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[Music] and so I’m here to talk about media
and so I’m here to talk about media
and so I’m here to talk about media actually in Millennials so let’s start
actually in Millennials so let’s start
actually in Millennials so let’s start with that media right see it everywhere
with that media right see it everywhere
with that media right see it everywhere walking down the street you most
walking down the street you most
walking down the street you most probably see it a lot when you’re stuck
probably see it a lot when you’re stuck
probably see it a lot when you’re stuck in traffic along EDSA waiting for the
in traffic along EDSA waiting for the
in traffic along EDSA waiting for the two hour drive and there if you have
two hour drive and there if you have
two hour drive and there if you have bones it’s an instantaneous one click
bones it’s an instantaneous one click
bones it’s an instantaneous one click away right if you have any of these
away right if you have any of these
away right if you have any of these social media apps your most probably
social media apps your most probably
social media apps your most probably contributing to media in one form or
contributing to media in one form or
contributing to media in one form or another how great is it to be a
another how great is it to be a
another how great is it to be a millennial and to be alive at this day
millennial and to be alive at this day
millennial and to be alive at this day and age um so let’s start this top let’s
and age um so let’s start this top let’s
and age um so let’s start this top let’s talk with this topic that this idea that
talk with this topic that this idea that
talk with this topic that this idea that media is the institution that trumps all
media is the institution that trumps all
media is the institution that trumps all other institutions it is the institution
other institutions it is the institution
other institutions it is the institution that goes in between your education
that goes in between your education
that goes in between your education right over your family values what the
right over your family values what the
right over your family values what the law says that you should do so I want
law says that you should do so I want
law says that you should do so I want you guys to keep that in mind while we
you guys to keep that in mind while we
you guys to keep that in mind while we go through this this talk that media see
go through this this talk that media see
go through this this talk that media see institution that trumps all other
institution that trumps all other
institution that trumps all other institutions okay and I want you guys to
institutions okay and I want you guys to
institutions okay and I want you guys to link that idea to this idea it’s a quote
link that idea to this idea it’s a quote
link that idea to this idea it’s a quote by Oscar health life imitates art far
by Oscar health life imitates art far
by Oscar health life imitates art far more than life imitates art far more
more than life imitates art far more
more than life imitates art far more than art imitates life what do I mean by
than art imitates life what do I mean by
than art imitates life what do I mean by that you guys ever notice on those new
that you guys ever notice on those new
that you guys ever notice on those new hairstyles that celebrities are trending
hairstyles that celebrities are trending
hairstyles that celebrities are trending or they’re wearing the next day everyone
or they’re wearing the next day everyone
or they’re wearing the next day everyone has the same hairdo so you see that
has the same hairdo so you see that
has the same hairdo so you see that mostly in entrance right that life
mostly in entrance right that life
mostly in entrance right that life imitates art you see it a little girls
imitates art you see it a little girls
imitates art you see it a little girls trying to copy and be their favorite
trying to copy and be their favorite
trying to copy and be their favorite princess um mostly and actually in our
princess um mostly and actually in our
princess um mostly and actually in our lingo you hear that more often than not
lingo you hear that more often than not
lingo you hear that more often than not how life imitates art Netflix and chill
how life imitates art Netflix and chill
how life imitates art Netflix and chill Ramones probably the only generation
Ramones probably the only generation
Ramones probably the only generation that understands what that means aside
that understands what that means aside
that understands what that means aside from all of the law see ya btdubs all of
from all of the law see ya btdubs all of
from all of the law see ya btdubs all of those so where this generation we’re
those so where this generation we’re
those so where this generation we’re also the most viral documented and
also the most viral documented and
also the most viral documented and they’re probably published
they’re probably published
they’re probably published the generation there is today so thank
the generation there is today so thank
the generation there is today so thank you viber and all the media teams out
you viber and all the media teams out
you viber and all the media teams out there who create apps to make it
there who create apps to make it
there who create apps to make it possible to publicly release our lives
possible to publicly release our lives
