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Love the Life you Live, Live the Life you Love | Andreas Stark | TEDxWHU


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université time of your life we’re

université time of your life we’re supposed to have fun make friends party

supposed to have fun make friends party

supposed to have fun make friends party and of course study a little bit keep

and of course study a little bit keep

and of course study a little bit keep the balance but you want to have a lot

the balance but you want to have a lot

the balance but you want to have a lot of time to figure out who you are what

of time to figure out who you are what

of time to figure out who you are what it is that you’re after

it is that you’re after

it is that you’re after what it is that gonna make you happy

what it is that gonna make you happy

what it is that gonna make you happy that’s the expectation but then you

that’s the expectation but then you

that’s the expectation but then you start studying and studying is all

start studying and studying is all

start studying and studying is all you’re gonna do studying for one exam

you’re gonna do studying for one exam

you’re gonna do studying for one exam and then you’re done

and then you’re done

and then you’re done then you’re studying again for the next

then you’re studying again for the next

then you’re studying again for the next exam and it keeps going it’s a vicious

exam and it keeps going it’s a vicious

exam and it keeps going it’s a vicious circle almost you never get out of it

circle almost you never get out of it

circle almost you never get out of it and then when you have a break there’s

and then when you have a break there’s

and then when you have a break there’s internships and then you come back from

internships and then you come back from

internships and then you come back from the internship and it’s exact same xed

the internship and it’s exact same xed

the internship and it’s exact same xed exam so it always keeps going and

exam so it always keeps going and

exam so it always keeps going and sometimes it gets to be a little too

sometimes it gets to be a little too

sometimes it gets to be a little too much for some people just every now and

much for some people just every now and

much for some people just every now and then but for a lot of people too much

then but for a lot of people too much

then but for a lot of people too much and not just once many times sometimes

and not just once many times sometimes

and not just once many times sometimes all times according to studies up to 85%

all times according to studies up to 85%

all times according to studies up to 85% of students in today’s world they feel

of students in today’s world they feel

of students in today’s world they feel overwhelmed exhausted anxious but they

overwhelmed exhausted anxious but they

overwhelmed exhausted anxious but they also sometimes feel depressed I mean

also sometimes feel depressed I mean

also sometimes feel depressed I mean think about it you’re going to

think about it you’re going to

think about it you’re going to university to have fun to figure out

university to have fun to figure out

university to have fun to figure out your life you’re not supposed to be

your life you’re not supposed to be

your life you’re not supposed to be depressed but you make your way through

depressed but you make your way through

depressed but you make your way through it you think you’re gonna get it done

it you think you’re gonna get it done

it you think you’re gonna get it done and once you’re out of it finally when

and once you’re out of it finally when

and once you’re out of it finally when you have your job then you get your life

you have your job then you get your life

you have your job then you get your life together you’re just putting it off for

together you’re just putting it off for

together you’re just putting it off for a little bit but that time maybe never

a little bit but that time maybe never

a little bit but that time maybe never comes according to other studies in my

comes according to other studies in my

comes according to other studies in my personal experience there’s a lot of

personal experience there’s a lot of

personal experience there’s a lot of people in their work they’re not

people in their work they’re not

people in their work they’re not fulfilled today if it’s 90 percent or

fulfilled today if it’s 90 percent or

fulfilled today if it’s 90 percent or less doesn’t matter even ten percent is

less doesn’t matter even ten percent is

less doesn’t matter even ten percent is too much and obviously there’s people

too much and obviously there’s people

too much and obviously there’s people that are very frustrated and some people

that are very frustrated and some people

that are very frustrated and some people that are less frustrated but just the

that are less frustrated but just the

that are less frustrated but just the fact that you’re not doing what you love

fact that you’re not doing what you love

fact that you’re not doing what you love that’s a really disturbing reality and I

that’s a really disturbing reality and I

that’s a really disturbing reality and I met people in their 20s when I did these

met people in their 20s when I did these

met people in their 20s when I did these internships beginning of the 30s and

internships beginning of the 30s and

internships beginning of the 30s and they asked them do you like what you do

they asked them do you like what you do

they asked them do you like what you do and they were like nah can’t wait for

and they were like nah can’t wait for

and they were like nah can’t wait for retirement I’m like dude retirement like

retirement I’m like dude retirement like

retirement I’m like dude retirement like you just started you got 40 years ahead

you just started you got 40 years ahead

you just started you got 40 years ahead of you yeah I hope they’re gonna be over

of you yeah I hope they’re gonna be over

of you yeah I hope they’re gonna be over soon

soon

soon while this might be a little

while this might be a little

while this might be a little exaggeration I too had this ambition to

exaggeration I too had this ambition to

exaggeration I too had this ambition to figure out who I was what I wanted to do

figure out who I was what I wanted to do

figure out who I was what I wanted to do and it was one of my goals to figure

and it was one of my goals to figure

and it was one of my goals to figure that out during university but time flew

that out during university but time flew

that out during university but time flew by and after it felt like just a year or

