

about more achievements or more press it was the other things going on in their

was the other things going on in their

was the other things going on in their life for the CEO it was a lost

life for the CEO it was a lost

life for the CEO it was a lost connection to her husband for the chef

connection to her husband for the chef

connection to her husband for the chef it was extreme loneliness for the

it was extreme loneliness for the

it was extreme loneliness for the Olympian it was parenting trouble and

Olympian it was parenting trouble and

Olympian it was parenting trouble and for the doctor it was financial stress

for the doctor it was financial stress

for the doctor it was financial stress it wasn’t about their workout routine or

it wasn’t about their workout routine or

it wasn’t about their workout routine or their leadership style it was about the

their leadership style it was about the

their leadership style it was about the other areas of their life

other areas of their life

other areas of their life it wasn’t about achievement it was about

it wasn’t about achievement it was about

it wasn’t about achievement it was about fulfillment they were leading on

fulfillment they were leading on

fulfillment they were leading on fulfilling lives

fulfilling lives

fulfilling lives aha so I had identified the problem well

aha so I had identified the problem well

aha so I had identified the problem well 15 years later 15 years of this journey

15 years later 15 years of this journey

15 years later 15 years of this journey I’ve now worked with thousands of people

I’ve now worked with thousands of people

I’ve now worked with thousands of people I’ve worked with administrative

I’ve worked with administrative

I’ve worked with administrative assistants and engineers people getting

assistants and engineers people getting

assistants and engineers people getting back into the workforce and recent

back into the workforce and recent

back into the workforce and recent college graduates and I have found that

college graduates and I have found that

college graduates and I have found that this problem stretches among all of us

this problem stretches among all of us

this problem stretches among all of us we say when he proposes I’ll be happy if

we say when he proposes I’ll be happy if

we say when he proposes I’ll be happy if I lose 10 pounds I’ll be happy if I

I lose 10 pounds I’ll be happy if I

I lose 10 pounds I’ll be happy if I could just afford that house I’ll be

could just afford that house I’ll be

could just afford that house I’ll be happy when I get into law school I’ll be

happy when I get into law school I’ll be

happy when I get into law school I’ll be happy we’re swimming to an ever moving

happy we’re swimming to an ever moving

happy we’re swimming to an ever moving buoy and this problem extends to the mom

buoy and this problem extends to the mom

buoy and this problem extends to the mom who / parents the dad who / coaches your

who / parents the dad who / coaches your

who / parents the dad who / coaches your workaholic boss we are all aiming for

workaholic boss we are all aiming for

workaholic boss we are all aiming for something that we can’t get to so what

something that we can’t get to so what

something that we can’t get to so what to do about it

to do about it

to do about it well here’s what I’ve learned this is

well here’s what I’ve learned this is

well here’s what I’ve learned this is not about achievements this is not about

not about achievements this is not about

not about achievements this is not about more accolades this is not about just

more accolades this is not about just

more accolades this is not about just focusing on one or two areas of your

focusing on one or two areas of your

focusing on one or two areas of your life so you can really perfect them it’s

life so you can really perfect them it’s

life so you can really perfect them it’s not about just working and working out

not about just working and working out

not about just working and working out it’s not about just being with your kids

it’s not about just being with your kids

it’s not about just being with your kids and your partner and focusing on them

and your partner and focusing on them

and your partner and focusing on them it’s about embracing all seven areas of

it’s about embracing all seven areas of

it’s about embracing all seven areas of your life your health your career your

your life your health your career your

your life your health your career your hobbies your community your friends and

hobbies your community your friends and

hobbies your community your friends and your relationship it’s about your family

your relationship it’s about your family

your relationship it’s about your family it’s about all seven slices the the most

it’s about all seven slices the the most

it’s about all seven slices the the most fulfilled people among us are those that

fulfilled people among us are those that

fulfilled people among us are those that are involved in all of those areas now

are involved in all of those areas now

are involved in all of those areas now when you hear that you might think sure

when you hear that you might think sure

when you hear that you might think sure of course career is super important I

of course career is super important I

of course career is super important I have to feed my family and health is

have to feed my family and health is

have to feed my family and health is really important but hobbies and friends

really important but hobbies and friends

really important but hobbies and friends and community well a 2006 study of

and community well a 2006 study of

and community well a 2006 study of breast cancer patients showed that those

breast cancer patients showed that those

breast cancer patients showed that those with 10 or more friends had a four times