possible to publicly release our lives online so this is me I am uh we all
online so this is me I am uh we all
online so this is me I am uh we all contribute to media I contribute to
contribute to media I contribute to
contribute to media I contribute to media by being a student jock at
media by being a student jock at
media by being a student jock at monsterarts 93.1 as you can see over
monsterarts 93.1 as you can see over
monsterarts 93.1 as you can see over there this is actually taken by our
there this is actually taken by our
there this is actually taken by our annual photo shoot done every year I was
annual photo shoot done every year I was
annual photo shoot done every year I was a sporting that half shaven side of my
a sporting that half shaven side of my
a sporting that half shaven side of my head and my parents say was going
head and my parents say was going
head and my parents say was going through a phase but really just
through a phase but really just
through a phase but really just following the trend you know I was going
following the trend you know I was going
following the trend you know I was going through that beyond cher Lloyd kind of I
through that beyond cher Lloyd kind of I
through that beyond cher Lloyd kind of I like yeah like field of cool breeze your
like yeah like field of cool breeze your
like yeah like field of cool breeze your head it’s actually kind of nice uh I
head it’s actually kind of nice uh I
head it’s actually kind of nice uh I also I I’m taking up marketing so I
also I I’m taking up marketing so I
also I I’m taking up marketing so I study at the University of Asian the
study at the University of Asian the
study at the University of Asian the Pacific and I study integrated marketing
Pacific and I study integrated marketing
Pacific and I study integrated marketing communications and incoming fourth-year
communications and incoming fourth-year
communications and incoming fourth-year student and I was asked today to talk
student and I was asked today to talk
student and I was asked today to talk about media and Millennials I thought
about media and Millennials I thought
about media and Millennials I thought wow how great I’m a millennial and I
wow how great I’m a millennial and I
wow how great I’m a millennial and I somewhat understand how media is and
somewhat understand how media is and
somewhat understand how media is and I’ve kind of studied it so I’m leaving
I’ve kind of studied it so I’m leaving
I’ve kind of studied it so I’m leaving am no expert in um in a lot of things
am no expert in um in a lot of things
am no expert in um in a lot of things but I do I have my observations right so
but I do I have my observations right so
but I do I have my observations right so there’s so many things that you can talk
there’s so many things that you can talk
there’s so many things that you can talk about I wanted to focus on my favorite
about I wanted to focus on my favorite
about I wanted to focus on my favorite topic hopefully you guys can relate to
topic hopefully you guys can relate to
topic hopefully you guys can relate to it also love and relationships more
it also love and relationships more
it also love and relationships more specifically how media has created this
specifically how media has created this
specifically how media has created this culture of romance for us and it’s now
culture of romance for us and it’s now
culture of romance for us and it’s now actually a culture of heartbreak what do
actually a culture of heartbreak what do
actually a culture of heartbreak what do you what do you mean by that Julia are
you what do you mean by that Julia are
you what do you mean by that Julia are you saying that our culture bromance is
you saying that our culture bromance is
you saying that our culture bromance is not actually making us happy yeah
not actually making us happy yeah
not actually making us happy yeah actually that’s exactly what I’m saying
actually that’s exactly what I’m saying
actually that’s exactly what I’m saying it go let me break it down for you
it go let me break it down for you
it go let me break it down for you culture romance is a culture what do you
culture romance is a culture what do you
culture romance is a culture what do you mean Julia would pay me and buy a
mean Julia would pay me and buy a
mean Julia would pay me and buy a culture of romance what I mean by
culture of romance what I mean by
culture of romance what I mean by culture romance is that it’s a culture
culture romance is that it’s a culture
culture romance is that it’s a culture that has helped us or that we have
that has helped us or that we have
that has helped us or that we have created with the help of media that is
created with the help of media that is
created with the help of media that is basically anything from the online
basically anything from the online
basically anything from the online dating sites that have created a venue
dating sites that have created a venue
dating sites that have created a venue for us to get closer to other people it
for us to get closer to other people it
for us to get closer to other people it is the endless
is the endless
is the endless emotion-laden thought catalog post so
emotion-laden thought catalog post so
emotion-laden thought catalog post so this is how you find the number this is
this is how you find the number this is
this is how you find the number this is how you know he’s the one this is mr.
how you know he’s the one this is mr.
