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well there was a little girl I used to

well there was a little girl I used to love to sit for hours and play beneath

love to sit for hours and play beneath

love to sit for hours and play beneath the table something like this typically

the table something like this typically

the table something like this typically I play dolls or stuffed animals but one

I play dolls or stuffed animals but one

I play dolls or stuffed animals but one day I decided that I needed to decorate

day I decided that I needed to decorate

day I decided that I needed to decorate this table

as children do

as children do luckily my father happened to be walking

luckily my father happened to be walking

luckily my father happened to be walking through and he said Ellen no no please

through and he said Ellen no no please

through and he said Ellen no no please don’t do that table is very special to

don’t do that table is very special to

don’t do that table is very special to our family now I bet you’re wondering

our family now I bet you’re wondering

our family now I bet you’re wondering why that table was special to my family

why that table was special to my family

why that table was special to my family one of the reasons why I came to Sujal

one of the reasons why I came to Sujal

one of the reasons why I came to Sujal to China and to Suzhou in particular

to China and to Suzhou in particular

to China and to Suzhou in particular five years ago is because 100 years ago

five years ago is because 100 years ago

five years ago is because 100 years ago in 1917 my grandfather carry touchstone

in 1917 my grandfather carry touchstone

in 1917 my grandfather carry touchstone came from the u.s. state of Texas to

came from the u.s. state of Texas to

came from the u.s. state of Texas to work as an administrator at damu – web

work as an administrator at damu – web

work as an administrator at damu – web which became Suja University while he

which became Suja University while he

which became Suja University while he was here he met a lovely young American

was here he met a lovely young American

was here he met a lovely young American woman my grandmother

woman my grandmother

woman my grandmother Mabel Ellen Thomas who was the fiery

Mabel Ellen Thomas who was the fiery

Mabel Ellen Thomas who was the fiery nurse from Pennsylvania she was here

nurse from Pennsylvania she was here

nurse from Pennsylvania she was here working as the superintendent of

working as the superintendent of

working as the superintendent of sis or as you would call it the nurse

sis or as you would call it the nurse

sis or as you would call it the nurse leader at the studio University

leader at the studio University

leader at the studio University affiliated hospital which has now become

affiliated hospital which has now become

affiliated hospital which has now become student Hospital de Ken of course two

student Hospital de Ken of course two

student Hospital de Ken of course two young Americans in the romantic city of

young Americans in the romantic city of

young Americans in the romantic city of Stu Joe living out their passions what’s

Stu Joe living out their passions what’s

Stu Joe living out their passions what’s going to happen will they fell in love

going to happen will they fell in love

going to happen will they fell in love and they got married in 1919 they had

and they got married in 1919 they had

and they got married in 1919 they had two children my Aunt Mary and Uncle Joe

two children my Aunt Mary and Uncle Joe

two children my Aunt Mary and Uncle Joe and you know what they got they want

and you know what they got they want

and you know what they got they want that table that table that I was

that table that table that I was

that table that table that I was referring to they bought that table and

referring to they bought that table and

referring to they bought that table and when they went back to the United States

when they went back to the United States

when they went back to the United States in 1922 they took that table with them

in 1922 they took that table with them

in 1922 they took that table with them and it’s been passed down in the family

and it’s been passed down in the family

and it’s been passed down in the family to my father

to my father

to my father their youngest child and then taught to

their youngest child and then taught to

their youngest child and then taught to me besides my grandmother my grandfather

me besides my grandmother my grandfather

me besides my grandmother my grandfather my aunt and my uncle there is another

my aunt and my uncle there is another