by and after it felt like just a year or

by and after it felt like just a year or so suddenly I found myself in the last

so suddenly I found myself in the last

so suddenly I found myself in the last semester I had finished all my master

semester I had finished all my master

semester I had finished all my master courses and all I had to do was finish

courses and all I had to do was finish

courses and all I had to do was finish my thesis and I realized I did all these

my thesis and I realized I did all these

my thesis and I realized I did all these things like I learned I did these exams

things like I learned I did these exams

things like I learned I did these exams I did internships but do you really like

I did internships but do you really like

I did internships but do you really like any of it not as much as I wanted though

any of it not as much as I wanted though

any of it not as much as I wanted though so I figured out okay god I got to do

so I figured out okay god I got to do

so I figured out okay god I got to do something about that I was really

something about that I was really

something about that I was really feeling unhappy but I didn’t know why I

feeling unhappy but I didn’t know why I

feeling unhappy but I didn’t know why I had no idea what I was supposed to do so

had no idea what I was supposed to do so

had no idea what I was supposed to do so I said I’m gonna take a break

I said I’m gonna take a break

I said I’m gonna take a break just go get away for a while it’s just

just go get away for a while it’s just

just go get away for a while it’s just for six months taking the semester

for six months taking the semester

for six months taking the semester abroad do my studies take a few more

abroad do my studies take a few more

abroad do my studies take a few more classes just for the fun of it and relax

classes just for the fun of it and relax

classes just for the fun of it and relax work on myself figure out who I am that

work on myself figure out who I am that

work on myself figure out who I am that was my goal but I had no way of knowing

was my goal but I had no way of knowing

was my goal but I had no way of knowing I had no clue where to start so I just

I had no clue where to start so I just

I had no clue where to start so I just started reading on the art of living how

started reading on the art of living how

started reading on the art of living how to be fulfilled how to be satisfied and

to be fulfilled how to be satisfied and

to be fulfilled how to be satisfied and the stuff that I read freaked me out I

the stuff that I read freaked me out I

the stuff that I read freaked me out I realized two things one I hadn’t been in

realized two things one I hadn’t been in

realized two things one I hadn’t been in the present moment any single time for

the present moment any single time for

the present moment any single time for the last six years of my studies I was

the last six years of my studies I was

the last six years of my studies I was always thinking about the next thing

always thinking about the next thing

always thinking about the next thing always thinking about the next exam the

always thinking about the next exam the

always thinking about the next exam the next internship I had reached the goal

next internship I had reached the goal

next internship I had reached the goal and I was off to the next one and was

and I was off to the next one and was

and I was off to the next one and was always about studying all the time

always about studying all the time

always about studying all the time because of my career the career the

because of my career the career the

because of my career the career the great vision that I had when I entered

great vision that I had when I entered

great vision that I had when I entered University what I wanted to become well

University what I wanted to become well

University what I wanted to become well turned out to roll my internships I’d

turned out to roll my internships I’d

turned out to roll my internships I’d figure out that that wasn’t the industry

figure out that that wasn’t the industry

figure out that that wasn’t the industry I wanted to go in and it wasn’t a job

I wanted to go in and it wasn’t a job

I wanted to go in and it wasn’t a job that I wanted to do so what I ended up

that I wanted to do so what I ended up

that I wanted to do so what I ended up after my studies was figuring out that I

after my studies was figuring out that I

after my studies was figuring out that I had not been in a present moment and I

had not been in a present moment and I

had not been in a present moment and I had a vision that no longer held up that

had a vision that no longer held up that

had a vision that no longer held up that freaked me out and I did a lot of

freaked me out and I did a lot of

freaked me out and I did a lot of soul-searching and I enjoyed life I

soul-searching and I enjoyed life I

soul-searching and I enjoyed life I spend a lot of time with people that

spend a lot of time with people that

spend a lot of time with people that were happy and tried to figure out what

were happy and tried to figure out what

were happy and tried to figure out what it was they did and there’s not one

it was they did and there’s not one

it was they did and there’s not one thing

thing

thing happy people they’re happy in the moment

happy people they’re happy in the moment

happy people they’re happy in the moment and they’re also happy about their

and they’re also happy about their

and they’re also happy about their future they know that what’s coming is

future they know that what’s coming is

future they know that what’s coming is good so they get up every morning but

good so they get up every morning but

good so they get up every morning but they also enjoy the right

they also enjoy the right

they also enjoy the right and I thought that’s a good mantra for

and I thought that’s a good mantra for

and I thought that’s a good mantra for life and how a lot of students do it

life and how a lot of students do it

life and how a lot of students do it when they’re away I did something crazy

when they’re away I did something crazy

when they’re away I did something crazy and I got it to to love the life you

and I got it to to love the life you

and I got it to to love the life you live live the life you love and I got it

live live the life you love and I got it

live live the life you love and I got it right here on my arm why because every

right here on my arm why because every

right here on my arm why because every morning I wanted to make sure that I

morning I wanted to make sure that I

morning I wanted to make sure that I read it and that this was my ultimate

read it and that this was my ultimate

read it and that this was my ultimate goal in life to figure out how to do

goal in life to figure out how to do

goal in life to figure out how to do this so I kept on reading because I was

this so I kept on reading because I was

this so I kept on reading because I was super stoked and motivated a lot of

super stoked and motivated a lot of

super stoked and motivated a lot of adrenalin I was pumped up but maybe that

adrenalin I was pumped up but maybe that

adrenalin I was pumped up but maybe that was just you know wearing off from

was just you know wearing off from

was just you know wearing off from getting the zoo so I opened the first

getting the zoo so I opened the first

getting the zoo so I opened the first books and I keep three it kept reading

books and I keep three it kept reading

books and I keep three it kept reading and reading and reading and it didn’t

and reading and reading and it didn’t

and reading and reading and it didn’t take too long and there it was a formula

take too long and there it was a formula

take too long and there it was a formula personal growth is happiness why didn’t

personal growth is happiness why didn’t

personal growth is happiness why didn’t everybody tell me before I mean makes

everybody tell me before I mean makes

everybody tell me before I mean makes sense right so solve for X personal

sense right so solve for X personal

sense right so solve for X personal growth and you got it it’s easy I

growth and you got it it’s easy I

growth and you got it it’s easy I thought so I kept on reading and then I

thought so I kept on reading and then I

thought so I kept on reading and then I found more stuff because I thought like

found more stuff because I thought like

found more stuff because I thought like what personal grows like what what is it

what personal grows like what what is it

what personal grows like what what is it and then I read something about

and then I read something about

and then I read something about something called the highest self I felt

something called the highest self I felt

something called the highest self I felt like okay high self who is that what

like okay high self who is that what

like okay high self who is that what what’s that dude where do I find him

what’s that dude where do I find him

what’s that dude where do I find him what is he gonna like and I started to

what is he gonna like and I started to

what is he gonna like and I started to imagine this like being on on the bottom

imagine this like being on on the bottom

imagine this like being on on the bottom of a mountain and on up top of it in the