how you know he’s the one this is mr. right versus mr. wrong you know and it’s
right versus mr. wrong you know and it’s
right versus mr. wrong you know and it’s it’s those facebook posts that tell you
it’s those facebook posts that tell you
it’s those facebook posts that tell you this is how you’re going to seduce the
this is how you’re going to seduce the
this is how you’re going to seduce the man and keep him forever in your life
man and keep him forever in your life
man and keep him forever in your life it’s that that is basically in a very
it’s that that is basically in a very
it’s that that is basically in a very very small and short summary of what the
very small and short summary of what the
very small and short summary of what the culture of romance is it includes the
culture of romance is it includes the
culture of romance is it includes the rules of dating it includes the bro code
rules of dating it includes the bro code
rules of dating it includes the bro code all of that um miss misinterpreted and
all of that um miss misinterpreted and
all of that um miss misinterpreted and made up things that we take from media
made up things that we take from media
made up things that we take from media and we end up using in our lives so how
and we end up using in our lives so how
and we end up using in our lives so how is that a culture of heartbreak them I
is that a culture of heartbreak them I
is that a culture of heartbreak them I have a sea stories that I want to share
have a sea stories that I want to share
have a sea stories that I want to share with you I kind of had to pull out from
with you I kind of had to pull out from
with you I kind of had to pull out from the cars of my soul that I had already
the cars of my soul that I had already
the cars of my soul that I had already kind of buried deep um this one it
kind of buried deep um this one it
kind of buried deep um this one it starts by so two things he about me I
starts by so two things he about me I
starts by so two things he about me I grew up in an all-girl Catholic school I
grew up in an all-girl Catholic school I
grew up in an all-girl Catholic school I also grew up with a notion that guys
also grew up with a notion that guys
also grew up with a notion that guys only like white pretty skinny princess
only like white pretty skinny princess
only like white pretty skinny princess looking girls all of the above I was
looking girls all of the above I was
looking girls all of the above I was none I was none of the above I grew up
none I was none of the above I grew up
none I was none of the above I grew up with that complex in my mind so the
with that complex in my mind so the
with that complex in my mind so the story starts out after my third
story starts out after my third
story starts out after my third relationship and you know in school we
relationship and you know in school we
relationship and you know in school we had these holy these Eucharistic
had these holy these Eucharistic
had these holy these Eucharistic processions right or celebrations and I
processions right or celebrations and I
processions right or celebrations and I was there sitting beside my best friend
was there sitting beside my best friend
was there sitting beside my best friend completely distracted because haha break
completely distracted because haha break
completely distracted because haha break long does not mean young guy and I was
long does not mean young guy and I was
long does not mean young guy and I was like Napa mooney mooney sorry Lord I was
like Napa mooney mooney sorry Lord I was
like Napa mooney mooney sorry Lord I was like why did he break up with me and
like why did he break up with me and
like why did he break up with me and there I was at the same time I was also
there I was at the same time I was also
there I was at the same time I was also really focused on um this girl that
really focused on um this girl that
really focused on um this girl that everyone was like wow why is she so nice
everyone was like wow why is she so nice
everyone was like wow why is she so nice like what she was basically the
like what she was basically the
like what she was basically the heartthrob of Earth of our group and
heartthrob of Earth of our group and
heartthrob of Earth of our group and was wondering why what was it about her
was wondering why what was it about her
was wondering why what was it about her you know she started to compare myself
you know she started to compare myself
you know she started to compare myself to her like okay so you’re nice himanshu
to her like okay so you’re nice himanshu
to her like okay so you’re nice himanshu yes she’s nice um she’s pretty yeah
yes she’s nice um she’s pretty yeah
yes she’s nice um she’s pretty yeah she’s she’s really pretty i am i’m ok
she’s she’s really pretty i am i’m ok
she’s she’s really pretty i am i’m ok i’m pretty I guess yeah but I not right
i’m pretty I guess yeah but I not right
i’m pretty I guess yeah but I not right like God and then I was I was really
like God and then I was I was really
like God and then I was I was really thinking about it I was like why do all
thinking about it I was like why do all
thinking about it I was like why do all of these I mean hey okay I i had i know
of these I mean hey okay I i had i know
of these I mean hey okay I i had i know i know i wasn’t like the Skinnygirl that
i know i wasn’t like the Skinnygirl that
i know i wasn’t like the Skinnygirl that guys liked and i know i had body but she
guys liked and i know i had body but she
guys liked and i know i had body but she had a lot more body than i did i was
had a lot more body than i did i was
