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so it was december two thousand six and

so it was december two thousand six and i was telling one of my college

i was telling one of my college

i was telling one of my college classmates that i would soon be studying

classmates that i would soon be studying

classmates that i would soon be studying abroad on a program called semester at

abroad on a program called semester at

abroad on a program called semester at sea and my cult my college classmate

sea and my cult my college classmate

sea and my cult my college classmate said to me wow I heard Desmond Tutu will

said to me wow I heard Desmond Tutu will

said to me wow I heard Desmond Tutu will be sailing with you this voyage and I

be sailing with you this voyage and I

be sailing with you this voyage and I looked at him and I nonchalantly said oh

looked at him and I nonchalantly said oh

looked at him and I nonchalantly said oh yeah he’s really cool i’m very excited

yeah he’s really cool i’m very excited

yeah he’s really cool i’m very excited inside i had no earthly idea who Desmond

inside i had no earthly idea who Desmond

inside i had no earthly idea who Desmond Tutu was so it’s pretty you know

Tutu was so it’s pretty you know

Tutu was so it’s pretty you know embarrassed of course apparently I was

embarrassed of course apparently I was

embarrassed of course apparently I was going to be spending 100 days on a ship

going to be spending 100 days on a ship

going to be spending 100 days on a ship with someone who was a pretty big deal

with someone who was a pretty big deal

with someone who was a pretty big deal so you can imagine I went home at night

so you can imagine I went home at night

so you can imagine I went home at night and I was furiously googling away and I

and I was furiously googling away and I

and I was furiously googling away and I quickly became aware of how inspiring

quickly became aware of how inspiring

quickly became aware of how inspiring the archbishop has been and continues to

the archbishop has been and continues to

the archbishop has been and continues to be so you know a few months later I’m on

be so you know a few months later I’m on

be so you know a few months later I’m on the MV explore our ship in the middle of

the MV explore our ship in the middle of

the MV explore our ship in the middle of the Atlantic Ocean and listening to as

the Atlantic Ocean and listening to as

the Atlantic Ocean and listening to as we like to call him desi host a fireside

we like to call him desi host a fireside

we like to call him desi host a fireside chat in our student union he introduced

chat in our student union he introduced

chat in our student union he introduced us to the concept of ubuntu from south

us to the concept of ubuntu from south

us to the concept of ubuntu from south africa explaining we believe a person is

africa explaining we believe a person is

africa explaining we believe a person is a person because of other persons i need

