the first word change is awareness nathaniell
word change is awareness nathaniell
word change is awareness nathaniell Brandon a psychotherapist and author
Brandon a psychotherapist and author
Brandon a psychotherapist and author said once I was born in Romania raised
said once I was born in Romania raised
said once I was born in Romania raised partly here and partly in Georgia while
partly here and partly in Georgia while
partly here and partly in Georgia while living in a Syrian family and I have
living in a Syrian family and I have
living in a Syrian family and I have three grandmother’s while in Syria one
three grandmother’s while in Syria one
three grandmother’s while in Syria one in jordan and one in romania and no that
in jordan and one in romania and no that
in jordan and one in romania and no that is not because my father has more wife
is not because my father has more wife
is not because my father has more wife my remaining grandmother was actually
my remaining grandmother was actually
my remaining grandmother was actually our neighbor an old lady I got attached
our neighbor an old lady I got attached
our neighbor an old lady I got attached to at four years old after her husband
to at four years old after her husband
to at four years old after her husband died and I decided to have her as my
died and I decided to have her as my
died and I decided to have her as my Romanian grandmother as we took care of
Romanian grandmother as we took care of
Romanian grandmother as we took care of each other and loved each other just
each other and loved each other just
each other and loved each other just like any grandmother and granddaughter
like any grandmother and granddaughter
like any grandmother and granddaughter so I grew up with no certain place to
so I grew up with no certain place to
so I grew up with no certain place to call it home I had the grandmother in
call it home I had the grandmother in
call it home I had the grandmother in each country and I’ve learned that you
each country and I’ve learned that you
each country and I’ve learned that you can make home out of wherever whoever
can make home out of wherever whoever
can make home out of wherever whoever and whatever it’s only choice and I
and whatever it’s only choice and I
and whatever it’s only choice and I choose to believe that all the way long
choose to believe that all the way long
choose to believe that all the way long after living for a couple years in
after living for a couple years in
after living for a couple years in Jordan
Jordan
Jordan I completely forgot romanian language
I completely forgot romanian language
I completely forgot romanian language and they also started wearing hijab so I
and they also started wearing hijab so I
and they also started wearing hijab so I came back to Romania as to a completely
came back to Romania as to a completely
came back to Romania as to a completely new society going for the first time to
new society going for the first time to
new society going for the first time to Romanian school at eighth grade and
Romanian school at eighth grade and
Romanian school at eighth grade and having to relearn the language to fit in
having to relearn the language to fit in
having to relearn the language to fit in now that was not as easy as I wished or
now that was not as easy as I wished or
now that was not as easy as I wished or expected it took me about three years to
expected it took me about three years to
expected it took me about three years to be able to handle it and to be able to
be able to handle it and to be able to
be able to handle it and to be able to express my thoughts properly I also had
express my thoughts properly I also had
express my thoughts properly I also had an opportunity to talk on the radio for
an opportunity to talk on the radio for
an opportunity to talk on the radio for almost a year and a half in a team with
almost a year and a half in a team with
almost a year and a half in a team with other teenagers and I took advantage of
other teenagers and I took advantage of
other teenagers and I took advantage of this opportunity and started searching
this opportunity and started searching
this opportunity and started searching for trainers of self-development
for trainers of self-development
for trainers of self-development speakers authors and started to
speakers authors and started to
speakers authors and started to interview them asking question that
interview them asking question that
interview them asking question that helped me in the first place to grow to
helped me in the first place to grow to
helped me in the first place to grow to develop and to fit in more so after that
develop and to fit in more so after that
develop and to fit in more so after that I thought I was ready to fit in but I
I thought I was ready to fit in but I
I thought I was ready to fit in but I forgot that I was still seen as
forgot that I was still seen as
forgot that I was still seen as different and I indeed am actually being
different and I indeed am actually being
different and I indeed am actually being different is not the issue but the way
different is not the issue but the way
different is not the issue but the way that my difference is perceived that is
that my difference is perceived that is
that my difference is perceived that is the issue it’s been six years since I
the issue it’s been six years since I
the issue it’s been six years since I came back to Romania now I speak almost
came back to Romania now I speak almost
came back to Romania now I speak almost perfect from a
perfect from a
perfect from a and I’ve talked on the radio during the
and I’ve talked on the radio during the
and I’ve talked on the radio during the public speaking Club competed and many
public speaking Club competed and many
public speaking Club competed and many other things but still I’m seen as
other things but still I’m seen as
other things but still I’m seen as different and a lot of the times not in
different and a lot of the times not in
different and a lot of the times not in a good way
a good way
a good way there are two major negative perceptions
there are two major negative perceptions
there are two major negative perceptions that I’ve observed that people have
that I’ve observed that people have
