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an obstacle to an opportunity a barrier

an obstacle to an opportunity a barrier to a bridge that is the power of

to a bridge that is the power of

to a bridge that is the power of perspective Alfred Nobel was a Swedish

perspective Alfred Nobel was a Swedish

perspective Alfred Nobel was a Swedish chemist engineer and inventor born in

chemist engineer and inventor born in

chemist engineer and inventor born in 1833 by 1888 he had amassed a vast

1833 by 1888 he had amassed a vast

1833 by 1888 he had amassed a vast fortune for more than 300 different

fortune for more than 300 different

fortune for more than 300 different inventions the most famous of these

inventions the most famous of these

inventions the most famous of these being dynamite Nobel also owned a

being dynamite Nobel also owned a

being dynamite Nobel also owned a company that sold weapons to war

company that sold weapons to war

company that sold weapons to war machines around the globe the same year

machines around the globe the same year

machines around the globe the same year tragedy struck when Nobles brother died

tragedy struck when Nobles brother died

tragedy struck when Nobles brother died surely after Nobel was surprised to read

surely after Nobel was surprised to read

surely after Nobel was surprised to read his own obituary in a Swedish newspaper

his own obituary in a Swedish newspaper

his own obituary in a Swedish newspaper the newspaper had been misinformed

the newspaper had been misinformed

the newspaper had been misinformed and I thought Nobel had died not his

and I thought Nobel had died not his

and I thought Nobel had died not his brother this obituary was years

brother this obituary was years

brother this obituary was years premature written about a man still very

premature written about a man still very

premature written about a man still very much alive this put Alfred Nobel in a

much alive this put Alfred Nobel in a

much alive this put Alfred Nobel in a very unique position he was able to

very unique position he was able to

very unique position he was able to understand the mark he would leave when

understand the mark he would leave when

understand the mark he would leave when he was gone what he would be remembered

he was gone what he would be remembered

he was gone what he would be remembered for all while still alive what he read

for all while still alive what he read

for all while still alive what he read in his own obituaries shocked him the

in his own obituaries shocked him the

in his own obituaries shocked him the newspaper described him as the merchant

newspaper described him as the merchant

newspaper described him as the merchant of death describing his work an impact

of death describing his work an impact

of death describing his work an impact as being the man who made it possible to

as being the man who made it possible to

as being the man who made it possible to kill and destroy faster than anyone else

