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The Money Mindset Predicament | Cedric Lapine | TEDxYouth@ISBangkok


I admit it I have struggled a lot in the

I admit it I have struggled a lot in the past few years with breaking out of a

past few years with breaking out of a

past few years with breaking out of a serious relationship this relationship

serious relationship this relationship

serious relationship this relationship affected my mindset affected how I

affected my mindset affected how I

affected my mindset affected how I viewed others and in all honesty

viewed others and in all honesty

viewed others and in all honesty completely controlled my life I recently

completely controlled my life I recently

completely controlled my life I recently broke up with the one-dollar bill and

broke up with the one-dollar bill and

broke up with the one-dollar bill and not just the one dollar bill but with

not just the one dollar bill but with

not just the one dollar bill but with money I recently broke out of my

money I recently broke out of my

money I recently broke out of my relationship with money and it may seem

relationship with money and it may seem

relationship with money and it may seem absurd to you to have money issues at

absurd to you to have money issues at

absurd to you to have money issues at the age of 17 does not solely revolve

the age of 17 does not solely revolve

the age of 17 does not solely revolve around the amount of money I have how I

around the amount of money I have how I

around the amount of money I have how I mentally and physically affected by my

mentally and physically affected by my

mentally and physically affected by my material wealth but let’s face it I am

material wealth but let’s face it I am

material wealth but let’s face it I am NOT alone many of you in the audience

NOT alone many of you in the audience

NOT alone many of you in the audience will have or have already had money

will have or have already had money

will have or have already had money issues hi my name is Cedric lepine and

issues hi my name is Cedric lepine and

issues hi my name is Cedric lepine and i’m here today to give you a free

i’m here today to give you a free

i’m here today to give you a free couples therapy session as i hope to

couples therapy session as i hope to

couples therapy session as i hope to improve your relationship with money I

improve your relationship with money I

improve your relationship with money I look out in an audience of privileged

look out in an audience of privileged

look out in an audience of privileged individuals individuals who are blessed

individuals individuals who are blessed

individuals individuals who are blessed to be affluent individuals who are

to be affluent individuals who are

to be affluent individuals who are blessed with a roof over their heads

blessed with a roof over their heads

blessed with a roof over their heads individuals who are blessed to not have

individuals who are blessed to not have

individuals who are blessed to not have to worry whether next meal is coming

to worry whether next meal is coming

to worry whether next meal is coming from individuals living the life of the

from individuals living the life of the

from individuals living the life of the top and being at the top in this day and

top and being at the top in this day and

top and being at the top in this day and age brings you money and this money

age brings you money and this money

age brings you money and this money brings you power what is this power

brings you power what is this power

brings you power what is this power power to purchase property power to buy

power to purchase property power to buy

power to purchase property power to buy nice clothes power to buy a nice car

nice clothes power to buy a nice car

nice clothes power to buy a nice car power to have more material possessions

power to have more material possessions

power to have more material possessions than another person so what I have a

than another person so what I have a

than another person so what I have a nice car I have nice clothes I have a

nice car I have nice clothes I have a

nice car I have nice clothes I have a nice house big deal what it is a big

nice house big deal what it is a big

nice house big deal what it is a big deal a very big deal and here is why our

deal a very big deal and here is why our

deal a very big deal and here is why our society is built upon an economic ladder

society is built upon an economic ladder

society is built upon an economic ladder so to speak where our goal as citizens

so to speak where our goal as citizens

so to speak where our goal as citizens is to move up to visit to a position

is to move up to visit to a position

is to move up to visit to a position where we have more money and in turn

where we have more money and in turn

where we have more money and in turn more power the system is flawed now I’m

more power the system is flawed now I’m

more power the system is flawed now I’m not saying that I’m having more money is

not saying that I’m having more money is

not saying that I’m having more money is bad that the side effects I’ve been

bad that the side effects I’ve been

bad that the side effects I’ve been having more wealth are not clearly

having more wealth are not clearly

having more wealth are not clearly stated on the pack

stated on the pack

stated on the pack which individuals being to become

which individuals being to become

which individuals being to become addicted

addicted

addicted controlled and changed by their material

controlled and changed by their material

controlled and changed by their material wealth and isn’t their faults well not

wealth and isn’t their faults well not

wealth and isn’t their faults well not completely with the assistance of

completely with the assistance of

completely with the assistance of Harvard University and the University of

Harvard University and the University of

Harvard University and the University of Utah I was able to discover a new

Utah I was able to discover a new

Utah I was able to discover a new disease that i like to call post

disease that i like to call post

disease that i like to call post paycheck mine disorder or ppmd ppmd

paycheck mine disorder or ppmd ppmd

paycheck mine disorder or ppmd ppmd stems from the human personality changes

stems from the human personality changes

stems from the human personality changes the result from acquiring wealth this

the result from acquiring wealth this

the result from acquiring wealth this affects the mental and physical actions

affects the mental and physical actions

affects the mental and physical actions of those infected and in most cases

of those infected and in most cases

of those infected and in most cases leads the host to become less charitable

leads the host to become less charitable

leads the host to become less charitable have stronger feelings or make more on

have stronger feelings or make more on

have stronger feelings or make more on ethical decisions have stronger feelings

ethical decisions have stronger feelings

ethical decisions have stronger feelings of entitlement and grow their ego

of entitlement and grow their ego

of entitlement and grow their ego although upfront and may seem that the

although upfront and may seem that the

although upfront and may seem that the richest and the wealthiest in society

richest and the wealthiest in society

richest and the wealthiest in society are also the most charitable it is found

are also the most charitable it is found

are also the most charitable it is found that the opposite is true a recent study