that I’ve observed that people have about me or about other Muslims first it
about me or about other Muslims first it
about me or about other Muslims first it totally indoctrinated to traditional and
totally indoctrinated to traditional and
totally indoctrinated to traditional and almost fanatic for sticking to her
almost fanatic for sticking to her
almost fanatic for sticking to her beliefs even in Europe into a non-white
beliefs even in Europe into a non-white
beliefs even in Europe into a non-white person who is doing great things but too
person who is doing great things but too
person who is doing great things but too sad she’s limiting herself with her
sad she’s limiting herself with her
sad she’s limiting herself with her beliefs so a lot of the times I’m seen
beliefs so a lot of the times I’m seen
beliefs so a lot of the times I’m seen as a good person but who is limiting
as a good person but who is limiting
as a good person but who is limiting herself by being a Muslim in talking
herself by being a Muslim in talking
herself by being a Muslim in talking about limitations this makes me think of
about limitations this makes me think of
about limitations this makes me think of the mass media which causes these images
the mass media which causes these images
the mass media which causes these images of uneducated people with limiting
of uneducated people with limiting
of uneducated people with limiting visions and beliefs and the thing is
visions and beliefs and the thing is
visions and beliefs and the thing is that mass media actually influences a
that mass media actually influences a
that mass media actually influences a limitation in people in knowing what a
limitation in people in knowing what a
limitation in people in knowing what a group of people really are by presenting
group of people really are by presenting
group of people really are by presenting only specific aspects about them and as
only specific aspects about them and as
only specific aspects about them and as Dalia Mooga had said once in a TED
Dalia Mooga had said once in a TED
Dalia Mooga had said once in a TED speech who does a lot of researches
speech who does a lot of researches
speech who does a lot of researches about Muslim communities all around the
about Muslim communities all around the
about Muslim communities all around the world that 80% of news coverage about
world that 80% of news coverage about
world that 80% of news coverage about Islam and Muslims is negative and the
Islam and Muslims is negative and the
Islam and Muslims is negative and the majority of those people who have bad or
majority of those people who have bad or
majority of those people who have bad or negative thoughts and perceptions about
negative thoughts and perceptions about
negative thoughts and perceptions about Muslims actually never met a Muslim and
Muslims actually never met a Muslim and
Muslims actually never met a Muslim and it’s pretty normal that people are
it’s pretty normal that people are
it’s pretty normal that people are influenced by all the mass media because
influenced by all the mass media because
influenced by all the mass media because those who use mass media for other
those who use mass media for other
those who use mass media for other purposes then transmitting real
purposes then transmitting real
purposes then transmitting real information are really smart they know
information are really smart they know
information are really smart they know about our thinking mechanisms in the way
about our thinking mechanisms in the way
about our thinking mechanisms in the way we function so that makes it very easy
we function so that makes it very easy
we function so that makes it very easy for them to implant any belief that they
for them to implant any belief that they
for them to implant any belief that they want in our minds and our two main ways
want in our minds and our two main ways
want in our minds and our two main ways by which this happens two main ways by
by which this happens two main ways by
by which this happens two main ways by which an image or perception can be put
which an image or perception can be put
which an image or perception can be put into our subconscious mind
into our subconscious mind
into our subconscious mind first there’s the repetition
first there’s the repetition
first there’s the repetition Bob Proctor one of the best speakers and
Bob Proctor one of the best speakers and
Bob Proctor one of the best speakers and others around the world dedicated more
others around the world dedicated more
others around the world dedicated more than 40 years of his life studying how
than 40 years of his life studying how
than 40 years of his life studying how we work as humans and thinking
we work as humans and thinking
we work as humans and thinking mechanisms that we have and he and many
mechanisms that we have and he and many
mechanisms that we have and he and many other experts say that repetition is
other experts say that repetition is
other experts say that repetition is what creates our paradigms in the way
what creates our paradigms in the way
what creates our paradigms in the way that we perceive things in not only that
that we perceive things in not only that
that we perceive things in not only that but repetition also keeps strengthening
but repetition also keeps strengthening
but repetition also keeps strengthening the paradigms we have until they
the paradigms we have until they
the paradigms we have until they influence our behavior as much as
influence our behavior as much as
influence our behavior as much as possible
possible
possible in the second way by which an image or
in the second way by which an image or
in the second way by which an image or an idea can be put into our subconscious
an idea can be put into our subconscious
an idea can be put into our subconscious mind is by associating emotional impact
mind is by associating emotional impact
mind is by associating emotional impact or using our intuitive fast thinking
or using our intuitive fast thinking
or using our intuitive fast thinking Danny Kahneman a winner of the Nobel
Danny Kahneman a winner of the Nobel
Danny Kahneman a winner of the Nobel Prize psychologist and author and also a
Prize psychologist and author and also a
