that when faced with the
materialization of that challenge that has
been waiting for all his life
they feel like running
how to hide in that feeling like
of fear like and anxiety
I believe that it has happened to all of us
is happening to me at this moment only
let me stay picked up running
so I want this afternoon this
collection is very much with what they
I want to count on those who should
manifest that we go into
hit super to make something happen
transformer and in each one of you
that of the seed and those desires of
awaken that term we know
as resilience many times we go for
those roads in those ways like the
automatic throttle as how like
confident as so fast we even
we go through narrow difficult streets
we passed the traffic lights we do not have you
and we go so fast but it’s fast
that we crash we put those
Changing stars change from berta la
life and change it forever
as a child I was always a dreamer I am
the oldest of four brothers two twins
and a child you can always passionate
crazy women who always want more and look
more that they love the adrenaline that
they were always waiting like something
wonderful happen in life
that was catering and has even had
easy on the risky loves for the
love like no other or that woman that
in there in there
surely he did not have that risky blackberry
that you harass him with that man
lovely smile but sometimes and
Water
they got it out if it happened to me too
happened at age 19 I met a man
of those wonderful that oh my god I
put to fly
yes he knew how to conquer the type and
I loved it
then I gave myself was in the
college
at that time I was advertising and
I met him changed everything
I’m going to tell you a story that
calls six lives because many times we
have said that cats have 7
I ‘m not friends with any cat but yes
I’m going to tell you that what happened
six the first life
it was this that I told you about my childhood and
the second life and I’m going to start it
live when I almost lost the first
knowledge to this wonderful man
and I got married very young in love but
when there is already the coexistence
I realized that I hurried
then they arrived like those
inconsistencies the little incomprehension
that little patience that led us to what
that many people happen to us to take
wrong decisions and I was wrong and
he was wrong and he did not change his life
only mine changed his and that of
a lot of families
then this man with a smile
wonderful that I still see every day
walking around my house and having six
years went out request divorce
I would take something that was very difficult to
front facing
he decided to end my life and finish
with what happens to very
commonly at this time in our
country what we call violence of
gender and one day a May 22
the fence in my apartment bought a
gun and it hit me with three shots one
came through my cheekbone came out for me
face of deaths totally face me
left 30 non-surgical fractures in the
liu the other was entered my arm
I left so I do not I open not close the
hand and what I finally do not know if
tell them that it would destroy or change my
life a life to improve a life with
that you do not believe it and half in this
chair would be the best thing that I could
spend that bullet went through me marrow
spinal and left me with a trauma
spinal cord at the cervical level
been what we call here in jargon
as the best first leg
quadriplegic good then in that
moment that I stole for this one is
quality of the third floor with three
bullet impacts against these fractures
you also heard a quarter shot
this fourth shot ended life
of if he committed suicide and that’s
wonderful smile that the man that I
I still fell in love I see it represents the
my son to katherine but he does not feel anger
I do not feel anger I forgave him and that is
precisely the idea that I want them
transmit today as we transform
through something called you say me
decision to receive decision to
forgive
in that moment I saw my second life and
yogurt to third
and is that entering the hospital
University of the Valley a strike
cardiorespiratory and it turns out that
they had to do surgery
column to put some bars for
can hold my head and see others
two stops was not but taken and makes
less than a year because it worries me
gives a pre-infarct
that would be my is this life I did not expect
live a seventh to come and tell it
I want to stay here
then I realized that there was the
decision in me to face me or leave me
mobile and that happens to us all 10 look
I do not know what is the problem of each
one of you economic a break
loving a mourning a duel that you take out
of work but we’re always going to have
two roads the only thing that we have sure
in this life when facing a new
challenge is that we have the possibility of
that does not go well and counts as
experience but and if it goes well and if we
we venture to these dreams and it turns out
that we culminate them and we transform ourselves and
we do not receive resilience for the
current psychology means this
ability that we have to transform it
and adapt to traumatic situations
and come out victorious and me when
psychologist would tell you the che about the
topic but how do we approach it as
we carry out is that it is complicated or
decision power can be very easy
and I decided I decided to start some
therapies that cost me a lot of work
because they were supremely painful and
I decided to learn from the situation
learn to forgive learn to change
never
when I walked, it mattered so much
people who were in front of me how
I’m interested now before when I
I could walk and the sun came out
I complained because I was going to burn and what
laziness and not the sun the heat and if it was raining
worse is that it adds me fulfilled and if I
I went up to mine and it’s not the amount of
people who are lazy because I can not have
car and all travelers but terrible
Now that I can not walk and I was
five months of life living in the
University Hospital
when I see the sun it is not an emotion and
If it rains, how rich will it rain and
I would like to go and get on mine
I can in the chair but live the
experience that I squeezed in by ay
YUMMY now I touch the buttock
when I complained but it is not serious
cool to live it again many
sometimes we have legs we do not know for
where are we going
many times we have dreams and we have
culminarlos fears for them not me
I come to say with this idea risk
transform what may work
maybe not but you have to try
then I decided
continue with my studies go to the
college
my body hurts because I have a
neuropathy its like a pod that you
feels that there is a cousin nacho
behind the fridge that does not know if it
burning gives you pain art as if you
they burn like that
well feeling all day but
I decided to study and one day it turns out that
send a sheet a resume
surprise can work then
I ended up coordinating a very
interesting in a very expensive project and
after that project
I know the designer giovanni
dominguez and for me it was amazing that
one could be a model in a chair
wheels because it is that we have
stereotypes and beauty standards of
that only a skinny high of legs
long and fit or disability
beautiful physics the cognitive is
say they are stories that transform that
it moves and then yes I started to
model and then it turns out that my story
he wins a prize alfonso bonilla
Aragon and then it turns out that I’m here
in your moments when you give
talking to you
it could have been
It achieved three years ago for me would
been unthinkable but I decided to change
they are even going to give it would be illogical that
a person could get a pool
olympic sport adapted because
I am quadriplegic but it is not that I
it’s not like I say the diagnosis is like
You see how you look, I’m me
I say poor of the one who does not know
risk for a dream because then
will have wasted the miracle of
lifetime
risk that is the proposal on the day
from today
thank you very much
[Applause]
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