my aunt and my uncle there is another really important person in our household

really important person in our household

really important person in our household in that there soo-jung household that

in that there soo-jung household that

in that there soo-jung household that was the woman who helped them to take

was the woman who helped them to take

was the woman who helped them to take care of my aunt and uncle now in fact

care of my aunt and uncle now in fact

care of my aunt and uncle now in fact she was so significant that my aunt and

she was so significant that my aunt and

she was so significant that my aunt and uncle little American children growing

uncle little American children growing

uncle little American children growing up in China they ended up speaking Sioux

up in China they ended up speaking Sioux

up in China they ended up speaking Sioux Joanie’s before they spoke English

Joanie’s before they spoke English

Joanie’s before they spoke English the woman was that significant in their

the woman was that significant in their

the woman was that significant in their lives unfortunately my family members

lives unfortunately my family members

lives unfortunately my family members passed away before I could ask them for

passed away before I could ask them for

passed away before I could ask them for the name of the Olly so I’ve spent the

the name of the Olly so I’ve spent the

the name of the Olly so I’ve spent the past five years doing research about my

past five years doing research about my

past five years doing research about my family

family

family and about trying to find out who this is

and about trying to find out who this is

and about trying to find out who this is because I would really like to meet her

because I would really like to meet her

because I would really like to meet her descendants I’d like to meet her

descendants I’d like to meet her

descendants I’d like to meet her grandchildren they would be like my

grandchildren they would be like my

grandchildren they would be like my pseudo family you know this project

pseudo family you know this project

pseudo family you know this project looking into my heritage has become

looking into my heritage has become

looking into my heritage has become almost like a second career for me so

almost like a second career for me so

almost like a second career for me so I’m going to I’m going to start calling

I’m going to I’m going to start calling

I’m going to I’m going to start calling myself a splash of right back in 2007

myself a splash of right back in 2007

myself a splash of right back in 2007 Marcy a lava hair released this book in

Marcy a lava hair released this book in

Marcy a lava hair released this book in which she defines slashers as people who

which she defines slashers as people who

which she defines slashers as people who can’t define themselves with just one

can’t define themselves with just one

can’t define themselves with just one word they have maybe a made career and

word they have maybe a made career and

word they have maybe a made career and then / another career during the nights

then / another career during the nights

then / another career during the nights or possibly on weekends an example might

or possibly on weekends an example might

or possibly on weekends an example might be a writer / photographer / artist I

be a writer / photographer / artist I

be a writer / photographer / artist I have always I think been a splasher even

have always I think been a splasher even

have always I think been a splasher even before it was cool before it had a name

before it was cool before it had a name

before it was cool before it had a name when I was in undergraduate getting my

when I was in undergraduate getting my

when I was in undergraduate getting my bachelor’s degree at the University of

bachelor’s degree at the University of

bachelor’s degree at the University of Nebraska

Nebraska

Nebraska I had three majors French / psychology /

I had three majors French / psychology /

I had three majors French / psychology / linguistics and also later when I was

linguistics and also later when I was

linguistics and also later when I was getting my graduate degrees I was

getting my graduate degrees I was

getting my graduate degrees I was pursuing my PhD in applied linguistics

pursuing my PhD in applied linguistics

pursuing my PhD in applied linguistics at the same time that I was getting my

at the same time that I was getting my

at the same time that I was getting my MBA in international business during the

MBA in international business during the

MBA in international business during the summers so yeah I think I’m a slasher in

