a very bold topic there is a common misconception that you have to be an
misconception that you have to be an
misconception that you have to be an extrovert to come out of the stage and
extrovert to come out of the stage and
extrovert to come out of the stage and skate to the audience being an introvert
skate to the audience being an introvert
skate to the audience being an introvert like myself five the time standing here
like myself five the time standing here
like myself five the time standing here in front of the large audience and that
in front of the large audience and that
in front of the large audience and that everything is being recorded is an
everything is being recorded is an
everything is being recorded is an artist thinking itself because the fact
artist thinking itself because the fact
artist thinking itself because the fact that I’m still able to speak means over
that I’m still able to speak means over
that I’m still able to speak means over to me I’m as as I was introduced I’m a
to me I’m as as I was introduced I’m a
to me I’m as as I was introduced I’m a developer by nature and I was expecting
developer by nature and I was expecting
developer by nature and I was expecting that after some time I will be able to
that after some time I will be able to
that after some time I will be able to do these sessions without stage fright
do these sessions without stage fright
do these sessions without stage fright but the fact is that still quite couple
but the fact is that still quite couple
but the fact is that still quite couple of years later I still have the same
of years later I still have the same
of years later I still have the same stage fright and stay same issue when I
stage fright and stay same issue when I
stage fright and stay same issue when I start to talk on my voice starts to
start to talk on my voice starts to
start to talk on my voice starts to tremble and it takes me some time to
tremble and it takes me some time to
tremble and it takes me some time to stabilize and be able to deliver the
stabilize and be able to deliver the
stabilize and be able to deliver the comp so I’m a developer which means that
comp so I’m a developer which means that
comp so I’m a developer which means that most of the time I have a communication
most of the time I have a communication
most of the time I have a communication with my computer and if I make a syntax
with my computer and if I make a syntax
with my computer and if I make a syntax error I don’t get judged by that
error I don’t get judged by that
error I don’t get judged by that everything works really well which is
everything works really well which is
everything works really well which is not the case when you do a public
not the case when you do a public
not the case when you do a public appearance so the real question here is
appearance so the real question here is
appearance so the real question here is why am I doing this why am I exposing
why am I doing this why am I exposing
why am I doing this why am I exposing myself to a stress why am i doing all
myself to a stress why am i doing all
myself to a stress why am i doing all these spiny Kings why do I neatest up to
these spiny Kings why do I neatest up to
these spiny Kings why do I neatest up to me public speaking is sort of adrenaline
me public speaking is sort of adrenaline
me public speaking is sort of adrenaline rush it puts me in survival mode it
rush it puts me in survival mode it
rush it puts me in survival mode it sends me to fight or flight to think
sends me to fight or flight to think
sends me to fight or flight to think fight or flight should I just cancel it
fight or flight should I just cancel it
fight or flight should I just cancel it out or should I continue and during the
out or should I continue and during the
out or should I continue and during the preparation phase when I’m building my
preparation phase when I’m building my
preparation phase when I’m building my topic I usually analyze what I have to
topic I usually analyze what I have to
topic I usually analyze what I have to deliver and then I see that I had
deliver and then I see that I had
deliver and then I see that I had certain gaps in the knowledge those gaps
certain gaps in the knowledge those gaps
certain gaps in the knowledge those gaps are actually the stuff that bring you
are actually the stuff that bring you
are actually the stuff that bring you down when you talk to the audience they
down when you talk to the audience they
down when you talk to the audience they start that you didn’t cover you just
start that you didn’t cover you just
start that you didn’t cover you just kind of overlook them and let them
kind of overlook them and let them
kind of overlook them and let them standing there and your audience is left
standing there and your audience is left
standing there and your audience is left with the questions so I usually tend to
with the questions so I usually tend to
with the questions so I usually tend to eliminate those gaps before i start to
eliminate those gaps before i start to
eliminate those gaps before i start to speak and in that process when I’m
speak and in that process when I’m
speak and in that process when I’m eliminating the fact those gaps I’m
eliminating the fact those gaps I’m
eliminating the fact those gaps I’m actually doing more research and
actually doing more research and
actually doing more research and learning more and more and that part
learning more and more and that part
learning more and more and that part that I have to do keeps me moving and I
that I have to do keeps me moving and I
that I have to do keeps me moving and I keep constantly improving and that is
keep constantly improving and that is
keep constantly improving and that is the reason why am i doing public
the reason why am i doing public
the reason why am i doing public speaking it’s not something
speaking it’s not something