a person because of other persons i need

a person because of other persons i need you to be you so that i can be me so if

you to be you so that i can be me so if

you to be you so that i can be me so if I’ve learned one thing through all of my

I’ve learned one thing through all of my

I’ve learned one thing through all of my travels over the years it’s that our

travels over the years it’s that our

travels over the years it’s that our commonalities far exceed our differences

commonalities far exceed our differences

commonalities far exceed our differences we share the same hopes goals fears

we share the same hopes goals fears

we share the same hopes goals fears dreams we simply have different ways of

dreams we simply have different ways of

dreams we simply have different ways of reaching these so three years ago I was

reaching these so three years ago I was

reaching these so three years ago I was in Moscow and after befriending a Thai

in Moscow and after befriending a Thai

in Moscow and after befriending a Thai Australian and a Dutch Kiwi we toured

Australian and a Dutch Kiwi we toured

Australian and a Dutch Kiwi we toured the city together and thanks to a

the city together and thanks to a

the city together and thanks to a connection of the Dutchman we somehow

connection of the Dutchman we somehow

connection of the Dutchman we somehow ended up at this small Russian house

ended up at this small Russian house

ended up at this small Russian house party so there we were in this communist

party so there we were in this communist

party so there we were in this communist bloc style apartment building listening

bloc style apartment building listening

bloc style apartment building listening to young russian college students tell

to young russian college students tell

to young russian college students tell us about how they felt about politics

us about how they felt about politics

us about how they felt about politics how America is

how America is

how America is portrayed in the Russian media and how

portrayed in the Russian media and how

portrayed in the Russian media and how security issues affect their daily lives

security issues affect their daily lives

security issues affect their daily lives in Russia my new Russian friend showed

in Russia my new Russian friend showed

in Russia my new Russian friend showed me the Millennials in both countries

me the Millennials in both countries

me the Millennials in both countries share the same frustrations with the

share the same frustrations with the

share the same frustrations with the economy and their political systems and

economy and their political systems and

economy and their political systems and that we should try to bridge this gap

that we should try to bridge this gap

that we should try to bridge this gap through more discussions to compare and

through more discussions to compare and

through more discussions to compare and contrast what we can do in our own

contrast what we can do in our own

contrast what we can do in our own communities likewise in the years since

communities likewise in the years since

communities likewise in the years since then in meeting so many Russians aren’t

then in meeting so many Russians aren’t

then in meeting so many Russians aren’t friends I’ve learned the country is not

friends I’ve learned the country is not

friends I’ve learned the country is not rooted in its government or politics is

rooted in its government or politics is

rooted in its government or politics is rooted in its individual people so that

rooted in its individual people so that

rooted in its individual people so that night our subconscious environment of a

night our subconscious environment of a

night our subconscious environment of a moon too was created by our mutual

moon too was created by our mutual

moon too was created by our mutual presence through dialogue and discussion

presence through dialogue and discussion

presence through dialogue and discussion so five months later in 2011 after the

so five months later in 2011 after the

so five months later in 2011 after the great northern japan earthquake i was

great northern japan earthquake i was

great northern japan earthquake i was living in Japan at the time in the far

living in Japan at the time in the far

living in Japan at the time in the far south and a friend of mine and I decided

south and a friend of mine and I decided

south and a friend of mine and I decided to travel up to the Tohoku region where

to travel up to the Tohoku region where

to travel up to the Tohoku region where the tsunami and earthquake kit we had

the tsunami and earthquake kit we had

the tsunami and earthquake kit we had the triple disaster with the nuclear

the triple disaster with the nuclear

the triple disaster with the nuclear plant we were going to volunteer with an

plant we were going to volunteer with an

plant we were going to volunteer with an organization called og afraid and what

organization called og afraid and what

organization called og afraid and what we would be doing is helping clear land

we would be doing is helping clear land

we would be doing is helping clear land to grow produce to sell at high-end

to grow produce to sell at high-end

to grow produce to sell at high-end Tokyo restaurants and this would

Tokyo restaurants and this would

Tokyo restaurants and this would generate much-needed revenue for the

generate much-needed revenue for the

generate much-needed revenue for the local elderly population whose

local elderly population whose

local elderly population whose businesses had been wiped out and they

businesses had been wiped out and they

businesses had been wiped out and they were able to work the land that they

were able to work the land that they

were able to work the land that they owned in the area so you know we went to

owned in the area so you know we went to

owned in the area so you know we went to the train station we boarded a train in

the train station we boarded a train in

the train station we boarded a train in the big city of Sendai conveniently

the big city of Sendai conveniently

the big city of Sendai conveniently choosing to ignore the fact that our

choosing to ignore the fact that our

choosing to ignore the fact that our destination station wasn’t listed on the

destination station wasn’t listed on the

destination station wasn’t listed on the board we thought we could figure it out

board we thought we could figure it out

board we thought we could figure it out so we had about three train layovers on

so we had about three train layovers on

so we had about three train layovers on the way Japan having very high tech

the way Japan having very high tech

the way Japan having very high tech they’re all these train apps and we

they’re all these train apps and we

they’re all these train apps and we thought we’d used the first train

thought we’d used the first train

thought we’d used the first train layover to hop out and use the restroom

layover to hop out and use the restroom

layover to hop out and use the restroom very quickly hop back on the train so as

very quickly hop back on the train so as

very quickly hop back on the train so as I was standing in line in the restroom

I was standing in line in the restroom

I was standing in line in the restroom my friend was there I looked over at

my friend was there I looked over at

my friend was there I looked over at this older japanese woman and as this

this older japanese woman and as this

this older japanese woman and as this happens in in rural Japan she seemed

happens in in rural Japan she seemed

happens in in rural Japan she seemed very curious in this random Westerner

very curious in this random Westerner

very curious in this random Westerner and this

and this

and this all town train station and she felt very

all town train station and she felt very

all town train station and she felt very invited to ask me what I was doing there