of a mountain and on up top of it in the

of a mountain and on up top of it in the clouds there was like some guy waving a

clouds there was like some guy waving a

clouds there was like some guy waving a huge wave with happiness on it it’s like

huge wave with happiness on it it’s like

huge wave with happiness on it it’s like okay that was all I knew and he was

okay that was all I knew and he was

okay that was all I knew and he was shouting catch me if you can and I saw

shouting catch me if you can and I saw

shouting catch me if you can and I saw it it’s not a comedy movie this is not

it it’s not a comedy movie this is not

it it’s not a comedy movie this is not Leonardo DiCaprio up there I’m not Tom

Leonardo DiCaprio up there I’m not Tom

Leonardo DiCaprio up there I’m not Tom Hanks this is serious I need to figure

Hanks this is serious I need to figure

Hanks this is serious I need to figure this out it’s almost more like a drama

this out it’s almost more like a drama

this out it’s almost more like a drama thriller action movie pretty much maybe

thriller action movie pretty much maybe

thriller action movie pretty much maybe like a detective and what does a

like a detective and what does a

like a detective and what does a detective – he has a suspect that he’s

detective – he has a suspect that he’s

detective – he has a suspect that he’s interested in well he collects evidence

interested in well he collects evidence

interested in well he collects evidence he was finding clues and looking for

he was finding clues and looking for

he was finding clues and looking for them trying to make sense of them that’s

them trying to make sense of them that’s

them trying to make sense of them that’s what I did and I started figure out

what I did and I started figure out

what I did and I started figure out clues and a good detective obviously he

clues and a good detective obviously he

clues and a good detective obviously he knows that he needs actual proof facts

knows that he needs actual proof facts

knows that he needs actual proof facts evidence not just guesswork and you’re

evidence not just guesswork and you’re

evidence not just guesswork and you’re collecting and you’re collecting

collecting and you’re collecting

collecting and you’re collecting and what dictators also do is if they’re

and what dictators also do is if they’re

and what dictators also do is if they’re looking for some they start somewhere

looking for some they start somewhere

looking for some they start somewhere trying to create a persona trying to

trying to create a persona trying to

trying to create a persona trying to figure out what this person might look

figure out what this person might look

figure out what this person might look like in order to have an idea what they

like in order to have an idea what they

like in order to have an idea what they should be looking for so in this case of

should be looking for so in this case of

should be looking for so in this case of the highest self what would the suspect

the highest self what would the suspect

the highest self what would the suspect be looking like might be in perfect

be looking like might be in perfect

be looking like might be in perfect shape and full of energy super healthy

shape and full of energy super healthy

shape and full of energy super healthy might be happily married to a beautiful

might be happily married to a beautiful

might be happily married to a beautiful partner might be surrounded by loving

partner might be surrounded by loving

partner might be surrounded by loving people at all times enjoying himself and

people at all times enjoying himself and

people at all times enjoying himself and the company he might be in successful

the company he might be in successful

the company he might be in successful entrepreneur and respected leader he

entrepreneur and respected leader he

entrepreneur and respected leader he might be a very balanced and cau

might be a very balanced and cau

might be a very balanced and cau personality and enjoyable being with a

personality and enjoyable being with a

personality and enjoyable being with a great passion for travel and he might be

great passion for travel and he might be

great passion for travel and he might be financially independent

financially independent

financially independent he might not have to work for a living

he might not have to work for a living

he might not have to work for a living only if he chooses to well obviously you

only if he chooses to well obviously you

only if he chooses to well obviously you might know people that you know fall in

might know people that you know fall in

might know people that you know fall in one of these categories but it would be

one of these categories but it would be

one of these categories but it would be hard to maybe find this person but at

hard to maybe find this person but at

hard to maybe find this person but at least it’s a stepping stone it’s this

least it’s a stepping stone it’s this

least it’s a stepping stone it’s this way to start so what a detective also

way to start so what a detective also

way to start so what a detective also does at some point I mean he looks at

does at some point I mean he looks at

does at some point I mean he looks at the whole picture right he looks at the

the whole picture right he looks at the

the whole picture right he looks at the evidence he has and what blanks he has

evidence he has and what blanks he has

evidence he has and what blanks he has to fill what blind spots so that might

to fill what blind spots so that might

to fill what blind spots so that might be what he looks at what it looks like

be what he looks at what it looks like

be what he looks at what it looks like the evidence he has evidence on the

the evidence he has evidence on the

the evidence he has evidence on the characters around the persona the

characters around the persona the

characters around the persona the personality health he got an idea love

personality health he got an idea love

personality health he got an idea love not so much very blurry picture like no

not so much very blurry picture like no

not so much very blurry picture like no idea what this would look like same with

idea what this would look like same with

idea what this would look like same with finance family career and what does the