speaking it’s not something move it but it’s something that I got
move it but it’s something that I got
move it but it’s something that I got addicted some people do public speaking
addicted some people do public speaking
addicted some people do public speaking just for the fame and glory the other
just for the fame and glory the other
just for the fame and glory the other people do it because they like to share
people do it because they like to share
people do it because they like to share their knowledge with the community
their knowledge with the community
their knowledge with the community whatever the reason is behind it it
whatever the reason is behind it it
whatever the reason is behind it it really does not matter what matter is
really does not matter what matter is
really does not matter what matter is that you are motivated to do the public
that you are motivated to do the public
that you are motivated to do the public speaking and the common thing that all
speaking and the common thing that all
speaking and the common thing that all speakers have the common question they
speakers have the common question they
speakers have the common question they are always looking at night before is
are always looking at night before is
are always looking at night before is how do I keep my audience in the room
how do I keep my audience in the room
how do I keep my audience in the room now of course there are a couple of easy
now of course there are a couple of easy
now of course there are a couple of easy solution that you can do like walk the
solution that you can do like walk the
solution that you can do like walk the dork and don’t what time we get let’s
dork and don’t what time we get let’s
dork and don’t what time we get let’s talk about some less in the is it
talk about some less in the is it
talk about some less in the is it matters that you can apply which brings
matters that you can apply which brings
matters that you can apply which brings us to the first pillar of mastering the
us to the first pillar of mastering the
us to the first pillar of mastering the public speaking which is respect your
public speaking which is respect your
public speaking which is respect your audience it’s not really visible here
audience it’s not really visible here
audience it’s not really visible here but I like to look at the audience as a
but I like to look at the audience as a
but I like to look at the audience as a whole full of mirrors every mirror that
whole full of mirrors every mirror that
whole full of mirrors every mirror that you look at reflects back at you with a
you look at reflects back at you with a
you look at reflects back at you with a different time where you get a
different time where you get a
different time where you get a completely different image and the only
completely different image and the only
completely different image and the only way that you can see that you’re doing a
way that you can see that you’re doing a
way that you can see that you’re doing a good stage act that you’re doing
good stage act that you’re doing
good stage act that you’re doing something is that you look yourself in
something is that you look yourself in
something is that you look yourself in the audience eyes which means that
the audience eyes which means that
the audience eyes which means that maintaining eye contact all the time
maintaining eye contact all the time
maintaining eye contact all the time while you’re speaking is something that
while you’re speaking is something that
while you’re speaking is something that you have to be good at now i have seen
you have to be good at now i have seen
you have to be good at now i have seen couple of really great experts in
couple of really great experts in
couple of really great experts in certain areas of expertise that they
certain areas of expertise that they
certain areas of expertise that they know how to deliver stuff but they are
know how to deliver stuff but they are
know how to deliver stuff but they are completely absent from the audience and
completely absent from the audience and
completely absent from the audience and the reason why they do that is because
the reason why they do that is because
the reason why they do that is because they are afraid of the reaction of the
they are afraid of the reaction of the
they are afraid of the reaction of the audience for disappointment in their
audience for disappointment in their
audience for disappointment in their eyes and the fact that they are not
eyes and the fact that they are not
eyes and the fact that they are not maintaining eye contact is the reason
maintaining eye contact is the reason
maintaining eye contact is the reason why the audience is disappointed because
why the audience is disappointed because
why the audience is disappointed because speaker is absent from google so you
speaker is absent from google so you
speaker is absent from google so you have to do i contracted something that
have to do i contracted something that
have to do i contracted something that is mandatory now the other stuff that
is mandatory now the other stuff that
is mandatory now the other stuff that you do by mistake is that you’re on the
you do by mistake is that you’re on the
you do by mistake is that you’re on the stage it’s a bit elevated and you
stage it’s a bit elevated and you
stage it’s a bit elevated and you continue to look in your own aside and
continue to look in your own aside and
continue to look in your own aside and there are actually people syndicate
there are actually people syndicate
there are actually people syndicate sitting in the front rows that are
sitting in the front rows that are
sitting in the front rows that are looking at you this is actually a good
looking at you this is actually a good
looking at you this is actually a good scene here there is some
scene here there is some
