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annika Vey

annika Vey I am a sophomore at Michigan I’m a

I am a sophomore at Michigan I’m a

I am a sophomore at Michigan I’m a self-proclaimed mad scientist and

self-proclaimed mad scientist and

self-proclaimed mad scientist and inventor of molecules and I really

inventor of molecules and I really

inventor of molecules and I really really wanted to come out here today and

really wanted to come out here today and

really wanted to come out here today and lecture you guys about my scientific

lecture you guys about my scientific

lecture you guys about my scientific research but I was told that that would

research but I was told that that would

research but I was told that that would be a little bit boring so lucky for you

be a little bit boring so lucky for you

be a little bit boring so lucky for you guys I’m actually here to talk about my

guys I’m actually here to talk about my

guys I’m actually here to talk about my long term goals and more specifically

long term goals and more specifically

long term goals and more specifically why I stopped setting them okay I’m

why I stopped setting them okay I’m

why I stopped setting them okay I’m sorry I lied this is a little bit of

sorry I lied this is a little bit of

sorry I lied this is a little bit of chemistry so in chemistry we have

chemistry so in chemistry we have

chemistry so in chemistry we have something called a limiting reagent and

something called a limiting reagent and

something called a limiting reagent and in a chemical reaction the limiting

in a chemical reaction the limiting

in a chemical reaction the limiting reagent is the substance that is

reagent is the substance that is

reagent is the substance that is completely consumed by the time the

completely consumed by the time the

completely consumed by the time the reaction is complete so basically it

reaction is complete so basically it

reaction is complete so basically it just limits the entire reaction and

just limits the entire reaction and

just limits the entire reaction and without it the reaction cannot continue

without it the reaction cannot continue

without it the reaction cannot continue so then we’re left with something called

so then we’re left with something called

so then we’re left with something called an excess reagent but the excess reagent

an excess reagent but the excess reagent

an excess reagent but the excess reagent is the substance that is left over after

is the substance that is left over after

is the substance that is left over after the reaction is complete so let’s think

the reaction is complete so let’s think

the reaction is complete so let’s think of our long term goals as the limiting

of our long term goals as the limiting

of our long term goals as the limiting reagent and let’s think of our potential

reagent and let’s think of our potential

reagent and let’s think of our potential as the excess reagent why settle for

as the excess reagent why settle for

as the excess reagent why settle for making for hotdogs if you could arguably

making for hotdogs if you could arguably

making for hotdogs if you could arguably make an infinite amount of hotdogs and

make an infinite amount of hotdogs and

make an infinite amount of hotdogs and just for the record I don’t really like

just for the record I don’t really like

just for the record I don’t really like hotdogs but it was the easiest example

hotdogs but it was the easiest example

hotdogs but it was the easiest example that I could find

that I could find

that I could find visually anyways the issue with setting

visually anyways the issue with setting

visually anyways the issue with setting long term goals is that it causes us to

long term goals is that it causes us to

long term goals is that it causes us to be practical conventional wisdom tells

be practical conventional wisdom tells

be practical conventional wisdom tells us to set goals that are mark they’re

us to set goals that are mark they’re

us to set goals that are mark they’re specific measurable achievable realistic

specific measurable achievable realistic

specific measurable achievable realistic timely

timely

timely and many highly successful people over

and many highly successful people over

and many highly successful people over the course of their careers have

the course of their careers have

the course of their careers have realized that setting SMART goals is

realized that setting SMART goals is

realized that setting SMART goals is really effective for the short-term but

really effective for the short-term but

really effective for the short-term but they also realized that to have a real

they also realized that to have a real

they also realized that to have a real impact they need to chase dreams and I

impact they need to chase dreams and I

impact they need to chase dreams and I know that sounds like a cliche like

know that sounds like a cliche like

know that sounds like a cliche like dream yeah we get it but I’ve been to a

dream yeah we get it but I’ve been to a

dream yeah we get it but I’ve been to a few speeches in the past couple of years

few speeches in the past couple of years

few speeches in the past couple of years and some of the things that they’ve said

and some of the things that they’ve said

and some of the things that they’ve said have really inspired me so there are

have really inspired me so there are

have really inspired me so there are some caveats to dreaming and a few rules

some caveats to dreaming and a few rules

some caveats to dreaming and a few rules that go along with it

that go along with it

that go along with it for example you can’t just wake up one

for example you can’t just wake up one

for example you can’t just wake up one day and say okay my new goal is to

day and say okay my new goal is to

day and say okay my new goal is to become a billionaire as self-made

become a billionaire as self-made

become a billionaire as self-made billionaire john d rockefeller said if

billionaire john d rockefeller said if

billionaire john d rockefeller said if your only goal in life is to become a

your only goal in life is to become a

your only goal in life is to become a billionaire then you’ll never achieve it

billionaire then you’ll never achieve it

billionaire then you’ll never achieve it and jason silva

and jason silva

and jason silva also has a very dream where the approach

also has a very dream where the approach

also has a very dream where the approach to life i was at one of his speeches and