Prize psychologist and author and also a TED speaker tells us in his book
TED speaker tells us in his book
TED speaker tells us in his book Thinking Fast and Slow about those two
Thinking Fast and Slow about those two
Thinking Fast and Slow about those two ways of thinking the slow thinking when
ways of thinking the slow thinking when
ways of thinking the slow thinking when we analyze rationally the information we
we analyze rationally the information we
we analyze rationally the information we are given and we use our logic to
are given and we use our logic to
are given and we use our logic to perceive it and the fast thinking is
perceive it and the fast thinking is
perceive it and the fast thinking is when we form a fast impression or
when we form a fast impression or
when we form a fast impression or thought about a specific thing and a lot
thought about a specific thing and a lot
thought about a specific thing and a lot of the times when the idea is associated
of the times when the idea is associated
of the times when the idea is associated with emotions it also gets into a
with emotions it also gets into a
with emotions it also gets into a subconscious mind without being analyzed
subconscious mind without being analyzed
subconscious mind without being analyzed rationally or questioned and to clarify
rationally or questioned and to clarify
rationally or questioned and to clarify a little bit this fast or intuitive
a little bit this fast or intuitive
a little bit this fast or intuitive thinking mechanism I’m going to ask you
thinking mechanism I’m going to ask you
thinking mechanism I’m going to ask you to solve the following question without
to solve the following question without
to solve the following question without taking long just do it as fast as you
taking long just do it as fast as you
taking long just do it as fast as you can about and the ball cost one dollar
can about and the ball cost one dollar
can about and the ball cost one dollar and ten cents the ball costs one dollar
and ten cents the ball costs one dollar
and ten cents the ball costs one dollar more than the bat how much does the bat
more than the bat how much does the bat
more than the bat how much does the bat costs now I’m sure that a number just
costs now I’m sure that a number just
costs now I’m sure that a number just came to your mind
came to your mind
came to your mind and on the first intuitive answer you
and on the first intuitive answer you
and on the first intuitive answer you had the number 10 cents and as Daniel
had the number 10 cents and as Daniel
had the number 10 cents and as Daniel ground among this fast thinking
ground among this fast thinking
ground among this fast thinking you an answer that is intuitive
you an answer that is intuitive
you an answer that is intuitive appealing and wrong because if you do
appealing and wrong because if you do
appealing and wrong because if you do the math you will see that the right
the math you will see that the right
the math you will see that the right answer is actually five cents and this
answer is actually five cents and this
answer is actually five cents and this is also from Ghana man’s book and he
is also from Ghana man’s book and he
is also from Ghana man’s book and he explains how this fast or intuitive
explains how this fast or intuitive
explains how this fast or intuitive answer seems to be so true that we
answer seems to be so true that we
answer seems to be so true that we usually ignore checking whether it is or
usually ignore checking whether it is or
usually ignore checking whether it is or not correct and when people believe a
not correct and when people believe a
not correct and when people believe a conclusion they are very likely to
conclusion they are very likely to
conclusion they are very likely to believe the arguments that appear to
believe the arguments that appear to
believe the arguments that appear to support it even when the arguments are
support it even when the arguments are
support it even when the arguments are unsound so imagine how many ideas and
unsound so imagine how many ideas and
unsound so imagine how many ideas and concepts we’ve believed without checking
concepts we’ve believed without checking
concepts we’ve believed without checking into how many unsound arguments we
into how many unsound arguments we
into how many unsound arguments we believed as well unfortunately a lot of
believed as well unfortunately a lot of
believed as well unfortunately a lot of people don’t know these thinking
people don’t know these thinking
people don’t know these thinking mechanisms while mass media and few
mechanisms while mass media and few
mechanisms while mass media and few others do and this is what mass media
others do and this is what mass media
others do and this is what mass media does it either repeats in information a
does it either repeats in information a
does it either repeats in information a phrase or an image in a certain way
phrase or an image in a certain way
phrase or an image in a certain way intentionally or it associates emotional
intentionally or it associates emotional
intentionally or it associates emotional impact to convey its message to our
impact to convey its message to our
impact to convey its message to our subconscious think of it this way when
subconscious think of it this way when
subconscious think of it this way when you know completely how a machine or an
you know completely how a machine or an
you know completely how a machine or an object works you know how to control it
object works you know how to control it
object works you know how to control it and play it in other words when you know
and play it in other words when you know
and play it in other words when you know how you work you get to choose how you
how you work you get to choose how you
how you work you get to choose how you live but when others know how you work
live but when others know how you work
live but when others know how you work you might live how they want so what can
you might live how they want so what can
you might live how they want so what can we do to stop our minds from inhaling
we do to stop our minds from inhaling
we do to stop our minds from inhaling these toxic ideas and incorrect concepts
these toxic ideas and incorrect concepts