scene here there is some distance but I had the opportunity to
distance but I had the opportunity to
distance but I had the opportunity to speak on events there audience are
speak on events there audience are
speak on events there audience are sitting like one meters away from me and
sitting like one meters away from me and
sitting like one meters away from me and then it’s not only that they are sitting
then it’s not only that they are sitting
then it’s not only that they are sitting there but you are kind of feel that
there but you are kind of feel that
there but you are kind of feel that you’re safe space is endangered you have
you’re safe space is endangered you have
you’re safe space is endangered you have to overcome that you have to watch every
to overcome that you have to watch every
to overcome that you have to watch every single guy girl in the room and pay
single guy girl in the room and pay
single guy girl in the room and pay attention to them now it’s very easy
attention to them now it’s very easy
attention to them now it’s very easy that you start to look for approval for
that you start to look for approval for
that you start to look for approval for what you’re saying so you’re trying to
what you’re saying so you’re trying to
what you’re saying so you’re trying to see who is looking at you who’s smiling
see who is looking at you who’s smiling
see who is looking at you who’s smiling at your jokes and then you realize there
at your jokes and then you realize there
at your jokes and then you realize there is a person in the audience who kind of
is a person in the audience who kind of
is a person in the audience who kind of smiles at you all the time and then you
smiles at you all the time and then you
smiles at you all the time and then you work continue to look at that person and
work continue to look at that person and
work continue to look at that person and you establish personal contact and then
you establish personal contact and then
you establish personal contact and then you have a dialogue and you ignore the
you have a dialogue and you ignore the
you have a dialogue and you ignore the rest of the audience that is something
rest of the audience that is something
rest of the audience that is something that you don’t want to do then also
that you don’t want to do then also
that you don’t want to do then also there’s always that one guy who is
there’s always that one guy who is
there’s always that one guy who is sleeping in the audience and you were
sleeping in the audience and you were
sleeping in the audience and you were like a completely angry at him because
like a completely angry at him because
like a completely angry at him because how their scheme to speak at your event
how their scheme to speak at your event
how their scheme to speak at your event you put a lot of effort and he’s just
you put a lot of effort and he’s just
you put a lot of effort and he’s just taking a nap but there’s actually a
taking a nap but there’s actually a
taking a nap but there’s actually a different kind of true that you didn’t
different kind of true that you didn’t
different kind of true that you didn’t consider he might have overtime at work
consider he might have overtime at work
consider he might have overtime at work or maybe late studies and he pulled out
or maybe late studies and he pulled out
or maybe late studies and he pulled out the last bit of his energy to come here
the last bit of his energy to come here
the last bit of his energy to come here to listen to and all he needed is a bit
to listen to and all he needed is a bit
to listen to and all he needed is a bit of your attention but because you were
of your attention but because you were
of your attention but because you were looking there and not at him he kind of
looking there and not at him he kind of
looking there and not at him he kind of sauce sleep so if your duty to keep
sauce sleep so if your duty to keep
sauce sleep so if your duty to keep people who are sleeping all right now
people who are sleeping all right now
people who are sleeping all right now the power point is made welcome of your
the power point is made welcome of your
the power point is made welcome of your present of your session you have to
present of your session you have to
present of your session you have to first you have to give some happening
first you have to give some happening
first you have to give some happening some animation to the audience and also
some animation to the audience and also
some animation to the audience and also it’s used to remind you what you have to
it’s used to remind you what you have to
it’s used to remind you what you have to say but if you do stuff like this people
say but if you do stuff like this people
say but if you do stuff like this people focus to read what you just written and
focus to read what you just written and
focus to read what you just written and then they are reading like a bowl of
then they are reading like a bowl of
then they are reading like a bowl of text and nobody’s listening to you so
text and nobody’s listening to you so
text and nobody’s listening to you so you can as well just leave the stage sit
you can as well just leave the stage sit
you can as well just leave the stage sit down put the time around and let the
down put the time around and let the
down put the time around and let the test scroll at some normal pace so don’t
test scroll at some normal pace so don’t
test scroll at some normal pace so don’t do this because the main reason why are
do this because the main reason why are
do this because the main reason why are you here is to entertain your audience
you here is to entertain your audience
you here is to entertain your audience all the time if you’re not able to do
all the time if you’re not able to do
all the time if you’re not able to do that you lose their focus now once you
that you lose their focus now once you