with 10 or more friends had a four times

with 10 or more friends had a four times higher survival rate than those with

higher survival rate than those with

higher survival rate than those with less than 10 friends then they did the

less than 10 friends then they did the

less than 10 friends then they did the same study with partners

same study with partners

same study with partners and they found that partners had zero

and they found that partners had zero

and they found that partners had zero impact on survival rates now I’m not

impact on survival rates now I’m not

impact on survival rates now I’m not throwing your partners under the bus I

throwing your partners under the bus I

throwing your partners under the bus I am a little bit but your friends could

am a little bit but your friends could

am a little bit but your friends could save your life so say yes to that girls

save your life so say yes to that girls

save your life so say yes to that girls night out okay you’re doing it for your

night out okay you’re doing it for your

night out okay you’re doing it for your whole family and when it came to hobbies

whole family and when it came to hobbies

whole family and when it came to hobbies social scientists put heart monitors on

social scientists put heart monitors on

social scientists put heart monitors on a hundred people while they were doing

a hundred people while they were doing

a hundred people while they were doing their hobbies and they found that their

their hobbies and they found that their

their hobbies and they found that their heart rates dropped 34% while doing a

heart rates dropped 34% while doing a

heart rates dropped 34% while doing a hobby and their sadness levels dropped

hobby and their sadness levels dropped

hobby and their sadness levels dropped 18% and these effects lasted hours

18% and these effects lasted hours

18% and these effects lasted hours beyond the hobby they mirror the effects

beyond the hobby they mirror the effects

beyond the hobby they mirror the effects of exercise so there are no optional

of exercise so there are no optional

of exercise so there are no optional slices you need all of them but what’s

slices you need all of them but what’s

slices you need all of them but what’s holding us back well the media the media

holding us back well the media the media

holding us back well the media the media tells us that we should have a scale

tells us that we should have a scale

tells us that we should have a scale work-life balance but for a scale to be

work-life balance but for a scale to be

work-life balance but for a scale to be in balance you have to spend equal time

in balance you have to spend equal time

in balance you have to spend equal time at work and at home and if you have a

at work and at home and if you have a

at work and at home and if you have a thriving career you’re never doing that

thriving career you’re never doing that

thriving career you’re never doing that so you fail then we’re told to juggle

so you fail then we’re told to juggle

so you fail then we’re told to juggle who here has ever tried to have a

who here has ever tried to have a

who here has ever tried to have a conference call with a toddler in the

conference call with a toddler in the

conference call with a toddler in the room juggling is just not possible so we

room juggling is just not possible so we

room juggling is just not possible so we fail and then we’re told we can either

fail and then we’re told we can either

fail and then we’re told we can either have it all or we can have nothing again

have it all or we can have nothing again

have it all or we can have nothing again we fail anytime we are striving for an

we fail anytime we are striving for an

we fail anytime we are striving for an unattainable ideal were failing and that

unattainable ideal were failing and that

unattainable ideal were failing and that leads me to perfection we’ve all done it