that the opposite is true a recent study

that the opposite is true a recent study done by UC Berkeley found the

done by UC Berkeley found the

done by UC Berkeley found the individuals who consider themselves rich

individuals who consider themselves rich

individuals who consider themselves rich donated one-point-three percent of their

donated one-point-three percent of their

donated one-point-three percent of their income annually to charity well those

income annually to charity well those

income annually to charity well those who are in the poorest sector of the

who are in the poorest sector of the

who are in the poorest sector of the study donate over double that amount

study donate over double that amount

study donate over double that amount with three-point-two percent of their

with three-point-two percent of their

with three-point-two percent of their income donated annually this suggests

income donated annually this suggests

income donated annually this suggests the individuals who are wealthier feel

the individuals who are wealthier feel

the individuals who are wealthier feel more entitled to their wealth than those

more entitled to their wealth than those

more entitled to their wealth than those who are less affluent why according to

who are less affluent why according to

who are less affluent why according to dr. TN Dayton a psychologist who works

dr. TN Dayton a psychologist who works

dr. TN Dayton a psychologist who works for NYU it can be suggested that

for NYU it can be suggested that

for NYU it can be suggested that individuals who are wealthier are

individuals who are wealthier are

individuals who are wealthier are interned less charitable because of

interned less charitable because of

interned less charitable because of their addiction to money acquiring money

their addiction to money acquiring money

their addiction to money acquiring money can make the soul or even main purpose

can make the soul or even main purpose

can make the soul or even main purpose of one’s existence it makes them feel

of one’s existence it makes them feel

of one’s existence it makes them feel good these positive feelings lead to an

good these positive feelings lead to an

good these positive feelings lead to an all-consuming preoccupation with money

all-consuming preoccupation with money

all-consuming preoccupation with money and strains relationships with others

and strains relationships with others

and strains relationships with others the problem of this is that people with

the problem of this is that people with

the problem of this is that people with this issue have feelings of entitlement

this issue have feelings of entitlement

this issue have feelings of entitlement and they want to protect their wealth

and they want to protect their wealth

and they want to protect their wealth because they don’t want to have to give

because they don’t want to have to give

because they don’t want to have to give it away they want it for themselves

it away they want it for themselves

it away they want it for themselves because they’re addicted to it and this

because they’re addicted to it and this

because they’re addicted to it and this leads them to be less charitable they

leads them to be less charitable they

leads them to be less charitable they want more rather than helping out those

want more rather than helping out those

want more rather than helping out those who have less this idea of entitlement

who have less this idea of entitlement

who have less this idea of entitlement was recently studied by UC Berkeley as

was recently studied by UC Berkeley as

was recently studied by UC Berkeley as drivers in California were tested to see

drivers in California were tested to see

drivers in California were tested to see how they would react to a basic traffic

how they would react to a basic traffic

how they would react to a basic traffic law it is California law

law it is California law

law it is California law drivers must stop and let pedestrian

drivers must stop and let pedestrian

drivers must stop and let pedestrian cross the street at an intersection

cross the street at an intersection

cross the street at an intersection individuals who drove luxury vehicles

individuals who drove luxury vehicles

individuals who drove luxury vehicles were four times more likely to break

were four times more likely to break

were four times more likely to break this law than those who drove less

this law than those who drove less

this law than those who drove less luxurious vehicles or normal vehicles in

luxurious vehicles or normal vehicles in

luxurious vehicles or normal vehicles in the lowest category or the poorest or

the lowest category or the poorest or

the lowest category or the poorest or the worst vehicles individuals broke

the worst vehicles individuals broke

the worst vehicles individuals broke this law zero times thousands of

this law zero times thousands of

this law zero times thousands of vehicles were studied and zero times did

vehicles were studied and zero times did

vehicles were studied and zero times did someone in this sector the poor sector

someone in this sector the poor sector

someone in this sector the poor sector break the law in another study done by

break the law in another study done by

break the law in another study done by the same group of researchers a box of

the same group of researchers a box of

the same group of researchers a box of candy was laid out and those who were

candy was laid out and those who were

candy was laid out and those who were tested were explicitly told that the

tested were explicitly told that the

tested were explicitly told that the candy was for little children who are

candy was for little children who are

candy was for little children who are participating in a study in another room

participating in a study in another room

participating in a study in another room these are adults who are being tested by