kill and destroy faster than anyone else

kill and destroy faster than anyone else to have ever existed and to make a

to have ever existed and to make a

to have ever existed and to make a profit off of the suffering of thousands

profit off of the suffering of thousands

profit off of the suffering of thousands Alfred Nobel saw what he would leave

Alfred Nobel saw what he would leave

Alfred Nobel saw what he would leave behind death greed and destruction

behind death greed and destruction

behind death greed and destruction now Nobel knew he needed to change his

now Nobel knew he needed to change his

now Nobel knew he needed to change his legacy and when he died to widespread

legacy and when he died to widespread

legacy and when he died to widespread astonishment he left his entire fortune

astonishment he left his entire fortune

astonishment he left his entire fortune to creating a system of awards to be

to creating a system of awards to be

to creating a system of awards to be given to those who created the greatest

given to those who created the greatest

given to those who created the greatest benefit for mankind in the areas of

benefit for mankind in the areas of

benefit for mankind in the areas of physics chemistry medicine literature

physics chemistry medicine literature

physics chemistry medicine literature and peace the Nobel Prizes as we know

and peace the Nobel Prizes as we know

and peace the Nobel Prizes as we know them today constitute one of the most

them today constitute one of the most

them today constitute one of the most impressive Awards this world has to

impressive Awards this world has to

impressive Awards this world has to offer and have been given to

offer and have been given to

offer and have been given to humanitarians statesmen scientists and

humanitarians statesmen scientists and

humanitarians statesmen scientists and peacemakers from the merchants of death

peacemakers from the merchants of death

peacemakers from the merchants of death to a promoter of peace and prosperity

to a promoter of peace and prosperity

to a promoter of peace and prosperity Alfred Nobel had changed his legacy

Alfred Nobel had changed his legacy

Alfred Nobel had changed his legacy forever I guess you could say Alfred

forever I guess you could say Alfred

forever I guess you could say Alfred Nobel’s brother taught him something

Nobel’s brother taught him something

Nobel’s brother taught him something about perspective

about perspective

about perspective about how tragedy can be reversed or you

about how tragedy can be reversed or you

about how tragedy can be reversed or you can change the negative facets of your

can change the negative facets of your

can change the negative facets of your life through incredible

life through incredible

life through incredible self-preservation I also have a brother

self-preservation I also have a brother

self-preservation I also have a brother that taught me something about

that taught me something about

that taught me something about perspective

perspective

perspective his name is Colin he’s my best friend

his name is Colin he’s my best friend

his name is Colin he’s my best friend and unfortunately Colin’s lesson

and unfortunately Colin’s lesson

and unfortunately Colin’s lesson happened in March of 2012 when he died

happened in March of 2012 when he died

happened in March of 2012 when he died of a heroin overdose in the bathroom of

of a heroin overdose in the bathroom of

of a heroin overdose in the bathroom of our home when I lost a brother words

our home when I lost a brother words

our home when I lost a brother words cannot describe the pain and grief I

cannot describe the pain and grief I

cannot describe the pain and grief I felt as an 11 year old it’s an unnatural

felt as an 11 year old it’s an unnatural

felt as an 11 year old it’s an unnatural fear a complete loss of all words and

fear a complete loss of all words and

fear a complete loss of all words and hope big brothers are supposed to teach

hope big brothers are supposed to teach

hope big brothers are supposed to teach you how to mess with your sisters or

you how to mess with your sisters or

you how to mess with your sisters or play video games or maybe ask a girl out

play video games or maybe ask a girl out

play video games or maybe ask a girl out for the first time my brother taught me

for the first time my brother taught me

for the first time my brother taught me how to struggle overcome and thrive in

how to struggle overcome and thrive in

how to struggle overcome and thrive in an environment of grief but most

an environment of grief but most

an environment of grief but most importantly he taught me about

importantly he taught me about

importantly he taught me about perspective knowing that when I wake up

perspective knowing that when I wake up

perspective knowing that when I wake up nothing I can do that day will change

nothing I can do that day will change

nothing I can do that day will change the way it is when I go downstairs

the way it is when I go downstairs

the way it is when I go downstairs hoping that he’ll be there at the

hoping that he’ll be there at the

hoping that he’ll be there at the kitchen table hoping that it was all a

kitchen table hoping that it was all a

kitchen table hoping that it was all a dream when it’s not in reality my life

dream when it’s not in reality my life

dream when it’s not in reality my life has become a nightmare when I lost my

has become a nightmare when I lost my

has become a nightmare when I lost my best friend

best friend

best friend I lost every shred of hope and goodness

I lost every shred of hope and goodness

I lost every shred of hope and goodness I had in this world yet now I’ve come to

I had in this world yet now I’ve come to

I had in this world yet now I’ve come to realize the power of perspective I come

realize the power of perspective I come

realize the power of perspective I come from a very tight-knit family we support

from a very tight-knit family we support

from a very tight-knit family we support each other and maybe we knock knock each

each other and maybe we knock knock each

each other and maybe we knock knock each other down a few pegs when we need it

other down a few pegs when we need it

other down a few pegs when we need it there’s five kids seven busy schedules

there’s five kids seven busy schedules

there’s five kids seven busy schedules one dog and zero sanity my parents have

one dog and zero sanity my parents have

one dog and zero sanity my parents have always encouraged us to become as

always encouraged us to become as

always encouraged us to become as involved as possible and one way for me

involved as possible and one way for me

involved as possible and one way for me to do this was to join a Scout troop my

to do this was to join a Scout troop my

to do this was to join a Scout troop my fellow Scouts and I can attest to the

fellow Scouts and I can attest to the

fellow Scouts and I can attest to the program’s ability to provide with us

program’s ability to provide with us

program’s ability to provide with us life lessons and experiences they will

life lessons and experiences they will

life lessons and experiences they will take for a lifetime one scout in

take for a lifetime one scout in

take for a lifetime one scout in particular has carved a special notch

particular has carved a special notch

particular has carved a special notch into my life let’s call him John now

into my life let’s call him John now

into my life let’s call him John now John is not like other Scouts John was

John is not like other Scouts John was

John is not like other Scouts John was born with several mental and learning

born with several mental and learning

born with several mental and learning challenges then make it incredibly

challenges then make it incredibly

challenges then make it incredibly difficult for him to complete daily

difficult for him to complete daily

difficult for him to complete daily tasks complex sentences and critical

tasks complex sentences and critical

tasks complex sentences and critical thinking or all things he struggles with

thinking or all things he struggles with

thinking or all things he struggles with yet last year John would say something

yet last year John would say something

yet last year John would say something to me that would change my life forever

to me that would change my life forever

to me that would change my life forever the troop was on a campout and we were

the troop was on a campout and we were

the troop was on a campout and we were in a large field bordered by tall trees

in a large field bordered by tall trees

in a large field bordered by tall trees with a clear blue sky overhead

with a clear blue sky overhead

with a clear blue sky overhead like a painting John stood against this

like a painting John stood against this

like a painting John stood against this picturesque background as the other

picturesque background as the other

picturesque background as the other Scouts left John remained and stared

Scouts left John remained and stared

Scouts left John remained and stared intently at the ground he bent down and

intently at the ground he bent down and

intently at the ground he bent down and picked a Daniel on off the ground and

picked a Daniel on off the ground and

picked a Daniel on off the ground and held the small golden flower in his hand

held the small golden flower in his hand

held the small golden flower in his hand and then he turned to me and he said

and then he turned to me and he said

and then he turned to me and he said Cory take time to look at the dandelions

Cory take time to look at the dandelions

Cory take time to look at the dandelions in your life because they may change it

in your life because they may change it

in your life because they may change it I was shocked I never expected to be so

I was shocked I never expected to be so

I was shocked I never expected to be so intuitive by making such a impactful

intuitive by making such a impactful

intuitive by making such a impactful statement or to provide for me advice I

statement or to provide for me advice I

statement or to provide for me advice I will take with me forever

will take with me forever

will take with me forever John’s statement only reaffirmed my

John’s statement only reaffirmed my

John’s statement only reaffirmed my belief in the power of perspective

belief in the power of perspective

belief in the power of perspective because John sees the world not through

because John sees the world not through

because John sees the world not through someone who constantly faces adversity

someone who constantly faces adversity

someone who constantly faces adversity but through the eyes of someone who sees

but through the eyes of someone who sees

but through the eyes of someone who sees hope that is the power of perspective

however I’ve also come to realize that

however I’ve also come to realize that sometimes the positive side of life does

sometimes the positive side of life does

sometimes the positive side of life does not show itself until long after the

not show itself until long after the

not show itself until long after the battles have been fought Blind Willie

battles have been fought Blind Willie

