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Planning the Life You Love at Any Age | Emily Kimball | TEDxRVAWomen


[Applause]

[Applause] at 71 I climbed Mount Katahdin the

at 71 I climbed Mount Katahdin the

at 71 I climbed Mount Katahdin the highest mountain in Maine to complete by

highest mountain in Maine to complete by

highest mountain in Maine to complete by 200 my 2,000 mile Appalachian Trail hike

200 my 2,000 mile Appalachian Trail hike

200 my 2,000 mile Appalachian Trail hike starting from Georgia and going all the

starting from Georgia and going all the

starting from Georgia and going all the way to me

you have the top of that mountain I was

you have the top of that mountain I was so excited and I was so amazed that I

so excited and I was so amazed that I

so excited and I was so amazed that I had actually completed this dream my

had actually completed this dream my

had actually completed this dream my passion is the outdoors at 85

passion is the outdoors at 85

passion is the outdoors at 85 I still enjoy biking hiking and playing

I still enjoy biking hiking and playing

I still enjoy biking hiking and playing tennis I’m very active outdoors

I feel extremely lucky to be leading a

I feel extremely lucky to be leading a life that I love however you might want

life that I love however you might want

life that I love however you might want to know you might not know that my

to know you might not know that my

to know you might not know that my success was built on many failures and 9

success was built on many failures and 9

success was built on many failures and 9 years of a struggle let me explain in

years of a struggle let me explain in

years of a struggle let me explain in 1976 I was 45 years old working at a job

1976 I was 45 years old working at a job

1976 I was 45 years old working at a job and had a good job but it didn’t meet my

and had a good job but it didn’t meet my

and had a good job but it didn’t meet my creativity’s it was not satisfying my

creativity’s it was not satisfying my

creativity’s it was not satisfying my dream was to turn my passion for the

dream was to turn my passion for the

dream was to turn my passion for the outdoors into a career change a job as a

outdoors into a career change a job as a

outdoors into a career change a job as a naturalist people if but I had three

naturalist people if but I had three

naturalist people if but I had three children I was divorced with three

children I was divorced with three

children I was divorced with three children people asked why would you quit

children people asked why would you quit

children people asked why would you quit a good-paying job that’s so risky I said

a good-paying job that’s so risky I said

a good-paying job that’s so risky I said time is slipping away I want to find a

time is slipping away I want to find a

time is slipping away I want to find a career that I love for the rest of my

career that I love for the rest of my

career that I love for the rest of my life

I made the decision to quit my job

I made the decision to quit my job little did I realize how much

little did I realize how much

little did I realize how much uncertainty and failure lay ahead I was

uncertainty and failure lay ahead I was

uncertainty and failure lay ahead I was went for eight months as a special

went for eight months as a special

went for eight months as a special student at VCU biology department

student at VCU biology department

student at VCU biology department starting my ology botany ornithology

starting my ology botany ornithology

starting my ology botany ornithology then I wasn’t accepted at and in as an

then I wasn’t accepted at and in as an

then I wasn’t accepted at and in as an intern at the Glen Helen Outdoor

intern at the Glen Helen Outdoor

intern at the Glen Helen Outdoor Education Center in Ohio it was the

Education Center in Ohio it was the

Education Center in Ohio it was the perfect opportunity however it was not

perfect opportunity however it was not

perfect opportunity however it was not perfect in one way the center would not

perfect in one way the center would not

perfect in one way the center would not accept families I took another risk the

accept families I took another risk the

accept families I took another risk the hardest decision of all I made the

hardest decision of all I made the

hardest decision of all I made the decision to have my three children

decision to have my three children

decision to have my three children [Music]

[Music]