invited to ask me what I was doing there

invited to ask me what I was doing there and i replied we’re going to Minami

and i replied we’re going to Minami

and i replied we’re going to Minami Sanriku a town that was just wiped off

Sanriku a town that was just wiped off

Sanriku a town that was just wiped off the earth by the tsunami and if you’ve

the earth by the tsunami and if you’ve

the earth by the tsunami and if you’ve seen the news since then this was

seen the news since then this was

seen the news since then this was usually one of the two that you saw and

usually one of the two that you saw and

usually one of the two that you saw and she said she was going there too but

she said she was going there too but

she said she was going there too but shook her head and so at this point you

shook her head and so at this point you

shook her head and so at this point you get this fin like I don’t think I want

get this fin like I don’t think I want

get this fin like I don’t think I want to hear what she’s going to say but she

to hear what she’s going to say but she

to hear what she’s going to say but she explained that our destination train

explained that our destination train

explained that our destination train station like several others had been

station like several others had been

station like several others had been wiped away by the tsunami how are we

wiped away by the tsunami how are we

wiped away by the tsunami how are we going to get there she asked well we

going to get there she asked well we

going to get there she asked well we concluded that we would just take the

concluded that we would just take the

concluded that we would just take the train as far as possible and then take a

train as far as possible and then take a

train as far as possible and then take a taxi the rest of the way now tome ago

taxi the rest of the way now tome ago

taxi the rest of the way now tome ago said that her relatives were coming to

said that her relatives were coming to

said that her relatives were coming to pick her up at the current station and

pick her up at the current station and

pick her up at the current station and that she would offer us a ride but she

that she would offer us a ride but she

that she would offer us a ride but she wasn’t sure there would be room in the

wasn’t sure there would be room in the

wasn’t sure there would be room in the car so we thanked her for a kindness and

car so we thanked her for a kindness and

car so we thanked her for a kindness and then rewarded the train so a few minutes

