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My secret to success as a refugee, as a human being | Maria Sarkis Azkanaz | TEDxSaxionUniversity


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[Applause] my story always triggers the very same

my story always triggers the very same

my story always triggers the very same question how did you achieve your dream

question how did you achieve your dream

question how did you achieve your dream in only five years do you want to know

in only five years do you want to know

in only five years do you want to know my secret then I’ll take you back to

my secret then I’ll take you back to

my secret then I’ll take you back to where my story started its 2011 I’m

where my story started its 2011 I’m

where my story started its 2011 I’m almost 17 years old i’ve already

almost 17 years old i’ve already

almost 17 years old i’ve already witnessed nine years of war and

witnessed nine years of war and

witnessed nine years of war and experience fear and all kinds of

experience fear and all kinds of

experience fear and all kinds of uncertainties but this time is different

uncertainties but this time is different

uncertainties but this time is different the dangerous closer to me and to my

the dangerous closer to me and to my

the dangerous closer to me and to my family we have to leave my country iraq

family we have to leave my country iraq

family we have to leave my country iraq i live i leave everything behind my

i live i leave everything behind my

i live i leave everything behind my family my friends my school after more

family my friends my school after more

family my friends my school after more than ten days we arrived to the

than ten days we arrived to the

than ten days we arrived to the netherlands one month later we get the

netherlands one month later we get the

netherlands one month later we get the good news we are allowed to stay legally

good news we are allowed to stay legally

good news we are allowed to stay legally in the netherlands finally we can settle

in the netherlands finally we can settle

in the netherlands finally we can settle down life I always imagined to live in

down life I always imagined to live in

down life I always imagined to live in Iraq suddenly didn’t exist anymore life

Iraq suddenly didn’t exist anymore life

Iraq suddenly didn’t exist anymore life can surprise you at any time you have to

can surprise you at any time you have to

can surprise you at any time you have to learn to expect it unexpected a few days