leads me to perfection we’ve all done it

leads me to perfection we’ve all done it we see the woman in line ahead of us at

we see the woman in line ahead of us at

we see the woman in line ahead of us at Starbucks or in the playground or in the

Starbucks or in the playground or in the

Starbucks or in the playground or in the boardroom and we say she has a better

boardroom and we say she has a better

boardroom and we say she has a better life than I do

life than I do

life than I do she’s healthier wealthier she is a

she’s healthier wealthier she is a

she’s healthier wealthier she is a better career a better body a hotter

better career a better body a hotter

better career a better body a hotter husband’s a life I want but life is not

husband’s a life I want but life is not

husband’s a life I want but life is not an ala carte menu it’s a package deal

an ala carte menu it’s a package deal

an ala carte menu it’s a package deal and if you had her treasures you would

and if you had her treasures you would

and if you had her treasures you would also have her troubles if you had that

also have her troubles if you had that

also have her troubles if you had that body you might be battling melanoma if

body you might be battling melanoma if

body you might be battling melanoma if you had that career you might be

you had that career you might be

you had that career you might be involved in a three-year lawsuit so it’s

involved in a three-year lawsuit so it’s

involved in a three-year lawsuit so it’s not about

not about

not about iving for these other other people’s

iving for these other other people’s

iving for these other other people’s lives in the age of Facebook it’s easier

lives in the age of Facebook it’s easier

lives in the age of Facebook it’s easier than ever to compare our lives to other

than ever to compare our lives to other

than ever to compare our lives to other people’s highlight reels so what happens

people’s highlight reels so what happens

people’s highlight reels so what happens when we replace perfection with

when we replace perfection with

when we replace perfection with participation suddenly it’s about

participation suddenly it’s about

participation suddenly it’s about attendance in every slice it’s about

attendance in every slice it’s about

attendance in every slice it’s about going to dinner with a friend even if

going to dinner with a friend even if

going to dinner with a friend even if you’re leaving a messy house behind

you’re leaving a messy house behind

you’re leaving a messy house behind it’s about forgiving yourself for

it’s about forgiving yourself for

it’s about forgiving yourself for forgetting things and it’s about giving

forgetting things and it’s about giving

forgetting things and it’s about giving yourself permission to be imperfect

yourself permission to be imperfect

yourself permission to be imperfect we are finally giving you that

we are finally giving you that

we are finally giving you that participation trophy it’s just about

participation trophy it’s just about

participation trophy it’s just about showing up for every slice and if

showing up for every slice and if

showing up for every slice and if perfection has a partner it’s guilt if

perfection has a partner it’s guilt if

perfection has a partner it’s guilt if perfection is our roadblock to

perfection is our roadblock to

perfection is our roadblock to fulfillment guilt is a predator eating

fulfillment guilt is a predator eating

fulfillment guilt is a predator eating you alive of all the women I interviewed

you alive of all the women I interviewed

you alive of all the women I interviewed for my last book from Shonda Rhimes to

for my last book from Shonda Rhimes to

for my last book from Shonda Rhimes to Gayle King to sally Krawczyk they spent

Gayle King to sally Krawczyk they spent

Gayle King to sally Krawczyk they spent almost no time feeling guilty guilt is

almost no time feeling guilty guilt is

almost no time feeling guilty guilt is only a predator when you were with your

only a predator when you were with your

only a predator when you were with your friend last time you went out with a

friend last time you went out with a

friend last time you went out with a friend what if I told your friend only

friend what if I told your friend only

friend what if I told your friend only showed up out of guilt how would that

showed up out of guilt how would that

showed up out of guilt how would that make you feel any recipient of our

make you feel any recipient of our

make you feel any recipient of our guilty decision is a victim and it’s

guilty decision is a victim and it’s

guilty decision is a victim and it’s impossible to feel present when we’re

impossible to feel present when we’re

impossible to feel present when we’re feeling guilty if you’re at work but you

feeling guilty if you’re at work but you

feeling guilty if you’re at work but you feel like you really should be home then

feel like you really should be home then

feel like you really should be home then you’re not really present at work and if

you’re not really present at work and if

you’re not really present at work and if you are at home and you feel like you

you are at home and you feel like you

you are at home and you feel like you should really be on that conference call

should really be on that conference call

should really be on that conference call you’re not really present with your

you’re not really present with your

you’re not really present with your family I know this firsthand last year I

family I know this firsthand last year I

family I know this firsthand last year I was on my book tour it was November 1st

was on my book tour it was November 1st

was on my book tour it was November 1st and my daughter Ruby my middle child was

and my daughter Ruby my middle child was

and my daughter Ruby my middle child was home sick and you know how hard it is to

home sick and you know how hard it is to

home sick and you know how hard it is to leave a sick child behind but I got her

leave a sick child behind but I got her

leave a sick child behind but I got her settled and I got to the airport and I

settled and I got to the airport and I

settled and I got to the airport and I was determined to just focus 100% on my

was determined to just focus 100% on my

was determined to just focus 100% on my work I was going to Minneapolis so I get

work I was going to Minneapolis so I get

work I was going to Minneapolis so I get on the plane really focused and suddenly