then rewarded the train so a few minutes

then rewarded the train so a few minutes later to our shock Tomoko comes running

later to our shock Tomoko comes running

later to our shock Tomoko comes running back onto the train saying that there

back onto the train saying that there

back onto the train saying that there was room in the car so prior to meeting

was room in the car so prior to meeting

was room in the car so prior to meeting our volunteer organizers Tomoko and her

our volunteer organizers Tomoko and her

our volunteer organizers Tomoko and her brother-in-law drove us all around what

brother-in-law drove us all around what

brother-in-law drove us all around what was left of Minami Sanriku and here you

was left of Minami Sanriku and here you

was left of Minami Sanriku and here you can see some of the temporary housing

can see some of the temporary housing

can see some of the temporary housing they pointed out the remains of the post

they pointed out the remains of the post

they pointed out the remains of the post office where their friends houses used

office where their friends houses used

office where their friends houses used to stand the hill where teachers led

to stand the hill where teachers led

to stand the hill where teachers led their students to safety needless to say

their students to safety needless to say

their students to safety needless to say it was pretty sobering hearing their

it was pretty sobering hearing their

it was pretty sobering hearing their stories so afterwards we thought

stories so afterwards we thought

stories so afterwards we thought everything was done they insisted on

everything was done they insisted on

everything was done they insisted on taking us back to their family members

taking us back to their family members

taking us back to their family members cassette suit because they were staying

cassette suit because they were staying

cassette suit because they were staying in places like these here and there were

in places like these here and there were

in places like these here and there were rows and rows of them at the top of a

rows and rows of them at the top of a

rows and rows of them at the top of a hill in the event of future tsunamis in

hill in the event of future tsunamis in

hill in the event of future tsunamis in the aftermath so once there we sat

the aftermath so once there we sat

the aftermath so once there we sat inside the government style housing that

inside the government style housing that

inside the government style housing that we’d repeatedly seen on the news in

we’d repeatedly seen on the news in

we’d repeatedly seen on the news in Japan and they give us traditional tea

Japan and they give us traditional tea

Japan and they give us traditional tea and snacks and we listened to the

and snacks and we listened to the

and snacks and we listened to the stories of their other family members

stories of their other family members

stories of their other family members who were lost in the tsunami there were

who were lost in the tsunami there were

who were lost in the tsunami there were shrines outside all of these small

shrines outside all of these small

shrines outside all of these small buildings

buildings

buildings to pay homage to their lost family

to pay homage to their lost family

to pay homage to their lost family members so for a couple of foreigners

members so for a couple of foreigners

members so for a couple of foreigners living thousands of kilometers away in

living thousands of kilometers away in

living thousands of kilometers away in southern Japan this family humanized the

southern Japan this family humanized the

southern Japan this family humanized the people of the Tohoku region and made the

people of the Tohoku region and made the

people of the Tohoku region and made the tragedy personal to us and it all

tragedy personal to us and it all

tragedy personal to us and it all started with a simple conversation in

started with a simple conversation in

started with a simple conversation in the restroom so like the people of

the restroom so like the people of

the restroom so like the people of Russia and Minami Sanriku we all want to

Russia and Minami Sanriku we all want to

Russia and Minami Sanriku we all want to be seen and heard valued as a

be seen and heard valued as a

be seen and heard valued as a contributing member of society but fewer

contributing member of society but fewer

contributing member of society but fewer of us actually are so with ubiquiti asst