that you lose their focus now once you once you can establish the connection
once you can establish the connection
once you can establish the connection with the audience you have a clear
with the audience you have a clear
with the audience you have a clear channel through which you can put your
channel through which you can put your
channel through which you can put your thoughts directly into their mind you
thoughts directly into their mind you
thoughts directly into their mind you have a limited amount of time through
have a limited amount of time through
have a limited amount of time through which that channel is being open it
which that channel is being open it
which that channel is being open it depends only on this on how much are you
depends only on this on how much are you
depends only on this on how much are you able to keep their attention span so you
able to keep their attention span so you
able to keep their attention span so you have to focus on what do you
have to focus on what do you
have to focus on what do you we want to deliver you have to if you’re
we want to deliver you have to if you’re
we want to deliver you have to if you’re covering a broad topic like this one you
covering a broad topic like this one you
covering a broad topic like this one you have to focus on what exactly do you
have to focus on what exactly do you
have to focus on what exactly do you want to cover in those 15 minutes and be
want to cover in those 15 minutes and be
want to cover in those 15 minutes and be and take the most interesting parts and
and take the most interesting parts and
and take the most interesting parts and deliver those parts now that we have
deliver those parts now that we have
deliver those parts now that we have touched the base on the on the concept
touched the base on the on the concept
touched the base on the on the concept on the content that you had to deliver
on the content that you had to deliver
on the content that you had to deliver Nexus the next pillar that you have to
Nexus the next pillar that you have to
Nexus the next pillar that you have to learn how to master is to be relevant
learn how to master is to be relevant
learn how to master is to be relevant that means that everybody has opinion
that means that everybody has opinion
that means that everybody has opinion and everybody is entitled to it everyone
and everybody is entitled to it everyone
and everybody is entitled to it everyone is free to express their views but
is free to express their views but
is free to express their views but audiences are people who are coming to
audiences are people who are coming to
audiences are people who are coming to events like this actually want to learn
events like this actually want to learn
events like this actually want to learn about stuff that has been proven about
about stuff that has been proven about
about stuff that has been proven about your expertise that is backed up with
your expertise that is backed up with
your expertise that is backed up with great results or with some tax talking
great results or with some tax talking
great results or with some tax talking only about expressing on your opinion
only about expressing on your opinion
only about expressing on your opinion and how things could be done is
and how things could be done is
and how things could be done is sometimes good but people really want to
sometimes good but people really want to
sometimes good but people really want to take something away from your session so
take something away from your session so
take something away from your session so when we say be relevant you have to
when we say be relevant you have to
when we say be relevant you have to actually talk about topics that you have
actually talk about topics that you have
actually talk about topics that you have some results behind however in some
some results behind however in some
some results behind however in some scenarios you actually cannot pick the
scenarios you actually cannot pick the
scenarios you actually cannot pick the topic you have been asked to deliver
topic you have been asked to deliver
topic you have been asked to deliver some content now the easiest option is
some content now the easiest option is
some content now the easiest option is just to say no i don’t i don’t feel
just to say no i don’t i don’t feel
just to say no i don’t i don’t feel comfortable speaking about that topic
comfortable speaking about that topic
comfortable speaking about that topic but there are ways that you can actually
but there are ways that you can actually
but there are ways that you can actually do that so if you’re new to an area and
do that so if you’re new to an area and
do that so if you’re new to an area and you in doing the research what you have
you in doing the research what you have
you in doing the research what you have can do is to over the expectations of
can do is to over the expectations of
can do is to over the expectations of the audience so if you’re not an expert
the audience so if you’re not an expert
the audience so if you’re not an expert right away at the very beginning inform
right away at the very beginning inform
right away at the very beginning inform the audience that you naughty expect but
the audience that you naughty expect but
the audience that you naughty expect but you are excited about the topic and you
you are excited about the topic and you
you are excited about the topic and you want to share that excitement with them
want to share that excitement with them
want to share that excitement with them that helps you to keep the senior
that helps you to keep the senior
that helps you to keep the senior audience in deep in the room you just
audience in deep in the room you just
audience in deep in the room you just have to invite them you tell them please
have to invite them you tell them please