had a lot more body than i did i was like but ok so really what is it about
like but ok so really what is it about
like but ok so really what is it about her that makes all the guys swoon to her
her that makes all the guys swoon to her
her that makes all the guys swoon to her and just you know and then it hit me and
and just you know and then it hit me and
and just you know and then it hit me and then I turned to my best friend I’m like
then I turned to my best friend I’m like
then I turned to my best friend I’m like Bess is it because she’s white literally
Bess is it because she’s white literally
Bess is it because she’s white literally that was the only factor making me
that was the only factor making me
that was the only factor making me different from her I were Anna she’s why
different from her I were Anna she’s why
different from her I were Anna she’s why that had to be it and my friend looks at
that had to be it and my friend looks at
that had to be it and my friend looks at me and the priest is in the middle of
me and the priest is in the middle of
me and the priest is in the middle of Thanksgiving Julia she gives me like
Thanksgiving Julia she gives me like
Thanksgiving Julia she gives me like those pretty eyes like it’s okie along
those pretty eyes like it’s okie along
those pretty eyes like it’s okie along yet it’ll get better that I don’t
yet it’ll get better that I don’t
yet it’ll get better that I don’t believe her but now I kind of do so
believe her but now I kind of do so
believe her but now I kind of do so that’s what media for parts of media has
that’s what media for parts of media has
that’s what media for parts of media has given us this peg this um maybe four
given us this peg this um maybe four
given us this peg this um maybe four guys I have to be macho I have to be the
guys I have to be macho I have to be the
guys I have to be macho I have to be the guy who’s cool the laid-back jock you
guy who’s cool the laid-back jock you
guy who’s cool the laid-back jock you know so all the girls can light me I
know so all the girls can light me I
know so all the girls can light me I have to be the one who’s doing 100 bench
have to be the one who’s doing 100 bench
have to be the one who’s doing 100 bench presses well the right the pretty girl
presses well the right the pretty girl
presses well the right the pretty girl walks by alright and then for the girls
walks by alright and then for the girls
walks by alright and then for the girls it has to be I have to have 36 24 36 you
it has to be I have to have 36 24 36 you
it has to be I have to have 36 24 36 you know measure
know measure
know measure it’s for for anyone to at least look my
it’s for for anyone to at least look my
it’s for for anyone to at least look my way and then you start going into this
way and then you start going into this
way and then you start going into this world of depression like how come I’m
world of depression like how come I’m
world of depression like how come I’m not good enough if anyone ever going to
not good enough if anyone ever going to
not good enough if anyone ever going to like me you guys you guys are late at
like me you guys you guys are late at
like me you guys you guys are late at one point or another have you guys ever
one point or another have you guys ever
one point or another have you guys ever asked yourself these questions and you
asked yourself these questions and you
asked yourself these questions and you start wondering race is coming from our
start wondering race is coming from our
start wondering race is coming from our culture romance it’s a culture of
culture romance it’s a culture of
culture romance it’s a culture of heartbreak this next story actually
heartbreak this next story actually
heartbreak this next story actually happened around the checklist to check
happened around the checklist to check
happened around the checklist to check yes so I started making a checklist
yes so I started making a checklist
yes so I started making a checklist around after my 6 relationship you’re
around after my 6 relationship you’re
around after my 6 relationship you’re wondering why I waited so long start
wondering why I waited so long start
wondering why I waited so long start making a checklist why did you start
making a checklist why did you start
making a checklist why did you start that the third one right to you gosh so
that the third one right to you gosh so
that the third one right to you gosh so maybe the guys find so familiar with
maybe the guys find so familiar with
maybe the guys find so familiar with this concept because I’ve asked some of
this concept because I’ve asked some of
this concept because I’ve asked some of my guy friends oh do you make a
my guy friends oh do you make a
my guy friends oh do you make a checklist that’s have been a checklist
checklist that’s have been a checklist
checklist that’s have been a checklist Oh buddy I just go with the flow us
Oh buddy I just go with the flow us
Oh buddy I just go with the flow us cinnamon of the Shanna okay but for us
cinnamon of the Shanna okay but for us
cinnamon of the Shanna okay but for us girls maybe you’re more familiar with
girls maybe you’re more familiar with
girls maybe you’re more familiar with the concept out you’re pretty stationary
the concept out you’re pretty stationary
the concept out you’re pretty stationary and then you write down for your salon
and then you write down for your salon
and then you write down for your salon oh he has to be god-fearing oh he has to
oh he has to be god-fearing oh he has to
oh he has to be god-fearing oh he has to be loyal yes to me hot you funny all
be loyal yes to me hot you funny all