these are adults who are being tested by

these are adults who are being tested by the way those who are considered rich

the way those who are considered rich

the way those who are considered rich took two times more candy than those who

took two times more candy than those who

took two times more candy than those who are considered poor it shocks me that

are considered poor it shocks me that

are considered poor it shocks me that they are even taking the candy but the

they are even taking the candy but the

they are even taking the candy but the word to Zone in on here is entitlement

word to Zone in on here is entitlement

word to Zone in on here is entitlement it is a sense of entitlement or

it is a sense of entitlement or

it is a sense of entitlement or egotistical driven lifestyle that leads

egotistical driven lifestyle that leads

egotistical driven lifestyle that leads to the other factors greed unethical

to the other factors greed unethical

to the other factors greed unethical decision-making unmoral in a recent

decision-making unmoral in a recent

decision-making unmoral in a recent study done by a group of universities

study done by a group of universities

study done by a group of universities including Yale and Stanford those who

including Yale and Stanford those who

including Yale and Stanford those who were considered rich in the study

were considered rich in the study

were considered rich in the study believe that was because they were more

believe that was because they were more

believe that was because they were more entitled to or deserve the money more

entitled to or deserve the money more

entitled to or deserve the money more than those who are poor well the poor

than those who are poor well the poor

than those who are poor well the poor individuals in the study believe that

individuals in the study believe that

individuals in the study believe that any individual could be rich and anyone

any individual could be rich and anyone

any individual could be rich and anyone could be poor so does having more power

could be poor so does having more power

could be poor so does having more power through money really make you more

through money really make you more

through money really make you more entitled in someone else I guess so

entitled in someone else I guess so

entitled in someone else I guess so because facts are facts facts don’t lie

because facts are facts facts don’t lie

because facts are facts facts don’t lie and I don’t want to stand up in front of

and I don’t want to stand up in front of

and I don’t want to stand up in front of you today and lie to you and tell you

you today and lie to you and tell you

you today and lie to you and tell you that the job you are doing as the people

that the job you are doing as the people

that the job you are doing as the people at the top is good enough because to be

at the top is good enough because to be

at the top is good enough because to be blunt it isn’t and this is not to say

blunt it isn’t and this is not to say

blunt it isn’t and this is not to say that you’re all doing a bad job but the

that you’re all doing a bad job but the

that you’re all doing a bad job but the majority of individuals at the top of

majority of individuals at the top of

majority of individuals at the top of society are being overly affected by

society are being overly affected by

society are being overly affected by their wealth I’m not here to beat us up

their wealth I’m not here to beat us up

their wealth I’m not here to beat us up or dwell on the issue but a shed light

or dwell on the issue but a shed light

or dwell on the issue but a shed light on a problem we have an increase

on a problem we have an increase

on a problem we have an increase awareness so that we as a society can

awareness so that we as a society can

awareness so that we as a society can change for the better this change all

change for the better this change all

change for the better this change all starts with asking yourself intently

starts with asking yourself intently

starts with asking yourself intently purposefully if you would be the same

purposefully if you would be the same

purposefully if you would be the same individual you are today for all of your

individual you are today for all of your

individual you are today for all of your wealth and material possessions were

wealth and material possessions were

wealth and material possessions were taken away is your identity solely based

taken away is your identity solely based

taken away is your identity solely based around your material wealth We are

around your material wealth We are

around your material wealth We are privileged and witness privilege comes

privileged and witness privilege comes

privileged and witness privilege comes power and as Uncle Ben said with great

power and as Uncle Ben said with great

power and as Uncle Ben said with great power comes great responsibility we have

power comes great responsibility we have

power comes great responsibility we have the opportunity to use this power for

the opportunity to use this power for

the opportunity to use this power for good small actions of kindness and

good small actions of kindness and

good small actions of kindness and service can help thwart the wave of

service can help thwart the wave of

service can help thwart the wave of entitlement and greed that is destroying

entitlement and greed that is destroying

entitlement and greed that is destroying our society we must focus on the wants

our society we must focus on the wants

our society we must focus on the wants of society rather than our own

of society rather than our own

of society rather than our own individual wants being in the limelight

individual wants being in the limelight

individual wants being in the limelight should not be achieved at the expense of

should not be achieved at the expense of

should not be achieved at the expense of others let’s shed our egotistical

others let’s shed our egotistical

others let’s shed our egotistical tendencies and work together to move up

tendencies and work together to move up

tendencies and work together to move up on the economic ladder let’s break away

on the economic ladder let’s break away

on the economic ladder let’s break away from our relationship with money and

from our relationship with money and

from our relationship with money and foster relationships with other

foster relationships with other

foster relationships with other individuals because money is good for a

individuals because money is good for a

individuals because money is good for a while but memories with other human

while but memories with other human

while but memories with other human beings lasts forever money is power and

beings lasts forever money is power and

beings lasts forever money is power and the world is counting on us to wield

the world is counting on us to wield

the world is counting on us to wield this power for good we can be better

this power for good we can be better

this power for good we can be better together as one thank you

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