have to invite them you tell them please stay don’t leave help me out to make
stay don’t leave help me out to make
stay don’t leave help me out to make this session very interesting so should
this session very interesting so should
this session very interesting so should the excitement invites experienced
the excitement invites experienced
the excitement invites experienced audience to say to say and what will
audience to say to say and what will
audience to say to say and what will happen is that the experienced audience
happen is that the experienced audience
happen is that the experienced audience will give you comments remarks advices
will give you comments remarks advices
will give you comments remarks advices embrace them do not escape that those
embrace them do not escape that those
embrace them do not escape that those people are actually helping you
people are actually helping you
people are actually helping you personally to move forward to learn more
personally to move forward to learn more
personally to move forward to learn more about the topic so don’t pretend to be
about the topic so don’t pretend to be
about the topic so don’t pretend to be an expert if you really are not an
an expert if you really are not an
an expert if you really are not an expert the other approach that you can
expert the other approach that you can
expert the other approach that you can take is to declare session as a debate
take is to declare session as a debate
take is to declare session as a debate or discussion
or discussion
or discussion that means that uniform a topic that
that means that uniform a topic that
that means that uniform a topic that indicates that there will be some
indicates that there will be some
indicates that there will be some discussion about something like for
discussion about something like for
discussion about something like for example if you’re doing a TED talk you
example if you’re doing a TED talk you
example if you’re doing a TED talk you can say technology X versus technology y
can say technology X versus technology y
can say technology X versus technology y which one is better for the future that
which one is better for the future that
which one is better for the future that will inform the audience that they will
will inform the audience that they will
will inform the audience that they will not learn something concrete but rather
not learn something concrete but rather
not learn something concrete but rather be involved in the larger discussion so
be involved in the larger discussion so
be involved in the larger discussion so focus when you’re building that kind of
focus when you’re building that kind of
focus when you’re building that kind of session is not on building statements
session is not on building statements
session is not on building statements because you’re not an expert you cannot
because you’re not an expert you cannot
because you’re not an expert you cannot back them up with expertise with
back them up with expertise with
back them up with expertise with experience your focus is to build as
experience your focus is to build as
experience your focus is to build as much as it as much intriguing questions
much as it as much intriguing questions
much as it as much intriguing questions as you can those intriguing questions
as you can those intriguing questions
as you can those intriguing questions you’ll keep the session alive LLL me and
you’ll keep the session alive LLL me and
you’ll keep the session alive LLL me and make audience engaged the next pillar
make audience engaged the next pillar
make audience engaged the next pillar also that we have to talk about is to be
also that we have to talk about is to be
also that we have to talk about is to be reliable you cannot be sixty percent of
reliable you cannot be sixty percent of
reliable you cannot be sixty percent of the time right you cannot be sixty
the time right you cannot be sixty
the time right you cannot be sixty percent right one hundred percent of the
percent right one hundred percent of the
percent right one hundred percent of the time or the other way around I have
time or the other way around I have
time or the other way around I have managed to build a career point of
managed to build a career point of
managed to build a career point of professional speaking part was really
professional speaking part was really
professional speaking part was really long it took me what a practicing lot of
long it took me what a practicing lot of
long it took me what a practicing lot of a lot of sessions that I didn’t know how
a lot of sessions that I didn’t know how
a lot of sessions that I didn’t know how to end up but I decided to take a risk
to end up but I decided to take a risk
to end up but I decided to take a risk if you want to build career one
if you want to build career one
if you want to build career one important think that you have Hoey you
important think that you have Hoey you
important think that you have Hoey you always have to take care of is how to
always have to take care of is how to
always have to take care of is how to maintain your credibility that means
maintain your credibility that means
maintain your credibility that means that you cannot lead people to believe
that you cannot lead people to believe
that you cannot lead people to believe that something is true if it is not that
that something is true if it is not that
that something is true if it is not that happens quite often when people when the
happens quite often when people when the
happens quite often when people when the speakers are asked a question from the
speakers are asked a question from the
speakers are asked a question from the audience that they didn’t prepare for
audience that they didn’t prepare for
audience that they didn’t prepare for and instead of saying that they do not
and instead of saying that they do not
and instead of saying that they do not know the answer they basically start