be loyal yes to me hot you funny all that stuff okay so i was like that and I
that stuff okay so i was like that and I
that stuff okay so i was like that and I had a long list and when I wrote that
had a long list and when I wrote that
had a long list and when I wrote that lift because I lumu dempsey number set
lift because I lumu dempsey number set
lift because I lumu dempsey number set outcomes numbers of it I’m like whoa ah
outcomes numbers of it I’m like whoa ah
outcomes numbers of it I’m like whoa ah goes to Mass every day okay he’s funny
goes to Mass every day okay he’s funny
goes to Mass every day okay he’s funny she’s my best friend okay so Oh check
she’s my best friend okay so Oh check
she’s my best friend okay so Oh check check check eventually started dating um
check check eventually started dating um
check check eventually started dating um he asked me to be his girlfriend I said
he asked me to be his girlfriend I said
he asked me to be his girlfriend I said yes and as you started to get to know
yes and as you started to get to know
yes and as you started to get to know each other all those check marks that is
each other all those check marks that is
each other all those check marks that is making started to disappear goodbye boy
making started to disappear goodbye boy
making started to disappear goodbye boy in a girly it’s okay oh oh oh he’s not
in a girly it’s okay oh oh oh he’s not
in a girly it’s okay oh oh oh he’s not that either ok I’ll ask whatever
that either ok I’ll ask whatever
that either ok I’ll ask whatever Muhammad Guetta
Muhammad Guetta
Muhammad Guetta can you start wondering wait a minute
can you start wondering wait a minute
can you start wondering wait a minute why did I make a checklist to begin with
why did I make a checklist to begin with
why did I make a checklist to begin with and at the end of the day I’ll still
and at the end of the day I’ll still
and at the end of the day I’ll still love you no matter who you are matter
love you no matter who you are matter
love you no matter who you are matter your faults no matter your weaknesses
your faults no matter your weaknesses
your faults no matter your weaknesses right maybe sometimes it’s not always
right maybe sometimes it’s not always
right maybe sometimes it’s not always that cheesy or other times it’s like I
that cheesy or other times it’s like I
that cheesy or other times it’s like I cannot take this anymore and this is why
cannot take this anymore and this is why
cannot take this anymore and this is why we have to break up so that’s another
we have to break up so that’s another
we have to break up so that’s another aspect that I feel medians given us
aspect that I feel medians given us
aspect that I feel medians given us these pseudo standards you don’t just
these pseudo standards you don’t just
these pseudo standards you don’t just see this in checklists okay you see this
see this in checklists okay you see this
see this in checklists okay you see this in the expectations that you require
in the expectations that you require
in the expectations that you require from your significant other if you guys
from your significant other if you guys
from your significant other if you guys are in relationships right now if you
are in relationships right now if you
are in relationships right now if you ever had that feeling like why aren’t
ever had that feeling like why aren’t
ever had that feeling like why aren’t they texting me back it’s been five
they texting me back it’s been five
they texting me back it’s been five minutes what are they doing like don’t
minutes what are they doing like don’t
minutes what are they doing like don’t they know that they’re in a relationship
they know that they’re in a relationship
they know that they’re in a relationship they have to text me back all right
they have to text me back all right
they have to text me back all right there those um no standards like Oh
there those um no standards like Oh
there those um no standards like Oh padded don’t text her after the first
padded don’t text her after the first
padded don’t text her after the first date you have to give her three days huh
date you have to give her three days huh
date you have to give her three days huh or else I think you’re too clingy ever
or else I think you’re too clingy ever
or else I think you’re too clingy ever heard that but you ever do that I’ve
heard that but you ever do that I’ve
heard that but you ever do that I’ve done it once in my life so yeah but it’s
done it once in my life so yeah but it’s
done it once in my life so yeah but it’s things like that I kind of make you go
things like that I kind of make you go
things like that I kind of make you go into a frenzy a kind of make you
into a frenzy a kind of make you
into a frenzy a kind of make you question am i living my life properly is
question am i living my life properly is
question am i living my life properly is what I’m doing correct what is correct
what I’m doing correct what is correct
what I’m doing correct what is correct you know like how should I date it’s
you know like how should I date it’s
you know like how should I date it’s just a roadblock of confusion and mishap
just a roadblock of confusion and mishap
just a roadblock of confusion and mishap a culture of romance sci culture
a culture of romance sci culture
a culture of romance sci culture heartbreak there’s actually a third
heartbreak there’s actually a third
heartbreak there’s actually a third party in a relationship media as the
party in a relationship media as the
party in a relationship media as the third party in your relationship and
third party in your relationship and