finance family career and what does the

finance family career and what does the detective do if he sees that he needs to

detective do if he sees that he needs to

detective do if he sees that he needs to figure these things out well he does

figure these things out well he does

figure these things out well he does whatever is necessary and depending

whatever is necessary and depending

whatever is necessary and depending where he is on the process he might do

where he is on the process he might do

where he is on the process he might do something else or different things so

something else or different things so

something else or different things so first he might collect evidence if he

first he might collect evidence if he

first he might collect evidence if he doesn’t know where he is

doesn’t know where he is

doesn’t know where he is if he starts from scratch like that’s

if he starts from scratch like that’s

if he starts from scratch like that’s what he has to do so maybe for love what

what he has to do so maybe for love what

what he has to do so maybe for love what you would do is figure out okay what is

you would do is figure out okay what is

you would do is figure out okay what is love in the first place what’s the

love in the first place what’s the

love in the first place what’s the relationship you might read a couple of

relationship you might read a couple of

relationship you might read a couple of books just to get into this whole topic

books just to get into this whole topic

books just to get into this whole topic to understand what it is that he’s after

to understand what it is that he’s after

to understand what it is that he’s after because eventually he wants to think

because eventually he wants to think

because eventually he wants to think like this guy you know that’s the only

like this guy you know that’s the only

like this guy you know that’s the only way to get him

way to get him

way to get him but then there might be areas ways a

but then there might be areas ways a

but then there might be areas ways a little bit more certain he’s connected

little bit more certain he’s connected

little bit more certain he’s connected to love every dance to see patterns but

to love every dance to see patterns but

to love every dance to see patterns but he doesn’t quite know yet how these

he doesn’t quite know yet how these

he doesn’t quite know yet how these patterns actually make sense and how

patterns actually make sense and how

patterns actually make sense and how they end up leading to that vision

they end up leading to that vision

they end up leading to that vision he’ll for example I mean obviously this

he’ll for example I mean obviously this

he’ll for example I mean obviously this guy is a fit dude you know he probably

guy is a fit dude you know he probably

guy is a fit dude you know he probably works out a lot he eats well but what

works out a lot he eats well but what

works out a lot he eats well but what exactly does he eat how exactly does he

exactly does he eat how exactly does he

exactly does he eat how exactly does he work out how exactly does CDs cut

work out how exactly does CDs cut

work out how exactly does CDs cut recover no idea so there’s a few things

recover no idea so there’s a few things

recover no idea so there’s a few things that he could test still he’s trying to

that he could test still he’s trying to

that he could test still he’s trying to figure out what’s going on he might talk

figure out what’s going on he might talk

figure out what’s going on he might talk to a few people and say you look sharp

to a few people and say you look sharp

to a few people and say you look sharp you look in good shape like what is it

you look in good shape like what is it

you look in good shape like what is it you’re doing it’s trying to figure out

you’re doing it’s trying to figure out

you’re doing it’s trying to figure out what’s the right way and then then you

what’s the right way and then then you

what’s the right way and then then you have these areas we’re not just certain

have these areas we’re not just certain

have these areas we’re not just certain about what it is but you’ve also figured

about what it is but you’ve also figured

about what it is but you’ve also figured out what the best approach out of all of

out what the best approach out of all of

out what the best approach out of all of these is and that’s where the fun starts

these is and that’s where the fun starts

these is and that’s where the fun starts that’s when it’s not about thinking

that’s when it’s not about thinking

that’s when it’s not about thinking anymore that’s when it’s about doing you

anymore that’s when it’s about doing you

anymore that’s when it’s about doing you know a detective every now and then he

know a detective every now and then he

know a detective every now and then he needs to go undercover

needs to go undercover

needs to go undercover he needs to join the environment and

he needs to join the environment and

he needs to join the environment and actually become that person I just think

actually become that person I just think

actually become that person I just think like him be like him figure out how we

like him be like him figure out how we

like him be like him figure out how we think so at some point that he can be a

think so at some point that he can be a

think so at some point that he can be a step ahead or at least at the same point

step ahead or at least at the same point

step ahead or at least at the same point where this heist self is so he would

where this heist self is so he would

where this heist self is so he would keep going but it would be very hot yes

keep going but it would be very hot yes

keep going but it would be very hot yes the feeling that he’s getting closer in

the feeling that he’s getting closer in

the feeling that he’s getting closer in his areas bit by bit but he feels that

his areas bit by bit but he feels that

his areas bit by bit but he feels that it’s going to be uncomfortable at times

it’s going to be uncomfortable at times

it’s going to be uncomfortable at times you know he’s really stretching he needs

you know he’s really stretching he needs

you know he’s really stretching he needs to put in a lot of effort is not easy he

