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Muslim, American, Female: America’s Future | Areeba Khan | TEDxYouth@Wilmington


I know what you’re thinking you’re

I know what you’re thinking you’re probably wondering who I am and where

probably wondering who I am and where

probably wondering who I am and where I’m from and what I’m going to say but

I’m from and what I’m going to say but

I’m from and what I’m going to say but what you’re probably wondering is what

what you’re probably wondering is what

what you’re probably wondering is what on earth am I wearing on my head what I

on earth am I wearing on my head what I

on earth am I wearing on my head what I am wearing on my head is called the

am wearing on my head is called the

am wearing on my head is called the hijab it comes from the Arabic word to

hijab it comes from the Arabic word to

hijab it comes from the Arabic word to cover and to protect many Muslim women

cover and to protect many Muslim women

cover and to protect many Muslim women like myself who choose to wear it wear

like myself who choose to wear it wear

like myself who choose to wear it wear it for one reason above all God Himself

it for one reason above all God Himself

it for one reason above all God Himself people often have different perspectives

people often have different perspectives

people often have different perspectives on the hijab they think it’s a and cruel

on the hijab they think it’s a and cruel

on the hijab they think it’s a and cruel but I really don’t get what’s so

but I really don’t get what’s so

but I really don’t get what’s so oppressive and cruel about covering my

oppressive and cruel about covering my

oppressive and cruel about covering my head I mean it’s a bit different from

head I mean it’s a bit different from

head I mean it’s a bit different from the Victoria’s Secret runway but it’s

the Victoria’s Secret runway but it’s

the Victoria’s Secret runway but it’s 2017 and every woman has the choice to

2017 and every woman has the choice to

2017 and every woman has the choice to wear what she wants to wear now I know

wear what she wants to wear now I know

wear what she wants to wear now I know although in this room and at home for

although in this room and at home for

although in this room and at home for those of you watching you may not be

those of you watching you may not be

those of you watching you may not be Muslim you may not even wear the hijab

Muslim you may not even wear the hijab

Muslim you may not even wear the hijab but I can assure you we have stuff in

but I can assure you we have stuff in

but I can assure you we have stuff in common raise your hand if you like to

common raise your hand if you like to

common raise your hand if you like to eat food raise your hand if you hate

eat food raise your hand if you hate

eat food raise your hand if you hate waking up early on a Monday morning and

waking up early on a Monday morning and

waking up early on a Monday morning and finally raise your hand if you think

finally raise your hand if you think

finally raise your hand if you think babies are cute see I told you we have

babies are cute see I told you we have

babies are cute see I told you we have stuff in common and I probably don’t

stuff in common and I probably don’t

stuff in common and I probably don’t even know your name now with wearing the

even know your name now with wearing the

even know your name now with wearing the hijab it doesn’t mean that I’m not able

hijab it doesn’t mean that I’m not able

hijab it doesn’t mean that I’m not able to accomplish what any other woman has

to accomplish what any other woman has

to accomplish what any other woman has done I will give you three examples of

done I will give you three examples of

done I will give you three examples of what Muslim American women have been

what Muslim American women have been

what Muslim American women have been able to accomplish number one if the Haj

able to accomplish number one if the Haj

able to accomplish number one if the Haj Mohammed Team USA fencing number two in

Mohammed Team USA fencing number two in

Mohammed Team USA fencing number two in hand Omer the first Somalian Muslim

hand Omer the first Somalian Muslim

hand Omer the first Somalian Muslim American female elected to Minnesota

American female elected to Minnesota

American female elected to Minnesota State Legislature and number three Linda

State Legislature and number three Linda

State Legislature and number three Linda Sarsour women’s rights activist and

Sarsour women’s rights activist and

Sarsour women’s rights activist and co-founder of the women’s march on

co-founder of the women’s march on

co-founder of the women’s march on Washington now tell you about my

Washington now tell you about my

Washington now tell you about my background my parents are Pakistani

background my parents are Pakistani

background my parents are Pakistani Muslim immigrants who sacrifice very

Muslim immigrants who sacrifice very

Muslim immigrants who sacrifice very much to provide my family and I a better

much to provide my family and I a better

much to provide my family and I a better life they are the epitome

life they are the epitome

life they are the epitome the American dream my father worked very

the American dream my father worked very

the American dream my father worked very very hard to become a doctor not only

very hard to become a doctor not only

very hard to become a doctor not only was he studying this difficult field but

was he studying this difficult field but

was he studying this difficult field but he was adjusting to a new country a new

he was adjusting to a new country a new

he was adjusting to a new country a new lifestyle and a new growing family later

lifestyle and a new growing family later

lifestyle and a new growing family later after marrying my mom and moving to

after marrying my mom and moving to

after marrying my mom and moving to America he finally settled in Delaware I

America he finally settled in Delaware I

America he finally settled in Delaware I remember my mom telling me a story about