these toxic ideas and incorrect concepts well we can choose to become aware by
well we can choose to become aware by
well we can choose to become aware by understanding the way that our lines and
understanding the way that our lines and
understanding the way that our lines and brain work is to talk a little bit about
brain work is to talk a little bit about
brain work is to talk a little bit about the brain mechanisms on which these
the brain mechanisms on which these
the brain mechanisms on which these processes are based I’m going to give
processes are based I’m going to give
processes are based I’m going to give you an example about the effect that
you an example about the effect that
you an example about the effect that repetition has on us in your science
repetition has on us in your science
repetition has on us in your science there is a golden rule that says neurons
there is a golden rule that says neurons
there is a golden rule that says neurons that fire together wire together
that fire together wire together
that fire together wire together Stephen Parchin who is an author and who
Stephen Parchin who is an author and who
Stephen Parchin who is an author and who also studies human nature explains the
also studies human nature explains the
also studies human nature explains the communication
communication
communication process between neurons which is called
process between neurons which is called
process between neurons which is called neuronal firing as a neuron fires a
neuronal firing as a neuron fires a
neuronal firing as a neuron fires a chemical towards the other neuron
chemical towards the other neuron
chemical towards the other neuron forming a bridge on that bridge electric
forming a bridge on that bridge electric
forming a bridge on that bridge electric signals cross which are believed to be
signals cross which are believed to be
signals cross which are believed to be carrying the relevant information that
carrying the relevant information that
carrying the relevant information that we are thinking about and each time that
we are thinking about and each time that
we are thinking about and each time that electric charge is triggered the neurons
electric charge is triggered the neurons
electric charge is triggered the neurons grow closer to each other and the
grow closer to each other and the
grow closer to each other and the distance that the thought has to cross
distance that the thought has to cross
distance that the thought has to cross lessons each time which makes it easier
lessons each time which makes it easier
lessons each time which makes it easier for that thought to arise in your mind
for that thought to arise in your mind
for that thought to arise in your mind faster than other thoughts and it
faster than other thoughts and it
faster than other thoughts and it increases the probability of you having
increases the probability of you having
increases the probability of you having that similar thought over and over again
that similar thought over and over again
that similar thought over and over again even randomly while walking on Street so
even randomly while walking on Street so
even randomly while walking on Street so by the repetition of an information an
by the repetition of an information an
by the repetition of an information an idea or an image the perception you have
idea or an image the perception you have
idea or an image the perception you have or the paradigm becomes more entrenched
or the paradigm becomes more entrenched
or the paradigm becomes more entrenched in you and closer to your reality I
in you and closer to your reality I
in you and closer to your reality I decided to dedicate my time for this to
decided to dedicate my time for this to
decided to dedicate my time for this to study and understand the human brain and
study and understand the human brain and
study and understand the human brain and all thinking mechanisms by online
all thinking mechanisms by online
all thinking mechanisms by online learning communicating with
learning communicating with
learning communicating with neurosurgeons going to a neuro Medical
neurosurgeons going to a neuro Medical
neurosurgeons going to a neuro Medical Center observing counseling sessions and
Center observing counseling sessions and
Center observing counseling sessions and consultations to understand how we work
consultations to understand how we work
consultations to understand how we work as humans on the physiological side as
as humans on the physiological side as
as humans on the physiological side as well as on the psychological side the
well as on the psychological side the
well as on the psychological side the visible as much as the invisible things
visible as much as the invisible things
visible as much as the invisible things that are going on inside of us and
that are going on inside of us and
that are going on inside of us and around us because by becoming aware you
around us because by becoming aware you
around us because by becoming aware you don’t only stop the incorrect concepts
don’t only stop the incorrect concepts
don’t only stop the incorrect concepts that are being trying to be put in your
that are being trying to be put in your
that are being trying to be put in your mind but you also start to understand
mind but you also start to understand
mind but you also start to understand your worth your your power and your life
your worth your your power and your life
your worth your your power and your life purpose that is my life purpose to learn
purpose that is my life purpose to learn
purpose that is my life purpose to learn and share to help people become aware of
and share to help people become aware of
and share to help people become aware of the things that are going on inside of
the things that are going on inside of
the things that are going on inside of them and around them and as Natalie
them and around them and as Natalie
them and around them and as Natalie Brandon said once again the first step
Brandon said once again the first step
Brandon said once again the first step to change is awareness so I choose to
to change is awareness so I choose to
to change is awareness so I choose to become aware and you what do you choose
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