hello everyone today I would like to start with sharing my friends a big
start with sharing my friends a big
start with sharing my friends a big story
story
story I bet he is a guy he was born in the
I bet he is a guy he was born in the
I bet he is a guy he was born in the village in Kyrgyzstan
village in Kyrgyzstan
village in Kyrgyzstan after the school graduation his parents
after the school graduation his parents
after the school graduation his parents asked him to marry a girl unlike most of
asked him to marry a girl unlike most of
asked him to marry a girl unlike most of his classmate who got married and the
his classmate who got married and the
his classmate who got married and the Builder family at their early ages I big
Builder family at their early ages I big
Builder family at their early ages I big decided to just go to the capital city
decided to just go to the capital city
decided to just go to the capital city Bishkek to continue his higher education
Bishkek to continue his higher education
Bishkek to continue his higher education so he came to Bishkek and graduated from
so he came to Bishkek and graduated from
so he came to Bishkek and graduated from the university with an excellent diploma
the university with an excellent diploma
the university with an excellent diploma during this university time she was very
during this university time she was very
during this university time she was very active students due to his active
active students due to his active
active students due to his active student life and the social activity and
student life and the social activity and
student life and the social activity and so on so he got the opportunity of the
so on so he got the opportunity of the
so on so he got the opportunity of the scholarship to master’s degree abroad so
scholarship to master’s degree abroad so
scholarship to master’s degree abroad so in this pattern he went abroad for two
in this pattern he went abroad for two
in this pattern he went abroad for two years and he came back to Kristin it was
years and he came back to Kristin it was
years and he came back to Kristin it was a whole passion of like applying those
a whole passion of like applying those
a whole passion of like applying those knowledge those experience gained from
knowledge those experience gained from
knowledge those experience gained from abroad back in the home country so he
abroad back in the home country so he
abroad back in the home country so he was thinking how I can do how I can make
was thinking how I can do how I can make
was thinking how I can do how I can make a better future for the countries and so
a better future for the countries and so
a better future for the countries and so he decided to go to the garment sector
he decided to go to the garment sector
he decided to go to the garment sector so as a very beginning he wants you but
so as a very beginning he wants you but
so as a very beginning he wants you but simply he was told like he has he went
simply he was told like he has he went
simply he was told like he has he went to the garment sector to apply for the
to the garment sector to apply for the
to the garment sector to apply for the senior specialist position but he was
senior specialist position but he was
senior specialist position but he was taught he had to work as an intern
taught he had to work as an intern
taught he had to work as an intern because there was simply not a free
because there was simply not a free
because there was simply not a free space here so in this case without any
space here so in this case without any
space here so in this case without any salary he working in the government as
salary he working in the government as
salary he working in the government as an intern for six months and then later
an intern for six months and then later
an intern for six months and then later on when there’s the there was a space
on when there’s the there was a space
on when there’s the there was a space appeared he was told that his position
appeared he was told that his position
appeared he was told that his position was taken by another younger candidate
was taken by another younger candidate
was taken by another younger candidate who had no master’s degree and no
who had no master’s degree and no
who had no master’s degree and no working experience but it is what it is
working experience but it is what it is
working experience but it is what it is unfortunately but he didn’t lose a hope
unfortunately but he didn’t lose a hope
unfortunately but he didn’t lose a hope then he went to the private sector to
then he went to the private sector to
then he went to the private sector to work in the company he worked from the
work in the company he worked from the
work in the company he worked from the early morning to the evening or even
early morning to the evening or even
early morning to the evening or even some day including the Saturdays but
some day including the Saturdays but
some day including the Saturdays but compared with those colleagues new
compared with those colleagues new
compared with those colleagues new colleagues coming to the company or
colleagues coming to the company or
colleagues coming to the company or together with him his salary was any his
together with him his salary was any his
together with him his salary was any his error was 20% is less than other
error was 20% is less than other
error was 20% is less than other colleagues and he also like did some
colleagues and he also like did some
colleagues and he also like did some extra work time but he didn’t get any
extra work time but he didn’t get any
extra work time but he didn’t get any bonus but other college gossip allness
