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Meaningful Work in a Non-Linear Career–Many Skills, Many Paths | Audrey Russo | TEDxYouth@Shadyside


good morning everyone

good morning everyone I’m so glad to be here thank you so much

I’m so glad to be here thank you so much

I’m so glad to be here thank you so much so I’m going to talk a few minutes about

so I’m going to talk a few minutes about

so I’m going to talk a few minutes about this crazy thing called my career and

this crazy thing called my career and

this crazy thing called my career and why it’s so crazy and why it’s been so

why it’s so crazy and why it’s been so

why it’s so crazy and why it’s been so incredible and hopefully from this you

incredible and hopefully from this you

incredible and hopefully from this you can appreciate why my tagline is against

can appreciate why my tagline is against

can appreciate why my tagline is against all odds so first of all I am a woman

all odds so first of all I am a woman

all odds so first of all I am a woman okay so do notice and I am someone who

okay so do notice and I am someone who

okay so do notice and I am someone who at a very very early age knew that I

at a very very early age knew that I

at a very very early age knew that I would probably be a leader some people

would probably be a leader some people

would probably be a leader some people thought I was bossy

thought I was bossy

thought I was bossy some people thought I might have been

some people thought I might have been

some people thought I might have been brutal and a little selfish my parents

brutal and a little selfish my parents

brutal and a little selfish my parents would say I probably boss them around

would say I probably boss them around

would say I probably boss them around for most of my young days now why would

for most of my young days now why would

for most of my young days now why would I bring that up and think that that is

I bring that up and think that that is

I bring that up and think that that is something so important for all of you to

something so important for all of you to

something so important for all of you to know because as a result of being a girl

know because as a result of being a girl

know because as a result of being a girl and as a result of having that kind of

and as a result of having that kind of

and as a result of having that kind of interest in other people and trying to

interest in other people and trying to

interest in other people and trying to influence and shape and execute that was

influence and shape and execute that was

influence and shape and execute that was not considered something that was of

not considered something that was of

not considered something that was of high value it was considered something

high value it was considered something

high value it was considered something that I needed to sort of repress and

that I needed to sort of repress and

that I needed to sort of repress and push down a little bit it may be nicely

push down a little bit it may be nicely

push down a little bit it may be nicely file but not one to bring out in the

file but not one to bring out in the

file but not one to bring out in the open

open

open I am a a my parents were

I am a a my parents were

I am a a my parents were first-generation Americans they were

first-generation Americans they were

first-generation Americans they were entrepreneurs my mother was lucky enough

entrepreneurs my mother was lucky enough

entrepreneurs my mother was lucky enough to not have to work after my father and

to not have to work after my father and

to not have to work after my father and his brothers took their company public

his brothers took their company public

his brothers took their company public and then took it private and it was an

and then took it private and it was an

and then took it private and it was an entrepreneur immigrant total feeling of

entrepreneur immigrant total feeling of

entrepreneur immigrant total feeling of wondrousness for the family that we had

wondrousness for the family that we had

wondrousness for the family that we had and what we were able to do but

and what we were able to do but

and what we were able to do but simultaneously I was this girl who was

simultaneously I was this girl who was

simultaneously I was this girl who was really interested in business and really

really interested in business and really

really interested in business and really interested in all these things and I was