remember my mom telling me a story about

remember my mom telling me a story about when she first came to America as her

when she first came to America as her

when she first came to America as her flight landed into JFK International

flight landed into JFK International

flight landed into JFK International Airport overlooking the bright green

Airport overlooking the bright green

Airport overlooking the bright green lady know the Statue of Liberty Whitney

lady know the Statue of Liberty Whitney

lady know the Statue of Liberty Whitney Houston song I will always love you was

Houston song I will always love you was

Houston song I will always love you was the top hit Cindy Crawford and Brooke

the top hit Cindy Crawford and Brooke

the top hit Cindy Crawford and Brooke Shields

Shields

Shields ruled the runways and New York City was

ruled the runways and New York City was

ruled the runways and New York City was the melting pot of different cultures

the melting pot of different cultures

the melting pot of different cultures from all around the world having

from all around the world having

from all around the world having attended many different private schools

attended many different private schools

attended many different private schools I want to share my experiences that I

I want to share my experiences that I

I want to share my experiences that I learned from you I even learned

learned from you I even learned

learned from you I even learned something shocking that I experienced

something shocking that I experienced

something shocking that I experienced Islamophobia even before wearing the

Islamophobia even before wearing the

Islamophobia even before wearing the hijab my visible symbol and being a

hijab my visible symbol and being a

hijab my visible symbol and being a Muslim shocking right on the first day

Muslim shocking right on the first day

Muslim shocking right on the first day of fifth grade I was called a terrorist

of fifth grade I was called a terrorist

of fifth grade I was called a terrorist I’ll tell you what I was wearing a navy

I’ll tell you what I was wearing a navy

I’ll tell you what I was wearing a navy blue polo applied kill leggings and a

blue polo applied kill leggings and a

blue polo applied kill leggings and a plaid headband for my long hair that I

plaid headband for my long hair that I

plaid headband for my long hair that I wore down as I entered my classroom I

wore down as I entered my classroom I

wore down as I entered my classroom I took my seat like any other ten-year-old

took my seat like any other ten-year-old

took my seat like any other ten-year-old I was nervous and excited for my first

I was nervous and excited for my first

I was nervous and excited for my first day I introduced myself to the front of

day I introduced myself to the front of

day I introduced myself to the front of the classroom I proceeded with hi my

the classroom I proceeded with hi my

the classroom I proceeded with hi my name is Arriba I live in Newark Delaware

name is Arriba I live in Newark Delaware

name is Arriba I live in Newark Delaware I like to play tennis and my family is

I like to play tennis and my family is

I like to play tennis and my family is from Pakistan and we are Muslim that

from Pakistan and we are Muslim that

from Pakistan and we are Muslim that very moment a blond-haired blue-eyed

very moment a blond-haired blue-eyed

very moment a blond-haired blue-eyed girl stands up at her desk pointing her

girl stands up at her desk pointing her

girl stands up at her desk pointing her finger at me screaming terrorist

finger at me screaming terrorist

finger at me screaming terrorist terrorist terrorist I can tell you that

terrorist terrorist I can tell you that

terrorist terrorist I can tell you that at the age of 10 years old I didn’t even

at the age of 10 years old I didn’t even

at the age of 10 years old I didn’t even know what the word terrorist met I

know what the word terrorist met I

know what the word terrorist met I didn’t even know what 9/11 was and I did

didn’t even know what 9/11 was and I did

didn’t even know what 9/11 was and I did even know the name of this girl who had

even know the name of this girl who had

even know the name of this girl who had called me this horrific word