of us actually are so with ubiquiti asst

of us actually are so with ubiquiti asst devices we can connect with anyone we

devices we can connect with anyone we

devices we can connect with anyone we want whenever we want in her book the

want whenever we want in her book the

want whenever we want in her book the power of off Nancy Collier wrote that

power of off Nancy Collier wrote that

power of off Nancy Collier wrote that the majority of Americans now check

the majority of Americans now check

the majority of Americans now check their phones over 150 times per day or

their phones over 150 times per day or

their phones over 150 times per day or every six minutes pretty terrifying if

every six minutes pretty terrifying if

every six minutes pretty terrifying if you think about it and young adults send

you think about it and young adults send

you think about it and young adults send an average of one hundred and texts 110

an average of one hundred and texts 110

an average of one hundred and texts 110 text messages every day so we’re closing

text messages every day so we’re closing

text messages every day so we’re closing the world off and bring in it at the

the world off and bring in it at the

the world off and bring in it at the same time so in this 24-hour media and

same time so in this 24-hour media and

same time so in this 24-hour media and communications accessibility we’re

communications accessibility we’re

communications accessibility we’re distracted more than ever now often

distracted more than ever now often

distracted more than ever now often prevented from connecting with those who

prevented from connecting with those who

prevented from connecting with those who are right in front of us it’s as if we

are right in front of us it’s as if we

are right in front of us it’s as if we risk alienating the in-person

risk alienating the in-person

risk alienating the in-person relationships for the sake of increasing

relationships for the sake of increasing

relationships for the sake of increasing the intimacy with the digital ones this

the intimacy with the digital ones this

the intimacy with the digital ones this has resulted in more feelings of

has resulted in more feelings of

has resulted in more feelings of isolation depression and in some cases

isolation depression and in some cases

isolation depression and in some cases the polarization of communities as

the polarization of communities as

the polarization of communities as described in The New Yorker and the

described in The New Yorker and the

described in The New Yorker and the Atlantic underscoring these cases of

Atlantic underscoring these cases of

Atlantic underscoring these cases of increased depression and isolation a

increased depression and isolation a

increased depression and isolation a recent study by the University of

recent study by the University of

recent study by the University of Michigan found that Facebook actually

Michigan found that Facebook actually

Michigan found that Facebook actually makes us less happy not necessarily

makes us less happy not necessarily

makes us less happy not necessarily surprising when you think about the foam

surprising when you think about the foam

surprising when you think about the foam 0 or fear of missing out phenomenon and

0 or fear of missing out phenomenon and

0 or fear of missing out phenomenon and the feelings of inferiority and jealousy

the feelings of inferiority and jealousy

the feelings of inferiority and jealousy that can be triggered in reading about

that can be triggered in reading about

that can be triggered in reading about others achievements at times herein lies

others achievements at times herein lies

others achievements at times herein lies the paradox of hyper-connectivity the

the paradox of hyper-connectivity the

the paradox of hyper-connectivity the more we connect digitally the farther

more we connect digitally the farther

more we connect digitally the farther apart we drift physically in terms of in

apart we drift physically in terms of in

apart we drift physically in terms of in you’re connected well being we have

you’re connected well being we have

you’re connected well being we have unprecedented power to speak across

unprecedented power to speak across

unprecedented power to speak across endless evolving digital platforms and

endless evolving digital platforms and

endless evolving digital platforms and shape the end to shape the conversation

shape the end to shape the conversation

shape the end to shape the conversation in unimaginable ways but our voices are

in unimaginable ways but our voices are

in unimaginable ways but our voices are being drowned out by white noise the

being drowned out by white noise the

being drowned out by white noise the media technology one another so how do

media technology one another so how do

media technology one another so how do we fix this in a society in which we can

we fix this in a society in which we can

we fix this in a society in which we can arbitrarily define our mediums of

arbitrarily define our mediums of

arbitrarily define our mediums of communication to a multi-directional

communication to a multi-directional

communication to a multi-directional consistent and meaningful conversation

consistent and meaningful conversation

consistent and meaningful conversation is imperative we aren’t going to agree

is imperative we aren’t going to agree

is imperative we aren’t going to agree on everything but we’re not going to

on everything but we’re not going to

on everything but we’re not going to disagree on it either so when we put

disagree on it either so when we put

disagree on it either so when we put some effort in finding common ground and

some effort in finding common ground and

some effort in finding common ground and uniting around common interests it’s

uniting around common interests it’s

uniting around common interests it’s often inevitable but again how do we do

often inevitable but again how do we do

often inevitable but again how do we do it so my travels brought a lot of

it so my travels brought a lot of

it so my travels brought a lot of conversations with people around the

conversations with people around the

conversations with people around the world and I often found that we all have

world and I often found that we all have

world and I often found that we all have different communication styles but two

different communication styles but two

different communication styles but two aspects of the conversation never change

aspects of the conversation never change

aspects of the conversation never change talking and listening on a most basic