interested in all these things and I was

interested in all these things and I was told it’s not for you it’s not for you

told it’s not for you it’s not for you

told it’s not for you it’s not for you you need to find another pathway well

you need to find another pathway well

you need to find another pathway well fast forward in high school right in my

fast forward in high school right in my

fast forward in high school right in my senior year in high school I dove great

senior year in high school I dove great

senior year in high school I dove great high school I have friends from New York

high school I have friends from New York

high school I have friends from New York that’s where I’m from originally that

that’s where I’m from originally that

that’s where I’m from originally that absolutely are still a part of my life

absolutely are still a part of my life

absolutely are still a part of my life and in a strong piece of my fabric well

and in a strong piece of my fabric well

and in a strong piece of my fabric well fast forward senior year the guidance

fast forward senior year the guidance

fast forward senior year the guidance counselor then looked at my parents and

counselor then looked at my parents and

counselor then looked at my parents and said you know what don’t waste time on

said you know what don’t waste time on

said you know what don’t waste time on her going to college she’s smart she

her going to college she’s smart she

her going to college she’s smart she doesn’t work hard she doesn’t come to

doesn’t work hard she doesn’t come to

doesn’t work hard she doesn’t come to classes all the time she lives a highly

classes all the time she lives a highly

classes all the time she lives a highly social another word for partying life I

social another word for partying life I

social another word for partying life I was well-read I was a great writer I

was well-read I was a great writer I

was well-read I was a great writer I didn’t do that well in school and they

didn’t do that well in school and they

didn’t do that well in school and they told my parents don’t send her to

told my parents don’t send her to

told my parents don’t send her to college there’s no need she can learn

college there’s no need she can learn

college there’s no need she can learn some sort of occasional skill now I was

some sort of occasional skill now I was

some sort of occasional skill now I was outraged I thought how dare you label me

outraged I thought how dare you label me

outraged I thought how dare you label me how dare you think I wouldn’t do

how dare you think I wouldn’t do

how dare you think I wouldn’t do anything other than amazing things high

anything other than amazing things high

anything other than amazing things high school was just a different point in my

school was just a different point in my

school was just a different point in my time in my life it was a time to read

time in my life it was a time to read

time in my life it was a time to read amazing books hang out with lots of

amazing books hang out with lots of

amazing books hang out with lots of people learn a lot about music and party

people learn a lot about music and party

people learn a lot about music and party didn’t do things that probably I’m not

didn’t do things that probably I’m not

didn’t do things that probably I’m not that proud of and that my daughter who

that proud of and that my daughter who

that proud of and that my daughter who is a Shadyside alum was probably would

is a Shadyside alum was probably would

is a Shadyside alum was probably would not be proud of but you know what

not be proud of but you know what

not be proud of but you know what happened I went to college I graduated

happened I went to college I graduated

happened I went to college I graduated in college in three years I had five

in college in three years I had five

in college in three years I had five internships I really thought I wanted to

internships I really thought I wanted to

internships I really thought I wanted to go into social services every single

go into social services every single

go into social services every single internship I have someone offered me a

internship I have someone offered me a

internship I have someone offered me a job and I kept thinking the world must

job and I kept thinking the world must

job and I kept thinking the world must be so desperate how is it after every

be so desperate how is it after every

be so desperate how is it after every internship someone is offering me a job

internship someone is offering me a job

internship someone is offering me a job but I started to realize that I was

but I started to realize that I was