bonus but other college gossip allness
bonus but other college gossip allness and i Bakir but he does couldn’t
and i Bakir but he does couldn’t
and i Bakir but he does couldn’t announce he just couldn’t out
announce he just couldn’t out
announce he just couldn’t out boss because he was afraid like he would
boss because he was afraid like he would
boss because he was afraid like he would also lose his job so in his later time
also lose his job so in his later time
also lose his job so in his later time he got operation and he went to the
he got operation and he went to the
he got operation and he went to the hospital and he came back I’m sorry like
hospital and he came back I’m sorry like
hospital and he came back I’m sorry like his his position was taken again
his his position was taken again
his his position was taken again now I big was is working at home as a
now I big was is working at home as a
now I big was is working at home as a freelancer and he is also very actively
freelancer and he is also very actively
freelancer and he is also very actively looking for this job
looking for this job
looking for this job so by now by here my story I shared now
so by now by here my story I shared now
so by now by here my story I shared now some audience might be like given a
some audience might be like given a
some audience might be like given a question is he a man like how could this
question is he a man like how could this
question is he a man like how could this be right because if a man like who
be right because if a man like who
be right because if a man like who studies well works well and who has a
studies well works well and who has a
studies well works well and who has a very great ambitions in the future it
very great ambitions in the future it
very great ambitions in the future it always takes him to somewhere very
always takes him to somewhere very
always takes him to somewhere very successful but how could this be it’s
successful but how could this be it’s
successful but how could this be it’s just very hard for our audience to you
just very hard for our audience to you
just very hard for our audience to you and dissociate this picture of the life
and dissociate this picture of the life
and dissociate this picture of the life story just share with I beg this guy
story just share with I beg this guy
story just share with I beg this guy right so what is the problem in fact it
right so what is the problem in fact it
right so what is the problem in fact it is not a big story but it is icon story
is not a big story but it is icon story
is not a big story but it is icon story I go she’s the girl yes so the story I
I go she’s the girl yes so the story I
I go she’s the girl yes so the story I today share with you is based on the
today share with you is based on the
today share with you is based on the real story of my female friends around
real story of my female friends around
real story of my female friends around me so I know this wonderful very
me so I know this wonderful very
me so I know this wonderful very hard-working intelligence very ambitious
hard-working intelligence very ambitious
hard-working intelligence very ambitious women but no matter how highly education
women but no matter how highly education
women but no matter how highly education you got no matter how hard you perform
you got no matter how hard you perform
you got no matter how hard you perform at your work unfortunately your women
at your work unfortunately your women
at your work unfortunately your women like it is always very hard for us to
like it is always very hard for us to
like it is always very hard for us to access resources to get promotion and to
access resources to get promotion and to
access resources to get promotion and to gain the holes of our leadership
gain the holes of our leadership
gain the holes of our leadership positions so what is the problem of
positions so what is the problem of
positions so what is the problem of course we all well-known is this
course we all well-known is this
course we all well-known is this availment for us like it’s not only in
availment for us like it’s not only in
availment for us like it’s not only in Kyrgyzstan but also you know where
Kyrgyzstan but also you know where
Kyrgyzstan but also you know where region women are mistreated but and I’m
region women are mistreated but and I’m
region women are mistreated but and I’m not alike a gender expert here I’m not
not alike a gender expert here I’m not
not alike a gender expert here I’m not going to tell what is wrong and what is
going to tell what is wrong and what is
going to tell what is wrong and what is right here to lecturing you a year
right here to lecturing you a year
right here to lecturing you a year you’re not going to expect this from
you’re not going to expect this from
you’re not going to expect this from Mina but I hope you can keep this
Mina but I hope you can keep this
Mina but I hope you can keep this question so why when I tell this story
question so why when I tell this story
question so why when I tell this story as a guy it was so hard for you to
as a guy it was so hard for you to
as a guy it was so hard for you to associate it but when it turns to is a
associate it but when it turns to is a
associate it but when it turns to is a girl you said oh yeah it happens right
girl you said oh yeah it happens right
girl you said oh yeah it happens right because it is one of the very often
because it is one of the very often
because it is one of the very often usual story life story used to hear from
usual story life story used to hear from
usual story life story used to hear from the girl and in recent 10 years actually