third party in your relationship and I’ll introduce this new idea to you so
I’ll introduce this new idea to you so
I’ll introduce this new idea to you so what is that just when you thought my
what is that just when you thought my
what is that just when you thought my limo in committing third party you
limo in committing third party you
limo in committing third party you thought wrong it’s actually media it’s
thought wrong it’s actually media it’s
thought wrong it’s actually media it’s the thing that either makes or breaks
the thing that either makes or breaks
the thing that either makes or breaks your relationship either pushes it
your relationship either pushes it
your relationship either pushes it forward or derail sit and causes a
forward or derail sit and causes a
forward or derail sit and causes a defaulter it’s basically on what you
defaulter it’s basically on what you
defaulter it’s basically on what you fall back onto and you don’t even
fall back onto and you don’t even
fall back onto and you don’t even realize it
Media is the institution that trumps all
Media is the institution that trumps all other institutions its ubiquitous life
other institutions its ubiquitous life
other institutions its ubiquitous life imitates art media as the third party in
imitates art media as the third party in
imitates art media as the third party in your relationship so Julia how has it
your relationship so Julia how has it
your relationship so Julia how has it become a culture well what is a culture
become a culture well what is a culture
become a culture well what is a culture to begin with right it’s um that
to begin with right it’s um that
to begin with right it’s um that ecosystem where you add and you take
ecosystem where you add and you take
ecosystem where you add and you take from and it’s a cycle and goes around
from and it’s a cycle and goes around
from and it’s a cycle and goes around and around and you don’t even notice it
and around and you don’t even notice it
and around and you don’t even notice it that’s what a culture is you don’t
that’s what a culture is you don’t
that’s what a culture is you don’t notice that it’s a culture but you’re in
notice that it’s a culture but you’re in
notice that it’s a culture but you’re in it and you’re part of it and you’re
it and you’re part of it and you’re
it and you’re part of it and you’re living it but we have to ask us this the
living it but we have to ask us this the
living it but we have to ask us this the right culture that we want to be in now
right culture that we want to be in now
right culture that we want to be in now is this where we really want to be is
is this where we really want to be is
is this where we really want to be is this making us happy cuz if you’re
this making us happy cuz if you’re
this making us happy cuz if you’re really happy and why are you the Phooka
really happy and why are you the Phooka
really happy and why are you the Phooka generation why do we have the hashtag
generation why do we have the hashtag
generation why do we have the hashtag went on forever hashtag me forever but
went on forever hashtag me forever but
went on forever hashtag me forever but why are we why why are we the thorpe a
why are we why why are we the thorpe a
why are we why why are we the thorpe a generation constantly waiting for the
generation constantly waiting for the
generation constantly waiting for the other one to make a move why are we the
other one to make a move why are we the
other one to make a move why are we the bit of generation the I don’t give a
bit of generation the I don’t give a
bit of generation the I don’t give a generation so this is where I am in my
generation so this is where I am in my
generation so this is where I am in my life seven relationships and a lot of
life seven relationships and a lot of
life seven relationships and a lot of contemplation later I’ve learned three
contemplation later I’ve learned three
contemplation later I’ve learned three things
one and I’m worth it
one and I’m worth it because I was born with dignity I don’t
because I was born with dignity I don’t
because I was born with dignity I don’t need to find my value and someone else
need to find my value and someone else
need to find my value and someone else no one needs to tell me Julie you’re
no one needs to tell me Julie you’re
no one needs to tell me Julie you’re beautiful for me to know that I am I
beautiful for me to know that I am I
beautiful for me to know that I am I don’t need to wake up to the good
don’t need to wake up to the good
don’t need to wake up to the good morning texts or the anchor into a
morning texts or the anchor into a
morning texts or the anchor into a condom on a month view my CP no no I
condom on a month view my CP no no I
condom on a month view my CP no no I wake up to that just by waking up
wake up to that just by waking up
wake up to that just by waking up opening my eyes and smiling
two
two I was born to love and to be loved how
I was born to love and to be loved how
I was born to love and to be loved how great is that 2 no how much luv you can
great is that 2 no how much luv you can
great is that 2 no how much luv you can give away it’s actually something I
give away it’s actually something I
give away it’s actually something I learned from my last relationship how
learned from my last relationship how
learned from my last relationship how much I could love despite how hard it
much I could love despite how hard it
much I could love despite how hard it was to love you a lot of the times media
was to love you a lot of the times media
was to love you a lot of the times media teaches you how to love right this is
teaches you how to love right this is
