you ever thought you were born as has
ever thought about how that trip was
that went through your body to get to
this world we rarely do this
Question
however today we know that the
how we are born is fundamental and it is
fundamental for all our life
I invite you to leave from the beginning
nine months before birth
a woman finds out she is pregnant
she learns that she is pregnant and that
what happens in it
today our image of childbirth is a
almost a tragedy more than
some you imagine I will have seen
some movie or some series of
television where there is a delivery and it’s
an emergency and everyone is running and the woman
yells and the medical team expressed
all dressed in green as trying to
solve this big problem they have
in front of you and that you also have to do it
fast and it ‘s an emergency and if not
we take quick water there’s going to be a
terrifying scenario and that is the idea
that we have in our head of what
a pact added to the great
misinformation out there regarding
our reproductive processes in the
school teach us about sexuality we
they talk about how a bus is made but
we have rarely been told that what
occurs in the woman’s body after
that this was already conceived that happens
during those nine months in the body of
the woman we do not know there is a great
ignorance and today we
we face one at a time to one
society where the birth is
in the place of the pathological
the image is that I told them that we have
our covenant head always
are related to a problem with
a possible crime then when we
We learn that we are pregnant
happens after
women need to go to the system
health valme
to the office where you have to attend and
what he receives in that place is the
answer that finally everything is fine
but then come nine months where
what we receive from the system
are ultrasound controls that have us
that measure the size of the uterus that we
restricts what we can eat that we
they send for an examination that control
of the vital signs as if we were
a sick person
then once again we are put in
that place of a person with a
pathology with a disease and so
we advance the nine months along
our pregnancy
we are approaching the moment of birth
those famous 40 weeks to which
we have to arrive and anxiety continues
growing
we finally arrived at 40 weeks with the
with the pressure with the constant threat
that if that moment comes our water
he has not been born
we will have to intervene we will have to
induce that birth because it is water should
come out we forget that a pregnancy
Normal can between 37 and 42
not weeks which is like 40 weeks
a bomb that was going to explode in that
my baby has to be born and so on
the system hurries me pressures me
it generates fears anxieties anguish and
good hit 40 week and then I
they have me
prostrate in a bed full of cables
connected to an intravenous line that
start hurrying my labor
we arrived at the clinic and they are all
protocols
it’s as if I had an operation
I knee up to the wheelchair I
moved through the corridors came to the
childbirth room connect me here they put me
the dressing gown of the clinic or hospital
where I’m going to have my putt stopped being
an active person happened to be a
patient a patient confined to a
bed surrounded person
there is my mom my mother-in-law
anesthetist someone who took the photo
that it was probably my husband to
then start walking down the hall
from the clinic who has not seen this
more image of some you have to
have seen a week a bonus or
yourself
this image going through the corridors of
the clinic connected to a path that
helps to advance my labor and so on
the delivery time approaches to and
tied lying down connected and finally
my baby is born and we are all left
happy because both the mother and the
guagua breathe
yes i was lucky i share
yes I am within the majority it was
necessary because the day over the
half of those who are here present and
of those born in Chile we are born by
a cesarean section that happens to me when you’re
images how do I see the pact as a
public event filled with fear
dangerous with much pain with much
uncertainty and with a lot of anxiety
childbirth is a terrible moment nobody
associates childbirth with something other than
difficult painful and complicated and I
I wonder why why must be
well because the system has allowed
women let’s leave paris with
our own hormones because no
we can enjoy the moment more
sacred and deeper than as women
we can live our life
let’s go back to the beginning
let’s imagine that we found out that we are
yahoo pregnant and my doctor me
consumption
I pray and that they not only make me a
examination an ultrasound that confirmed that
everything is fine but also I
they report
let me tell you a little story
just six years ago together with
my husband and my oldest daughter
We are living in England and we
we learned that we expect our second
daughter
as usual, we went to
office that corresponded to us for
ask what will be the steps to
follow
and there what I received was this book
the presna if putt
we did not understand much we came
arriving in a country that we did not know
another language
we went to the house with this book
when we opened it we realized that
in him there was a world of information
that until that moment we did not know
I had already been nine months
pregnant with my first daughter had already
lived the experience a childbirth and without
But I realized that I did not know anything
nothing had never understood the anatomy
of my body
the physiology of birth as they
he said they talk to us about sexuality
school but they do not explain what happens
after that what to say about
Birth
I had no idea that there were options
that I as a mother and as a woman
I was pregnant
I can decide I did not know anything and without
But here and receive information
information that made me understand
information that also allowed me to
trust to trust not only me not only
in my body but to trust that
we have all the tools
necessary to be able to give birth to our
children
and thousands of women and I
I could do it
So you need to have an adequate environment
and there it was, unlike what
had happened two years before
Here I realized that it is enough to respect
certain basic needs and it was so
powerful experience that with my
husband we decided to embark on this
trip and choose to have a birth in the
that the engine was my own body that
they were my own hormonal I
were guiding and so we live nine
months with a connection level that does not
we had met the time came the
childbirth and everything flowed we arrived at the hospital
we revised my delivery plan we prepared
a tub and I was alone
me and my husband together with only one
Midwife in tranquility in intimacy with
the light dim and with heat feeling
safe until my daughter was born
nobody told me how to do it nobody gave me
instructions
nobody tied me up nobody connected me one
intravenously
my daughter was born and it was wonderful and it was
so powerful that I hung or cardboard
lawyer and I felt it was a
responsibility to share this with
you and with more and more women because
childbirth does not have to be a tragedy
when I accompany births and live with
other women
this moment I see these images women
powerful wise women who know their
path that connect with your child with
your partner who enjoy their birth
pleasurable births
if we can open the delivery with pleasure
it’s a tragedy that happens with these
images that these concepts that
we have in our head when we live
and we experience these moments what
public fear fear danger pain
anxiety the anguish disappear and that
what appears instead intimacy and
confidence security
the ce information and tranquility when
we let the body of the
woman merges by itself is
inaugurate it without pressing it without
tie it without connecting it
we allow you to believe you are in your
brain the most important hormone in
the sexual processes
oxytocin we have forgotten that the
childbirth is the culmination of a process
sexual
you imagine having relationships
Sex in the middle of the stadium
national before a game of chile
for example maybe one or two could
but most probably not the
childbirth requires the same intimacy as
a sexual relationship are the same
hormones that are present what
make possible
are the ecstasy hormones are the
pleasure hormones is oxytocin are
the endorphin in prolactin the
oxytocin is pleasure
we have to allow oxytocin
flow through our body
in this way we will have more births
healthy and safer both for the mother
as for the child born in childbirth
not only in your child also the
a mother and we need oxytocin
so that this process is as healthy and
as safe as possible
today we are at a time when there is no
we can only hope that after
a birth
both the mother and the child breathe
we can aspire to more
today we can aspire here in addition
that they breathe have an experience
positive have a powerful bond
have a better a better postpartum
have a better lactation
Today, they are more than
benefits of a delivery without
interventions the benefits that it has
from the point of view of health to
long term
the benefit you have for that woman
realize that if I knew that if I could
give birth to his son
we dream with loving births
respected quiet
that the experience of being born is a
wonderful experience that the moment
probably deeper in life
of a woman be pleasant you can
live a birth with pleasure and as here
have mentioned more than once
we can change the world but first
to change the world
we have to change the way we
we are born thanks
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