the girl and in recent 10 years actually
the girl and in recent 10 years actually thanks to this kind of different
thanks to this kind of different
thanks to this kind of different committee initiatives and this kind of
committee initiatives and this kind of
committee initiatives and this kind of mass media social media promotion
mass media social media promotion
mass media social media promotion they’re happy more and more people start
they’re happy more and more people start
they’re happy more and more people start to talk about women start to be aware of
to talk about women start to be aware of
to talk about women start to be aware of this gender inequality sexual abuse
this gender inequality sexual abuse
this gender inequality sexual abuse sexual harassment against women it was
sexual harassment against women it was
sexual harassment against women it was through it is really great but there’s a
through it is really great but there’s a
through it is really great but there’s a much better but especially scam talk
much better but especially scam talk
much better but especially scam talk about this on this turn I’m not gonna
about this on this turn I’m not gonna
about this on this turn I’m not gonna talk about this but my focus what I
talk about this but my focus what I
talk about this but my focus what I wanted to share is my own personal story
wanted to share is my own personal story
wanted to share is my own personal story I always focus on my profession I’m in
I always focus on my profession I’m in
I always focus on my profession I’m in Korea I identify myself as independent
Korea I identify myself as independent
Korea I identify myself as independent professional women I graduated from
professional women I graduated from
professional women I graduated from Columbia University in the city of New
Columbia University in the city of New
Columbia University in the city of New York later and I choose to come back to
York later and I choose to come back to
York later and I choose to come back to my country I now I have my own
my country I now I have my own
my country I now I have my own investment consulting company where I
investment consulting company where I
investment consulting company where I work as a founder and a director so I
work as a founder and a director so I
work as a founder and a director so I always thought I have my education I
always thought I have my education I
always thought I have my education I have my career my company which is which
have my career my company which is which
have my career my company which is which is which was not without any like sport
is which was not without any like sport
is which was not without any like sport also man like I did I’m doing all by
also man like I did I’m doing all by
also man like I did I’m doing all by myself I make the decision I saw the
myself I make the decision I saw the
myself I make the decision I saw the problems and there’s no this kind of
problems and there’s no this kind of
problems and there’s no this kind of person about me like like a boss right
person about me like like a boss right
person about me like like a boss right so whom I should be afraid of telling
so whom I should be afraid of telling
so whom I should be afraid of telling something and so on I always thought I
something and so on I always thought I
something and so on I always thought I was a fourteen enough compared with my
was a fourteen enough compared with my
was a fourteen enough compared with my other female friends who work in this
other female friends who work in this
other female friends who work in this kind of male dominant corporate culture
kind of male dominant corporate culture
kind of male dominant corporate culture but I thought I would never expected
but I thought I would never expected
but I thought I would never expected this kind of of women so-called women
this kind of of women so-called women
this kind of of women so-called women issues sexual harassment to me but week
issues sexual harassment to me but week
issues sexual harassment to me but week ago what really happened to me really
ago what really happened to me really
ago what really happened to me really changed my mind and it was also the
changed my mind and it was also the
changed my mind and it was also the decision like I canceled all my like pre
decision like I canceled all my like pre
decision like I canceled all my like pre worst headaches peak presentation I
worst headaches peak presentation I
worst headaches peak presentation I decided to stand on the stage to speak
decided to stand on the stage to speak
decided to stand on the stage to speak out a week ago I decided to talk to one
out a week ago I decided to talk to one
out a week ago I decided to talk to one my business partner on the investment
my business partner on the investment
my business partner on the investment opportunity and he arranged the general
opportunity and he arranged the general
opportunity and he arranged the general time with me together because the next
time with me together because the next
time with me together because the next day early morning I need to leave to
day early morning I need to leave to
day early morning I need to leave to another city of course if he was a
another city of course if he was a
another city of course if he was a stranger I would I would say now’s due
stranger I would I would say now’s due
stranger I would I would say now’s due to some security issue like but he’s a
to some security issue like but he’s a
to some security issue like but he’s a person I know I know him quite well and
person I know I know him quite well and
person I know I know him quite well and he is he was also a person like I admire