called me this horrific word

called me this horrific word luckily my teacher stepped in and

luckily my teacher stepped in and

luckily my teacher stepped in and resolved the situation over the course

resolved the situation over the course

resolved the situation over the course of the year I befriended this girl I

of the year I befriended this girl I

of the year I befriended this girl I treated her with kindness and empathy

treated her with kindness and empathy

treated her with kindness and empathy the Golden Rule treat others the way you

the Golden Rule treat others the way you

the Golden Rule treat others the way you want to be treated pushing aside our

want to be treated pushing aside our

want to be treated pushing aside our differences he bonded over our

differences he bonded over our

differences he bonded over our similarities we both enjoyed listening

similarities we both enjoyed listening

similarities we both enjoyed listening to Selena Gomez and Taylor Swift and

to Selena Gomez and Taylor Swift and

to Selena Gomez and Taylor Swift and were obsessed with acnes chocolate chip

were obsessed with acnes chocolate chip

were obsessed with acnes chocolate chip cookies we ended up becoming us friends

cookies we ended up becoming us friends

cookies we ended up becoming us friends and invited her to my home for a

and invited her to my home for a

and invited her to my home for a playdate this is the power of kindness

playdate this is the power of kindness

playdate this is the power of kindness this is the power of dialog this is the

this is the power of dialog this is the

this is the power of dialog this is the power of a ten-year-old changing the

power of a ten-year-old changing the

power of a ten-year-old changing the mind of a bigot into a friend this

mind of a bigot into a friend this

mind of a bigot into a friend this situation that no ten-year-old should

situation that no ten-year-old should

situation that no ten-year-old should ever have to experience taught me some

ever have to experience taught me some

ever have to experience taught me some lessons about to share although bigotry

lessons about to share although bigotry

lessons about to share although bigotry exists within our society we need to

exists within our society we need to

exists within our society we need to remember that as Africans we were a

remember that as Africans we were a

remember that as Africans we were a nation built by immigrants seeking to

nation built by immigrants seeking to

nation built by immigrants seeking to escape religious persecution not the

escape religious persecution not the

escape religious persecution not the only way for America to move forward is

only way for America to move forward is

only way for America to move forward is when we unite our diversity as our

when we unite our diversity as our

when we unite our diversity as our strengths before I leave you from our

strengths before I leave you from our

strengths before I leave you from our time spent together I want you to

time spent together I want you to

time spent together I want you to remember some things be proud of who you

remember some things be proud of who you

remember some things be proud of who you are we all wear our job in one way or

are we all wear our job in one way or

are we all wear our job in one way or another whether you’re black or Catholic

another whether you’re black or Catholic

another whether you’re black or Catholic or Jewish or Spanish or female you are

or Jewish or Spanish or female you are

or Jewish or Spanish or female you are special

special

special on your identity and be proud of who you

on your identity and be proud of who you

on your identity and be proud of who you are your hood job is beautiful your head

are your hood job is beautiful your head

are your hood job is beautiful your head job is beautiful your head job is

job is beautiful your head job is

job is beautiful your head job is beautiful I’m going to use these lessons

beautiful I’m going to use these lessons

beautiful I’m going to use these lessons to be a part of America’s future will

to be a part of America’s future will

to be a part of America’s future will you thank you

you thank you

you thank you [Applause]

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