on the plane really focused and suddenly

on the plane really focused and suddenly my phone rings

my phone rings

my phone rings and I didn’t even know phones could ring

and I didn’t even know phones could ring

and I didn’t even know phones could ring on an airplane and I was in coach middle

on an airplane and I was in coach middle

on an airplane and I was in coach middle and everyone’s staring at me how who’s

and everyone’s staring at me how who’s

and everyone’s staring at me how who’s this person with the phone ringing and I

this person with the phone ringing and I

this person with the phone ringing and I looked down and it’s my child’s school

looked down and it’s my child’s school

looked down and it’s my child’s school so I pick up and it’s not just school

so I pick up and it’s not just school

so I pick up and it’s not just school but it’s my older daughter Ella she said

but it’s my older daughter Ella she said

but it’s my older daughter Ella she said mommy it’s November first and you forgot

mommy it’s November first and you forgot

mommy it’s November first and you forgot to order me lunch and if you forgot to

to order me lunch and if you forgot to

to order me lunch and if you forgot to order me lunch you probably forgot

order me lunch you probably forgot

order me lunch you probably forgot Bowens lunch – that’s her kindergarten

Bowens lunch – that’s her kindergarten

Bowens lunch – that’s her kindergarten brother so here I was in the air with

brother so here I was in the air with

brother so here I was in the air with two starving children and one sick child

two starving children and one sick child

two starving children and one sick child and I was going to give a talk on

and I was going to give a talk on

and I was going to give a talk on work-life balance across the country

work-life balance across the country

work-life balance across the country talk about impostor syndrome so the

talk about impostor syndrome so the

talk about impostor syndrome so the teacher gets on the phone and she said

teacher gets on the phone and she said

teacher gets on the phone and she said don’t worry we’ll feed the kids Jesus so

don’t worry we’ll feed the kids Jesus so

don’t worry we’ll feed the kids Jesus so that’s a my kids had cheez-its for lunch

