[Applause] an English writer and political
an English writer and political
an English writer and political activists named Thomas Paine once said
activists named Thomas Paine once said
activists named Thomas Paine once said to argue with the person who has
to argue with the person who has
to argue with the person who has renounced the use of Reason is like
renounced the use of Reason is like
renounced the use of Reason is like administering medicine to the dead
administering medicine to the dead
administering medicine to the dead although he did die over 200 years ago
although he did die over 200 years ago
although he did die over 200 years ago his message has never been more eleven
his message has never been more eleven
his message has never been more eleven then today I remember that after the
then today I remember that after the
then today I remember that after the 2012 US election my fifth grade teacher
2012 US election my fifth grade teacher
2012 US election my fifth grade teacher in Florida Gladys to talk about what had
in Florida Gladys to talk about what had
in Florida Gladys to talk about what had happened the previous night coming from
happened the previous night coming from
happened the previous night coming from an area where there was a diverse amount
an area where there was a diverse amount
an area where there was a diverse amount of political opinions many of my
of political opinions many of my
of political opinions many of my classmates were understandably either
classmates were understandably either
classmates were understandably either very happy or very sad but we got
very happy or very sad but we got
very happy or very sad but we got through our differences and we had a
through our differences and we had a
through our differences and we had a fruitful political conversation or as
fruitful political conversation or as
fruitful political conversation or as fruitful of a conversation as a
fruitful of a conversation as a
fruitful of a conversation as a fifth-grade political talk could get but
fifth-grade political talk could get but
fifth-grade political talk could get but it was what my teachers said after that
it was what my teachers said after that
it was what my teachers said after that really stuck to me she went I like
really stuck to me she went I like
really stuck to me she went I like talking to kids of all politics because
talking to kids of all politics because
talking to kids of all politics because it’s the only group of people that don’t
it’s the only group of people that don’t
it’s the only group of people that don’t yell each other at the time I thought to
yell each other at the time I thought to
yell each other at the time I thought to myself
myself
myself she must be wrong I thought that as
she must be wrong I thought that as
she must be wrong I thought that as people grew up we will just learn to
people grew up we will just learn to
people grew up we will just learn to respect each other even more and that we
respect each other even more and that we
respect each other even more and that we will just live in this big utopia of
will just live in this big utopia of
will just live in this big utopia of rainbows and happiness I was 10 years
rainbows and happiness I was 10 years
rainbows and happiness I was 10 years old it’s so hard to argue that politics
old it’s so hard to argue that politics
old it’s so hard to argue that politics divide people to use the United States
divide people to use the United States
divide people to use the United States as an example over 40% of Americans
as an example over 40% of Americans
as an example over 40% of Americans regardless of whether there are
regardless of whether there are
regardless of whether there are Democrats or Republicans say that each
Democrats or Republicans say that each
Democrats or Republicans say that each other’s party is a major threat to the
other’s party is a major threat to the
other’s party is a major threat to the United States according to a poll dump
United States according to a poll dump
United States according to a poll dump ever UK by Pew Research think about it
ever UK by Pew Research think about it
ever UK by Pew Research think about it millions upon millions of Americans are
millions upon millions of Americans are
millions upon millions of Americans are divided solely on party affiliation
divided solely on party affiliation
divided solely on party affiliation alone the real question then is not if
alone the real question then is not if
alone the real question then is not if politics to my people but why if we ever
politics to my people but why if we ever
politics to my people but why if we ever want to mend this gap we have to look at
want to mend this gap we have to look at
want to mend this gap we have to look at the root cause of the problem and
the root cause of the problem and
the root cause of the problem and research by psychologist Jonathan gate
research by psychologist Jonathan gate
research by psychologist Jonathan gate and Jesse Grahm may begin to provide
and Jesse Grahm may begin to provide
and Jesse Grahm may begin to provide some insight into this issue their
some insight into this issue their
some insight into this issue their research indicate that people tend to
research indicate that people tend to
research indicate that people tend to endorse specific political policies
endorse specific political policies
endorse specific political policies based on the moral values that they
based on the moral values that they