know the answer they basically start
know the answer they basically start with these defects they introduce the
with these defects they introduce the
with these defects they introduce the terminology that is not even relevant to
terminology that is not even relevant to
terminology that is not even relevant to the topic just to make the audience
the topic just to make the audience
the topic just to make the audience confused to shift away the fact that
confused to shift away the fact that
confused to shift away the fact that they don’t know the answer there is
they don’t know the answer there is
they don’t know the answer there is absolutely nothing wrong in not knowing
absolutely nothing wrong in not knowing
absolutely nothing wrong in not knowing all the answers to all the questions if
all the answers to all the questions if
all the answers to all the questions if you mislead someone once or twice you
you mislead someone once or twice you
you mislead someone once or twice you can do it once or twice but sooner or
can do it once or twice but sooner or
can do it once or twice but sooner or later that’s your back fire at you
later that’s your back fire at you
later that’s your back fire at you people will know that you’re not talking
people will know that you’re not talking
people will know that you’re not talking the correct fact and you will lose their
the correct fact and you will lose their
the correct fact and you will lose their credibility
credibility
credibility that is something that is really really
that is something that is really really
that is something that is really really hard to colorful so everyone makes
hard to colorful so everyone makes
hard to colorful so everyone makes mistakes don’t be afraid of it as long
mistakes don’t be afraid of it as long
mistakes don’t be afraid of it as long as you are transparent about it it’s
as you are transparent about it it’s
as you are transparent about it it’s fine don’t don’t think about yourself
fine don’t don’t think about yourself
fine don’t don’t think about yourself that you’re a bad speak it happens
that you’re a bad speak it happens
that you’re a bad speak it happens occasional and the final pillar which is
occasional and the final pillar which is
occasional and the final pillar which is actually the one of the most important
actually the one of the most important
actually the one of the most important choices when you start to talk as a
choices when you start to talk as a
choices when you start to talk as a public speaker your first sessions are
public speaker your first sessions are
public speaker your first sessions are the most difficult ones for you you
the most difficult ones for you you
the most difficult ones for you you don’t know can you do it you’re
don’t know can you do it you’re
don’t know can you do it you’re experimenting but over time you get
experimenting but over time you get
experimenting but over time you get comfortable you start you know what what
comfortable you start you know what what
comfortable you start you know what what tricks can you use what where’s your
tricks can you use what where’s your
tricks can you use what where’s your safe area and at some point you might
safe area and at some point you might
safe area and at some point you might even start to believe that you are
even start to believe that you are
even start to believe that you are better than the audience smart do that
better than the audience smart do that
better than the audience smart do that you’re the smartest guy in the room
you’re the smartest guy in the room
you’re the smartest guy in the room there is no such a thing as the smartest
there is no such a thing as the smartest
there is no such a thing as the smartest guy in the room you could be at that
guy in the room you could be at that
guy in the room you could be at that point the most informed guy in the room
point the most informed guy in the room
point the most informed guy in the room on that specific topic but it’s just a
on that specific topic but it’s just a
on that specific topic but it’s just a small role so you don’t want ever no
small role so you don’t want ever no
small role so you don’t want ever no matter what to look from the above if
matter what to look from the above if
matter what to look from the above if you are senior and you’re talking about
you are senior and you’re talking about
you are senior and you’re talking about talking to students don’t look above on
talking to students don’t look above on
talking to students don’t look above on that sometimes enterprise you have been
that sometimes enterprise you have been
that sometimes enterprise you have been it at their position also that we can
it at their position also that we can
it at their position also that we can basically touched the to our academies
basically touched the to our academies
basically touched the to our academies of the public speaker and those are the
of the public speaker and those are the
of the public speaker and those are the same angle or e if they always get into
same angle or e if they always get into
same angle or e if they always get into your head you will go to the part that
your head you will go to the part that
your head you will go to the part that eventually people will dislike you
eventually people will dislike you
eventually people will dislike you because they will say that you’re
because they will say that you’re
because they will say that you’re pompous and you don’t you just see no
pompous and you don’t you just see no
pompous and you don’t you just see no matter how quality how good quality of
matter how quality how good quality of
matter how quality how good quality of your content is people who simply not
your content is people who simply not
your content is people who simply not follow on the other hand if you remain
follow on the other hand if you remain