to put in a lot of effort is not easy he

to put in a lot of effort is not easy he needs to really get out of his comfort

needs to really get out of his comfort

needs to really get out of his comfort zone and then he has this feeling the

zone and then he has this feeling the

zone and then he has this feeling the more he finds out the more he tries like

more he finds out the more he tries like

more he finds out the more he tries like this high stuff must be somewhere I can

this high stuff must be somewhere I can

this high stuff must be somewhere I can feel it maybe it’s just behind the next

feel it maybe it’s just behind the next

feel it maybe it’s just behind the next tip on the mountain behind the next

tip on the mountain behind the next

tip on the mountain behind the next corner and he keeps going and eventually

corner and he keeps going and eventually

corner and he keeps going and eventually he sees him for the first time

he sees him for the first time

he sees him for the first time various clouds gone you can see it very

various clouds gone you can see it very

various clouds gone you can see it very clearly that’s him that’s got to be him

clearly that’s him that’s got to be him

clearly that’s him that’s got to be him and this guy’s waving the flag with

and this guy’s waving the flag with

and this guy’s waving the flag with happiness on it and he’s shouting at him

happiness on it and he’s shouting at him

happiness on it and he’s shouting at him listen to me wait I got a few questions

listen to me wait I got a few questions

listen to me wait I got a few questions for you how are you doing this happiness

for you how are you doing this happiness

for you how are you doing this happiness I need to talk to you

I need to talk to you

I need to talk to you this guy’s not responding

this guy’s not responding

this guy’s not responding just smiling waving the flag but he gets

just smiling waving the flag but he gets

just smiling waving the flag but he gets closer he puts in the effort because he

closer he puts in the effort because he

closer he puts in the effort because he sees the patterns he sees what he has to

sees the patterns he sees what he has to

sees the patterns he sees what he has to do to get there and then he’s there in

do to get there and then he’s there in

do to get there and then he’s there in front of him and he’s he’s excited looks

front of him and he’s he’s excited looks

front of him and he’s he’s excited looks like it he’s in flow it feels incredible

like it he’s in flow it feels incredible

like it he’s in flow it feels incredible they say listen to me like what I doing

they say listen to me like what I doing

they say listen to me like what I doing like this flag I need it like give me

like this flag I need it like give me

like this flag I need it like give me this happiness that’s what I’m after you

this happiness that’s what I’m after you

this happiness that’s what I’m after you have to tell me how to do it and just

have to tell me how to do it and just

have to tell me how to do it and just rips it away he’s got the flags it’s an

rips it away he’s got the flags it’s an

rips it away he’s got the flags it’s an amazing feeling it’s like I’m happy yes

amazing feeling it’s like I’m happy yes

amazing feeling it’s like I’m happy yes he got it and he has to flag he close

he got it and he has to flag he close

he got it and he has to flag he close his eyes just for one second just to get

his eyes just for one second just to get

his eyes just for one second just to get a quick break catch his breath yes and

a quick break catch his breath yes and

a quick break catch his breath yes and then he opens his eyes and there is well

then he opens his eyes and there is well

then he opens his eyes and there is well actually he’s not anymore he look around