based on the moral values that they already held wording I know but the
already held wording I know but the
already held wording I know but the example of sex education in the United
example of sex education in the United
example of sex education in the United States is a great example of this in the
States is a great example of this in the
States is a great example of this in the United States many Democrats advocate
United States many Democrats advocate
United States many Democrats advocate for a more comprehensive education
for a more comprehensive education
for a more comprehensive education program as they believe that it will
program as they believe that it will
program as they believe that it will reduce rates of teen pregnancy and stds
reduce rates of teen pregnancy and stds
reduce rates of teen pregnancy and stds missions emphasizing the more liberal
missions emphasizing the more liberal
missions emphasizing the more liberal values of avoiding harm or King for
values of avoiding harm or King for
values of avoiding harm or King for others on the other side many
others on the other side many
others on the other side many Republicans tend to endorse abstinence
Republicans tend to endorse abstinence
Republicans tend to endorse abstinence only policies as it emphasizes the more
only policies as it emphasizes the more
only policies as it emphasizes the more conservative value of maintaining purity
conservative value of maintaining purity
conservative value of maintaining purity this reveals that political division may
this reveals that political division may
this reveals that political division may not be a result of a difference in
not be a result of a difference in
not be a result of a difference in opinion on specific policies per se but
opinion on specific policies per se but
opinion on specific policies per se but rather a difference of opinion on moral
rather a difference of opinion on moral
rather a difference of opinion on moral values and this just might be why
values and this just might be why
values and this just might be why politics is so divisive you never
politics is so divisive you never
politics is so divisive you never actually see people fighting over
actually see people fighting over
actually see people fighting over whether Coke or Pepsi is better as
whether Coke or Pepsi is better as
whether Coke or Pepsi is better as although copious obviously better
although copious obviously better
although copious obviously better there’s just no moral conflicts that
there’s just no moral conflicts that
there’s just no moral conflicts that play into this in the slightest I mean
play into this in the slightest I mean
play into this in the slightest I mean if you’re really into soda that could be
if you’re really into soda that could be
if you’re really into soda that could be but that’s just a little weird now that
but that’s just a little weird now that
but that’s just a little weird now that we’ve established a main road root cause
we’ve established a main road root cause
we’ve established a main road root cause of the problem it’s easier to discuss
of the problem it’s easier to discuss
of the problem it’s easier to discuss solutions and for me it could be broken
solutions and for me it could be broken
solutions and for me it could be broken down into three steps understand respect
down into three steps understand respect
down into three steps understand respect and appeal number one understand their
and appeal number one understand their
and appeal number one understand their moral values once you’ve begun to engage
moral values once you’ve begun to engage
moral values once you’ve begun to engage in discussion really narrow out why they
in discussion really narrow out why they
in discussion really narrow out why they believe the things that they do could it
believe the things that they do could it
believe the things that they do could it be because of family up earnings
be because of family up earnings
be because of family up earnings religion their environment if you only
religion their environment if you only
religion their environment if you only try to present your side without trying
try to present your side without trying
try to present your side without trying to understand theirs it is unlikely that
to understand theirs it is unlikely that
to understand theirs it is unlikely that they will listen to anything you might
they will listen to anything you might
they will listen to anything you might have to say if you sincerely show that
have to say if you sincerely show that
have to say if you sincerely show that you are attempting to understand their
you are attempting to understand their
you are attempting to understand their perspective no matter how much you
perspective no matter how much you
perspective no matter how much you disagree if you do that then you will be
disagree if you do that then you will be
disagree if you do that then you will be more this leads on to my next step which
more this leads on to my next step which
more this leads on to my next step which is to respect them as a person respect
is to respect them as a person respect
is to respect them as a person respect plays into the actual debate itself you
plays into the actual debate itself you
plays into the actual debate itself you might consider attacking them with
might consider attacking them with
might consider attacking them with personal unrelated remarks but this
personal unrelated remarks but this
personal unrelated remarks but this achieves absolutely nothing try to
achieves absolutely nothing try to