battles have been fought Blind Willie Johnson was born in 1897 in a small town

Johnson was born in 1897 in a small town

Johnson was born in 1897 in a small town in Texas his family lived a modest and

in Texas his family lived a modest and

in Texas his family lived a modest and humble farmers life however growing up

humble farmers life however growing up

humble farmers life however growing up in the Jim Crow South meant that Blind

in the Jim Crow South meant that Blind

in the Jim Crow South meant that Blind Willie Johnson had challenge after

Willie Johnson had challenge after

Willie Johnson had challenge after challenge placed in front of them from a

challenge placed in front of them from a

challenge placed in front of them from a very young age at the age of five his

very young age at the age of five his

very young age at the age of five his father gave him his first guitar and his

father gave him his first guitar and his

father gave him his first guitar and his love of music never stopped

love of music never stopped

love of music never stopped however these times of musical

however these times of musical

however these times of musical expression and childhood memories would

expression and childhood memories would

expression and childhood memories would not last Johnson’s home situation was

not last Johnson’s home situation was

not last Johnson’s home situation was volatile to say the least

volatile to say the least

volatile to say the least and in one a particularly violent

and in one a particularly violent

and in one a particularly violent argument Johnson’s mother threw lye into

argument Johnson’s mother threw lye into

argument Johnson’s mother threw lye into his face permanently blinding him no

his face permanently blinding him no

his face permanently blinding him no longer able to see Johnson he continued

longer able to see Johnson he continued

longer able to see Johnson he continued to use music as his only form of income

to use music as his only form of income

to use music as his only form of income moving from small town to small town

moving from small town to small town

moving from small town to small town performing for any amount of money he

performing for any amount of money he

performing for any amount of money he could be given in 1945 Johnson’s story

could be given in 1945 Johnson’s story

could be given in 1945 Johnson’s story takes another tragic turn when the house

takes another tragic turn when the house

takes another tragic turn when the house he was living in burned to the ground

he was living in burned to the ground

he was living in burned to the ground having no money to buy or rent a new

having no money to buy or rent a new

having no money to buy or rent a new home Johnson was forced to live in the

home Johnson was forced to live in the

home Johnson was forced to live in the wreckage of the abandoned building

wreckage of the abandoned building

wreckage of the abandoned building eventually exposure to the elements

eventually exposure to the elements

eventually exposure to the elements killed Blind Willie Johnson this story

killed Blind Willie Johnson this story

killed Blind Willie Johnson this story ends in loss it’s a story about a man

ends in loss it’s a story about a man

ends in loss it’s a story about a man who through no fault of his own

who through no fault of his own

who through no fault of his own was stripped of almost every joy in his

was stripped of almost every joy in his

was stripped of almost every joy in his life except his beloved music or is it

life except his beloved music or is it

life except his beloved music or is it because right now as we speak the

because right now as we speak the

because right now as we speak the Voyager spacecraft is traveling at

Voyager spacecraft is traveling at

Voyager spacecraft is traveling at 39,000 miles per hour on the very outer

39,000 miles per hour on the very outer

39,000 miles per hour on the very outer limits of our solar system and upon this

limits of our solar system and upon this

limits of our solar system and upon this spacecraft is a golden record the team

spacecraft is a golden record the team

spacecraft is a golden record the team of researchers have developed a record

of researchers have developed a record

of researchers have developed a record hope that upon successful use of the

hope that upon successful use of the

hope that upon successful use of the record any living thing somewhere in the

record any living thing somewhere in the

record any living thing somewhere in the universe would hear all they needed to

universe would hear all they needed to

universe would hear all they needed to hear to understand the lives of the

hear to understand the lives of the

hear to understand the lives of the people of Earth upon this record is

people of Earth upon this record is

people of Earth upon this record is music from Bach Mozart and Blind Willie

music from Bach Mozart and Blind Willie

music from Bach Mozart and Blind Willie Johnson Johnson song dark was the night

Johnson Johnson song dark was the night

Johnson Johnson song dark was the night and cold was the ground was included

and cold was the ground was included

and cold was the ground was included because according to Carl Sagan it