to life i was at one of his speeches and

to life i was at one of his speeches and he says something that really stuck with

he says something that really stuck with

he says something that really stuck with me

me

me he said to be a billionaire is not to

he said to be a billionaire is not to

he said to be a billionaire is not to make billions of dollars but to affect

make billions of dollars but to affect

make billions of dollars but to affect the lives of billions of people and the

the lives of billions of people and the

the lives of billions of people and the most important thing to me something

most important thing to me something

most important thing to me something that Michael Dell says because it’s

that Michael Dell says because it’s

that Michael Dell says because it’s happened to me a lot and it kind of

happened to me a lot and it kind of

happened to me a lot and it kind of justifies my actions he says that if

justifies my actions he says that if

justifies my actions he says that if people are not laughing at your goals

people are not laughing at your goals

people are not laughing at your goals then they’re not big enough to ever

then they’re not big enough to ever

then they’re not big enough to ever evolve into a dream I’m gonna say that

evolve into a dream I’m gonna say that

evolve into a dream I’m gonna say that again it’s just it’s so important to me

again it’s just it’s so important to me

again it’s just it’s so important to me if people are not laughing at your goals

if people are not laughing at your goals

if people are not laughing at your goals they’re not big enough to ever evolve

they’re not big enough to ever evolve

they’re not big enough to ever evolve into a dream and if you don’t take

into a dream and if you don’t take

into a dream and if you don’t take anything else away from my talk I want

anything else away from my talk I want

anything else away from my talk I want you to remember that so the last

you to remember that so the last

you to remember that so the last the last rule to dreaming and I’ve

the last rule to dreaming and I’ve

the last rule to dreaming and I’ve already said it avoid setting SMART

already said it avoid setting SMART

already said it avoid setting SMART goals at all costs otherwise you might

goals at all costs otherwise you might

goals at all costs otherwise you might wake up ten years from now and you might

wake up ten years from now and you might

wake up ten years from now and you might say where the rest of my buns were

say where the rest of my buns were

say where the rest of my buns were similarly why did I settle for making

similarly why did I settle for making

similarly why did I settle for making four hot dogs when I could have made an

four hot dogs when I could have made an

four hot dogs when I could have made an infinite amount of hot dogs no I’ll tell

infinite amount of hot dogs no I’ll tell

infinite amount of hot dogs no I’ll tell you a story about someone who set SMART

you a story about someone who set SMART

you a story about someone who set SMART goals me sophomore year of high school I

goals me sophomore year of high school I

goals me sophomore year of high school I was going to be the first person in my

was going to be the first person in my

was going to be the first person in my immediate family to attend a four-year

immediate family to attend a four-year

immediate family to attend a four-year university

university

university so I started preparing pretty early

so I started preparing pretty early

so I started preparing pretty early early sophomore year I went to my family

early sophomore year I went to my family

early sophomore year I went to my family I think it was over dinner I don’t

I think it was over dinner I don’t

I think it was over dinner I don’t remember and I said guys I have my plan

remember and I said guys I have my plan

remember and I said guys I have my plan I am going to attend Texas A&M

I am going to attend Texas A&M

I am going to attend Texas A&M University to study petroleum

University to study petroleum

University to study petroleum engineering and then I’m going to go on

engineering and then I’m going to go on

engineering and then I’m going to go on and become a Drilling Engineer at

and become a Drilling Engineer at

and become a Drilling Engineer at Chevron and I’m going to climb up the

Chevron and I’m going to climb up the

Chevron and I’m going to climb up the corporate ladder

corporate ladder

corporate ladder just like Chevron’s the CEO did and I

just like Chevron’s the CEO did and I

just like Chevron’s the CEO did and I lived in New Orleans and so the oil

lived in New Orleans and so the oil

lived in New Orleans and so the oil industry is very big there so that’s why

industry is very big there so that’s why

industry is very big there so that’s why that was my specific goal but here’s