[Music] Susan 11 Kim 13 and Josh 15 live with

Susan 11 Kim 13 and Josh 15 live with

Susan 11 Kim 13 and Josh 15 live with their father during the time that I was

their father during the time that I was

their father during the time that I was fusing to complete my career switch as

fusing to complete my career switch as

fusing to complete my career switch as they sped away in their car towards

they sped away in their car towards

they sped away in their car towards their new life with their father tears

their new life with their father tears

their new life with their father tears trickled down my cheeks am i being a bad

trickled down my cheeks am i being a bad

trickled down my cheeks am i being a bad mother am i abandoning my children

during my three months of internship I

during my three months of internship I visited with my kids over Thanksgiving

visited with my kids over Thanksgiving

visited with my kids over Thanksgiving and spent a week at Christmas with them

and spent a week at Christmas with them

and spent a week at Christmas with them after that I would be away for six

after that I would be away for six

after that I would be away for six months because I was driving across

months because I was driving across

months because I was driving across America from Florida to Oregon and back

America from Florida to Oregon and back

America from Florida to Oregon and back having job interviews for outdoor drugs

having job interviews for outdoor drugs

having job interviews for outdoor drugs and camping out along the way we

and camping out along the way we

and camping out along the way we in touch weekly by phone calls and

in touch weekly by phone calls and

in touch weekly by phone calls and letters but it wasn’t the same as my

letters but it wasn’t the same as my

letters but it wasn’t the same as my being there for them interviewers were

being there for them interviewers were

being there for them interviewers were cordial and encouraging but after sixty

cordial and encouraging but after sixty

cordial and encouraging but after sixty interviews I returned home

interviews I returned home

interviews I returned home jobless what would I do what would you

jobless what would I do what would you

jobless what would I do what would you do

resembling with my children I decided to

resembling with my children I decided to continue my job search in the Richmond

continue my job search in the Richmond

continue my job search in the Richmond reason and during that time I worked ten

reason and during that time I worked ten

reason and during that time I worked ten temporary jobs three of them in parks

temporary jobs three of them in parks

temporary jobs three of them in parks finally I accepted that I was not going

finally I accepted that I was not going

finally I accepted that I was not going to succeed at my career of choice change

to succeed at my career of choice change

to succeed at my career of choice change and I began looking for jobs back in the

and I began looking for jobs back in the

and I began looking for jobs back in the middle management with the state that I

middle management with the state that I

middle management with the state that I had left two years ago right about this

had left two years ago right about this

had left two years ago right about this time I got a call from Chesterfield

time I got a call from Chesterfield

time I got a call from Chesterfield County Parks and Recreation they offered

County Parks and Recreation they offered

County Parks and Recreation they offered me the job of the outdoor recreation

me the job of the outdoor recreation

me the job of the outdoor recreation manager I could not believe it I it was

manager I could not believe it I it was

manager I could not believe it I it was just a miracle I had been all over

just a miracle I had been all over

just a miracle I had been all over America sixty interviews and here I came

America sixty interviews and here I came

America sixty interviews and here I came back to Richmond and finally landed my

back to Richmond and finally landed my

back to Richmond and finally landed my job participants face love I stayed at

job participants face love I stayed at

job participants face love I stayed at that job for 12 years until I retired at

that job for 12 years until I retired at

that job for 12 years until I retired at age 16 now by this time my children were

age 16 now by this time my children were

age 16 now by this time my children were grown and they had survived our time

grown and they had survived our time

grown and they had survived our time apart and they had grown into amazing

apart and they had grown into amazing

apart and they had grown into amazing adults that’s when I decided to hike the

adults that’s when I decided to hike the

adults that’s when I decided to hike the Appalachian Trail

Appalachian Trail

Appalachian Trail I applied to join the Sierra Club’s ten

I applied to join the Sierra Club’s ten

I applied to join the Sierra Club’s ten 200th anniversary hike on the 80 but I

200th anniversary hike on the 80 but I

200th anniversary hike on the 80 but I didn’t make the pick what now I found

didn’t make the pick what now I found

didn’t make the pick what now I found two wonderful older women hikers engi

two wonderful older women hikers engi

two wonderful older women hikers engi and Kay who walked my pace and we began

and Kay who walked my pace and we began

and Kay who walked my pace and we began our hike on the 80 on March 22nd 1992 we

our hike on the 80 on March 22nd 1992 we

our hike on the 80 on March 22nd 1992 we left Springer Mountain heading for me

left Springer Mountain heading for me

left Springer Mountain heading for me this was a trail life I was longing to

this was a trail life I was longing to

this was a trail life I was longing to have I was so excited

unfortunately I got 275 miles to Hot

unfortunately I got 275 miles to Hot Springs North Carolina when a stress

Springs North Carolina when a stress

Springs North Carolina when a stress fracture stopped me cold I began to my

fracture stopped me cold I began to my

fracture stopped me cold I began to my dream hike was over I began to think my

dream hike was over I began to think my

dream hike was over I began to think my life is going to be a continuous series

life is going to be a continuous series

life is going to be a continuous series of failures but another way opened up I

had a business I my speaking business

had a business I my speaking business was slow in the in the summer why not

was slow in the in the summer why not

was slow in the in the summer why not take a month each summer and go back and

take a month each summer and go back and

take a month each summer and go back and continue that trail and finish it it

continue that trail and finish it it

continue that trail and finish it it wouldn’t be the way I wanted it going

wouldn’t be the way I wanted it going

wouldn’t be the way I wanted it going all at once but I would get there maybe

all at once but I would get there maybe

all at once but I would get there maybe so for the next eight summers I hiked a

so for the next eight summers I hiked a

so for the next eight summers I hiked a month for the next eight summers and I

month for the next eight summers and I

month for the next eight summers and I got to finally inch by inch and mile by

got to finally inch by inch and mile by

got to finally inch by inch and mile by mile I arrived on top of Mount Katahdin

mile I arrived on top of Mount Katahdin

mile I arrived on top of Mount Katahdin at age 71

it is time we we women realized that we

it is time we we women realized that we have the power to decide the direction

have the power to decide the direction

have the power to decide the direction our lives are going to take I urge you

our lives are going to take I urge you

our lives are going to take I urge you be willing to take risk

be willing to take risk

be willing to take risk don’t let failures stop you learn from

don’t let failures stop you learn from

don’t let failures stop you learn from them and move ahead to live an exciting

them and move ahead to live an exciting

them and move ahead to live an exciting life that you can live

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