follow on the other hand if you remain humble modest and easy to approach you
humble modest and easy to approach you
humble modest and easy to approach you will solve that first problem that we
will solve that first problem that we
will solve that first problem that we have mentioned and that problem is how
have mentioned and that problem is how
have mentioned and that problem is how to keep people in the room because at
to keep people in the room because at
to keep people in the room because at that point if you deliver quality your
that point if you deliver quality your
that point if you deliver quality your only your reliable your humble and
only your reliable your humble and
only your reliable your humble and approachable you become an influencer
approachable you become an influencer
approachable you become an influencer then you don’t have a problem keeping
then you don’t have a problem keeping
then you don’t have a problem keeping people in the room because those people
people in the room because those people
people in the room because those people are following wherever you speak you
are following wherever you speak you
are following wherever you speak you have a group of fans that come to listen
have a group of fans that come to listen
have a group of fans that come to listen and that is something that you want to
and that is something that you want to
and that is something that you want to do also do not confuse confidence eat
do also do not confuse confidence eat
do also do not confuse confidence eat arrogance confidence is something that
arrogance confidence is something that
arrogance confidence is something that is actually expected by the audience
is actually expected by the audience
is actually expected by the audience they do not want to talk to audience
they do not want to talk to audience
they do not want to talk to audience does not want to hear ideas from God I
does not want to hear ideas from God I
does not want to hear ideas from God I was not
was not
was not believing in those ideas himself so
believing in those ideas himself so
believing in those ideas himself so confidence is something that is not
confidence is something that is not
confidence is something that is not related to arrogance so if you want to
related to arrogance so if you want to
related to arrogance so if you want to emphasize something make it important do
emphasize something make it important do
emphasize something make it important do it people really need to know that you
it people really need to know that you
it people really need to know that you stand behind what you say and finally as
stand behind what you say and finally as
stand behind what you say and finally as you can see i’m walking around doing
you can see i’m walking around doing
you can see i’m walking around doing different stuff posture gestures body
different stuff posture gestures body
different stuff posture gestures body movement everything comes into play
movement everything comes into play
movement everything comes into play together with your voice and with your
together with your voice and with your
together with your voice and with your content all that is part of your stage
content all that is part of your stage
content all that is part of your stage appearance but be aware special events
appearance but be aware special events
appearance but be aware special events like this people tend to get creative
like this people tend to get creative
like this people tend to get creative when you do certain movements so
when you do certain movements so
when you do certain movements so justified falling when it comes when it
justified falling when it comes when it
justified falling when it comes when it comes to a personality type if you are
comes to a personality type if you are
comes to a personality type if you are serious guy and you like to talk
serious guy and you like to talk
serious guy and you like to talk seriously don’t be don’t force the smile
seriously don’t be don’t force the smile
seriously don’t be don’t force the smile on your face in most situations it’s
on your face in most situations it’s
on your face in most situations it’s just an awkward if you’re a cheerful
just an awkward if you’re a cheerful
just an awkward if you’re a cheerful kind of guy like myself that likes to
kind of guy like myself that likes to
kind of guy like myself that likes to smile what just continue to smile a lot
smile what just continue to smile a lot
smile what just continue to smile a lot is not gonna make any difference and the
is not gonna make any difference and the
is not gonna make any difference and the final thing that I want to send us a
final thing that I want to send us a
final thing that I want to send us a message to you because I hope some of
message to you because I hope some of
message to you because I hope some of you will be the next week speaker is how
you will be the next week speaker is how
you will be the next week speaker is how to stop basically they’re out of events
to stop basically they’re out of events
to stop basically they’re out of events happening around all the time this one
happening around all the time this one
happening around all the time this one being monitored you can start by just
being monitored you can start by just
being monitored you can start by just starting to attend those events doesn’t
starting to attend those events doesn’t
starting to attend those events doesn’t matter if you are really good at that
matter if you are really good at that
matter if you are really good at that area just go there and listen to the
area just go there and listen to the
area just go there and listen to the people that are speaking first thing
people that are speaking first thing
people that are speaking first thing that you will see it is that they are
that you will see it is that they are
that you will see it is that they are not actually that good speakers but they