that’s a my kids had cheez-its for lunch

that’s a my kids had cheez-its for lunch and I implore you to save the guilt for

and I implore you to save the guilt for

and I implore you to save the guilt for those cheese at moments okay because

those cheese at moments okay because

those cheese at moments okay because that was a day I deserve to feel guilty

that was a day I deserve to feel guilty

that was a day I deserve to feel guilty so now that we’re gonna abandon the

so now that we’re gonna abandon the

so now that we’re gonna abandon the guilt and the quest for perfection we

guilt and the quest for perfection we

guilt and the quest for perfection we can really dig into our slices and

can really dig into our slices and

can really dig into our slices and what’s important to realize is that all

what’s important to realize is that all

what’s important to realize is that all of your sizes of slices are gonna change

of your sizes of slices are gonna change

of your sizes of slices are gonna change over time you probably don’t have as

over time you probably don’t have as

over time you probably don’t have as much control over your time as you think

much control over your time as you think

much control over your time as you think you might have a sick parent and that

you might have a sick parent and that

you might have a sick parent and that takes time

takes time

takes time you might have to earn two incomes to

you might have to earn two incomes to

you might have to earn two incomes to feed your family and that takes time you

feed your family and that takes time you

feed your family and that takes time you might have decided to live in a

might have decided to live in a

might have decided to live in a beautiful neighborhood with great

beautiful neighborhood with great

beautiful neighborhood with great schools but a really long commute from

schools but a really long commute from

schools but a really long commute from work and that takes time how we allocate

work and that takes time how we allocate

work and that takes time how we allocate our time is usually based on long-term

our time is usually based on long-term

our time is usually based on long-term decisions we don’t have much control

decisions we don’t have much control

decisions we don’t have much control over instead it’s about just

over instead it’s about just

over instead it’s about just acknowledging each slice even if it’s

acknowledging each slice even if it’s

acknowledging each slice even if it’s just a sliver today in the career slice

just a sliver today in the career slice

just a sliver today in the career slice it might be it’s setting a goal so it

it might be it’s setting a goal so it

it might be it’s setting a goal so it might be you know going to a networking

might be you know going to a networking

might be you know going to a networking event once a month and with your partner

event once a month and with your partner

event once a month and with your partner it might be setting a sign beside 20

it might be setting a sign beside 20

it might be setting a sign beside 20 minutes a day just to catch up which can

minutes a day just to catch up which can

minutes a day just to catch up which can do wonders for your marriage with your

do wonders for your marriage with your

do wonders for your marriage with your parenting it might be just an hour

parenting it might be just an hour

parenting it might be just an hour tech-free a day where you’re really

tech-free a day where you’re really

tech-free a day where you’re really focused on your kids it might be going

focused on your kids it might be going

focused on your kids it might be going to the book club

to the book club

to the book club even if you have

even if you have

even if you have read the whole book it’s about

read the whole book it’s about

read the whole book it’s about participating in each slice and once you

participating in each slice and once you

participating in each slice and once you set a goal to each slice that’s when

set a goal to each slice that’s when

set a goal to each slice that’s when they really start existing at goal in an

they really start existing at goal in an

they really start existing at goal in an action item that’s all it takes these

action item that’s all it takes these

action item that’s all it takes these seven slices are your foundation for a

seven slices are your foundation for a

seven slices are your foundation for a fulfilling life and the great thing

fulfilling life and the great thing

fulfilling life and the great thing about applying the pie method to your

about applying the pie method to your

about applying the pie method to your life is that you’ll feel a whole lot

life is that you’ll feel a whole lot

life is that you’ll feel a whole lot lighter we’ve all done it we lie in bed

lighter we’ve all done it we lie in bed

lighter we’ve all done it we lie in bed at night and we have a rotisserie of

at night and we have a rotisserie of

at night and we have a rotisserie of worries right you’re worried about the

worries right you’re worried about the

worries right you’re worried about the upcoming presentation at work and your

upcoming presentation at work and your

upcoming presentation at work and your sick dog and the fight you had with your

sick dog and the fight you had with your

sick dog and the fight you had with your partner and we worry and worry when you

partner and we worry and worry when you

partner and we worry and worry when you apply the pie method to the rotisserie

apply the pie method to the rotisserie

apply the pie method to the rotisserie suddenly gratitude is baked into your

suddenly gratitude is baked into your

suddenly gratitude is baked into your pie because it’s impossible not to

pie because it’s impossible not to

pie because it’s impossible not to acknowledge all of your slices and there

acknowledge all of your slices and there

acknowledge all of your slices and there you’re gonna find ones that are going

you’re gonna find ones that are going

you’re gonna find ones that are going well and suddenly you can be grateful

well and suddenly you can be grateful

well and suddenly you can be grateful for your supportive group of friends or

for your supportive group of friends or

for your supportive group of friends or your amazing kids and listen your life

your amazing kids and listen your life

your amazing kids and listen your life is gonna be messy sometimes multiple

is gonna be messy sometimes multiple

is gonna be messy sometimes multiple times all in the same day the most

times all in the same day the most

times all in the same day the most delicious pies

delicious pies

delicious pies are not the store-bought perfect looking

are not the store-bought perfect looking

are not the store-bought perfect looking ones they’re the messy gooey dripping

ones they’re the messy gooey dripping

ones they’re the messy gooey dripping over the side ones and that’s what your

over the side ones and that’s what your

over the side ones and that’s what your life is supposed to look like it’s about

life is supposed to look like it’s about

life is supposed to look like it’s about embracing all seven slices of your life

embracing all seven slices of your life

embracing all seven slices of your life it’s about giving enough oxygen to each

it’s about giving enough oxygen to each

it’s about giving enough oxygen to each one so that they start living you have

one so that they start living you have

one so that they start living you have all the ingredients you need you have a

all the ingredients you need you have a

all the ingredients you need you have a complete life and that’s what fulfilment

complete life and that’s what fulfilment

complete life and that’s what fulfilment is all about and that is what’s gonna

is all about and that is what’s gonna

is all about and that is what’s gonna make you happy thank you

”

Be First to Comment

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *