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Mi familia como la tuya | Alex Maza | TEDxGarzaGarcia


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the mass by a family

homoparental a homoparental family is

a family like yours but in this

case we are two dads our daughter from

child always with marry have a

family have a successful career

all the things that society

he said he could not have to be gay

however I did it but this one was not

the biggest challenge that I

I would face in my life

this what would not be after I never

has touched live discrimination when

we are arriving in Monterrey in search of

a school for our daughter

We find a school that fit

to our needs

After a week, everything flows

perfect I receive a call from

direction with sense of urgency to the

which completely unraveled me

I felt that my heart was destroyed

above all I knew it was about a subject

Our family immediately when

I could direct with the director

this was waiting for me with a

look of total disapproval to what I

ask why are you here true and

then at that time it was I do not know

but tell me your speech start of the

next way I love the

programs modern family the new normal

with theme or parental all

programs that I mentioned

however, I believe that this institution

Monterrey and the country is not ready

for a family like yours

I rarely run out of words

in my day to day this moment was one

of those she continued explaining that to

the school and go godparents godparents who

they really did not disclose more of their

lives but they were part of a family not

he even said that there were families

of dad and mom that each

who makes his life

separated and that he was probably

gay and she took her life part but in

the school came as a family

obviously I could not accept from

No way to give an example to

our daughter based on lies about

everything after everything we have

accomplished

she offered to write a letter

where he pleaded for us before the

owners to obtain the permanence of

Alejandra at that school

Alejandra our daughter the letter was

completely discriminatory but about

all offensive to us the aspect

declaring the following points

we could not present the two to the

school

At the same time we could not meet

none of the parents or mothers of

family we could not participate in

no school event or a festival

but above all he asked us to

We apologize for all the inconveniences

that we are causing them

it was there where I left that meeting

completely devastated and with a feeling

of wanting 2000 all afternoon and not knowing

you’re welcome

came home I tell my husband what

that had happened and we let everything

will probably pass this to the best is

the shock of the new one was going to happen

three weeks went by in what

We received another call from the director

this time he asked me to go to

introduce me directly with her arrived

the day

a very hard day where we felt a lot

anxiety we present ourselves

we had not even entered the campus

when two security guards do not

they were waiting and not just that

there was the receptionist with the box

Alejandra’s school supplies came in

we enter the part of it before the

the door and they did not know the tools

schoolchildren to the ground

this part was what was enough for me

especially because they treated us like

criminals preventing entry to the

school and at that time they tell us

they move away from that officially expelled from

the school at this time we

we started asking what was the

reason why this was happening

immediately my body reacted and

he started to vomit there approximately

like for 15 minutes

then it was like a reaction of my

body to a very unpleasant situation

we left obviously we did what

we had to do

we contacted defense agencies of

human rights to the secretariat of

public education to prophecy even

for the whole issue of payments that have been

fact and television media of

communication

the case was converted to the notes

they took relevance not only local but

nationally and internationally and it was there

where we realized that the greatest

tool to make visible the

families was to be in all these media

of television and that people would give

realize that we really exist and do not

invisibilize us and do nothing to

respect but otherwise it will be

and will be outside and be visible

after this we knew that I was not going to

stop there and we need to achieve

do something

more something fundamental something that will generate

an impact on society like us

We were looking for something that

will generate a better future for our

children a more inclusive future a

future without prejudice but above all

diverse

this is how this incredible is born

tool my family like yours

my family like yours is a story

for children who are the future of

our society that explains the

different family models exist in

our society a story including a

diverse story but mostly made with

the illusion of being able to change the world

this story

it means a lot to us as

parents but above all as citizens

wanting to look for this social impact of

acceptance of diversity and inclusion

after we launched this story it’s

which is the greatest legacy that

we could leave our daughter

we realized that it was not just the

message the fundamental message of this

story is to show that all families

all the different family models

the common denominator they have is the

love and that makes my family be like

yours

Thank you

[Applause]

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