summers so yeah I think I’m a slasher in

summers so yeah I think I’m a slasher in fact what do you think do you think I

fact what do you think do you think I

fact what do you think do you think I should change my business card do you

should change my business card do you

should change my business card do you think I should say it should say

think I should say it should say

think I should say it should say marketing professor / historian or maybe

marketing professor / historian or maybe

marketing professor / historian or maybe a filmmaker

a filmmaker

a filmmaker my family heritage baby I’ll think I’ll

my family heritage baby I’ll think I’ll

my family heritage baby I’ll think I’ll think about it okay

think about it okay

think about it okay so I promised you that I would talk to

so I promised you that I would talk to

so I promised you that I would talk to you about what passion can do for you

you about what passion can do for you

you about what passion can do for you and there are three main benefits to

and there are three main benefits to

and there are three main benefits to passion

passion

passion the first one is you’ll find your people

the first one is you’ll find your people

the first one is you’ll find your people looking for example my grandparents are

looking for example my grandparents are

looking for example my grandparents are great are an excellent example of this

great are an excellent example of this

great are an excellent example of this right they came over from the u.s. to

right they came over from the u.s. to

right they came over from the u.s. to China when it was very difficult to do

China when it was very difficult to do

China when it was very difficult to do that when I came five years ago I just

that when I came five years ago I just

that when I came five years ago I just got on the plane right they had to get

got on the plane right they had to get

got on the plane right they had to get on a boat and spend the money to come

on a boat and spend the money to come

on a boat and spend the money to come here it was very different at that time

here it was very different at that time

here it was very different at that time but they came here they were passionate

but they came here they were passionate

but they came here they were passionate about helping people

about helping people

about helping people my grandfather is Tito University my

my grandfather is Tito University my

my grandfather is Tito University my grandmother and a hospital passionate

grandmother and a hospital passionate

grandmother and a hospital passionate passionate people and they found with

passionate people and they found with

passionate people and they found with each other here is too generous so

each other here is too generous so

each other here is too generous so they’re a great example of people

they’re a great example of people

they’re a great example of people finding their tribe as I call it were

finding their tribe as I call it were

finding their tribe as I call it were their people I’m another example of that

their people I’m another example of that

their people I’m another example of that with this project with this project I’ve

with this project with this project I’ve

with this project with this project I’ve been working on it for five years I have

been working on it for five years I have

been working on it for five years I have talked to hundreds of people I have told

talked to hundreds of people I have told

talked to hundreds of people I have told this story hundreds thousands of times

this story hundreds thousands of times

this story hundreds thousands of times and as I move through those five years

what do you find out more information

what do you find out more information about my grandparents and hopefully to

about my grandparents and hopefully to

about my grandparents and hopefully to find out who the audio was I found my

find out who the audio was I found my

find out who the audio was I found my tribe the second benefit that passion

tribe the second benefit that passion

tribe the second benefit that passion can bring into your life is giving you

can bring into your life is giving you

can bring into your life is giving you innovative ideas so I told you earlier

innovative ideas so I told you earlier

innovative ideas so I told you earlier that I have a PhD in applied linguistics

that I have a PhD in applied linguistics

that I have a PhD in applied linguistics and an MBA in international business

and an MBA in international business

and an MBA in international business well last March I had a really amazing

well last March I had a really amazing

well last March I had a really amazing career success finally finally finally

career success finally finally finally

career success finally finally finally after many years of trying to get a

after many years of trying to get a

after many years of trying to get a particular article on the linguistic

particular article on the linguistic

particular article on the linguistic service scape published I found a home

service scape published I found a home

service scape published I found a home for it I found a home in a very

for it I found a home in a very

for it I found a home in a very prestigious Journal and so I feel like

prestigious Journal and so I feel like

prestigious Journal and so I feel like I’m back baby I’m back as a thought

I’m back baby I’m back as a thought

I’m back baby I’m back as a thought leader in services marketing but you

leader in services marketing but you

leader in services marketing but you know I told you I’ve been a slasher for

know I told you I’ve been a slasher for

know I told you I’ve been a slasher for a long time right it hasn’t been easy it

a long time right it hasn’t been easy it

a long time right it hasn’t been easy it hasn’t been easy being an applied

hasn’t been easy being an applied

hasn’t been easy being an applied linguist in a business school or a

linguist in a business school or a

linguist in a business school or a marketer in a linguistics department

marketer in a linguistics department

marketer in a linguistics department right but I am so glad that I didn’t

right but I am so glad that I didn’t

right but I am so glad that I didn’t give up either of my passions in figure

give up either of my passions in figure

give up either of my passions in figure of the other because with this

of the other because with this

of the other because with this particular publication

particular publication

particular publication I was bringing those together and it’s

I was bringing those together and it’s

I was bringing those together and it’s really important as the world becomes

really important as the world becomes

really important as the world becomes more complicated complicated problems

more complicated complicated problems

more complicated complicated problems deserve complicated answers from people

deserve complicated answers from people

deserve complicated answers from people who have passions maybe in multiple

who have passions maybe in multiple

who have passions maybe in multiple fields are working with people who have

fields are working with people who have

fields are working with people who have passions in multiple fields so I’m

passions in multiple fields so I’m

passions in multiple fields so I’m really a

really a

really a believer in collaborating and using your

believer in collaborating and using your

believer in collaborating and using your passion to to solve the world’s problems