but I started to realize that I was starting to take responsibility I was

starting to take responsibility I was

starting to take responsibility I was starting to understand what it was like

starting to understand what it was like

starting to understand what it was like to have an impact and for the first time

to have an impact and for the first time

to have an impact and for the first time in my life I started to put the pieces

in my life I started to put the pieces

in my life I started to put the pieces together and said no one else is going

together and said no one else is going

together and said no one else is going to judge me as a result of this linear

to judge me as a result of this linear

to judge me as a result of this linear procession that I’ve had up to this

procession that I’ve had up to this

procession that I’ve had up to this point of going to high school and then

point of going to high school and then

point of going to high school and then going to college I’m going to make a

going to college I’m going to make a

going to college I’m going to make a difference and by the time I was 22 I

difference and by the time I was 22 I

difference and by the time I was 22 I actually was overseeing 115 people

actually was overseeing 115 people

actually was overseeing 115 people working in a facility for people who had

working in a facility for people who had

working in a facility for people who had mental disabilities and physical

mental disabilities and physical

mental disabilities and physical disabilities that were erroneously

disabilities that were erroneously

disabilities that were erroneously placed in hospitals and they were

placed in hospitals and they were

placed in hospitals and they were undergoing a class-action suit and it

undergoing a class-action suit and it

undergoing a class-action suit and it just so happened at one of my

just so happened at one of my

just so happened at one of my internships I worked on a piece of

internships I worked on a piece of

internships I worked on a piece of public policy and the governor at the

public policy and the governor at the

public policy and the governor at the time of where I was living

time of where I was living

time of where I was living said you know here’s a young person that

said you know here’s a young person that

said you know here’s a young person that might be able to help in here I walked

might be able to help in here I walked

might be able to help in here I walked in I will never forget I had 115 people

in I will never forget I had 115 people

in I will never forget I had 115 people I had nurses I had adjunct doctors I had

I had nurses I had adjunct doctors I had

I had nurses I had adjunct doctors I had staffing staff it was a union and I

staffing staff it was a union and I

staffing staff it was a union and I walked in the first day and one of the

walked in the first day and one of the

walked in the first day and one of the supervisors who I was going to be her

supervisors who I was going to be her

supervisors who I was going to be her boss looked at me and said is your mommy

boss looked at me and said is your mommy

boss looked at me and said is your mommy know you’re out do you have any

know you’re out do you have any

know you’re out do you have any supervision does your mommy know that

supervision does your mommy know that

supervision does your mommy know that you’re here and that began my

you’re here and that began my

you’re here and that began my progression into trying to understand

progression into trying to understand

progression into trying to understand what it was like to have an impact and

what it was like to have an impact and

what it was like to have an impact and to drive change my own parents didn’t

to drive change my own parents didn’t

to drive change my own parents didn’t even believe that I really had that job

even believe that I really had that job

even believe that I really had that job they came instead to visit me at the job

they came instead to visit me at the job

they came instead to visit me at the job location just to peek around to see if

location just to peek around to see if

location just to peek around to see if what I was telling them was real so you

what I was telling them was real so you

what I was telling them was real so you know over those next 10 years I went to

know over those next 10 years I went to

know over those next 10 years I went to grad I went to graduate school I sort of

grad I went to graduate school I sort of

grad I went to graduate school I sort of changed the way I started thinking about

changed the way I started thinking about

changed the way I started thinking about the world and realizing there’s probably