he is he was also a person like I admire
he is he was also a person like I admire I respect because I treated him as my
I respect because I treated him as my
I respect because I treated him as my mentor as my adviser and so on
mentor as my adviser and so on
mentor as my adviser and so on but when he came to this meeting place I
but when he came to this meeting place I
but when he came to this meeting place I noticed like he was a little bit drunk
noticed like he was a little bit drunk
noticed like he was a little bit drunk but he was quite conscious enough he
but he was quite conscious enough he
but he was quite conscious enough he understand like what he was talking
understand like what he was talking
understand like what he was talking about so I like put on my business
about so I like put on my business
about so I like put on my business brochures I put on my products there and
brochures I put on my products there and
brochures I put on my products there and I started to talk about this kind of
I started to talk about this kind of
I started to talk about this kind of business project but he didn’t pay
business project but he didn’t pay
business project but he didn’t pay attention he started to somehow hurt
attention he started to somehow hurt
attention he started to somehow hurt with me and he started to say Jenny you
with me and he started to say Jenny you
with me and he started to say Jenny you know you’re a beautiful woman and I said
know you’re a beautiful woman and I said
know you’re a beautiful woman and I said yes I know but beauty will be gone by
yes I know but beauty will be gone by
yes I know but beauty will be gone by time but I’m here I’m coming here I’m
time but I’m here I’m coming here I’m
time but I’m here I’m coming here I’m not talking about the beauty issue I’m
not talking about the beauty issue I’m
not talking about the beauty issue I’m talking about the business issue I
talking about the business issue I
talking about the business issue I reminded him but he said you know you’re
reminded him but he said you know you’re
reminded him but he said you know you’re right your beautifully begun in five
right your beautifully begun in five
right your beautifully begun in five years but you are wrong you are still
years but you are wrong you are still
years but you are wrong you are still young you’ll see beautiful you should
young you’ll see beautiful you should
young you’ll see beautiful you should take advantage of your beauty he told me
take advantage of your beauty he told me
take advantage of your beauty he told me like he had a very big plan partnering
like he had a very big plan partnering
like he had a very big plan partnering with my company and he told me like he
with my company and he told me like he
with my company and he told me like he was poured all the idea all the goals
was poured all the idea all the goals
was poured all the idea all the goals that like what I want to realize and he
that like what I want to realize and he
that like what I want to realize and he will make that happen but those all
will make that happen but those all
will make that happen but those all under conditions of course I realized I
under conditions of course I realized I
under conditions of course I realized I read there something up going around and
read there something up going around and
read there something up going around and I actually feel very insulted we treated
I actually feel very insulted we treated
I actually feel very insulted we treated in this kind of approach I wanted to
in this kind of approach I wanted to
in this kind of approach I wanted to leave from the table at that moment but
leave from the table at that moment but
leave from the table at that moment but however this mentality like you should
however this mentality like you should
however this mentality like you should you’re a girl like your woman you should
you’re a girl like your woman you should
you’re a girl like your woman you should respect men like how you can leave in
respect men like how you can leave in
respect men like how you can leave in front of him even though he did not
front of him even though he did not
front of him even though he did not respect me but this kind of traditional
respect me but this kind of traditional
respect me but this kind of traditional mentality still hold me back like
mentality still hold me back like
mentality still hold me back like unfortunately I didn’t leave the table
unfortunately I didn’t leave the table
unfortunately I didn’t leave the table then I wanted to argue with him children
then I wanted to argue with him children
then I wanted to argue with him children and he told me he asked me so why do you
and he told me he asked me so why do you
and he told me he asked me so why do you sing like you’re sitting with me I said
sing like you’re sitting with me I said
sing like you’re sitting with me I said please don’t across a person and
please don’t across a person and
please don’t across a person and professional boundary cannot women sit
professional boundary cannot women sit
professional boundary cannot women sit beside a man talking about the work
beside a man talking about the work
beside a man talking about the work relationship and he told me what was
relationship and he told me what was
relationship and he told me what was gonna be interesting your business idea
remember that results of man’s sport
remember that results of man’s sport women cannot go that firm he said he
women cannot go that firm he said he
women cannot go that firm he said he wanted to open the picture of the real
wanted to open the picture of the real
wanted to open the picture of the real world for me where there’s a live is a