passion to to solve the world’s problems

passion to to solve the world’s problems okay so I have another ring I have a

okay so I have another ring I have a

okay so I have another ring I have a story related to this a few weeks ago I

story related to this a few weeks ago I

story related to this a few weeks ago I was in Shanghai catching up with one of

was in Shanghai catching up with one of

was in Shanghai catching up with one of my American friends who happened to be

my American friends who happened to be

my American friends who happened to be there for business she was with some

there for business she was with some

there for business she was with some colleagues from singularity University

colleagues from singularity University

colleagues from singularity University singularity University is a think-tank

singularity University is a think-tank

singularity University is a think-tank in Silicon Valley so she introduced me

in Silicon Valley so she introduced me

in Silicon Valley so she introduced me to Aaron Frank the famous journalist

to Aaron Frank the famous journalist

to Aaron Frank the famous journalist expert power user influencer in virtual

expert power user influencer in virtual

expert power user influencer in virtual reality and augmented reality so we go

reality and augmented reality so we go

reality and augmented reality so we go to lunch she introduced me to him as her

to lunch she introduced me to him as her

to lunch she introduced me to him as her friend Ellen who has an MBA in

friend Ellen who has an MBA in

friend Ellen who has an MBA in international business and he was a

international business and he was a

international business and he was a marketing professor that’s what he knew

marketing professor that’s what he knew

marketing professor that’s what he knew about me Frank said we’re sitting there

about me Frank said we’re sitting there

about me Frank said we’re sitting there at lunch

at lunch

at lunch he’s pretty jet-lagged so he’s not

he’s pretty jet-lagged so he’s not

he’s pretty jet-lagged so he’s not really participating much in the

really participating much in the

really participating much in the conversation he’s living his ketchup uh

conversation he’s living his ketchup uh

conversation he’s living his ketchup uh and I mentioned that I also have a PhD

and I mentioned that I also have a PhD

and I mentioned that I also have a PhD in applied linguistics and then I’m a

in applied linguistics and then I’m a

in applied linguistics and then I’m a language planner and at that point he

language planner and at that point he

language planner and at that point he almost jumped up over the table at me

almost jumped up over the table at me

almost jumped up over the table at me and said thanks thanks Nene and I looked

and said thanks thanks Nene and I looked

and said thanks thanks Nene and I looked around because there must be someone

around because there must be someone

around because there must be someone else here right I never had such a

else here right I never had such a

else here right I never had such a positive reaction to telling someone

positive reaction to telling someone

positive reaction to telling someone that I’m an applied linguist typically I

that I’m an applied linguist typically I

that I’m an applied linguist typically I get the reaction so what does one do

get the reaction so what does one do

get the reaction so what does one do with a PhD in applied linguistics or

with a PhD in applied linguistics or

with a PhD in applied linguistics or what is an applied linguist but he was

what is an applied linguist but he was

what is an applied linguist but he was so energized by the fact that I had

so energized by the fact that I had

so energized by the fact that I had applied linguistics to marketing in my

applied linguistics to marketing in my

applied linguistics to marketing in my research on the link

research on the link

research on the link escaped that we spent the rest of the

escaped that we spent the rest of the

escaped that we spent the rest of the afternoon talking about possible

afternoon talking about possible

afternoon talking about possible collaborations in terms of language

collaborations in terms of language

collaborations in terms of language planning and virtual reality or

planning and virtual reality or

planning and virtual reality or augmented reality so what do you think

augmented reality so what do you think

augmented reality so what do you think Ellen touched on marketing professor /

Ellen touched on marketing professor /

Ellen touched on marketing professor / historian / virtual reality augmented

historian / virtual reality augmented

historian / virtual reality augmented reality consultant what do you think

reality consultant what do you think

reality consultant what do you think many people we will see ok um now I have