actually he’s not anymore he look around

actually he’s not anymore he look around and the guy’s gone where did he go

and the guy’s gone where did he go

and the guy’s gone where did he go and then the detective looks up Jesus

and then the detective looks up Jesus

and then the detective looks up Jesus Christ there he is on top of the

Christ there he is on top of the

Christ there he is on top of the mountain again what happened what did I

mountain again what happened what did I

mountain again what happened what did I miss

miss

miss well he’s pretty exhausted so he thought

well he’s pretty exhausted so he thought

well he’s pretty exhausted so he thought I was very close today but now I need

I was very close today but now I need

I was very close today but now I need some rest I need to you know figure out

some rest I need to you know figure out

some rest I need to you know figure out what went wrong what I miss so he might

what went wrong what I miss so he might

what went wrong what I miss so he might take another look another look at the

take another look another look at the

take another look another look at the evidence that he has connected he

evidence that he has connected he

evidence that he has connected he understood that he has improved a few

understood that he has improved a few

understood that he has improved a few areas but there was more stuff that he

areas but there was more stuff that he

areas but there was more stuff that he needed to figure out maybe it wasn’t

needed to figure out maybe it wasn’t

needed to figure out maybe it wasn’t enough to just figure out one area

enough to just figure out one area

enough to just figure out one area figure out this one persona that they

figure out this one persona that they

figure out this one persona that they made up maybe it’s just not enough to

made up maybe it’s just not enough to

made up maybe it’s just not enough to just look for a healthy guy maybe he has

just look for a healthy guy maybe he has

just look for a healthy guy maybe he has he has to look for this entire thing so

he has to look for this entire thing so

he has to look for this entire thing so he collected more evidence and slowly

he collected more evidence and slowly

he collected more evidence and slowly everything started to create a bigger

everything started to create a bigger

everything started to create a bigger picture and things started to make sense

picture and things started to make sense

picture and things started to make sense again now he could see the patterns in

again now he could see the patterns in

again now he could see the patterns in almost every area

almost every area

almost every area the visions became much much clearer he

the visions became much much clearer he

the visions became much much clearer he continued to do it and he kept going

continued to do it and he kept going

continued to do it and he kept going nine months and twelve months in two

nine months and twelve months in two

nine months and twelve months in two years he knew it wasn’t an easy case to

years he knew it wasn’t an easy case to

years he knew it wasn’t an easy case to solve

solve

solve might take a lot of time in a long time

might take a lot of time in a long time

might take a lot of time in a long time but he was up for it and in all of these

but he was up for it and in all of these

but he was up for it and in all of these areas he came so close to the highest

areas he came so close to the highest

areas he came so close to the highest self many times but the closer he got

self many times but the closer he got

self many times but the closer he got the hearted actually became for him to

the hearted actually became for him to

the hearted actually became for him to actually get to this point where he

actually get to this point where he

actually get to this point where he wanted he was always in arm’s length

wanted he was always in arm’s length

wanted he was always in arm’s length he could never quite get there it always

he could never quite get there it always

he could never quite get there it always seemed like this by itself guy would

seemed like this by itself guy would

seemed like this by itself guy would always be just one step ahead of him

always be just one step ahead of him

always be just one step ahead of him just one step like this one time when he

just one step like this one time when he

just one step like this one time when he was convinced that this guy must be an

was convinced that this guy must be an

was convinced that this guy must be an entrepreneur I mean everything lined up

entrepreneur I mean everything lined up

entrepreneur I mean everything lined up to this fact entrepreneur it is that’s

to this fact entrepreneur it is that’s

to this fact entrepreneur it is that’s what he’s dead 14 years so he spent all

what he’s dead 14 years so he spent all

what he’s dead 14 years so he spent all of his time going undercover trying to

of his time going undercover trying to

of his time going undercover trying to be like him think like him becoming him

be like him think like him becoming him

be like him think like him becoming him but he couldn’t find him what was wrong