because according to Carl Sagan it

because according to Carl Sagan it concerns a situation he faced many times

concerns a situation he faced many times

concerns a situation he faced many times in his life nightfall with no place to

in his life nightfall with no place to

in his life nightfall with no place to sleep and since humans appeared on this

sleep and since humans appeared on this

sleep and since humans appeared on this earth the shroud of night has yet to

earth the shroud of night has yet to

earth the shroud of night has yet to fall or touch a man or woman in the same

fall or touch a man or woman in the same

fall or touch a man or woman in the same plight Johnson’s life may have been

plight Johnson’s life may have been

plight Johnson’s life may have been filled with sadness and neglect but his

filled with sadness and neglect but his

filled with sadness and neglect but his memory lives on as a messenger of peace

memory lives on as a messenger of peace

memory lives on as a messenger of peace for all of mankind but what do Jon and

for all of mankind but what do Jon and

for all of mankind but what do Jon and Blind Willie Johnson have to do with my

Blind Willie Johnson have to do with my

Blind Willie Johnson have to do with my brother well immediately after Collins

brother well immediately after Collins

brother well immediately after Collins death I began to think why why I am me

death I began to think why why I am me

death I began to think why why I am me I’m only 11

I’m only 11

I’m only 11 I was left destroyed heartbroken and

I was left destroyed heartbroken and

I was left destroyed heartbroken and helpless and then I began to think it

helpless and then I began to think it

helpless and then I began to think it doesn’t have to be this way I understood

doesn’t have to be this way I understood

doesn’t have to be this way I understood that stories like mine happened across

that stories like mine happened across

that stories like mine happened across the United States to kids just like me

the United States to kids just like me

the United States to kids just like me every single day and I knew I could be a

every single day and I knew I could be a

every single day and I knew I could be a candle in a dark room and do something

candle in a dark room and do something

candle in a dark room and do something to stop stories like mine from happening

to stop stories like mine from happening

to stop stories like mine from happening making sure that kids in my community

making sure that kids in my community

making sure that kids in my community could go back to their brother sister

could go back to their brother sister

could go back to their brother sister friend or parent through a group I am a

friend or parent through a group I am a

friend or parent through a group I am a part of Laker Youth Road crew a group of

part of Laker Youth Road crew a group of

part of Laker Youth Road crew a group of youth against drugs and underage

youth against drugs and underage

youth against drugs and underage drinking I began speaking at schools

drinking I began speaking at schools

drinking I began speaking at schools I enjoyed sharing my story and meeting

I enjoyed sharing my story and meeting

I enjoyed sharing my story and meeting kids from across my area I am able to do

kids from across my area I am able to do

kids from across my area I am able to do all of this through the unconditional

all of this through the unconditional

all of this through the unconditional and unwavering support of my mother

and unwavering support of my mother

and unwavering support of my mother whose own voice in the community has

whose own voice in the community has

whose own voice in the community has only grown stronger over these years as

only grown stronger over these years as

only grown stronger over these years as her hard work and dedication pays off

her hard work and dedication pays off

her hard work and dedication pays off yet I knew I could do more this past

yet I knew I could do more this past

yet I knew I could do more this past year through the help of my family and

year through the help of my family and

year through the help of my family and dozens of volunteers I was able to

dozens of volunteers I was able to

dozens of volunteers I was able to complete a mobile drug educational

complete a mobile drug educational

complete a mobile drug educational platform funded completely by grants and

platform funded completely by grants and

platform funded completely by grants and donations the project is a trailer that

donations the project is a trailer that

donations the project is a trailer that is set

is set

is set like a mock team bedroom that provides

like a mock team bedroom that provides

like a mock team bedroom that provides parents the information and preventative

parents the information and preventative

parents the information and preventative steps they need to take to save their

steps they need to take to save their

steps they need to take to save their own son or daughter before it’s too late

own son or daughter before it’s too late

own son or daughter before it’s too late the project has reached headlines across