many people we will see ok um now I have

many people we will see ok um now I have been passionate about languages

been passionate about languages

been passionate about languages linguistics business for over 30 years

linguistics business for over 30 years

linguistics business for over 30 years now I’m not telling you that all of your

now I’m not telling you that all of your

now I’m not telling you that all of your passions have to be long term maybe you

passions have to be long term maybe you

passions have to be long term maybe you should try out some passions try them on

should try out some passions try them on

should try out some passions try them on see how they fit ok this is this is an

see how they fit ok this is this is an

see how they fit ok this is this is an example from my life back when I was 13

example from my life back when I was 13

example from my life back when I was 13 years old I announced to my parents that

years old I announced to my parents that

years old I announced to my parents that I wanted to be an archaeologist now my

I wanted to be an archaeologist now my

I wanted to be an archaeologist now my friends are in the audience I see a few

friends are in the audience I see a few

friends are in the audience I see a few of them they’re probably thinking ooh

of them they’re probably thinking ooh

of them they’re probably thinking ooh that doesn’t sound like something that L

that doesn’t sound like something that L

that doesn’t sound like something that L would really like l does not like

would really like l does not like

would really like l does not like getting dirty or sleeping in tents or

getting dirty or sleeping in tents or

getting dirty or sleeping in tents or hiking and you’re right ok but my

hiking and you’re right ok but my

hiking and you’re right ok but my parents didn’t tell me that they let me

parents didn’t tell me that they let me

parents didn’t tell me that they let me discover it on my own so the first thing

discover it on my own so the first thing

discover it on my own so the first thing they were very supportive of my passion

they were very supportive of my passion

they were very supportive of my passion the first thing they did is they took me

the first thing they did is they took me

the first thing they did is they took me to Chicago to the King Tut exhibit at

to Chicago to the King Tut exhibit at

to Chicago to the King Tut exhibit at the Field Museum and I’m like that was

the Field Museum and I’m like that was

the Field Museum and I’m like that was very interesting

very interesting

very interesting ok and they continue to support and

ok and they continue to support and

ok and they continue to support and maybe later on a few years later we were

maybe later on a few years later we were

maybe later on a few years later we were going on a family vacation to the

going on a family vacation to the

going on a family vacation to the American Southwest and my father is also

American Southwest and my father is also

American Southwest and my father is also a universe

a universe

a universe professor he had a contact who was an

professor he had a contact who was an

professor he had a contact who was an archaeologist in New Mexico so my father

archaeologist in New Mexico so my father

archaeologist in New Mexico so my father arranged for me to have a little mini

arranged for me to have a little mini

arranged for me to have a little mini internship of three days as an

internship of three days as an

internship of three days as an archaeologist okay so the first day we

archaeologist okay so the first day we

archaeologist okay so the first day we the first day I went out with two

the first day I went out with two

the first day I went out with two archeologists walking in the Hot Desert

archeologists walking in the Hot Desert

archeologists walking in the Hot Desert Sun in the summer of New Mexico and I

Sun in the summer of New Mexico and I

Sun in the summer of New Mexico and I don’t know if you know what

don’t know if you know what

don’t know if you know what archaeologists typically do but they

archaeologists typically do but they

archaeologists typically do but they they walk around and they look at the

they walk around and they look at the

they walk around and they look at the ground to see if there’s a particular

ground to see if there’s a particular

ground to see if there’s a particular type of plant life that indicates a

type of plant life that indicates a

type of plant life that indicates a civilization have been there at one time

civilization have been there at one time

civilization have been there at one time okay kind of boring in my opinion right

okay kind of boring in my opinion right

okay kind of boring in my opinion right loved hiking in the hot New Mexico Sun