that was my specific goal but here’s

that was my specific goal but here’s where I went wrong I went to my family

where I went wrong I went to my family

where I went wrong I went to my family and I said that and they didn’t laugh

and I said that and they didn’t laugh

and I said that and they didn’t laugh instead my mom said okay great let’s

instead my mom said okay great let’s

instead my mom said okay great let’s plan a road trip let’s let’s go to Texas

plan a road trip let’s let’s go to Texas

plan a road trip let’s let’s go to Texas A&M and that burgundy tank top isn’t a

A&M and that burgundy tank top isn’t a

A&M and that burgundy tank top isn’t a coincidence and I loved it

coincidence and I loved it

coincidence and I loved it but that’s where I went wrong I I fell

but that’s where I went wrong I I fell

but that’s where I went wrong I I fell into the trap of security I loved the

into the trap of security I loved the

into the trap of security I loved the idea of knowing where I would be in four

idea of knowing where I would be in four

idea of knowing where I would be in four years my goal was it was so smart it was

years my goal was it was so smart it was

years my goal was it was so smart it was specific it was measurable I had even

specific it was measurable I had even

specific it was measurable I had even met with an advisor from Texas A&M to

met with an advisor from Texas A&M to

met with an advisor from Texas A&M to figure out how I could get into their

figure out how I could get into their

figure out how I could get into their Honors Program by the time I was a

Honors Program by the time I was a

Honors Program by the time I was a sophomore not in high school in college

sophomore not in high school in college

sophomore not in high school in college I was planning ahead to be a sophomore

I was planning ahead to be a sophomore

I was planning ahead to be a sophomore in college so that’s where I went wrong

in college so that’s where I went wrong

in college so that’s where I went wrong fast-forward

fast-forward

fast-forward to the end of sophomore year and I got

to the end of sophomore year and I got

to the end of sophomore year and I got an idea I was watching the news it

an idea I was watching the news it

an idea I was watching the news it wasn’t this specific one I just really

wasn’t this specific one I just really

wasn’t this specific one I just really like Bill Nye I was watching the news

like Bill Nye I was watching the news

like Bill Nye I was watching the news and the news anchor was discussing the

and the news anchor was discussing the

and the news anchor was discussing the BP oil spill in the aftermath

BP oil spill in the aftermath

BP oil spill in the aftermath specifically they were talking about

specifically they were talking about

specifically they were talking about their cleanup efforts and I don’t know

their cleanup efforts and I don’t know

their cleanup efforts and I don’t know why my 16 year old mine drifted towards

why my 16 year old mine drifted towards

why my 16 year old mine drifted towards the idea that they’re not getting

the idea that they’re not getting

the idea that they’re not getting everything I didn’t even know what I

everything I didn’t even know what I

everything I didn’t even know what I meant by that I didn’t know where where

meant by that I didn’t know where where

meant by that I didn’t know where where my thought process was taking me I

my thought process was taking me I

my thought process was taking me I didn’t know what everything was but this

didn’t know what everything was but this

didn’t know what everything was but this is the image that popped into my head so

is the image that popped into my head so

is the image that popped into my head so we’ve got UV rays coming out of the Sun

we’ve got UV rays coming out of the Sun

we’ve got UV rays coming out of the Sun coming from the Sun and they’re hitting

coming from the Sun and they’re hitting

coming from the Sun and they’re hitting this layer of oil and that oils on top

this layer of oil and that oils on top

this layer of oil and that oils on top of the seawater and I remembered

of the seawater and I remembered

of the seawater and I remembered learning something it’s a very basic

learning something it’s a very basic

learning something it’s a very basic chemistry concept called a photo product

chemistry concept called a photo product

chemistry concept called a photo product a product of something reacting with

a product of something reacting with

a product of something reacting with light something has to be forming and

light something has to be forming and

light something has to be forming and it’s going into the ocean but what is it

it’s going into the ocean but what is it

it’s going into the ocean but what is it so I thought okay well obviously like my