the project has reached headlines across

the project has reached headlines across the nation appearing in newspapers

the nation appearing in newspapers

the nation appearing in newspapers online sites and magazines its reach

online sites and magazines its reach

online sites and magazines its reach continues to grow every single day and

continues to grow every single day and

continues to grow every single day and it has the potential to impact millions

it has the potential to impact millions

it has the potential to impact millions of lives in retrospect it wasn’t easy I

of lives in retrospect it wasn’t easy I

of lives in retrospect it wasn’t easy I was faced with loss but I chose to do

was faced with loss but I chose to do

was faced with loss but I chose to do something about it I didn’t choose to

something about it I didn’t choose to

something about it I didn’t choose to lose my brother but I did choose to

lose my brother but I did choose to

lose my brother but I did choose to improve my community through my own

improve my community through my own

improve my community through my own story of loss we’re sons some see loss

story of loss we’re sons some see loss

story of loss we’re sons some see loss and devastation you can find hope the

and devastation you can find hope the

and devastation you can find hope the crises and personal burdens we face are

crises and personal burdens we face are

crises and personal burdens we face are our own boulders we must roll up the

our own boulders we must roll up the

our own boulders we must roll up the mountain day by day they break us down

mountain day by day they break us down

mountain day by day they break us down emotionally physically and mentally yet

emotionally physically and mentally yet

emotionally physically and mentally yet every single day you have the

every single day you have the

every single day you have the opportunity to wake up and find some

opportunity to wake up and find some

opportunity to wake up and find some sort of good in the world to use your

sort of good in the world to use your

sort of good in the world to use your burden to improve the lives of others

burden to improve the lives of others

burden to improve the lives of others returning to John’s Danny lion as an

returning to John’s Danny lion as an

returning to John’s Danny lion as an example a dandelion

example a dandelion

example a dandelion it’s a weed it’s a tough stubborn plant

it’s a weed it’s a tough stubborn plant

it’s a weed it’s a tough stubborn plant that is difficult to remove a pest and

that is difficult to remove a pest and

that is difficult to remove a pest and while so many people across the United

while so many people across the United

while so many people across the United States spend hundreds of dollars to

States spend hundreds of dollars to

States spend hundreds of dollars to remove Danny lands from their yards it

remove Danny lands from their yards it

remove Danny lands from their yards it was quite the opposite for my

was quite the opposite for my

was quite the opposite for my grandfather

grandfather

grandfather nearly 80 years ago growing up during

nearly 80 years ago growing up during

nearly 80 years ago growing up during the Great Depression food was scarce and

the Great Depression food was scarce and

the Great Depression food was scarce and his siblings would scrounge for it

his siblings would scrounge for it

his siblings would scrounge for it anywhere they could a dandelion that is

anywhere they could a dandelion that is

anywhere they could a dandelion that is today a pest was then a precious

today a pest was then a precious

today a pest was then a precious commodity a plant that’s leaves could

commodity a plant that’s leaves could

commodity a plant that’s leaves could stave off hunger for another night do

stave off hunger for another night do

stave off hunger for another night do you see how powerful perspective can

you see how powerful perspective can

you see how powerful perspective can become on one hand an item is nothing

become on one hand an item is nothing

become on one hand an item is nothing but negatives and on the other the same

but negatives and on the other the same

but negatives and on the other the same item is life saving in a symbol of hope

item is life saving in a symbol of hope

item is life saving in a symbol of hope an obstacle to an opportunity a barrier

an obstacle to an opportunity a barrier

an obstacle to an opportunity a barrier to a bridge that is the power of

to a bridge that is the power of

to a bridge that is the power of perspective you’re going to run into

perspective you’re going to run into

perspective you’re going to run into bumps in the road turns you didn’t see

bumps in the road turns you didn’t see

bumps in the road turns you didn’t see coming and tragedy that strikes out of

coming and tragedy that strikes out of

coming and tragedy that strikes out of nowhere it’s inevitable it’s a part of

nowhere it’s inevitable it’s a part of

nowhere it’s inevitable it’s a part of life however what is not inevitable is

life however what is not inevitable is

life however what is not inevitable is how you react to such happenings Alfred

how you react to such happenings Alfred

how you react to such happenings Alfred Nobel saw his awful legacy and changed

Nobel saw his awful legacy and changed

Nobel saw his awful legacy and changed it John can’t keep up with other Scouts

it John can’t keep up with other Scouts

it John can’t keep up with other Scouts but he can impart lifelong wisdom Blind

but he can impart lifelong wisdom Blind

but he can impart lifelong wisdom Blind Willie Johnson’s dedication to his music

Willie Johnson’s dedication to his music

Willie Johnson’s dedication to his music not to his obstacles and tombs him

not to his obstacles and tombs him

not to his obstacles and tombs him forever as a mess

forever as a mess

forever as a mess jerk piece I lost a brother but have

jerk piece I lost a brother but have

jerk piece I lost a brother but have been able to touch the lives of

been able to touch the lives of

been able to touch the lives of thousands because of it and when I tell

thousands because of it and when I tell

thousands because of it and when I tell you these stories of empowerment and

you these stories of empowerment and

you these stories of empowerment and determination I’m not asking you to

determination I’m not asking you to

determination I’m not asking you to believe in my own ability to bring about

believe in my own ability to bring about

believe in my own ability to bring about change I’m asking you to believe in

change I’m asking you to believe in

change I’m asking you to believe in yours so the next time it feels like the

yours so the next time it feels like the

yours so the next time it feels like the entire world is against you beating you

entire world is against you beating you

entire world is against you beating you pushing you down telling you to move you

pushing you down telling you to move you

pushing you down telling you to move you plant your feet like a tree look at the

plant your feet like a tree look at the

plant your feet like a tree look at the world in the eye and say no you move

world in the eye and say no you move

world in the eye and say no you move thank you

thank you

thank you [Applause]

[Applause]

[Applause] [Music]

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