the world and realizing there’s probably

the world and realizing there’s probably not much that I couldn’t do and for the

not much that I couldn’t do and for the

not much that I couldn’t do and for the first time I felt this flame inside of

first time I felt this flame inside of

first time I felt this flame inside of me saying you could really almost do

me saying you could really almost do

me saying you could really almost do anything now I know you think that might

anything now I know you think that might

anything now I know you think that might be such a huge broad brush of an of an

be such a huge broad brush of an of an

be such a huge broad brush of an of an expression but when you have an

expression but when you have an

expression but when you have an opportunity at such a young age

opportunity at such a young age

opportunity at such a young age like I did to lead people to make a

like I did to lead people to make a

like I did to lead people to make a difference to fail over and over again

difference to fail over and over again

difference to fail over and over again with rapid succession

with rapid succession

with rapid succession it builds confidence it builds the

it builds confidence it builds the

it builds confidence it builds the amount of confidence that I wish most

amount of confidence that I wish most

amount of confidence that I wish most people would have today and it’s one of

people would have today and it’s one of

people would have today and it’s one of the things that you don’t learn while

the things that you don’t learn while

the things that you don’t learn while you are really in school you only learn

you are really in school you only learn

you are really in school you only learn that day in and day out I remember once

that day in and day out I remember once

that day in and day out I remember once I must have been in my 20s and my right

I must have been in my 20s and my right

I must have been in my 20s and my right hand

hand

hand at my job to the master’s degree and

at my job to the master’s degree and

at my job to the master’s degree and very well-educated killed himself a few

very well-educated killed himself a few

very well-educated killed himself a few days after that in the same environment

days after that in the same environment

days after that in the same environment that I was at a woman was murdered

that I was at a woman was murdered

that I was at a woman was murdered through domestic violence through one of

through domestic violence through one of

through domestic violence through one of through her partner on the job someone

through her partner on the job someone

through her partner on the job someone came to our site and killed her and I

came to our site and killed her and I

came to our site and killed her and I said oh my gosh I can’t do anything how

said oh my gosh I can’t do anything how

said oh my gosh I can’t do anything how could this be I cannot do anything here

could this be I cannot do anything here

could this be I cannot do anything here I was confident feeling like I I really

I was confident feeling like I I really

I was confident feeling like I I really understood the Mojo of my work and I

understood the Mojo of my work and I

understood the Mojo of my work and I walked away from that and said you know

walked away from that and said you know

walked away from that and said you know what I probably need to think about what

what I probably need to think about what

what I probably need to think about what it means to be a leader and to influence