talking and listening on a most basic

talking and listening on a most basic level the first step is to have more

level the first step is to have more

level the first step is to have more conversations intentionally consider who

conversations intentionally consider who

conversations intentionally consider who you want to connect with whether it’s

you want to connect with whether it’s

you want to connect with whether it’s one-on-one or in a small group what do

one-on-one or in a small group what do

one-on-one or in a small group what do you hope to achieve by talking with

you hope to achieve by talking with

you hope to achieve by talking with other people second show up give other

other people second show up give other

other people second show up give other your full attention we all know what

your full attention we all know what

your full attention we all know what it’s felt like to be sitting at a table

it’s felt like to be sitting at a table

it’s felt like to be sitting at a table sharing a story only to look up and see

sharing a story only to look up and see

sharing a story only to look up and see our companion on their phone be others

our companion on their phone be others

our companion on their phone be others focused here put the phones away third

focused here put the phones away third

focused here put the phones away third slip three small words into your

slip three small words into your

slip three small words into your conversations and overall language

conversations and overall language

conversations and overall language whenever possible and might could these

whenever possible and might could these

whenever possible and might could these words are more open-ended inviting the

words are more open-ended inviting the

words are more open-ended inviting the possibility that multiple truths not

possibility that multiple truths not

possibility that multiple truths not alternate effects might indeed be true

alternate effects might indeed be true

alternate effects might indeed be true they help avoid other revealing less

they help avoid other revealing less

they help avoid other revealing less assumption that what I’m saying is right

assumption that what I’m saying is right

assumption that what I’m saying is right your conversation partner might not

your conversation partner might not

your conversation partner might not realize this tactic

realize this tactic

realize this tactic but as conversations go there will be

but as conversations go there will be

but as conversations go there will be more likely to mimic your tone allowing

more likely to mimic your tone allowing

more likely to mimic your tone allowing you both to steer the conversation in a

you both to steer the conversation in a

you both to steer the conversation in a more positive direction fourth ask

more positive direction fourth ask

more positive direction fourth ask questions that other people want to hear

questions that other people want to hear

questions that other people want to hear a lot of times when people ask you

a lot of times when people ask you

a lot of times when people ask you questions is because it’s a it’s a topic

questions is because it’s a it’s a topic

questions is because it’s a it’s a topic that they themselves want to talk about

that they themselves want to talk about

that they themselves want to talk about better yet ask half open ended questions

better yet ask half open ended questions

better yet ask half open ended questions so I think there are several fields of

so I think there are several fields of

so I think there are several fields of thought that are very pro open-ended

thought that are very pro open-ended

thought that are very pro open-ended questions but I like half and open-ended

questions but I like half and open-ended

questions but I like half and open-ended questions better and here’s why you

questions better and here’s why you

questions better and here’s why you employ a bit more specificity to make it

employ a bit more specificity to make it

employ a bit more specificity to make it easier for the other person to answer

easier for the other person to answer

easier for the other person to answer the question so instead of saying how’s

the question so instead of saying how’s

the question so instead of saying how’s work going ask what’s been your favorite

work going ask what’s been your favorite

work going ask what’s been your favorite thing about work these days it makes a

thing about work these days it makes a

thing about work these days it makes a conversation we’re interesting to to be

conversation we’re interesting to to be

conversation we’re interesting to to be honest number five if you stumble upon

honest number five if you stumble upon

honest number five if you stumble upon common ground or a common interest run

common ground or a common interest run

common ground or a common interest run with it how can you take this common

with it how can you take this common

with it how can you take this common interest or shared value a step further

interest or shared value a step further

interest or shared value a step further what might collaboration look like 6

what might collaboration look like 6

what might collaboration look like 6 share success stories of engaging

share success stories of engaging

share success stories of engaging conversations in my case the recent one

conversations in my case the recent one

conversations in my case the recent one happened at a local microbrew in Tacoma

happened at a local microbrew in Tacoma

happened at a local microbrew in Tacoma where I was talking with two soldiers

where I was talking with two soldiers

where I was talking with two soldiers from different military branches

from different military branches

from different military branches naturally the recent election came up

naturally the recent election came up

naturally the recent election came up but I was so excited because I learned

but I was so excited because I learned

but I was so excited because I learned so much and so I started telling other

so much and so I started telling other

so much and so I started telling other people and this encouraged them to have

people and this encouraged them to have

people and this encouraged them to have similar questio conversations and not be

similar questio conversations and not be

similar questio conversations and not be afraid of what they might hear so thus

afraid of what they might hear so thus

afraid of what they might hear so thus sharing your success stories of what you

sharing your success stories of what you

sharing your success stories of what you learn will propel your own motivation to