world for me where there’s a live is a
world for me where there’s a live is a man’s sport
man’s sport
man’s sport and we make Adam Casaus success and he
and we make Adam Casaus success and he
and we make Adam Casaus success and he said he wanted to help me and again
said he wanted to help me and again
said he wanted to help me and again first approach
first approach
first approach this way but I was a principal said no
this way but I was a principal said no
this way but I was a principal said no no no it’s just not okay and he was
no no it’s just not okay and he was
no no it’s just not okay and he was really angry he was mad and he was
really angry he was mad and he was
really angry he was mad and he was telling me Dora
telling me Dora
telling me Dora yotaka I did you are stupid and he
yotaka I did you are stupid and he
yotaka I did you are stupid and he repeated again stupid woman I get you
repeated again stupid woman I get you
repeated again stupid woman I get you you know yeah before if someone told me
you know yeah before if someone told me
you know yeah before if someone told me like you are stupid like you I did
like you are stupid like you I did
like you are stupid like you I did I always said how could his same is this
I always said how could his same is this
I always said how could his same is this thing I have my education I am
thing I have my education I am
thing I have my education I am intelligent and I’m gonna do something
intelligent and I’m gonna do something
intelligent and I’m gonna do something to show like I’m not stupid but in this
to show like I’m not stupid but in this
to show like I’m not stupid but in this case when he told me this way I just
case when he told me this way I just
case when he told me this way I just very silent later sat down I just said
very silent later sat down I just said
very silent later sat down I just said okay I will accept what you tell me like
okay I will accept what you tell me like
okay I will accept what you tell me like I’m stupid or I am whatever if it was
I’m stupid or I am whatever if it was
I’m stupid or I am whatever if it was any way I could say no and to defend
any way I could say no and to defend
any way I could say no and to defend women’s dignity
later now of course I left the table the
later now of course I left the table the this was a very horrible dinner and I
this was a very horrible dinner and I
this was a very horrible dinner and I called my friends I talked about this
called my friends I talked about this
called my friends I talked about this case I remember his first comment to me
case I remember his first comment to me
case I remember his first comment to me it is it was your problem why you me why
it is it was your problem why you me why
it is it was your problem why you me why you made a man is really me what you
you made a man is really me what you
you made a man is really me what you would expect that happen and then he
would expect that happen and then he
would expect that happen and then he told me you know because he was quite
told me you know because he was quite
told me you know because he was quite drunk so that’s my he could say this
drunk so that’s my he could say this
drunk so that’s my he could say this thing but he might be a good man and
thing but he might be a good man and
thing but he might be a good man and this my friend kindly reminded me to
this my friend kindly reminded me to
this my friend kindly reminded me to write a follow-up letter you know to to
write a follow-up letter you know to to
write a follow-up letter you know to to just not the destroyed relationship is
just not the destroyed relationship is
just not the destroyed relationship is him of course I didn’t write this letter
him of course I didn’t write this letter
him of course I didn’t write this letter so I was very I cannot understand like
so I was very I cannot understand like
so I was very I cannot understand like if I am omen gradually deforms award
if I am omen gradually deforms award
if I am omen gradually deforms award outstanding university running my own
outstanding university running my own
outstanding university running my own company not relying on any man if I also
company not relying on any man if I also
company not relying on any man if I also had this kind of mistreatment I could
had this kind of mistreatment I could
had this kind of mistreatment I could not imagine how other girls are going
not imagine how other girls are going
not imagine how other girls are going through this horrible situation in the
through this horrible situation in the
through this horrible situation in the society so I really decided it is so
society so I really decided it is so
society so I really decided it is so important for me to stand out to speak
important for me to stand out to speak
important for me to stand out to speak out so gradually I was all the time like
out so gradually I was all the time like
out so gradually I was all the time like thinking about this issue and a lot of
thinking about this issue and a lot of
thinking about this issue and a lot of people consider or why women it might be
people consider or why women it might be
people consider or why women it might be merely women’s issue but I want to say
merely women’s issue but I want to say
merely women’s issue but I want to say it’s not
it’s not
it’s not magician today I’m standing here I
magician today I’m standing here I
magician today I’m standing here I wanted to tell to this woman I want to
wanted to tell to this woman I want to
wanted to tell to this woman I want to speak out to these women women please do
speak out to these women women please do