learn to expect it unexpected a few days

learn to expect it unexpected a few days later I’m at the train station I hear

later I’m at the train station I hear

later I’m at the train station I hear information through the speakers but I

information through the speakers but I

information through the speakers but I don’t understand what’s happening I ask

don’t understand what’s happening I ask

don’t understand what’s happening I ask people around me in English they try to

people around me in English they try to

people around me in English they try to show me things with their hands it’s not

show me things with their hands it’s not

show me things with their hands it’s not working I still don’t know what’s

working I still don’t know what’s

working I still don’t know what’s happening this annoys me I try to make

happening this annoys me I try to make

happening this annoys me I try to make myself clear

myself clear

myself clear in English it’s obvious I miss a lot of

in English it’s obvious I miss a lot of

in English it’s obvious I miss a lot of information what would you do I realized

information what would you do I realized

information what would you do I realized that the only way to move forward is to

that the only way to move forward is to

that the only way to move forward is to accept and be part of this new

accept and be part of this new

accept and be part of this new environment I chose to learn Dutch one

environment I chose to learn Dutch one

environment I chose to learn Dutch one month later I’m in the classroom with

month later I’m in the classroom with

month later I’m in the classroom with children from 12 to 18 they are still

children from 12 to 18 they are still

children from 12 to 18 they are still young they want to play and have fun

young they want to play and have fun

young they want to play and have fun they are not serious I enjoy learning

they are not serious I enjoy learning

they are not serious I enjoy learning this weird language I never heard about

this weird language I never heard about

this weird language I never heard about before I learn new words I communicate

before I learn new words I communicate

before I learn new words I communicate with people in their mother language now

with people in their mother language now

with people in their mother language now I can read signs I think that cashier

I can read signs I think that cashier

I can read signs I think that cashier dodge this feels great I take lessons

dodge this feels great I take lessons

dodge this feels great I take lessons about mathematics science Oh in Dutch I

about mathematics science Oh in Dutch I

about mathematics science Oh in Dutch I learn about the culture like who sent a

learn about the culture like who sent a

learn about the culture like who sent a class was the Queen’s day how does

class was the Queen’s day how does

class was the Queen’s day how does people celebrate Christmas what do they

people celebrate Christmas what do they

people celebrate Christmas what do they normally eat I almost forget how old I

normally eat I almost forget how old I

normally eat I almost forget how old I am and what my plans are for the future

the lesson is avoid distraction stay

the lesson is avoid distraction stay focused and pour all your attention on

focused and pour all your attention on

focused and pour all your attention on your goal six months later my teacher

your goal six months later my teacher

your goal six months later my teacher tells me it’s time to prepare for

tells me it’s time to prepare for

tells me it’s time to prepare for further education in a dark school I’m

further education in a dark school I’m

further education in a dark school I’m still dreaming of becoming a university

still dreaming of becoming a university

still dreaming of becoming a university student and doing a medical study as if

student and doing a medical study as if

student and doing a medical study as if I was on my own country but people

I was on my own country but people

I was on my own country but people around me keep telling me it’s not

around me keep telling me it’s not

around me keep telling me it’s not possible forget about it choose

possible forget about it choose

possible forget about it choose something easy where you don’t need to

something easy where you don’t need to

something easy where you don’t need to speak or write the language so perfectly

speak or write the language so perfectly

speak or write the language so perfectly this makes me miserable I know I can do

this makes me miserable I know I can do

this makes me miserable I know I can do better than this so I desperately ask

better than this so I desperately ask

better than this so I desperately ask anyone I know my friends my family’s my

anyone I know my friends my family’s my

anyone I know my friends my family’s my teachers anyone I come cross finally

teachers anyone I come cross finally

teachers anyone I come cross finally somebody tells me there is a course that

somebody tells me there is a course that

somebody tells me there is a course that can hell

can hell

can hell me now people around me are helping me

me now people around me are helping me

me now people around me are helping me my teacher accompanies me to the open

my teacher accompanies me to the open

my teacher accompanies me to the open day of the course and they tell us you

day of the course and they tell us you

day of the course and they tell us you have to take a language exam my teacher

have to take a language exam my teacher

have to take a language exam my teacher and I make plans to study for the exam

and I make plans to study for the exam

and I make plans to study for the exam yes i did it i passed the exam i’m

yes i did it i passed the exam i’m

yes i did it i passed the exam i’m officially admitted to the course i

officially admitted to the course i

officially admitted to the course i always wanted i learned to keep

always wanted i learned to keep

always wanted i learned to keep believing in myself even when others

believing in myself even when others

believing in myself even when others give me all the reasons not to if you

give me all the reasons not to if you

give me all the reasons not to if you believe what other people say or give up

believe what other people say or give up

believe what other people say or give up at the first difficult challenge you

at the first difficult challenge you

at the first difficult challenge you will not achieve anything at all keep

will not achieve anything at all keep

will not achieve anything at all keep trying as hard as you want your dream to

trying as hard as you want your dream to

trying as hard as you want your dream to come true I know it works September 2012