but he couldn’t find him what was wrong

but he couldn’t find him what was wrong everything felt so right what what he

everything felt so right what what he

everything felt so right what what he figured out is he was in the right place

figured out is he was in the right place

figured out is he was in the right place but he wasn’t looking for the right

but he wasn’t looking for the right

but he wasn’t looking for the right person maybe this person wasn’t an

person maybe this person wasn’t an

person maybe this person wasn’t an entrepreneur maybe this person was a

entrepreneur maybe this person was a

entrepreneur maybe this person was a leader a manager maybe wasn’t that

leader a manager maybe wasn’t that

leader a manager maybe wasn’t that visionary but very good at execution or

visionary but very good at execution or

visionary but very good at execution or this other time where he thought that

this other time where he thought that

this other time where he thought that this heist itself must be such a calm

this heist itself must be such a calm

this heist itself must be such a calm guy perfectly balanced all times control

guy perfectly balanced all times control

guy perfectly balanced all times control of his emotions

of his emotions

of his emotions laser focus and then he figured all that

laser focus and then he figured all that

laser focus and then he figured all that stuff out I mean he’s got to be a

stuff out I mean he’s got to be a

stuff out I mean he’s got to be a meditator I mean he’s got to be

meditator I mean he’s got to be

meditator I mean he’s got to be meditating all day long it’s the skill

meditating all day long it’s the skill

meditating all day long it’s the skill right that’s what he read meditation

right that’s what he read meditation

right that’s what he read meditation helps me to do this so he meditated so I

helps me to do this so he meditated so I

helps me to do this so he meditated so I got it got a catch up to this guy so he

got it got a catch up to this guy so he

got it got a catch up to this guy so he bought an app and he meditated day-in

bought an app and he meditated day-in

bought an app and he meditated day-in day-out hours so if I could just finish

day-out hours so if I could just finish

day-out hours so if I could just finish all these pecks in this app everything

all these pecks in this app everything

all these pecks in this app everything would be fine

would be fine

would be fine well he never found him eventually he

well he never found him eventually he

well he never found him eventually he learned that meditation was not about

learned that meditation was not about

learned that meditation was not about quantity it wasn’t about meditation at

quantity it wasn’t about meditation at

quantity it wasn’t about meditation at all it was about what he got through

all it was about what he got through

all it was about what he got through meditation so he kept on going and

meditation so he kept on going and

meditation so he kept on going and everything made more sense and he just

everything made more sense and he just

everything made more sense and he just this picture got better and better and

this picture got better and better and

this picture got better and better and he was closer and closer but it just

he was closer and closer but it just

he was closer and closer but it just frustrated him it just frustrated him to

frustrated him it just frustrated him to

frustrated him it just frustrated him to see that you know seemed like a

see that you know seemed like a

see that you know seemed like a never-ending chase like an infinite game

never-ending chase like an infinite game

never-ending chase like an infinite game and then he started thinking about

and then he started thinking about

and then he started thinking about should I should I continue to do it I

should I should I continue to do it I

should I should I continue to do it I should have just dropped this case at

should have just dropped this case at

should have just dropped this case at some point so he went to his colleagues

some point so he went to his colleagues

some point so he went to his colleagues and friends said listen guys I’m on this

and friends said listen guys I’m on this

and friends said listen guys I’m on this case I’m like catching this guy is high

case I’m like catching this guy is high

case I’m like catching this guy is high self dude and I know what he looks like

self dude and I know what he looks like

self dude and I know what he looks like I know what he does I mean I’m almost

I know what he does I mean I’m almost

I know what he does I mean I’m almost like him now I figured all these things

like him now I figured all these things

like him now I figured all these things out and know what kind of partner he’s

out and know what kind of partner he’s

out and know what kind of partner he’s after I actually found a partner myself

after I actually found a partner myself

after I actually found a partner myself just following this guy becoming in like

just following this guy becoming in like

just following this guy becoming in like machine you seem to share so many things