speak out to these women women please do not hold your pain
not hold your pain
not hold your pain please understand like it happens and it
please understand like it happens and it
please understand like it happens and it will happen unfortunately to every
will happen unfortunately to every
will happen unfortunately to every nearly every woman does do we have this
nearly every woman does do we have this
nearly every woman does do we have this kind of mistreatment so only when we are
kind of mistreatment so only when we are
kind of mistreatment so only when we are coming out together only if we like all
coming out together only if we like all
coming out together only if we like all speak out together our voice can be loud
speak out together our voice can be loud
speak out together our voice can be loud enough to the society to stay like it is
enough to the society to stay like it is
enough to the society to stay like it is just not okay and today I would also
just not okay and today I would also
just not okay and today I would also like to speak to the man sitting here
like to speak to the man sitting here
like to speak to the man sitting here like man this is not a women’s issue
like man this is not a women’s issue
like man this is not a women’s issue remember you still have your sisters you
remember you still have your sisters you
remember you still have your sisters you have your daughters you have your voice
have your daughters you have your voice
have your daughters you have your voice you have your female colleagues there
you have your female colleagues there
you have your female colleagues there are in the same this kind of potential
are in the same this kind of potential
are in the same this kind of potential risk of getting sexual harassment
risk of getting sexual harassment
risk of getting sexual harassment getting this kind of mistreatment so you
getting this kind of mistreatment so you
getting this kind of mistreatment so you have the perp you have the application
have the perp you have the application
have the perp you have the application you have the responsibility to protect
you have the responsibility to protect
you have the responsibility to protect them also but you see other women
them also but you see other women
them also but you see other women shooting or rusting or discriminating
shooting or rusting or discriminating
shooting or rusting or discriminating women did you just say it is not okay
women did you just say it is not okay
women did you just say it is not okay and try to stop them or you just like
and try to stop them or you just like
and try to stop them or you just like simply close your eyes on the run away
simply close your eyes on the run away
simply close your eyes on the run away when you are treating this woman is this
when you are treating this woman is this
when you are treating this woman is this kind of in equal way please put your
kind of in equal way please put your
kind of in equal way please put your sister your daughter your wife in this
sister your daughter your wife in this
sister your daughter your wife in this position how if she will be treated in
position how if she will be treated in
position how if she will be treated in this way
so I also wanted to speak out to the
so I also wanted to speak out to the society like why at the beginning when I
society like why at the beginning when I
society like why at the beginning when I share this I big this story you think it
share this I big this story you think it
share this I big this story you think it is quite not OK not normal for men but
is quite not OK not normal for men but
is quite not OK not normal for men but it is quite normal for women so I want
it is quite normal for women so I want
it is quite normal for women so I want to say it is not a women’s issue
to say it is not a women’s issue
to say it is not a women’s issue it is the societies the whole societies
it is the societies the whole societies
it is the societies the whole societies issue so I hope in the future
issue so I hope in the future
issue so I hope in the future I wanted to vision there is such a great
I wanted to vision there is such a great
I wanted to vision there is such a great future generation in the Kyrgyz Republic
future generation in the Kyrgyz Republic
future generation in the Kyrgyz Republic there are men and the women your girls
there are men and the women your girls
there are men and the women your girls and boys they are living all together
and boys they are living all together
and boys they are living all together respecting each other visitor dignity I
respecting each other visitor dignity I
respecting each other visitor dignity I hope Kyrgyzstan not I hope the Curtis
hope Kyrgyzstan not I hope the Curtis
hope Kyrgyzstan not I hope the Curtis Republic must turn into this country
Republic must turn into this country
Republic must turn into this country here girls feel safe at home their girls
here girls feel safe at home their girls
here girls feel safe at home their girls can also imagine themselves and for such
can also imagine themselves and for such
can also imagine themselves and for such a better future everybody sit here with
a better future everybody sit here with
a better future everybody sit here with us
us
us have those applications we have this
have those applications we have this
have those applications we have this obligation to build a better future for
obligation to build a better future for
obligation to build a better future for our future generation it is not a
our future generation it is not a
our future generation it is not a women’s issue anymore thank you
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