teaches you how to love right this is how you love but does it teach us how to
how you love but does it teach us how to
how you love but does it teach us how to receive love I’ve learned that I have so
receive love I’ve learned that I have so
receive love I’ve learned that I have so much love to give away that would be a
much love to give away that would be a
much love to give away that would be a waste to just save it for one person in
waste to just save it for one person in
waste to just save it for one person in fact you can love with the kind of love
fact you can love with the kind of love
fact you can love with the kind of love you have a lot of other people
you have a lot of other people
you have a lot of other people and why why dignity why the freedom to
and why why dignity why the freedom to
and why why dignity why the freedom to love and to be loved cuz I am human
we are all human and we all have that
we are all human and we all have that capacity to love be love and that
capacity to love be love and that
capacity to love be love and that self-worth that you don’t need to find
self-worth that you don’t need to find
self-worth that you don’t need to find in another person and you know in fact
in another person and you know in fact
in another person and you know in fact the heartbreak didn’t start with my
the heartbreak didn’t start with my
the heartbreak didn’t start with my first break up no no that heartbreak
first break up no no that heartbreak
first break up no no that heartbreak started when something told me that I
started when something told me that I
started when something told me that I needed to find who I was and my
needed to find who I was and my
needed to find who I was and my self-worth and something else in someone
self-worth and something else in someone
self-worth and something else in someone else because when we start stripping
else because when we start stripping
else because when we start stripping down the pegs and the images and the
down the pegs and the images and the
down the pegs and the images and the stereotypes a media has created for us
stereotypes a media has created for us
stereotypes a media has created for us then we can start becoming human so
then we can start becoming human so
then we can start becoming human so maybe it’s about switching up the
maybe it’s about switching up the
maybe it’s about switching up the question you know maybe is it how can we
question you know maybe is it how can we
question you know maybe is it how can we find love when can we find love where
find love when can we find love where
find love when can we find love where who can I love know maybe the real
who can I love know maybe the real
who can I love know maybe the real question is how can I learn how to be a
question is how can I learn how to be a
question is how can I learn how to be a better human being how can I humanize
better human being how can I humanize
better human being how can I humanize love how can I be human and is the kind
love how can I be human and is the kind
love how can I be human and is the kind of media I’m taking in really an adding
of media I’m taking in really an adding
of media I’m taking in really an adding to my understanding of what it is to be
to my understanding of what it is to be
to my understanding of what it is to be human so there
human so there
human so there medias everywhere we can’t escape it as
medias everywhere we can’t escape it as
medias everywhere we can’t escape it as actually reading a Harvard journal for
actually reading a Harvard journal for
actually reading a Harvard journal for marketing class and it was saying that
marketing class and it was saying that
marketing class and it was saying that you know media is so big the monster is
you know media is so big the monster is
you know media is so big the monster is so huge you can’t fight it you can join
so huge you can’t fight it you can join
so huge you can’t fight it you can join it but I don’t think we’re ready to join
it but I don’t think we’re ready to join
it but I don’t think we’re ready to join it just yet I think what we need to do
it just yet I think what we need to do
it just yet I think what we need to do is to choose what we take in now so if
is to choose what we take in now so if
is to choose what we take in now so if you ever come across kind of media that
you ever come across kind of media that
you ever come across kind of media that takes you away from what it is to be
takes you away from what it is to be
takes you away from what it is to be human that adds to your worth that takes
human that adds to your worth that takes
human that adds to your worth that takes away from your work that trivializes
away from your work that trivializes
away from your work that trivializes human dignity that rib you lies is love
human dignity that rib you lies is love
human dignity that rib you lies is love then you can switch off the TV you can
then you can switch off the TV you can
then you can switch off the TV you can lower the volume you can close the book
because once we start cutting ourself
because once we start cutting ourself loose from the problem then we can be
loose from the problem then we can be
loose from the problem then we can be part of the solution and this is what I
part of the solution and this is what I
part of the solution and this is what I think we should focus on because we are
think we should focus on because we are
think we should focus on because we are headed for amazing and beautiful and
headed for amazing and beautiful and
headed for amazing and beautiful and human relationships thank you
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