Do not be one of the bunch difference you
this is not a typical phrase with which
most of us have grown
this is the idea that the system has
tax that we have to become
someone but I wonder what makes
really be someone who has
tax this concept in our
society of our system
and that is really the idea of not being
one more
perhaps it does not make us one more of the bunch
enter the same career as all the
world towards the most profitable goal up
towards the goal that is best seen by
everybody
I have had the incredible blessing of
be able to travel to South Korea the year
past
South Korea is one of the leaders in
technology in the world and is one of the
magnates like you will know who does not
has a samsung or who does not know what is
the samsa brand but also has a
small detail that is that it is one of the
leaders in mortality rates in
children for reasons of suicide and when
I found out about this I said that I could
be thinking a child under 11
to want to take your own life in reality
what a concern other than being a child
that wanting to play could have someone to
that age to really want to take off
life
so that being there in the
university converse times with some
of those of the boys of my age of
people who study careers
amazing as they are right medicine
biology great careers and they
he asked leads to finish his career
so how do you do that that follows
now yes what next but my
parents are happy because somehow
I’m doing what you have to do
to
I’m following a profitable career
but you are the person who will follow
this career the rest of your life in the
person who is going to do it
then why not choose is something that you
do really happy because I do not know to me
I like to play the cello I like to play
the violin
I do not like theater and that’s not going to
give money and it’s not going to be somebody
the pressure under which people in
South Korea lives is such that children
they go to school until 11 pm and it’s not
an exaggeration go until 11 pm and
when I got interested I said pucha
then either so they go to the
university if they do everything in the
school and to top the cherry of the
cake of them is that the weekend
they take apart language courses
under this level of pressure that for more
that we see far too we
we are approaching little by little in our
country
no really happy person and little to
little we are coming to a concept that
I do not really like it at all
it’s called frustrated sleep
there are countless people with whom
talked to me that they told me if that was
my dream frustrated but I personally
I think nobody should put a phrase
next to these two words because a
Dream is a passion is a game that
we have inside each one when it has been
the last time you have felt
really passionate about what they have
fact that they have seen someone really
passionate about what he does that fire
it is not something fears that temporarily
established is a constant game that in
he really wants us to achieve the impossible
that drives us to want to achieve it but
the society in which we live
Unfortunately, it drives us towards
another side to live frustrated
let me give you a small example through
of my story
I as well as everyone have lived what
normally pressed since I was
little
pressed by the environment pressed by
my family
pressured by society and also
somehow pushed myself
but the point where I found the most
pressed by myself
it was when you when I was 13 years old and it’s
that when I was 13 years old my mom died
and at this point is where most of
people change of expression and I from
small I wanted to avoid that expression to
all costs the typical expression in the
next turn to the head slightly
45 degrees to the left raise the
frown and they tell you I ‘m sorry
I’m going to tell you a secret, you do not know
feel I’m sorry
but the reality is that I wanted to avoid
this expression and therefore I started
to press myself I started to
press because I said they know it does not come out
is not going to make this kind of person that
go through this and it fell and it sinks and
everyone sees her crying and sees her
bad looks sad is not going to be the one
leave despite which is something great
and it helped me a lot helped me because
I started uploading my notes started to
excel and in fact this pressure
It was because I was the daughter of
dew candles and if he does not know who
dew candles are missing but it was a
Woman who tried hard to give me the best
the best education the best parenting
better in all the typical you have what
I did not have and he did it in a way
independent and even somehow
alone therefore I had that pressure
of a lot of crumb May all this for me
I have to get ahead
my original idea was to get ahead with
my dreams with my passions get to
broadway because drama is something that
naturally but unfortunately the
typical phrase that come fifth of
secondary and that everyone told me
when my mom was not there anymore it was but
he did it is a race that already and if
it’s a race and you do not get it right what are you going
to do
who will support you and I took the
decision easier to say ok if it’s not a
career
nobody will support me I’m alone in the
ok world I will make it more profitable
the easiest thing and he started to excel
I started studying administration and
marketing and I was doing very well but at
arrive at night my house after
use this mask of I am happy of the
things are going very well I’m
excelling I’m accomplishing things
I came home and actually I
I found removing the mask and
feeling bad feeling sad
because there was nothing he had not given me the
Time really mourn for him from
my Siamese mom frustrated because of
somehow I was liking my
career but I felt that I was
taking the back to the theater and did not want
that I like I did not want to give him that
opportunity I really felt alone
because if they realize a person with
a mask with a mask actually
he does not have real friends so I
I felt in
not me and I do not know if they have heard the
typical phrase of touching bottom
for me that was my cherry on the cake and
It was not very nice because
unfortunately also makes a couple of
years my dad died of cancer and in that
moment I literally found myself in
a crossroads where I hit bottom and I
I said to myself
ok to you have two options or you go by
here or you go around here on this side
you stay in the hole lamentándote
victimizing you feeling bad with you
same and pressing the same cart
always happy and on the other side
I do not know what I was going to see outside of what
I did not know I did not know where I was going to go
where will it go up because I had
unaccustomed to that life that
I was just so comfortable in the hole
so comfortable feeling how I felt
that was the easiest thing did not require any
superhuman effort then consult
with the best person that could
consult at that moment with you
themselves because he has noticed my
short 22 years that when you’re sad
when you’re in the hole when things
it comes over you
A crane may bring you a
elephant if they want a circus to
get you out but if you do not want to leave
nobody is going to take you out so that
moment it reminds me a lot I do not know if
remember the phrase in Alice in the country
of wonders when he already asks
the cat reason and where do I have to go
now and he tells you where you want to go
she replies is not told then
any way will take you and I will
I found in that situation I did not know in
reality where I wanted to go I did not know what
I wanted to do I did not know what happened
follow
then I took everything I had my
memories my past and the desire for a
future better and started to climb
I started to go little by little what was
difficult is difficult I fall more times
currently I would like to admit
but I keep going because I take a
decision
the decision not to stay on the floor the
decision to make this fire of my
passions the decision of
choose the other dreams and and realize
what can I have same
can fill me my passion is the only
point the only goal you should have is
be happy and make happy in this world
because there is more suffering than
congratulations unfortunately, so
dear ones
life is not easy nobody said it would be
citing easy but it is not cold play
impossible to continue so my only
advice for you is to be gladiators
because I know that inside the heart of
each of each of you there is a
gladiator as well as those of shonda rhimes
of those who defeat dragons of those
that cleans the blood and continue
because they have a dream more than to get
and one more day to live and in the end
we have person we find people to
despite the adversities
I found a family by choice
find a best friend who supports me and
is there for me always and holds me
Believe me, it’s not easy to get up but
found a family by choice was given
with a blood family that loves me
and also supports me and I feel happy
because I’m following my dreams and
now I’m telling you that maybe not
end broe
but at least it ends up acting in front of
three cats but I’m going to do what I
passionate and what I love thanks
[Applause]
to
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