come true I know it works September 2012

come true I know it works September 2012 i start at suction a course for adult

i start at suction a course for adult

i start at suction a course for adult highly educated foreigners all my

highly educated foreigners all my

highly educated foreigners all my classmates are too old they are at the

classmates are too old they are at the

classmates are too old they are at the age of my parents after a while my

age of my parents after a while my

age of my parents after a while my teacher tells me you never make us

teacher tells me you never make us

teacher tells me you never make us notice you’re only 18 the youngest

notice you’re only 18 the youngest

notice you’re only 18 the youngest student here you keep up very well with

student here you keep up very well with

student here you keep up very well with the others the next step is to study

the others the next step is to study

the others the next step is to study biology and medical laboratory research

biology and medical laboratory research

biology and medical laboratory research they ask for a high school diploma which

they ask for a high school diploma which

they ask for a high school diploma which I don’t have I asked my study coach for

I don’t have I asked my study coach for

I don’t have I asked my study coach for help and she comes with another solution

help and she comes with another solution

help and she comes with another solution within three months I attend lectures

within three months I attend lectures

within three months I attend lectures with Dutch students they are at my age

with Dutch students they are at my age

with Dutch students they are at my age finally I’m at the right place with the

finally I’m at the right place with the

finally I’m at the right place with the right people this feels great biology

right people this feels great biology

right people this feels great biology and chemistry lectures are very

and chemistry lectures are very

and chemistry lectures are very interesting

interesting

interesting I bought all the exams whoa I’m very

I bought all the exams whoa I’m very

I bought all the exams whoa I’m very proud of myself and what I have

proud of myself and what I have

proud of myself and what I have accomplished so far sometimes it’s good

accomplished so far sometimes it’s good

accomplished so far sometimes it’s good to take a minute and appreciate and be

to take a minute and appreciate and be

to take a minute and appreciate and be proud of the things you achieved so far

proud of the things you achieved so far

proud of the things you achieved so far to give compliments to yourself and be

to give compliments to yourself and be

to give compliments to yourself and be satisfied that moment you take is very

satisfied that moment you take is very

satisfied that moment you take is very important to boost your self-confidence

important to boost your self-confidence

important to boost your self-confidence it gives you more energy to accept new

it gives you more energy to accept new

it gives you more energy to accept new challenges and move on one year later I

challenges and move on one year later I

challenges and move on one year later I even decide to do the fast route of

even decide to do the fast route of

even decide to do the fast route of college I do the first two years in one

college I do the first two years in one

college I do the first two years in one another you later I have to choose a

another you later I have to choose a

another you later I have to choose a major and minor within biology I keep

major and minor within biology I keep

major and minor within biology I keep looking until I find something that I

looking until I find something that I

looking until I find something that I really like and I choose for it and

really like and I choose for it and

really like and I choose for it and another year later I’m 21 years old I’m

another year later I’m 21 years old I’m

another year later I’m 21 years old I’m a part a real resource group my

a part a real resource group my

a part a real resource group my internship is going well I learn new

internship is going well I learn new

internship is going well I learn new things I improve skills and I become a

things I improve skills and I become a

things I improve skills and I become a better technician and I prepare for the

better technician and I prepare for the

better technician and I prepare for the next step a master degree in biomedical

next step a master degree in biomedical

next step a master degree in biomedical sciences at a university five years

sciences at a university five years

sciences at a university five years after my arrival to the Netherlands I’m

after my arrival to the Netherlands I’m

after my arrival to the Netherlands I’m at the place where I always dreamed of I

at the place where I always dreamed of I

at the place where I always dreamed of I reached the highest goal I once created

reached the highest goal I once created

reached the highest goal I once created for myself but this is not the end of

for myself but this is not the end of

for myself but this is not the end of the story at this moment I have new and

the story at this moment I have new and

the story at this moment I have new and even bigger dreams for the future

I didn’t do what I’ve done to please

I didn’t do what I’ve done to please others I did everything to please myself

others I did everything to please myself

others I did everything to please myself I did what I loved to do each time you

I did what I loved to do each time you

I did what I loved to do each time you get reworded you will be insured you’re

get reworded you will be insured you’re

get reworded you will be insured you’re doing it the right way follow your heart

doing it the right way follow your heart

doing it the right way follow your heart be aware of your choices choose what you

be aware of your choices choose what you

be aware of your choices choose what you love and you’ll find yourself loving

love and you’ll find yourself loving

love and you’ll find yourself loving what you’re doing and what you’re

what you’re doing and what you’re

what you’re doing and what you’re learning to do now you have my secret

learning to do now you have my secret

learning to do now you have my secret [Applause]

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