it means to be a leader and to influence

it means to be a leader and to influence people it was a I had to go one time I

people it was a I had to go one time I

people it was a I had to go one time I had someone who came who came after my

had someone who came who came after my

had someone who came who came after my staff and me and I went into hiding

staff and me and I went into hiding

staff and me and I went into hiding right around the time that my daughter

right around the time that my daughter

right around the time that my daughter was born and you might say how could you

was born and you might say how could you

was born and you might say how could you have this many troubled people in one

have this many troubled people in one

have this many troubled people in one workplace Audrey maybe it’s you right

workplace Audrey maybe it’s you right

workplace Audrey maybe it’s you right maybe it’s you that’s attracting this

maybe it’s you that’s attracting this

maybe it’s you that’s attracting this kind of thing but from those experiences

kind of thing but from those experiences

kind of thing but from those experiences as a leader and as a woman and as

as a leader and as a woman and as

as a leader and as a woman and as someone who now Leapfrog with me started

someone who now Leapfrog with me started

someone who now Leapfrog with me started to get into technology and started to

to get into technology and started to

to get into technology and started to see that not only was it really against

see that not only was it really against

see that not only was it really against all odds and the world was moving so

all odds and the world was moving so

all odds and the world was moving so fast and I was working in data centers

fast and I was working in data centers

fast and I was working in data centers and working with you know advanced

and working with you know advanced

and working with you know advanced application developers and I started

application developers and I started

application developers and I started working in in a space that I had no

cognition about what that kind of work

cognition about what that kind of work was in a period of time that was

was in a period of time that was

was in a period of time that was starting to move so incredibly fast I

starting to move so incredibly fast I

starting to move so incredibly fast I was the only woman there were really no

was the only woman there were really no

was the only woman there were really no women there were no women that were

women there were no women that were

women there were no women that were coming up through computer science there

coming up through computer science there

coming up through computer science there were no women that were what we’re

were no women that were what we’re

were no women that were what we’re working and willing to grab the ball and

working and willing to grab the ball and

working and willing to grab the ball and become leaders and so what I learned is

become leaders and so what I learned is

become leaders and so what I learned is that it’s really not the work per se

that it’s really not the work per se

that it’s really not the work per se it’s the relationships that we have with

it’s the relationships that we have with

it’s the relationships that we have with other people it’s just it’s taken me

other people it’s just it’s taken me

other people it’s just it’s taken me through this whole

through this whole

through this whole trajectory of learning to build my own

trajectory of learning to build my own

trajectory of learning to build my own self-esteem to understand against all

self-esteem to understand against all

self-esteem to understand against all odds and to begin to figure out that

odds and to begin to figure out that

odds and to begin to figure out that it’s all back in a continuous circle

it’s all back in a continuous circle

it’s all back in a continuous circle it’s really about people it’s about your

it’s really about people it’s about your

it’s really about people it’s about your ability to bring people up and bring

ability to bring people up and bring

ability to bring people up and bring people ahead of you and surround

people ahead of you and surround

people ahead of you and surround yourself with incredibly smart people

yourself with incredibly smart people

yourself with incredibly smart people because you know what as great as my

because you know what as great as my

because you know what as great as my confidence has been over these years I

confidence has been over these years I

confidence has been over these years I can’t do it alone I can never do any of

can’t do it alone I can never do any of

can’t do it alone I can never do any of this alone so I go from social services

this alone so I go from social services

this alone so I go from social services to get into strategic consulting I get

to get into strategic consulting I get

to get into strategic consulting I get into finance I get into technology I get

into finance I get into technology I get

into finance I get into technology I get into working at a company here in

into working at a company here in

into working at a company here in Pittsburgh that that was created out of

Pittsburgh that that was created out of

Pittsburgh that that was created out of Carnegie Mellon 25 years ago Maya design

Carnegie Mellon 25 years ago Maya design

Carnegie Mellon 25 years ago Maya design I work with a multinational company

I work with a multinational company

I work with a multinational company called Alcoa where i have teams all over

called Alcoa where i have teams all over

called Alcoa where i have teams all over the world and then I get a call as I’m

the world and then I get a call as I’m

the world and then I get a call as I’m sitting on Southside works and someone

sitting on Southside works and someone

sitting on Southside works and someone said you know they’re doing a

said you know they’re doing a

said you know they’re doing a recruitment for the Pittsburgh

recruitment for the Pittsburgh

recruitment for the Pittsburgh Technology Council and like oh my god

Technology Council and like oh my god

Technology Council and like oh my god what is that I don’t know anything about

what is that I don’t know anything about

what is that I don’t know anything about that and then as I say so just come just

that and then as I say so just come just

that and then as I say so just come just interview it’s a really amazing time in

interview it’s a really amazing time in

interview it’s a really amazing time in Pittsburgh and the world is going to pay

Pittsburgh and the world is going to pay

Pittsburgh and the world is going to pay attention to Pittsburgh we believe that

attention to Pittsburgh we believe that

attention to Pittsburgh we believe that that was ten years ago and as I started

that was ten years ago and as I started

that was ten years ago and as I started to get connected into Pittsburgh and

to get connected into Pittsburgh and

to get connected into Pittsburgh and started seeing the possibilities and the

started seeing the possibilities and the

started seeing the possibilities and the opportunities I assumed this job as the

opportunities I assumed this job as the

opportunities I assumed this job as the first woman the only woman that is

first woman the only woman that is

first woman the only woman that is running the Pittsburgh Technology

running the Pittsburgh Technology

running the Pittsburgh Technology Council that was started 34 years ago by

Council that was started 34 years ago by

Council that was started 34 years ago by a bunch of guys who said they weren’t

a bunch of guys who said they weren’t

a bunch of guys who said they weren’t going to let this region go to hell in a

going to let this region go to hell in a

going to let this region go to hell in a handbasket so my life is gone in people

handbasket so my life is gone in people

handbasket so my life is gone in people come to me and they say how did you go

come to me and they say how did you go

come to me and they say how did you go from this to this to this I thought you

from this to this to this I thought you

from this to this to this I thought you were trained to go this way

were trained to go this way

were trained to go this way why is there no flow path that takes you

why is there no flow path that takes you

why is there no flow path that takes you into a nice linear trajectory because it