learn will propel your own motivation to

learn will propel your own motivation to do it again and then also encourage

do it again and then also encourage

do it again and then also encourage other people to experiment with similar

other people to experiment with similar

other people to experiment with similar tactics and strategies number seven what

tactics and strategies number seven what

tactics and strategies number seven what happens if you don’t find common ground

happens if you don’t find common ground

happens if you don’t find common ground you know one hundred percent of the time

you know one hundred percent of the time

you know one hundred percent of the time you know it’s just not possible so you

you know it’s just not possible so you

you know it’s just not possible so you always have the option to meet up later

always have the option to meet up later

always have the option to meet up later with who you’ve been talking about after

with who you’ve been talking about after

with who you’ve been talking about after you’ve had a chance to do more research

you’ve had a chance to do more research

you’ve had a chance to do more research you also should maybe mention that you

you also should maybe mention that you

you also should maybe mention that you would agree to think over the other

would agree to think over the other

would agree to think over the other person’s idea the conversation doesn’t

person’s idea the conversation doesn’t

person’s idea the conversation doesn’t have to end at that moment it might go

have to end at that moment it might go

have to end at that moment it might go in a different direction in the fee

in a different direction in the fee

in a different direction in the fee lastly why do we need more conversations

lastly why do we need more conversations

lastly why do we need more conversations if Facebook is the new town hall we must

if Facebook is the new town hall we must

if Facebook is the new town hall we must positively augment it so taking things

positively augment it so taking things

positively augment it so taking things from the online world and meshing it

from the online world and meshing it

from the online world and meshing it with our conversations in the personal

with our conversations in the personal

with our conversations in the personal world here in connecting with others in

world here in connecting with others in

world here in connecting with others in person we are building actual relational

person we are building actual relational

person we are building actual relational intelligence we are then able to reflect

intelligence we are then able to reflect

intelligence we are then able to reflect on and learn from the connections that

on and learn from the connections that

on and learn from the connections that we make they’re examining our own lives

we make they’re examining our own lives

we make they’re examining our own lives and telling our own stories finding

and telling our own stories finding

and telling our own stories finding common ground and uniting around a

common ground and uniting around a

common ground and uniting around a common interest is evidence of being

common interest is evidence of being

common interest is evidence of being heard when we are heard we are counted

heard when we are heard we are counted

heard when we are heard we are counted we are considered and we are more likely

we are considered and we are more likely

we are considered and we are more likely to build community with others who have

to build community with others who have

to build community with others who have heard us and vice versa with these

heard us and vice versa with these

heard us and vice versa with these feelings of community people are more

feelings of community people are more

feelings of community people are more inclined towards taking positive action

inclined towards taking positive action

inclined towards taking positive action towards predetermined goals and taking

towards predetermined goals and taking

towards predetermined goals and taking on different things in terms of activism

on different things in terms of activism

on different things in terms of activism as well if we can create a culture that

as well if we can create a culture that

as well if we can create a culture that can engage in more dialogue in terms of

can engage in more dialogue in terms of

can engage in more dialogue in terms of understanding and empathy that will show

understanding and empathy that will show

understanding and empathy that will show that we are finally able and willing to

that we are finally able and willing to

that we are finally able and willing to engage as a society and progress comes

engage as a society and progress comes

engage as a society and progress comes from there so my last thoughts for you

from there so my last thoughts for you

from there so my last thoughts for you today are basically be brave enough to

today are basically be brave enough to

today are basically be brave enough to start a conversation that matters be

start a conversation that matters be

start a conversation that matters be edgy curious curious about your own

edgy curious curious about your own

edgy curious curious about your own education when we talk and listen we

education when we talk and listen we

education when we talk and listen we humanize one another we connect and as

humanize one another we connect and as

humanize one another we connect and as Archbishop Tutu joyfully exclaimed when

Archbishop Tutu joyfully exclaimed when

Archbishop Tutu joyfully exclaimed when we connect and humanize one another we

we connect and humanize one another we

we connect and humanize one another we expand and when we expand we rise we

expand and when we expand we rise we

expand and when we expand we rise we rise together I look forward to hearing

rise together I look forward to hearing

rise together I look forward to hearing about your conversations thank you

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