so I thought okay well obviously like my

so I thought okay well obviously like my 16 year old brain like can’t really

16 year old brain like can’t really

16 year old brain like can’t really conceptualize this but I’m sure

conceptualize this but I’m sure

conceptualize this but I’m sure someone’s got it handled right so I

someone’s got it handled right so I

someone’s got it handled right so I googled it I typed in BP oil spill photo

googled it I typed in BP oil spill photo

googled it I typed in BP oil spill photo chemicals toxic and first of all it

chemicals toxic and first of all it

chemicals toxic and first of all it didn’t even pick up on photo chemicals

didn’t even pick up on photo chemicals

didn’t even pick up on photo chemicals it said did you mean phytochemicals no

it said did you mean phytochemicals no

it said did you mean phytochemicals no that’s something completely different

that’s something completely different

that’s something completely different thank you and then if you notice here

thank you and then if you notice here

thank you and then if you notice here the word missing and all of the results

the word missing and all of the results

the word missing and all of the results the word photo chemicals I thought okay

the word photo chemicals I thought okay

the word photo chemicals I thought okay this is not a new word I mean they

this is not a new word I mean they

this is not a new word I mean they taught us about photo chemicals in like

taught us about photo chemicals in like

taught us about photo chemicals in like middle school science so why isn’t it

middle school science so why isn’t it

middle school science so why isn’t it popping up there’s obviously a reaction

popping up there’s obviously a reaction

popping up there’s obviously a reaction happening between the Sun and the oil

happening between the Sun and the oil

happening between the Sun and the oil what’s going on so I said all right

what’s going on so I said all right

what’s going on so I said all right maybe I’m just missing something maybe

maybe I’m just missing something maybe

maybe I’m just missing something maybe I’m really not in the twilight zone I’m

I’m really not in the twilight zone I’m

I’m really not in the twilight zone I’m just

just

just gonna verify so I called emailed about

gonna verify so I called emailed about

gonna verify so I called emailed about 30 professors and my emails went

30 professors and my emails went

30 professors and my emails went something like hi I’m Keanu cavae I’m 16

something like hi I’m Keanu cavae I’m 16

something like hi I’m Keanu cavae I’m 16 I’m a sophomore in high school I was

I’m a sophomore in high school I was

I’m a sophomore in high school I was wondering do you guys know anything

wondering do you guys know anything

wondering do you guys know anything about the photo chemicals that happened

about the photo chemicals that happened

about the photo chemicals that happened after the oil spill 28 of them responded

after the oil spill 28 of them responded

after the oil spill 28 of them responded a little something like this

I wasn’t laughing I was pretty sad but

I wasn’t laughing I was pretty sad but two of them two out of the 30 they took

two of them two out of the 30 they took

two of them two out of the 30 they took me under their wing and I actually ended

me under their wing and I actually ended

me under their wing and I actually ended up working under one of them for so long

up working under one of them for so long

up working under one of them for so long that not only did I become acquainted

that not only did I become acquainted

that not only did I become acquainted with lab technique how to explore a

with lab technique how to explore a

with lab technique how to explore a hypothesis if I have one I ended up

hypothesis if I have one I ended up

hypothesis if I have one I ended up publishing my first paper this was about

publishing my first paper this was about

publishing my first paper this was about one and a half years after this this

one and a half years after this this

one and a half years after this this cold email incident and this was the

cold email incident and this was the

cold email incident and this was the title of my paper a method for

title of my paper a method for

title of my paper a method for identifying the photo products the rest

identifying the photo products the rest

identifying the photo products the rest doesn’t matter keyword photo products

doesn’t matter keyword photo products

doesn’t matter keyword photo products thank you very much this is what I found

thank you very much this is what I found

thank you very much this is what I found in the research the picture that popped

in the research the picture that popped

in the research the picture that popped into my head that one day that I was

into my head that one day that I was

into my head that one day that I was watching the news I filled in the blanks

watching the news I filled in the blanks

watching the news I filled in the blanks and that’s what I found in the paper

and that’s what I found in the paper

and that’s what I found in the paper people laughed but that was the first

people laughed but that was the first

people laughed but that was the first time that I realized that maybe it’s a

time that I realized that maybe it’s a

time that I realized that maybe it’s a good thing to have people laughing

good thing to have people laughing

good thing to have people laughing because if your idea is so crazy and so

because if your idea is so crazy and so

because if your idea is so crazy and so far out of this world

far out of this world

far out of this world maybe maybe it’ll revolutionize an

maybe maybe it’ll revolutionize an

maybe maybe it’ll revolutionize an industry maybe it’ll change the way that

industry maybe it’ll change the way that

industry maybe it’ll change the way that people conduct research in a specific

people conduct research in a specific

people conduct research in a specific field maybe you could introduce a new

field maybe you could introduce a new

field maybe you could introduce a new vocabulary word photo products to the

vocabulary word photo products to the

vocabulary word photo products to the world of oil spills and my mind really

world of oil spills and my mind really

world of oil spills and my mind really opened up after that I started coming

opened up after that I started coming

opened up after that I started coming home and saying things like hey mom

home and saying things like hey mom

home and saying things like hey mom today I’m gonna learn how to fly a plane

today I’m gonna learn how to fly a plane

today I’m gonna learn how to fly a plane she almost had a heart attack that day

she almost had a heart attack that day

she almost had a heart attack that day or hey mom today I think I’m gonna cross

or hey mom today I think I’m gonna cross

or hey mom today I think I’m gonna cross a log with alligators beneath me in the

a log with alligators beneath me in the

a log with alligators beneath me in the middle of the Panamanian rainforest and

middle of the Panamanian rainforest and

middle of the Panamanian rainforest and every time I would I would tell my mom

every time I would I would tell my mom

every time I would I would tell my mom things like this

things like this

things like this I got a reaction something like this I’m

I got a reaction something like this I’m

I got a reaction something like this I’m sorry for using this photo mom I have to