into a nice linear trajectory because it

into a nice linear trajectory because it doesn’t because if you want to grab on

doesn’t because if you want to grab on

doesn’t because if you want to grab on to things that matter to you and want to

to things that matter to you and want to

to things that matter to you and want to have an impact it can never be

have an impact it can never be

have an impact it can never be because if you pair that with the rapid

because if you pair that with the rapid

because if you pair that with the rapid rate of change that we are going through

rate of change that we are going through

rate of change that we are going through right now that is so fast and so

right now that is so fast and so

right now that is so fast and so lightning fast your technical skills

lightning fast your technical skills

lightning fast your technical skills quickly evaporate and so the most

quickly evaporate and so the most

quickly evaporate and so the most important thing is that you build skills

important thing is that you build skills

important thing is that you build skills that continuously develop your

that continuously develop your

that continuously develop your capability to learn and if you continue

capability to learn and if you continue

capability to learn and if you continue to do that you will far exceed where I

to do that you will far exceed where I

to do that you will far exceed where I have landed you will far exceed any

have landed you will far exceed any

have landed you will far exceed any possibilities because there is no more

possibilities because there is no more

possibilities because there is no more one job there is no job that when you

one job there is no job that when you

one job there is no job that when you think you’re 22 you’re going to be out

think you’re 22 you’re going to be out

think you’re 22 you’re going to be out when you’re 30 but if you have skills

when you’re 30 but if you have skills

when you’re 30 but if you have skills and you have it paired with confidence

and you have it paired with confidence

and you have it paired with confidence and you have an opportunity to fail fail

and you have an opportunity to fail fail

and you have an opportunity to fail fail fail and pick yourself up as quickly as

fail and pick yourself up as quickly as

fail and pick yourself up as quickly as you fail and demonstrate that through

you fail and demonstrate that through

you fail and demonstrate that through relationships we win so for me this is I

relationships we win so for me this is I

relationships we win so for me this is I don’t get an opportunity very often to

don’t get an opportunity very often to

don’t get an opportunity very often to sort of talk about what I’ve gone

sort of talk about what I’ve gone

sort of talk about what I’ve gone through in my life

through in my life

through in my life many people say Audrey your career has

many people say Audrey your career has

many people say Audrey your career has been in so many different directions and

been in so many different directions and

been in so many different directions and I say it’s incredible it’s been amazing

I say it’s incredible it’s been amazing

I say it’s incredible it’s been amazing and I gift that to all of you as you who

and I gift that to all of you as you who

and I gift that to all of you as you who are here as parents and as you who are

are here as parents and as you who are

are here as parents and as you who are here as kids who are headed into the

here as kids who are headed into the

here as kids who are headed into the next iteration of the coming decade

next iteration of the coming decade

next iteration of the coming decade these are great times ahead we are

these are great times ahead we are

these are great times ahead we are living in an amazing amazing time but

living in an amazing amazing time but

living in an amazing amazing time but just remember it really is about be

just remember it really is about be

just remember it really is about be against all odds because nothing ever

against all odds because nothing ever

against all odds because nothing ever comes that simply and who would have

comes that simply and who would have

comes that simply and who would have thought that the companies that are on

thought that the companies that are on

thought that the companies that are on the NASDAQ today or those companies

the NASDAQ today or those companies

the NASDAQ today or those companies didn’t even exist sometimes six to seven

didn’t even exist sometimes six to seven

didn’t even exist sometimes six to seven years ago and I can tell you what’s

years ago and I can tell you what’s

years ago and I can tell you what’s going to be on the Nasdaq in the next

going to be on the Nasdaq in the next

going to be on the Nasdaq in the next five years our companies that you and I

five years our companies that you and I

five years our companies that you and I have not even heard of and that are

have not even heard of and that are

have not even heard of and that are going to be changing the world

going to be changing the world

going to be changing the world so change the world make a difference in

so change the world make a difference in

so change the world make a difference in your own life remember if you are a

your own life remember if you are a

your own life remember if you are a woman if you are a young girl you are

woman if you are a young girl you are

woman if you are a young girl you are you are at least half of what the future

you are at least half of what the future

you are at least half of what the future is and be a part of it

is and be a part of it

is and be a part of it I am very grateful for the time this

I am very grateful for the time this

I am very grateful for the time this morning I thank you all and I know

morning I thank you all and I know

morning I thank you all and I know you’re going to have a rockin day thanks

you’re going to have a rockin day thanks

you’re going to have a rockin day thanks for listening to my story

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