machine you seem to share so many things

machine you seem to share so many things and health got it figured out I’m in

and health got it figured out I’m in

and health got it figured out I’m in great shape right now but it’s just I

great shape right now but it’s just I

great shape right now but it’s just I can’t seem to catch this guy and the

can’t seem to catch this guy and the

can’t seem to catch this guy and the colleagues would be like this guy he’s a

colleagues would be like this guy he’s a

colleagues would be like this guy he’s a ghost he doesn’t exist maybe you’re

ghost he doesn’t exist maybe you’re

ghost he doesn’t exist maybe you’re making him up that’s maybe why you don’t

making him up that’s maybe why you don’t

making him up that’s maybe why you don’t catch him but he was like no he exists

catch him but he was like no he exists

catch him but he was like no he exists I’ve seen him I’ve been there like right

I’ve seen him I’ve been there like right

I’ve seen him I’ve been there like right next to him I’ve even touched him and

next to him I’ve even touched him and

next to him I’ve even touched him and then there’s a few people like should

then there’s a few people like should

then there’s a few people like should keep going

keep going

keep going I believe you this case makes sense you

I believe you this case makes sense you

I believe you this case makes sense you have to keep going and that’s what he

have to keep going and that’s what he

have to keep going and that’s what he tells himself as well I will I will

tells himself as well I will I will

tells himself as well I will I will never solve that case I’ll keep going

never solve that case I’ll keep going

never solve that case I’ll keep going until I chased this guy but then

until I chased this guy but then

until I chased this guy but then eventually at some point you start

eventually at some point you start

eventually at some point you start noticing something all this time while

noticing something all this time while

noticing something all this time while he had been chasing this guy he actually

he had been chasing this guy he actually

he had been chasing this guy he actually adapted all of his skills all of his

adapted all of his skills all of his

adapted all of his skills all of his abilities his capabilities his mindsets

abilities his capabilities his mindsets

abilities his capabilities his mindsets he was living a happy life he loved

he was living a happy life he loved

he was living a happy life he loved these friends that he met while he was

these friends that he met while he was

these friends that he met while he was going undercover and figuring out what

going undercover and figuring out what

going undercover and figuring out what this guy was as I said he was in great

this guy was as I said he was in great

this guy was as I said he was in great shape he was super healthy

shape he was super healthy

shape he was super healthy he had a laser focus because he had

he had a laser focus because he had

he had a laser focus because he had figured out how to meditate all his life

figured out how to meditate all his life

figured out how to meditate all his life made sense he loved it yet there was

made sense he loved it yet there was

made sense he loved it yet there was this small little bit but it didn’t

this small little bit but it didn’t

this small little bit but it didn’t really matter at the end of the day he

really matter at the end of the day he

really matter at the end of the day he thought this chase might actually be the

thought this chase might actually be the

thought this chase might actually be the best thing that ever happened to me it’s

best thing that ever happened to me it’s

best thing that ever happened to me it’s not frustrating me it’s making me better

not frustrating me it’s making me better

not frustrating me it’s making me better it’s making me happy actually although I

it’s making me happy actually although I

it’s making me happy actually although I never get it it’s I seem to feel much

never get it it’s I seem to feel much

never get it it’s I seem to feel much much better in my life and everything

much better in my life and everything

much better in my life and everything seems to be in place and then he asked

seems to be in place and then he asked

seems to be in place and then he asked himself do I actually ever want to have

himself do I actually ever want to have

himself do I actually ever want to have this chase over do I actually ever want

this chase over do I actually ever want

this chase over do I actually ever want to catch this guy why could this just go

to catch this guy why could this just go

to catch this guy why could this just go on forever

on forever

on forever day in day out for the rest of my life

day in day out for the rest of my life

day in day out for the rest of my life well maybe we should all figure out what

well maybe we should all figure out what

well maybe we should all figure out what our best self is and be that detective I

our best self is and be that detective I

our best self is and be that detective I promise you it’s going to be the case of

promise you it’s going to be the case of

promise you it’s going to be the case of your life

your life

your life thank you

thank you

thank you [Applause]

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