sorry for using this photo mom I have to

sorry for using this photo mom I have to see her after this

and then the calls started to get a

and then the calls started to get a little bit more intense hey mom

little bit more intense hey mom

little bit more intense hey mom NASA just named a planet after me to

NASA just named a planet after me to

NASA just named a planet after me to honor me for my research findings or

[Music]

[Music] hey mom I made it in Forbes all of this

hey mom I made it in Forbes all of this

hey mom I made it in Forbes all of this crazy stuff and one day I called my mom

crazy stuff and one day I called my mom

crazy stuff and one day I called my mom and I was really serious it wasn’t like

and I was really serious it wasn’t like

and I was really serious it wasn’t like I was trying to make her laugh kind of

I was trying to make her laugh kind of

I was trying to make her laugh kind of thing because after a while I really did

thing because after a while I really did

thing because after a while I really did I thought okay well whatever try it

I thought okay well whatever try it

I thought okay well whatever try it makes my mom laugh it must be a good

makes my mom laugh it must be a good

makes my mom laugh it must be a good idea but this was I called her and I was

idea but this was I called her and I was

idea but this was I called her and I was so serious and I said mom I’m going to

so serious and I said mom I’m going to

so serious and I said mom I’m going to invent or develop this molecule and it

invent or develop this molecule and it

invent or develop this molecule and it targets these toxins these photo

targets these toxins these photo

targets these toxins these photo chemicals that I found in my research

chemicals that I found in my research

chemicals that I found in my research those toxins that cause cancer I’m going

those toxins that cause cancer I’m going

those toxins that cause cancer I’m going to take them and invent a molecule that

to take them and invent a molecule that

to take them and invent a molecule that turns them into water and it’s going to

turns them into water and it’s going to

turns them into water and it’s going to affect the lives of millions if not

affect the lives of millions if not

affect the lives of millions if not billions of people mom and then one day

billions of people mom and then one day

billions of people mom and then one day I called my mom and I said hey MA I did

I called my mom and I said hey MA I did

I called my mom and I said hey MA I did it and all of this it just makes me

it and all of this it just makes me

it and all of this it just makes me reflect on the time when I wanted to

reflect on the time when I wanted to

reflect on the time when I wanted to just go to college

just go to college

just go to college I just wanted to graduate I just wanted

I just wanted to graduate I just wanted

I just wanted to graduate I just wanted to go work for Chevron and now I’m

to go work for Chevron and now I’m

to go work for Chevron and now I’m working with Chevron and it just reminds

working with Chevron and it just reminds

working with Chevron and it just reminds me that had I stayed so closed minded

me that had I stayed so closed minded

me that had I stayed so closed minded about that one goal to attend that one

about that one goal to attend that one

about that one goal to attend that one University and go do that one job for

University and go do that one job for

University and go do that one job for the rest of my life had I stayed close

the rest of my life had I stayed close

the rest of my life had I stayed close minded and not said yes to the research

minded and not said yes to the research

minded and not said yes to the research opportunities or said yes to anything

opportunities or said yes to anything

opportunities or said yes to anything else because it didn’t align with my

else because it didn’t align with my

else because it didn’t align with my goal then I would be there yeah I would

goal then I would be there yeah I would

goal then I would be there yeah I would probably graduate from Texas A&M and do

probably graduate from Texas A&M and do

probably graduate from Texas A&M and do do the thing I had planned to but I’m a

do the thing I had planned to but I’m a

do the thing I had planned to but I’m a lot happier where I am now

lot happier where I am now

lot happier where I am now so I have one advice or one piece of

so I have one advice or one piece of

so I have one advice or one piece of advice for you guys and that is to

advice for you guys and that is to

advice for you guys and that is to eliminate yourselves from a reaction

eliminate yourselves from a reaction

eliminate yourselves from a reaction containing a limiting reagent

containing a limiting reagent

containing a limiting reagent well technically all reactions do but

well technically all reactions do but

well technically all reactions do but make an infinite amount of hotdogs

make an infinite amount of hotdogs

make an infinite amount of hotdogs don’t settle for four thank you

don’t settle for four thank you

don’t settle for four thank you [Applause]

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