loved hiking in the hot New Mexico Sun

loved hiking in the hot New Mexico Sun the second day we went to a famous

the second day we went to a famous

the second day we went to a famous National Park or national monument in

National Park or national monument in

National Park or national monument in the United States Chaco Canyon and this

the United States Chaco Canyon and this

the United States Chaco Canyon and this is where the the Anasazi civilization

is where the the Anasazi civilization

is where the the Anasazi civilization lived until they mysteriously

lived until they mysteriously

lived until they mysteriously disappeared many years ago so we went

disappeared many years ago so we went

disappeared many years ago so we went there and yes it’s ruins okay the

there and yes it’s ruins okay the

there and yes it’s ruins okay the civilization is no more and I did not

civilization is no more and I did not

civilization is no more and I did not find it particularly inspiring the third

find it particularly inspiring the third

find it particularly inspiring the third day of my internship right I’m not

day of my internship right I’m not

day of my internship right I’m not giving it a good a good try the third

giving it a good a good try the third

giving it a good a good try the third day of my internship I was working at

day of my internship I was working at

day of my internship I was working at the local museum at the County Museum

the local museum at the County Museum

the local museum at the County Museum and they had me in the back room sorting

and they had me in the back room sorting

and they had me in the back room sorting artifacts from an archaeological dig and

artifacts from an archaeological dig and

artifacts from an archaeological dig and everything was okay until I pulled out a

everything was okay until I pulled out a

everything was okay until I pulled out a dog’s paw my dog’s paw and I screamed

dog’s paw my dog’s paw and I screamed

dog’s paw my dog’s paw and I screamed and I said no archaeology is not for me

and I said no archaeology is not for me

and I said no archaeology is not for me okay so so I hope I did not become an

okay so so I hope I did not become an

okay so so I hope I did not become an irk

irk

irk just but my parents let me make that

just but my parents let me make that

just but my parents let me make that decision myself

decision myself

decision myself okay so the third thing that that

okay so the third thing that that

okay so the third thing that that passion will give you is energy right I

passion will give you is energy right I

passion will give you is energy right I think you can see I’m pretty energetic

think you can see I’m pretty energetic

think you can see I’m pretty energetic passionate person right so last year I

passionate person right so last year I

passionate person right so last year I ended up breaking my foot don’t worry it

ended up breaking my foot don’t worry it

ended up breaking my foot don’t worry it was not anything traumatic or anything

was not anything traumatic or anything

was not anything traumatic or anything like that just me walking I broke my

like that just me walking I broke my

like that just me walking I broke my foot but because I’m so passionate about

foot but because I’m so passionate about

foot but because I’m so passionate about teaching and dedicated to helping my

teaching and dedicated to helping my

teaching and dedicated to helping my students learn about international

students learn about international

students learn about international business I didn’t miss a single day of

business I didn’t miss a single day of

business I didn’t miss a single day of teaching there I am on my Walker when

teaching there I am on my Walker when

teaching there I am on my Walker when finally Walker okay so in conclusion I’m

finally Walker okay so in conclusion I’m

finally Walker okay so in conclusion I’m a man I’m a marketer slash applied

a man I’m a marketer slash applied

a man I’m a marketer slash applied linguists slash historian slash

linguists slash historian slash

linguists slash historian slash filmmaker I’m a proud Suja Rena I hope

filmmaker I’m a proud Suja Rena I hope

filmmaker I’m a proud Suja Rena I hope you’re okay with me calling myself that

you’re okay with me calling myself that

you’re okay with me calling myself that since my family started here at that

since my family started here at that

since my family started here at that time no kidding I’m a proud splasher

time no kidding I’m a proud splasher

time no kidding I’m a proud splasher also and who knows what my next passion

also and who knows what my next passion

also and who knows what my next passion is going to be thank you

is going to be thank you

is going to be thank you [Applause]

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