not actually that good speakers but they
not actually that good speakers but they actually just enjoy to share knowledge
actually just enjoy to share knowledge
actually just enjoy to share knowledge and you will see that you’re not that
and you will see that you’re not that
and you will see that you’re not that far away from them second thing that you
far away from them second thing that you
far away from them second thing that you can do is if you don’t know how to
can do is if you don’t know how to
can do is if you don’t know how to actually formulate the telling story how
actually formulate the telling story how
actually formulate the telling story how to keep your pace go sign up for some
to keep your pace go sign up for some
to keep your pace go sign up for some learning platform and listen to some
learning platform and listen to some
learning platform and listen to some courses just to see how find the best
courses just to see how find the best
courses just to see how find the best authors there and just listen how they
authors there and just listen how they
authors there and just listen how they talk it’s not wrong to learn from the
talk it’s not wrong to learn from the
talk it’s not wrong to learn from the from the dogs that are better than then
from the dogs that are better than then
from the dogs that are better than then plan your topic quietly as we said be
plan your topic quietly as we said be
plan your topic quietly as we said be relevant pick something that will be
relevant pick something that will be
relevant pick something that will be interesting to people and that that will
interesting to people and that that will
interesting to people and that that will help people to learn something new you
help people to learn something new you
help people to learn something new you don’t you can’t learn people in 15
don’t you can’t learn people in 15
don’t you can’t learn people in 15 minutes something but you can motivate
minutes something but you can motivate
minutes something but you can motivate them to go to learn more so pick a topic
them to go to learn more so pick a topic
them to go to learn more so pick a topic that will motivate people to learn later
that will motivate people to learn later
that will motivate people to learn later after your session is that once you’re
after your session is that once you’re
after your session is that once you’re done with your selecting the topic you
done with your selecting the topic you
done with your selecting the topic you go again to fill those gaps I’ve already
go again to fill those gaps I’ve already
go again to fill those gaps I’ve already explained voice that import
explained voice that import
explained voice that import then practiced a lot rehearse rehearse
then practiced a lot rehearse rehearse
then practiced a lot rehearse rehearse it your family mature friends even
it your family mature friends even
it your family mature friends even though you think you have everything
though you think you have everything
though you think you have everything under control once you get up on the
under control once you get up on the
under control once you get up on the stage it all collapsed so you need to
stage it all collapsed so you need to
stage it all collapsed so you need to reverse your flow to keep to have your
reverse your flow to keep to have your
reverse your flow to keep to have your message delivered jumping around in the
message delivered jumping around in the
message delivered jumping around in the flow saying oh like okay I have
flow saying oh like okay I have
flow saying oh like okay I have remembered that I need to go back okay
remembered that I need to go back okay
remembered that I need to go back okay so yeah that’s really not gonna help you
so yeah that’s really not gonna help you
so yeah that’s really not gonna help you do it for session with a good quality
do it for session with a good quality
do it for session with a good quality and then when you ready just go for it
and then when you ready just go for it
and then when you ready just go for it they don’t delay inevitably when you
they don’t delay inevitably when you
they don’t delay inevitably when you think we have just go and get it a child
think we have just go and get it a child
think we have just go and get it a child again raise the expectation of sleep
again raise the expectation of sleep
again raise the expectation of sleep expectations of the audience tell them
expectations of the audience tell them
expectations of the audience tell them that you knew and they don’t basically
that you knew and they don’t basically
that you knew and they don’t basically forgive you your gaps my experience that
forgive you your gaps my experience that
forgive you your gaps my experience that audience is very forgetful if you were
audience is very forgetful if you were
audience is very forgetful if you were again modest and humble when you’ve done
again modest and humble when you’ve done
again modest and humble when you’ve done and was the feedback that you have
and was the feedback that you have
and was the feedback that you have received if you haven’t received it ask
received if you haven’t received it ask
received if you haven’t received it ask for it learn from it that is the most
for it learn from it that is the most
for it learn from it that is the most important part of your improvement once
important part of your improvement once
important part of your improvement once you learn from the feedback incorporated
you learn from the feedback incorporated
you learn from the feedback incorporated in your sessions and repeat and then you
in your sessions and repeat and then you
in your sessions and repeat and then you have become a public speaker thank
have become a public speaker thank
have become a public speaker thank [Applause]
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