achieves absolutely nothing try to acknowledge that the other person is
acknowledge that the other person is
acknowledge that the other person is also a living human with
also a living human with
also a living human with thoughts and feelings crazy right but
thoughts and feelings crazy right but
thoughts and feelings crazy right but how do I get someone to listen to me
how do I get someone to listen to me
how do I get someone to listen to me actually and be persuaded by me you
actually and be persuaded by me you
actually and be persuaded by me you might ask well appeal to their morals
might ask well appeal to their morals
might ask well appeal to their morals this ties the last two steps together
this ties the last two steps together
this ties the last two steps together you’ve established that you understand
you’ve established that you understand
you’ve established that you understand them as a person and you’ve established
them as a person and you’ve established
them as a person and you’ve established that you respect their opinions and
that you respect their opinions and
that you respect their opinions and beliefs so it’s easier to appeal to what
beliefs so it’s easier to appeal to what
beliefs so it’s easier to appeal to what they already believe in for example you
they already believe in for example you
they already believe in for example you might know a Democrat who is opposed to
might know a Democrat who is opposed to
might know a Democrat who is opposed to increase military spending you will be
increase military spending you will be
increase military spending you will be more persuasive if you connect that with
more persuasive if you connect that with
more persuasive if you connect that with if you connect that with their more
if you connect that with their more
if you connect that with their more liberal values of maintaining avoiding
liberal values of maintaining avoiding
liberal values of maintaining avoiding harm and caring for others by saying
harm and caring for others by saying
harm and caring for others by saying that an increase in the military budget
that an increase in the military budget
that an increase in the military budget will protect and aid those in other
will protect and aid those in other
will protect and aid those in other countries that are vulnerable to
countries that are vulnerable to
countries that are vulnerable to violence on the other hand on the other
violence on the other hand on the other
violence on the other hand on the other hand you might also know a Republican
hand you might also know a Republican
hand you might also know a Republican who is opposed to increased taxes
who is opposed to increased taxes
who is opposed to increased taxes connect with their more conservative
connect with their more conservative
connect with their more conservative value of Picher patriotism a more
value of Picher patriotism a more
value of Picher patriotism a more conservative value by suggesting that
conservative value by suggesting that
conservative value by suggesting that it’s their duty to help fellow citizens
it’s their duty to help fellow citizens
it’s their duty to help fellow citizens through social programs that are funded
through social programs that are funded
through social programs that are funded by their taxes now these are only two
by their taxes now these are only two
by their taxes now these are only two examples but I find that this works in
examples but I find that this works in
examples but I find that this works in most cases today I’m not trying to say
most cases today I’m not trying to say
most cases today I’m not trying to say that these steps will get rid of
that these steps will get rid of
that these steps will get rid of political order by sickness completely
political order by sickness completely
political order by sickness completely it won’t but even if it events one
it won’t but even if it events one
it won’t but even if it events one shouting match at the dinner table or
shouting match at the dinner table or
shouting match at the dinner table or angry comment left on the Facebook post
angry comment left on the Facebook post
angry comment left on the Facebook post I’d be happy a sharing of opinions
I’d be happy a sharing of opinions
I’d be happy a sharing of opinions informs people and widens their mindset
informs people and widens their mindset
informs people and widens their mindset on how their fellow citizens view the
on how their fellow citizens view the
on how their fellow citizens view the world so when it comes to politics
world so when it comes to politics
world so when it comes to politics understand and respect each other
understand and respect each other
understand and respect each other because it’s the least we can do so
because it’s the least we can do so
because it’s the least we can do so going back to our friend Thomas Paine
going back to our friend Thomas Paine
going back to our friend Thomas Paine when he compared arguing with an
when he compared arguing with an
when he compared arguing with an unreasonable person to giving dead
unreasonable person to giving dead
unreasonable person to giving dead people medicine could be right but maybe
people medicine could be right but maybe
people medicine could be right but maybe just maybe it’s time to bring the dead
just maybe it’s time to bring the dead
just maybe it’s time to bring the dead back to life thank you
back to life thank you
back to life thank you [Applause]
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